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@@Scheherazad100 Yes it is fabulous isn't it? Well, I presume that is what you mean and that you are not one of those bitter trolls I get from time to time. nothing like hiding behind a keyboard to say nasty things is there? I see you have yours short? Short doesn't suit me. I hope you enjoyed the video 😊
@@capsuleclosetstylist your hair is beautiful. I am close to 60 and still wear long hear with pride. Nobody else can say what works or doesn't work for each of us - that is the beauty of getting older isn't it?
@@annatetiad.4991 Your comment's are accurate. I find longer hair, for me, give's versatile look's, while at the same time , freedom and ease.(all up, 1/2 up ). Just found this channel, enjoying it!, Cheer's from Ontario, Canada.
I still wear those timeless wool coats like your gran’s! I wear my 40-year old Dior burgundy wool coat all the time and have since added to my collection, always in the highest quality I can get. Every time I wear that oldest coat I get tons of compliments, such classic styles never date and it’s so beautifully designed and made. I wore it every cold day of my whole career and it looks never-worn, such amazing quality was standard in the 80s. I hope it comes back!
I have gone through many fashion stages in my life but always preferred the hippy look as that was my era. At 68 I now wear midi tea dresses with wool tights & combat boots in winter with fair isle cardigans & sandals in summer. I like vintage jewellery & I only have a few coats, one a green wool duffle for winter. Luckily I am still as slim as I was when I was young, but the days of showing my skin is over. I feel liberated to have got rid of so many clothes that I never wore.
Good for you! It's important to be yourself no matter what age you are. My heart and mind are ageless. Unfortunately my body isn't!😂 That's why I'm going to subscribe to this channel!
@@gill8779 Same here, 68 and gravitate towards the same kinds of clothes I wore as a teen. For me Levi’s or Wranglers, good quality simple boots, fair isle cardigans, turtle neck or rib knit wool sweaters and the classic cashmere open swing style coat from Sears circa 1940. Also receive compliments in it. Was wearing classic perfect neutral moto jacket with boots and wool leggings the other day and a handsome much younger man lavished compliments on my style.
I bought a long cardigan a couple of years ago. It was lovely. I wore it once or twice and then ditched it. I felt like I was wearing a bathrobe in public.
Thanks Michelle, you are my ONLY go to fashion adviser!!! Im 74, from Oz and float between a 12 and 14. I love listening to your advice and happily act on it! I'm not fashionista, I just like to look good. Cheers! xxxxx
@maureenrhysjones4643 Ah bless your heart that is so lovely to hear. I am glad you like to look good. By the way, both myself and my daughter loved Oz beautiful country. 😊
@cathymedina8876 I would go in with some images of styles you like and ask for a restyle. It sounds as if they are putting you in an old lady box to me. I do not really work with hair too much but I recommend Donna May London.
I find it interesting that all of the pieces you recomended sere pieces that were in style in 1979 and 1980 when I went to fashion school. I guess it just proves classics are always fashionable. However, I live in west Texas so its Jeans, and sweaters for winter or my down filled jacket for 30 and under, which is rare. Loose Hippe Boho clothing in summer due to the 110 temp. I am so glad panty hose are no longer the norm. Thank you for your input!
Thank you, Michelle. I found this video to be one of the best! I appreciate the fact that you explain what is not so good and you give examples of what we can do instead-so very helpful! Keep on keepin' on!
I've just spent 4 hours with a neighbour, clearing out her dresses. I was brutal (but kind). 😂 Most of the 30-40 that went, still had tags on. A lot were sleeveless , or spaghetti-strap, and bar a couple, were all polyester. No matter your age, polyester is not your friend... And if it's cheap, it looks it.
Great video. Completely agree about how the colours that suit you change when you go grey. I can no longer wear black, or deep red, or turquoise, all of which were my favourite colours when I was brunette. I used to also wear chocolate brown really well. Now I suit a clear navy (was awful on me before), some greys look fantastic (didn't expect that!) and possibly my favourite new colour is teal green. And I never suited green before, in any shade.
@erica6825 Yes exactly! That is the issue with the traditional colour palettes in my humble opinion; once you embrace the grey some of the colours no longer work. Occasionally I hear someone say they still work but it is few and far between. If you want them updated book in for a consultation with me and I can chat to you about how I can help you. calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation.
"I could throw a packet of crisps on my daughter, and it looks good on her." I love your expressions! Great video. I'm 51, but it really makes a difference to have well fitting clothes and good colors. Thanks for your video. Just found your channel.
