Mums Take Difficult Exams With Their Children: My Parent, My Classmate - Part 3 | On The Red Dot

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  • As we enter the fourth and fifth weeks, parents Steven Wong, Diana Raja, Janice Soh, and Mazni Senain learn more about their children's personalities, discovering both strengths and weaknesses.
    Moms Diana and Mazni courageously sit for tests alongside their children, Arradana and Dian. This experience offers deeper insights into the academic challenges their kids navigate. Steven witnesses his daughter Shan Ni’s emotional rollercoaster as she prepares for a Chinese text recital competition. Janice observes her son Apelles as he tackles the complexities of his leadership role, confronting the inherent struggles that arise.
    00:00 Previously on...
    01:27 Mismatched expectations between parent and child
    03:50 Mummy takes a maths test and struggles
    05:15 Apelles struggles as a class leader
    07:05 Dad's advice frustrates Shan Ni
    09:18 Dian makes Mummy proud
    11:35 Mum wants Arradana to work harder on her Tamil
    13:50 Apelles' class does not enjoy the game he planned
    17:02 Will Shan Ni win her competition?
    19:30 Arradana's test results & Mum's bid to encourage her to speak Tamil
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 77

  • @goguma2830
    @goguma2830 4 місяці тому +190

    Very impressed with Shan Ni. This girl is self-directed, hardworking and humble. 👍

    • @chanchan22222
      @chanchan22222 4 місяці тому +21

      She is great, but I think she can be quite hard on herself, hope she is ok coping with all that stress, and find some time to relax also.

    • @krigop
      @krigop 4 місяці тому +2

      she cute also

    • @wallstreetzoomer
      @wallstreetzoomer 4 місяці тому

      All Chinese kids should be like her.

    • @reynault
      @reynault 3 місяці тому

      @@krigop 💀

  • @linzixuan29
    @linzixuan29 4 місяці тому +128

    The band person is a great leader . Really proud of him

  • @cbkia
    @cbkia 4 місяці тому +134

    i feel bad for the girl who cried, im not even sure if the editors got permission to film her

    • @craig170
      @craig170 4 місяці тому +26

      fr bro like she covering her face or sum?

  • @wrongamount
    @wrongamount 4 місяці тому +61

    Apelles has the potential being a great leader, I just feel that the pressure he gets held him back and to get people to listen you need charisma. I've been teaching piano for 4+years and often incorporate games and activities with my students to keep them engaged

  • @hecker_elyh8
    @hecker_elyh8 4 місяці тому +68

    the fact that this series has a season 2 is amazing to see how far this series has come

  • @Joo-pw2bd
    @Joo-pw2bd 4 місяці тому +57

    Dian’s mother (Mazeni) is the funniest parent in the series!

  • @taesty5124
    @taesty5124 4 місяці тому +70

    Apelles just has bad classmates

  • @mewslie9183
    @mewslie9183 4 місяці тому +148

    Dian missed an opportunity to tell her daughter that she failed the test and to ask her daughter to tutor her in Tamil at home.

    • @p4140
      @p4140 4 місяці тому +10

      that's Arra lol

    • @k-xl5vo
      @k-xl5vo 4 місяці тому +4

      Hmm.. Arradana is the daughter and Diana is the mother.

    • @rafamessi3867
      @rafamessi3867 4 місяці тому +1

      Summa iruda

  • @fungph
    @fungph 4 місяці тому +39

    As parents, we preach to our kids all the time to learn from our mistakes and improve from them. We try to be role models to them and lead them the right way. To be honest, I am a little disappointed to see parents hiding their score to save face from their kids. Instead of hiding the score, it can serve as a motivation and a conversation topic to open the doors to the kids. Being watchful of our problem solving mindset and to not correct the youth, listen to their thoughts and feelings, it will allow us to see the strengths they process.

  • @th1k10
    @th1k10 4 місяці тому +41

    Really interesting series. Love that the kids and parents are so open to voicing their opinions. But one suggestion to parents, perhaps focus on the students’s strengths rather than what they should work on! The show clearly shows that each student has their own strengths. The students themselves actually know what they want to work on. The parents in the show themselves are embarrassed of their ‘poor’ results and not embracing their weaknesses, what more the kids? Set an example that everyone has something to work on, let’s do it together instead of entirely focusing on only the kid’s area of improvement. Let’s hear them out, lets give them space. Thank you CNA for this great series.

