One day in the locker room at work, a guy we've known for years took off his shirt to reveal a pink lacy bra. In shock, someone asked "When did you start wearing that?!" "Right after the wife found it in my suitcase after my last business trip."
Ive been dressing classy as a woman on my days off from work for well into 15 yrs...i love it especially wearing my heels with classy outfits & im single not many women care to associate with a guy who dresses well as a woman.
I'm not ashamed to say I'm a crossdresser and a transvestite. I crossdress because I like to identify as female and as best I can feel what it's like to be female. Then on the other hand I get extremely aroused when I dress in silky lingerie. I find when I put on my silky lacy undergarments I get very sexually aroused but as soon as I put my dress and wig on and fully feminize myself I instantly get over the sexual arousal and it becomes all about feeling like a female. I question? Am I just a transvestite or am I actually into wanting to be transgender? I've been doing this since I was very young and I don't ever think I could stop nor do I want to.
i have been doing what has turn out crossdressing over 50 years . hearing this my dream would be if i could talk to you so you could hear first hand how things have work on me. is there anyway i could look you up to get more answer to some questions i have ?
Abused as a child started at four because it felt good. It went away in my teens the reappeared when I married a woman who wasn't interested in sex. I should have left the marriage but I still loved her, plus two kids born in the first three years. Today I'm in my seventies and dress better than the real women out there. There social groups that I belong to. My spouse don't want to see me this way but don't object to me for going out dressed. I'm more into the transgendered spectrum but at my age I remain as male.
I can relate to being abused as a child. I really wasn't abused but I felt abandoned after a traumatic experience and my mother found more interest in my newly born sister. I used crossdressing in lingerie for sexual gratification throughout my teenage years and felt it would go away when I found the right woman and got married. I was wrong! I found more interest in fully crossdressing after getting married. Thankfully my wife was accepting but didn't want to have much involvement in my desires. I've been allowed to have my alone time to indulge myself and I'm thankful for that. I'm also 70 yrs. old and I'm getting concerned about dying and if my wife dies before me I would hate for my kids to find my extensive collection of feminine apparel. I don't ever want to quit and I don't think I could ever get rid of my lingerie, dresses, wigs or heels. I don't know what to do and life is getting shorter and shorter.
@@smurph1153all my adult children know I dress up. It might be good to level with them. You seem to be of sound mind and they should be able to understand you are living your best life.
Ladies the ONLY person who REALLY understands why is a crossdresser. All crossdressers are different and crossdress for different reasons. You two are genetic females and you might think you understand but you DO NOT. I have been crissdressing for 60 years and my female self (Rachel ) is I my soul. When I crossdress for me personally it is very erotic and sexual,and after I releive myself I am Rachel and very relaxed and a different person.I was married for 22 years and kept it secret for most of that time.Unfortubately it cost me my marriage. We are still friends and she has always kept my secret. deeply regret not telling my wife and now I totally understand why she could not handle it. If I was to put myself in her place and SHE was dressing as male I would find it very hard to understand and would also be hurt for her nit telling me.
That is what I thought. I always put myself in her shoes. What if she had to dress as a male? I would feel like I was somehow lacking but we had three children so I was not lacking. It is something we men and some women have. It is like an extra gene. There is no way to explain it other than we feel better when we dress as the other sex. I feel calm and peaceful.
Do you know what would cease the purging phenomena. The cessation of shaming, or stigmatizing femineity in males. Remove ALL sex based dress codes as well.
Of all the terms available now, I still call myself a transvestite. It seems less acceptable now but it's what I am. I've been dressing since I was 11 and from day 1 to now - it's always been about sexual pleasure for me. It's also very relaxing, but it's really all sexual. I probably have transvestic fetishism as I've always been fixated on skirts. I wear a complete female outfit, and I love all things feminine like tights and heels and bras and panties, but it's really all about the skirts - particularly pencil skirts.
Geeeez sure would be nice if the hagg would let you finish a sentence or two .I feel she like listening to herself ..well lady's I'm out of here you can run but you can't hide
Reading the comments here is at last enlightening for me. I'm female and cross dressed as male almost all my life. Having a seriously mentally ill mother that tried to sexualize or desensitize all family members to inappropriate boundary crossing, for me humiliating and attempting to pimp me out, I did not ever want to be viewed as a sexual being, but make an effort at a social event but felt uncomfortable. I found peace in physical strength and mental intelligence. I'm in menopause now and more peace with myself being invisible in society. I wonder how many of today's youth are being abused at home, or indoctrinated at school amongst their peers leading them to make unwise decisions. If I was a teen now I'd have jumped on the bandwagon.
26:50, yea...no. You see this is about as cool as saying to the woman. "Okay, we can agree to that, but everyday of the month except one day you will dress "like a lady", eg full dress, heels, makeup, the whole 9 yards. " Setting limits on expression in this manner presented here is just codswallop.
Love dressing been doing it for 25 yrs and I'm never going to stop
One day in the locker room at work, a guy we've known for years took off his shirt to reveal a pink lacy bra. In shock, someone asked "When did you start wearing that?!" "Right after the wife found it in my suitcase after my last business trip."
Ive been dressing classy as a woman on my days off from work for well into 15 yrs...i love it especially wearing my heels with classy outfits & im single not many women care to associate with a guy who dresses well as a woman.
I found out years ago I was dressing better than the women around me.
I've been c/dressing for years .I feel more relaxed and comfortable that way , my girlfriend likes it so I'm lucky .