@@asklaurabruno my little girl put the oddest combinations - almost like my Asian friends ( who she doesn’t know) and it just works for her. I just loved it, she looked so cute
@@conniemountainraven2181 Leggings are pants. They aren’t tights. They’re athletic pants and pair with tennis shoes, or they’re riding style pants that you wear with riding boots. Shiny/leather look on any kind of pants for skirts hasn’t been a thing since the 80s.
@@schoolingdiana9086it also depends on what size you are, anything over slender, leggings are just a no no. I’ve seen some horror leggings where the bum area looks like a load of lumpy meat 😂
@schoolingdiana9086 ❤ I don't need women griping about my matte black leggings. I'm slender and aged 74. I refuse to subject my crotch to regular pants (trousers for Brits). I had a pre-cancerous condition of the vulva years ago, caused by soap and scented sanitary pads. I'm still tender, and the stretchy fabric is essential for me. So, to all the hysterical females who criticise leggings, get the facts first.
@@suzannemerhige9575many styles depend on body type! I'm short legged, long torsoed, extremely wide shoulders! I've ended up sewing since a teen to tweak the styles I like to my proportions! Sloppy to me just means mass made with no concern to women's shapes!
I think what you’re showing there when you discuss parkas is what we in the US would call a utility jacket. I completely agree about these, this is a 20-year+ old trend that doesn’t look current anymore. I dutifully bought several back then, and also denim jackets and a black leather moto jacket, because they were on all the wardrobe “must-have” lists. But, I never wore any of them even once! Neither the very casual, nor tough/edgy styles of these are really mine. I’m also not buying the current Barn Coat trend, it’s just not me, nor do I have a country lifestyle that would warrant such a sturdy item. I do have a few down-filled puffer parkas for going to the mountains or desert here in California, which get a lot colder than my coastal location (San Francisco) does. I just bought a new Ralph Lauren cream color, faux-fur trimmed, down parka, I think it’s still in style. I think a neutral color like this looks more current than the old-lady lilacs, hot pinks, etc., that are marketed for mature women. I really need a casual, lightly insulated windbreaker for my exercise walks, like a Patagonia jacket, but they never come in neutrals, just those bright, so-called “fun” colors that I won’t wear. Weather and activity allowing, I’m always going to choose a structured, tailored 100% wool lined “city” long coat, or similar blazer for autumn and spring. Age 64, thanks for all your great advice. (I promoted your channel vigorously in the beginning and am happy to see it’s taking off. My only suggestion is to minimize introductory material and jump into the content as soon as you can. We YT viewers maybe aren’t as impatient as Tik Tok and IG ones, but I wouldn’t say we’re all that patient, either).❤
@KimberlyPerrotis I agree with those colours that are marketed to middle-aged women. They are so predictable.It is fantastic that you have a great grasp of what works for you and what does not. It is the perfect place to start, but It can take a little longer to find the perfect item. Thank you for promoting my channel it is much appreciated. In addition I appreciate the feedback. 😊
Great tips! I thought the lady in the first cardigan didn’t look frumpy, and I love that look at any age. But then, I’m tall, and the cardigans are long, and not bulky…. I love the rest of the tips. These changes give a classy elegance to any age.
@c.s.p.3978 Yes, if you have some height, that can make a difference. For info, too, I subscribe to an images platform, so I have the rights to use the images, and so I am often limited as to what I can show.
Love this. I'm 61, and i was given a thick knit grey long cardigan, and I honestly wonder what I should do with it, would i ever wear it? I DO wear it now (after much thinking...) - with straight black jeans, kick-a$$ "tough girl" boots (military short) with silver metal black belt on the jeans, strong silver earrings, sometimes a thick strong silver necklace, sleeves pushed back and walk with purpose. Hair is grey/silver/brown and put back, strong-ish ear liner and lipstick. The cardigan flows behind me (as much as it can for a heavy thick one), and i love this look on me. Makes me feel powerful. 😌 Thanks for your info and inspiration! Love your videos. (Hi from Canada)
Less fuss works for me! I do have a lightweight jacket with a drawstring! hahaha! I've been looking at replacing it with something vintage at just below the knee. What is the best length for a jacket and blazer so as not to look frumpy? I finally got rid of my straight leg Levi's. They look dated and unflattering on me now. Thank you Michelle!
