I Killed My Partner In Self-Defence(Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja- Episode 57| Season 3
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- Опубліковано 7 гру 2021
- A guest shares her story on how she ended up killing her husband to protect herself.
Studio Guest: Philda Sarlie
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How can I show mama Relebogile how much I love her and how much I appreciate what she’s doing for everyone?? Can we show this channel so much love . Love and prayers from Namibia 🇳🇦🙏🏾🙏🏾
You watching and sharing is more than enough! Thank you ❤️🥺
@@relebogilemabotja215 totally agree 👍 👌 👏 🙌 💯
Lol so cute
Love from Tanzania.
@@relebogilemabotja215 I love the dress ur putting on ther ..where can I get one like that pliz...thank u for this show ... I love you
We have heard a lot of sad stories of women being abused by their partners, I’d love for you to interview the perpetrators . It would really be interesting to hear what goes through their mind during these hurtful acts . I’d love to get one guest who would just speak openly and honestly.
I would also love to hear from them
Patric shai speaks openly about him abusing his wife. He has since stopped for years now
@@thandimaseko2104 Love that man !He recently had a beautiful stoyline in Uzalo
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@@thandimaseko2104 And Sello Maake
Relebogile is incredibly perfect fit for this job. She's not distracted by the sensitivity of the story. She's cool,calm and collected. Well done
Thank you 🥺
@@relebogilemabotja215 You are welcome
@@relebogilemabotja215 Hie sisi Rele l would like to see you unpacking the story whereby someone get Raped because a family member sold her to the perpetrator, l have scars in my heart but l can't share my story because of the abuse l experienced in the hands of someone l loved,whom l opened to him about the whole scenario l ended up being physical abused because of my openness,now l can't even tell my husband this thing because l'm afraid of what his reaction would be,but sometimes he ask me the questions like I'm acting like someone who was raped.Kindly unpack stories like these thank you
Our very own Oprah. Love watching your show Lebo ❤️
Now those who ask how can you stay for 2years with your abuser, i wish you can watch this. Its always easy to say you will leave when you are not in the situation. She stayed for 18yrs, lets be kind to one another and be less judgemental
I concur
It's always hard to leave...
Abuse affects one mentally.
this should be a reality show on DSTV or Showmax as it is teaching us alot of things and it helps people overcome skeletons that they have not dealt with some things are just not easy to speak out about.
Thanks Relebogile Mabotja god bless your incredible work.
This woman is so smart and well spoken. She sounds lovely and I am glad she got herself out of that situation.
She seems like a very sweet, caring lady. I am glad she survived all that.
Rele is struggling in holding her tears. 4 the 1st tym seeing her struggling this much. Understandable u human dear.😍
Yohh so traumatic💔
Sending love and light to you ❤️❤️🇧🇼🇧🇼
Relebogile is more Oprah than Oprah. Like, she’s the new bar for me. Incredible talent.
This was so touching 😢 and she didn't deserve all that abuse 😢
Nobody deserves abuse.
Not at all
If you have a son, u have to love and respect yourself, if the father isn't trating you well, you MUST GO cause the sons learn and go burden other peoples children looking for love and dignity.
How can we not hate man though? These stories are creating a monster in my soul even if I've never been a full on victim... it's rare to find a woman without scars from men💔.
My heart bleeds for this woman. None deserves that type of abuse.
I feel her pain I was also in a abusive relationship he abused me physically emotionally and verbally ...made me feel little of a person while he cheating on me but he was the most jealous and insecure person ever I was abused yet I was scared to leave the relationship until my older brother fought him physically man to man in order for our relationship to end and called the police forced me to get a protective order because he came to my work place and beated me almost to death...my face was so unrecognized
Sounds like she was in a trauma bond… it’s not easy to leave any kind of abusive relationship. I feel like she is finding healing by telling her story
What we women go through for this animal Love is so shocking. May you find healing mum.
Sorry granny for the experience. God bless you and your family.
Can we stop telling women to stay in abusive relationships, even if the abuser is yr son! It won't get better. He won't change!
