😱 EXTREME TOY DECLUTTER | We GOT RID of 95% of Our Toys (Before/After 5 Years MINIMALISM with Kids)
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- Опубліковано 13 гру 2024
- Are you overwhelmed with toy clutter? Want to start decluttering toys but don't know how to begin? Interested in knowing more about family minimalism and how it can fit into YOUR lifestyle? Then you will enjoy this EXTREME toy declutter before and after motivation video! I am going to discuss our family minimalism journey, how to declutter toys step-by-step, my favorite way to get rid of stuff after decluttering, and more! If you want to know how to declutter and organize toys this is a great place to start - after a massive toy declutter, our family is MUCH HAPPIER and our kids are calmer and -- dare I say it? -- smarter!
We started with a KonMari toy declutter 5 years ago and have gone so far beyond! Looking at these before and after extreme decluttering pictures had me totally shocked. My kids are loving their new minimalist playroom.
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I am literally in tears over here because of the information. My wife and I are in fact so overwhelmed with the amount of stuff! I can’t wait to embark on this journey!
You are an awesome human! ❤❤
Another thing worth mentioning is your children will thank you for decluttering their toys when they're grown up! I'm in my early 20s and have been burdened with the task of decluttering my numerous childhood toys because my parents were too sentimental to do it. I've spent countless hours listing them to sell and give away because I feel environmentally obliged to do so rather than sending them to landfill or donating.
@xiaox3293....... wrong they will hate you for make them get rid toys that might be worth $1000's of dollars 40 years from now ...... I wish that i had kept every box and every toy i had from my childhood ....i'd be a millionarie right now .....
@@bw7449 you wish you had that broken happy meal toy you played with for the day then lost under the seat and never played with again and is worth exactly $0 like the majority of all kids toys unless they're rich to begin with in which case you have nothing to worry about...?
@@GrumpyManatee .....uh no, i grew up in the 1980's our old toys we had back then are worth a fortune now....... and my parents sure weren't rich so that's a false notion ......
No, you wouldn't. Unless maybe you never played with them. Most tires aren't worth what people think they are. Not beanie babies, hot wheels, Barbies, cabbage patch etc. unless they are in mint or pristine condition. @@bw7449
@@GrumpyManateemy kid and I go to McDonald's maybe once a month and she has only gotten an actual happy meal maybe 3 times and trust me, she knows where those three toys are 😅
OMG- THANK YOU!!! My entire life I've been so good at organizing and these past few years I feel so overwhelmed. I'm sitting here right now having a glass of wine and thinning out the boy's toys while he naps. I'm so sick of picking up a wreck EVERYDAY and this video has helped me find direction and QUICKLY!! THANK YOU!! I'm already feeling focused and like there is light on the horizon! 🙏 Peace and blessings!
Thank you for the promotion of selling your toys. Virtually everyone on minimalist groups is telling me NOT to bother selling stuff. But honestly selling it to other collectors or families really helps me deal with the guilt and sadness. It replaces it with seeing the joy of the person buying it, as well as a bit of cash. I also have found that by selling it you clean it up and help insure that it goes to a home where it will continue to have life rather than ending up in the trash or damaged.
I need to do this
I totally get what you're saying, but for me persobally its such a huge step to declutter in the first place that once im done, i just want the stuff gone! What's broken/damaged goes into the trash, some things they still kind of like but haven't used in a long time goes to grandma's house so its not gone but also not cluttering up the kids room and they still get to play with it when we visit. The rest thats stikl good ill donate. If tried selling thibgs a few times but it's so much work negotiating with different people until one actually takes it, sending it, going ro the post office... It takes up so much time and you have to keep it around until someone wants it too. Its just not for me. Lol. But everybody is so different so if you fibd it works for you then thats really great and who doesn't love a little extta cash? ;)
but it ends up in the trash anyway when the next person or the next person or wtv is done with it
I sell the big or expensive stuff (grown out bikes, furniture…). I am a working mom and don’t have the time to sell every little thing. What I don’t sell or give to the little cousin will be donated. But if I was a stay at home mom I certainly would sell more, especially some high quality clothes. The problem is (and I am guilty of this, too) that selling needs time and in extreme cases the things wait MONTHS to leave your home and probably will catch more clutter. I actually forgot a basket of things I wanted to donate for a whole year and just recently found them again. And I am on my minimalist journey for eight (starting) or six (seriously starting) years.
