15 moments that will test your patience in 'Mrs America' - BBC

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  • @ArtemisScribe
    @ArtemisScribe 4 роки тому +990

    The absolute audacity of the BBC having a video about casual sexism that includes clips about equal pay when only last year one of their own news anchors had to sue them for equal pay!

    • @Rem_NL
      @Rem_NL 4 роки тому +38

      BBC has racist hiring practices too, they even display it openly like they havent got a clue

    • @RealFarknMcCoy
      @RealFarknMcCoy 4 роки тому +19

      So, they aren't allowed to show a dramatization of historical issues if the issues still exist?? How does that work, exactly? No shows about sexism, racism, poverty, homelessness..... Boy, things are gonna get pretty dull.

    • @ArtemisScribe
      @ArtemisScribe 4 роки тому +31

      @@RealFarknMcCoy of course they're allowed to show it. But I'm allowed to point out their own casual sexism on their casual sexism video. I mean come on, it's pretty hilarious that they did this.

    • @sudhirchandra9790
      @sudhirchandra9790 4 роки тому +5

      The message doesn't get diluted or insignificant just because the messenger didn't itself follower that message

    • @WhichDoctor1
      @WhichDoctor1 4 роки тому +15

      The BBC is not a monolith, the executives controlling pay and hiring aren’t the same people producing programming or running their UA-cam channel. If you worked in an organisation with institutionalised sexism wouldn’t you want to use the money and influence of that organisation to champion equality?

  • @maddiejones1857
    @maddiejones1857 4 роки тому +417

    My grandmother is currently 93 and obtained a degree in chemistry. She remains one of the smartest women I know. Unfortunately she was not able to get a job in her field because she was a woman. She taught school for many years. I’m sure that she touched many young lives but being prevented for doing what she truly loved because of her gender....that’s a lesson that has stayed with me.

    • @Silvercentipede
      @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +7

      This needs 1000 likes

    • @andyjulia
      @andyjulia 4 роки тому +8

      That’s a damn shame.

    • @Reach41
      @Reach41 2 роки тому +4

      She got her degree just about the time WWII broke out, when men were sent to battle and women took their places in industry. It’s a shame they bypassed her.

    • @Narbyful
      @Narbyful 4 місяці тому

      @@Silvercentipede Working on it by adding mine. I very much agree.

  • @Sarahle3
    @Sarahle3 4 роки тому +587

    Some of these examples were not "casual" sexism, they were explicit, aggressive sexism.

    • @nataliaklaudia8790
      @nataliaklaudia8790 4 роки тому +15

      They were aggressively sexist in casual situations, the title is correct

    • @ludoludo80
      @ludoludo80 4 роки тому +2

      I think it’s because at the time was considerate casual ...

    • @chelsealove4452
      @chelsealove4452 3 роки тому +3

      @@nataliaklaudia8790 there is nothing sexist about it women do certain things and men do other things

    • @nataliaklaudia8790
      @nataliaklaudia8790 3 роки тому +4

      @@chelsealove4452 read the room hon

    • @chelsealove4452
      @chelsealove4452 3 роки тому +4

      @@nataliaklaudia8790 get out of your emotions hun

  • @AGL01772
    @AGL01772 4 роки тому +250

    Some of this sexism is hardly "casual."

    • @OnTheLooseGoose
      @OnTheLooseGoose 4 роки тому +4

      Happens aaaaaall the time today though believe me!

    • @danna1847
      @danna1847 3 роки тому +2

      or maybe you just don't notice it

  • @pratikshamainkar3224
    @pratikshamainkar3224 4 роки тому +134

    'You probably have the best penmanship here.' The guy remains so calm while being so casually sexist, isn't it incredible. What a show! Must watch.

  • @keny201
    @keny201 4 роки тому +158

    I saw Cate Blanchett, I click.

  • @aquamarein
    @aquamarein 4 роки тому +151

    I can feel her when the room is full of men and you can just smile without voicing your opinion. Moreover when it steers to jokes about women that are straight disrespectful.

    • @margaritam.9118
      @margaritam.9118 4 роки тому +9

      Devina Anindita they are awful, discussing vulgar stuff when she’s present like she doesn’t exist.

    • @Silvercentipede
      @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +7

      Oh my god yes! I feel silly saying this as I wasn't even around in that era, but growing up in the 00's and 10's whenever we were in a big group of us like at school or a party or a festival or something, so often it was always guys domineering the conversation and if you tried to contribute you just got blanked. It didn't matter how funny, intelligent or insightful what you had to say was. And then you were the one who would be called "boring", "stuck up", "stupid", when well wow, maybe if that's the treatment you got every time you spoke, maybe naturally you would reconcile into yourself a bit more?
      You had to try so much harder to be funny, interesting, intelligent just to get your voice heard. Otherwise you were just a stupid, stuck-up girl. Whereas guys could make any slapdash comment and it was all like "whe-eeyyyy!"
      It's paid off in a way now, because years of that means I can drive most guys under the table with my humour and intelligence now, but it was awful at the time, especially because at the time , I was young and unaware, so just felt like everything was my fault and I had to try harder
      I was reflecting on this last night weirdly enough before I even watched this. Funny, its only really sunk in recently how misogynistic it all was, I just always felt like it was my fault before.....

    • @hollyguernsey
      @hollyguernsey 4 роки тому +7

      @@Silvercentipede you've hit the nail on the head with the description of your reflection. I too experienced the same and thought the same!

    • @Silvercentipede
      @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +1

      @@hollyguernsey 😘 I only sort of really realised it recently if you know what I mean, I used to just think if was my fault 🙄
      I found that this would be worse if you were more stereotypically girly/feminine. It was a bit of a joke cos I was kinda more into the alternative scene music wise, but I was still pretty girly, and like if a girl wearing hoodies with about a million facial piercings said the exact same thing as me it would received so much better than with me 🙄 probably the whole "cool girl" thing and hatred of things feminine.
      I also ended up going to more "cool" parties in my later years at school, (the above was more in my early adulthood) , and I was so shocked how many of these girls who had like really high status and I considered really popular just sat there like these pretty wallflowers. They were girls like this in other years groups and that who I legit never heard speak, but still had that high status and stuff. 🙄 Not to be rude to them, I just found in interesting and sort of sad that it was more probably the social culture that did it to them.
      Let me be clear, there is NOTHING wrong with being shy or quiet. But the fact that like some of the most popular girls in school were like that acting like that? I just found it odd.
      Anyway, just reflecting/rambling!
      I think sexism was actually really awful in the noughties and early 0000's. It was different. But it was still there.