Such a powerful and touching story . I can't wait to hear part 2. I hope you heal from This Mam. 🙏
To us 🥂who like the video before we unpack 😊
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This is good. Listening to the narrator and asking questions scantily makes the narrative interesting.
May God guide you through🙏🙏🙏🙏🇧🇼
I pray that one day, she’ll tell her story without crying 😢.. She is a whole a strong woman to endure all this.
Sorry Mommy, this is soo heartbreaking 😢💔❤
What goes on in the mind of an abuser mara? 💔
It's all about their EGO, that's what I think is on their mind all the time. Both, male and female!
This is just a sad really. Sorry mama you had to go through all this abuse.
Iam so sorry you had to go through that ma'am.Lots of love to you ❤️
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Your dress and shoes sesi Lebo 😍😍😍you are beautiful nje period
F#$K lm sorry...l deeply appreciate these stories but this cheating,dishonesty and BS in relationships is sickening to my stomach...
It's insane!
God l pray for a healthy,divinely orchestrated relationship!
I am so sorry mommy..
Does Relebogile see a therapist? The issues shared here are a lot... Is there a debriefing session for her?
Yeah.. Us watching as well lol
If there isn't, there should be, because wow!!!! This is aloooottt!!!!!
They show must have therapists detectives Army etc etc to protect all the victims
The stories are very heavy.. I wonder this to.
@@tarquinmckay5104 lol that's what I thought too, we are also affected by watching....This show has created light, awareness and insight to a lot of things I didn't know but it has also created a lot of fear for man .
This show must be supported by Detective Army Therapists etc etc give justice to the victims SA can do better & provide better health care systems for all citizens
This is a sad story maan. Our mothers have been through the most because of societal expectations.
Young women now need to be empowered. Marriage or a relationship is not everything, it's not an achievement. Your life and happiness is worth more than that.
I'm saying this as a Christian married woman. It is not enough to stay in a toxic marriage or relationship. It's not worth it. Leave... If you can't do it yourself, then involve POWA, and other organizations and seek help. Speak to a friend and get out.
It's an achievement to some! So don't troll!
I love your show so much.
Especially if everything is in English.
Your intro is what I'm obsesse with.
"Let's unpack"
Let's unpack 🥺🥺
Omg 😲😱😲 this is heartbreaking 💔 😢 😞
This is heartbreaking 💔
I am in shock
I'm so touch by these stories💔💔💘💘,it's so hurting wish man can stop abusing women
He was demonic
I'm here too
Let's unpack
part two pls
All glad she fought for her life. Oh God… I’ve no words. Is this the lady who called Anele Mdoda on radio and said I am the lady who killed my husband because he was abusing me?
Hi..yes it's me.
@@phildasarlie988 I wish I can give you a big hug! Take care... I love you
We approve this channel 👏🏽👏🏽
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Is this content also on national tv?
Rebo plis. Tell me where I can get the red that ur putting on
This is sad ,thank God you survived mummy 🙏
🕯️🕯️🕯️for this show to continue for years
Present 🙋🙋😍
😢😢😢😢Oh Lord have mercy!
The pain she still holds inside. You never fully heal from this.
Let's unpack From 🇰🇪
Time to wake up at my usual place
I’m sorry mama 💔
the cycle of abuse, leave and come back again. After years thanks I managed to leave
What a sad story 💔but she is strong indeed I want part 2 of the story
Life is not fair
Let's unpack
Trust a colored mom to show him how things are done... Lol so something my mom would do.... "wie is bang vi daai gun van jou" 🙆♀️🤣
hectic so terrible
Thank God lam not married yet but if l was l would end up in prison for murder or my partner of the day would kill me like what happened to James. I was that animal at one stage and l completely regret being that animal" why, why , why were l behaving that way? I don't have answers until the day today but fortunately lam not that person anymore
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What’s wrong with these men!
I don't understand why beat up somebody that you confess you love..or a woman you have children with what makes you angry to beat a woman you're having sex with??.I'm married to my wife for 50 years I had my man things too but I never lift my hand for my wife she has her own ways too but it ends up a second after the argument..no fighting or swearing
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TBH I believe that abusive people deserve more than death. Death is too merciful
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Hope to beat you tomorrow 😘
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