Hey Steve: Waiting for His Financial Stability || STEVE HARVEY
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- Опубліковано 15 лис 2024
- The man she’s dating doesn’t like titles and wants to wait until he’s financially stable - but she’s not quite buying it. Should she stay or walk away?
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"If you gonna ask God for something, you gotta make ready to receive it." well said Steve
That was a WHOLE WORD right there!!! Where's the offering tray? I wanna put my tithes in there
I gotta remember that advice
@@aichitoshiki1321 me too
that was a wise one
It’s an advice his mother gave him. He kept it near and dear to his heart, so he can pass it on. She taught him well. It’s true what he said.
Amen
As a man, let me tell you, men know what they want.
Pack up sis.
G.A.M.A EXACTLY!
FACTS
Yes we do
Thank ya!!
100% accurate... She’s a good girl too
Starting over after 6 years is better than wasting another 20 unhappy
Yes.
amen
But why wait six damn year for a reality check 😂
You said that! 👏💣👏
women at that age will need several years to get a new decent partner because most men are at that point in a long term relationship and have families
When I met my man a year ago, he wasn’t making much and was financially unstable but right after we started to date, he changed his job to a better one , trying to pay his debts, and still looking to increase his income .. he is working on getting back to school .. he sat plans and goals that include us .. he never once said that we can’t move forward because of his finances ( with around 30k).. he proposed to me 7 months of our relationship .. it is not a 10 thousands dollar ring but I love it .. even his family said he became a new person.. btw I have never asked him once to change anything in himself for me .. he did it because he loves me ..
Girls don’t waste your time chasing and waiting for someone who doesn’t want to be with you or trying hard to be with you
I love this 😀. So happy for you 💗
He found something worth fighting for, he found his motivation. ♥
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That’s the key you never asked him to change or force him to speed up his life
@@bdn6078 Nope. the key was he found the women he wanted. Within months a man knows whether or not he is going to marry a woman and he will lock her down QUICKLY. He won't risk losing her to another man. If marriage is what u desire and he hasn't proposed within a year, move on. He don't want you.
Perfect advice ! I left my husband of 19 years. Nothing was going to change. I was 20 when I married him and left when I was 39. Did not want to be 40 and regret. I remarried when I was 49 and still married to a wonderful man for 18 years.
Leave this guy and find a finer guy. 💗💗💗
@@savithrivenugopal God bless you my dear. You will be very strong and go on with your wonderful life without any regrets. Stay blessed. Praying for you. 🤗🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼
thank u for such a great comment
@@zayu871 🙏🏼🙏🏼💖💖
I have been living with a man for 12yrs, we have 2 children with him. He hates to spend even the least amount of time with me except when we are in bed. He can't pay for house rent and always complain I place myself so high ie I take the kids to very expensive school, I should take a cheaper house if I want him to pay. I tried begging him to just pay a portion of the rent and I will pay the rest which he refused. The guy can't buy even food for the family and complain about everything I do not unless I pay for everything without asking him for anything. I have come to a point where I feel leaving him is the only best solution but I don't know what tell my kids.
@@emilykarimikivecu1486 LEAVE. NOW. Leave in silence, say nothing, simply disappear and make sure your kids are safe. Do not engage in arguments, do not talk to him while alone. Bounce and live your life.
She already had the answer, but needed validation.. I hope she heeds his advice! 😀
It's better to start over and find what you're looking for instead of wasting more time. She has already waited 6 years
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It is likely she won't listen to Steve and will keep the guy for another some years until she has had it and will call it quits. By then she has wasted some more valuable time.
Probably did not
She didn't she stayed with the bum
Steve, your Mom was a very wise woman. I love that story 😊
I loved the story aswell SO TRUE !! 🙄😀😂
Clara Castillo...at first I was like where is Steve going with this story. But it makes hella sense! I think a lotta women are scared of being alone, starting over & facing reality of the piece of 💩they are currently with & like they story said...u gotta get that old crap outta there 1st!