    • @jamiethomas6701
      @jamiethomas6701 3 роки тому

      @@margaritam.9118 AND SHE HELPED THE MEN DEFEAT ERA. WTF

  • @blakrumba
    @blakrumba 4 роки тому +50

    The wigs on this show are everything!!!! I need this show in my life!

  • @hel--
    @hel-- 3 роки тому +22

    The tv show scene makes me so angry
    They are talking like the wives aren't there, like they are small children with an unnecessary feud
    "You both have very opinionated wives" really enhances that

    • @afelicia85
      @afelicia85 3 роки тому +2

      Gosh that made me cringe... We all know that feeling when we stand up for ourselves and someone says you have a big mouth

  • @FruityHachi
    @FruityHachi 4 роки тому +141

    I absolutely hate when men tell me to smile
    how about THEY make me smile by cracking a good joke

    • @hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195
      @hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195 4 роки тому +8

      That implies those same men have a sense of humour outside of sexism

    • @Littlemitashy
      @Littlemitashy 3 роки тому +7

      Your comment reminded me of a few months ago I was working in a store (during the pandemic so we the staff had masks on) and a bloke I served said loudly about me "SEE, SOME OF THE STAFF HERE DO SMILE" (I was smiling because I felt I had to for some reason, despite wearing the mask.) He then told me he complained to a manager the last time he shopped there about "the miserable old cow" who served him last time. He complained because a woman didn't smile at him when she was wearing a mask working long hours throughout a pandemic. Most of the staff there were women, would've been interesting to see if a male member of staff hadn't smiled at him if he would've had the same reaction.

    • @bread2951
      @bread2951 3 роки тому +5

      @@Littlemitashy How insecured that poor fella might be to keep a track of all those woman who smile at him, even with the mask on.

    • @yaswanthmannava4072
      @yaswanthmannava4072 3 роки тому

      Cracking a joke racist these days woman doesn't even wanna smile

    • @WhatWouldLubitschDo
      @WhatWouldLubitschDo 3 роки тому

      They could make ME smile by dropping dead

  • @recalcitra
    @recalcitra 4 роки тому +93

    This is great but I'd love to see something like this set in the present day, with the same kind of scenes. I think most people would agree that things have been bad in previous decades but these settings give a sense of it happening 'way back then', as if it's all fixed now. Happens a lot with racism on tv too. It's like they're worried the viewers will feel attacked if they hold a mirror up to them.

    • @alexsmith2910
      @alexsmith2910 4 роки тому +6

      Yes, this 100%. They want to pull a job well done.

    • @hipposcree1594
      @hipposcree1594 4 роки тому +5

      The show is telling how the women’s rights movement happened and how Phyllis Schlaffly was able to change the course of American politics into the thing it is today. If you watch the show it also ends in present day showing how nothing has actually changed in the women’s rights front/racism front because of Phyllis’ lifelong career and mission spent to derail it.

    • @recalcitra
      @recalcitra 4 роки тому +2

      @@hipposcree1594 I understand that, but when the BBC releases a video introduced as 'This is casual sexism' I was hoping for examples not set in the 60s.

    • @raaheelaamir
      @raaheelaamir 3 роки тому +1

      Uhm! I'm pretty sure women still face some sexism.
      .
      But so do men. So if anyone wants to make an honest video on sexism..
      .
      They would have to show the sexism men face in their daily lives as well. ANF This won't bode well with the modern feminists or Misansrists who think men don't face sexism or discrimination cause of their gender.

    • @dkskiwi
      @dkskiwi 2 роки тому +1

      @@raaheelaamir Men face sexism too but don't want to do anything about it and insist women fight for them????
      You only want equality as it pleases you and only when women are voicing their struggles.

  • @blakrumba
    @blakrumba 4 роки тому +62

    Also...let's just take a moment to breathe in this brilliant casting job! Everyone on the show is bomb. Love it!

    • @blakrumba
      @blakrumba 4 роки тому

      Paul GU1 That's fine it's just tv.

  • @mariedaparellio5686
    @mariedaparellio5686 4 роки тому +25

    She’s a real life Serena Joy

    • @dudeleavemeoutofthis
      @dudeleavemeoutofthis 4 роки тому +10

      Phylis was actually the inspo for Serena :)

    • @mariedaparellio5686
      @mariedaparellio5686 4 роки тому +2

      The Star XVII Oh! Well look at that! Atwood did a good job translating the chagrin and regret I see in this portrayal of Phylis into Serena Joy.

  • @isapheonix
    @isapheonix 2 роки тому +9

    The number of times Phyllis shalfley had incidences where the era would have helped her in the first episode followed by her being against it is enraging!!!

    • @spacehootle309
      @spacehootle309 Рік тому

      Ikr? Her opressing herself over and over and over was hard to stomach.

    • @JenniferoftheSea
      @JenniferoftheSea Рік тому +1

      ​@spacehootle309 I suggest you research Schaffley outside of watching a movie. Read her own words. Not the ones written by male screen writers. ;) She was no dummy.

  • @selty
    @selty 4 роки тому +79

    How much has changed since this? We're still getting the same comments really

    • @GQ2593
      @GQ2593 3 роки тому +1

      Women sure haven't lost their sense for drama

    • @user-cx2ho9hg2r
      @user-cx2ho9hg2r 3 роки тому +1

      @@GQ2593 Shut up

    • @LBM01028
      @LBM01028 5 місяців тому

      That’s nothing compared to what men go through. Life’s tougher for men.

  • @ambercherise2391
    @ambercherise2391 Рік тому +7

    What strikes me as ironic is that Phyllis was facing the same issues as the "libbers" she opposed; she approached it from a "conservative" viewpoint. Seriously, the same issues!

