Dear The Real, You throw in a new host, it was hard for us at first to accept the dynamic but we accepted Amanda and she's cool. What we won't stand for is this strange ass seating arrangement. As mentioned below: 'The seating we deserve: Tam, Jeannie, Loni, Amanda, Adrienne'! Tam doesn't need to be between Loni and Adrienne to feel safe and Amanda and Jeannie don't need to be together because they're passionate, loud and speak a lot. I'm going to tell you why this proposed arrangement suits..... 1. Loni in the middle because she is a good mediator 2. Jeannie and Amanda on either side because they both can show their passion and the table will seem more balanced to the eye....also Loni there to mediate if things get heated 3. Tam in her old spot because I look left when I want to feel calm--she also balances the table well when she sits there both physically and with her input...Tam don't be afraid to speak...you are a grown woman! Lead by example and let your voice/view be heard. Amanda seems respectful of everyone's input....She won't bite! 4. Ade in her old spot because I look right when I want those crazy hilarious stories and when she uses the tablet to read comments. Yours Faithfully The Real Viewers
Honey Bee They were cutting each other off a lot with just 4 people. With 5 we have to just accept that for each topic one person just don’t get to speak.
Y’all realize that as big a dick as the dude was, the lady he’s with couldn’t afford it either. If y’all want to be treated like queen, better be reciprocating in your love life.
@@alexvaldez5149 and if she couldn’t do that at that moment the “king” can do that for himself. guys acting like bitches nowadays. i guess i’ll be the man on the house too!👍🏾👍🏾
She's the one choosing not to speak up. Do uou think she'll be the next to leave? I can see her as the type to leave a situation that doesn't make her happy amymore.
Broke men project their brokenness unprovoked. Disclaimer: the girl did state on Twitter they had been dating for a few months and after this are no longer together.
"This guy & I have been talking/seeing each other for a month or so. This wasn’t some long abusive relationship"...."We weren’t even hooking up"... At what point did she say they were dating for a few months?
Dee M when I heard Adrienne reading the woman’s follow up text, I thought the info of her short dating timeframe and her no longer dating him would be disclosed. It’s like whoever gathered the information skewed in a way that made it more dramatic, as if the woman didn’t realize this guy was a waste of her time, energy, and effort. Which made the ladies chalk her up to “being stupid” and “having low self esteem”.
This is the fourth clip so far where Jeannie wanted to speak but just cannot. #TheReal if this continues throughout the season then, you need to learn from this and adjust the sitting arrangement next season.
Damn they shoved Jeannie off to the side, got home girl standing on one leg, at the edge of her seat, leaning on the table AND cutting her off? damn LMAO.
@@MajesticMyronn Maybe I've never noticed that until now, because the table seems so full and not as evenly distributed as before. She still looks so pushed aside though.
Adrienne has talked about how many stupid stuff she’s done for men in her past & she still calls this woman stupid on national tv? Humble yourself. Don’t bring other women down just bc your situation got better.
she’s the epitome of a pick me. she will always blame the woman and never the man. she’s calling another woman stupid knowing damn well all the shits she done?! the nerve of her. she talks too fucking much for somebody not knowing what’s going on
Go on Adrienne, I couldn't agree more with her in this segment. The same goes for Tamera a real king would take you out, this guy was just a jerk and like Adrienne said this lady allowed him to treat her with disrespect.
No this is victim blaming. Whoever came up with that phrase “people only treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Is being unrealistic. Besides level headed people their are harassers, abusers, stealers, rapist. And look at how the blame is shifted on to the victim as if their not being manipulated.
@@amisings3716 ....being in a shitty relationship is not being a victim nor is it on the level pf abuse you just listed. This is a false equivalency. You have to hold yourself to some level of accountability. People choose to put up with nonsense alll the time and not all of them are in abusive situations.
Should try reading the thread for the actual story and her responses to people. Their version of the story is completely twisted for the sake of views and trying to get an applause from the audience.
3:42 “we would do a lot better at not making people feel stupid about not knowing how to love themselves” that was real good! More compassion. She clearly has low self esteem but to put her down for it ain’t the way. It’s not helpful.
Nelly P exactly! I liked Amanda’s take on it. Adrienne calling her stupid isn’t going to help her. It sounds hypocritical to me because at one point they say “us woman gotta stick together” and then say stuff like this. I’m so glad there’s a balance to the show now with Amanda.
Kay Brown okay let’s be real we ALL know sticking around and entertaining a guy like that is real dumb. But there’s better ways of confronting someone is all I’m saying 🤷🏻♀️
Kay Brown It’s kind of unnecessary though. It doesn’t make her a stupid person she’s acting like a fool or she’s acting foolish that’s fine to say but to say she’s stupid sounds dismissive asf.
I get the whole “have accountability and not allow someone to treat you like trash.” mentality. BUT I just hate how in these conversations we’re always so quick to blame the woman. YES should have enough self respect and enough self worth not to go out her way for an ungrateful bum.. but why are we spending more time tearing her down and not the actual bum who’s trying to take advantage of this girls kindness and breaking down his character flaws as well????
Keana Yancey True. If a woman said it they would call her all kinds of names -gold digger- esp since he offered to cook which would get them all hot and bothered
I think it's because we know that dudes like this are pathological and even personality disordered. Public shaming and condemning doesn't work on them. They're used to negative attention and it almost never changes their behavior. They can even take pride in being bad people. It feels like the only hope is to tell a woman to protect herself. It's not her fault that he came at her horribly, but dudes like him usually don't change if they are that grimey to begin with.