Hope she realizes that she can do better before she gets more invested(having children, marriage & home). But he weak as hell for the no title bs! Where they do dat @ mr 37yr old?? Boy bye 👋🏾 !
sour airhead, who hurt u sweetie? Lotta hostility in your response. U must be alone. FYI, I’ve been happily married for 20yrs.
I'm broke AF; I decided not to go into a relationship because I ain't ready yet.
Stop wasting another man's daughter time. Set that baby free & join us my brother.
V33kTOR NG 😂😂
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Your comment is super hilarious!!!!!!
If despite him not being financially ready she still wants him... Why has he not married her!?
This comment isn't even funny he's being real
That is exactly what she needed! Look at her face beam! I hope she’s happy now ❤
Steve is so right. You give a men 2 options - to treat you right, or leave. Everytime I set those boundaries to some guy I dated, that revealed their true intentions with me.
Dear ladies, don't be afraid letting someone leave if it is perfectly right thing to do. As Steve said, some breakups are blessing. It is much healthier to stay single instead of being desperate and investing yourself in guys who are not good for you.
I would love and respect you for ever beautiful Miljiana
Not it not like their but the fact is I need you as I want to be your man.For the fact of having what always will make me and you happy in truly with the present of God everything we can have.
37 years old, not financially stable and he doesn’t want a title 😳😳😳😳.. run away.
Why are relationships one sided what does she bring to the table is she stable
Probably already has a woman
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@Marly B I agree he should of put a title on the relationship but a lot of women want men to take care of them nothing wrong with that but she has to be down to take care of him when he's down and out women talk about equality they wouldn't do the same thing there waiting on a man to do
@@3ma_lengend Too risky. When a man becomes financially stable he goes after the woman he really wants.
The fact that he don’t like titles speaks volumes! She refer to him as her friend. Read between the lines baby girl. He is not looking to commit period. In so many words he’s making that clear.
Yes. Don't spend years with someone who doesn't want titles unless that's what you want too.
Exactly
Men who say I don’t like titles usually means some other woman is in the picture
She also said they’ve been on and off for a few years as well.
She’s a beautiful woman she can find herself a wonderful man.
I hope she took Steve’s advice!!!!! And I hope she watches this clip and reads all our comments to help motivate her!
But if I girl ain ready to commit then its it's perfectly fine
Abdul Manssour...yup, I agree! He is full of it! She betta run honey cause next you gonna be pregnant 🤰🏾& that’s a whole new can of worms! Be with someone that is proud to call u his woman. Don’t settle! People treat u how u allow them to.
Sad.🤷♀️
That is priceless advice. "Get rid of that old car sitting up on cinder blocks."
Hey hey... No man is going to pay full price for used or damaged cars...
Damn I started crying when he was talking about his mother. The teachings our parents give us. We keep them so we can pass them along as we meet people. ♥️ this is how we make our world a better place.
WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE WE GOING TO DO WITHOUT THE STEVE HARVEY SHOW?????? His wisdom, grace, humor, and straightforwardness is so needed when it comes to considering the cost of having a REAL, PURPOSEFUL relationship with someone.
Steve’s analogy was for me!!!!! Ouchhhhh
Me too!
Same here !!!!
You pretty @Chaff LS. I will like to get to know you.
@@MissBehaving888 marriage? What went wrong?
@@skyblade1258 Hun he just changed after marriage and now won't leave or let me leave. He thinks the 18 years I've given isn't enough and wants another chance. The red flags were there i just kept making excuses He just seemed to resent me as if had forced him to marry me and get into debt. İ am not a materialistic person at all. But now I'm trying to divorce as I thought I'd met the perfect man for me until a few days ago. This new guy wow was everything I could ask for. Willing to wait till my divorce was final. Just 4 days ago I found out something worry some about him. I don't think I could ever trust him. And he knows i know but hasn't really made an effort since to convince that he truly does love. That it all wasn't a big game to him. Oh well. It's a big nope from me for both my ex and my potential future partner lol. Unlucky in love am i :(
Sister is GORGEOUS!😍
I hope she will make a wise decision
She WITH his cousin now
@@voiceofreason4u147 in other words he did the right thing
And let the church say Amen!
What are relationship one sided what she bring to the table is she stable
You should have walked away a long time ago.