  • @vickinoeske1711
    @vickinoeske1711 4 роки тому +50

    I started working in offices after college in the mid 1970's. Suffered all types of sexual harassment from that time til the the 1990's. It was better, but still happening.

    • @alexsmith2910
      @alexsmith2910 4 роки тому +8

      Thank you for persevering.

    • @vickinoeske1711
      @vickinoeske1711 4 роки тому +1

      @@alexsmith2910 😊💖

    • @Silvercentipede
      @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +11

      Thankyou for your comment. We need more women who actually lived during this time sharing their stories rather than young men going "lol this is dumb"

    • @vickinoeske1711
      @vickinoeske1711 4 роки тому +2

      @@Silvercentipede It's unbelievable what women had to put up with. Like I said, the climate improved from the 1970's to 1990's, but I still experienced male inappropriate behavior. And, I'm not nitpicking, I can take a joke, this was more than that. Thanks for your comment.

    • @Silvercentipede
      @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +2

      @@vickinoeske1711 I wasn't alive during that time but I can sort of imagine/empathise ❤️ 0000's and 10's were a pretty strange time to grow up female, I think we sort of made progress at a stage then went a bit backwards.. rape culture or "lad" culture was just awful.
      Obviously if you go way back in history things will always be worse and more extreme, but I agree it doesn't just make it all a
      okay or make the current or more recent problem go away
      I'm sorry to hear what you went through 💖❤️ X

  • @Alloniya
    @Alloniya 4 роки тому +37

    "you too old" man, did you saw her in Thor??

  • @KGBgringo
    @KGBgringo 4 роки тому +20

    One of the best shows I've ever seen, exceptional casting and acting all round telling a very interesting and somewhat important story.

  • @Silvercentipede
    @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +48

    If you don't know why this show exists, you're part of the reason it does.

    • @karenhenson8532
      @karenhenson8532 3 роки тому +10

      Miss. This show exists to deceive the mass public. 90% of it is lies. If you believe that Hollywood could actually do a factual series about a successful conservative women who beat a bunch of rabid liberal/socialists you are naive. Don’t give into groupthink find out the truth for yourself

    • @brennis_the_menace3414
      @brennis_the_menace3414 3 роки тому +2

      @@karenhenson8532 good point and all but some of us can discern fact from fiction, entertainment can still achieve showing off big issues in this world

    • @raaheelaamir
      @raaheelaamir 3 роки тому +1

      @@karenhenson8532 completely agree with you

    • @veronikanavratilova1930
      @veronikanavratilova1930 2 роки тому

      @@karenhenson8532 you Can Actually find footage from that time and republicans are still bunch of stupid people thinks that payes maternity leave would mean communism. And to the top of that nowadays they (part of them) think Covid is a lie. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @spacehootle309
      @spacehootle309 Рік тому

      ​@@karenhenson8532 lmao. Good one.

  • @petekdemircioglu
    @petekdemircioglu 4 роки тому +26

    Ahaha! How very true. The sexism. Everywhere. All the time. Always rationalized.

  • @itsacanoneventso
    @itsacanoneventso 4 роки тому +37

    I'm so glad more women are in power and feel empowered now a days because the old ways were definitely wrong

    • @Trund27
      @Trund27 4 роки тому +1

      Abe Cruz Definitely!

    • @alexsmith2910
      @alexsmith2910 4 роки тому +2

      Cool. :)

    • @jaz093
      @jaz093 4 роки тому +3

      Women get special treatment. Eg quotas for women at BBC

    • @Oreo-vh7rk
      @Oreo-vh7rk 4 роки тому +1

      @@jaz093 Are the quotas for BBC to hire more women than men or to hire about the same amount of women and men?

    • @menbl2941
      @menbl2941 3 роки тому

      @@Oreo-vh7rk
      Regardless there shouldn't be any quotas
      It should purely based on merit.
      But obviously, theres always a better Men to do a job , so they come up with dumb quotas

  • @Babesinthewood97
    @Babesinthewood97 4 роки тому +7

    This show is great actually

  • @ff_hao
    @ff_hao 4 роки тому +7

    Is this you Galadriel? Aiya Eärendil Elenion Ancalima!

  • @MonicaChen
    @MonicaChen 4 роки тому +20

    Honestly, it's like this nowadays too.

    • @alexsmith2910
      @alexsmith2910 4 роки тому +2

      Yeah, better but needs improvement.

    • @jaz093
      @jaz093 4 роки тому +4

      Women have special treatment. Eg quotas for women at BBC. Forget who's the best for the job. Give it to a woman.

    • @workman122
      @workman122 4 роки тому +1

      Honestly, no it isn't. I retired recently, however in the last probably 30 years of my working life I did not see examples of this behaviour. In the 70's and 80's yes, but after that it was a different environment.

    • @MonicaChen
      @MonicaChen 4 роки тому +5

      @@workman122 I can't tell you how many times it's happened to me in real life. And I'm still working.

    • @Silvercentipede
      @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +3

      It depends on the place but my last work environment was shocking, I'd be explaining something and guys just literally wouldn't listen to me. Interrupting me before they've managed to grasp what I was actually saying. We had so many technical glitches and machinery not working (out of my control, it was a shocking warehouse) and the amount of times a guy was like "what have YOU done wrong?" "What are YOU struggling with?"
      A silver lining is if you're more attractive this will happen to you more often, (days I did my make up and looked nice where so much worse for this), so take it as some sort of sick compliment. Although I would rather it didn't happen at all
      I'm a bit more aware of this stuff now so I can handle it a bit more, but when you're young obviously you take it personally and think it's your fault 🙄 erghhh

  • @darkwoods1954
    @darkwoods1954 4 роки тому +27

    Always rubs me the wrong way when the BBC virtue signal considering they turned a blind eye to Jimmy Saville and his pals fiddling kiddies for decades.

  • @chummychimchim
    @chummychimchim 4 роки тому +24

    It's making my blood boil.

    • @prospero4183
      @prospero4183 4 роки тому +3

      Its meant to, when u advertise to the audience, they know the reaction it gets. They could edit it to show sexism from the women in probably 5 seconds. Thats fiction for you.

  • @yuts568
    @yuts568 2 роки тому +3

    I love Cate as Mrs. Schlafly!