Poor Jeanie she doesn’t even get to talk. Don’t hate but like move her back where she was cause I listen to her the most and she be like invisible to the others
Yeah I'm tired of Jeanie now and some of her self grandiose of some BS wisdome regurgitated from some guru philosophy book!! Lmao I want to hear TAMERA TALK NOW!!! Damn right!! 🤣🤣🤣
I dont like how they didnt post ALL of this girls response, and only posted a small part of it. Theyre trying to blame her for a mans actions. ADRIENNE, this thread was posted on TWITTER, not instagram, the girl said THIS WASNT A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP, and this was the first time he did this to her, oh the girl also said he was Homeless, broke and struggling lmaoo
Finally, someone in the comments who actually knows the story. And notice how this has less likes than the other comments jumping on the story they're feeding them.
I think people are holding the woman responsible because she should not be seeking the love of a man that has other priorities. The homeless man has priorities such changing his living situation. Finding love should not be on the radar, he trying to find a meal.
@@mirandaholley9797 Another person who did not get the full story lol. She was not "seeking love" from him, they weren't even in a serious relationship.
@@apolloapollo1028I get that. Why bother going out on a date or making a plate of food to be nice. It is a little contrite( expressing feelings of guilt) to date a homeless man. Why else would she fix him food. She literally could have prepared/ attended a non food date., But because he is homeless she babying him. What else did she expect? Gratitude? It is not a grown woman's Job to fix a homeless male stranger food has a date. How dangerous! He probably knows where she lives.
I loved what Amanda said that we need to stop being so judgemental and calling people stupid as if we are perfect. It does take self respect and confidence like Tamera said to recognise if you're being wronged but it takes each person their own amount of time to see that they are worth more than what certain people are serving them.
So... Where do we sign a petition to get a rearrangement on the table? I’d like to see both Jeannie and Adrienne be change out of the sides, since they’re both not getting a lot in the conversation. It feels like Tamera, Loni, and Amanda are the only ones on the table now. Just my opinion.
Amanda THANK YOU SOOOOOOO much for your mature response. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That type of response can reach an audience that might not had a good upbringing, not taught how to love, experienced abuse etc.. Tamera and Adrienne probably should be mindful about the spectrum of their audience and reaching the ones that dont have a support system like they have in their lives. However, it was good to see this play out because it shows how different mindsets can miss the mark unintentionally.
I agree with this. This is the only comment I've seen say this. But I also remembered a comment saying they wouldn't want Loni on the side because of her size.
It seems to me that all of them have strong personalities at certain times. Loni and amanda are always strongly assertive. Adriennes entire personality has changed since amanda comes and now she is miss " nyc da bronx". But so is jeannie since dating a rapper and after divorce. I myself think jeannie can be overbearing. Tamera has gotten really assertive after defending her fam all of the time.
Apollo Apollo the girl is embarrassed as all hell. You really think she’s gonna admit that her boyfriend is trash and she takes it on a regular? Absolutely not. If you wanna believed that hey, do you! The rest of us with some common sense see the real.
Glenn CoCo the reason u don’t believe her is bc ur projecting lmfaooo. if the girl says they weren’t in a serious relationship and it was the first time, and u dont believe her then u needs figure out what ur projecting bc there’s no reason not believe her considering none of us were there.
winwin’s elf ear “yOuR pRoJeCtInG” no sweetie. 😂 That thread didn’t come until after she posted the original picture & was publicly humiliated for all to see. Whether or not they were serious, they had been dating for over a month, obviously dating enough for her to cook for him in her home. Asshole encounters like this don’t just fall out of the air. Like I said, believe what you want but the girl isn’t gonna say whats real if it doesn’t benefit her. Especially after the response she got.
There was a whole ass exchange that they didn't show 🙄 I'm tired of this show never telling a FULL story. Plus they were only DATING and this was the FIRST time.
@@svideos5754 he sent message after message saying basically the same thing with not a single reply back from her. She wrote a thread explaining they'd been dating about a month, no hooking up, and that she was already backing off from him based off of other things. They literally showed the last two tweets of the thread making it sound like she stayed when it was literally her defending herself from the people making the SAME COMMENTS ADRIENNE IS MAKING
@@lifeastheginger1 I had a feeling because otherwise why else would she had shared her experience with some guy. I see tons of people on twitter sharing their experience once they are out of the relationship, and they share it to others so other women can learn from it. Thanks for explaining, I only watch clips. Lol
I was waiting for someone to say this, the woman said she HAD the money she just didn’t wanna spend it on him bc he has never did anything for her. They weren’t in a relationship
😂😂😂 Lol that corner spot something serious huh Jeanie?! 🤷🏾♀️ I’m so glad Tamera can finally be heard now. She has a lot of good input in the conversations.
Y’all talking about Amanda, Adrienne needs to let Jeannie talk too. She’s the one with the most valuable opinion. imo. Or switch Amanda and Jeannie’s seats.
Watched it again and Tamera was cutting Jeannie off too! Nope ✋🏾. They need to learn how to let each person get their opinion out before they give multiple opinions.
SAli it still happened when it was 4 🤷♀️ especially when someone took up a lot of time telling a story or ends up repeating what someone else said but in a more lengthy way. But I agree it’s happening more often now, but I expected it as they work out the new dynamic. I’m sure in time it’ll smooth out
SAli Yes, maybe dedicate half/35 mins of the show to girl chat (as long as the topics are good 😬). 5 is too much, when everybody wants to talk over each other.
Thanks Amanda 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 for expressing realness and the reminder about being human. No ones perfect. We dont know her full situation or what type of support group she has around her.