I’ve been right where she’s at. It was either I would put in another 6 years with a guy who wouldn’t commit with marriage or I walk away. It ripped everything out in me to leave but I knew I deserved better. My man I’m with now proposed in 8 months, we have a house and two cats. Getting married this spring 💕 When someone shows you who they are believe them and don’t try to paint them into something they aren’t.
Wow. This is amazing
You give me hope LOL
What if it's you who isn't sure 😢 not him
If it's you, then do not waste his time. It doesn't take multiple years. Clearly he's nice but not want you want. Let him find someone else who wants all of him.
Steve’s like the father I never had. Thank you ❤️ #Gems
I love him!!!!!!!!!!!
Miss Behaving Me too! So much Wisdom
Ahhhh baby just don't look for a father in your boyfriend....
@@voiceofreason4u147 story of my life
In this case, mr. Steve have a good point!!! She’s woman of certain age and ain’t nobody got time for that. She waited 6!!! Years and he’s not stable in his late 30s... time to move on sorry
Anna L I’m stable and doing well but I still haven’t find a stable woman yet 🤔
Hayeeer 💪🇦🇲🇦🇲
LadyD I don’t think you got it right because some women have history of bad relationships,When a good man dates these women they can’t stay with a good man it sad
No ma'am ur incorrect about nobody having time for that at that age. Women don't have time for that ...that's y'all's issue not ours. I would employ men to move at their own pace that biological clock isn't ticking in our heads.
spazz 8469 that’s only partially true. You don’t have a biological clock, but most women in their 20s doesn’t want a substantial age gap. Most women want someone their age to perhaps 5 years older. If a man in his forties wants to date younger women he will find himself with a smaller dating pool.
Furthermore, women should never allow themselves to be taken advantage of even if they’re in their early twenties or thirties. It’s not moral for a man to take multiple years from a women’s life without committing.
Steve's mama must have been an amazing beautiful woman! Steve is carrying on for her. God bless you Steve.
I'm in tears ,cause it sounds like Steve was talking directly to me
By the end of the first sentence I was already aggravated. A whole six years of your God given life.....I'm tired 😭
P. S: Steve is our online father
Soon as he is comfortable with titles he'll be moving on to someone else.. Don't waste your time honey...
Facts
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Lol that’s exactly what I was thinking
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37 and not financially stable?!?! 37 and not into titles?? This fool has some serious growing up to do and you need to run sis!!
This would be assuming shes telling the truth. Again one side of the story, if shes not happy just leave dont see why asking Steve on National TV is a part of the equation
@@leemahay6742 relating does not equate to truth. But when it is all said and done she is staying in a situation she doesn't want to yet it's the guys fault..laughable.
But if a girl is 37 and not financially stable then its fine
Jenny Musa nah I can’t relate to this guy that not a grown man yet
RealBlessed I’m not assuming anything. My comment is based solely off the video. If she believes he is not stable based off her mentality and experiences then that’s all that matters. Everything is based on perception and that’s hers. She is the one dating him so if she feels that way there’s a reason. So as stated that’s ridiculous!
“He’s uncomfortable with title “ Steve face changed quickly 😂😂
Mine did too. Smh. I could see the pain on her face while she was talking. 😞
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Steve is so good with his stories! He puts it all in perspective and clarifies to perfection!
No matter your age, I wish more women would 'get' Steve's advice before investing all these years in such relationships. Sheesh!!
What are relationship one sided what she bring to the table is she stable
Preach!!!! Forget the title "uncle Steve" you "Daddy Steve"!!! That right there was the truth! #lifelessons
Amen
37 years old and he is not financial stable yet!!!! either he a loser or he is just not that into you, girl move on .
That sounds about right! He's middle age! Half way to retirement! I'd keep my legs closed on this one!! 😏😒😏😒
And I bet all you ladies here in your 30,s are financially stable
You dont know his situation as to why hes not financially stable. Job loss, disability, debt, and you flat out call him a loser. That's the problem with you women these days. You expect a man to give you absolutely everything and you do/give nothing in return. Have fun being single with that mindset.
