Online Dating First Message Tips - Very Important!

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  • Опубліковано 31 лип 2024
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    Tip #1 - Message Title: 3:45
    Tip #2 - That Opening Sentence: 5:18
    Tip #3 - Want To Talk Looks -- Be Careful!: 6:42
    Tip #4 - Talk About Your Similarities: 7:47
    Tip #5 - Don't Forget About You!: 9:44
    So you have gone ahead and signed up for an excellent online dating site such as eHarmony or Match.com creating your profile and completing their relevant tests or questionnaire.
    Great! You have just gotten over one of the biggest hurdles in the online dating arena; hopefully, you have followed our tips on how to create a great online dating profile.
    Having gone through the searches (or in the case of a few sites been sent your matches) and you have found someone that has caught your attention. Now here comes the fun part, or for most people the super scary part - sending that first email message.
    You would be surprised at the number of people that freeze when they sit down to think about what to write.
    Questions such as “should you simply say hello and hope for a response” or “should you wait to see if they will make the first message move” race through their minds like a raging waterfall.
    These are but a few of the questions that are undoubtedly racing through your mind.
    Fortunately, we have put this guide together to put your mind at ease, allowing you to relax, let go of your doubts and worries and take the plunge into uncharted waters and send that all important first message.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 95

  • @AndyX
    @AndyX 2 роки тому +23

    save frustration,relevant content starts at 3:44 (sorry bro)

  • @searchbug
    @searchbug 2 роки тому +5

    Have you just met them recently and called it love right away? That’s called “love bombing.” Love bombing can be flattering at first, but it can also be overwhelming and even scary. If you’re not careful, you might find yourself in a relationship with someone manipulative and controlling.
    Don’t let your guard down - there’s a good chance that the person on the other end is a scammer looking to take advantage of you.

  • @andrecordova1968
    @andrecordova1968 3 роки тому +67

    4 mins till you get to the point bro. Wth!

    • @cristobalcolon7273
      @cristobalcolon7273 3 роки тому +5

      I know lots UA-camrs guys talk like woman...bla bla bla bla bla before getting to the point.. it's annoying because we are guys and those UA-camrs guys should be straight forward!

    • @thomasholt3697
      @thomasholt3697 2 роки тому +1

      @@cristobalcolon7273 hmm… that’s a little… oh no…

    • @user-pt8qp4ws7n
      @user-pt8qp4ws7n 2 роки тому

      just like and subscribe

    • @martinfoy9327
      @martinfoy9327 Рік тому

      Thanks

  • @foreignlovedreams
    @foreignlovedreams 2 роки тому +12

    From my experience, write the first message if you like the guy!
    Online dating questions are always a hot topic for many people, especially women.
    You can take all the time in the world perfecting your online dating profile, but it will be of no use if you don’t know the ways of breaking the ice and getting the conversation started.
    The main rule ❌ Dont write ""Hi!""❌
    Be creative, unique and fun. Dont be so serious and ask first:
    ""hi, do you want a family and 2 children""!🤪

  • @JaySea
    @JaySea 3 роки тому +19

    Almost every girl has a blank or meaningless emoji filled profile. What in world do we say to 90% of the profiles that exist. Usually its a single pic or two selfie. But as an asian guy gl getting matches

    • @zulugeneral5563
      @zulugeneral5563 3 роки тому +2

      bro lm black living in a racist country and l gett matches

    • @Camus376
      @Camus376 3 роки тому +1

      I love asians ladies, to my eyes they are the cutest ever.😍😍😍

    • @jesuschrist2029
      @jesuschrist2029 3 роки тому

      Wtf is jaysea doin here lol

    • @plasmopix
      @plasmopix 2 роки тому

      Hack the dating site to give you an advantage

  • @blessedeveryday5572
    @blessedeveryday5572 3 роки тому +10

    For me WHAT DO YOU DO FOR A LIVING? in a first conversation is a sign that they're measuring you how much level of respect they would give you. Believe it or not it's true!!!

    • @matthewdavies863
      @matthewdavies863 2 роки тому +1

      that's true, its like making a first impression

  • @joshuademoss6470
    @joshuademoss6470 3 роки тому +24

    So anyone with any amount of basic dating knowledge already knows this kind of stuff and can probably explain better than you could.

  • @Pharaohdefowl
    @Pharaohdefowl 2 роки тому +6

    No way you are an dating expert..