Ik! They both have very strong personalities and are very vocal about their opinions. I’m just wondering how this is going to Hold up together like this.. cuz man the way this thing set up..
Adrienne was with a guy who wouldn't even give her a key for 7 years.. she comes off so judgy in this segment but shoutout to Amanda for bringing it back and making sense of it all. Some people grew up learning to love themselves and others have to grow through hard experiences in life to learn how to love themselves. No point in judging others and bringing them down more.
The girl actually said they weren’t dating. They were talking previously and she had already been trying to distance herself. she offered to get him food because she’s a generous person. They should have read the whole thread.
Taina Nixon see, that would have added too much nuance and let's the be real, having nuanced conversations isn't a strong suit at this table. Let them bite what they are able to chew 😂
I LOVE AMANDA. I get what Adrienne was saying but it came off sounding very judgmental, wasn't she in a relationship for 5 years and it took 2 to get a key to his house? as she has said herself on the show the relationship she is in now has shown her a better, different kind of love . We all do dumb things for these trifling men LORDT I know I have.
Ngl at first I wasn’t so thrilled about Amanda joining The Real, but honestly she’s what the show needs. I absolutely love love love the ladies of The Real ❤️, but it feels refreshing to have this different type of vibe she brings to the show. Her take on things are much more relatable and authentic. Hope it stays this way 😌
I actually like her point of views. Adrien ne and Loni keeps talking over everyone and it is annoying. I loved Amanda's point here that many people were not taught how to love themselves and while they are learning to do just that people need to be more kind and compassionate (not her exact words)
@@Lovely_her199 Exactly. Adrienne had the most to say in this segment. She was the one cutting Jeannie off and nearly cut Amanda off, but Amanda kept going until she was heard lol. Idk why folks are blaming her when she's been the one most courteous of allowing folks to speak.
...Adrienne was actually the one cutting everyone off in this segment. You just want an excuse to try and bash Amanda when she literally did nothing wrong here.
First of all we are less than 24 hours from the last show on which all the hosts, including Loni and Tam were in tears talking about how "women need to stop judging one another and the life decisions we make". This is why I pointed out we all do it sometimes and need to not being hypocrites. Including the ladies of The Real. Secondly, Adrienne said exactly what I was thinking.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 true!!! True true!! I definitely not judging on her!! This is just wrong and Adrienne acted like a right B#*ch!! Why are we judging HER so harshly and not judging HIM EVEN HARDER!!?? Did you read his comments?!? OMFG!!
That part when A said.... "girl not only are you acting stupid but you let all of us know you stupid". I was weak. I laughed so hard. I love how her Hispanic side rolls of her tongue when she says stupid. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
We've all done crazy things, for Adrienne to call this women stupid is unnecessary. Adrienne how many broke guys did you treat before you woke up. Just saying.
I’d have just stopped responding after he started talking crazy. 😂 ghost. It’s not that I wouldn’t treat a guy to dinner - but you have to earn it and treat me with respect.
I have a few issues on this.... first all when tamera said “well If he’s a real king he should be the one to take his queen and pay for the meal” .... umm I thought this table was raised to be equal and independent.... and I can understand Tamera saying that because she’s very traditional and as a man I would love to pay for my girl but what’s wrong her paying sometimes too... and this happens to men too like a lot like when a girl want her hair or nails done but you ain’t got money for that... she like guilts you into it... secondly if he’s broke and she’s broke choose like McDonald’s or something and him coming after her like that is wrong but we don’t know what type of relationship they have so we can’t judge them so in all honestly if I were at the table I’d start but saying if my boyfriend talked to me like that I would just discuss with him that hey you know what I don’t have enough maybe when I get paid we can get red lobster
I don't think it's so much what he said but HOW he said. I think I'm an understanding person but would have put my man in his place had he spoken to me the way he did.
James I completely agree with you... but again I’m not one to judge a relationship I’m not sure about if that makes sense.. I get that he was in the wrong for doing that. I certainly wouldn’t act petty like this because I understand the realities of being broke so I’d just eat whatever she made but not gonna lie I’m very picky when it comes to food 😂
Abundance26 yes agreed ... putting a man in his place but not aggressively due to the fact that I’m not one to play games but honestly be the bigger person and straight out say” babe I’m broke right now... can’t go to Red Lobster tonight .... if you have money go right ahead but I’ll be here cooking the meal I can afford “
Gilbert Rodriguez if you want a girl to spend money on you then maybe you want to be the girl coz I believe men should provide for women especially since we earn more and women do the cooking and cleaning
The girl did make a point to say they were only dating and not in a relationship...I saw the tweets on twitter myself and she said that she dropped this man. Yall are missing all the info and forming opinions without the whole story
I was never taught how to love myself or to even love myself at all. I didn't look like ANY of the other girls growing up and I always thought I was fat. I'm Hispanic and I've got the waist/hips and booty to prove it. Lol. But when your a teenager and you look around no one else really looks like you, you begin to think the worst (especially at 13/14 years old). Now here I am 22 and I LOOOOVE all of me. 😊💜💜 #KnowYourWorth
He wanted to go to Red Lobster so bad...Was he tryna make her live up to that beyonce lyric....” when he [insert profanity] me good I take his 🍑 to Red lobster? 🤣
He is not on his own level because he can't afford himself.
😂😂😂
For real, for real...
Periodttt! 🎯
Thank you. If he was he would have taken himself. Bum Ass.
I am a man. And facts you preach!
