In a RELATIONSHIP and thinking about an EX?! Why you still think about/have "feelings" for your ex!

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  • In a RELATIONSHIP and thinking about an EX?! Why you still think about/have "feelings" for your ex!
    Are you in a relationship and thinking about an ex? Being in a relationship and thinking about an ex is much more common than people like to admit. Everyday I receive comments and messages from viewers admitting/asking things like "I'm in a relationship but I still think about my ex", "I'm in a relationship but miss my ex", and "Why do I still think about my ex even though I'm in a relationship?" Being in a relationship and having feelings for an ex or being in a relationship and being attracted to an ex do not necessarily mean that we actually want to be WITH our ex - which is a very important distinction. Feeling an emotional bond, attraction or attachment to someone from our past is a normal part of the human experience, and it's not always possible to feel complete indifference towards an ex. Rest assured that if you're in a relationship and having feelings for an ex, that this experience does not mean your current relationship is doomed or that you need to get back together with your ex. In this video, I explain what the experience of missing an ex but being in a relationship ACTUALLY means, because it's likely not what it seems! So, If you're wondering what to do when you miss your ex but you're in a relationship or why you still think about your ex even though you've moved on, then this video is for you!
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    I'm Ash Nord, your truth-bombing fairy godmother for everything love, dating and relationships. With so many idealistic, romanticised Hollywood messages about love out there, my mission is to be an honest, unfiltered source of information for individuals and couples seeking honest relationship advice and love lessons. No games, no manipulation tactics, no teachings about how to trick someone into liking you… so, if that’s what you’re looking for, I’m probably not your girl. My content is geared towards those wanting to learn more about REAL intimacy and togetherness with their partners or future partners. I have a psychological focus (I'm a psychology student) and a genuine passion for understanding how humans relate to and connect with one another. If you're into that type of thing, or would simply like to hear personal stories about my own life experiences and romantic relationships, then stick around! I got you.
    DISCLAIMER: Please note everything stated in this video and all videos on my channel are purely my personal opinions and are for entertainment purposes only. I am not a qualified professional and as such my opinions should not be taken as psychological advice.
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  • @bianca4829
    @bianca4829 3 роки тому +67

    I think closure is okay to want. But when you don’t get it, take that as your closure.

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  3 роки тому +4

      I completely agree! ❤️

  • @LDT7Y
    @LDT7Y 2 роки тому +124

    We were objectively perfect together. I don't want to spend my life alone, so I date other men. But they never match up to him so I can't help being reminded of things he did/said. Even though I do my best to block it out of my mind the second it happens. Or I'll have a dream about him, which I can't control (unless I get drunk before bed or something), and wake up crying. I will always love him, but I can't be with him. I'm doing my best to continue with life regardless, but the feelings never go away. I never say anything to the other men and I treat them really well. But it is what it is.

    • @hassansalisu7975
      @hassansalisu7975 2 роки тому

      Dr John can get your ex back with you for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore my 3 year broken relationship by bringing my ex back. Also, Dr. John always keep up with his words. I highly recommend that you seek help from him.

    • @hassansalisu7975
      @hassansalisu7975 2 роки тому

      +2349037866839.

    • @osbonoam
      @osbonoam 2 роки тому

      You've been alpha widowed and are now incapable of a healthy pairbond.

    • @Hmm24567
      @Hmm24567 2 роки тому +1

      Have you moved on this is or still facing?

    • @LDT7Y
      @LDT7Y 2 роки тому +9

      @@Hmm24567 Not really. I take medication now to try and dull my emotions, which has some effect. But my life pretty much stalled after I walked away and I haven't worked out how to heal from it yet.

  • @pratikshasingh5242
    @pratikshasingh5242 3 роки тому +59

    This video cleared the difference between... 'missing an ex and wanting to be with him'
    Thank u very much Ash ♥️

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  3 роки тому +3

      I’m so happy it was able to provide some clarity for you ❤️ it’s certainly an important distinction to understand. You’re very welcome!! 😊

    • @anijames7232
      @anijames7232 3 роки тому

      +:2:3:4:9:1:5:4:6:6:1:7:3:6 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here 🙏❤️....

  • @martygonzales615
    @martygonzales615 2 роки тому +18

    Omygosh. I just wanna say thank you.. This video made me realize that it’s okay to miss your ex, but not necessarily mean that you want to be with them. I love this new guy, but my ex definitely has a piece of my heart forever…. But I will not let it ruin the one I have now. Thank you… 😢🙏

  • @markking392
    @markking392 Рік тому +13

    It sounds sad. I've been married and divorce and had many relationships over 32 years. But still think of my first love.

