"Gym Tok" is the most deranged community on Tik Tok
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God I wish "Gym Tok" was actually "Jim Tok" and it was just a bunch of Jims talking to each other about basic daily life things like "I'm Jim and I like my coffee black with a sprinkle of sugar" and then another Jim stiches that "OH well Mr.Macho, My name is Jim and I'm not afraid of a little bit of creamer every now and then"
For some reason, I thought people were saying "Jim bro" whenever I heard them say "gym bro." I just thought everybody was talking about a guy named Jim 😂
@@sassylittleprophetthey actually do say “we go jim” all the time bc they think it’s funny to misspell it
@@noriii that probably didn't help 😂
Also gotta talk about mowing their lawn and the direction they are mowing this week
I will work on that next 🫡
Are gymcels a thing? Incels that go to the gym? Because this has peak gymcel energy. That blond dude needs to be on at least one list, too.
It has to be
Based on social media, they're a very common thing!
They absolutely are. Plastic surgery incels also are
Luckily, there are fitness influencers who genuinely teach people about keeping fit and not preying on your insecurities.
My favorite is Toni Fine! The woman who had the viral wedding dress tiktok.
DAMO is doing a whole series called “Chad to Dad” I’m pretty sure, which is about growth of healthy masculinity.
Yes, I love lee lem, teamforneverlean, megquats and many more. There’s a lot of genuinely nice fitness influencers as well
Daddy noel too
Men like this scare me. "Oh I'm gonna use all the anger I have towards women as energy to work out instead of going to therapy." Men like this will either hurt themselves or hurt the women around them.
They will hurt everyone around them.
They will hurt women with their toxicity and they will hurt fellow men or young boys by spewing misogyny and encouraging this disgusting behavior
Literally this. I have this theory that men who have internalized hatred against women are the ones who are really rough to women in bed bc besides its the only other outlet for the anger besides the gym
@@cjgilmore283Well women could simply not date those guys, but that’ll never happen
And people wonder why women chose bear
yep. those are the type of men who will hurt someone eventually..if they haven’t already
The fact that they used a song about a girl being lost and confused because she has feelings for another girl in that edit at the end 💀
😭😭😭😭 they really ARE lesbians /j
HAHAHA that’s why she left zeke. He just couldn’t compete
Dunno what bothers me more: The idea that men's only problem in life is their girlfriends, the idea that their only way to cope is the gym, or the idea that any man who works out is compensating for something
am yisrael chai 🇮🇱
I have been physically and emotionally hurt by men in far more nefarious ways than I guarantee you the majority of these men have been by women. Cheating is small potatoes honestly. Yet I still have male friends and don’t talk about men like they’re another species? But yeah bro, they’re totally intellectually superior and emotionally stable. Lmao
A straight guy using "All the Things She Said" as a depressing workout montage song is crazy LOL
That's what I thought.
LMFAOOOO
I was going to say the exact same thing 😂
i remember seeing that video going "....I like girls..." fr my lesbian awakening 😂😭
I noticed that and had to rewind it to be sure 😂
It’s ok to go to the gym for your mental/physical health but if you’re using it as the only way to cope and making it your entire personality that’s when it becomes toxic.
Today's lesson: Bro just go to therapy
"14 year olds are edgy and cringe!!"
Grown men:
I, a child, am going to therapy, i'm aware of my problems, i'm recovering, meanwhile GROWN MEN are whining abt their lil gf leaving?? A gf that they probably made up too.
As a cringe 14 year old I agree
It’s incredibly sad how these “influencers” prey on insecure young boys.
It really is. So many young guys feel isolated and really what they need is a support system and people they can talk to on a real level. But these dudes are just encouraging them to do the same shit society does, suppress their very real emotions.
