Why do people crossdress?
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- Опубліковано 21 жов 2024
- Welcome! Are you here because you're new to crossdress? Are you here because someone you know confessed to you that they do this? Are you here because you want to be educated? Then sit back and watch! Something I don't understand is why aren't women judged when they wear guy shirts, hoodies, pants and shoes?
There's other reasons that were not stated but this is simply a basic breakdown of the topic at hand.
I also made this video for the closed minded individuals that judge!
I do believe people have different dimensions of themselves, for me crossdressing is part of my life also another ‘face’ of myself, to express my personality ….
Fully agree
Another persona. Alter ego.
Which is an escape from one person to another.
Like an actor that plays a character in a movie or tv series or a part in a role.
Thats what we do. And if it give it a great escape then its a freedom to be the other person.
Women clothing has always feel better. Nice and smoother than male clothes.
YES !!! Well said Paola . You absolutely nailed that . Everything you said from beginning to end applies to me 100 % . In the end it's the clothes that get you . Starts as a fetish and then evolves into so much more , wanting to feel pretty and look feminine preferring womens' clothes to mens' all the time . Let's face it the fabrics and variety of womens clothes are far superior and feel so much better against your skin . Thank You Paola for another wonderful post . I look forward to your next one . x
RONCARSON
I'm trans but for me not others to see myself as who makes me happy in the mirror. With or without clothes... not who everyone needs or expects to see as me... I was 99% with this don't care bout the fetish I am what I am for myself🤗 just wish I could be myself all the time... one day😥. Still nice to know I'm not the only one who thinks like this.
Another big thing you're forgetting, is just that women's fashion is so much more fun. Men's fashion is so dull and colourless, blue or white shirts, dark trousers, black or brown shoes - if you're into fashion and colour and being flamboyant, men's clothes don't offer the self expression you need. Exploring women's fashion, putting together outfits etc, playing with colours, matching accessories and seeing how you look, is just fun in itself as a hobby. Doesn't necessarily have to have any deeper meaning! Also there's fun in making up and playing a character, just as an actor does. "All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely Players; They have their exits and their entrances, And one man in his time plays many parts". So wrote Shakespeare. Learning to play a new part is a joy in itself.
Dear Paola, in my case it started at 12 years old, just out of curiosity. Shortly after I realized that I was loving wearing a feminine look and I felt really good about wearing feminine clothes. I didn't feel guilty, but I was afraid of what they would think about me. It wasn't until I was 35 years old that I told my mother the whole truth and a year later she started to help me, because I always helped her and I continue to help her.
I have no regrets for being who I am today, a happier person wearing feminine looks. There are few places I don't use that are the bank and the hospital or some very important place.
Claudio Rodrigues Caco in my case it also started at 12 years old, just out of curiosity.
Thanks for sharing this, you gave very thoughtful insight. For me I started crossdressing long before youtube was a thing. That said I gave up long ago trying to figure out "why" and accepted the fact it part of what makes me.. me. As time passed though and I became comfortable , my identity morphed from a "crossdresser" to be more complex. So I really liked that you observed this can be part of a personal journey to finding our authentic self.
Excellent video thanks for sharing. When I was very young I was dressed in little girl clothes. Then I was sexually abused by a family member. I now crossdress to know if I can look pretty and beautiful without someone using for inappropriate reasons. It helps me deal with my past .
I am a cross dresser I knew I was different since age 5 my mom bought me girls black nylon Tights and never looked back since I absolutely love women's clothes I do it because they are more comfortable than men's I figure I was born that way makes me absolutely happy thank you for posting this fantastic video sincerely ❤ Richard
Hi 👋 Paola,
The feel of the clothes & air morning around the body,
The frill & excitement all became addictive to me.
How far you take this is up to you & you
( but can be soul searching when you have others to think of)
Love April 💋
I have cross dressed all my life. I love dressing up like a woman it feels really good when I wear women's skirts, heels, pantie hose, silicone breast.
I think this is one of your best crossdressing topic videos. The information provided, in your usual calm delivery, will be especially reassuring for those who are freaking out over their own or someone else’s desire to crossdress.
One point you mention is stress reduction. I’ve seen this brought up in a few places, one being a blog post by a British doctor (also a crossdresser) who wrote that some crossdressers have seen it help reduce their blood pressure. So, crossdressing can have an actual health benefit for some!