    • @markking392
      @markking392 Рік тому

      I sometimes think sometimes lifes a living hell.

    • @alexanderg8466
      @alexanderg8466 Рік тому +2

      "I've been married and divorce and had many relationships over 32 years"
      That explains it all.. lol. At least you found this channel.

  • @dumbtxh7174
    @dumbtxh7174 Рік тому +4

    I’ve healed tremendously from my breakup and it’s nice hearing your words because this is exactly what I went through. Thank you for helping me know my feelings are normal. It heals the pain I had months ago

  • @yasmineamrouchi4978
    @yasmineamrouchi4978 2 роки тому +57

    I was madly in love with someone, we were friends for 5y and we dated a while , he was treating me bad , lying and cheating. But God know how much I loved him , now I am with someone who's better who loves me respect me and trying to give me all I deserve. What's sad is that I am thinking about my ex I am thinking that I miss him and I feel bad we end up that way ... i don't really know what to do🥺

    • @ozekhomheabigail8499
      @ozekhomheabigail8499 2 роки тому +2

      Hello, I recommended you to Dr Olowo ,he was the one who helped me restore my 3 years broken relationship,he can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. Also,Dr Olowo always keep to his promise. I will advice you seek his help thank you √√√

    • @classicthreadfabrics6563
      @classicthreadfabrics6563 2 роки тому +2

      Now are u ok .?

    • @yasmineamrouchi4978
      @yasmineamrouchi4978 2 роки тому +8

      @@classicthreadfabrics6563 I ended my attachments with both of them, still thinking about the first ex but I'm moving on and the right one will come in the right moment. Yes I'm pretty good thank you for caring, stranger!

    • @pukhtoonzNYC
      @pukhtoonzNYC 2 роки тому +1

      Do you wana be with him tho

    • @ih9741
      @ih9741 Рік тому

      I hope your doing well. Do you believe You’ll always love & care about your first ex no matter how much time passes.

  • @tawan.nuttikan
    @tawan.nuttikan 3 роки тому +45

    It's like u know we need this rn, thank you so much

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  3 роки тому +3

      Aww, I do my best to read my comments and see what you guys are needing/asking for 😊❤️ you’re so welcome!! Thanks for watching 🥰

    • @tawan.nuttikan
      @tawan.nuttikan 2 роки тому

      @@ozekhomheabigail8499 thank u. ashley nord 's channel is so helpful. I have no idea how many time she encourages me to love myself more. I really recommend u to watch her vids(she's a pretty cool person, my savior 🥺😭)

  • @tanubohra2308
    @tanubohra2308 2 роки тому +2

    I cannot and i mean this i cannot thank you enough
    You are a blessing 💛

  • @marlenemercedes
    @marlenemercedes 2 роки тому +13

    I loved the comparison with the rules within a relationship! But I guess there is still the anxiety that thinking about someone could still mean love.

    • @Nyc99
      @Nyc99 Рік тому

      The way he moved on and is not hyper focused on me make him so much more of a man to me , like i compared him to one horrible one....like i still dont know how does real good man act around me....

  • @DL-vibes
    @DL-vibes 3 роки тому +23

    I hope I don’t think of ex when I’m ready for a new person. It’s been so tough.

  • @kritikan35
    @kritikan35 2 роки тому

    Thankyou For addressing these important topics both on Ex and an ex best friend 🙏🏼

  • @nocaptainmatt3771
    @nocaptainmatt3771 Рік тому +2

    Suffering with this right now, i just dont wanna feel like this anymore man

  • @jenniferpark8922
    @jenniferpark8922 2 роки тому +1

    This is such a helpful video. Thank you. It is exactly what I needed to hear.

  • @Rebecca.asian.jew_erly.
    @Rebecca.asian.jew_erly. Рік тому +1

    Your video is a pure relief 🙏💕 thank you so much!!💗

  • @davemc162
    @davemc162 2 роки тому

    Exceptionally helpful. ❤️

  • @MsJazz219
    @MsJazz219 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this , I wish I saw this years sooner

  • @dailybobo550
    @dailybobo550 3 роки тому +16

    This video came at the perfect time for me and I just want to thank you so so much. Thank you for helping me understand my thoughts as I continue my journey in healing. Sending you lots of love Ashley~!💖

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  3 роки тому +1

      I’m so happy it came at the right time for you! 😊🙌🏼 you’re so welcome, I’m so pleased to hear that you have found my videos helpful and meaningful. Sending you lots of love right back!! ❤️

    • @anijames7232
      @anijames7232 3 роки тому

      +:2:3:4:9:1:5:4:6:6:1:7:3:6 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here 🙏❤️..