You always have layered comedy in your videos. The things you say, the text overlays, your faces. Thanks for all the laughs!!
Thank you! I get so many random thoughts popping in sometimes I’ve just gotta throw them in there. 😅🙌
I dont buy toys, but my mother in law shows love this way.. including garage sale items (she has plenty of money but just cant resist).. there's so much joy shared by grandma giving things, and kids receiving.. im just on the other end swiming in crap!
My family is like that My parents and my uncle/aunt. They get for Christmas at all the houses full on "santa" I have 3 children. It's always like that plus they get them stuff regularly. I get so overwhelmed. I'm super grateful and it was that way with me growing up bc I was an only child for a very long time and I'm the oldest grandchild/niece. It's really a blessing but a curse at the same time. I've tried toy rotation etc. Now that we're starting school I'm really being the bad guy and saying keep this stuff at your house bc with 3 it's too much. Everywhere is full of "stuff"
Half of my kids’ toys in my
House are from grandma ! She gives WAY too many presents for xmas every year and she knows we don’t have the space or storage solutions for it, too. 😵💫 I am right there with you on that one.
Oh my gosh, I'm a single mum with 2 young kids in a small house and my life is absolutely like your 'before'. I'm so overwhelmed with all the stuff filling my house and the constant mess. Love your very real delivery style, I will be watching more of your videos! X
I’m watching/listening to this as I declutter my sons toys and it’s making me so excited because I know that as soon as I’m done I’ll feel way less overwhelmed and so much better. Thank you!
That’s wonderful to hear! It’s going’s to be amazing! ✨👏✨
Love this ! I grew up with a minimal amount of toys and I love seeing friends and people doing it now with there kids.
Minimal Zebra Great to hear from the perspective of someone who grew up like this! Thanks for sharing! 👍
@@AtoZenLife Welcome!
This is great. I find the biggest problem is me, not my boy. I'm so attached to anything he has used 💔 I'm really trying to move past this but it's mega hard for me.
Same here 💔
Same
Your child is probably attached to his toys as well, you can declutter without throwing out all his stuff. Switch between toys every few days. Only allow one bin or two allowed out per day. But please don't throw out all your kids toys..
Children can form attachments with toys, and will notice if you random start getting rid of them, (children aren't just some mindless robots). And to give a child lots of toys than get rid of most of them is kinda cruel.
Same and then I feel bad since I am mostly the cause of all the toys or yes I will buy that or this…. And that makes sense about playing longer abs better with less. I need to figure out what and how to get rid of the toys…. Yet keep what matters
I’ve decluttered so many times and it keeps finding its way back in. I’m finally in that “refining more” stage going from less than most to minimal. Thank you for the motivation ❤️
It’s always a journey. ✨❤️✨
Same I was in that middle stage for so so long... finally breaking through to very minimalist now 🙌🙌🙌🥰
I did this a few years ago and did the bin system people thought I was on crack and they kept trying to buy him toys and I kept repeating don't buy him toys my family now sort of respect it but I come from family of horders so it's hard
Good for you for standing up for your beliefs! It isn't easy, esp with hoarders! I have/had a few in my family, too.
@@AtoZenLife sure makes it hard when you're trying to break generations of it I'm 3rd Generation hoarder and my son is 4th generation we're really trying to break the cycle
@@mandywinter6490 I feel you! I am a second gen and I can already see hoarding tendencies in my 7 y/o - we work on it daily. Be strong, mama! 💪
@@AtoZenLife yes its not easy good luck mama
Same here! It's hard when the family gets offended when we give away toys they gifted us.
