How To Deal With Haters | Negative People & Bullies Cure

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Let's talk about dealing with; haters, trolls, critics, nay-sayers and negative people in general. I will explain the nature of a typical hater and why you should never waste time on them. First, let me start off with a little analogy:
If you are deposited $86,390 into your bank account and someone steals $10, would you be so upset that you would throw away the remaining $86, 380? Of course not. The small sum of money might not even register on your radar. There are 86,390 seconds in one day, and yet when someone robs you of 10 seconds with their negativity you sacrifice the remaining 86, 380 thinking of them.
Don’t waste your time on haters, doing so will only ruin your happiness. Haters thrive off depriving you of your happiness. They want you to continue the incessant thinking about them. They want you to repeat their comments in your mind ad nauseum.
Why people hate:
People hate out of a sense of inferiority and other deeper-rooted issues. They rely on putting others down to elevate themselves. They criticize and mock to rationalize their circumstances. Haters are often never happy with themselves, so when they see someone who is happy it infuriates them.
Haters will hate you because of what you stand for, they often come along whenever you are trying something new with your life. Haters are like crabs in a bucket, when they see one trying to escape the bucket they will pull it down.
How to deal with haters:
Dealing with haters is a matter of perspective, the way you choose to see them will determine your relationship with them.
When you walk past a house and a dog barks at you, do you get angry and frustrated? Of course not, you understand that a dog will do what a dog is meant to do. How can you get angry at nature?
When a toddler doesn’t get the lollies he wants and tells his mum that he ‘hates’ her, does she have an existential crisis? Never, the mother understands that the toddler hasn’t yet grasped the power of words and doesn’t really hate her.
In both these situations there is a degree of negativity, however, we do not lose sleep over it due to our understanding of the circumstances.
When someone else hates on us, we are hurt mainly because we put too much value in their opinions and haven’t truly understood the context of the dynamic. They are hating because of the level that they are at, not because of you. They are hating from outside the arena, they are not even inside the Colosseum competing.
Remember the old saying?
‘There has never been a statue erected to honor a critic.’
Jean Sibelius
So, don’t take heed of what the haters say. You have your goals, move towards them with the momentum of a freight truck. A hater is just a chicken that happens to be on the tracks (anyone up for some chicken schnitzel?).
Let’s rinse that down with a bottle of hater tears while we are at it. Another comical way to deal with haters is inspired by Stoicism.
“If anyone tells you that a certain person speaks ill of you, do not make excuses about what is said of you but answer, "He was ignorant of my other faults, else he would not have mentioned these alone.”
― Epictetus
Sometimes it’s best to just laugh off at the antics of haters, if you don’t take yourself so seriously, they can’t damage you. They rely on your ego defence, they want to see you frustrated. Look at their antics in the same manner that you would look at kids. You see the kid for what she is, you understand that its natural for the kid to behave in such a manner so you accept it. At the same time, you don’t wish for the kid to remain a kid forever, you know that one day she will grow up. Hope for the haters to grow up as well.
The truth of the matter is people that are happy with themselves and are dominating at life never have time to hate. They are too busy winning.
Remember that you must also learn to discern hate from legitimate criticism. If someone has something constructive to say that will help you ultimately get better, that is not hate, that’s love. Hating involves nothing constructive to work with, and usually pertains ed hominem attacks. Use the ideas discussed here to eradicate it from your life.
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Negative people hate me alot and Never gonna stop messing with me and try my best to get away from Negative people and sometimes i can't, but I got Ways to,

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I care too much what other people think. But really we should care what we think about ourselves way more than what others think. Wish I could always keep this in mind

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Funny thing is that thinking about other peoples opinions is a natural instinct

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