    • @ozekhomheabigail8499
      @ozekhomheabigail8499 2 роки тому

      Hello, I recommended you to Dr Olowo ,he was the one who helped me restore my 3 years broken relationship,he can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. Also,Dr Olowo always keep to his promise. I will advice you seek his help thank you √√√

  • @DL-vibes
    @DL-vibes 3 роки тому +3

    Your advice is really easy to understand. Thank you. Really. 🙏🏽

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  3 роки тому

      I’m so happy to hear that! You’re very welcome ❤️❤️

  • @skyeogilvie2675
    @skyeogilvie2675 3 роки тому +4

    Yes pleaseee do a video on getting closure! Its something ive been struggling with for months ❤

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely! Will certainly cover this one soon 😊❤️

    • @ozekhomheabigail8499
      @ozekhomheabigail8499 2 роки тому

      Hello, I recommended you to Dr Olowo ,he was the one who helped me restore my 3 years broken relationship,he can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. Also,Dr Olowo always keep to his promise. I will advice you seek his help thank you √√√

  • @barricade1391
    @barricade1391 2 роки тому +3

    As the ex I can’t help but feel it’s just a way of keeping me as a backup plan
    I am not a second option

  • @jerro94880
    @jerro94880 2 роки тому

    Love your video's! Thank you for making them :-)

  • @helmutschillinger3140
    @helmutschillinger3140 3 роки тому

    I can evolve more and better now, emotionally, intellectually and artistically since I am without a human relationship. I relate to a lot of people as a friend, a teacher etc. my last marriage of 12 years and relationship of 20 years has only stifled me. I am very creative and intellectually active.

  • @angelajia3800
    @angelajia3800 2 роки тому +6

    My bf had a marriage and a kid with his ex. She is an important part of his past and in some ways, formed the way he is today (a wonderful man). I’m sure, although he doesn’t tell me so, at certain times, he thinks about his ex. But that’s okay and non threatening because 1, He is in love with me and committed to our relationship. 2, he doesn’t want her back and she doesn’t want him back. They both moved on. 3, I’m a much better match for him than her and he knows it. He is a logical man; he will choose “us” for certain.

    • @lelo46
      @lelo46 8 місяців тому +1

      If you’re that secure and really believe what you wrote, in real life, I couldn’t imagine why you’d watch this video, or let alone type out a whole comment.
      I think you should dissect what you wrote maybe you don’t actually believe that. Maybe you subconsciously know he loves and desires his ex.

  • @HHH-ye1ro
    @HHH-ye1ro Рік тому +4

    Periodically, I have to make a list of all the ways we were incompatible, and the bad things she did to me and my children. That helps me clear my mind of the good times, and remind me why I am better off without her. She is the next person’s problem.

    • @arinzejoy9210
      @arinzejoy9210 Рік тому

      Hello friends are you trying to attract or manifest love? to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting

    • @arinzejoy9210
      @arinzejoy9210 Рік тому

      Believe me he's going to restore your broken relationship back successfully.💔👆

  • @mrcraveman3781
    @mrcraveman3781 2 роки тому

    Thank you for making this video

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  2 роки тому

      You’re so welcome!! Thank you for watching ❤️🙏🏼

  • @greengrugach1984
    @greengrugach1984 Рік тому +8

    The ghost of your past is just that, a ghost, it will haunt you but it is a gift, heartbreak is a gift even if it does not feel like one, you see their face in your head right now but it's not really them you miss, it is time you miss, all the moments that make life wonderful and life is beautiful yet we all know at times it can be horrific but use your ghost to treat the true love of your life better, to be better, I think of a girl that haunts me still yet I've moved on and met the great love of my life and we are married with children, I would not change anything if I could, let your ghost stay with you as a lesson but don't let them be an anchor for you moving forward, your ex is not the same person you remember now and you remember all the good moments, it is a strange thing to be haunted by them but it is normal, you loved them and love is also beautiful, they left a scar on you and if they did that to you then you left one on them, we can only hope they are fond ones, at its core you are haunting yourself, use it and let go, just let go, the true great love of your life will come eventually and you will know it because you are with them the rest of your days, I do not want to be with Michelle again, I love her still but not like I love my wife, you will hurt for a long time and my words will most likely give you no comfort as I cannot articulate it properly, and for that I am so very sorry for my shortcomings here, let the ghost walk with you as a lesson and be better, I wish you all well, all the best from Ireland 🇮🇪