Dear The Real,
You throw in a new host, it was hard for us at first to accept the dynamic but we accepted Amanda and she's cool. What we won't stand for is this strange ass seating arrangement.
As mentioned below: 'The seating we deserve: Tam, Jeannie, Loni, Amanda, Adrienne'!
Tam doesn't need to be between Loni and Adrienne to feel safe and Amanda and Jeannie don't need to be together because they're passionate, loud and speak a lot. I'm going to tell you why this proposed arrangement suits.....
1. Loni in the middle because she is a good mediator
2. Jeannie and Amanda on either side because they both can show their passion and the table will seem more balanced to the eye....also Loni there to mediate if things get heated
3. Tam in her old spot because I look left when I want to feel calm--she also balances the table well when she sits there both physically and with her input...Tam don't be afraid to speak...you are a grown woman! Lead by example and let your voice/view be heard. Amanda seems respectful of everyone's input....She won't bite!
4. Ade in her old spot because I look right when I want those crazy hilarious stories and when she uses the tablet to read comments.
Yours Faithfully
The Real Viewers
Michelle Smith couldn’t have said it any better👏🏻👏🏻
@@Iceejayy thank you i wish this comment could be top!
Michelle Smith I hope @therealdaytime listens
AGREE
Are you posting this on other REAL videos cuz I could've sworn I've seen this on another video
They need to move Jeannine back because she can’t get a word in sitting over there lol
I dont like the new addition...
Now you know how Tamera felt.
@@evidence7338 well get over it. y'all can't keep complaining about this on every video...
I'm not a big fan of Tamar Braxton, but they didn't let Tamar talk either.
Robbie N that wasn’t jeannie’s fault doe....
Out of all the fancy restaurants he could have chosen to be on "his level," he chooses red lobster 🤔
In fact he so lame!
That’s his level, basic and gross ass Red Lobster
His level is Taco bell he needs to stop fronting
That shows you what his level is
TheHNTRS 😒
I’m not feeling this! My girl Jeanie didn’t even get to talk 😑😤
She couldn’t even finish saying “Finish what you were saying” 🤭
I hate the new addition
christy capers right I’m upset 😡
honeyhollywood lava Me2 it’s going to be weird. Someone’s going to leave 😒 I liked having special guest it gave the ppl something to look forward 2
Honey Bee They were cutting each other off a lot with just 4 people. With 5 we have to just accept that for each topic one person just don’t get to speak.
I would like to know what Jeannie was trying to say
There's been a lot of these comments lately
Lady Hamilton xoxo Thank you.
Lady Hamilton xoxo true, Tamera just cut her off
Jeannie actually wanted Amanda to finish what she was saying and she didn’t get to cuz Adrienne was cutting her off crazy.
She has to speak up and hold her ground
A "King" cannot buy his own Red lobster meal?
dump D EXACTLY. What a pathetic man child
dump D lmfao
Y’all realize that as big a dick as the dude was, the lady he’s with couldn’t afford it either. If y’all want to be treated like queen, better be reciprocating in your love life.
@@alexvaldez5149 deadass
@@alexvaldez5149 and if she couldn’t do that at that moment the “king” can do that for himself.
guys acting like bitches nowadays. i guess i’ll be the man on the house too!👍🏾👍🏾
Jeannie can’t even get a word in. I’m so over this.
Shes must fav..
Yeah but she needs to speak up...She just let’s everyone talk. Closed mouths do not get fed. Come m Jeanie open your mouth!!!
Poor Jeannie she def had sum to say but she couldn’t 😂
You should put Jenny back we're She was
I really wanted to know where she was going with her but wait a minute 😂😂😂
Harkeen15 you again, why you hating on Jennie so much, I personally love hearing what she has to say.
Harkeen15 don’t hate on Jeannie
Harkeen15 stfu
They’re not letting Jeanie Talk I don’t like that
I picked out on that too
Joleen Josephs it’s not a they... Tamera cut her off
She's the one choosing not to speak up. Do uou think she'll be the next to leave? I can see her as the type to leave a situation that doesn't make her happy amymore.
Amanda needs to stop talk a bit and listen ok give people a chance to talk....typical...loud and being a bully look at loni tisk tisk
Joleen Josephs That’s what women do
I have been noticing they wont let Jeannie talk the last few eps. I love all yall but PLEASE let this woman talk. It is so frustrating.
i feel so uncomfortable with tamera right there
Denae Frazer 😹😹but she added “if he wanted to go that badly” I know what you mean I felt it too.
Me too.
Why
Exactly it's unnatural
Broke men project their brokenness unprovoked.
Disclaimer: the girl did state on Twitter they had been dating for a few months and after this are no longer together.
"This guy & I have been talking/seeing each other for a month or so. This wasn’t some long abusive relationship"...."We weren’t even hooking up"...
At what point did she say they were dating for a few months?
Dee M when I heard Adrienne reading the woman’s follow up text, I thought the info of her short dating timeframe and her no longer dating him would be disclosed. It’s like whoever gathered the information skewed in a way that made it more dramatic, as if the woman didn’t realize this guy was a waste of her time, energy, and effort. Which made the ladies chalk her up to “being stupid” and “having low self esteem”.
Apollo Apollo Tf was the point of playing semantics?
This is the fourth clip so far where Jeannie wanted to speak but just cannot.
#TheReal if this continues throughout the season then, you need to learn from this and adjust the sitting arrangement next season.
Damn they shoved Jeannie off to the side, got home girl standing on one leg, at the edge of her seat, leaning on the table AND cutting her off? damn LMAO.