We decluttered all the way down to like 15 hot wheels, 5 baby dolls, and video games in the house. Outside we have bikes, trampoline, and a pool. My kids play with our chickens more than anything else! We spend most of our free time fishing, hunting, gardening and other fun yet productive activities.
If I had kids, this video would be my jam...my inspiration. Less to clean and organize.....creativity.....THEM learning to pick up after themselves.....less visual clutter.....less going to a landfill or donation.
You are you to change my life, I know it! I have been trying to do this for so long but something about your story is resonating with me and I'm definitely going to move forward starting now!
I'm not a minimalist, and don't want to be - but I want more space and for the things we have to be our favorites. I used this video as inspiration to pare down kid stuff. Thank you, it is so much more peaceful.
This is one of the best decluttering/minimilist videos I've watched yet! Just best videos in general. Thank you! New subscriber :)
Thanks so much Hannah! Welcome to the fam. 🥰
Hello my wife is doing this but gradually and we really see the change in playing and apreciation of toys play longer also and be more willing to put everything in place so happy kids happy parents
This is one of the very best toy decluttering videos I've seen (along with the Minimal Mom who did something g very similar to you!) My heart breaks for the moms I watch declutter toys and although they do get rid of some, the amount they keep insures everything will be back in a huge mess in a few days...😐
Dana Brown Thank you so much! ❤️ I love The Minimal Mom, but I haven’t seen her video - it’s nice to be compared to her! Getting rid of toys is tough for sure. The thing about this video is I’m showing the progress after five years and multiple rounds of decluttering, but you get to see the end result all at once! I always say minimalism is like a muscle, you need to be constantly working it, stretching it, flexing it, and pushing it to get the best results!
This is awesome! We've struggled to continue being minimalist after kids. This helps us out!
Thanks so much! ✨
It might help if you think of the word simple than the word minimal.
Me looking into minimalism after having a melt down from feeling overwhelmed.
This video made so much sense! I have decluttered my boys room since i saw this video, and now he plays longer with the same things. I have only kept the things he really loves and plays with. Now the rest is gone and i love IT!! Tyding his room now costs me five minutes a day in stead of a few hours a week! Thanks for sharing this video, i think a lot of other parents should she this. Groetjes uit Nederland 😘
My children are in their thirties now. I've been watching tons of decluttering videos for my own home. I have been shocked at the amount of toys the children in these videos have and how much is left AFTER a declutter. It gives me anxiety looking at it and I imagine there are children filled with anxiety in these homes.
I think everyone has their own definition of minimalism, and different thresholds, so it’s always interesting to see what people get rid of versus keep! Good luck with your decluttering.
We are working on our decluttering! Thanks for the tips. 💕
You are so welcome and GOOD LUCK!
I used to struggle with so many toys, but before xmas or bdays, we would donate bags of less favorite toys. My daughter gave up all toys except her beanie boos the summer before 5th grade. I kept a few special ones as a keepsake inside a tote with special drawings, school work, and baby outfits. I was a little sad. She grew up quickly and decided she didn't want her toys. She was happy to sell and donate them to other kids who would appreciate them. If you are struggling....they won't be babies forever and will get rid of them eventually. I do agree that fewer toys will be appreciated more, in a world so materialistic that it is important to have gratitude.
Do you struggle with toy clutter? Let me know what you find hard to get rid of in the comments below. Don’t forget to SHARE with someone else you know who could use some decluttering inspo in their life! 🙌
I love this video you explained a lot of great facts and I'm sure it will help so many moms 😉
ALEXIA HD COACH - Tout est Beau Dans ma Vie I sure hope so. 😉 Thanks for watching! ❤️
Marissa: Squirrels of a Feather U R welcome
Marissa: Squirrels of a Feather I have a hard time with my and my sis toys my one whole
Wall is a closet, and I need help with what should you do when that whole wall is stuffed what
Am saying is can you make organization ideas! ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ
@@Hai-gz7mk Hahaha, I am better at decluttering than organizing, because it's easier to organize when you have less stuff! I bet you can find a TON of great videos on here -- also, check Pinterest! They have some phenomenal organizing DIYs, hacks, and tips! That way you don't have to wait around for my videos. ;)
I need to do this. We have issues with not wanting to let go of toys that were long outgrown.