I hope this video comes up in a lot of UA-cam searches on the topic and gets a ton of views. One, because I want others to find your channel. The other, because it will benefit those trying to “figure it all out.”
Another great video Paola! I'm with you girl! You are correct in that if crossdressing person isn't harming anyone.
I Started crossdressing as a way to relieve stress (?) Years ago (I was 4) I started crossdressing and over the years thought it was a stress reliever, but I was really trying to find myself. I finally realized that I'm a trans woman and like you, have started HRT. It feels wonderful to be living as my authentic self!
Thanks for the great video! 💕💞💗
Very well said. It very much is a part of my life. It’s helps me get in touch with my feminine side but also to make me feel more like myself. I feel myself bloom wherever I dress up. It started out as a sexual tension but that didn’t last long. I soon found myself dressing up because I just want to decompress.
You’re right,for me I denied myself of who I was all along.Now that I’m transitioning I love myself as a transgender woman
For me it started with me giving in to my first real girlfriends pleading and let her do makeup and dress me up, and it continued due to the much better selection of fabrics and colors and the fact that due to a skin condition I have skirts/dresses are a lot more comfortable than trousers
Always love to Crossdress ❤️
RONCARSON
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Thank you for this video and advice, Paola! You hit the nail RIGHT on the head for most cross-dressers, I'm sure, certainly for me..... I'm a CD, but it's not really a fetish for me. I do it because for one thing, it feels amazing to get to be someone else for a little while, (I'm a truck driver and away from home for a week and a-half to two weeks at a time, so I don't get to CD very often). However, I'm only a CD, I'm not trans, I have no desire to be trans and I'm happy being a man who dresses like a woman. Also as you said, I do have a very strong, yet soft feminine side. I love the way women's clothes feel, especially panties, pantyhose and soft dresses; I love wearing makeup and wigs as well and I love getting to act feminine when I'm out en femme..... You are absolutely right, of course when you say that women's clothes feel better than men's, I could not agree more! LOL Also a point that you touched on, women can pretty much wear whatever they want..... Men's shirts, shorts, pants, ball caps, neck ties, etc. but even in 2022, the majority of society still thinks that men can't wear women's clothes. When women do it, for example, when a guy and girl get finished in the bedroom, she'll often put on his shirt or something and that's considered to be "cute" or "sexy". But, heaven FORBID if he were to put on anything of hers. To me, that is a HUGE double-standard! And I'm with ya girl, wear whatever you fricken wanna wear! LOL
I kind of feel the same way. If women can wear guys clothes. Why couldn't I wear theirs. As the cutie in the video says. So many people are so closed minded.
@@christophermcmichael880 Right on!
The fact that most of the decently, kind-hearted men out there have a genuine and soft "feminine side" to their personalities, and that most decently strong and mentally-tough women also have a strong and firm, "masculine side" to their genuine personalities just goes to show that the distinction between men and women (and also their clothing) shouldn't be So definite and defined.
I LIKE TO WEAR LINGERIE BRAS, PANTIES CORSETS ETC I PERSONALLY DO IT BC I BELIEVE IN DRESSING TO CONVEY SOMETHING AS A GUY WHEN I WANT TO FEEL POWERFUL I WEAR SUITS AND TUXES BUT TO FEEL BEAUTIFUL I WEAR BRA & PANTIES TO FEEL BEAUTIFUL BUT ALSO TO AS PAOLA PUT IT EMBRACE MY FEMININE SIDE
If you haven't already, ready the book: For the Love of Men. The explanations the author gives in there are disturbingly honest and to the point. It made me realize a lot of things about me. Well worth the read.
Your dress looks amazing sis-loved the video hun xx
Paola so true words you speak im new to it well near 2 years, but the more i do the more i love it i feel it brings out my softer side, im less nervous going out food shopping. and yes i love using make up yet still learning im 54 now i dress ok i think i dress smart nice tights on with skirt or dress, most of all i feel happy. your correct there should be no gender on clothes may be one day there wont be. oh i have to say loving the hair, your so beautiful and thank you for this video to all us sisters. xxx
Great video as always you always explain things so well. I loved the start of your video as we got to see your gorgeous dress and how amazing you look in it. The new wig is nice as well but I am assuming you are also growing your natural hair.