  • @angellofecunda3325
    @angellofecunda3325 3 роки тому

    loved this video by the way :))

  • @aishwaryaramganesh1875
    @aishwaryaramganesh1875 2 роки тому +10

    I feel so much better hearing to you I am in a really happy relationship and I suddenly dreamt about my ex and it's haunting me cause too much of memories keep springing up not like I want to get back with my ex and no feelings towards him but I just suddenly was reminded of him 🥺🤣😂🙃🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @TheDevilsBride_
    @TheDevilsBride_ Рік тому +1

    You should do a “Should You Go Back With a Cheating Ex You Still Love?” Video

  • @robpz448
    @robpz448 Рік тому +5

    "They are ex's for a reason." What a startling revelation. Thanks everybody!

    • @brunoaraujo2869
      @brunoaraujo2869 Рік тому +2

      They're ex's for a reason, which sometimes can be "he broke up with you, but you still love him, but because you feel needy, you get involved with someone else while you still struggle with your ex in your mind".

  • @RomyElizabeth
    @RomyElizabeth 3 роки тому +2

    This has never happened to me, but it's interesting to hear about it. :)

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  3 роки тому

      I’m happy you found it interesting! It’s certainly not something all of us are faced with, but I wish those who did felt more comfortable and safe talking about it ❤️

  • @vgamer8300
    @vgamer8300 Рік тому

    Very helpful😁

  • @lightskin._.baddie0328
    @lightskin._.baddie0328 Рік тому +3

    i love my boyfriend so much and i dont wanna leave him i iust dont know why i started thinking about my ex all over again i dont miss them nor want them back they made me feel awful they basically raped me and treated me like shit and was toxic super fuckjng toxic i dont want them back im fighting for my life to stop thinking about them i dont love them there was nun good i love my new boyfriend and itll make me cry if j hurt him

  • @user-vt2vv9ny7u
    @user-vt2vv9ny7u 2 роки тому +3

    I don’t want to be with her but everytime she texts she makes me angry and also I think she has an emotional hold on me that gives me flashbacks

  • @sarahep5702
    @sarahep5702 3 роки тому

    Thank you ❤️😭🥺

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  3 роки тому

      You’re so welcome ❤️❤️

  • @mypianomypassion1254
    @mypianomypassion1254 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much

  • @52.riabanerjee43
    @52.riabanerjee43 3 роки тому

    After a very long time I have heard such a great content on this topic... The point where you read out the article regarding stereotyped thought regarding dreams and interpretation, could not have been more true..
    I loved your content .. and could connect so very much... Lots of love...

    • @ozekhomheabigail8499
      @ozekhomheabigail8499 2 роки тому

      Hello, I recommended you to Dr Olowo ,he was the one who helped me restore my 3 years broken relationship,he can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. Also,Dr Olowo always keep to his promise. I will advice you seek his help thank you √√√

  • @Sarah-jq5so
    @Sarah-jq5so 2 роки тому

    When I broke up with a certain ex of mine, I decided to stop eating. I didn't have an eating disorder to start with, but I was deciding to starve myself, because I wanted to not live without him. In the end, I had to tell the ex, because I was only going to get worse if I didn't try to at least be honest with him and tell him that I still have feelings for him, and that I care about him a lot. This certain ex boyfriend is one of a kind. He has such a lovely personality, and I really regretted dumping him when I did. I needed to talk it out with him for my own sake. I didn't want to feel awkward around him, as I live in the same building as him, and I'd stopped wanting to come home, because of him living in the same place as me. It's not as simple as "Just find somewhere else to live", as our living situation is far more complex than people realize.

  • @Lunamere
    @Lunamere Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @llumanadii
    @llumanadii 2 роки тому +5

    I was with my ex for 7 years. It was a toxic and abusive relationship. Both of us feeding off each others anger... then he left me to live somewhere else. I had no where to go so I moved out of state. Shortly after, I found my current partner (and he is the most amazing person I could have ever met). I've been with my partner for the past 2 years. Me and my ex talked things over and are now good friends, but I catch myself missing him so much even though I know I'm in a way better place then I was when I was with him. After watching this, I think what my heart needs is closure. The breakup was so messy and it feels like a huge gash in my stomach. We haven't seen each other for 2 years and we broke up over the phone so there is always this lingering sadness when I think about him... even though we both moved on..

