How We Overcame Financial Problems In Our Marriage Relationship

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  • Опубліковано 15 лис 2024

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  • @micahwatson9017
    @micahwatson9017 3 роки тому +29

    “I got nothing homie?” 🤣 I love it.

  • @DaveM-FFB
    @DaveM-FFB 3 роки тому +28

    It's so important for newlyweds to have open discussions about savings and debt. Then you can build a plan and monitor progress together.

    • @gojereme
      @gojereme  3 роки тому +2

      Totally, that’s why my wife and I are so passionate about it now. Because we were a mess before we got on the same page about savings and debt.

  • @tomaszwyszkowski2253
    @tomaszwyszkowski2253 3 роки тому +13

    "Money is just a symptom of deeper issues." Wow, love it.

  • @kaylatrausch1394
    @kaylatrausch1394 3 роки тому +28

    Always talk about finances before marriage! 🙌🏽

    • @lindaparks4486
      @lindaparks4486 3 роки тому +2

      Easier said then done cause of reasons like she said. Fear embarrassment

    • @lolomissa
      @lolomissa 3 роки тому +2

      @@lindaparks4486 but that's why. if it's worth it. you'll try.

  • @sj6728
    @sj6728 3 роки тому +8

    Dave Ramsey saved me! At 50. I am so grateful and I am debt free at 65. I have a savings as well. Thank you for sharing and helping others! I enjoy your channel. I am looking forward to the trailer rehab.

  • @tyleradams103
    @tyleradams103 3 роки тому +5

    Hey guys, love all of your content! I've been trying to get my wife on the same page about our finances as I am. Watching this video helped me realize that I am pretty harsh on my wife about purchases. We haven't been open about our debt like yall are saying, but I do believe we're on a path towards paying it off. Thanks for everything guys!

  • @DaudiNungwana
    @DaudiNungwana 3 роки тому +2

    these people truly loooove each other... the eye contact is epic !!!! Be blessed guys.

  • @kellylee5347
    @kellylee5347 2 роки тому

    I love this conversation. I'm in my 50s and only been married for 7 years and my husband is financially more successful than myself. I struggle with the embarrassment of where I'm not at with my age in all. So Grace I definitely resonated with you talking about your embarrassment and shame. It's really nice that your husband love you enough to wanna help you resolve your money issues and become a better you. What a blessing. Thank you both for sharing a real issue in marriages! Love and light

    • @gojereme
      @gojereme  2 роки тому +1

      She helped me resolve my money issue too! I was too cheap on myself and others. I'm not the man I am today without her.

    • @kellylee5347
      @kellylee5347 2 роки тому

      @@gojereme thanks for saying that because I'm sure you both help each other. I love both of y'all's transparency it's really inspiring.

  • @dreamchaser5758
    @dreamchaser5758 3 роки тому +5

    Your candor is refreshing and it's quite courageous of you both to share. God Bless!

  • @indigos290
    @indigos290 3 роки тому +4

    🙂 The baby in the background is worth the whole video 😁

  • @amandaec5191
    @amandaec5191 3 роки тому +1

    I love how you two have come to a place of compassion for each other and we’re able to resolve the financial issues. Great job!

  • @simplefarmhousefamily383
    @simplefarmhousefamily383 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for sharing your story. I love that Grace humbled herself to share the truth about lying about debt to you and her finances as many marriages can relate! And of course; how you overcame. My husband and l are on our debt free journey. working towards the goal together is how we are finding success. I enjoy your content and your an inspiration! Blessings to you 😊

  • @Chidi-Ingraham
    @Chidi-Ingraham 3 роки тому +10

    Thanks for sharing this video with us. You've really put things in perspective for me.🙏

    • @gojereme
      @gojereme  3 роки тому

      Awesome Jenny! Thanks for watching:)

  • @SungananiManjolo
    @SungananiManjolo 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. Sounds like ours...I am thankful my wife stuck with me!

  • @kurts8236
    @kurts8236 3 роки тому +2

    So good! Thanks for being so honest! God bless you guys!

  • @rhahavyb
    @rhahavyb 3 роки тому

    I really appreciate this video especially the vulnerability about the shame around debt and money. I want to be financially stable but seeing you be vulnerable about the shame you felt helped me realize how much more compassionate we have to be as we learn, grow and evolve our relationship with money :') It helped me validate my internal reality because I can totally understand how the shame and guilt can actually end up debilitating you from seeking help and more financial literacy/knowledge. as scary as money can be, I think it's also important that we are merciful to each other about our spending habits because I think it's through that mercy that we can create spaces free of shame that allow us to feel safe to learn more about a tool that affects so many of our life decisions. it wasn't until I left and isolated myself from judgemental voices that I was able to start learning about financial literacy because I felt "safer" to do it. I really love the content you guys provide and the conversations you are sparking :)

  • @chailattee
    @chailattee 2 роки тому

    Cheers from Oregon 🌲
    Thank you both for being so open and vulnerable. 🙏

  • @lolomissa
    @lolomissa 3 роки тому +4

    when you get to the trauma that's how you know it's real 🙌

  • @reba2876
    @reba2876 2 роки тому

    The honesty is so good. My husband and I didn’t make any financial ground until we combined our budget and accounts!

    • @gojereme
      @gojereme  2 роки тому

      Thanks Reba! Yea, I believe that is a major first step.