THE SCREAM FOR THE GUY IN THE BEGINNING GOT ME CRYING
I had to jump scare you sorry
Bro stop, you are going to set off the Lunk alarm. The Lunk alarm is there for your safety
They have the audacity to call women emotional 💀💀
I’m not emotional!! *screams like he’s just been disemboweled in a public space*
Glad to know this video comes from a reformed gymbro
I know toooo much about it so im happy to say these ppl sound like they need real help instead of yelling into an abyss
Its always the same shit with these gym tok videos. It's so annoying. They act like a breakup is the worst pain in existence 😂😂
Especially if the break up was like four years ago and now they "don't give anyone a chance"
fr. shows what a privileged life these dudes have 😂 like yeah breakups suck, but it’s not that serious
@@azaria7528their crush from 1st grade held hands with another boy on the playground, and they use that as an excuse to be violently hateful towards women for the rest of their lives lmao
@@coolchameleon21 yeah it definitely shows a lot. 😂😂
LOL for real. Breakups are sad. They can be very devastating and life changing. But grow up. It happens to all of us. And cheating is so common… men cheat on women at equal rates. Again, it sucks but compared to other things that can go wrong in a relationship, it’s very minor. As someone with spinal injuries and chronic pain because I was hit and almost killed by a drunk driver, I would rather go through every single breakup I’ve ever had 100 times in a row than go through that accident again. Now I’m a prisoner in my own body. But yeah, boohoo the breakup of that one 3 month relationship you had your sophomore year of college was so sad.
imagine being one of these dude’s exes and just watching this on your fyp 😭
i would be cringing so hard omg
As someone with a past ED these men are the same as those pro ana girls fr
omg right??? and they're so in denial about the fact that they all have an ED or at least are heading straight towards one and that almost makes it more dangerous 😭
i have anorexia and i could not agree more thats literally what it IMMEDIATELY reminded me of so glad im not the only one😭
Musclerexia is I think the colloquial term for it, but you’re absolutely right. It’s a legitimate disorder that too many men fall into
LITERALLY LMAO 💀 i’ve been saying that gym tok is just ed twitter for men
@@joocymangoestell me you have NAFLD without telling me you have NAFLD.
I go to the gym everyday, my gym has two levels, one a lot of older people work out on, and the other is the gym bros. Cathy the 80 year old woman is my gym bff. She brought me cookies once
That's really wholesome. I wish you and Cathy the best :)
That's so wholesome
"Ever depressed.hit the gym brooo!"
I can't with these types of men 😭💀💀
It's stuff like this that makes me not want to ever go to the gym again... who the hell am I working out next to? I can do this at home....
as an introvert, I would go home to sit on the couch and be alone, it has nothing to do with the other person lmao
Nothing like a roid fueled gymtok influencer screaming into the void.
I am so scared of body dudes now. Those guys must have too many insecurities...
I wish I was so traumatized I could keep up a workout routine, but not so traumatized I filmed it and put it on the internet
the ones where there’s a demonic voice playing is so fucking funny bro💀💀💀
i know it's just the ring light reflection but i like to think this content has sam on the verge of tears the whole time
"I was a gym bro" at the start got me laughing do hard!
Why are these guys trying to glorify depression with these delusional videos. It’s a huge red flag to center your hole personality around someone and the pain they cause you and then film yourself screaming into the void, therapy can help
Last year when I was only 15, I came across gym tok and it got to me,I became this angry person and just started treating people like shit
I hope you're doing better now, I hope you know that getting enough sunlight, eating healthy, and doing things that makes you happy is just as effective. Have a good day ❤
@@Punpun_sugarmore effective fs
@@Punpun_sugar yeah,I'm doing much better now, there's so many sides of self improvement and sometimes we can get too carried away
I was watching this in the background whilst doing revision and because I wasn't looking I thought he said "Jim can fix everything" and I was so confused until I saw the comment. And now I will always wish for there to be a Jim that can fix everything.
you should make a video recreating the tiktoks you react to
The irony of watching this while scarfing down 2 bacon egg and cheese with hashbrown sandwiches on chedder habanero bagels, is not lost on me.
Lol
Know whats really sad about GymTok? All of these men think they are going to solve lifelong psychological problems with lifting weights. It is the epitome of ignorance.
Masculinity in a nutshell... does not matter how you interpret it... it’s always caveman brain mode.
So every relevant scientist ever= ignorant got it
the length men go to avoid therapy
so what ur saying is if i didnt go to therapy id be ripped????
"You're doing god? That's fucked up and gross" 🤣
i've never seen a group of people more well-adjusted and mentally healthy than gymtok lmao
I think Arkham Asylum still has more sane people...
I was in an abusive relationship with a gym bro. The sterroid rage js very real. The smallest argument would have him threatening to curb stomp my head into the floor.
I hope you're doing alright now ❤️🩹
Gotta say I was so relieved when the sponsor thing was a joke. Sponsors are useful for creators but it’s a relief not to see problematic companies like Better Help being promoted on here.