I'm not ashamed to say I'm a crossdresser and a transvestite. I crossdress because I like to identify as female and as best I can feel what it's like to be female. Then on the other hand I get extremely aroused when I dress in silky lingerie.
I find when I put on my silky lacy undergarments I get very sexually aroused but as soon as I put my dress and wig on and fully feminize myself I instantly get over the sexual arousal and it becomes all about feeling like a female.
I question? Am I just a transvestite or am I actually into wanting to be transgender? I've been doing this since I was very young and I don't ever think I could stop nor do I want to.
I am the same. I will never have any hormones or surgery. I enjoy moving between appearances.
i have been doing what has turn out crossdressing over 50 years . hearing this my dream would be if i could talk to you so you could hear first hand how things have work on me. is there anyway i could look you up to get more answer to some questions i have ?
Abused as a child started at four because it felt good. It went away in my teens the reappeared when I married a woman who wasn't interested in sex. I should have left the marriage but I still loved her, plus two kids born in the first three years. Today I'm in my seventies and dress better than the real women out there. There social groups that I belong to. My spouse don't want to see me this way but don't object to me for going out dressed. I'm more into the transgendered spectrum but at my age I remain as male.
I can relate to being abused as a child. I really wasn't abused but I felt abandoned after a traumatic experience and my mother found more interest in my newly born sister. I used crossdressing in lingerie for sexual gratification throughout my teenage years and felt it would go away when I found the right woman and got married. I was wrong! I found more interest in fully crossdressing after getting married.
Thankfully my wife was accepting but didn't want to have much involvement in my desires. I've been allowed to have my alone time to indulge myself and I'm thankful for that.
I'm also 70 yrs. old and I'm getting concerned about dying and if my wife dies before me I would hate for my kids to find my extensive collection of feminine apparel.
I don't ever want to quit and I don't think I could ever get rid of my lingerie, dresses, wigs or heels.
I don't know what to do and life is getting shorter and shorter.
I am the same way. I actually dress better than my wife!
@@smurph1153all my adult children know I dress up. It might be good to level with them. You seem to be of sound mind and they should be able to understand you are living your best life.
I got through ~ 20 mins, then became SICK of two people speaking over each other.
Seriously
Thanks, I will not listen to it then.
Ladies the ONLY person who REALLY understands why is a crossdresser. All crossdressers are different and crossdress for different reasons. You two are genetic females and you might think you
understand but you DO NOT. I have been crissdressing for 60 years and my female self (Rachel ) is I my soul. When I crossdress for me personally it is very erotic and sexual,and after I releive myself I am Rachel and very relaxed and a different person.I was married for 22 years and kept it secret for most of that time.Unfortubately it cost me my marriage. We are still friends and she has always kept my secret. deeply regret not telling my wife and now I totally understand why she could not handle it. If I was to put myself in her place and SHE was dressing as male I would find it very hard to understand and would also be hurt for her nit telling me.
That is what I thought. I always put myself in her shoes. What if she had to dress as a male? I would feel like I was somehow lacking but we had three children so I was not lacking.
It is something we men and some women have. It is like an extra gene. There is no way to explain it other than we feel better when we dress as the other sex. I feel calm and peaceful.
Do you know what would cease the purging phenomena. The cessation of shaming, or stigmatizing femineity in males. Remove ALL sex based dress codes as well.
I have done the same thing. The shaming is so expensive. My shame is rooted in condemnation from my church...
@@VictorianMaid99 Ah yes. The entity that is supposed to unify, not divide....dividing.
Of all the terms available now, I still call myself a transvestite. It seems less acceptable now but it's what I am. I've been dressing since I was 11 and from day 1 to now - it's always been about sexual pleasure for me. It's also very relaxing, but it's really all sexual. I probably have transvestic fetishism as I've always been fixated on skirts. I wear a complete female outfit, and I love all things feminine like tights and heels and bras and panties, but it's really all about the skirts - particularly pencil skirts.
I love dressing from the Victorian Era. It seems the maids had a rough time of it.
Yes I'm a Crossdresser.
Geeeez sure would be nice if the hagg would let you finish a sentence or two .I feel she like listening to herself ..well lady's I'm out of here you can run but you can't hide
Reading the comments here is at last enlightening for me. I'm female and cross dressed as male almost all my life. Having a seriously mentally ill mother that tried to sexualize or desensitize all family members to inappropriate boundary crossing, for me humiliating and attempting to pimp me out, I did not ever want to be viewed as a sexual being, but make an effort at a social event but felt uncomfortable. I found peace in physical strength and mental intelligence. I'm in menopause now and more peace with myself being invisible in society. I wonder how many of today's youth are being abused at home, or indoctrinated at school amongst their peers leading them to make unwise decisions. If I was a teen now I'd have jumped on the bandwagon.
Not listening to this taped interview.
@@phoenixkaliin my years of crossdressing I have met several women that dressed as men and they were not gay!
It's irritating listening to people who think they are experts and know all it because they read it in a book. Everyone is different.
Long live cross dressing.
26:50, yea...no. You see this is about as cool as saying to the woman. "Okay, we can agree to that, but everyday of the month except one day you will dress "like a lady", eg full dress, heels, makeup, the whole 9 yards. " Setting limits on expression in this manner presented here is just codswallop.
Who the hell are either of you to have an opinion on what anybody else does especially the one who doesn't crossdress. What a nerve
I did not listen to the interview. From what I gather to was two females arguing over what crossdressers feel like.