For me I can remember being young and playing with my moms make up or trying her bra on, but I was still scared and didn't know what it meant, after that everything I did dress up for Halloween I wanted to dress up as a woman, now that I'm much older I know that I am trans female, I wasn't able to explore to much because I was raised in a strict religious household, now that I'm married though I face the same problem I came out to my wife 4 years after we where married, but I did tell her before we got married I told her that I was attracted to other transwoman, femboys, and cross dressers and cis woman, I took care of my dad until he passed in 2014, even then I waited 4 years before I came out to my mother after that was when I started dressing more feminine.
Thanks for making this, this is such a much needed video.
I wish I had your courage and your beauty I shared this with my wife and she laughs about it when I dress that way I don’t know what to do OK love you keep up the good work
Thanks for making the various types of people out there feel comfortable.
Thank you Paola, for your encouragement and advice. Makes a lot of sense. I'm far too old, fat and ugly to carry it off like you do, but wearing some 'girl clothes' helps me imagine what I'd be able to do, now, in 2022 if I were 55 years younger; it was simply taboo back then!! XXX
I am a first timer on here on your UA-cam channel and your videos have been very informative and very helpful to me I have been dressing as a woman ever since I was 7 years old and u did get caught several times by my mother but it didn't stop me I am just so very grateful for finding you on here and you have been very helpful thank you so very much and please be careful and safe God bless
I wish I would have never stopped dressing, my life would have been so different. The shackles of society telling us how to dress, it would be so liberating to many of us.
Thank you darlin', so many don't see it the way it really is.
Miss Paola, I will never stop watching! I love your videos! I would that you keep making them! 💋❤💋❤💋❤💋❤💋❤💋❤💋❤💋❤💋❤💋❤
RON
I crossdress because it makes me feel happy . Very simple ❤
You are very lovely Paola. I have always thought that women have the best cloths and I love the feel of softer more pleasing feeling I get wearing them. Stay cool my friend. ;)
I always enjoy your videos, you inform and are so accepting of all! Plus you are lovely and im so soothed by your voice ❤️ ❤
I just found your channel Paola! An excellent video! Could you offer any suggestions for CD over 60 in the form of a video?❤️
I have crossdressed for years and I love the way it makes me feel . Most of the time I don't want to go back . Am I transgender female ? I really don't know . What do you think Chelsea ?
For me it started as something utterly practical.
I was down with very bad back problems and couldn't pull on my trousers or shorts.
So I decided to look for a wrap skirt online that I could just wrap around my body and have something to wear.
I found quickly that heck, this is far more comfortable than jeans or slacks, let's get a few more and wear them when I'm not at work and expected to "look professional".
Next came adding some variety in female tops and blouses (but still mostly "unisex") because I wanted more variety than is available in male clothing (especially if you want to look decent) and now I've replaced those jeans and slacks with female cut trousers.
And guess what, I look more "professional" than ever at work, feel much more comfortable and much more myself.
I've always had a pretty strong "feminine side", though you'd never see me wearing flowery dresses and frilly blouses. Then again, no woman in my life wore those, ever, so maybe role models play a part there.
From not being interested in sports and typical "boy games" as a child to not caring about cars and stuff as an adult, and later going into seeing porn and erotic novels and imagining myself (one of) the women in the scene rather than the men (which I guess you're supposed to imagine yourself to be).
I don't consider myself transgender, but I do consider myself pretty to be on the far end towards the extremes of the bell curve of masculinity. Which is almost certainly a hormone thing as much as anything else, and had I been exposed to the idea of transgender identity and gender transition 20 years earlier I may well have gone that way but by now I consider myself too old to go through with the whole process and still have a decent amount of life left to live as what I may well truly be.
One of my earliest memories I have, in life, is being at my great aunts house while she babysat me. I was 3-4. I remember playing in her bedroom and finding her pantyhose. Idk how I knew it was taboo but I remember laying underneath her bed and putting them on over my jeans… lol. Bottom half under the bed and top half sticking out. When she came to check on me I remember rolling them off and later coming back to put them in her bedside drawer.
Cut to me stealing sisters/moms clothes and panties growing up and now me continuing to dress today. Yea it is sexual a lot of the times, but I know it wasn’t back then… it’s a part of me and I don’t know why! I love it, but life would have been easier without this urge to dress.