Summed up. They all need therapy.
exercise can be very beneficial for mental health, but it’s just a small piece of the puzzle. therapy, meds, balanced diet, healthy relationships, hobbies, rest, good sleep, etc. are all just as important and necessary for overall well being
The only gym influencer I trust is Joey Swoll. He's good at calling out gym influencers who do bs things (like getting mad when normal gym users walk in front of their cameras). If Joey found these people, he would tell these people to get help and work out for the right reasons, rather than using their anger/hatred towards women.
showing younger more vulnerable people that going to the gym and getting buff will fix all of their issues is so fucking toxic and concerning. also the fact their only motivation seems to be negativity (mainly surrounding women) just reflects their need for mental health support, that’s crazy 😭
perfect timing Sam I was getting bored scrolling through youtube 🙏
My friend would jokingly say “where do we put our feelings? In our muscles!” Fake cry then laugh and say deadpan, “but for real…therapy.”
“Look how strong I am, I obsess every day over this one thing that happened and build my entire personality around that anger.” Yup, now I’m definitely convinced, women are stronger.
It’s so corny it hurts
I have BPD so for me breakups are one of the most painful experiences. I have had instances where I have went into severe panic attacks that lasted days because of break ups. So I understand how painful they can be. But the way these guys are coping with it seems to be fueling themselves with anger. Thats a trap I fear many people end up falling into. Obsessing over hurt, becoming addicted to something that can be harmful to your body when overdone, vilifying a gender because of what you went through are so so unhelpful. These men could seriously use some psychological help. I once again understand the pain and the path that leads you to be self destructive, but it will continue to hurt forever unless you learn to cope effectively.
i have bpd and i hate when people say i have bpd but i just said it so now i hate myself???????? why am i like this jayzepickle6637
meanwhile the girls are enjoying their routines listening to chapelle roan and following basic gym etiquette
idk why, but when you immediately said "and today's video is sponsored by" i immediately thought you were gonna say betterhelp lmao
Man, every one of these guys seem like they're so normal and pleasant to be around!
Is this why I, a female-presenting person, get dirty looks every now and again from gym bros when I'm lifting heavy weights?
Bro am I the only one who feels scared to go to the gym because in the back of my mind, I think of dudes like this. Hence why I have home equipment because I genuinely don't wanna deal with dudes like this LMAO
same
Well if you dont talk to them 😭
Go to a local-owned gym, they usually don't allow filming and the people there are friendly
Ong having gone to the gym for 4 years now... people don't care I promise :| these people are the minority they're just the loudest which is unfortunate
Same. Plus I'm a trans dude and have no desire to be hate crimed.
This made me really glad I'm into pilates.
They will do everything BUT going to therapy
Theres a subsection of gym content thats genuinely really helpful and supportive, people like Noel Deyzel. Gym content is pretty polarized, like its either the kindest people on earth or weirdo incels lmao. But, for anyone trying to find a supportive and accepting gym community, people like Noel Deyzel, Green Ranger Kyle, Big Scherly, Liz Tess, etc are really really good
Noel the goat
The whole video: guys don't know how to take care of their heads, just their bodies. Women don't always want ripped, chiseled and bitter. As FTM, I certainly don't partake of the "bro-gym-pain" thing. Go to a therapist, get your head straight, cuz nothing else is more obnoxious than a guy who thinks that going to the gym is "getting that girl back" for leaving you. That's just carrying a grudge.
Thanks Sam!
I left my ex because our relationship wasn’t working. We were together for years, it ended amicably and we’re still good friends. And yeah after I moved out of the home we had together, I just sat at home afterwards LOL there were no other dudes. It was fucking devastating for me too, even though I initiated it. Women are not another species.
That girl's vm reminded me of that "I love you and I miss you HNNNNNNGGGGG!" 😭😂💀
Brother not to be that guy, but lifting after rejection or a bad breakup has helped me tremendously. I am in a better place, good career, great partner, and a great physique - it took 5 years of working on myself but this shit really does help kick some guys into gear and get back on their feet. It’s not about solving all your issues magically, but it is one step in a huge self improvement journey. Not everyone can afford therapy. Planet fitness is $10 a month.
exercise one piece of the puzzle. there are many other factors are important for developing mental well being and stability. and these men do not seem mentally stable at all. they’re full of anger, resentment, and negativity. literal nightmare fuel and a DV case waiting to happen.
