MY MOM OUTTED ME? (r/AITA)
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Oh yeah, single out an 8 year old child as you give other children cake, that will teach her. Congrats, you've helped your 8 year old child niece get a step closer to disordered eating. As if the world around her wasn't already working hard to do it to her.
This is so sad and true. Kids are being body shamed and driven to eating disorders really young.
OP was definitely TA, but I do wish that parents would take responsibility when their kid is severely overweight because 99% of the time it’s not the kid’s fault
@@Finn-rj7hz What?? Depending on the child's height, muscle mass, etc., their BMI isn't even unhealthy. You are making a LOT of assumptions. It also comes to the fatphobic idea that only *some* people "deserve" to eat certain food. If a skinny person eats a giant burger and fries, they're "being so real," but when a fat person eats anything other than a salad, they're "obviously the reason they look like that."
Honestly though.
@@starsiadraws the comment you responded to is right at the end part tho a lot of the times it’s the parents fault that kids become obese, but with that we shouldn’t be doing the whole “deserving food” thing so it brings up the question of how can we ensure we protect the mental health of children while also keeping them healthy. And by healthy I don’t mean just skinny.
I was a skinny child (underweight actually) until 8 then I became obese so I know the pressure of both sides to be told to eat more and then told ti eat less
But as grew older I realized and learned that genetically I’m more likely to gain weight and become obese so how do we explain that to children because let’s be honest no kid should have to go thru the experience of being obese it’s not a fun one. But I also think and know commenting on their body or restricting food it’s not good mentally/for body image
For the first one... 70 pounds isn't even close to being obese. Maybe a tiny bit chubby. But kids can be chubby! OP just gave that poor little girl a lifetime of body-image issues.
Even if she’d been obese, what was the asshole hoping to do? Fix her nice’s obesity by denying her the same piece of sponge cake as her cousins? Jeez… That would still have been pure sadism and would absolutely made the problem worse. Fat shaming compounds weight issues, it doesn’t fix them.
Exactly what you are saying, my mom criticized my nephew for being “over wait” and make comments about my son for being thin like me. I asked her, very loudly what is the perfect weight according to you? Like, life isn’t hard enough. They are both aware of their weight, you don’t have to remind them. Both boys are sweet, kind respectful and super clean.
the definition of obesity is more wild than you think. sometimes people who are a little bit chubby weirdly do qualify as obese - obviously not this little kid, though, as was covered in the video. the definition needs to be updated
Yeah, I was chubby as a kid and I was made to feel terrible about it. It made me have a really bad relationship with food. I actually thinned out a lot naturally when I hit puberty and had a growth spurt. But I never stopped feeling fat. It's only when I look back at old pictures of me that I can accurately judge how big I was (and even when I was "chubby" I was a lot thinner than I thought I was at the time)
EXACTLY THIS like the poor girl
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i love how the first person (32F) felt the need to mention that the lunch they made was *healthy* so everyone knows that she thinks she is better than her 8 year old niece
“Hammer on the… head? No, that’s a shark” got me 😂😂
I COULDNT STOP LAUGHING AND HAD TO PAUSE THE VIDEO 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Oh my god, I'm so sorry you got robbed dude! That's freaking terrible, especially with your meds. Please take care of yourself!
*girl shes not male
@@JackieDaytonaBar get a life, dude. No one cares about your opinion about him.
@@JackieDaytonaBar he looks manlier than even some cis dudes you cant even lie
@@JackieDaytonaBaryou don’t see this man? He’s obviously a dude lol
@@JackieDaytonaBar*garbage you're not human
Saw the car thing on your insta story man, that really fucking sucks. Hope y'all are okay because it must've been scary
i didn’t realize “child-free” even included teenagers in that, especially an almost eighteen year old. op’s kid should definitely be allowed at the wedding; i was expecting her to be like eight or something, not seventeen.