Thank you so much .I have a question to ask if I may .are you full time nal .I'm trying to be and get on estrogen but never to ask my doctor. Love youer videos thay help me out so much .
You realy need to find the courage to see your doctor there is more than just taking estrogen to change from male to female.
Ask if your doctors practice has someone trained to help you.
It took me a few years to come out and ask for help with transformation.
Wishing you would come back and bring us up to date. We do miss seeing and hearing from you.
A much welcomed persona...thanks for sharing your thoughtz about fashion and beauty...loving the idea of thinking how beautiful people can motivate us to learn about our balanced place and purpose...the more i listen, i become empowered to learn my limits and also to please beautiful influencers like this who have been shaping for decades how we feelabout holidayys
Thanks for sharing Paola, you're amazing as always, love you, take care sweetie 🥰
A big part for me is simply, I love women!!! And i want to experience their world.
That being said, this is a lifelong thing since I was a little boy. I love the look, the feel, the pretty clothes. More and more i am adopting the life of a woman. Pedicy, now I'm doing my finger nails. Lotion. Face moisturizer, cuticle cream, earrings, learning makeup. I love it.
My wife is fairly ok with it all. I think of myself as the other woman! I am the woman in my life.
I love your wig. That looks really good on you.
Love the bangs and the length of your hair Paola.
It would be like McDonald's selling men's fries and women's fries. It's just a how society labels things. There's a difference between being a follower and a leader!!
I've missed you Paola. You've been such a good friend to me 🎉
I love your voice and your channel. I am not a cross dresser however I like to put on some make up once in a while to feel special. My hat is off to you please keep on the wonderful channel.
I express myself plus I love it as its my hobby plus its your life .
Very good video. I watch both of your UA-cam channels. I have to say, you are very helpful.
I’ve been crossdressing for a very long time. I feel more like a women then a man myself.
Thank you
Then you are a transgender
To answer your question about why women who wear mean clothes aren’t judged the same way, it comes down to one thing: misogyny. Wearing a suit or a masculine outfit as female symbolizes power. Which is why you hear the saying “Man up” instead of “Woman Up”. Society says this: Women wearing Suit and tie = Superior, Powerful & Strong. Men wearing Skirt and Heels = Weak, Sissy, Inferior. Sad but it’s reality unfortunately 🤷🏻♀️
I think it gives you power in a way
As you said, we're all unique. For me, I remember as a very small child wanting to be a girl. I was just drawn to girl stuff, and my family sternly drove me away from it. Later in life, I understood that I did not want SRS, I just wanted to express myself in ways that are commonly regarded as feminine. Since I live and work with people who see me as masculine, I chose to not request that they accept my feminine (is that even the right word?) side, so I only transform in private. I'm single, so there's no one who might be disconcerted by this part of me. I used to be married, and while we were married, she had major issues with me having a femme side, but after we divorced, she was actually into it. And I mean heavily into it. Funny. For a couple of years I totally embraced "Karen," and openly dressed for days on end, even around some of my transphobic friends. And though they were anti-trans, they admitted that I presented a convincing feminine image. Sadly, that was the closest thing to validation that I ever got. Never had sex with a man. And really, that's all I wanted: for a heterosexual man to take me as his lover in my feminine persona. I had gay friends who wanted the guy me, but I wanted at least one of my straight friends to want the girl me. And honestly, I sincerely believe a couple of them did. They said and did things that convinced me that they wanted to experience Karen sexually, but their religious convictions prevented them from crossing that line. Once, one of my more conservative and religious friends was willing to snort a line of a substance off of my thigh, but I didn't let him because I felt he might regret it later. Now I am the one with regrets! Hahaha! So, anyway, now, what I do, is I look at pictures of Karen and ache for what might have been. I am a cis-het guy, no sexual interest in men, but you know what, I love my legs! I think they are Karen's best feature, and as a heterosexual male, seeing pictures of Karen arouses me. Is that weird? I think it is. But, as a man who is aroused by feminine imagery, I can't help but being aroused by Karen's legs. Not my legs; Karen's legs. I wish I had a friend like me. Anyone else?
Paola, where are you? It’s been SOOOOOOOOO long since you’ve posted. What’s going on? How are You?