  • @agenttheater5
    @agenttheater5 3 роки тому +6

    How can Phyllis Schlafly take being treated like that by men and yet still be against feminists?

  • @dkskiwi
    @dkskiwi 2 роки тому +1

    The fact that these are called 'casual' sexism and that I've only seen women point out that they have nothing of casual shows there's still a LONG way to go.

  • @kenziekay403
    @kenziekay403 2 роки тому +1

    the “shutting up the secretary” joke was soooo cringe😖😬

  • @Ellis01234567890
    @Ellis01234567890 4 роки тому +26

    Lol woman with opinions... How amusing.

  • @biamorim
    @biamorim Рік тому

    I wish to watch it from Brazil , but only in UK ! ABSURD!

  • @tylerwhite4329
    @tylerwhite4329 4 місяці тому

    She chose to ignore the obvious sexism.

  • @knitnkitten
    @knitnkitten 4 роки тому +15

    lol😂Actually, it's called mysogyny. lmao. Like it only used to happen in America🤣Hey boiz, all & every bit of those clips still happening today. All around the world.

  • @carlolabell
    @carlolabell 4 роки тому +33

    I hate being early. That means you'll see dumb people on the comment section acting like posting a comment first is a million dollar thing.

    • @brooocrow
      @brooocrow 4 роки тому +3

      Then watch the video after 30 minutes duh

    • @carlolabell
      @carlolabell 4 роки тому +2

      @@brooocrow you're one of them?? Oops.

  • @CorgyOntoppya
    @CorgyOntoppya 4 роки тому +33

    Cate Blanchett, an Australian, doing an American accent somehow sounds like an Irish accent.

    • @CorgyOntoppya
      @CorgyOntoppya 4 роки тому +2

      @1:52 nobody in America sounds like that.
      The way she says "superiority"
      Sarrpeeryarraty

    • @gordonbuttle272
      @gordonbuttle272 4 роки тому +4

      You forget that Americans pronounce most English words incorrectly as they are lazy and refuse to learn the proper English way of saying the word. Take A-L-U-M-I-N-I-U-M for example, you can not say the word, you pronounce it incorrectly. So you change how the word is spelt to suit your pronunciation. Very lazy!! As for the way Americans pronounce "Edinburgh", the capitol of Scotland, it makes me cringe every time I here an American use the word.

    • @CorgyOntoppya
      @CorgyOntoppya 4 роки тому

      @@gordonbuttle272 What did I forget? Seems like you set up a strawman for yourself to talk to with your whataboutery. Now excuse me, I have to make an American show called Mrs. Britain, where they all talk in German accents.

    • @gordonbuttle272
      @gordonbuttle272 4 роки тому

      @@CorgyOntoppya No idea what you are talking about in your previous rant?? Total gobbledygook! I would take your original point if there was such a language as "American", however there is not. You speak English, a language your country did not invent. So you are hardly at liberty to criticise how other people pronounce the words. Hence my previous point.

    • @tzupow
      @tzupow 4 роки тому

      @@CorgyOntoppya You've obviously never heard "superiority" in an Aussie accent.

  • @GaiaLore
    @GaiaLore 5 місяців тому

    Sadly alot of people worldwide still have these scewed ideas

  • @idahardy4052
    @idahardy4052 Рік тому

    This was a MOVIE, not a true biography.

  • @Pet.Wifey.Voice.Of.Reason
    @Pet.Wifey.Voice.Of.Reason 3 роки тому +3

    Watching this insidious grudge-fest, I realize just how Jesse Lee Peterson was right. Amazn'!

    • @brittybee6615
      @brittybee6615 3 роки тому

      You should check out the fact checks on this show on Phyllis Schlafly Eagles UA-cam channel. This show was clearly made by...what’s JLP say? CHILDREN OF THE LIE?

  • @sohankalirai8769
    @sohankalirai8769 4 роки тому +11

    great show, great cast and please think before you start furiously typing about fake sexism and loony liberals. Please.

    • @jaz093
      @jaz093 4 роки тому +1

      @James Bryan don't pay for it. Stop funding them as they hate you. You are less likely to get a job at BBC because you are male. They have quotas for women which is unfair.

    • @veronikanavratilova1930
      @veronikanavratilova1930 2 роки тому

      @@jaz093 no Its not.

  • @lias2697
    @lias2697 4 роки тому +8

    Damn, the taking notes part happened to my boss a few years ago.

  • @mrrolandlawrence
    @mrrolandlawrence 4 роки тому +1

    "aunty knows best".

  • @thisguy7976
    @thisguy7976 2 роки тому +7

    I just love how 21st Century American women believe that they currently live a life as difficult as this.

    • @MyLifeInWonderland
      @MyLifeInWonderland 2 роки тому +3

      I just love how people believe the fight for equality is over, especially seeing as the finale of this very tv show highlighted that because of the actions portrayed throughout the show some states in the US didn't ratify the equal rights amendment until the latter half of the 2010s.

    • @ricardosantiago4362
      @ricardosantiago4362 2 роки тому

      Have you learned nothing of this video ?

    • @carlosidiaquez9524
      @carlosidiaquez9524 2 роки тому

      @@MyLifeInWonderland i just love seeing all the american modern women crying about the equal rights when they are they most privileged women in history, when they were the Best paid housewives in the western civilization, when they social secure and another privileges, but You prefer the victim mentality.

    • @MyLifeInWonderland
      @MyLifeInWonderland 2 роки тому +1

      @@carlosidiaquez9524 as a Danish woman I'd like to disagree. American women are about as priviledged as the American people in general, which unless they're in the top 1% is less than the rest of the western world, yes even now, maybe especially now that roe vs. wade has been overturned. Also, no one ever paid housewives so you can absolutely take that bs and shove it.

    • @carlosidiaquez9524
      @carlosidiaquez9524 2 роки тому

      @@MyLifeInWonderland You would make me cry if everything you said is true, first, in the first world countries the housewives labour is not free, because the housewife receive the husband's salary and she manage it, part of that salary is taken by the wife, second too, people think that the housewife has a worse life than the man who actually has to work so hard and build a career to get the money, you are danish honey, the ukranians, especially the russian women know this, they know they have the Best part of the society, ask any russian woman if she would pay the dinner or provide 50/50 of the money, she would NOT!