  • @karinafernandez5602
    @karinafernandez5602 Рік тому +3

    Ok me and the father in my two boys split it’s been a year now. It ended sooo bad . let’s just say it was a toxic emotional roller coaster and was getting to the point of physical. I’m dating this guy sooo healthy to the point I’m not that into it but I stay cause I like him and I’m trying something different and cause it good for me and the kids. I like him a lot I get all soft and heart in my eyes for him . Everyone that sees tells him she’s never been like that before. But then everytime I get a text from my kids dad it’s like oh yea him I forgot about my old life and it makes me sooooo sad I think of all the good times and the fun funny times and start to withdraw from the new guy. And I’m like nooooo and then I have to build those feelings back again. Their dad has moved on and even got this girl pregnant quickly. I just can’t stop thinking about the good times and I miss him and how he use to make me laugh but he can’t switch he wasn’t all good either he was a manipulator . I’m just having trouble letting go of ten years of my life!!!

    • @Jessicabakesandmakes
      @Jessicabakesandmakes Рік тому

      I’m in the exact same mind space. Missing that old life. I’m in a healthy loving relationship but I wonder if I’ll ever be able to fully able to just feel happy and enjoy my new life. Those same things you said about withdrawing and then having to build up again. I’m so emotionally tired xx

  • @orlandomontes78
    @orlandomontes78 Рік тому

    I feel that you are like my current wife, were it seems she still have feeling for her ex even when he was bad to her and also cheated. Every time I said something about him, she gets so defensive and put him first over me. I always tell her that I wish one day she will defend me just like she defend him. I asked, because I was curious, why she used to use his last name or part of it for every login or password but she only uses my last name initial? She got so mad. After 4 years separated, 2 years divorced and one year with me, she still have some social media with his last name. Am I wrong here???????

  • @helmutschillinger3140
    @helmutschillinger3140 3 роки тому

    To be honest I truly long for meeting someone who does not live in this world (impossible), on this planet, or is part of this humanity. I have met them in my dreams, humans are not worth the effort. But I am here, and therefore I help others whenever I can. I am here to learn, and then it’s over.

    • @nevad.jensen2800
      @nevad.jensen2800 3 роки тому

      getting your lover back shouldn't be a problem I got my ex back with the help of Mr osekhametalor

    • @nevad.jensen2800
      @nevad.jensen2800 3 роки тому

      +2349074189361

    • @nevad.jensen2800
      @nevad.jensen2800 3 роки тому

      Whstapp him

    • @anijames7232
      @anijames7232 3 роки тому

      +:2:3:4:9:1:5:4:6:6:1:7:3:6 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here 🙏❤️..

  • @arianagallegos4090
    @arianagallegos4090 2 роки тому +1

    Thabk you so much

    • @hassansalisu7975
      @hassansalisu7975 2 роки тому

      +2349037866839.

    • @hassansalisu7975
      @hassansalisu7975 2 роки тому

      Dr John can get your ex back with you for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore my 3 year broken relationship by bringing my ex back. Also, Dr. John always keep up with his words. I highly recommend that you seek help from him.

  • @Trex7124
    @Trex7124 2 роки тому

    Things were great. But then I was blindsided. For 2.5 months he pretended he was ok with a diagnosis. All I can feel is hurt and anger. I could never say something nice long term without an insult. I have moved on into a casual relationship, Im free to do as I please but the last relationship still hurts. (Actually, 2 men that I feel respect me enough to tell me the truth straight up. I can honour that) The bit that hurts the most... "we would still be together if you didnt tell me". (The strategy was to say the diagnosis on the first date.. have the weaker ones walk away and not go on a second date.. I guess that blew up in my face)
    My last insult was that his words of friendship were as shallow as his need to incessantly talk... which by the way... if he'd just shut up... we would be on good terms.
    He knew me, things were going great, no issue. I thought I could trust him.. then he pulled that number out of the blue. There are times now that I doubt myself to be an honourable person because Im so angry at 1 person's lie.

  • @patmosfitness
    @patmosfitness 3 роки тому

    Ash, your teachings are amazing.
    Question pls. Is it right to text an ex who dumped and didn't care about you, a happy birthday?

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  3 роки тому +6

      Why would you want to wish a happy birthday to someone you feel doesn’t care about you?

    • @patmosfitness
      @patmosfitness 3 роки тому

      @@AshleyNord Exactly what I thought. I didn't do it. Before then, she chatted me up arrogantly, but, I ignored her. She doesn't worth my energy anymore.