@@malibuice650 Right. I've seen a lot of women in their 40's and 50's who are heavily indebted living paycheck to paycheck while dating.
@@malibuice650 Wrong. We give far FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR MORE. THERE IS NO REASON. Women have more hardship then men. Men can get a job far more easily, make far more and get a promotion far more easily as well.
You gave him the best gift that you could give.... Your time! Sadly you can't get that back as Steve said "ask yourself do you want to continue another six years of this?!" I myself was in same situation and sadly took me a while to leave it hurt but it was best and I got something even better out of it a blessing I've been wanting for the longest...a man who claimed me and wanted me and swooped me up before anyone else could and put a ring on my finger! thank God I let go and got something better I been praying for the longest. Your a beautiful woman there is a guy out there who'll see your worth and will swoop you up as well and you'll be happy that you let go for better 😊🌸
Amen!! 👏
He meant to say your youth and your beauty instead of time. Plus, you can't ever tell what she's been doing or done to him beforehand. Better to keep hopping while securing bags and blaming bad guys.
Is he not giving her his time ? O don't understand this mentality that somehow her time is more valuable than his ?
Felt this on a spiritual level
Her outfit and smile are amazing. Hopefully she gets her ‘new car’.
Jemimah Ngu a new one with hydrolics
I teared up watching this. Bless you Mr. Harvey.
6 years and he can't even call you his girl? 🙄 Sis, miss me with all that. She is way too beautiful to be having some 37 year old boy who can't even call her his girl after nearly a decade. That's insanity. There are plenty of guys who'd be willing to call her their girl after a month or so of dating.
Christy Louis facts
It is a Fact women enjoy this kind of attitude from a man. If you are a good guy , you don't stand a chance
That's it he's not a man he's an immature boy, she's wasting her time with him
Diddy style.. lol although Diddy even put a title I think..
And u will still find a way to disrespect them and call them a boy. I applaud the man for sticking to script something alot of women simply can't do
Sis , I said the same thing and invested 23 years for nothing. The only thing I am proud of, out of that relationship, is the child I now have. Love Steve's response. Well said
Girl same here 17 years and a son
Me too. 23 years. Feel humiliated.
PREACH! He's speaking truth !!!!! 6 years in, 37 years old and still waiting to be financially stable, not into titles... smh A man claims what is his! No matter if he's broke! If he sees you as a wife material, he will say to the all world you are HIS! Women deserve so much better than some guys like this...
I put an ultimatum to an ex boyfriend, I was afraid of doing this because I knew, deep inside, that our relationship will be over. He ran away. He got a new girlfriend the next week. He broke up with her at some point. He tried to get in touch with me less than a year after we broke up. But the thing is, I was so over him. I cried a lot, prayed a lot, and after all this time, I was happy that the universe got rid of this guy from my life. I was working on myself, on my body, on my mental health, on my attitude of gratitude, on my work goals, and so on. Everything happens for a reason. Life doesn't happen to you but for you.
Amen, say it again Steve. Many individuals need to hear this.
Damn she is very beautiful and cute
edit:I ve never got223 likes on youtube before
thx guys
Fact!!!!!!
she straight
Your edit😂😭 u re like famous famous now😂
very pretty
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I really need to hear this. This is my present situation, I'm so tired of waiting on this man to gain his financial independence. Tired of taking up his slack. Rather to be single and not feeling burden down.
Its my current situation too i want to end it but my heart keeps stoping me to do it
@@malabeyes8090 my heart has been like this for awhile. My heart telling me one thing and my mind saying something else. I loan this man over $250,000 towards his business. I support this man emotionally and all the "ally" you can think of and it's like I'm still not doing anything.
@@yaishathomas796 no you did enaugh you didn support him emotionally but also financially i think you r a sweat hearted lady and you deserve better don't blame yourself u did ur best now he has to reward you by him doing his best to you
@@malabeyes8090 I'm psychologically drain. You just be strong in whatsoever decision you choose and don't loose yourself like what happening to me now
@@malabeyes8090, same here.
But one day soon, I'll leave him for good... I'm almost there!
