This scene sums up all the frustration of not being able to find the right person AND of finding the 'right person' and finding out they really aren't. - Brilliant.
so that's true. she is a good teacher about teaching how to love. but she said No. so ... Jesse married another woman, who is a " good teacher" as he described her.
“In a way... I put all my romanticism into that one night and I was never able to feel all this again. Like... somehow this night took things away from me and... I expressed them to you, and you took them with you! It made me feel cold, like if love wasn't for me.” this part always gets me because I feel the same way.
Yeah, that's how I've felt about relationships for the past five years, since my last ex... Our relationship was incredibly intense and we constantly idealised it, twisting it into this grandiose melodrama... it's hard to describe really, but I feel like all my idealism and my former romantic, "magical realist" conception of the world has been utterly expended and exhausted. All those things that made love so wondrous, all the places it supposedly could have lead to, now seem absolutely ridiculous and fraudulent. I feel like everything in life has been stripped back to its barest utilitarian essence, colourless and totally incapable of inspiring anything. I can't even find comfort in memories of the relationship, because they all seem to involve a delusional and laughably naïve version of myself, someone I feel absolutely no connection with. Either that or they're just horrible memories.
@zonesquestiloveunderworld amazing comment. I'm sorry you feel like that I guess. I find beauty in sadness and lonliness though I suppose. "There is a light that never goes out"
@@portugaltheman9717 they started brainstorming the outline in 1999 after they casted in Waking Life and started write the sceen play in 2003 until 2004 and they filmed in for 15 days cause they only had little budget. It's similar with Before Midnight. They said they was brainstorming for the outline in 2010 and met again in 2012-2013 to write the screenplay and filming for 20 days+ in Greece but had to rehearsal it over and over again to look more natural for weeks in Greece before started filming. It happened same thing while they filmed in Paris & Vienna. It tooks 3 months to rehearsals in Paris for Before Sunset and 6 months rehearsals for Before Sunrise because they have ton of lines. Each scenes contain 7-20 pages. Ethan Hawke mentioned it before in his interview Before Sunset was the time where he was in depression and had problems in his marriage with Uma Thurman. He remembered exactly that Before Sunset is meaningful for him cause he was there with his bestfriends Julie and Rick.
Her monologue showcases the ambiguity of finding love in the modern world and the conflicting desires we have, as well as the consequences of heartbreak and grief. She is just working through it. To acknowledge the ways in which we act out our fears and internal conflict in our relationships is an act of profound humility.
I wish I knew more men that listened to a woman having an intense emotional moment and truly heard her. Truly believed her. Too many men would consider this scene with her proof she's crazy. That's so sad.
There is no clear explanation of her statement "I would have said no but atleast they could have asked" . Its like she has no regard to the person pursuing her. Her ego takes control when in distress. That is why she is single. Jesse made a mistake. Should have left her.
@@Aniket-dr8pu I see what you mean, but I have different view of it. I think that line itself makes Celine one of the most complex female characters on screen.The way I see it :that line has nothing to do with her ego.She just wants to be loved-just like everybody else.But she knows all of those guys were not right for her and she was not right for them.But she wished she had been choosen, at least for once, that someone could look at her and plan to have seroius plans with her.I think its a beautiful line that perfectly portrays the woman who seems to be unable to find love. At least that is my view, but I understand that people see her on different way (esspecially considering 3rd movie) P.S. Sorry for my english
When I started watching this movie I really liked the more relaxed atmosphere between them two. Everything was flowing easily and they seemed to have a good time making jokes about their only night together. Suddenly, in the middle of the movie (before the boat trip) I was getting frustrated because they didn't seem ready to open themselves emotionally and the script was not matching the romantic tension of the marvellous previous movie...and then, things started to get pregressively intense until they got in the car and bang! all the feelings afloat charging against each other and the audience itself. Great direction...the final section of Before Sunset is so good. Such a beautiful surprise. Barely surpassed by the unforgettable flashback section of Before Sunrise. I didn't expect to like this film as much as I did, but Linklater knows how to convey tenderness, nostalgia and humor in his dialogues and sense of detail. The last scene with the conversation about Celine's cat, the apartment sorroundings, the outdoor lunch, the neighbours' jokes and "Jesse's Waltz" is so plenty of color and joy. Easy-going and deep at the same time.