    • @nevad.jensen2800
      @nevad.jensen2800 3 роки тому

      @@patmosfitness
      getting your lover back shouldn't be a problem I got my ex back with the help of Mr osekhametalor

    • @nevad.jensen2800
      @nevad.jensen2800 3 роки тому

      @@patmosfitness
      Whstapp him

    • @nevad.jensen2800
      @nevad.jensen2800 3 роки тому

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  • @shawtywrld
    @shawtywrld 2 роки тому +5

    I still have feelings for my ex this whole time i’m talking to someone rn but i cant still get over him I tried doing something so i can move on but it wont work at all

    • @alvinbella6545
      @alvinbella6545 2 роки тому

      I can connect you to a harmless and powerful lady who can help you get him back he helped me and I strongly believe she can help you 😍

    • @alvinbella6545
      @alvinbella6545 2 роки тому

      +239043578423⏯⏯❤

    • @alvinbella6545
      @alvinbella6545 2 роки тому

      What's >app her ⏯⏯⏯

    • @nocaptainmatt3771
      @nocaptainmatt3771 Рік тому

      My same problem, it sucks and I don't want to feel like this anymore - I went as far as trying to recreate my ex through chat gpt, obviously didn't work, that's how bad it is

  • @raggasoca
    @raggasoca Рік тому

    No closure with my Borderline ex has me like this.

  • @Regal_man
    @Regal_man Рік тому

    For me it about memory that time I spend with my family my ex

  • @stephenespinoza3422
    @stephenespinoza3422 2 роки тому

    Why would you send memories to your ex and have a child with them of your ex/bd of memories of your child while she’s in a relationship? I told her to stop months ago, but every so often do it while she’s in a relationship. Why would women do that, when I just want space and not cross boundaries.

  • @lightskin._.baddie0328
    @lightskin._.baddie0328 Рік тому

    my ex and i dated for over a month and he left me horribly lied and cheated on me i want him back outta my head where he was ...... he kept coming around my life my now bf new before he got with me and a month after we cut eachother off my bf got with me n i accepted him he knows how it is :( i cant stop thinking of my toxic ex its been happening a lot i dont want thrm back i dont miss them and it would be terrible to go back bro. i dont needa put myself through that he treated me poorly and my new man treats me good as hell🥺❤️

  • @JN19_23
    @JN19_23 2 роки тому +2

    I have an obsession problem with my ex and I'm not having it

    • @JN19_23
      @JN19_23 2 роки тому

      @Hawa mohammed my ex especially the one that I'm talking about currently he is the absolute worst, he does not like me every time I would try to talk to him he would just either block me or he would say very rude and mean things to me. Trust me he wouldn't want to talk to me I've tried every single time I've gotten blocked, I'm starting to realize that he's just not worth my time and it's taking me 4 years to realize this I'm not going to deal with them anymore I'm done watching videos about why I still have feelings about my ex and why I do this and why I do that with my ex it's just it's seriously so overwhelming so I have given up on even trying anymore but thank you anyways

  • @einarreriksson4598
    @einarreriksson4598 Рік тому

    Mine is hardly an ex but a girl I dated. She was the girl next door, bring home to mom type. I would have kept her all the way to the altar if given the chance. But I set the wheels in motion to go to the Air Force right before we met. We dated and then it all lead to "the Dance." I brought her to our high school dance where we slow danced together. I held her in my arms and everything was going beyond my dreams. I remember the moment when I let my feeling go. I thought I'm going to have the girlfriend that I wanted. Then it came crashing down. She had an interest in someone else. Now, there was another girl at that dance where I could have done the same thing to her but chose not to. I was told by her friend that it was my upcoming military service that ruined it. Looking back, I wouldn't change anything. I have great memories of the people I met and the things I have done. I am married with two beautiful girls. Due to her brother, I have run into her a few times since. She once asked my friend about me when I was in England.

    • @einarreriksson4598
      @einarreriksson4598 Рік тому

      She is on my Facebook friends list. She is getting chemo for cancer which brings the memories up. I wrote her to wish her and her family all the best.

    • @einarreriksson4598
      @einarreriksson4598 Рік тому

      I found an error in my grammar which I just edited. I wrote married to two beautiful girls and I meant married WITH. Like I have not that I am into polygamy.

  • @andrewbouyea6629
    @andrewbouyea6629 Рік тому +3

    I'm currently in a happy loving relationship with a partner who loves me and wants nothing from me but love. I can't shake the idea that I miss my ex who actually also misses me. Back story we were together for 14 months and yes there was a bunch of drama but there was a great happiness too. Two weeks after breakup I was in a new relationship with current partner and she a great woman. I don't want to hurt her but I do feel so guilty because I do want my ex back and I do love my current partner. I don't know what to do please help...