Good teaching sir.I better clear my driveway
That's was a good one!!
"He is in the driveway , on blocks!" Gotta get prepared for your blessing. 🙌🙌
HEY STEVE IM A HUGE FAN OF YOUR HEY STEVE SEGMENT.... SINCE I MISS IT DURING THE DAY I WATCH IT ON UA-cam BEFORE I GO TO SLEEP ....AND JUST WANTED TO LET U KNOW THAT MY DRIVEWAY HAS BEEN CLEARED UP FOR 5MONTHS AND NOT PLANNING ON LETTING NO ONE PARK IN IT ANY TIME SOON MEANWHILE I GOT MYSELF A BUS PASS AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE TIL IM READY TO GET A NEW RIDE .... U HAVE HELPED ME IN SO MANY WAYS ESPECIALLY IN MY LOVE LIFE THANK YOU I APPRECIATE IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART 😁😁😁😁
Steve Harvey is one of smartest man. God bless that man
No, hes just wise.
I wish these guests had ig pages. I have a job she dont have to wait 6 more seconds.lol.
I hear that well GO AHEAD!!!👍🏽
Hope she sees this!! 🙌🏾
I hope she read these comments.
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Liking so she can see it...
Man !!! Stevie a living legend 💯 obviously his mama was legend too 🙏🙌
So real.
Steve, your mother was a wise woman.
Thanks.
Blessings.
Franny P.
You betta SPEAK Steve! That Steve got some preach in Him! He know he be on point!
Man I understand her pain. Trust yourself girl and move forward
Thank you Steve Harvey!
It's time!
Out with the old
In with the new
That's some heartbreaking truth right there!👏👏👏
Steve's stories are golden teaching for all people no matter the financial life but he always love to give from his own life experience for us to learn. He is 62 I think a man with that history must something to say for the young to learn. God bless Steve and his family forever. Great example.
Steve’s mom was a very thoughtful lady!
What a great analogy...
How you’re with someone for 6 years and that’s your “friend”? This guy needs to stop playing games. Whatever his situation is, he needs to work on that first then when everything is in order, now he can start dating.
Max Charpentier Exactly!!
They're probably having sex...
People are so quick to blame the dude and he hasn't even spoken it's just her word versus nothing. Read between the lines people. He has likely told her the deal and she has accepted it but reluctantly, but is looking for anyway to change it. why do you think she is on the show asking Steve for advice?
@@Footballer85749 exactly. People will do things you allow them to do.
@@BluDrop5 🎯🎯🎯
If a man can’t give you a position move on. Don’t be scared of fear to start over plus you still young girl. Remember men can do some things that women would never get away with.
I love this response from Steve!! I agree 100 percent
His mom seems wise. I loved that story. 🙌🏼 And sometimes the thing that you don't wanna do, is the thing that you need to do.
I showed this to my “boyfriend” and we broke up 3 days later. Not sure if i was the old car to him, but he was definitely the old raggedy pos on blocks for me. Needless to say, I’ll take some time to heal and go get me a new car! Thanks Steve.
Unfortunately you will never be a new car either.
1:18 You can tell a lot of women in the audience felt that in their spirit. We;ve all been there.
This young lady gave this man 6 yrs of her life and hasn't gotten the return on the investment she's made. She should cut her losses and move on because he figures as long as she's willing to keep the status quo, he sees no reason to change it. He hasn't in 6 yrs. After 3 yrs she should have had a clue.
3 months is long enough
@@thecurator2626 Exactly ...3-6 mths...all while dating other men too until you narrow down to the one who is serious about you.
3 months getting to know him without officially dating. Another 3-6 months dating exclusively. After that, I tell him what I expect from a relationship and he has to be able to tell me what his plans are. If those plans don’t involve marriage in the future, I am gone. The first time I did this, we continued dating for 2 years until I moved away for work and we broke up. The second time I did this, I got my husband. Men aren’t mind readers. I believe in being honest about you want and willing to walk away if they can’t give you that.