I know this is an older comment but this is exactly how i felt watching this movie. The movie felt sort of underwhelming theoughout and then the climax pieces everything together
“You can’t live your life just trying to avoid pain--“ “STOP THE CAR. I CAN’T SEE YOU.” I absolutely love how insanely tense this scene is, but we needed that small laugh 😂
I just realized Celine could’ve found Jesse so much sooner if she had gone to the bar where Jesse convinced the bartender to give them that bottle of wine. He would’ve had his full name and address and everything from the money he sent him
Or she could've sent someone - a friend, maybe to Vienna the day she was supposed to meet with Jesse with her contact details to ensure they remain in touch even if they don't get a chance to meet again. Even if the friend had never seen him before, it would've been easy to find him considering he made signs of his number and displayed them in the area.
Julie Delpy was phenomenal in this scene, she was honestly robbed of so many major award nominations. She was an absolute force in this movie and this scene especially
I always felt overwhelmed by emotions. I always thought may be i am the only one who feel this way. But after seeing these movies, i feel so relieved. Now I know that emotions are meant to be felt differently. I love these movies ❤️🥺
this is my favorite film of the trilogy. I was going through a divorce when this came out and pining for someone else and could feel EVERYTHING Jesse was going through. the acting in this one is just so real.
How stunning. The rawness of her emotion and the lack of judgment from jesse... how he even manages her rage after he offers any rational commentary. Making space for intense emotion and honoring it movement... just absolutely stunning! im young and dumb in love but i can feel some of her frustration. why can't love be easy? why is everything so finite and painful? and why shouldn't it worked out for me???? (general me) first time watching thi trilogy and the writing has me floored, could have been a novel of just dialogue. what interesting people wrote this movie.
I rewatched this clips for the 2nd clip. I FEEL like I'm Julie Delpy's character in "Before Sunset". Like Julie Delpy's character, I GAVE all my romanticism, my feelings, my expressions, EVERYTHING I had to boyfriend of 2012. And when he left, he took all the best romantic, feelings of love I had inside of me with him. I feel he took the best parts of me. I feel I have nothing to give romantic love wise to any man now. I sit here & I know there are men interested, but I can't feel (cont.)
I'm happy the internet exists and we can have random conversations or just read someone else's thoughts like this. How are you after all this time? Did you find that person yet? I think I'm the opposite of what you wrote, I thought I had given my everything to my ex bf. Now after so much time alone and so much personal growth, I realize I have so much more to give now because I am more myself than before. Haven't met my person yet, some days I feel like love is something that is meant for everyone else but me, something impossible. This is the beauty of the internet, opening yourself to strangers.
Hahahahahahah, I'm so sorry that nobody replied to this and most probably got this. But it's 2:30am here in India and I laughed so hard that my roommate freaked out!
My heart goes out to her b/c I'm almost 40 and I'm in the same boat as her. It really really sucks when all your friends are dating or getting married. T_T
@Juan el Parque II, hang in there--a few more years and half of your coupled friends will be getting divorced, and you can think, "glad I dodged THAT bullet!"
I love this movie, because it was also a mirror of its own time, now ppl are more fine to not get married by their 30s back then, I can totally understand/feel her 'pain.' LOL. Before Sunset, imo, was one of the most heart wrenching video because at that time, I remember watching and not knowing for certain if Jesse and Celine would've gotten back together. It just 'broke' my idealistic heart that they never met the year after Before Sunrise and it's been 9 freaking years LOL.
9 years is a long time. And seeing each other again, especially Celine is concerned whether Jesse is still as she remembers. And he is, he's still the same as in the first movie, still witty, still supportive, still as charming. I think Celine was assuming a lot of stuff and also meeting him again, she hoped to find closure in seeing him having changed. But as they spend time again together she realizes he's still the same guy she liked from that time, and that drove her nuts because that means she still loves him. I think in essence it is what it is, if the core of two people doesn't change, they will always have something for each other, the amount of time that separated them doesn't matter. EDIT: it's also a brilliant direction to choose an enclosed space like the car, where these two characters burst out of their emotions. If you think about it, every location has been chosen carefully to as to set the natural environment for one sort of conversion/interaction to be facilitated.
The best part of the whole trilogy, as a friend of mine told me once, is that she is exactly like this on the third one, basically with that famous line: “This is how people start breaking up.” Completely out of the blue, I burst into laughter.
In general, I'm just ticked off at people who are dishonest, lie to my face, hide things, play mindgames with me & others. I'm a really smart gal & I see through all the B.S. even though I also am empathetic & nice & openminded & give people the benefit of the doubt, too. It's a balancing act being a decent, good person to others. But yeah, the most recent boyfriend wiped me out energy, heart, mind, emotional-wise than the other 3 relationships I had before him combined. (cont.)