  • @Hoganply
    @Hoganply 4 роки тому +23

    Such a society is quite tragic and cringeworthy, but I have to say, some comments here are ones I've heard women make of their husbands some days, too.

  • @johnnyutah7003
    @johnnyutah7003 4 роки тому +19

    The words signal and virtue spring to mind

  • @berhen7360
    @berhen7360 4 роки тому +25

    Just like normal politics.. Acting..

  • @4812megan
    @4812megan 4 роки тому +5

    Asking someone to smile is not sexism. HE was smiling.
    Asking someone if they wanted to start a business is not sexism.
    Arguing about who is going to pay for law school is not sexism.
    I have seen other clips where men's abilities to care for children are openly mocked.
    Were these attitudes sexist against men?

    • @shonascott5499
      @shonascott5499 4 роки тому +10

      If you paid attention, it wasn't what they asked or said that mattered, but meaning behind their words.
      Men asking women to "smile" takes away any sense of individuality they have as a person; the man doesnt want her to be happy but thinks she's prettier with a smile or he feels like she is happy at him by smiling since a smile means happiness. If a man asked another man to smile, it would be odd or simply rude because why the hell should someone smile for someone else unless, say, for pictures?
      In the context of the man asking her if she wanted to start a business, it was the husband that was sexist in that situation by immediately jumping to saying no and taking away his wife's voice or opinion. The other man was simply giving a compliment that the woman seemed happy at, but her husband jumped in to answer FOR her, rather than let her talk for herself.
      The husband questioning who would pay for law school is sexist as he, in that time, COULD have not let her use any of their family's money. In his mind it was only HIS money, and she would need his permission to use it. The wife had no financial freedom and was financially controlled by her husband.
      All of these situations are sexist because it centres on the man of the situation keeping control away from the wife and doesn't treat her like a person. If she was a man, they would let her answer for herself, let her use money how she wished, not demand she smile just to make them happy or comfortable.

    • @4812megan
      @4812megan 4 роки тому +2

      @@shonascott5499 I have worked in a female dominated profession for 20 years and deal with this sort of stuff all of the time: from women.
      You didn't answer about the clips where men's abilities to care for children are openly mocked.
      Who really has power in the family when the woman is the only one who is seen as competent around children? Fathers were not even allowed to be present at the births of their own child until recent times, that's the low status men have always been held in within the family.
      Is it sexist against men when the only thing he is good for is making money?
      I look forward to the day we have real equality and young women are forced to sign up for the draft or risk going to prison.

  • @Amino2
    @Amino2 3 роки тому +2

    This is not a fly on the wall documentary or candid footage, lol. This is a television show with actors, so everything is contrived and my patience is not tested.

  • @calumgradsyn935
    @calumgradsyn935 3 роки тому +1

    This is like 99 per cent inaccurate the daughter and son of the woman portrait have said so

  • @runforestrun1127
    @runforestrun1127 3 роки тому +2

    She wants to be a lawyer? Why not a carpenter?

  • @plxdj1
    @plxdj1 4 роки тому +20

    Really enjoyed this a lot. Though out of interest, is it 'sexist' to say 'remember to smile?' Outside the context, isn't that just good prep for an interview?

    • @asmith8954
      @asmith8954 4 роки тому +15

      You're so close to realizing the truth: it's all bullshit made up because there isn't enough real sexism to complain about.

    • @Losaru
      @Losaru 4 роки тому +28

      Oh I'd say there's still plenty today. As this is based more around the 50s-60s Id say there was a lot more back then. Hopefully you never have to experience sexism in your life. It's not fun.

    • @asmith8954
      @asmith8954 4 роки тому +3

      @Marianne Havisham um...no some will always exist; that's the price of an open society. It's better for individuals to try to make the most of their lives than to spend their time on a religious crusade against an inanimate and frankly overblown enemy.
      Caring about sexism more than a casual amount is a first world problem btw.

    • @yashrathore3609
      @yashrathore3609 4 роки тому +8

      @@asmith8954 well, thinking it will always exist is the reason it always exists
      As simple as that

    • @aycarumba1819
      @aycarumba1819 4 роки тому +24

      Yes it is sexist if you only ask the women to smile but not the men, if you ask both to smile then it is not sexist. Sexism occurs when differentiate and treat people differently based off their gender.

  • @user-hb4zz4gh5e
    @user-hb4zz4gh5e 4 роки тому +6

    Reading the comments was a mistake

    • @Oreo-vh7rk
      @Oreo-vh7rk 4 роки тому +1

      Welcome to the youtube comment section. Here's your complimentary cookie 🍪

  • @mmmmmmmmmm.m.
    @mmmmmmmmmm.m. 4 роки тому +15

    Why is it bad to tell sumone there cooking is that good they should open a business ? lol

    • @Sunnyrea37
      @Sunnyrea37 4 роки тому +8

      Because she is a woman and he would not have said that to a man

    • @Hoganply
      @Hoganply 4 роки тому +8

      @@Sunnyrea37 Why not?

    • @Sunnyrea37
      @Sunnyrea37 4 роки тому +3

      @@Hoganply Its not impossible but far less likely.

    • @silviasuppo6450
      @silviasuppo6450 4 роки тому +16

      the sexism in that scene is not about that question, but in the way her husband replied. look again, what he is implying is that since she is a woman, she is not allowed to even think about having her own business and therefore being financially indipendent.

    • @Vaylash
      @Vaylash 4 роки тому +3

      @@Sunnyrea37 Wrong. You don't understand men.

  • @25tulsi
    @25tulsi 4 роки тому +2

    Wow and so Trump fits right in

  • @Johnedwardpeterson
    @Johnedwardpeterson 11 місяців тому +2

    The real Phyllis is tremendous and this show was such a hit job because they’re mad she beat them at every turn. UA-cam the real Phyllis debating ERA on firing line to see why they can’t stand her. The fact that the show didn’t even give the real arguments against era when cate blanchet said she studied Phyllis is proof they wanted to mischaracterize this fabulous woman. She’s literally a hero.