Terrencia Walcott she always sits a certain way depending on what she’s wearing lol
@@MajesticMyronn Maybe I've never noticed that until now, because the table seems so full and not as evenly distributed as before. She still looks so pushed aside though.
Adrienne has talked about how many stupid stuff she’s done for men in her past & she still calls this woman stupid on national tv? Humble yourself. Don’t bring other women down just bc your situation got better.
Amen sis
She is always judgemental and blames the woman IN EVERY SITUATION!
Exactly..people criticize Tamar...listen at her always got to be so animated and LOUD..you can make you point without all of that
she’s the epitome of a pick me. she will always blame the woman and never the man. she’s calling another woman stupid knowing damn well all the shits she done?! the nerve of her. she talks too fucking much for somebody not knowing what’s going on
I agree
Go on Adrienne, I couldn't agree more with her in this segment. The same goes for Tamera a real king would take you out, this guy was just a jerk and like Adrienne said this lady allowed him to treat her with disrespect.
Mandy S Adrienne alwayssssss blames the woman tho, every single time
No this is victim blaming. Whoever came up with that phrase “people only treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Is being unrealistic. Besides level headed people their are harassers, abusers, stealers, rapist. And look at how the blame is shifted on to the victim as if their not being manipulated.
@@amisings3716 ....being in a shitty relationship is not being a victim nor is it on the level pf abuse you just listed. This is a false equivalency. You have to hold yourself to some level of accountability. People choose to put up with nonsense alll the time and not all of them are in abusive situations.
Ami Sings Why are you allowing a man to manipulate you? Use your brain and delete his number.
Should try reading the thread for the actual story and her responses to people. Their version of the story is completely twisted for the sake of views and trying to get an applause from the audience.
I don't like Jeannie on that side she bearly get the chance to speak.
Jeannie glowing on that Jeezy love and I'm here for it!❤
Anybody else thought this was gon be about Beyoncé’s song?
Formation ladiesssssss
fazia ziana YES! 🐝
I thought this was gonna be about her not keeping up her end of the bargain 😂
Kamal Morales definitely did
I was hoping for a reference lol
3:42 “we would do a lot better at not making people feel stupid about not knowing how to love themselves” that was real good! More compassion. She clearly has low self esteem but to put her down for it ain’t the way. It’s not helpful.
Nelly P exactly! I liked Amanda’s take on it. Adrienne calling her stupid isn’t going to help her. It sounds hypocritical to me because at one point they say “us woman gotta stick together” and then say stuff like this. I’m so glad there’s a balance to the show now with Amanda.
Calling her stupid is real tho! No need for her to get offended. Sometimes the truth hurts! You just have to except it, do better, and move on...🤷🏽♀️
She is stupid period
Kay Brown
okay let’s be real we ALL know sticking around and entertaining a guy like that is real dumb. But there’s better ways of confronting someone is all I’m saying 🤷🏻♀️
Kay Brown It’s kind of unnecessary though. It doesn’t make her a stupid person she’s acting like a fool or she’s acting foolish that’s fine to say but to say she’s stupid sounds dismissive asf.
I get the whole “have accountability and not allow someone to treat you like trash.” mentality. BUT I just hate how in these conversations we’re always so quick to blame the woman. YES should have enough self respect and enough self worth not to go out her way for an ungrateful bum.. but why are we spending more time tearing her down and not the actual bum who’s trying to take advantage of this girls kindness and breaking down his character flaws as well????
Keana Yancey True. If a woman said it they would call her all kinds of names -gold digger- esp since he offered to cook which would get them all hot and bothered
John Lima factssss they would’ve let her have it if it were the other way around for sure
I think it's because we know that dudes like this are pathological and even personality disordered. Public shaming and condemning doesn't work on them. They're used to negative attention and it almost never changes their behavior. They can even take pride in being bad people. It feels like the only hope is to tell a woman to protect herself. It's not her fault that he came at her horribly, but dudes like him usually don't change if they are that grimey to begin with.
Was it just me or is Adrienne shouting in this clip? 😂 love her anyway
Poor Jeanie she doesn’t even get to talk. Don’t hate but like move her back where she was cause I listen to her the most and she be like invisible to the others
Deijahna's Daily VLOGS she talks tooo much and uses 1000 words to make a simple point
yep they look disoriented everyone talking over the other , but i guess in time they'll get used to the rythm
Renalebueno that’s Jeannie
@@Renalebueno but she gives the most experienced advice. None of the ladies ever gone through
Yeah I'm tired of Jeanie now and some of her self grandiose of some BS wisdome regurgitated from some guru philosophy book!! Lmao
I want to hear TAMERA TALK NOW!!! Damn right!! 🤣🤣🤣
I feel like there’s too many people trying to talk at once it doesn’t help my anxiety I hope they find a flow cuz dis too much
I dont like how they didnt post ALL of this girls response, and only posted a small part of it. Theyre trying to blame her for a mans actions. ADRIENNE, this thread was posted on TWITTER, not instagram, the girl said THIS WASNT A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP, and this was the first time he did this to her, oh the girl also said he was Homeless, broke and struggling lmaoo
Finally, someone in the comments who actually knows the story. And notice how this has less likes than the other comments jumping on the story they're feeding them.
I think people are holding the woman responsible because she should not be seeking the love of a man that has other priorities. The homeless man has priorities such changing his living situation. Finding love should not be on the radar, he trying to find a meal.
@@mirandaholley9797 Another person who did not get the full story lol. She was not "seeking love" from him, they weren't even in a serious relationship.
@@apolloapollo1028 I mean, why would you get with somebody, then???