He came back all married, which she knew before they met in Paris and she is so frustrated about. She is saying the one night had a huge impact on her love life and he has been in the back of her mind all along. And then Jesse confessed marriage problems and he's thinking about her on his wedding day and even still dream about her. This sounds like he's blaming her for his failure in marriage? For me this is the scene where they realized they were never over each other but Celine can't do anything as Jesse is married with one kid. She said all her exes got married after they broke up. Why do men not understand?
myself to feel for 1st time since 2009 because I felt something deep that I never felt with other men for a long time. I let go & let my guards & fortress down for this man. Now, I feel like Julie Delpy's character. I help other people & am a good friend to them. I'm still the good-spirted, generous gal, but when it comes to love dept., I'm incapable to feel for any guy because it all went to guy of 2012. I hope it ends up better for Julie & Ethan's characters in next film, Before Midnight.
Exactly what I feel , why I feel so deep for someone already engaged and he will get married soon why I lost years with him I thought he is the one who will last with me forever bcs we Loved each other so much , I don't know if am fool bcs I gave my heart to someone don't deserve my love .... I moved on am ok but am asking if I can love again. Emotions is so important for me that I couldn't find it in a person bcs people love the material side more am looking for souls ....
This guy was honestly the most complex, complicated, headscratching, confusing guy I've ever dealt with in the history of my life & at the same time I still loved him even though he was the most difficult, hard to read guy I've ever come across. Life is weird that way. That last boyfriend, guy is the type of guy who makes any gal who is in a relationship with him need to go to counseling because he is that complex & confusing. (cont.).
I read your comment in the voice(s) of my ex(s), because I could imagine at least 1 or 2 of them saying this exact thing about me (or at least about the version of me they dated back then). Now-a-days at least I do feel more steady, sensible, and sincere. But I do sometimes have regrets about past relationships and how things ended or I think about areas where I could have been better, but- because of how relationships tend to end messy, I feel a sense of sorrow that they (probably) won't ever reconnect or at least see me as I am now. Even if only to just reconcile a bit to create a better closure than where things left off from back then. But- they've likely moved on, and I feel any outreach on my part would either be seen as romantic or disingenuous, irregardless of any remorse that I would want to express. Not that my ex(s) were all perfect or flawless either, everyone is flawed. But I was definitely a more intricate and complex hot mess of a man back then, and Therefore I suppose I leave it to them to ever try to reach back towards me, or leave it to fate that I should ever just bump into any of them by random chance years later.
Right now, I'm not interested in romance with any guy. I'm still dealing with pain & hurt of that guy leaving in mid-February & dealing with the confusion & mess he left. I have many friends who say I could talk to them in private. They have been wanting me to talk to them via PM or e-mail, but for some reason, I just don't feel like talking to people I know. I only feel comfortable now talking to random stranger, aka you, about "feeling there is nothing left to give". Sorry for long post.
I feel wiped out because I'm not interested in other men romantically now. I don't have the energy to move on. And if this guy lied to me last year & this year & was being dishonest to me, I'll be even more pissed. I don't like it when people lie to my face, or hide, or act like they don't know me. I deserve respect & better treatment than that. If he has a conscience, he would make amends for that to me. It's not right what he did. (cont.)
It's one of my favorite scenes ever. The lady's totally worn out and he's trying to get to her. That's how complex women can be -I think!!!!! 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
Sorry for the late response, kate aka Julie. ;-) Sadly, things haven't changed, & you add some medical & health setbacks to the mix as well. Yes, "Before Sunrise" & 'Before Sunset" are among my favorite movies. I have yet to watch "Before Midnight" because the film wasn't aired in a theater near me. But I'll buy the DVD. When it comes to love, I only put myself out there a total of 4 times in my entire life. It's hard for me to do that. That's why recent love/relationship hurt the most out of
So uh- how's life for ya these days? This comment is 6 years old, but if you do see my reply here, I'd be curious to hear an update if your life & love has improved or worsened or got better or worse (some of both?)
any of the ones I had. Thanks for your compassionate & empathetic post. One of the silver linings is that there are some compassionate, caring, & understanding people out there like you & some of the people posting on this page. Thank you for your post. And have a nice day & upcoming weekend, kate aka Julie. :-)
When i watch this i understand she is acting out to let off steam but also to test his resolve. However in practice i dont understand this doublespeak till way after the fact, and would, in jessies situation, let her leave the cab and seriously never attempt to touch her again.
anything for any man in a romantic way like I did for the boyfriend of 2012. I find myself only feeling comfortable talking to random strangers on UA-cam because it's on the surface. I gave my deep parts to boyfriend of 2012. Many people say I'm a loyal, compassionate, good & warmhearted, faithful, honest, genuine, honest gal. And I'm a good friend. And I try my best to treat others the way people should be treated. The feelings I had for boyfriend of 2012 were real & genuine. I allowed (cont.)