@mamalovesthebeach437 You are very welcome. It depends on your shape but I would say no longer than the top hip for the blazer and wait to top hip for a jacket works for most people.
Thank you for this advice. I found it very helpful. In my opinion, I was surprised that you had your hair in a pigtail, which in MY opinion aged you dramatically compared to when you let your hair loose and flowing, which looked stunning.
@kathycrowhurst1106 I am glad you found it helpful. I get a lot of comments regarding my hair, a lot of them very derogatory. I am not sure what that has to do with the 25 years of experience I have and how I share it. I like my hair down and in a fishtail plait.
@sandrawestley4193 Anything else? Well this is a bit awkward. You seem upset and bitter, are you ok? It is tricky sometimes when that green-eyed monster rears its ugly head and spews all over your keyboard isn’t it? But let’s be real-if we were face to face, I bet you’d be less likely to throw that nastiness about. So, let’s talk about that comment of yours. With 25 years of experience in my field, I can assure you that my expertise is far more valuable than any remarks on my looks. So, how about we focus on something a bit more positive, like lifting women up with a compliment? Remember, my channel is all about keeping it respectful and inclusive. Your comments about my looks are strictly in the “not cool” section of my community guidelines. Consider this a gentle nudge to keep the compliments coming and the negativity at bay. Otherwise, I will have to send you to the naughty corner with a "Time Out" sticker. Trust me, it’s not a fun place to be! You and your channel will likely disappear after all and we would not want that would we? You can read more here support.google.com/youtube/answer/2802268?hl=en#:~:text=We%20may%20terminate%20your%20channel,dedicated%20to%20a%20policy%20violation. So, let's make a deal: I’ll promise to hold my comments about your inability to respect a professional woman when you see one, if you keep your keyboard monster in check. Sound fair?
I absolutely agree with every item. I found that even in my 20s... these particular items made me look "unkempt". Not just "frumpy"... but sloppy & under-dressed. These items can be made of "formal" types & colors of fabric... but still come across as though they were picked out by your great-grandmother.
My wardrobe has many of the flat collar short-sleeve blouses. This explains why I have been so unhappy😢. I love the long sleeve blouse with strong collars, and I can roll the sleeves up in the summer. Thank you!
Your right. I'm 77 and have tried every style and what you have mentioned never get out the door. I buy them then give them away. They just don't feel right. Frumpy. The best thing was to lose 12k on the carnivore diet and go back to a much smalleer size in everything. That made all the difference in reversing age. Now I enjoy buying clothes again. No more frump!
@@my2cworth4U agreed, working on it. also hair gone gray which i do like, colours changed drastically. living in blue at the moment, my ideas on clothes just now are a bit scary,
I love your channel❤I agree with eveything that you mentioned! I would also add clunky "statement" jewellery to the list. I think that this type of jewellry can work for women who are naturally artsy and have a funky style but for the average woman I find that it looks cheap and ageing.
I am rather slender and have a small face, so clunky jewelry would overwhelm my face, whereas it looks great on women with bigger faces and features. Also depending on the shape of the face, the eyes, nose, mouth, and chin all are things to consider matching with jewelry or clothing. Most clunky jewelry is bigger than my eyes, so the jewelry becomes more noticeable than my eyes. I love wearing jewelry that mimics the sizes nature gave me. For example, my eyes are a bit almond so patterns with that size and shape that ressemble my eyes, look great on me. It's really learning how to see your shapes, your features, your coloring, your energy, and enhance what nature gave us.
Great tutorial! Thank you! My challenge is finding clothing stores that sell stylish clothing. I’m petite and nearly all the tops I see are frumpy tunics, wildly patterned or in old lady pastel colors and capri cut stretchy pants. I don’t want to wear juniors, as I’m 67. I can’t stand tops that are polyester, boxy, and shapeless. I often question who the stores’ buyers are that they think older women want to wear that crap?! Anyway- it’s a challenge to find clothing stores that sell chic, stylish clothes in petites. And buying online? -nope. I like to try on my clothes first.
I have found that sweaters that hit me at the hip tend to make me look matronly so whenever I can I take my sweaters to a seamstress to shorten the hem and fit them in slightly. Just an inch or two really makes a difference.
@@pamelab7235 I wish manufacturers would listen to us! Some brands feature only these dowdy, long tops. Nothing to high hip or waist. Especially in Plus size tops.
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 Yes I agree I just replied to a different comment and said I ould love to take a group of plus sized women to these manufacturers to get their input on the designs.