  • @jorgesoto7124
    @jorgesoto7124 2 роки тому +2

    Why a simple hello doesnt work? They neva reply

  • @realestateinsider7707
    @realestateinsider7707 3 роки тому +13

    This is comedic material for men. I’ve been trying online dating for 7 years and learned a simple truth... the prettier the woman, the bigger the disappointment. They are only after your ability to provide for them a fancy lifestyle.

    • @QueMeVezWei
      @QueMeVezWei 2 роки тому +2

      I’m not a model but I consider myself good-average looking. I never message super attractive women because of this. Damn I will even message someone who’s not that attractive but if something I’m their bio caught my eye I will text them and most of the times the conversation with these not that appealing women is more fluent and fun

    • @martinfoy9327
      @martinfoy9327 Рік тому

      Online dating sucks. I know talking to people in person is dated and threatening in 2022 but that’s the only way that’s effective for me.

    • @helenokwara5604
      @helenokwara5604 Рік тому

      Not every woman peace of mind before fancy lifestyle

  • @bensonpadi2107
    @bensonpadi2107 2 роки тому +1

    What about if the guy sends you their phone numbers?

  • @thebuttonfactory2306
    @thebuttonfactory2306 3 роки тому +22

    My god get on with it. Guy’s been talking about what’s he going to talk about for three minutes. Thumbs down. Next video.

  • @sorenadix6411
    @sorenadix6411 3 роки тому +1

    When a guy lies & says, "I know you," that's a turn off & scary.

  • @WhenAphroditeSpeaks
    @WhenAphroditeSpeaks 2 роки тому +1

    Enjoyed the video! Spot on!

    • @hammadwaseema3309
      @hammadwaseema3309 Місяць тому

      Hey hammad here nice to meet u lets be friends if u don't mind me

  • @Camus376
    @Camus376 3 роки тому +4

    the online for love gave me eHarmony, but it's way too pricey as hell.

  • @dreddwulf26
    @dreddwulf26 2 роки тому +4

    STOP PLUGGING YOUR SITE

  • @zamakhwela6875
    @zamakhwela6875 2 роки тому

    It's too expensive to some of us, this online dating

  • @relaxingnaturesounds2339
    @relaxingnaturesounds2339 Рік тому +1

    background music is really distracting.

  • @renanteduterte4751
    @renanteduterte4751 4 роки тому

    Nice

  • @MargretKariuki-cz5go
    @MargretKariuki-cz5go Місяць тому

    Am here brother from kenya

  • @kivaroserose1601
    @kivaroserose1601 3 роки тому

    Im on eharmony omg up to now noe has not say hi to me i guess is because im a black girl...its so hard stww

    • @Youtuber-uz5hc
      @Youtuber-uz5hc 3 роки тому

      Really!? Where I live every girl even ones you wouldn’t expect have more guys hitting them up than they can handle. It’s hard to tell much with the tiny pic but from what I can tell you’re beautiful

    • @davidskaggs1570
      @davidskaggs1570 2 роки тому +1

      Where do you live

  • @lisathomas8819
    @lisathomas8819 4 роки тому +2

    How do I find out who blocked me on pof? does the username go to my email when someone message me?

  • @musicluva2023
    @musicluva2023 3 роки тому +1

    What if you think your not a great looker but some hot matches you do you start by asking if she done it by mistake 😄😄😄😆😆 serious question though as that's what Im going to end up doing soon

    • @plasmopix
      @plasmopix 2 роки тому +2

      You are a handsome person and you are an awesome badass. Accept the fact that hot women want you. Ask them out on a date. Create a chart if you have to just to keep track of your dating schedule.

    • @milekh6681
      @milekh6681 Рік тому

      Show them your insecure , see how that works out for you

  • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
    @Americanpatriot-zo2tk Рік тому

    Well if you get on with it instead of giving a five minute Primos on what you’re going to do get on with i

  • @TheLegend-vd9xy
    @TheLegend-vd9xy 2 роки тому +1

    My friend found this very helpful

  • @mechelelopez8795
    @mechelelopez8795 2 роки тому

    such great advise. loved your suggestions

  • @LiliWgiorgis
    @LiliWgiorgis Місяць тому

    Lili w/giorgis

    • @hammadwaseema3309
      @hammadwaseema3309 Місяць тому

      Hey hammad here nice to meet u lets be friends if u don't mind me

  • @danitawilliams9234
    @danitawilliams9234 2 роки тому

    Iam new here

  • @LiliWgiorgis
    @LiliWgiorgis Місяць тому

    😊

  • @MyDarling572
    @MyDarling572 2 роки тому +2

    Should women let men initiate the conversation ? Everytime i send smiles and stuff i never get a reply. I am not the hottest woman but i rate myself 7/10.