Paola, then there's guys like myself that are attracted to crossdressers and transgender women. I know you touched on this topic in the past, it's very important to me and many other guys that want to come out like myself regarding our attractions.
Thank you for another amazing video.☘️💚
As you know, there is a very big difference between a cross dresser and a transgender woman, but if that's your thing,have a blast
@@The_Hollywood_Mission well understood, I'm open with my attractions.
Love that ‘do on you Paola! You look like your getting younger and younger!
Thank you so much for helping me with self explanation without the guilt
For me it is the feeling and material used to make the clothing, and I like it!!!!
Crossdressing has odd feelings for me. Was full time girl mode pre transition trans woman and to be seen as a crossdresser was a real fear. Had to move places in a hurry and now a boy moder living in a situation where I crossdress to be less inconvenient to others and less discomfort only to hate myself and my existance. HRT is close to happening and close to full time girl modeing forever.
RONCARSON
@@ronaldcarson2170 yes, RONCARSON
Please, don't hate yourself. You need to do everything you can to not go down that road. Whether that's therapy or just dressing as a girl, do whatever you need to do to put yourself in a better mental state. Fuck any discomfort or inconvenience to others. You need to take care of yourself, first. From one human being to another, I wish you the best.
Yes, well said, and thank you. Women can wear men's clothes and nobody bats an eyelid...at the end of the day clothes really don't have a gender, people should be able to wear what makes them happy. Your make up looks so lovely by the way xx
My point is that there are a great many things people do in private. If crossdressing was the absolute worst of these things, the World would be a pretty decent place! Imagine if every wife-beater, drug-pusher, child-molester and other private monster instead got pretty a couple of nights per month. Maybe there would be fewer sirens at night and the front page of the newspaper would become easier to look at! It gets a pretty strong response from people when maybe it should get a shrug at the absolute worst.
She's so right about people being close minded. I had left a comment on why I crossdress from time to time on one of her other videos. I have one friend that knows of my crossdressing secret amd sirprising enough. He's okay with it. We still talk from time to time. However he still is kind of close minded on other things bit I won't get into that. lol
I'm bi but occasionally crossdressing is kind of a relaese, a change from the normal and wanting to be someone else at times. Can't leave out the fact that I love the feel of pantyhose, stockings or tights against my legs. They feel so good, especially when I'm out at night at a secluded spot feeling a warm summer nights breeze vloeing against my legs and up my skirt.😊
I used to cross dress because I liked being someone else for away. But looking back over my life I can see I am trans because how I perceive many things. What brand of wigs do you buy? Brianna
Another good video (I really like the dress, BTW!) I find that even in guy mode, I still like certain "women's" styles because of how flowy (for lack of a better word) they are. TBH, I'm kinda hoping that the most recent (and super popular) expansions for Final Fantasy XIV brings unisex robes back into style, because dresses (and robes) are comfortable as can be, and there's a reason why they were popular way back in the day.
I'm relatively new to crossdressing at the age of 60, started about three years ago. Started with just panties, then started purchasing more clothing online. Now I have a few outfits, wig, fake breasts etc. Once I figure out makeup I will venture out into the public. For now, I crossdress around the house . My girlfriend knows I crossdress, doesn't support it though☹️ I have a makeup artist planned for next year, then I will feel more comfortable dressing and going out to stores. The more I watch these videos, and others, make me feel more confident dressing.
Looking good dear miss u and I understand the video but it's not easy for me since I don't dress but I understand and accept all anyhow. Happy early spring and Easter
Crossdressing has begun as a way to relieve tension, but it seems to have awaken something dormant in the deepest corners of my soul, and it is slowly taking over...
I very much enjoy watching your videos, they are interesting and instructive and always put over in an intelligent and sensitive way. As to why I crossdress, I have no idea, I just enjoy presenting a female image, I guess...
Have tryed to stop but i cant i now know its a part of me. Where do i go from here.