Yeah, most child free weddings do allow kids 16+, and have a curfew for underaged people to be out by, like 8 or 9pm so that the party can go on later and lets people get silly in an adult space
It could be an open bar thing maybe? Either way, no one has to invite people they don't want to their wedding, and parents are free to choose not to come either if they don't like the child-free policy. NAH.
It’s sad that they had to write “I want to make it clear that I have a job and help around the house, so I’m not just slacking around all day.” Just goes to show that we’ve now become so conscious of what strangers think of us online 🤦🏻♀️
I mean, sometimes if you don’t say it, people will NOT stop commenting at you about it cuz no one bothers to go through and see if anyone said it yet
It’s Reddit. They assume the worst in people and if you don’t explain every detail then you get called “YTA.”
honestly to me it's crazy anyway, the OP is 19, maybe it's an american thing but where I'm from it's completely normal to live with your parents even some years past 20, especially if you're studying.
@@_HappyRadio_ U.K.? Because same
@@Clo_Dubnono, Czech republic. But it might be similar across all european countries (though I know U.K. doesn't consider itself to be Europe haha)
Generaly the people who actually think they might be the asshole, are probably not the asshole. Then those who expect people to tell them that they aren't the asshole, are.
I'm guilty of this behavior too lmao
kids are usually prone to being underweight or overweight, whether it’s mostly baby fat or not. that’s so cruel to single her out when it isn’t her fault in the first place ☹️ if she cared enough she should’ve given her a second piece but maybe cut it in half to present the idea of portions
that second one kind of happened to me last week. i had just moved home from college and forgot to delete my dating apps, and my dad installed a parental control app on my phone. with it, he looked at my dating app history and saw that i matched with girls. they arent kicking me out or anything, but my parents are super religious and conservative so its pretty scary and im hoping to move out soon.
You are going to college and your parents have installed a control app for literal children on your phone, have I got that right? So sorry to hear that. I hope you get out soon & safely.
Wtf?? You have a right to your own space and privacy, especially as an adult. Hope you safely get out
Pretty sure you can get them in legal trouble for that
depends on if this person's parents own their phone or if they own their phone themselves ;-;@@speakersr-lyefaudio6830
my dad used to do the same thing! in may it’ll be a year since i stopped talking to him lol. good luck friend
That name thing really got me. I'm an adult but I changed my name when I was a minor (not legally just socially) Not being called by your chosen name really hurts, whether you're trans or cis.
I see how much it hurts my boyfriend whenever we go to his parents and when he comes home from work I hope you're having a better time now much love
Hoping the best for your boyfriend.@@deadpanleftest
My mother didn't give me any privacy, growing up - which made my transition into living in prison a lot easier, as an adult. I'd imagine that had I been treated more as a human and less as an object to be controlled, growing up, that I might not have ended up in prison - but, who knows
How'd you end up there? (You don't have to get into it if you don't want to.) Hope you're doing better now!
Hope you're doing okay
@@msjkramey I made a lot of stupid decisions. Drug dealing, theft, etc.
@@sunettas9738 I'd say I'm doing ok, for the most part. I appreciate your kindness :)
I think it is hilarious that the first person criticized their sibling for not taking care of their child (I am assuming they meant diet) after allowing 3 children to get a second slice of cake (the thing I assume OP thought was what made their niece fat).
I’ve heard from other people that the reason some people don’t like quiet people is because they don’t know them well and don’t know what/how they think. Basically they don’t like what they don’t understand. I’ve also heard some people say they view quiet people as standoffish and assume they believe they’re better than everyone. That just sounds like pure insecurity to me. I’m quiet and I’ve lost count of the amount of times people have told me they’ve assumed I’m a bitch or judgmental before getting to know me solely because I am quiet. It’s insecurity.
I was the quiet kid. I sometimes have my quited moments but I am more social then ever before.
Most quitet people I met were just introverts. We can be a bit akward, sometimes we don't know what to say or shy. Or some people just want to be mind their own bussiness. The thnk is I never saw quiet person being quiet because they were judjmental or being bitch.