You can do it! 🙌
I’m a dad and we have the same problem in my house. Attachments to items (that includes mom and dad’s) because there’s gifts, toys purchased on special occasions, and of course there’s money invested. I have a plan and she gave me lots of good tips.
FitnessNBeer I hear you on all these counts...FYI, I I found it helped me emotionally and with financial guilt to sell the clutter! 💰 I have a video on that too, if you are interested. I can tell you from first-hand experience kid stuff sells great, I was making $1000 a month on eBay at one point. ✌️😌
Love this video so much! I keep coming back to it for inspiration and motivation to keep my kids clutter under control. Thank you ❤
Thank you for your kind words! 🙏
this is so interesting. I aways thought those were their names. That's so creative.
US kids make up 3% of the population but 47% of books and toys on the planet!? 🥺
A true horror story! 😨
Okay, if Ericka Lucas watches, than so will I.
@@solagnesanders6000 I love Marissa’s channel!
And 30% of that number is in my house. 😉
@@findingaway5512 this is hilarious the remaining percentage is in mine
I'm a dad watching this, thanks for the tips!
I'm inspired! I've been decluttering since watching these videos. I also started selling instead donating to places that end up selling my stuff anyways. It feels awesome 😎
Hi genuine question, the kids room looks pretty plain, do you allow them to decorate or put up their drawings on the walls?
Is call minimalist and really help the kids actually focus and apreciate what they have kids dont really care about decoration adults do
@@maikelosorio6117 the bedroom looks like a mental hospital room, looks extremely depressing
So you saying minimalist is for people with mental problems 🤔 then keep consuming buying all crap and get yourself and your house decorated to today standars sebd a letter to Marie Condo about getting her in a mental institution then and all who follow her too 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@maikelosorio6117 can you read ? I said the bedroom looks like a mental hospital, that doesn't Mean the mom or children are mental patients. Geez fix your brain you weirdo
If not been a hoarder make me a weardo yes i am thank you, i see you know a lot about mental institution sense you the expert i can argue about it , but if doenst look so overwalm clutter with useless stuff and is clean for me is a 5 start hotel
When theyre older and dont have much "share/group" toys and belongings you can get small trunks for the end of their beds and they can keep just their things in there and when theyre mature enough having a combination lock or a key lock (that you also know or have a spare key for) on the trunk will feel like they have true privacy and safety even if their room is shared or if you are still resposible for going in and out of their room for laundry cleaning etc that way even if they know mum has free access to my room or my brother and i share a room that theyll still have their safe private space thats just theirs and the trunk/container/toy box/military metal box or even old big toolbox is there limit to those things.
I love the trunk method since it ages with them you can get it when theyre born and they can take it with them when they move.
The best part is it can store anything blankets when theyre babies stuffed animals books toys teenage stuff memory stuff valuables so even if they stop using it in their bedroom they can use it as a coffee table or for their own child.
Its very easy to paint it or change out hardware to update too and good solid ones made of wood or metal will last forever which is great because theyre often expensive.
I love furniture and belongings that grow with the person and are classic and timeless. I think thats a very minimalist thing to only buy things that are multipurpose long lasting and really earn their keep.
Getting ready for another round of decluttering in my room! 😳 It's overwhelming, particularly in the book department (I really like books...), but for now I'm using the "box it" strategy for what I'm not quite ready to get rid of. And I can't wait to have a room I can actually use to it's full potential!
My goal is to get my own things pared down, and then prevent it from getting out of hand with my own children one day. I love seeing your boys play together so creatively! 😊
MinstrelGirl 451 I like that you are thinking ahead! Good luck with the books, they can be tough for book lovers. And thanks for saying that about the boys. ☺️
Thank you! Finally decluterring advice from a parent=someone who understands me:)
Omg. I love your channel, message and home!