  • @20pointer
    @20pointer 4 місяці тому +13

    Apelles, if you want to lead people effectively can try this book called how to win friends and influence people. It will come naturally

  • @akarshchittineni774
    @akarshchittineni774 4 місяці тому +19

    I love this series... waiting for the next episode.

  • @Abyss777
    @Abyss777 4 місяці тому +32

    1:43
    "enhypen is my fav boy band"
    continues to show stray kids and bang chan specificallyy

    • @natasyaia8217
      @natasyaia8217 4 місяці тому +2

      BANGCHAN SUPREMACY 😍

    • @liyingtan_
      @liyingtan_ 3 місяці тому +2

      😭😭😭 yea sia.. that's not even enhypen... that's skz

    • @Abyss777
      @Abyss777 3 місяці тому +3

      @@liyingtan_ yes exactly
      kinda proves how its fake and they didnt even bother with basic research

    • @lakshmy-
      @lakshmy- 11 днів тому

      AHH the way the time stamp was 143???

    • @Abyss777
      @Abyss777 11 днів тому

      @@lakshmy- LMAO I didn't even realize
      But this the 'lose my breath' era now

  • @Charmaine296
    @Charmaine296 4 місяці тому +1

    Do more of this series, I love so mush❤❤❤

  • @nightinspire
    @nightinspire 4 місяці тому +2

    Such an interesting series!

  • @Joo-pw2bd
    @Joo-pw2bd 4 місяці тому +9

    one of the best cna series ngl 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @iwynlimweilyn9607
    @iwynlimweilyn9607 4 місяці тому +3

    This is a nice documentary. I wish to see more of this series. 😊👍👍👍👍

  • @kade.kate.sf.
    @kade.kate.sf. 4 місяці тому +6

    I love the my parent my classmate series

  • @mysticery
    @mysticery 4 місяці тому +47

    Yikes. Cutting pocket money.. i dont know if thats a good way to encourage one to be speaking their mother tongue. If i were the daughter ill just use simple words to response and cut excessive communication.

  • @SHxxxxT
    @SHxxxxT 4 місяці тому +1

    One of my poly classmate did well after dropping to 6 O level subjects and doing well enough to get into poly. She also graduated from poly with many As and Distinctions. Sometimes knowing your academic boundaries help.

  • @WJHallyuLover8365
    @WJHallyuLover8365 4 місяці тому +27

    Hope there can be more episodes, this time for JC students and their parents, or it can be poly students with their parents

  • @abangidris
    @abangidris 4 місяці тому +4

    Haha if they make a series on ITE kids, the parents would wonder why the toilet cubicle no door hahahaha

  • @liar-liar
    @liar-liar 4 місяці тому

    These certificates are useful when migrating to the West and Australia, probably in India too

  • @Ennnn.jenn.
    @Ennnn.jenn. 4 місяці тому +2

    I swear i jst sleep through my maths wa😊

  • @goofing_
    @goofing_ 4 місяці тому +3

    Singapore, isn't it

  • @summerclouds.
    @summerclouds. 4 місяці тому +2

    4th!!!!!

  • @snsdjerry
    @snsdjerry 4 місяці тому

    ikr maths makes me mad thankful i don have to see it nw

  • @user-yh1ki7mg9k
    @user-yh1ki7mg9k 4 місяці тому

    Dynamics

  • @JaiSriGobar
    @JaiSriGobar 4 місяці тому

    Red dot? Which one?

  • @aarya18216
    @aarya18216 4 місяці тому

    6th!!

  • @martinbrock713
    @martinbrock713 4 місяці тому +5

    On using education to reduce inequality, Prof Tambyah pointed out that school- and class-ranking be scrapped. Schools will not segregate pupils according to their examination results.

  • @hemin4430
    @hemin4430 2 місяці тому +2

    why she showing skz when she say top boy band is enhyphen

  • @-0._Angel.of.Death._
    @-0._Angel.of.Death._ 4 місяці тому +4

    2:46
    hehe genshin

  • @gachamisty3827
    @gachamisty3827 3 місяці тому +1

    10:45

  • @martinbrock713
    @martinbrock713 4 місяці тому

    “This is because education is not about competition with one’s classmates but learning through collaboration and teamwork with one’s peers,” he noted. Competition for top-ranked schools is unhealthy and has inflicted serious psychological damage, according to mental health professionals, on our children.