    • @plasmopix
      @plasmopix 2 роки тому +1

      I can give you some tips

    • @MyDarling572
      @MyDarling572 2 роки тому

      @@plasmopix Thank you George. Yes please go ahead.

    • @plasmopix
      @plasmopix 2 роки тому

      First, if you rate yourself as a 7, more than likely we see you as an 8 or 9, some even as a 10. So the average dude gets intimidated with unicorns.

    • @plasmopix
      @plasmopix 2 роки тому

      Do you have an intro or description of your character or personality, or the type of relationship you're looking for? Or do you just have the hottest pictures of yourself?

    • @plasmopix
      @plasmopix 2 роки тому

      Look me up on face book,. I'm just a regular man, but I can give you lots of advice.

  • @irl8796
    @irl8796 2 роки тому +2

    . The sound edit though SUCKS! All over the place.

  • @deadman12078
    @deadman12078 Рік тому

    My opener is simple.
    "I want you to sit on my face snd let me est my way to your heart."
    Why can't i ger more then three dates a week????

  • @Muzzy0085
    @Muzzy0085 2 роки тому +1

    5 min of talking shit and then he says ' without further adieu ' WTF

  • @dua7111
    @dua7111 2 роки тому +2

    Get to the point please

  • @aliyahdelapena6093
    @aliyahdelapena6093 3 роки тому +1

    Hi your so cute

  • @rjsledz
    @rjsledz 2 роки тому +1

    Is it ok to leave a phone# in your first message?

    • @zamakhwela6875
      @zamakhwela6875 2 роки тому +4

      Not good at all

    • @plasmopix
      @plasmopix 2 роки тому +4

      Yes it is, if you want to seem desperate. Wait for a few text exchanges back and forth

    • @BRBallin1
      @BRBallin1 2 роки тому +2

      It’s not ok at all because you’re supposed to use the app to introduce yourself and have a intro conversation to build a connection before you take things further by sharing contact info

    • @phalynwilliams4119
      @phalynwilliams4119 Рік тому

      No. I ignore men who do that.

    • @milekh6681
      @milekh6681 Рік тому

      Cock pics first then rapid fire your number, if she ain’t dtf move on

  • @ollylong7135
    @ollylong7135 Рік тому

    Mate what happened with the beard?

  • @MdNasim-ix7tb
    @MdNasim-ix7tb 3 роки тому

    Nice video

  • @chrismason2296
    @chrismason2296 3 роки тому

    Yeah.....shit

  • @TheREVIEWGUY1-ip1wm
    @TheREVIEWGUY1-ip1wm 2 дні тому

    1 st message tips dont Message woman.makw a woman message you thats alot better than messages woman .

  • @MrMikeyx007
    @MrMikeyx007 3 роки тому +1

    Adult Friend finder is a joke

  • @carnalgonzo7712
    @carnalgonzo7712 4 роки тому

    Just told a girl on line I want to meet her and didn't respond left me in the cold

    • @cfcfan9976
      @cfcfan9976 4 роки тому +7

      Did u message her right at the start of a convo, best to give it time before discussing meeting irl

    • @OMARGULI
      @OMARGULI 3 роки тому +18

      I think U scared the shit out her😀

    • @renphelpsz9383
      @renphelpsz9383 3 роки тому +3

      FYI...don't ask a girl out right at the beginning. Get to know her or you'll scare her away.

    • @lanaluieva9049
      @lanaluieva9049 3 роки тому +3

      I'll not answer either. What should I answer on it. You being not serious already at the beginning. People need to talk first, find out about each and then there will be a wish to meet. And another thing, to have a conversation you need to ask questions, not How r u, or How was your day. That's nothing. Need to ask about her, what hobbies she has, if she likes to cook, how she likes to spend her free time etc....

    • @zeinalbasam4733
      @zeinalbasam4733 3 роки тому +1

      She only liked your attention g move on

  • @zfunk
    @zfunk Рік тому

    Terrible advise 😑

  • @amandatarkington6877
    @amandatarkington6877 Рік тому

    Do not mention anything about my body! Completely rude and crass.

    • @hammadwaseema3309
      @hammadwaseema3309 Місяць тому

      Hey hammad here nice to meet u lets be friends if u don't mind me