    • @robpz448
      @robpz448 Рік тому +6

      How about you stay by yourself for a while and focus on you ?

    • @brunoaraujo2869
      @brunoaraujo2869 Рік тому +5

      I don't know how you are today, but maybe you don't love your girlfriend. You love be in company of someone else. How do you expect to be ok dating someone two weeks after breaking up with your ex? You're just cheating on yourself.

    • @andrewbouyea6629
      @andrewbouyea6629 Рік тому +1

      Thanks guys that's insightful and we wound up taking a break so I could do just that

    • @lightskin._.baddie0328
      @lightskin._.baddie0328 Рік тому +1

      update?

    • @lightskin._.baddie0328
      @lightskin._.baddie0328 Рік тому

      @@andrewbouyea6629 update

  • @maliainman8930
    @maliainman8930 2 роки тому

    Where’s the Billie eilish fans

  • @badasscop4459
    @badasscop4459 Рік тому

    I miss my family unit, buy I know that I was not happy.

  • @bigdeneen
    @bigdeneen Рік тому +2

    They are ex’s for a reason. They not your person.

  • @ikeibe452
    @ikeibe452 2 роки тому

    Im in love with you Ashley.

  • @lucyjhon8255
    @lucyjhon8255 Рік тому +2

    I miss the sex in my last relationship

  • @brielleanyez7113
    @brielleanyez7113 Рік тому

    I still love my ex. if you see this Jake please come find me.

  • @IncredibleMay
    @IncredibleMay 3 роки тому +1

    I still have feelings for my ex ..but I thought I'm over him and dated a guy... But I don't love this guy... I feel like hell right now... 🥺 Some suggestions plz .. my ex is still unsure about me ...

    • @anijames7232
      @anijames7232 3 роки тому

      +:2:3:4:9:1:5:4:6:6:1:7:3:6 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here 🙏❤️..

    • @nevad.jensen2800
      @nevad.jensen2800 3 роки тому

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @nevad.jensen2800
      @nevad.jensen2800 3 роки тому

      Whstapp me

    • @nevad.jensen2800
      @nevad.jensen2800 3 роки тому

      +1 9-7-2 5 3 4-8 3 9 9

    • @shwetabajpai4431
      @shwetabajpai4431 2 роки тому +2

      Be single.... Be with u I know it's hard but being single is far better than make ur life hell.... Be happy wait for the right person... Sorry for my poor English.. Lol

  • @angellofecunda3325
    @angellofecunda3325 3 роки тому

    how you can get closure without your ex video plsssssss (L)

    • @anijames7232
      @anijames7232 3 роки тому

      +:2:3:4:9:1:5:4:6:6:1:7:3:6 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here 🙏❤️..

  • @fitafries7274
    @fitafries7274 3 роки тому +3

    My ex contacts me once a month to keep wanting to connect with me saying he keeps thinking bout me when he already has a gf 😏 I just ignore him.

  • @ccuurraaccuurraa1831
    @ccuurraaccuurraa1831 2 роки тому +2

    I’m a guy should I even be watching this like I’m going through the same shit women do?

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  2 роки тому +4

      Of course! Male or female - we all go through heartbreak ❤️ about 45% of my audience is actually male, so you’re far from alone here!

  • @akisgaming2892
    @akisgaming2892 2 роки тому

    I have a question can u plz solve for me💔😊....while in a relationship...if a girl think about their ex. then does she still have a feelings for him? Sometimes i feel like she still have feelings for him💔😃n somtimes i feel like i will just end up from here😃💔... Even though everyone is not same but just i want ur opinion 😃💔 ..

    • @brii2027
      @brii2027 Рік тому

      No just because she thinks about that person doesn’t mean she still have feelings for him. It’s the memories that they had together that brings back them thinking about that person. Don’t be mad at her for thinking about that same person because she’s obviously not moved on but she’s t trying to by being with you but the memories keeps on coming back.

    • @hasnaadoblali3134
      @hasnaadoblali3134 6 місяців тому

      Have the same question to u, when asking my actual bf about his ex and when did he realise he stopped loving her, he said: « we don’t stop loving people » and somehow that hurted me, then i asked him: « so u still love her u just can’t be with her anymore » he left me on read, with a heartache! Will u have an explanation for me?thanks

  • @helmutschillinger3140
    @helmutschillinger3140 3 роки тому +2

    What if I really don’t want a relationship anymore? At this point I only trust my dog. Plus I am older, have severe prostate problems and don’t need or want any one for sex. But to make an effort to be in a relationship with a human may be overrated. Human relationships are basically dishonest affairs. One often takes advantage of the other. In old age I discovered how shitty some of my exes truly were, and how long I stupidly put them in a pedestal, even gave them the benefit of the doubt.