  • @dereksoyousayyournameis
    @dereksoyousayyournameis Рік тому +1

    No

  • @laminage
    @laminage 4 роки тому +2

    This is so "heartbreaking". I was only Four when this happened so I didn't fully understand it. I remember reading about Shirley Chisholm being the First African American Woman in Congress (although she is the daughter of Caribbean Parents). She'd be so proud to hear about Kamala Harris.

  • @craigbrowning9448
    @craigbrowning9448 4 роки тому +11

    We Must Believe all Women (unless it's'bout Biden or Bill...).

  • @Paelorian
    @Paelorian 3 роки тому +3

    Is it success to compliment someone on their work and success they use their skill to create an independent self-owned business as a woman entrepreneur? That's not sexist or patriarchal.
    And we all know that men are encouraged to frown and look grumpy on TV talk shows. Just turn on to a major network at night and it's nothing but frowns, right? All those gloomy, frowning TV hosts looking sad and not wanting to have fun.
    Plenty of the other clips do depict men being insensitive jerks and even showing chauvinist anti-woman prejudice. But the political bent of the show is clear when the Women's Libbers are not once shown as being frustrating. Even if you're on their side, they could test one's patience as well as any casually sexist male boss. There was plenty of intolerance, extremism, sexism, and prejudice on both sides of this debate. Plenty of women who really _weren't_ for the freedom for women, but only wanted women to be like them and disparaged anyone who freely choose something else. There were _vicious_ divisions among feminists about sex, the value of men, homosexuality, transgenderism, pornography, marriage, violence, political philosophy, authoritarianism, socialism, the proper role of government in resolving the issues of their movement, and many other issues. But sure, the really annoying things women involved in gender politics back then faced were men telling women to smile more, complimenting them on their domestic skills, and encouraging them to start their own businesses and become financially independent.
    In real life, no matter who you are it tends to be positively received when someone admires your smile, your cooking, or encourages you in business. They're compliments. Women faced greater challenges and restrictions than being complimented too much. To depict mere compliments as insidious oppression is to depict women as weak and privileged to not have significant problems.
    Phyllis Schlafly would never have admitted to being upset that someone said her baking skill was professional quality and could be used to launch a successful business. Who wouldn't want to be told that about their baking? Perhaps some of the truly frustrating more radical feminist women who disparaged any traditionally feminine or domestic skills like baking and were proud to be incompetent in the kitchen. Though baking is really traditionally neither masculine nor feminine in association, especially among professional bakers. People who actually bake, men and women alike, want people to enjoy their baking. That's why they serve it. It's good to learn that people enjoy your baking.
    Most of these clips are not abuse or even harassment, although most are uncomfortable and some demeaning. People nowadays still make one another uncomfortable all the time, but we do generally avoid doing so in these particular ways which we now recognize as to be avoided.

  • @mugenjin205
    @mugenjin205 2 роки тому

    Stopped just 3 states short, what a terrible woman

  • @TheObvious1890
    @TheObvious1890 2 роки тому

    "...And three minutes of virtue signaling that will test your patience even more"

  • @b377e4
    @b377e4 3 роки тому +1

    SMASH THE PATRAIRCHY

  • @personperson2446
    @personperson2446 2 роки тому +1

    This is sexism, yes. But some of it is also just a failure to connect with another human being, especially on a basic level. Of course women want to make the same as their male co-workers. Anyone would want that. I don't even view half this shit as male vs. female. It's just basic human wants and needs that everyone shares.

  • @jjfalstaff
    @jjfalstaff 4 роки тому +4

    This was 45+ years ago. Are we not allowed to grow? If someone fails once, do you remind him every day of his failures without recognizing his successes? I love the premise and the story but to imply that nothing has changed is wrong.

    • @jeansafiera96
      @jeansafiera96 4 роки тому +2

      jjfalstaff
      are you insinuating that such toxic subtle sexism doesn't exist anymore?
      are you insinuating that no husband in today's world, expect a woman to clean the house instead of doing it himself?

    • @omowako
      @omowako 4 роки тому +3

      To some extent I agree with you! I do think that our culture has vastly improved since the 70s and women enjoy greater freedom and expression than before. But I still do think these shows need to exist, not necessarily to scold the scold of the present but to face and reveal the kind of discrimination in the past and prevent the same things from happening in the future.
      A similar example might be adaptations about slavery in the US. We are, in no doubt, past slavery (I.e. any sane person will recognize the rights of a black individual, keyword being sane person), however, these adaptations are still important in order to be able to understand of the depth and nuances of the inequities of the past.
      But I would like to hear your thoughts on this! You seem like a sensible and agreeable person!

    • @playanakobi4407
      @playanakobi4407 4 роки тому +3

      Replies here fail to understand the comment. It does not say that sexism have totally gone away but what this film failed to portray is the little successes we have achieved a long the way. For example, before it was difficult for a woman to hold office or own a company, today this is not true anymore for some countries. It is equally important to keep reminding of the uncorrected mistakes as it is to celebrate successes.

    • @jth4242
      @jth4242 4 роки тому +1

      @@jeansafiera96 Probably about as often as the woman expects him to earn more and for the same reason. And there isn't really anything wrong with either expectation, you know. People can negotiate whatever they want.

    • @artemis2935
      @artemis2935 2 роки тому

      We appreciate men who empower women and treat them as equal partners in various fields as long as physical strength is not the limiting factor that is.
      The outrage is for men who still go about their lives degrading women.

  • @johnpaul9599
    @johnpaul9599 Рік тому

    its beautiful thats some of these so called sexism is alive and rampant in many parts of the world specially here (southamerica) i work for the goverment of my country and things are almost the sme as these clips and thank god for that , greetings from argentina ladies and keep raging

  • @lilypond5158
    @lilypond5158 4 роки тому +1

    Who is that womam that looks exactly like Sharon Tate ?

    • @margaritam.9118
      @margaritam.9118 4 роки тому +2

      Lily Pond Rose Byrne, she’s an Australian actress and was in Bridesmaids :) the guy playing the talk show host is her husband, Bobby Cannavale

  • @Henry-kz4gn
    @Henry-kz4gn 3 роки тому +6

    Oh man imagine being told you were so good at something you could make it into a profitable business, THE OUTRAGE.