Me personally I’ve always enjoyed dressing up wearing feminine clothing since I was a little kid. I would always go in secret and go through my Step auntie’s dirty laundry and wardrobe but mainly my step Cousin’s clothes that was just a couple years older. I would aspire to be like her. I remember the first time I got caught Crossdressing I locked myself in the restroom the day after this big party they through. I was trying on and wearing my step cousin’s clothes and outfits. I was fully dressed up with this cute mini white skirt, a blue blouse, stockings and heels. My mom managed to open the door and exposed me to all my step cousin’s. After that day my Step father’s family knew about this and would laugh and mock me. I was young and didn’t really understand this. I knew I was a boy growing up but I would always find myself dressing up in feminine clothes. But Yet my step cousin’s around my age despite the fact they laughed at me where also curious and would ask me questions. Part 1
Crossdressing is so much fun womens clothes are so comfortable putting on makeup a wig and a dress feels so good why I crossdress ? I love formal office wear skirts and dresses why not it’s only clothes and dressing as a woman is a great experience
It happened to me when I was about 12, and I felt that it was something that I had to do. Never looked back.
Thank you for making this video ❤
recurring dreams of being a woman but don't feel the need in waking life. Any ideas on hw to get rid of the recurring dreams?
In the beginning i liked crossdressing so i can let my feminine side come out more.. I've always had fem gestures the way i talk with my hands or how i carry myself.. And as a boy i feel like i always have to supress it.. Another was for dancing . When's i went out as a boy i was afraid i was gonna look feminine how i danced and i just didn't feel right doing it as a boy cuz it wasn't masculine looking.. So i feel when i dress up anything goes and i don't have that pressure in my head about worrying looking feminine..
Love the long hair today. It fits your face much better than the short one (IMHO).
I just think a lot of it is because some men admire women so much and what to be like them.
Stunning, breathtaking, smart, sweet, gorgeous...I dig you so much, Paola!
I have no idea why, it just is a part of me.
Most of the time I wish it wasn’t but it just is.
🤗💞
My therapist diagnosed me as transgender, possibly a crossdresser. She wasn't sure. After 6 months in daily drag, I felt like Darla was the real me and (deadname) was just a character created by my parents!
To me it definitely started young, my parents would drop me off at my aunts house, and i had some cousins that were girls, as young as mayb 6-8 years old i would sneak in their house and try wearing their socks and their shoes, as well as trying to always sneak in and wear my sister’s clothes when she was out. So it didn’t start as a fetish for me but I do think i tried to justify it as that for a couple years, I think I may be Trans and closeted or something like that? Im not sure, I always wanted to be a girl growing up but now a-days i don’t feel uncomfortable being a guy I just wish i could pass as a girl. I have been trying to get into it the past 3 years and its been working but pretty slow for me actually, im still to ashamed to come out as that to my parents, maybe it will happen soon but I haven’t given up so i plan to progress in the future.
Glad you re back miss you alot.
I'm a private CD, I love wearing women's clothing especially in cocktail outfits. Like prancing around in nylons & heels.
I love cross dressing! I love wearing makeup and embracing my feminine side
Cross dressing is a form of expression with many definitions I personally like cross dressing because I feel normal and happy and comfortable in my own skin I actually love myself ❤
I actually have fallen in love with the girl in the mirror because I know she loves me too❤
Clothes has no gender, I am a cross dresser, and I love wearing female clothes, so that I can get in touch with my feminine side so easily
I used to wear my sister's bra when she would leave the house. 😅😆
I never got caught.
I sort of trust using because I've always felt I was supposed to been a woman dressing your women's clothing and looking like a woman finally made me feel like I am the person I was supposed to be I'm actually on the inside as I do it on the outside and there's only grown stronger I'm happy I'm proud to be a transgender woman although I waited too long in my life a few minutes when I was growing up it was stereotypical if someone is a transgender or something mentally wrong with him had to go through a lot of crap because of that it kept me from coming up to me who I really on the inside imagine who I am on the outside I believe it's too long to change gender I haven't had a blood clot so I have to face the fact what I have left I take testosterone estrogen that's pretty good I probably allowing myself to be who I am on the outside inside to come out I meet the world and be who I really am that is why I'm proud to say my name is Robi! I listen to Paola unless you remind me but when she first started crossdressing any trouble with trials that she has to go through in her life and how she developed into a beautiful person and a woman I don't think that's as much as I might try to stand your woman I think I am a woman I have to accept the fact that I am the trash everything I listen to Paul about it's nothing that's the truth and honesty I just had to find in this world I thank you for this she's helped me out so much she is the reason why I kind of came out I said hey everybody this is me who I really am my name is Robbie and I'm proud of it! Really want to think Paola because of her coming out I see it as a woman has helped give me the courage to be who I am today I do not think I would have made to sleep if I would not watch her videos under sincerity and honestly it's very overwhelming thank you very much! I am forever grateful!!