Thanks so much for your kind words. 🤗
I have four kids. I have spoilt them with toys. As a kid I was fostered and hardly had any toys. I wanted them to have s better childhood. I have been decluttering for 2 years now but keep buying them more for Christmas etc I have had a light bulb moment this year. I am annoyed I wasted so much money. It really is a big lifestyle change. We normally take the kids our with us to the shops and they want things and we give in. Now we are not going anymore. I will now not buy them toys for birthdays etc it will be hard but I'm committed and will keep de cluttering.
Aw, big hugs Monica and definitely go easy on yourself - it came from a place of love and know now those things can move on to another place of love ❤️ for other children. It will be some work to get around this (as a recovering emotional hoarder, I feel you) but it can be done! Good luck! 🍀
I’ve always noticed this with my son but whenever I would buy new toys he would just get overwhelmed with the toys he will play with them make a mess and then never go back into the “playroom” soon as I cleaned it up he’d be back playing with only specific toys so I decluttered all the toys he never plays with and to think I felt guilty for not buying him new toys
What about gift seasons? Birthdays and Christmas? How do you handle gifts from extended family?
Thanks for this Marissa. Toys is the next area I will be tackling today whilst my son is at his grandparents. 🥰
OMG! The intro to this video made me giggle more than it should have. I'll be coming back for more. Lol
Hahaha, thanks so much! Glad you enjoyed. ☺️
Thank you for introducing me to Kapla blocks. Now instead of decluttering, I’m here on Amazon ordering more toys! 😂
Such a great video! SO helpful, thank you!
I am always stunned to see how much toys my grandchildren have! Way, way too much. My children had more than I as a child, and we never felt deprived. My children had toys for appropriate child development and were happy. Too much!
This is THE BEST video I've watched after becoming a mom (twice). Mari Kondo helped me so much with the rest of the things, but the toys were the thing that gave me such a huge anxiety and an endless cleaning and organizing routine devoured ALL of my free time. I live in South Korea with my Korean husband, and it feels like if the American kids have 47% of all the book and toys on the planet, the rest of it is definitely owned by Korean kids. So, my struggle to survive (well, mentally at least) led to discovering Joshua Becker and his "Clutterfree with kids", but it just didn't seem real - how is it even possible? And now I finally saw it with my very eyes! Thank you!❤
Definitely feeling inspired!!! My toddler is only 2 and I worry how much we have
The good news is that starting early is a lot easier for everyone! Good luck. 🍀
Kapla is the best toy! Used to play with it for hours as a child. In combination with vehicles and figures, you can build a whole city
Thankyou so much for this video. Very helpful.
Metal Matchbox/hot wheel cars/trucks/tractors & Melissa & Doug plain blocks get played with every day here too. We have little animals & dinosaurs to go with too. The play kitchen is what I want to ditch, with all the things in it, but the kids say they want it... Even though they don't look at it. A month ago I got rid of 4 huge toy things & the kids haven't noticed.
My kids have a freaking toy store basically. It's insane. So so much is gifted to them constantly.
Omg I needed you in my life. We are moving from a 4000sqft house to a 1600sqft house I need to get rid of it. I have a 18 month old and I'm 24 weeks pregnant.
Do it now! Minimalizing is so much easier when they are small.
@@misstw89 it already feels so much better getting rid of so much stuff. I have probably gotten rid of 30 plus pick up truck loads of stuff. Just insane how much we have acquired. I was always good at organizing it but it still was just so much I'd forget about it and leave it in a drawer for years.
You have such a great energy and vibe! I'm starting my journey and you are a great inspiration. Subscribed!
Thank you so much for your kind words, Martha, thank you and welcome to the family! ✨🙌✨
BTW Lego comes in large boxes so your kids can tip the bits into it and build the model inside the box! It helps to open it in a way that allows access from the top! This keeps all the pieces together, and offers a place to store the bits if you pull it back apart.