I told my husband day one what I required of and from him. He married me before 6 months passed. 9 years going strong. Stop letting these bs men waste your time. Stop tiptoeing around what you want. If you want it, require it. If he doesn't rise to the occasion, he wasn't for you. There are other fish in this big ass pond.
But yet if it were a girl in that situation then it's perfectly ok
Aaww you’re mom was a wise woman. God bless her soul. I don’t know why but as you were telling your story about your mother I started crying. Mamas are always right. We need to hear them out. And sir you’re pretty wise too. Thanks for sharing your stories. 🙂 I do learn a lot. 💕
3:45 such a sweet smile.
My best friend from high school met this guy when she was 24, she spent not 5, not 10 years, but 18 years in love with this guy who never settled down on anything..finally after all those wasted years she moved on continued living her life, working hard, and one day she met a new guy (momma's boy) she spent 5 years dating this unemployed careless guy, she used to pay anytime they went out and finally one day she called me to tell me the good news: the guy finally proposed.. she paid for almost everything for her wedding reception, but she looked so happy at her wedding day that I felt little guilty for being so harsh sometimes about the guy, but only after 6 or 7 months into her marriage the mom's guy kicked her out of the house ( yeap the guy took her to live at his mom's house, with Mom included), the guy continue living with mommy and never tried to go after my friend and live as a couple in their own place. Long story short: she's been waiting on this dude to settle down for a total of 15 years by now...she is 50 years old now and she wasted years and years of her life on men who now are happy married or dating someone else. LADIES believe me this is a real life story.. don't waste time on a man who doesn't wants to commit believe me doesn't worth it. Don't waste your time because that time will never ever came back...
I'm a 19 , reading this after 4 years and feeling absolutely horrible. I don't know much about the world , my boyfriend is 19 too and kinda broke , he is a student. I overthink coz he doesn't come from wealthy family but he has dreams and potential,but whatever happens I will seek advice on marriage and finance from my
parents . Gosh, I can't imagine. Hope that lady is doing good now.
@@kaushikipal3407 I am a 28 year old man ,This is how girls are actually wasting your best years with fools 1st thing is you should clearly know what u want from a relationship? is it money , family or home security or love or all of it. A girl is best for child birth is between 17 to 25 means at this stage your body will regenerate very fast and things will be ok but a girl's best years are spend on cheap dating tiktok and education and when your age passes no man values you because your best years have gone and also women are selfish and with this reason women just becomes a liability for a man. Just like another child but you call yourself as wife.
Alot a women going be waiting for a long time.....
Haha FACTS!!! WE AIN'T MARRYING NO MORE
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Some women will still find marriage material men.
rebecca yeah maybe one woman out of 100!!!
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Then that means majority of dudes are trash....?
rebecca haha nah that means all most all women AREN'T WORTH investing in...
Wow, I love this message and I love the way Steve delivers them. He's got that old wisdom.
I’ve seen this before, Uncle Steve’s advice is on point! Also...men who are financially unstable tend to be proud and often stubborn even when their circumstance doesn’t allow. They will let golden opportunities. I think men must step in and help advise eachother...maybe they can understand each other better. 💛
Dude Steve always make some good old school stories that relatable. Man good job.
I love Steve. Here is a true inspiration. He always has some wise words to teach.
I really needed to hear this thank you Steve for all you do saying hello from Nigeria
You are just a born genius when it comes to relationship advices.
Jesus spoke to me through this video!!!!! Thank you Uncle Steve!!!
Advice of the century! And he took a bow.
Best answer Steve !
Genius!!!
Well for one Steve give it to you straight to the brain with no chaser! We know when these men are no good, but they still try to fix him up so he could fit into their lives. Sad but true trying to make a man something he is not capable of being. Just bow out gracefully ladies and live your best life and keep the faith.
Steve nailed it!
My husband was 35 yo when we met with low income. But somehow he manage to purchase a house & decent car. That earn my respect when he proposed again in our 10th date.
I always have short relationships. 6 months top. Because I’m not affraid to cut a guy who show incompatibility or red flags. People said that’s my red flag. But I’m married for 14 years now and gone through hell & back together. We’re not perfect, but we still dating 😁
The key is commitment. It’s not have to be about your starting point or current condition. Don’t be afraid to cut someone when they not compatible or show future.