It's like he didn't value, show me the love & appreciation & respect that I deserved. I'm a respectable, honorable gal & I felt like he dishonored me so many times without any warning. I never had to deal with a guy acting like that ever in my life. The weirdest & most odd actions & behavior from him. All I know is that what I gave him was true & real. But I don't know about him now - whether he was being real & authentic with me. (cont.)
I couldn't understand why the movie was shot 9 years later. I did not like the story because at least 2 years later, a good script could be written. The first movie is much more beautiful for me
This scene sums up all the frustration of not being able to find the right person AND of finding the 'right person' and finding out they really aren't. - Brilliant.
The car scene is the most romantic, nostalgic and painfull scene I have ever seen on screen... Céline and Jessie : a legendary couple
Agree, totally.
yes.
How she says, “It’s been around you - don’t touch me” is so good
"Why didn't they ask me to marry them?! I would have said no, but at least they could have asked!" One of the greatest quotes from the trilogy.
That shows how egocentric she is.
@@lukegibson9410 no that shows how human she is
@@norasth.8012 You can say that about any horrible person. "Oh that's how human he/she is". That is not the point.
@@lukegibson9410 "ask me out, so i can just turn you down" LMAO narcissism is REAL 🤣
It's called validation. Her huge honesty makes it hilarious, and weirdly lovable.
He did ask her to marry him in a way in Before Sunrise. “If I had the choice to never see you again or to marry you… I would marry you”
so that's true. she is a good teacher about teaching how to love. but she said No. so ... Jesse married another woman, who is a " good teacher" as he described her.
“In a way... I put all my romanticism into that one night and I was never able to feel all this again. Like... somehow this night took things away from me and... I expressed them to you, and you took them with you! It made me feel cold, like if love wasn't for me.” this part always gets me because I feel the same way.
That's just a thought..not necessarily true..beautiful..
Yeah, that's how I've felt about relationships for the past five years, since my last ex... Our relationship was incredibly intense and we constantly idealised it, twisting it into this grandiose melodrama... it's hard to describe really, but I feel like all my idealism and my former romantic, "magical realist" conception of the world has been utterly expended and exhausted.
All those things that made love so wondrous, all the places it supposedly could have lead to, now seem absolutely ridiculous and fraudulent. I feel like everything in life has been stripped back to its barest utilitarian essence, colourless and totally incapable of inspiring anything.
I can't even find comfort in memories of the relationship, because they all seem to involve a delusional and laughably naïve version of myself, someone I feel absolutely no connection with. Either that or they're just horrible memories.
@zonesquestiloveunderworld amazing comment. I'm sorry you feel like that I guess. I find beauty in sadness and lonliness though I suppose. "There is a light that never goes out"
It took them 15 days to make this movie, and it's so underrated.
the second movie?? HOW
@@portugaltheman9717 You mean 8 years of constant rewrites?
And it took them 9 years to make another one 😂
They are each exactly 9 years apart. And both parts 2 and 3 address the time that has passed. It's damn near perfect, is what it is.
@@portugaltheman9717 they started brainstorming the outline in 1999 after they casted in Waking Life and started write the sceen play in 2003 until 2004 and they filmed in for 15 days cause they only had little budget. It's similar with Before Midnight. They said they was brainstorming for the outline in 2010 and met again in 2012-2013 to write the screenplay and filming for 20 days+ in Greece but had to rehearsal it over and over again to look more natural for weeks in Greece before started filming. It happened same thing while they filmed in Paris & Vienna. It tooks 3 months to rehearsals in Paris for Before Sunset and 6 months rehearsals for Before Sunrise because they have ton of lines. Each scenes contain 7-20 pages.
Ethan Hawke mentioned it before in his interview Before Sunset was the time where he was in depression and had problems in his marriage with Uma Thurman. He remembered exactly that Before Sunset is meaningful for him cause he was there with his bestfriends Julie and Rick.
Her monologue showcases the ambiguity of finding love in the modern world and the conflicting desires we have, as well as the consequences of heartbreak and grief. She is just working through it. To acknowledge the ways in which we act out our fears and internal conflict in our relationships is an act of profound humility.
Ethan's whole reaction to her just ranting is relatable to me at deep, profound and spiritual level.