@@apolloapollo1028I get that. Why bother going out on a date or making a plate of food to be nice. It is a little contrite( expressing feelings of guilt) to date a homeless man. Why else would she fix him food. She literally could have prepared/ attended a non food date., But because he is homeless she babying him. What else did she expect? Gratitude? It is not a grown woman's Job to fix a homeless male stranger food has a date. How dangerous! He probably knows where she lives.
I loved what Amanda said that we need to stop being so judgemental and calling people stupid as if we are perfect. It does take self respect and confidence like Tamera said to recognise if you're being wronged but it takes each person their own amount of time to see that they are worth more than what certain people are serving them.
Guys is it me or does Adrianne voice sound so loud 🙉
nana blue 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
@@Sali-yw1rd aha now it makes sense
The table is too crowded bruh
Makeup by Desiree C The View has 5 hosts. So what’s the real problem?
@@Squidderrs The view tackles political issues so it has longer segments. This show doesn't..
Makeup by Desiree C right, but i think The Real wants to shift their topics and that’s why they brought Amanda on.
Why y'all not let Jeannie talk. Starting to hate this show
Nobody talks over Adrienne but everyone else talks over each other
@Harkeen15 thats not true. you might not but judging by the comments LOTS of people do
SAli She literally wanted Amanda to finish what she was saying.......that’s what she said.
Well don’t watch it y’all always complaining
taiyona tiare and LOTS of people don’t
So...
Where do we sign a petition to get a rearrangement on the table?
I’d like to see both Jeannie and Adrienne be change out of the sides, since they’re both not getting a lot in the conversation. It feels like Tamera, Loni, and Amanda are the only ones on the table now. Just my opinion.
Adrienne talks the most tho
It started already. The overtalking wth each other....I want back my quad hosts. This will be like Megan McCain. we cannot get rid of her
Amanda THANK YOU SOOOOOOO much for your mature response. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That type of response can reach an audience that might not had a good upbringing, not taught how to love, experienced abuse etc..
Tamera and Adrienne probably should be mindful about the spectrum of their audience and reaching the ones that dont have a support system like they have in their lives.
However, it was good to see this play out because it shows how different mindsets can miss the mark unintentionally.
Like Adrienne says “We’ve all been stupid”
I would have liked to see the two strongest personalities bookend the table: Lonnie and Amanda at the end, Jeannie in the middle for personality.
I agree with this. This is the only comment I've seen say this. But I also remembered a comment saying they wouldn't want Loni on the side because of her size.
@@djm2985 oh, that makes a lot of sense- but it's unfortunate.
DJM why wouldn’t they want her on the side cause of her size? Would it make it look uneven or something? 🤔
@@olliemoee yes, it would
It seems to me that all of them have strong personalities at certain times. Loni and amanda are always strongly assertive. Adriennes entire personality has changed since amanda comes and now she is miss " nyc da bronx". But so is jeannie since dating a rapper and after divorce. I myself think jeannie can be overbearing. Tamera has gotten really assertive after defending her fam all of the time.
Anybody else feel weird they change the seating arrangements
Yes and no. I dont really care bc its just a seat 🤷♀️
Just a little
Noo!
Cmon Ade! Say that! This is NOT the first time he showed her these colors🙄
It is. Why not actually try reading the thread and her responses to people instead of taking in this twisted version of this story they tryna push
Apollo Apollo the girl is embarrassed as all hell. You really think she’s gonna admit that her boyfriend is trash and she takes it on a regular? Absolutely not. If you wanna believed that hey, do you! The rest of us with some common sense see the real.
Glenn CoCo the reason u don’t believe her is bc ur projecting lmfaooo. if the girl says they weren’t in a serious relationship and it was the first time, and u dont believe her then u needs figure out what ur projecting bc there’s no reason not believe her considering none of us were there.
winwin’s elf ear “yOuR pRoJeCtInG” no sweetie. 😂 That thread didn’t come until after she posted the original picture & was publicly humiliated for all to see. Whether or not they were serious, they had been dating for over a month, obviously dating enough for her to cook for him in her home. Asshole encounters like this don’t just fall out of the air. Like I said, believe what you want but the girl isn’t gonna say whats real if it doesn’t benefit her. Especially after the response she got.
There was a whole ass exchange that they didn't show 🙄 I'm tired of this show never telling a FULL story.
Plus they were only DATING and this was the FIRST time.
Can you fill us in sis
@@svideos5754 he sent message after message saying basically the same thing with not a single reply back from her. She wrote a thread explaining they'd been dating about a month, no hooking up, and that she was already backing off from him based off of other things. They literally showed the last two tweets of the thread making it sound like she stayed when it was literally her defending herself from the people making the SAME COMMENTS ADRIENNE IS MAKING
@@svideos5754 and by message after message, 36 messages to be exact
@@lifeastheginger1 I had a feeling because otherwise why else would she had shared her experience with some guy. I see tons of people on twitter sharing their experience once they are out of the relationship, and they share it to others so other women can learn from it. Thanks for explaining, I only watch clips. Lol
I was waiting for someone to say this, the woman said she HAD the money she just didn’t wanna spend it on him bc he has never did anything for her. They weren’t in a relationship
Woman: "That doesn't make me stupid."
Adrienne: *ultimate head swirl of confusion* "I disagree."
Bwahahahahaha!!!!!!! I'm weak!
Adrienne sounds a lil too judgemental sometimes ..
I just didn't like what she said because she been cheated on and had be done to her and she stuck around publicly so
rosa maria sometimes??