Thank you Mr. harvey...
I can relate to this message in so many ways so i always return to hear it again. Steve Harvey's a genius at delivering‼
I once dated a man that said, "it takes five years of dating to know..." I'm thinking you are crazy. if you don't know sooner than that you are not for me. After 9 months I knew he was not for me.
Steve you betta PREACH!! Young Lady, he’s just not that into you! He’s into titles, just not with you. Pick up your mat and Run 🏃🏾♀️ You are worth so much more! You’ve waited 6 yrs too long..Best Wishes to you, there is someone out there in the world looking for you.
Amen! 👏
Wow. This was cracking advice. If you ask god for something you gotta make room to receive it. Felt that
What a great mama so wise!
That's a mom with faith and wisdom she raised and taught her son well ❤️
37????...He ain't tryna get married at all. He almost 40 years old. If he wanted to get married he would have proposed by now. A person who wants to do something goes and does it. A person who doesn't wan't to something just doesn't do it.
Why would a man marry a woman in this one-sided court system?
Is there a date on marriage that I'm unaware of ?
Ms. Rae marriage doesn’t benefit men.
Honey when they get stability forget about him! They drop you like hot potato
Yep. He will be on to the next one thinking he's making an upgrade.
Absolutely. That's why she needs to leave him and level up, find herself a stable one who'll marry her.
Yes they will. Believe me i know
Jump on to the next one and then collect the bag before jumping on the next one until you can't find anymore good men Girl, get what you deserve and everything owed to you, for real, LOL.
It's because you think being the same girl would help you attrackt different kinds of men, when in reality you get the same guy in a different skin. Don't ever blame someone else for something in your life you have control over.
Is she living with him?!! Don’t live with a man before he puts a ring on it. 💍💍 It’s hard, but it’s worth the wait to live by yourself or with a roommate compared to shacking up with a man and fearing that he won’t put a ring on it.
Why do all women want to rush into marriage? Just seems like a scam to me
Nova personally I don’t see the point in marriage and before I continue, I am only 19 but too me it just seems like a title, too me you don’t have to get married and you can still have the same love and connection as a couple who is married
@@Vu7kan_ ikr its weird people think they cant truly love eachother without getting married
Nova and Dusty, well I don’t see the reason to support a man during their darkest times. I don’t see the reason to help a man pay his rent, bills, groceries, and help keep a roof over his head if he loses his job and be his morale support. This all the great things a wife does that friends or family might not do!! Wife is there to help support her husband financially and emotionally. I’d be damned to be a woman that is doing wifely things but still has a title of a girlfriend and no ring!! Try finding a woman that’ll put up with that bull crap for years without marriage cause she’ll leave if she has to wait for her ring!!
@@ShesooBreezy Its not doing wifely things its being a morally good human being and partner. Just because you arent married to someone doesnt mean you cant love and support them jesus christ. You would really be willing to ditch your boyfriend because he didnt give you a goddamn ring and contract? Just hideous.
Steve Harvey spitting truth and wisdom!
What a word! Hallelujah to Jesus Christ!
I've experienced both sides of men: turning the world upside down for a woman they love and also letting them wait and hope for years for who knows what reasons. When a man wants you, he will make sure you know!
this one touch me to the core. I'm in the same situation... Thanks Steve!
He's a GREAT storyteller !
Best advice I have EVER heard
This truth made me cry😏
This man has a story for everything 😂
You ever feel like he just pulled it out his ass? 😂😂😂
37 years old + don't like being called a boyfriend = he's a player man child
Betcha he's got a side kick or more than one
This girl deserves better
What did she describe in this clip that would lead u to think she deserves anything ? What has she earned ?
@The Chard N Nay Show is airing out private relationship business basic respect? U can tell all day what she should be given...I asked what did she earn ?
This is the most helpful and awesome ask steve I've ever heard! Ladies for real, we have to get rid of the baggage and free up space on our lives before trying to get the right man wooo!
That story is everything 😭💞 it's solving all my problems
Big fan of Steve Harvey man...ladies listen