  • @martinbrock713
    @martinbrock713 4 місяці тому +3

    The SDP believes that education must be the process where an individual learns to discover oneself and, in doing so, endeavour to improve the human condition. For the sake of our nation’s future, it is important that we teach our children that reading and learning can be enjoyable and intrinsically rewarding.

  • @cloudtwinsxx4945
    @cloudtwinsxx4945 2 місяці тому

    dian plays genshinnn?

  • @gachamisty3827
    @gachamisty3827 3 місяці тому

    14:39

  • @20pointer
    @20pointer 4 місяці тому +1

    got chinese, muslim and indian races for quite a mix of variety

    • @isafox4443
      @isafox4443 2 місяці тому +1

      Indeed, I was quite surprised! The language issue seems a bit hard to deal with, after all everyone has a different background so they must use English to communicate more easily. But this variety is nice to see!

  • @lovley1389
    @lovley1389 27 днів тому +1

    1:57 gurl kept continuingly said enhypen my mouth open... no research?? its feels fake affff + gurl at 2:43 with mamamoo she real for that lol

  • @setsuro.splice
    @setsuro.splice 4 місяці тому +5

    errr... i just wanna know... how much money do teens get these days?! no... like seriously... how much do they get on a daily basis? ._.

    • @sarahrean7174
      @sarahrean7174 4 місяці тому +2

      I am 35 and I had 50 dollars per month and my mom bought me cd extra stuff thats Middle class life

    • @yeezus8256
      @yeezus8256 4 місяці тому

      honestly it depends on how rich you are

  • @doggoe
    @doggoe 4 місяці тому +1

    6:01 nice hair

  • @Chill-Ice
    @Chill-Ice 4 місяці тому +1

    Second

  • @shengweisw9324
    @shengweisw9324 4 місяці тому +2

    -Arradana Raja's Mom
    Totally agree with the mom on the deduction of pocket money. But trying to score well in test, is really not easy if you dont practice
    -Dian's Mom
    Do your best. Grades define your work not you. Do your best and understand what goes wrong and adjust. Is hard, is the process not the final outcome. (trust me in university is a whole new level of "HUH"? what is? Cannot do)

  • @kanmanisabapathy102
    @kanmanisabapathy102 4 місяці тому +3

    11:38 Did they say "arse rear" ?🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @hecker_elyh8
    @hecker_elyh8 4 місяці тому +2

    5th!!
    6th like
    214th view
    11 minutes ago

  • @techmasala-5136
    @techmasala-5136 Місяць тому

    You know when you speak Tamil it's really easy no issues.
    Writing Tamil - ☠☠☠💀
    I am a native Tamil speaker, I find writing English is way easier than my mother tongue lol..

  • @Goh_rykiel
    @Goh_rykiel 4 місяці тому +2

    That was straykids. Not enhyphen😊

    • @rinaaaaa-xy5st
      @rinaaaaa-xy5st 4 місяці тому +1

      U nvr spell enhypen correctly oso what 😅

  • @martinbrock713
    @martinbrock713 4 місяці тому

    SDP also proposes to abolish the PSLE, and this should be complemented by broadening the curricula and reducing the workload. He added: “Such an approach will enrich our students’ educational experience and prepare them for a future that will require them to be well-rounded, intelligent individuals.”

  • @norman6499
    @norman6499 4 місяці тому

    Why force the mother n father participate in this kind of show when they clearly are uncomfortable n look so old already?
    Wan to bond with kids there are better ways in private…maybe they are forced by circumstances like long work schedule so they took this chance

  • @PAPKNN
    @PAPKNN 4 місяці тому

    These are called losers
    Yet PAP protect them

    • @jonyq
      @jonyq 4 місяці тому +6

      Are you ok?

  • @gachamisty3827
    @gachamisty3827 3 місяці тому

    10:49

  • @gachamisty3827
    @gachamisty3827 3 місяці тому

    10:34

  • @gachamisty3827
    @gachamisty3827 3 місяці тому

    10:51