Brozzie Sparrow We used to have one in the USA, and it was great! Definitely a good playroom storage solution for small spaces! 👍
These vids are SO helpful and motivating I feel like I’m well equipped to get started after watching them especially the questions to ask yourself when decluttering
Ugh we have so many toys in our house! This video makes me really want to sell all their toys 😩 thanks for the vid ❤️
Sure thing, and good luck! :)
Yey that's definitely me I need to decluttering toys all over flat. My kid has loads of lego oof and clothes and stuff.
I saw it again, love it Marissa❣️ Hugs Jannnike🇸🇪❤️
My 4 year old was watching this with me and while watching we filled 2 black bags with toys we don’t need or use anymore 😳 😅 thanks for the inspo
Your place looks so peaceful with only what your kids play with
I love that! Thanks so much and wishing you guys both the best 💪
I’m so glad I came across this. Right now I’m so overwhelmed by the clutter in my house. Mainly so so many toys, books cuddly toys and kids clothes. It all started 13 years ago when my father who I was so close to died. And I became so sentimental. Keeping everything especially things from my family members because I had the mindset that one day they will die and I need something sentimental from them such as years of Christmas cards, Birthday cards, presents off my grandparents who have now passed away but the gifts I really would never use!. But enough was enough not so long ago and I had someone else to help de-clutter my house without me seeing or I’d of keep saying - no I’ll keep that, no such a person gave me that. I don’t know what was thrown out although I know it’s nothing valuable or too important. And I felt so relieved seeing a tidy space and didn’t have that guilt of what I’d thrown out. But upstairs is next!. The dreaded toy room. I’ve done really well to be honest. I’ve put a lot to the side for charity. My children are lazy and won’t help me! My eldest has said she doesn’t want toys anymore so that’s made things easier to get rid of. It’s mostly their new born baby clothes they used to wear. So I’ve kept just 5 items instead of the 245 items I’ve given to charity
Loved this video! It was super helpful and super motivating! Thanks so much! 🙏
Thanks so much for watching! ✨🙌✨
The half-eaten food!!!!! Yes!!! Oh my gosh. I'm glad I'm not the only one. 🙈🙈
My kid just tipped out his toy bag as I started watching it! Of course he isn’t playing with anything he just tipped out and of course it’ll be me who tidies it all up!
ninjanessy Time for some decluttering? 🤔
My child does this too, she always has since she figured out how to tip bins and baskets over. Lol. She’s 5 now and still does it. I make her clean it up though which is always a struggle. 🤦🏻♀️ and she is so attached to everything she will be on the verge of tears if I even mention the idea of going through her toys to pick out ones she doesn’t play with to donate. She insists that she plays with everything and every toy is her favorite one.
Within the first 30 seconds I decided I needed to subscribe to this woman!
Good choice 😌👍
Yooo 😭😂 I felt this so much !!!! The intro made me have a good laugh thanks for that 🤍
i literally love you. Thanks for the inspiration!!!
Great video! I am beyond overwhelmed with all the toys here! I get attached to things including their toys and I hate to get rid of a lot of them..but it’s time now that baby #3 is in the way! I’m honestly not sure I could downsize as much as you, but I’ll shoot for getting rid of most of it! I agree on selling stuff, but will probably do a yard sale for most things even though I could make more on marketplace.. just for sake of my time & then donate the rest! Tfs ❤️
My children love wooden trains and tracks, legos, crafts and such (play doh, kinetic sand, etc), cars, and dress up. Ironically, all open ended play. Who knew 😆 so much easier to keep organized into categories too!
Your advise can help non-parents as well.
My family moved continents in mid 2019, I gave away some of my daughter's toys, the books she had outgrown I gave to her preschool for the younger class and all the extra decorative pillows from her room where given to her classes reading corner. It made it easier for her to know where her things were going. I always ask her to help declutter her things, from clothes, to books to toys. Sometimes it takes her a long time to get rid of an item, it always seems to help her if we have some she can pass it on too. I just did a closet clear out and she knows that her outgrown clothes are going to 2 younger cousins ☺️. I need to declutter toys, wish me luck.