😂😂😂 Lol that corner spot something serious huh Jeanie?! 🤷🏾♀️ I’m so glad Tamera can finally be heard now. She has a lot of good input in the conversations.
Y’all talking about Amanda, Adrienne needs to let Jeannie talk too. She’s the one with the most valuable opinion. imo. Or switch Amanda and Jeannie’s seats.
C. Jones I agree with u!
Watched it again and Tamera was cutting Jeannie off too! Nope ✋🏾. They need to learn how to let each person get their opinion out before they give multiple opinions.
SAli it still happened when it was 4 🤷♀️ especially when someone took up a lot of time telling a story or ends up repeating what someone else said but in a more lengthy way. But I agree it’s happening more often now, but I expected it as they work out the new dynamic. I’m sure in time it’ll smooth out
5 is too many. 4 is enough and barely everyone get to say in a topic. Adding one more person just made more unsaid opinions.
SAli Yes, maybe dedicate half/35 mins of the show to girl chat (as long as the topics are good 😬). 5 is too much, when everybody wants to talk over each other.
Thanks Amanda 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 for expressing realness and the reminder about being human. No ones perfect. We dont know her full situation or what type of support group she has around her.
Tam’s face from 2:42-2:49 😂😂😂 she’s like Adrienne calm down
A real king doesn’t need to announce what he is, he shows it to us.
Why doe women always call themselves queens then?
@@maatonne that's what I'm saying
I need to know where Tam got that cozy purple sweater. lol💜
This show is so much better now
I love the way Amanda got in there yes gyal speak! ugh 👏🏾 I’m so glad they listened to the viewers
I agree with Amanda. People don't need to be put down and made to feel stupid when they are trying to get strong and start to love themself.
2:42-2:47 they way Tam is looking at Adrienne! LMAO
Cuz she was yelling😂
I’m cryingggggg
it doesnt matter where jeannie sits when A is yelling her points across and Jeannie was trying to get Amanda to say her point, not to speak.
I love Amanda !!! So glad she joined the cast!!! I love you girls and thank you for brightening my days🦋
“be stupid in private” 😂😂😂 I’m cackling
There is a hidden reason for the seating arrangement 👀. Lol either way this is still my show. 🤷🏽♀️💃🏾💃🏾
let amanda go or give jeannie her own show.
Yess i totally agree with this
Ik! They both have very strong personalities and are very vocal about their opinions. I’m just wondering how this is going to
Hold up together like this.. cuz man the way this thing set up..
why can't the man just take himself to Red Lobster since he wanted it so much and can't appreciate the fact that his wife cooked for him
Like Loni said he must be broke.
Cuz he ain't tryna pay
@Agatha z no they not even together, they dated for a while, but the woman was distancing herself from him already when she tweeted the texts
because her cooking sucks!
S C lmao 😂 so he needs to tell her. That’s what a real king 🤴 does.
Adrienne was with a guy who wouldn't even give her a key for 7 years.. she comes off so judgy in this segment but shoutout to Amanda for bringing it back and making sense of it all. Some people grew up learning to love themselves and others have to grow through hard experiences in life to learn how to love themselves. No point in judging others and bringing them down more.
The girl actually said they weren’t dating. They were talking previously and she had already been trying to distance herself. she offered to get him food because she’s a generous person. They should have read the whole thread.
Taina Nixon see, that would have added too much nuance and let's the be real, having nuanced conversations isn't a strong suit at this table. Let them bite what they are able to chew 😂
I LOVE AMANDA.
I get what Adrienne was saying but it came off sounding very judgmental, wasn't she in a relationship for 5 years and it took 2 to get a key to his house? as she has said herself on the show the relationship she is in now has shown her a better, different kind of love . We all do dumb things for these trifling men LORDT I know I have.
He was dumb also giving somebody a key who you not married too.
Adrienne said we've all been stupid, but don't defend the stupidity, learn from it.
Exactly she was LIVING with him and didn't have a key to get in the house and hung out at coffee shops in the area until he got home.
THAT LAST PART 👏🏽 I knew Amanda would bring me some relief
Ngl at first I wasn’t so thrilled about Amanda joining The Real, but honestly she’s what the show needs. I absolutely love love love the ladies of The Real ❤️, but it feels refreshing to have this different type of vibe she brings to the show. Her take on things are much more relatable and authentic. Hope it stays this way 😌
I’m sorry I don’t like Amanda being there she’s too much let everyone talk
Natalie Macias I feel you... I can take Amanda but Adrienne not so much. I hate when she talks and yell over everyone.
I actually like her point of views. Adrien ne and Loni keeps talking over everyone and it is annoying. I loved Amanda's point here that many people were not taught how to love themselves and while they are learning to do just that people need to be more kind and compassionate (not her exact words)
It wasn’t even Amanda. It was Adriennne but y’all still mad she added so go awf.
@@Lovely_her199 Exactly. Adrienne had the most to say in this segment. She was the one cutting Jeannie off and nearly cut Amanda off, but Amanda kept going until she was heard lol. Idk why folks are blaming her when she's been the one most courteous of allowing folks to speak.
...Adrienne was actually the one cutting everyone off in this segment. You just want an excuse to try and bash Amanda when she literally did nothing wrong here.
I like how Adrienne read those comments 😂😂😂😂
I like how the last lady on the panel says we should approach with the advice in a public forum such as a social media...very wise and compassionate.