    • @tonybates7870
      @tonybates7870 3 роки тому +6

      That's not all there is to it. You must know that.

    • @isapheonix
      @isapheonix 2 роки тому +2

      Her interest lay in politics. She ran for congress, and yet was told she should be a baker. That's condescending and horrendous.

  • @hexzerone7034
    @hexzerone7034 4 роки тому +1

    Yes let’s pay some more into this shit!

  • @gigamesh780
    @gigamesh780 4 роки тому +2

    I am confuse

  • @rodrigorodrigo1230
    @rodrigorodrigo1230 4 роки тому +3

    The world would have been a better place if P.Schlafly would have start a baking bussines...

    • @karenhenson8532
      @karenhenson8532 3 роки тому +1

      Oh how very wrong you are. PE are a only sought to promote a socialistic agenda where the state races your children and women are forced to go off to war. Do you own research don’t be a talking head for the liberal agenda

    • @karenhenson8532
      @karenhenson8532 3 роки тому

      The ERA. Not pe

    • @karenhenson8532
      @karenhenson8532 3 роки тому

      Raises. Stupid talk text

    • @rodrigorodrigo1230
      @rodrigorodrigo1230 3 роки тому +1

      Why women cannot or should not go to war, for example,@@karenhenson8532. Women are no a weaker gender, they should enjoy the same responsabilities and privileges than men.

  • @lovelygirl8315
    @lovelygirl8315 3 роки тому +7

    These days, everything is sexist... telling someone to smile when they are on TV is NORMAL. Asking if someone has ever considered owning a baking business is a compliment!!

  • @mjverostek1278
    @mjverostek1278 4 роки тому +15

    Sticks and stones may break my bones, but there will always be something to offend a feminist.

    • @user-hb4zz4gh5e
      @user-hb4zz4gh5e 4 роки тому +2

      I don’t think anyone’s offended though? The story is set in the 1950s if I’m not mistaken, so it’s historically accurate

    • @gfoot9916
      @gfoot9916 3 роки тому

      @@user-hb4zz4gh5e *1970s

  • @Aphrael76
    @Aphrael76 4 роки тому +10

    Nothing in the world is more threatening to the fragile male ego, then an intelligent, articulate, competent woman with a strong will and a sense of purpose.

    • @hoggarththewisesmeagol8362
      @hoggarththewisesmeagol8362 4 роки тому +6

      Not at all. Most men like a woman who can think for herself. You’ve bought the feminazi lies

    • @morbionicle
      @morbionicle 4 роки тому +10

      funny how ideologues always talk about perceived fragile male egos... while we've build entire industries about women masking up their biological shortcomings by using tinctures/clothing/surgery/... and have ended up in a society where any form of criticism adressed at female behaviour is seen as harassment or misogyny. the irony...

    • @Alex-ug9wx
      @Alex-ug9wx 4 роки тому +3

      That’s not true at ALL! I would be proud of any women if they have achieved well at school/in their career. Same as I would be for a son or husband or even a family friend, regardless of gender, no loving father, brother or son should ever have their ‘ego’ damaged, and in experience, they don’t, they rejoice in their female companions work, they don’t get embarrassed by it. Maybe you should abandon these feminazi lies.

    • @rohamtavakkoli7562
      @rohamtavakkoli7562 4 роки тому +5

      Nothing is more laughable than a weak insecure woman who tries to cover up her incompetence by putting up a facade of strength and intelligence formed only by her ability to brag about how strong and intelligent she seemingly is...

  • @LaRavenTwitty
    @LaRavenTwitty 11 місяців тому

    Terrible examples of so called sexism

  • @giontesla2311
    @giontesla2311 4 роки тому +1

    BBC is embarassing. This is not forcely related to this content, but the style still fits.

  • @richmrstonestone
    @richmrstonestone 2 роки тому

    Lol 🤣

  • @Alloniya
    @Alloniya 4 роки тому

    The madman

  • @_Ojuju
    @_Ojuju 4 роки тому +1

    The first one is not sexism... I bake and people ask this exact same question 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @tonybates7870
      @tonybates7870 3 роки тому

      Are you a fledgling political activist and politician as well, though?

    • @_Ojuju
      @_Ojuju 2 роки тому +1

      @@tonybates7870 I’m a geophysicist, and the people that ask know this.
      There is a way it can come out as sexist. But that comment is not wholly in itself sexist.
      I usually take it a damn good compliment.
      Ps. I now make money on the side baking 😬

  • @timmy1712
    @timmy1712 3 роки тому

    Lol this is ridiculous

  • @Reach41
    @Reach41 4 роки тому +3

    The solution might be to have a lot more men born gay. Genetic biologists are studying all that. Another approach to consider is allowing women to carry concealed weapons, while reducing the penalty for homicide by a female defending herself from male sexism to a simple citation-level misdemeanor. In the interim, we should drop the Mr, Miss, Mrs and Ms, and replace it with Mx. Lass and Lad similarly replaced with Lax. So many ideas, so little time (to fix all this in time for the next PC outrage, still in gestation, as yet unborn)!

    • @tomdownunder749
      @tomdownunder749 2 роки тому +1

      Umm you serious?

    • @Reach41
      @Reach41 2 роки тому

      @@tomdownunder749 Doesn't it SOUND like I'm serious?? I like the part about using Mx for everyone. Second favorite is having all men born gay, that would prevent rape as well as get rid of the problem of over population all at the same time.
      Edit: of course, it’s always possible it was micro cynicism…

  • @simonl2072
    @simonl2072 4 роки тому +6

    Sexist to complement baking? Really?

    • @user-hb4zz4gh5e
      @user-hb4zz4gh5e 4 роки тому +3

      That’s not the sexist part. It’s the fact that her husband would never let her start a business, that’s why the camera shows his expression

  • @luxx1346
    @luxx1346 4 роки тому +5

    God forbid your told to smile at work.

    • @omowako
      @omowako 4 роки тому +2

      Lmao! God forbid that you're told to smile at work 24/7 XD

    • @graytart
      @graytart 4 роки тому +10

      Are the men at work also told to smile? Because I have never heard that happen, and I have been working since the mid 1980s.

    • @luxx1346
      @luxx1346 4 роки тому

      ​@@graytart Unless your working with the public or at an office job probably not.