Jesse. His name... IS JESSE!
Celine is my spirit animal, I swear...
SAME!
She blames him for something that is not his fault.
Same!
God I love this movie
I see you damon! I was just watching your vlog earlier. Hellooo
Woah, never expected you to be here! Hi Damon, if you ever come to Hamburg, Germany, hit me up.
omg damon
i could sware you would
I wish I knew more men that listened to a woman having an intense emotional moment and truly heard her. Truly believed her. Too many men would consider this scene with her proof she's crazy. That's so sad.
Not me 😁
Svlk
There is no clear explanation of her statement "I would have said no but atleast they could have asked" . Its like she has no regard to the person pursuing her. Her ego takes control when in distress. That is why she is single. Jesse made a mistake. Should have left her.
@@Aniket-dr8pu I see what you mean, but I have different view of it. I think that line itself makes Celine one of the most complex female characters on screen.The way I see it :that line has nothing to do with her ego.She just wants to be loved-just like everybody else.But she knows all of those guys were not right for her and she was not right for them.But she wished she had been choosen, at least for once, that someone could look at her and plan to have seroius plans with her.I think its a beautiful line that perfectly portrays the woman who seems to be unable to find love. At least that is my view, but I understand that people see her on different way (esspecially considering 3rd movie)
P.S. Sorry for my english
I feel like most of the women in their late 20s and 30s who havent found love yet understand her without any explanation
This is a perfect unisex romance trilogy. Never been so touched by cinematic poetry. Its genuinely perfect.
Josh Wolf this trilogy bring unisex is a GREAT point
"Screw you" and "you idiot". No one can insult you like this without hidden context "I love you"
When I started watching this movie I really liked the more relaxed atmosphere between them two. Everything was flowing easily and they seemed to have a good time making jokes about their only night together. Suddenly, in the middle of the movie (before the boat trip) I was getting frustrated because they didn't seem ready to open themselves emotionally and the script was not matching the romantic tension of the marvellous previous movie...and then, things started to get pregressively intense until they got in the car and bang! all the feelings afloat charging against each other and the audience itself. Great direction...the final section of Before Sunset is so good. Such a beautiful surprise. Barely surpassed by the unforgettable flashback section of Before Sunrise.
I didn't expect to like this film as much as I did, but Linklater knows how to convey tenderness, nostalgia and humor in his dialogues and sense of detail. The last scene with the conversation about Celine's cat, the apartment sorroundings, the outdoor lunch, the neighbours' jokes and "Jesse's Waltz" is so plenty of color and joy. Easy-going and deep at the same time.
And: Baby you`re gonna miss that play! I know. It is a climax
@@horsefish2525 he was going to miss the plane (his flight back to the US)
@@dejavu011 Of course the plane
I know this is an older comment but this is exactly how i felt watching this movie. The movie felt sort of underwhelming theoughout and then the climax pieces everything together
She is frustrated because she lost nine years
I wonder that the taxi driver's was thinking while listening to their conversation.
John Michael I love this movieeee! And this is my favorite partttt!
"I'm not being paid enough to deal with other people's shit".
He is confused, cause he can't speaks english
Muhammad Rahman Ridwan exactly
@@garymax5168 No. The driver is not confused since when he knows Ethan's meaning for not stopping the car and just keeps going!
I feel the way Celine does in this scene. I’ve never felt my heart and chest so moved by a romance film. Brilliant ❤️🔥
“You can’t live your life just trying to avoid pain--“
“STOP THE CAR. I CAN’T SEE YOU.”
I absolutely love how insanely tense this scene is, but we needed that small laugh 😂
- so well-written, so strongly felt and vivid = a perfect scene - with so much heart
You know in Celine’s mind and heart she missed Jesse a lot she angry he is married so that broke her heart.😞
I just realized Celine could’ve found Jesse so much sooner if she had gone to the bar where Jesse convinced the bartender to give them that bottle of wine. He would’ve had his full name and address and everything from the money he sent him
omfg!!!! I never thought about it! that's so trueeee
I doubt Jesse actually sent money to him after going back to the States.
finding logics in the movies in itself is another full dimensional story...by the way, u have Sherlock skills man🔥
Ohh man even I thought the same and have been so frustrated because of that. I'm glad not to be the only one.
Or she could've sent someone - a friend, maybe to Vienna the day she was supposed to meet with Jesse with her contact details to ensure they remain in touch even if they don't get a chance to meet again. Even if the friend had never seen him before, it would've been easy to find him considering he made signs of his number and displayed them in the area.