  • @fondrenhomestead5180
    @fondrenhomestead5180 3 роки тому +7

    im so glad i found yall! such a blessing, working on paying off debt now, yall are a big inspiration! 👍👍

    • @gojereme
      @gojereme  3 роки тому

      Appreciate that Thomas!

  • @wahazit1
    @wahazit1 2 роки тому

    Such an honest discussion, thanks to both of you for not holding back.

  • @janetmalone9629
    @janetmalone9629 3 роки тому +2

    Wow! I really love that principle of dreaming for what you want to get together not what you want to get out of

    • @gojereme
      @gojereme  3 роки тому +1

      Game changer. Because at some point you will get out of what you are pursuing, then what?

  • @chameeher879
    @chameeher879 Рік тому

    Them you both for bring transparent and real! You both encourage me. God bless you both

  • @hellotjesmellowtjes9791
    @hellotjesmellowtjes9791 3 роки тому +3

    Just saw your budget video, and wanted to say as far as cell phone plans go, you need to get mint mobile. Its 180 a year for unlimited data, calling and texting, and works worldwide. Instead of paying 120 a month it will be 30 a month for two unlimited phone plans. :)

    • @genesiscortez1931
      @genesiscortez1931 Рік тому

      This is worldwide cell plan? My husband and I want to travel a ton so the data would work anywhere?

  • @yemisijohn
    @yemisijohn 3 роки тому +9

    You two look so much alike. I enjoy your channel.

    • @YasminO.
      @YasminO. 3 роки тому +1

      I thought the same thing!

    • @gojereme
      @gojereme  3 роки тому +3

      Haha..really? Never got that before

  • @kenyonbissett3512
    @kenyonbissett3512 3 роки тому +1

    I wish parents would continue to increase their financial education and encourage/educate their children about money. My mom helped me open a checking account in a bank and how to balance my account. But we never discussed budgeting, how to save and spend.
    Did you know that in the age of 3% mortgage rates, over a million households still have a 6% mortgage. Even if they are 15 yrs in they could refinance to 15 year 2.25% mortgage with the same payoff time but pay less toward their mortgage each month. If they qualify for a NACA mortgage they pay no points or closing costs and can get a 1.375% 15yr fixed rate mortgage. But they have a poor financial education and don’t do it.

  • @CamGuy125
    @CamGuy125 3 роки тому +4

    This Channel is a Blessing 🙌🏻❤️🌿

  • @danielsozzi4735
    @danielsozzi4735 3 роки тому

    Thank you guys for sharing all those things so honestly. You´ve got my respect

  • @princessunknown3158
    @princessunknown3158 3 роки тому +1

    It's everywhere!!

  • @aprilmoon3354
    @aprilmoon3354 2 роки тому

    Thank you guys for sharing...

  • @rebekahlamont3171
    @rebekahlamont3171 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for being open and sharing, you guys have taught me so much 😁

    • @gojereme
      @gojereme  3 роки тому

      Thanks! Happy you are here, Rebekah!

  • @tenishahilsman6510
    @tenishahilsman6510 3 роки тому +2

    Great content. Thanks for sharing.

  • @delia9431
    @delia9431 3 роки тому +2

    TY for being real ❣️💯

  • @splendidsnapshot9915
    @splendidsnapshot9915 2 роки тому

    Proud of you guys!

  • @type2red
    @type2red 3 роки тому

    Love this video thank you guys this really helps to see God bless you both

  • @friedawiebe5386
    @friedawiebe5386 3 роки тому +1

    Isn't finances something couples should talk about when you get engaged?! You can get a head start on working toward financial goals once you join accounts when getting married if you are aware of each other's situations.

  • @melvinfreeman4040
    @melvinfreeman4040 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing👍🏾😀!!

  • @Justin-zc6mq
    @Justin-zc6mq 3 роки тому +2

    So how much debt did she have?

  • @ninajohnson6578
    @ninajohnson6578 3 роки тому

    Good for your guys!

  • @nelycalderon8171
    @nelycalderon8171 3 роки тому +1

    Good video 👍🙏

  • @angieg4610
    @angieg4610 3 роки тому

    Love your videos ❤️ 👏👏👏👏

  • @rachelelwood9656
    @rachelelwood9656 3 роки тому +1

    Glad you could benefit from Dave Ramsey. Now that you are debt free you should learn from other sources how to build your assets. Dave Ramsey’s philosophy will only hold you back now.

    • @gojereme
      @gojereme  3 роки тому +3

      Totally, but I don't think Dave's philosophy will hold me back. I feel like I just "graduated" from them. Becoming debt free actually allowed me the freedom to have more choices with how I spend my time now :) More time and less stress means I can learn and do more of what I want!

  • @SelenaHernandez
    @SelenaHernandez 2 роки тому

    ♥️

  • @judzarintocomak9330
    @judzarintocomak9330 3 роки тому

    I'm new to your channel. Judy from Philippines

  • @Everlasting-life777
    @Everlasting-life777 3 роки тому

    Jesus said; repent ye, and believe the gospel.

  • @janefromthecountry1820
    @janefromthecountry1820 10 місяців тому

    Car loans ARE foolish. 🤣

  • @hablemostorah3086
    @hablemostorah3086 9 місяців тому

    He hasn't forgive you for hiding debt from him. :(
    Don't come here to comment you have, body language screams otherwise.