    • @onibaba2645
      @onibaba2645 4 роки тому +3

      @@graytart you haven't heard about it because men wouldn't dare to be so pathetic and complain about that...

    • @Trund27
      @Trund27 4 роки тому +1

      Luxx How about YOU smile? STFU and leave women alone.

  • @kumaryogesh5829
    @kumaryogesh5829 4 роки тому +1

    Jack proceeds to die due to casual sexism.

  • @Alloniya
    @Alloniya 4 роки тому

    Is it real show, or just a video?

    • @netwolfe
      @netwolfe 4 роки тому

      Yes, this is clips from a real show called Mrs. America. I have no idea if any of the characters are based on real people or not. But it is set in 1970's U.S.A. And my understanding is that the plot is focused on both the women who were fight for equal women's rights, as well as the women who fighting against those causes. Yes, there were actually some women who were against those things.

    • @ampmri2434
      @ampmri2434 4 роки тому

      Yes, it's based on true events of women activists who tried to get the ERA ratified in 38 states and those who did not want it ratified.

  • @MohammedYounis-w6h
    @MohammedYounis-w6h 4 роки тому +1

    I don't know what's more confusing, this trailer or the comment section

  • @jankukura6744
    @jankukura6744 4 роки тому +4

    Honestly i dont think saying ,,dont forget to smile" when you go on TV to someone is sexist. If I, a male, was invited to TV I would be told the same, its not about the gender. Its about smiling on TV, nothing more.

    • @SParamitaV
      @SParamitaV 4 роки тому +4

      It is sexist. Men's looks and manners aren't policed the same way women are, that includes being told to smile.

    • @carlosidiaquez9524
      @carlosidiaquez9524 2 роки тому

      @@SParamitaV no, it's not sexist, why people think men are women are the same in everything?

  • @olliemorland249
    @olliemorland249 4 роки тому +7

    I don’t think that when they said “have you ever thought about starting a baking business” that it was sexist, think he was just complimenting her food?

    • @Sarahle3
      @Sarahle3 4 роки тому +16

      I understand it seems that way. However. People rarely ask a man who is high up on the corporate ladder, even a man who baked muffins, if he ever thought about opening a bakery. But people ask it of women all the time, no matter how successful they are. It implies that women are more suited to kitchen activities and that the woman's ability to make tasty baked goods should be a more important focus to her than her actual skills and ambitions.
      It's also not a compliment to tell a woman you aren't dating that, say, she has beautiful legs. Or that she's so pretty when she smiles. Both LOOK like compliments but actually they are condescending and/or objectifying, and therefore sexist.

    • @kencur9690
      @kencur9690 4 роки тому +2

      Sarahle3 oh my god here we go with the obsessive feminism. What you said is not true at all. I’ve heard it said to men many times, and it’s no coincidence that many men actually are chefs and opened restaurants. Some of them even claim on their menu that the whole business started after they were complimented. Perhaps women should just stop taking everything as “sexist” - how’s that for a thought?

    • @kencur9690
      @kencur9690 4 роки тому

      By the way you don’t get to dictate what is a compliment or what is not. Telling someone they have a pretty smile, or beautiful eyes IS a compliment and that is why it “looks” like one. It’s the one thinking it objectifies the person who has the problem here. Somehow, it’s ok to compliment someone on his or her intellectual abilities but not on his or her physical features? What kind of logic is that? I don’t need to date someone to appreciate their beauty: I didn’t date the Mona Lisa, yet I appreciate her smile. Likewise I didn’t date Botticelli’s Venus. It’s an insult to my freedom of expression to limit me in this way: we’re not talking about vulgar and crude remarks here, we’re taking about an innocuous compliment about someone’s smile (and I’m not referring to the particular scene shown in the clip). Some girls have complimented me in the past and they were not dating me. I didn’t report them to the compliment brigade and maintained a good platonic relationship. There is no way I am succumbing to this craziness that some people want to impose on others at all costs.

    • @olliemorland249
      @olliemorland249 4 роки тому

      Ken Cur Was this Aimed at me or...

    • @EterPuralis
      @EterPuralis 4 роки тому +1

      @@Sarahle3 you don't think maybe we should start saying that to men too, then? Sometimes the solution isn't to stop doing a thing, but to start.

  • @IHMyself
    @IHMyself 4 роки тому +3

    Meh...

  • @homer5263
    @homer5263 2 роки тому

    Ah yes, Jewish/communist Hollywood writers spinning lies to enrage gullible women. Very classic.

  • @peterward2275
    @peterward2275 4 роки тому +3

    Casual sexism? Depends when the film was set. It might just be classical historical accuracy. Something we see increasingly little of as people try to wallpaper over the past. Boy I'm glad I saw it all with my own eyes and know how things really were in the days before manufactured/non existent 'history's.

    • @ChristiannaLM
      @ChristiannaLM 4 роки тому +3

      It is historically accurate, doesn't mean it wasn't sexist at the time as well. Doesn't mean women weren't just as infuriated and insulted then as they are now.

    • @alexsmith2910
      @alexsmith2910 4 роки тому +1

      History was sexist.

  • @Kirsten_is_cursed10
    @Kirsten_is_cursed10 4 роки тому

    When most British actors do American accents they sound like newscasters from the 1950’s. It’s not as great as y’all think it is...

  • @salmathecopt7969
    @salmathecopt7969 4 роки тому

    Wow how sexist s

  • @David-mi7ud
    @David-mi7ud 4 роки тому +1

    Lol

  • @wagnerelle
    @wagnerelle 4 роки тому +2

    Gross

  • @dereksoyousayyournameis
    @dereksoyousayyournameis Рік тому

    O

  • @baddmanaz
    @baddmanaz 4 роки тому +2

    You think she's just gonna sit there and be pushed around?
    CANCEL THAT BET
    Heheh. Get it? Cancel th... nvm

  • @starbucksstu
    @starbucksstu 4 роки тому +2

    Fourth

  • @dunrossb
    @dunrossb 4 роки тому

    BBC, what a bunch of busybodies.

  • @tdtvegas
    @tdtvegas 4 роки тому +1

    These American accents are terrible
    I’m American 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