I was the quiet kid and my mom's family thought I felt superior to them. The fact that I was a bookworm didn't help. Spent years thinking it was in my head then my aunt just straight up told me that, even calling me an arrogant brat aaaand some other things.
Good side: we don't talk anymore and I feel at ease at family reunions and parties now
I've been yelled at for being too quiet and not looking people in the eyes while talking to them. Turns out I'm Autistic... no I'm not judging you I'm just processing my surroundings.
huh, this is the first time ive seen this written out and it makes a lot of sense! i grew up as a very quiet kid and the assumptions that i gathered was that some thought i was mean/self-centered/snobby or that i was incapable/childish/unaware. it definitely has caused some conflict in my relationships to others, which is funny to me in a way. i wouldn't say anything and it would cause trouble based on what people reflected onto me!
I painfully relate to this whole thread. The amount of times I've been yelled at or called arrogant or aloof for just being in my head.
Oh noooo!! I'm so sorry about your car, dude!!! I hope the meds were easy to replace.
I’m a trans guy, but nobody knows.
I am not at all fit and need some motivation to get active and feel better about myself.
1 like = 1 push-up, get me some gains!
Only use my like as motivation if you’re able to. Don’t push yourself too hard. ❤
You got this, buddy! Just be careful not to push yourself too hard
You can do it!!
YOU GOT THIS 🫶🫶
Don't push yourself too hard thou. Remember to know yopur limits and you can do them in multiple setions. Get them gains bro 💪💪💪
14:42 Stories like these always make me a bit irritated. As an Ace person myself whose been in similar situations, I hate how so many ( noticeably religious ) parents assume that the moment their kids are in a relationship and the doors are closed then they MUST be having s3x or plan to. Or that MUST want it ALL the time. Do they ever think maybe they aren't??? Like, once? And specifically talking about this reddit story, even if they are. Do you REALLY think they're doing to do it in the hotel room that's right next to yours??? I can only imagine how uncomfortable the daughter and the boyfriend must feel during this situation. You never really know what someone is going through when it comes to their s3xuality. Let alone your own children. But to assume such things just makes me sad. It feels like these parents in a way are unconsciously s3xualizing their children. ( I want to point out to how OP said it "made her and her husband uncomfortable". Why? Instead of kicking the boyfriend out, why not unpack that? ) Like they can't imagine their child wanting to be or having a relationship with someone that won't lead to s3x. It makes me so upset seeing parents not leaving their kids alone in their relationship because it "might lead to s3x" no matter what.
They wouldn’t be in the hotel room they’d be in her dorm. And the parents said that’s fine as long as he doesn’t sleep over. I don’t think that’s really too much to ask for an all expense paid trip. ESPECIALLY if it’s not about sex
i just wanna say, HOW THE HELL IS SKY A BAD NAME it's like one of my favorite names
:D my name’s sky 🙂
thank you -skye
hammer on the head killed me LMAO
WHY DID I EVEN SAY THAT
@6:00
If they're latino, it's so common for latinos grandma's and moms to invide personal spaces and clean their kids/grandkids rooms.
It's a big reason why I moved out even if it meant struggling financially. I had to keep my weed hidden in a compartment inside my ac and it was just so much of a hassle. (My grandma once found my weed and vape pen in a pocket of old pants I kept deep in my closet to hide it there. She literally for some reason dig through the pockets of all my pants in the closet. So after that fight I hid it in the ac until I moved out. It didn't stink bc I kept it in an air tight tube)
I’ve always seen Sky as a masculine name because it’s the name of the Prince from Winx Club.
Me too but because Sky is the nickname of Link from Skyward Sword in the Linked Universe canon.
my name is skye/skyler and i’m non binary so that entire story was so mind fucking 😭
@@KarmatheCorgiLINKED UNIVERSE MENTION AHHH
Why do people always hate the quiet ones 😭😭😭
And then the moment they aren't quiet all of the sudden they're "annoying"
Whyyy
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The funny thing is that I first heard of Skylar/Skyler as a girl's name. In looking the name up, I also found that there are both real and fictional women named Skyler White.