This scene is freaking amazing. It's so obvious she loves him so much
Julie Delpy was phenomenal in this scene, she was honestly robbed of so many major award nominations. She was an absolute force in this movie and this scene especially
The best are often overlooked
"i think im one of those guys"
¨raised his hand¨
"You taught me how to love and respect women"
* cheats on his wife an hour later
I like the moment when Celine starts speaking French to the driver in the car. It sounds so romantic.
Serious glimpse into Before Midnight.
Serious glimpse into her bipolar personality.
@@lukegibson9410 serious glimpse into her being her
@@HannahMaeDDoque Yeah, she is a nightmare.
@@lukegibson9410 she's not. Human beings are complicated
@@francescopassero8369 Exactly, one of the complications is bipolar disorder.
I saw this movie last night and this scene really hit home. This is exactly how I’ve been feeling all these years
How can I relate to EVERY. SINGLE. WORD. both Jesse and Celine say
I always felt overwhelmed by emotions. I always thought may be i am the only one who feel this way. But after seeing these movies, i feel so relieved. Now I know that emotions are meant to be felt differently. I love these movies ❤️🥺
and this scene is exactly why this is one of my all time favourite movies and also my fav one from the trilogy
this is my favorite film of the trilogy. I was going through a divorce when this came out and pining for someone else and could feel EVERYTHING Jesse was going through. the acting in this one is just so real.
I just watch this scene, I almost cried hearing her rant
I feel such deep empathy for the driver.
That was arguably the high point of the sequel and one of the best scenes that covers the aftermath of their night together.
How stunning. The rawness of her emotion and the lack of judgment from jesse... how he even manages her rage after he offers any rational commentary. Making space for intense emotion and honoring it movement... just absolutely stunning! im young and dumb in love but i can feel some of her frustration. why can't love be easy? why is everything so finite and painful? and why shouldn't it worked out for me???? (general me) first time watching thi trilogy and the writing has me floored, could have been a novel of just dialogue. what interesting people wrote this movie.
I rewatched this clips for the 2nd clip. I FEEL like I'm Julie Delpy's character in "Before Sunset". Like Julie Delpy's character, I GAVE all my romanticism, my feelings, my expressions, EVERYTHING I had to boyfriend of 2012. And when he left, he took all the best romantic, feelings of love I had inside of me with him. I feel he took the best parts of me. I feel I have nothing to give romantic love wise to any man now. I sit here & I know there are men interested, but I can't feel (cont.)
Wondering if after all this time you've found the love within you to give onve more?
@@Ahmedahmedxyza what do you know who are you
I'm happy the internet exists and we can have random conversations or just read someone else's thoughts like this. How are you after all this time? Did you find that person yet? I think I'm the opposite of what you wrote, I thought I had given my everything to my ex bf. Now after so much time alone and so much personal growth, I realize I have so much more to give now because I am more myself than before. Haven't met my person yet, some days I feel like love is something that is meant for everyone else but me, something impossible. This is the beauty of the internet, opening yourself to strangers.
i loved every second of this movie
0:32 "I think I'm one of those guys"
This one is the best of the trilogy and probably one of the best endings to a film that I have ever seen
i hope he sent that money
Hahahahahahah, I'm so sorry that nobody replied to this and most probably got this. But it's 2:30am here in India and I laughed so hard that my roommate freaked out!
He didn't even ask for any details in the clip. The owner or manager was really nice. I would have sent him €50 extra.
hahaha LMAO
My heart goes out to her b/c I'm almost 40 and I'm in the same boat as her. It really really sucks when all your friends are dating or getting married. T_T
have you found someone yet?
I think she was only 32 though
Found anyone?
@Juan el Parque II, hang in there--a few more years and half of your coupled friends will be getting divorced, and you can think, "glad I dodged THAT bullet!"
@@vinista256 What's funny is that in the next movie, they're married and fighting.
I can't remember how many times I repeated this video
"Don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to get you or anything."
Lies 🤣
Story of my life
Same.
What
0:41 “I think I’m one of those guys” LOL-such an important line, and if you stop listening for a second, you miss it 😂.
This scene is great but I couldn’t help just think of the driver who’s having to listen to all of that lmao.
I always thought she said "lose our words", but the captions say she said "those are words"
Delpy killed it!