Surprised that one guy absolutely screaming all the time is still allowed in that gym lol
As someone who goes to the gym AND therapy. They really are a good mash up! 10/10 reccommend to these bros 💀
it's weird imagining the song "All the things she said" from a misogynist gym-bro-sad-about-the-break up perspective, when the song itself is literally like.... two lesbians standing against an unwelcoming conservative world. They really do like to co-opt things that are directly opposed to their views, it's like watching them use rage against the machine to support conservative values.
a thing about the gym bros is that if you just consume so much toxic media and depression quotes you’re going to feel worse, if you don’t surround yourself with nice people or learn how to be happy by yourself then you’ll never be happy gf or not. Your physical might be good but your spiritual and mental will hold you from your full potential
My therapist encourages me to go to the gym lol
Everyone has their way of dealing with stuff for me it's Brazilian jiu-jitsu once I'm on the mat I'm on the mat no stress no weight on my shoulders just rolling
Yes but if your way of dealing with stuff centers around negativity you're just gonna get nowhere. How Will your method work if you're just angry all the time?
@@emotionallynumb I wasn't telling you that they were your responsibility (?)
@@Punpun_sugarI'm just putting what works for me if you want to get therapy get therapy do what helps you but not everyone's the same people have their own ways of dealing with their emotions men women regardless of gender everyone's different as long as you're not hurting anyone who cares
@@emotionallynumb I was just adding onto what you were saying, I wasn't suggesting any changes. Many of the gym bros are motivated by anger. I was just saying that they would get nowhere in their health that way
Exercise can be good for your stress and in fact part of therapy is finding outlets such as exercise, but letting it become an addiciton/take over your life isn't a solution.
Does the cringe help with them achieving a full concentric contraction? Fellas; is not posting cringe killing your gains?
I could totally be wrong, but I think the 3 month rule comes with results….
1 month you feel different
2 months you see the difference
3 months your friends and family see the difference
Could be totally wrong though!
help 😭 on 10:27 was it only me who heard “pancreas monster”😭😭
Garden of Banban be hitting the gym
Any other British people here laughing at “gym’ll fix it”? 😂
😱 okay I prefer these guys exercising excessively to cope with life instead of them doing what Jimmy did!
HAPPY SUNDAY 💪
These gym video shooters serioulsly need help .plz send help .help the needy!
Cringe Tok...
As a psychologist of course this people would benefit from going to therapy, but also doing therapeutic things, having other hobbies and building a wider range of support net. The problem is only doing one activity and expect it's gonna solve all your problems.
JEGEDJEKDKSKSK THIS IS SO FUNNY OMG, I CAN'T IMAGINE SOMEONE TAKING THIS VIDEOS SERIOUSLY
Love these videos with just Sam because I cannot focus when his girlfriend is there she’s just so pretty 😭😭😭
omg watching this by procrastinating for my finals yay! wish me luck!!!!
I do both gym and therapy and I'll be honest they both helped/help me in equal amounts, I couldn't say therapy is better and I couldn't say gym is better but for the purpose of responding to this video my mental health wouldn't have improved to the point it has through just therapy alone, gym has helped me way too much
4:32 scared me half to death
Please do a video on either guitar bros (cough Steve Terreberry cough) or the Gamergate, Comicsgate, "blue haired Tumblr SJWs are ruining Star Wars again" type of people. That's gonna be a *wild* ride.
This is why these women dumped these guys in the first place, I feel bad for these ppl
Going to the gym is a good thing. It can be a wonderful part of keeping someone solid physically and mentally BUT this??? This isn't The Way. Even if they're Memeing, this ain't it. The Clout ain't worth it and it's called therapy. It's called Looking Within. Also, these same MFs who make this sort of content are the same ones who make fun of Taylor Swift for writing songs about her exes. Lames.
Yeah a lot of this is depression and trauma, and a lot of people can relate.
Having this deep feeling that you're never enough, putting on an outward happy mask and no one realizing you're hurting because you act happy, not feeling like anyone really sees you.
That has nothing inherently to do with the gym or getting a ripped bod.
It's depression.
And, yes, exercise can be a part of good mental health, but these guys are falling into the same trap that a lot of women do with losing weight. Believing that once they finally get a perfect body they'll be happy and it'll fix everything.