I wonder just how skinny you have to be to be allowed to have some cake. And when I was 8 years old, I was 95 lbs and guess what? I’m in no way fat! I matured very fast (even started menstruation at 7) and was only slightly chubby at that time, being about 4’11” at the time. I was close to being full grown by then. So no, especially for kids, you can’t say a kid is unhealthily overweight because their bodies are growing and changing.
for the skylar/sky one...that's like naming your kid christopher and forbidding them to go by chris, name them cassie but can't go by cass. that's so dumb. if she HATES the name sky, why tf would she name her kid skylar?
"Hammer. On. The. Head. That's a shark" 😂
Listen…I sleep away the depresso too. I feel that.
Last one is wild. It would be one thing if it was their house but it isnt even the hotel they are paying for. As a reply to a reply said, Christian 'generosity' is always conditional.
That third story reminded me of another aita post where like op took pics of her meals for Instagram and her boyfriend would specifically mess his meals up so she couldn't take pictures of his, she was fine with that but then the boyfriend on a date night immediately went and stirred up her appetizer and was all smug about it so she stormed off and refused to pay for the date. Anyways, in short, why is it so hard to not be a dick about your (royal you) partner's innocent hobbies?
I feel OP and the BF on the last one. My parents go on vacation with my grandparents on my dad's side every year. My partner and I are welcome to come, but we would have to sleep in the living room and separately (We're 24 and have been together 5 years). Literally 0 privacy.
But we're also invited to my partner's grandparent's house for vacation too, where we'll have our own room and his grandparents don't care at all. Clearly, we'll be going to his grandparents instead of mine for vacation
Immediately the first one caught my eye because 70 does NOT seem obese at all, but, this is an 8 year old. So, looked it up, the normal weight range is 35-70 pounds. It appears, from my research, that 70 pounds is not obese, as it's not the 95th percentile of weight (85th is overweight, but technically, 95th is obese, technical terms are important in regards to health that this person clearly pretends she cares about). So, no, this child is fine? Maybe a little overweight but I don't even think she reaches that category, I'm not sure.
EDIT: Oh my god you googled it yourself, what chad behavior. People need to be encouraged to google things before they talk Istg.
My car window was broken for 4 months straight, stuck completely down, and nothing was ever taken out of it once. I'm so sorry that happened to you! Thats crazy!
...I’m a girl and I weighed like 120 pounds when I was 8. I was tall, but still
The first one had me until OP gave all the other kids cake and told them to lie. Wtf. Don’t teach kids to lie in general. I know they’ll learn without your help, but it’s generally unsafe to tell them that it’s okay to keep secrets and lie. It could’ve been avoided if OP just said “Okay, call your cousin over too and you can all have a second slice of cake!” It could’ve been that easy.
Yeah, you could have also had a lighthearted mini lesson about things being "sometimes foods," but they're still okay (not directed at anyone), and that's why the second helping of cake might be smaller than the first one, so we can see if our tummies really want more food or if our brains/mouths are just excited for a treat
Or OP could have just said “no” altogether. It’s not like sponge cakes can’t be refrigerated, so it wouldn’t have gone to waste the same day anyway.
Yikes, Sam, sorry about your car. I hope you're doing alright
Damn, sorry to hear about your car, hope the thief or thieves get caught
If you think an 8 year old that is 30kg is that big of an issue then why are you making cake for a dessert and then giving multiple slices to other kids anyway. Just don’t do dessert or get a pineapple or something.
Personally I think Skylar is a more feminine name than Sky
Sorry your car with your meds + belongings got broken into:( people really suck so much. Hope you can get it all back
Finally someone defending food pictures 🙌 i like food pictures it helps me decide if i want to eat somewhere. Also great for making lists of food for parties for example.
- sometimes i post food pictures if its to save a memory. My ex hated me taking pictures of food as a way of keeping memories.