He loves her
Just found out my ex is engaged. . . yeah, I feel this scene
"You come here to Paris all romantic...and married." 😢😢
i guess only i cry at this
No man, I cried at this. When she said how Jesse took her hope away, I was streaming with tears. Haha
my favorite movie clip of all time
You must have felt relatable
I love this movie, because it was also a mirror of its own time, now ppl are more fine to not get married by their 30s back then, I can totally understand/feel her 'pain.' LOL. Before Sunset, imo, was one of the most heart wrenching video because at that time, I remember watching and not knowing for certain if Jesse and Celine would've gotten back together. It just 'broke' my idealistic heart that they never met the year after Before Sunrise and it's been 9 freaking years LOL.
9 years is a long time. And seeing each other again, especially Celine is concerned whether Jesse is still as she remembers. And he is, he's still the same as in the first movie, still witty, still supportive, still as charming. I think Celine was assuming a lot of stuff and also meeting him again, she hoped to find closure in seeing him having changed. But as they spend time again together she realizes he's still the same guy she liked from that time, and that drove her nuts because that means she still loves him. I think in essence it is what it is, if the core of two people doesn't change, they will always have something for each other, the amount of time that separated them doesn't matter. EDIT: it's also a brilliant direction to choose an enclosed space like the car, where these two characters burst out of their emotions. If you think about it, every location has been chosen carefully to as to set the natural environment for one sort of conversion/interaction to be facilitated.
This scene broke me down
The best part of the whole trilogy, as a friend of mine told me once, is that she is exactly like this on the third one, basically with that famous line: “This is how people start breaking up.” Completely out of the blue, I burst into laughter.
why hurt yourself? don't punish yourself for a fault not yours!
I feel the same
We don't love the movie, we love Julie Delpy
In general, I'm just ticked off at people who are dishonest, lie to my face, hide things, play mindgames with me & others. I'm a really smart gal & I see through all the B.S. even though I also am empathetic & nice & openminded & give people the benefit of the doubt, too. It's a balancing act being a decent, good person to others. But yeah, the most recent boyfriend wiped me out energy, heart, mind, emotional-wise than the other 3 relationships I had before him combined. (cont.)
Well, Jessie came back for her . So, technically he wasn't the 1 who took things away. Celine cannot blame him for her own failures in love.
She says that she knows it is all her fault.
Well that’s what the man has to deal with - putting the effort in and then getting yelled at, cursed out, and hit for existing in her universe lol
He came back all married, which she knew before they met in Paris and she is so frustrated about. She is saying the one night had a huge impact on her love life and he has been in the back of her mind all along. And then Jesse confessed marriage problems and he's thinking about her on his wedding day and even still dream about her. This sounds like he's blaming her for his failure in marriage? For me this is the scene where they realized they were never over each other but Celine can't do anything as Jesse is married with one kid. She said all her exes got married after they broke up. Why do men not understand?
Cuz men only see a man’s point of view, the don’t even try to see a woman’s perspectives on things.
i love this scene
Fav scene.
myself to feel for 1st time since 2009 because I felt something deep that I never felt with other men for a long time. I let go & let my guards & fortress down for this man. Now, I feel like Julie Delpy's character. I help other people & am a good friend to them. I'm still the good-spirted, generous gal, but when it comes to love dept., I'm incapable to feel for any guy because it all went to guy of 2012. I hope it ends up better for Julie & Ethan's characters in next film, Before Midnight.
How are you doing 9 years later after this message?
Shows how much she tried to find her match, just like Jessie or much better than him! Tangy tangy..
Exactly what I feel , why I feel so deep for someone already engaged and he will get married soon why I lost years with him I thought he is the one who will last with me forever bcs we Loved each other so much , I don't know if am fool bcs I gave my heart to someone don't deserve my love .... I moved on am ok but am asking if I can love again. Emotions is so important for me that I couldn't find it in a person bcs people love the material side more am looking for souls ....
The idea that we can only be complete with another person is evil
I just realize that they are NOT USING seatbelts!!
This would be a whole different scene if they were using seatbelts
Man, you ruined my nostalgic mood rewatching this.
But well done😁
Love is irresponsible 😁
This guy was honestly the most complex, complicated, headscratching, confusing guy I've ever dealt with in the history of my life & at the same time I still loved him even though he was the most difficult, hard to read guy I've ever come across. Life is weird that way. That last boyfriend, guy is the type of guy who makes any gal who is in a relationship with him need to go to counseling because he is that complex & confusing. (cont.).