Amazing clean.
How can you get more subscribers?! Because your videos are great! The minimal amount of toys left is inspirational. We have loads, but like you started, a lot less than a lot of our friends. I'm afraid my son would notice if we got rid of anything. He has a scarily accurate memory! Love the kapla blocks. Take care xx
You are the BEST! 😁 I hope that people will gradually find and follow me more, as I keep putting out videos and improving. If you know anyone else who needs family minimalism tips, please refer them to me. 😉 Eventually I’m sure your son will notice - you can do the 30 day trial period and see how it goes! If it takes them 6 months to notice (has definitely happened with my kids) clearly they didn’t really need it! Good luck!
@@AtoZenLife thank you, we are going to try this and use our attic space which at the moment is completely empty (minimalists 😁). At least then if he has a meltdown it's all still there. I'll make referrals where I can! Best of luck.
Melissa Murnane Sounds like a plan on both fronts! After all, kids don’t always know what’s best! ❤️ We have a lot more time together instead of material possessions!
My son had a phase around age 4 of putting play dough into his legos and other toys. Still finding some stuck in the Lego pieces 2 years later...
Awesome!
Oh my GOODNESS You need more subscribers. Instant fan!!
Woohoo, welcome to the fam! ✨🙌✨ Feel free to spread the word and share my videos if you know someone who would like them...every share helps! ☺️
Love the comedy part 🤣
I’m going on my 3rd round of toy decluttering, and considering getting rid of even the legos! Lol. They always end up scattered between the abysses, and there are always protests about cleaning them. so now my vacuum will have no mercy😂
Im Sa Hahaha RIP, little LEGOS - we have lost many to the swift and merciless suction of my husband vacuuming without his glasses on. 😂 If you DO decide to get rid of LEGOS you can sell them by the pound on eBay! Easy peasy, keep it up! ✌️😁
4:48 ... THE GIVING TREE!!! 😃
Oh man I'm currently going through and decluttering my house I'm trying to live a more minimal lifestyle . I've been filming the process too and it's crazy how much I've accumulated over the years. It's exhausting lol
Wow, it looks like you’ve done a lot of work! It’s so good that you are filming everything, I wished I had filmed everything when I started five years ago - it was TOO overwhelming for me. 😅 Cheers and good luck!
@@AtoZenLife thank you im doing the first pass through and then im going through it again after that 🙌 thanks for your tips.
We are living in a hotel right now. I have moved 5 times on a plane with only 3 checked bags (each at the 50lb max) and when she said the recovered hoarder it struck a chord with me. I am watching this so I don't go back to my old ways or get burnt out.
My 3-year old and i went through most of her toys today and she decluttered an entire trash bag of toys to donate to her pre-k classroom and I decluttered nearly half a trash bag of toys that weren't worth selling or donating or easy to recycle, plus old artwork and such. That said, i let her know that we needed to make sure she has enough space where she can comfortably play (she loves that) without having her things be in the way and enough space to make sure she had room for her new 'big' Christmas present; she wants a dollhouse 😊 she still has several toys but we do rotate semi-regularly but I'm still trying to figure out how to keep myself from buying her more or better or extra additions to what she has 😅
before half of this video i’m already about to tear up because... MOOOMMM! Relatable!! 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
Laughing tears and crying tears - they are all mom tears. 😭😂
@@AtoZenLife and mixed with lots of sweats 😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅😅
STUFFED ANIMALS, AAAAAAH. My Daughter is going to be 25 and there are still at least 100 stuffed animals lining the shelves in her room collecting dust. She is on notice that next time she is able to travel and visit she is expected to declutter her collection. And furthermore the value of toys could have taken a bit off the educational bill if we had just banked the money.