3 month rule is that people can put on a facade in a relationship for awhile but usually people start showing their true selves after 3 months. It is the majority of people but usually has the connotation with narcissist.
Me: Going through depression:
Gymbros: just Gym it out bro
Thanks Gymbros 😃
I get the feeling these dudebros who obsess over working out and spend 24/7 at the gym are just indulging in a form of self-harm that isn't necessarily ""bad"", but it isn't good for them either
All of these just really confuse me. As someone who loves men, I don't usually like muscular dudes. I prefer natural and even a little chubby dudes.
All of the gym tiktok's just scream insecurities that they blame on not being "buff enough".
i think it’s a case of oh they emotionally hurt me so i’m going to make sure i’m tough enough so no one will physically hurt me or want to emotionally hurt me again and hopefully people will find me attractive enough to treat with kindness- it’s a messed up mindset but it’s gotta come from somewhere and society isn’t great to men either, better than women though lol
I think one of the reasons i just dont rlly fw gym bro dudes is because 9/10 times they are SUPER transphobic, the "stealing T from a trans guy" joke is just so overused now, dont get me wrong i think its a funny lighthearted Joke but the comments of that joke will just be super transphobic for no reason, i thought the gym community was supposed to be uplifting of each other and to support each others goals and achievements buts its rlly just whos bigger and stronger and full of people who will tell newbies and overweight ppl who are trying to better themselves that they suck and that they should just quit, its mostly aimed at obese ppl and women, and it sucks because a guy who was overweight who posts what he used to look like will get uplifting comments and yet a women who does rhe same thing will get shit on, especially if the person is still currently overweight but is still pushing themselves, its a toxix community and i hate it, as a trans guy just let me go to the gym in peace thats all i want
SAM! Long comment here we go: bro I have been watching you since I was 13 and went 'omg so that's why I feel like this.' Here I am almost 8 years later, pre-transition, and maybe a month or so away from coming out to my siblings (I don't have a date picked I'm just ready). I just gotta say you just being here is life-changing. I've been essentially gaslit out of listening to my dysphoria and it's been a crazy past few years but just seeing your content and you with your girl recently I just realized there is nobody going to be me if I'm not going to be me. That is just straight up a crazy thing to consider. Though physical too, most of my dysphoria is social (I think because I almost pass in a hoodie or baggy shirt tbh) and it's made life confusing because I think growing up afab and super victim to beauty standards warped tf out of my brain, then trying to come out and being gaslit into not believing I was even trans... DUDE. I'm about to transfer to a new university and move into an apartment, and I've just been realizing how so much of my excitement is over letting my guard down once I'm alone, and it's hit me that I really am trans. And I want to be alone so I can be myself, and probably get in the works to transition medically and on my documents. I have no community for the most part, and the little support we have in these online communities like your channel is absolutely everything. So seriously huge thank you for the impact you've had on my whole life at this point, and thanks any readers for being part of the community too. So much love to allies out there too you guys save lives no joke. One day at a time this sh*t will get better, the world really just doesn't want us existing but it's amazing to just see that sub count and realize that almost at least a hundred thousand people want to see us alive and better yet want to see us happy and successful. Never posted something this long wtf but I got nobody to share this with so thank YOU for reading it
(he/him btw)
Proud of you, I hope your siblings are good community for you. I am so proud of you for getting to know yourself in a way that surpasses the pain of hiding.
@@curiouslittlefrog thank you!!!
bros got depression but not social anxiety good for them i could never post that
6:40 THEY DARE TAINT A MELANIE SONG LIKE THAT
You and your girlfriend are so cute together! I hope you two stay happy together for a long time ❤️
"Pain Change People" uh huh... Ok, so is that like putting a couple of rolls of quarters in a sock? Then what? you beat yourself with it, or sumpthin..? 😝
You figured it out!
"And that's why today's video is sponsored by-"
DON'T SAY BETTERHELP
"-nah I'm just kidding"
Oh god
Pre-workout gives me the 🏃🏼♂️
One does not simply interrupt the Iris line. How very dare, young man
im 17 and i have no idea what “3 month rule” is either lmfao💀 but then again i was like 2 years late to pog/poggers and i still dont even know wtf skibidi toilet is lol (plus prob like a million other terms bc I CANT KEEP UP STOP😭😭)
Strong opinion. Completely agree