I was either 10 or 11 years old the first time I wore my sister's tights. I went in the bathroom and I put them on and I just remember how they felt on my legs. I loved it. I was hooked on wearing tights after that. I remember when I was 18 years living at my grandparents house in San Diego CA my grandmother had saved several bags of my older cousins dresses and and tights that were too small for them but most perfect for me. I remember wearing a dress tights and I had found a pair of shoes that fit. I left the house about 4:00 in the morning. And walked up towards Sharp memorial hospital. Which was about a mile and a half away from the house. I was very nervous
Thinking somebody that knew me was going to see me
On the way to the hospital I had to walk up a a major throughfare. Yes there were some passing cars going but it seemed like they were not paying that close attention to me. As it got closer to about 6am. I returned back to the house. My aunt would tell me a few days later she saw me leave the house but never told anybody
I was embarrassed that somebody had seen me but I was overjoyed that she didn't tell anyone. I remember asking me if she wanted me to go shopping with her to get a couple of dresses shoes and some tights to where that were my size for if I would need her or my cousins help. I told her if I did make the switch to becoming a transgirl that I would definitely let her know. I wasn't very good at cross-dressing. I'm more or less just put any dress on in a pair of tights a wig and shoes and would just go out in public with no makeup on. When I go out public. I love becoming Monica. I know it is a fetish for me to dress up. And I've been doing it since I was 18. Now I am 50 years old. And not too many people in my family know that I continue to do it
Cross-dressing makes us feel good.
I came out to a friend as a cross dresser, and was totally humiliated. I will never do that again.
I started crossdressing because I was terrible at chatting to girls . I ended up dressing to become my own girlfriend. When I did finally get a girlfriend I had got so used to dressing i couldn't give it up and when the love of my life cheated on me and dumped me by phone mere months before we were due to be married married, I couldn't face being alone and it destroyed my confidence in chatting to girls again. For 10yrs I didn't have a girlfriend but when I dressed I became a different person and started dating men but I was only interested in men when I dressed. I wasn't lonely anymore. Nowadays I'm all Male and have a female partner someone I met on a blind date. She knows ive a stockings fetish but doesn't know i dress occasionally.
A lot of friends who do this. My hand went up, here.😊 I stopped caring about why. I'm more interested in enjoying my life these days. Perhaps more relevant is what happens if I'm in a situatuation where she can't come out. Like oh say, while deployed to Iraq. I was a very cranky human. It feels very natural to me to dress and behave, or some combination of that as feminine. It feels like some sort of punishment when I just can't for whatever reason do my thing. That's a little bit of my take on it. It's just, hey I need this to be okay. And I deserve to be okay.
I'm a cisgender woman and I found you accidentally not too long ago as I was searching for ASMR videos to fall asleep to. I was also trying to learn more about transgender people. So I guess the algorithm sent me here. I listen to your videos sometimes because they help me fall asleep. Your voice is very soothing
Thankyou so much excellent I love slipping into a new shear blouse or a nice skirt, Although i have over 25 pairs of strappy sandals. xxxx
Others say it's a trauma from your childhood that's the causation of your crossdressing but in my personal experience it wasn't like that for me . I crossdress because it makes me feel happy. I love wearing men's clothes and women's clothes. I just simply enjoy doing both
You opened my eyes thank you
I love to cross dress and in my twenties, I passed easily but middle aged spread and aging meant that I no longer passed.
I still love my women's clothes and only go out perhaps once a month as I don't like going out in the daylight especially as my house is overlooked by a dozen neighbours, plus now being a pensioner I can't afford new clothes every two months.
Why do you think you need new clothes every 2 months 😮
What is your Facebook link? Been trying to find you, but no luck.
I can see you've visibly lost muscle mass in your biceps compared to a video from 3 years ago. Awesome! What does that feel like?
Thank you Paola. You are an intelligent and absolutely beautiful woman.
I think you look cutest and prettiest when you have long hair with bangs, like you're wearing in this video. Just my opinion. ❤
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