Adrienne's makeup omg SO GOOD
I dont like the seating arrangement 😩😩😩😩😩 feels weird and Amanda as a full time host idk she talks too much
First of all we are less than 24 hours from the last show on which all the hosts, including Loni and Tam were in tears talking about how "women need to stop judging one another and the life decisions we make". This is why I pointed out we all do it sometimes and need to not being hypocrites. Including the ladies of The Real.
Secondly, Adrienne said exactly what I was thinking.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 true!!! True true!! I definitely not judging on her!! This is just wrong and Adrienne acted like a right B#*ch!!
Why are we judging HER so harshly and not judging HIM EVEN HARDER!!?? Did you read his comments?!? OMFG!!
That part when A said.... "girl not only are you acting stupid but you let all of us know you stupid". I was weak. I laughed so hard. I love how her Hispanic side rolls of her tongue when she says stupid. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Once Adrienne said YOU LET US KNEW U WERE STUPID I diedddd hahahahaha that part !
We need to elevate as a society. This is sad and unfortunate. I miss the days where certain dating standards were the norm.
We've all done crazy things, for Adrienne to call this women stupid is unnecessary. Adrienne how many broke guys did you treat before you woke up. Just saying.
Bey said, "When f*** me good i take his a** to Red Lobster." So clearly he aint doing his job 😭😭
Adrienne with the Arianna Grande ponytail. Love it. ❤️
i don’t like Amanda on the show but she had a great perspective here.
She’s not with him. Ya’ll shoulda showed all of the pictures
“Pero who? Pero why?” 🤣🤣🤣
“Pero why” 😂, me in life 😂
I’d have just stopped responding after he started talking crazy. 😂 ghost. It’s not that I wouldn’t treat a guy to dinner - but you have to earn it and treat me with respect.
He's not a king. but he does sound like a queen if you catch my drift.
😂
😂😂 I remember reading this tweet. They had only been dating for like a month.
I love Amanda on the show!! Such good content & amazing convos flowing!!
I have a few issues on this.... first all when tamera said “well If he’s a real king he should be the one to take his queen and pay for the meal” .... umm I thought this table was raised to be equal and independent.... and I can understand Tamera saying that because she’s very traditional and as a man I would love to pay for my girl but what’s wrong her paying sometimes too... and this happens to men too like a lot like when a girl want her hair or nails done but you ain’t got money for that... she like guilts you into it... secondly if he’s broke and she’s broke choose like McDonald’s or something and him coming after her like that is wrong but we don’t know what type of relationship they have so we can’t judge them so in all honestly if I were at the table I’d start but saying if my boyfriend talked to me like that I would just discuss with him that hey you know what I don’t have enough maybe when I get paid we can get red lobster
I don't think it's so much what he said but HOW he said. I think I'm an understanding person but would have put my man in his place had he spoken to me the way he did.
The point she was making is that if he wanted it that badly, he should pay for it, rather than pressuring her into it.
James I completely agree with you... but again I’m not one to judge a relationship I’m not sure about if that makes sense.. I get that he was in the wrong for doing that. I certainly wouldn’t act petty like this because I understand the realities of being broke so I’d just eat whatever she made but not gonna lie I’m very picky when it comes to food 😂
Abundance26 yes agreed ... putting a man in his place but not aggressively due to the fact that I’m not one to play games but honestly be the bigger person and straight out say” babe I’m broke right now... can’t go to Red Lobster tonight .... if you have money go right ahead but I’ll be here cooking the meal I can afford “
Gilbert Rodriguez if you want a girl to spend money on you then maybe you want to be the girl coz I believe men should provide for women especially since we earn more and women do the cooking and cleaning
I’m too early for funny comments so I’ma come back later 😂
Jeanie hair grew so fast.....looks so healthy and lush....just beautiful. I love her and loni❣
Tamera’s face was broken the whole clip 😂😂😂😂😂
Pero how? Pero why? Yupppp.
Boy bye! 👋
I ain't got time for egotistical, broke guys.
This show not the same at all since Amanda joined
Whew child I'm sure alot of us have been there but praise the lord for change!! Whew hallelujah! Not going back!
Adrienne Stop screaaaaming!!!
I get it Amanda of course you wanna talk. But I really wonder what was Jeannie was trying to say but never had the chance because of you? 🤔
Ppeach Dj Jeannie said to Amanda, “No, finish what you were saying” before *Adrienne* interrupted again.
False information. That wasn’t her man, it was someone she was talking to....
her man, NOT her man ... dont go b talkin to some1 *that* way
A is not having it! DWL
💀💀💀😂😂😂
The girl did make a point to say they were only dating and not in a relationship...I saw the tweets on twitter myself and she said that she dropped this man. Yall are missing all the info and forming opinions without the whole story
Boy bye! Go on ahead and be the king of the Lobsters without me and with your own coins boo 😘😂🦞👑
Audrey Lisa Muranda 😭😭😭facts
“Pero how pero why”😂
I was never taught how to love myself or to even love myself at all.
I didn't look like ANY of the other girls growing up and I always thought I was fat. I'm Hispanic and I've got the waist/hips and booty to prove it. Lol. But when your a teenager and you look around no one else really looks like you, you begin to think the worst (especially at 13/14 years old).
Now here I am 22 and I LOOOOVE all of me. 😊💜💜
#KnowYourWorth
Adrienne makeup is B E A T , yas💓
He wanted to go to Red Lobster so bad...Was he tryna make her live up to that beyonce lyric....” when he [insert profanity] me good I take his 🍑 to Red lobster? 🤣
You would take me Lol
Adrienne “ I disagree “ 😂😂😂😂
Love the real great show
2:43 Jeannie be sounding like a sexy woody woodpecker lmao she so cute