This is the first time I’ve ever heard someone else say they were bullied throughout school for being quiet and it’s so validating. I have had painful social anxiety throughout my entire life and it’s NOTICEABLE, I’ll pretty much withdraw myself from any social situation and don’t speak unless spoken to. It’s not something I’ve ever wanted to do, it’s just how I am by nature with such severe anxiety. Rather than other children using this as an opportunity to make a new friend I was constantly treated like a freak and pushed to the side- and when I finally wanted to break out of my shell around senior year I was totally shunned because I had “already made a reputation for myself”. It’s fucked. I’ve never had a platonic friend and I am 22. The only people I’ve ever had to share my thoughts with are my mom and my partner. Thank you for making me recognize that I’m not alone💜
Is 70lbs a lot for an 8 year old? I'm 85lbs and only 5ft tall and I'm really skinny. Am I missing something??
Edit: I googled it and the average weight for an 8 year old girl is 44-80lbs so she's well within her average weight group?!
That nickname story is crazy. If your kid prefers a name that you don't like, too bad, it's not your name to choose. Grow up and move on lol
The real a-hole is whoever broke into Sam's car. That's awful and they suck. 5 out of 5 a-holes imo. Thanks for the upload though
YOU GREW A MUSTACHE?! Dayum! I've been gone for so long- You look amazing!🥰
I literally have a friend named Jennifer we all call Jen and her mom loves her name obviously but would physically cringe if anyone accidentally called her Jenny 😅
i hope you figure out your stuff with what was stolen sam
rooting for you, love the content
That’s really strange, why in the world would someone steal your meds!?! I’d be suspicious of the ppl you know because it seems like a very specific person that would know to go to your car for those meds
Maybe they thought it was drugs.
I do like this series. Keep it up.
the sky vs skylar thing makes… no fucking sense??? skylar is more of a feminine name in my opinion, so idk how the mom sees sky as some extremely fem name as if skylar isnt also a partially feminine name????? she can cry abt it. sky is a rad name
yeez everyone telling him what he should call himself, going around screaming about it, leave him alone! he should be the one that decides that..
Sam I'm sorry about the car thing. Despite being unable to do anything i will say hope things look up for you.
sam i hope youre okay :( im so sorry you havent been doing great, youre my favorite youtuber ever and i hope everything gets better soon!
For the weight-obsessed OP. Lady, learn something about kids, would you? They actually _need_ some extra weight at that age because their bodies are growing _so_ fast. Being skinny isn't necessarily healthy, either. 😡🤬 And way to fat-shame a literal _child,_ your own niece at that. Absolutely the AH, all day, every day.
For the trans OP, I can't stand parents like this. No privacy, no respect, no boundaries, "my way or the highway" bs. Woman clearly has control issues. I hope she and OP are able to work it out and this check learn to respect her child as the adult they are. If not, OP, get out and drop that nonsense from your life. You don't need that.
1. That niece wasn't obese, and regardless, that's another parent's child, NOT yours, so you have no right to decide how her mother can or cannot choose to feed her, especially if you aren't going to give that same treatment to the other kids. (If sponge cake is going to make her obese, it'll make your kids obese too! Don't order kids to lie!)
19 and living at home is extremely normal nowadays too? i'm in the same situation and many of my other friends are, op's mom hopefully learned to respect their privacy more, even if it is still parents' house they are a legal adult and should have some decency with it.
just saying sam, i was a stomach sleeper until my early thirties, sadly i am in the mid 30's now; i don't wanna talk about it. but i've moved to a solid halfway on side/halfway on back sleeping position using them pillows. don't worry bout it unless you're not breathing champ.