    • @anijames7232
      @anijames7232 3 роки тому

      +:2:3:4:9:1:5:4:6:6:1:7:3:6 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here 🙏❤️..

  • @michaelsimmons8450
    @michaelsimmons8450 Рік тому

    This is why men like younger, less experienced women. Because most women have a dude they still pine for.

    • @AshleyNord
      @AshleyNord  Рік тому +1

      My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me - and happy to confirm there is no else I pine for 😁

    • @michaelsimmons8450
      @michaelsimmons8450 Рік тому

      @@AshleyNord Sounds like you arent most women. I hope you guys have an amazing relationship for years to come :)

  • @gregclark9733
    @gregclark9733 2 роки тому

    Naw if a ex move on dont try to come back asking to.meet up some where naw for what u have a man tell him to come with u to meet up with me then cus I'll think u being sneaky

  • @DuncanSanfando
    @DuncanSanfando 2 роки тому +2

    Wrong! You’ve given your body to that ex and had sex however many times that means that there is a connection and you will always carry it, internally women connect deeply with sexual partners and they always carry them all of them with them, especially when it ends without closure and that’s not a social norm thing that is biological and simply how you are made! Sex for males are not the same for sex for females! It is why when a female has too many partners it ruins her emotionally and makes it almost difficult to have LTRs, for men, it’s physical so they can just have sec with you and shake your hand they next day and carry on with their day like it never happened! Please stop destroying women, stop telling them that it’s okay to carry feelings while still trying to love and be with someone else, it is the very reason that relationships aren’t what they issued to be, and when poked by psychological pros(docs) women tell that to be in a LTR after many partners they have to kill a part of themselves accept where they are in life because the LTR is their dream and end goal for their life but ALL the men that had her is something she carry’s with her…….not in the front of her mind but internally and that’s seen every time a woman sees an ex and he moved on it is somehow awkward even after many years, anyone man that has 2eyes can look at her reaction and tell……I know women don’t want to hear or believe this but it’s just FACTS, not social norms! Minimize your sexual partners and you’ll have more of a deeper, emotional, in love connection with your LTR! Women are their own enemies in coming to this reality so they choose to sabotage their own happiness and depth of connection with a spouse! But, no worries…….keep the divorce rate soaring!

    • @Lillie345
      @Lillie345 2 роки тому +1

      I never had sex with my ex.. And I still miss him, sex isn't everything you know. Loving there personality and how they are also affects you. Not just what pleases you.

    • @DuncanSanfando
      @DuncanSanfando 2 роки тому +1

      @@Lillie345 thank you for making my point! You didn’t have sex with the person and it bothered you…..far more of you did have sex with them. Sex is not a sport, it was created to bond a husband and a wife not a boyfriend and girlfriend but no worries, look at divorce rates and lack of LTRs also, look at women’s happiness, lowest in history, but you know what you are doing……keep doing it! BTW, somehow females seem to think that 1exception to the rules somehow negates the rules, NOPE! They end up locking down a simp/beta so they are provided for and they drink themselves into a oblivion hugging their dogs and cats on the way down……..sounds like a wonderful way to live the only life you’ll ever live.

  • @luisreyes9177
    @luisreyes9177 2 роки тому

    Everything reminds me of her, it sucks.

  • @lazyles875
    @lazyles875 2 роки тому +1

    Nope
    What's wrong with these girls honestky

  • @helmutschillinger3140
    @helmutschillinger3140 3 роки тому

    I don’t know why you make those videos, what drives you? I wonder.

  • @goldie0077
    @goldie0077 3 роки тому +7

    Life is way too short to be thinking of someone you’re “over”
    Grow up , pick up the phone and reach out
    Love is complicated , don’t use youtube to address your issues 🙏

    • @anijames7232
      @anijames7232 3 роки тому

      +:2:3:4:9:1:5:4:6:6:1:7:3:6 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here 🙏❤️..

  • @theseattlegreen1871
    @theseattlegreen1871 2 роки тому +1

    Women are fishy 🐟🐟🐟

    • @brii2027
      @brii2027 Рік тому

      So is your mother!!

  • @silviamengozzi4918
    @silviamengozzi4918 2 роки тому +1

    how to send this to him without sending this to him 🥲 he left me bc he's still thinking about his ex 🥲

    • @hera_139
      @hera_139 3 місяці тому

      Hw r u feeling now? I hope u r ok