Jessie C Ah, stuffies are tough! Do you think she will care now? 😳
@@AtoZenLife *cough cough* I mentioned decluttering and she invoked the rule of don't declutter the stuff of others, so, yeah. And UA-cam is being funny about comments, they didn't post and I had to refresh and now there are both so I seem to be spamming you.
It’s all good, I don’t mind your multiple comments! I would say back to her, yes, but she either takes them or declutter them herself now. 😊
How about board games, outdoor and pool toys, balls, simply big toys, crafts? You don't have any of these?
Hello Marissa, do you have a video about your clothes for children? Do you store them in that drawers I spotted in the video! Anyway, I just found you yesterday or so and I love your content, may I ask what country do you live? Good luck and can't wait to catch up on your videos :)
I'm digging the declutter but I think that's so few!
Hahah love the intro 😜
Love it! Where did you get the wooden shelves/ toy bins? Thanks 😊
IKEA! They are birch and white. :)
Thanks for the tips! I’m still working on this - and going through waves of decluttering. I find it’s much easier for my son. For my daughter is a hot mess, so many things and different items 😬
Linda Tieu Different personalities really do matter! Hang in there (signed, a previous hot mess. 😅)
As a mom of 5, soon to be 6, this always seems too impossible. We will just always have more “stuff” I’m constantly fighting the wave. I’m not a hoarder and thankfully my kids aren’t either. BUT my MIL is and I always feel so guilty giving stuff away😒
I'm doing light version of this right now and was looking for some inspiration. Problem is I constantly argue with my wife while I want to to declutter (not just toys), she wants more / taller warderobes, I guess to put more stuff in it.
Hey Marrisa, where did you get those blue bean bag chairs? Been looking for good ones for our four littles. Thanks
Thank you!
Thanks for watching!
Just discovered you and so far love your channel
OMG i love your intro LOL you crack me up!! food in the truck LMAO !! you are right few toys is better it's the same with pets actually. Operant conditioning works really well with kids by the way 😉. This is a fantastic idea the toys in the ice i love it !! Have great weekend guys!! See ya
ALEXIA HD COACH - Tout est Beau Dans ma Vie Thanks so much! And yes, I am used to finding weird stuff all over the place as a mom. 😅🤪
Marissa: Squirrels of a Feather 😂😂 I bet
I have 5 boys and 4000sq ft of TOO much stuff! You can not fathom the amount. We have so many toys my kids cant even use 2 of the rooms anymore. I am def a sentimental hoarder. 90% of our problem is toys and clothes. I don't get rid of things because I have more kids that will use it. They are preschool to senior. I am planning to just purge somewhat like you did. We just decided to sell our house asap and moving into a much smaller home. I need a reset and just cannot live this way anymore but saying that...I do not know where to start. I did not realize how hard this would be. I cried watching your video (I do not do this ever)...I feel trapped by stuff. Robbed of space time. I feel trapped by memories and the need to hold on to them by keeping things. How did you start? I want what you have now. Thank you for this video...it hit my soul in ways I cannot even put into words. xoxo
This is my Story.
In April of 2016, I threw away the 1st and 2nd half of my Hotwheels track sets & In October of 2018, I threw away my Hotwheels Ultimate Garage(I still have my cars)
In November of 2018, I threw away ALL 5 of my sister's frisbees(She still doesn't know)
In February of 2019, I threw away ALL of my Lego sets(I kept 3 mini figures)
So yeah, I threw them away behind mom and dad's back.
Marissa I was thinking of making a similar kinda video and stumbled upon yours. Much appreciated tips! I guess I’ll be the only guy speaking on the topic. Didn’t realize the word is “de clutter” 🤣. Recently recognized that clutter has been a real issue in our household and it’s causing stress. Dumping of the bins, so true!!!
FitnessNBeer FitnessNBeer Welcome to the club! And there are PLENTY of male minimalists you can check out, FYI. Joshua Becker is one of my favs (and he HAS kids), as well as Matt D’Avella. Good luck 🍀 with your clutter! 🙌
Love. Love! This channel. Your husband is very handsome.
Well done! Thanks for the tips! 😃