Sam so sorry about the car thing. Sending you virtual Mom hugs to comfort you...; cause I'm a Mom. Feel better. Your sweet! Bye.
oh my god my mom also constantly comes into my toom and tells me things she doesnt like in my room like my curtains closed or the lights on stuff like that and she goes for the "i paid for this house its mine" .. ok
i’m so sorry sam :((
appreciate the video, but take good care of yourself before anything else ❤️
Whoever did this to Sam’s car is definitely the asshole
For the first one also, food is expensive and kids eat a LO. Some people can’t afford to eat healthy themselves, much less a CHILD
The boyfriend doesn't just hate innocent things, he hates stereotypically feminine things. He needs to either check his insecure masculinity, or mysoginy. Possibly even both
I think the first one is the asshole primarily because they allowed the other kids a second slice and singled out her niece. Just tell all the kids they cant have a second slice and theyd be fine. It doesnt really matter what they think of their niece's weight so long as she keeps it to herself. Shes the asshole because she treated her niece badly and made her feel singled out.
Insanity that a 17 year old is being referred to as a child?! Do not understand.
Sam I love you but hoe in the world did you lose you meds & $5k??? Why in the world would you keep that in there? Also how did u have 5k worth of stuff in ur car?? I'm a musician and can understand if u had gear in there but what in the world?? I feel so bad. Sending love & blessings to you and your girl ❤
"We don't have to talk about it, I've been sleeping a lot" is so fucking relateable lol
About the Christians generosity being conditional… this is a different situation but same general concept.
For context, I used to be homeless and had to panhandle to survive for awhile. I’ve never done sex work and I never would- not that I begrudge others choices, it’s just not mine. I’m a survivor of SA, so it’s not something I would be comfortable doing. There were a lot of times when I was propositioned, almost to the point of harassment, cuz a lot of men thought just because I was female and struggling, I would be willing to do anything for a few dollars…and then there’s those who couldn’t take no for an answer. I never dressed with my skin showing, even when it was 100 degrees, because I’m very top heavy and I tried my hardest NOT to get that kind of attention.
When I got my apartment, I had gone to lunch with my Christian/Catholic grandmother. It was an extremely hot day, and I had worn a tank top and shorts, but the top showed a little cleavage ( anything that isn’t a big tee does). She picked me up and never said anything about the clothes. Weeks later, I found out that she had said that she’d been embarrassed to be with me since I dressed like a whore (her words). Yet, she got mad when I asked her to stop talking about her old sex life to my teenage daughter. Also, not to talk about how “sexy” her boyfriend sounded, because it makes them uncomfortable!
So slut-shaming me for my body type is okay, but asking for my daughter and her boyfriend not being sexually harassed by her is not…?
Isn’t Skylar a gender-neutral name to begin with? Not that it matters.
still freaking out over the fact you said hi to me last night. i’ve looked up to you for like 3 years. loved this video though🖤
Because college makes you deserve agency/privacy and just general human rights. No college =no rights lol
Btw when you have a kid, they don’t owe you anything but you literally owe them everything because you put them here, not the other way around.
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Welcome to being a sleeping furnace world... me and all my guy friends have the same issue. We sleep hot but they ladies like it 😆 🤣 I bet your gf appreciates it 😆 🤣
So, Im not trans and also english is not my first language so could somebody please explain to me how the second person was outted? Like not being rude, genuinely don't understand, because for what I know in my language being outed is like when you say it in public to other people so I genuinly don't understan what that has to do with the mom cleaning her room. Can somebody please explain?
when we say the word “outed”, it usually refers to the person’s lgbtq identity being revealed without the person’s permission or knowledge, whether it be intentional/harmful or not. here, op was not ready to come out but her mom found out about her identity by going through her things. so while she wasn’t outed maliciously by anyone else, she was still outed by the fact that her identity as a trans girl was revealed to her mom without her knowledge.
@plumgf I understand now, thank you very much for explaining this for me :))
70 pounds ant alot 😂
That's average for an 8 year old, especially for those of us born female.
Omg early! Anyways I’m new to your channel and your honestly so funny Sam, I literally watch your vids and I just laugh at how you roast these close minded cave people. Anyways I just wanted to say you help me when I’m feeling sad….thanks for your humour
I love the way Sam says "parent" I can't hear it enough! Also, when are we gonna be blessed with another rap song? I need a socially acceptable way to listen to your voice on repeat
ur voice is so calming
Hammerhead shark🦈😂…Anyways loved the vid!