I read your comment in the voice(s) of my ex(s), because I could imagine at least 1 or 2 of them saying this exact thing about me (or at least about the version of me they dated back then). Now-a-days at least I do feel more steady, sensible, and sincere. But I do sometimes have regrets about past relationships and how things ended or I think about areas where I could have been better, but- because of how relationships tend to end messy, I feel a sense of sorrow that they (probably) won't ever reconnect or at least see me as I am now. Even if only to just reconcile a bit to create a better closure than where things left off from back then. But- they've likely moved on, and I feel any outreach on my part would either be seen as romantic or disingenuous, irregardless of any remorse that I would want to express. Not that my ex(s) were all perfect or flawless either, everyone is flawed. But I was definitely a more intricate and complex hot mess of a man back then, and Therefore I suppose I leave it to them to ever try to reach back towards me, or leave it to fate that I should ever just bump into any of them by random chance years later.
“You idiot”
Right now, I'm not interested in romance with any guy. I'm still dealing with pain & hurt of that guy leaving in mid-February & dealing with the confusion & mess he left. I have many friends who say I could talk to them in private. They have been wanting me to talk to them via PM or e-mail, but for some reason, I just don't feel like talking to people I know. I only feel comfortable now talking to random stranger, aka you, about "feeling there is nothing left to give". Sorry for long post.
It's been four years since you wrote these comments. How are you doing now?
How r u..?
I feel wiped out because I'm not interested in other men romantically now. I don't have the energy to move on. And if this guy lied to me last year & this year & was being dishonest to me, I'll be even more pissed. I don't like it when people lie to my face, or hide, or act like they don't know me. I deserve respect & better treatment than that. If he has a conscience, he would make amends for that to me. It's not right what he did. (cont.)
i understand completely wwhat cecelin going thru .
It's one of my favorite scenes ever. The lady's totally worn out and he's trying to get to her. That's how complex women can be -I think!!!!! 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
Sorry for the late response, kate aka Julie. ;-) Sadly, things haven't changed, & you add some medical & health setbacks to the mix as well. Yes, "Before Sunrise" & 'Before Sunset" are among my favorite movies. I have yet to watch "Before Midnight" because the film wasn't aired in a theater near me. But I'll buy the DVD. When it comes to love, I only put myself out there a total of 4 times in my entire life. It's hard for me to do that. That's why recent love/relationship hurt the most out of
So uh- how's life for ya these days? This comment is 6 years old, but if you do see my reply here, I'd be curious to hear an update if your life & love has improved or worsened or got better or worse (some of both?)
any of the ones I had. Thanks for your compassionate & empathetic post. One of the silver linings is that there are some compassionate, caring, & understanding people out there like you & some of the people posting on this page. Thank you for your post. And have a nice day & upcoming weekend, kate aka Julie. :-)
hi Velvet, how are you doing these days?
OMG the sexual tension of this scene...
Was this shot with rear screen projection?
beautiful
This film feels so far away
This is probably my all-time favorite scene. She's every woman. It's just crazy and amazing and gut wrenching. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
He reminds me so much of me it's scary
That girl say dat on behalf me also goddammit 🙃
Love it!
she’s just like me
"manic depressive activist" lol
One of my favs 🤣
:) cutest movie
When i watch this i understand she is acting out to let off steam but also to test his resolve. However in practice i dont understand this doublespeak till way after the fact, and would, in jessies situation, let her leave the cab and seriously never attempt to touch her again.
Wdym test his resolve
@@MrWeeRhys she is playing hard to get
I love you Guy❤️
anything for any man in a romantic way like I did for the boyfriend of 2012. I find myself only feeling comfortable talking to random strangers on UA-cam because it's on the surface. I gave my deep parts to boyfriend of 2012. Many people say I'm a loyal, compassionate, good & warmhearted, faithful, honest, genuine, honest gal. And I'm a good friend. And I try my best to treat others the way people should be treated. The feelings I had for boyfriend of 2012 were real & genuine. I allowed (cont.)
Are you fine now? Did you find your love of your life ?
Sometimes I am getting insane like that woman ahaha
It's like he didn't value, show me the love & appreciation & respect that I deserved. I'm a respectable, honorable gal & I felt like he dishonored me so many times without any warning. I never had to deal with a guy acting like that ever in my life. The weirdest & most odd actions & behavior from him. All I know is that what I gave him was true & real. But I don't know about him now - whether he was being real & authentic with me. (cont.)
For me it's really hard to empathize with her here, I mean, she didn't honored their agreement... Am I missing something here?
It doesn't, OOPS
Only gets good after 1:45
;( feel sorry for you.
I couldn't understand why the movie was shot 9 years later. I did not like the story because at least 2 years later, a good script could be written. The first movie is much more beautiful for me
What does Jesse see in her?
Most sane female 😄