LETS GOOO SAM UPLOADED 🙌 i hope we get more videos in the future with him and his gf
You hit the shark on the hammerhead
insecure people usually project onto quiet people
Not blaming you for having your car broken into, but I hope you stop keeping such important stuff in your car after this. It's so much lower risk for someone to break into a car than a house, so keep what you can inside. Hope your insurance covers everything and that you get your meds replaced asap!
outed not outted
For the second one. I would be living in my car, not bc my mom would kick me out but if you can’t respect my privacy and find out something so big and force me to talk about when I’m NOT READY… I’m moving out idc.
Second story hits. I’m not trans but I am 19 and I just moved out. The last few years, my parents, especially my mom, had no respect for my privacy and would always hold it over my head that it was “their house” and im living there rent free. Got to a point where I would seclude myself in my room constantly. Even then, they would barge into my room. They would also judge my friends for how they looked since I have a lot of queer friends. They were FURIOUS when I moved out, and I basically told them that since they don’t respect my privacy, and since I want to live by my own rules, I would move out. They turned it into “I don’t care about what they want and I’m being reckless and selfish.” added element, my roommate is a trans girl, i’m a cis girl, and they think I moved in “with a boy.” Then they went on about how “disappointed” they were in me. Moral of the story: invasive parents just want to control.
The first one is actually crazy to me. Her weight is NOT your responsibility, you shouldn't have singled her out the way you did (withholding food from her while giving the other children a share,) and her weight was NORMAL??? When I was her age I weighed more than her and I was MALNOURISHED. How dare you treat a child like that??? At the very least talk to her mom before you go and take matters into your own hands- especially when you do such a horrible thing.
Hi, Sam! Found your channel through your collab video with OneTopic, and I really liked this AITA video. 😊 And you have a podcast, as well? 😮 I'll make sure to check it out.
Another great video, Sam! Less than 4 mins in, and I’m already pissed. I’m so glad OP’s sister cut ties at that point. OP sounds like she either has eating problems, and/or is obsessed with proving she’s better than her sister. This is a 2nd grade child who should feel loved by her family. If she were to struggle with her weight, she will likely be teased. Rather than OP proving she’s the “responsible” mom, she should help her niece feel confident that she has love and acceptance at home. Then she tells the kids to lie? Good job. That’s what the creep handing out candy from his van tells kids too. What a monster!
1st post- 70 pounds isn't obese?? This OP really needs to learn the definition of "obese." Words have meaning for a reason, and it's not to give someone a fucking eating disorder. Even if the kid was obese, it's not the OP's business.
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Fr like if you’re gonna say “my house, my rules” about your kid wanting privacy basically means you want them out of your house. Why would you want your kids out of your house? They’re your kids.
As a Satanist I kind of have to agree with the Christian parents. Why should they pay for and facilitate an experience that makes them [the parents] uncomfortable? My ex is raising my kids mormon, that would be like me being guilt tripped into paying for them to go serve a mission instead of going to college.
When your name is Jennifer and your husband's name is Skylar...
I feel like we just got the greatest shout out 😂😂 so silly
That would be like naming a boy Samuel and get mad he refers to himself as Sam a neutral name for anyone named Samuel Samantha etc. I want my first daughter to be named Sami after Samantha “Sami” Brady on Days Of Our Lives cause loved the character and always thought the name was pretty.
The second story is pretty much my exact situation except I have to always keep my door open not just when guests are here and my parents used to snoop through my room by sending my younger siter who at the time was very young into my room when I wasn't there and if they found out I'm trans (again) I'd be homeless but It's fine cause I'm thuggin it out until I can find a job and move out lol
The girl with the snooty bf sounds alot like my ex, my ex hated anything popular and i mean anything popular even if the song or movie was smt they didnt even watch, when we broke up i realized how peaceful it is to simply enjoy things without someone beside you saying how much they hate it
For the child free wedding issue - it doesn't say if the bride or groom have friends with children. Maybe the child-free rule applies for that reason?
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