I appreciate all the great tips! The only thing I politely disagree with (for me) is the parka jacket with the drawstring waist. I LOVE THOSE!! I've always been drawn to this style jacket, probably because I feel like it gives me waist definition, even though I'm thin, and also, I like a more feminine style jacket. I've always thought of them as a classic style. If they make me look frumpy, so be it! I certainly don't feel frumpy when I wear them.
@@michellekelly2937 I agree with you. Just because someone says something is frumpy, doesn’t mean it is. Opinions are just that..opinions and are entirely subjective.
In my 60's, lucky to be tallish and still wearing small sizes. It's great to see women 60 plus on the catwalks in the big designer shows, looking fab, grey and non-classically beautiful. I don't want to look frumpy- so I shop where the young women shop and choose carefully- as you advised, with some rules! Must be quality fabric that sits well, and wash well. Fit that is flattering, colour is important, and will it work hard in my wardobe? No short dresses, no cutouts, no deep cleavege/side boob! Treat prints with caution! For me, top half must be structured. That said, I try to be a little adventurous trying on in the changeroom. Just bought a beautifully cut linen sleeveless (in OZ, it's hot in Summer!) jumpsuit with wider longer length leg! Can add a tee under if worried about the crepey spot on my arms...😆Out of my usual comfort zone, but so happy with it! Thanks💐 for continuing the work Trinny and Sussanah started back when.😊😊
@willowvee5844 Ah thank you for your lovely message. It sounds as if you greatly understand what works for you and what doesn't. I agree with all that you have said and in regards to the side boob and even worse (under boob, what is all that about????!!) I don't think I would have done that even in my 20's haha! Yes, and I agree. Always still experiment a little; you never know where it will take you.
Really good.I love your style and the way you think about fasion for older women. Your hair is amazing and i was thinking my hair was getting a bit to long but now i have seen yours i will leave it a bit longer. I have gone grey but i add a few coloured foyles in it and it works really well. Iam a new fan. Cant wait for more.
@annayoung6610 Ah thank you so much. I am glad you like my hair, it appears some don't haha! I think if you like it keep it that way don't listen to anyone else 😊
I bought that coat just last year, and just love it, I always feel good, with a nice fitted dress underneath and I’m 80 now, I never wear blouses ever, I’ve got a big bust and it always looks untidy, bursting at the buttons.
So i believe that you are doing a great service for women, and i absolutely agree with you one hundred percent, i love the items you chose for their replacements ..which is a more classic timeless style instead of trendy pieces that come and go. Not everyone comes equipped for natural style sense so ..this is a great video for women looking for help..i feel like a lot of people don't think that fashion matters but its amazing how a great outfit can make you feel confidence and beautiful ...while we all need to have inner confidence..nice clothes can really help if you lack some of that inner confidence.
@heidihunt-qu1vl Thank you for taking the time to give me feedback it is greatly appreciated. I totally agree and want all women to feel good about what they wear.
The classic, collared semi-tailered button-up shirt is nice. However, large bust & button-up somehow is more difficult at best. To get it large enough to button correctly without excess tailoring becomes challenging at best. Any other suggestions please?
@CM-uq7km Yes this can be the case. So I would suggest two things here, avoid breast pockets and choose shirts in your size that accommodate your bust with shape and darts in the back. If the shirt fits your bust well but is loose around the waist or shoulders have it taken in or if you are able to, take it in yourself. If you find a brand and cut that works, I would get a few of them. Also wear them with a couple of buttons undone at the neck as it will reduce the impact of your bust, buttoning them to the top with only make your bust appear bigger.
@motteredisch9086 Ah Thank you for your lovely comment. I am glad you enjoyed it. I suggest tea and cake with your friends and you can watch together? 🧁🧁🍰☕️🫖😀
The pants in the last photo look more cropped than they do 3/4 length. That's how I wear all of my pants and to me this look is more on trend, whereas full length pants look dated to me.
Ironically I recently thrifted a dress very similar to the black lace one you shared because it reminded me of a top I had in the early 90s. I’ll probably still wear it to the event I got it for but will donate it back to the thrift shop after. :)
@KathyBochonko Ah unfortunately that was just an image `i used but I have found these similar ones rstyle.me/+ujFtmnenTMENrvbtDEWWaw, rstyle.me/+IuJXQwCE9rJqxKwrseegSw, rstyle.me/+xdg_e0519kWuCvHyCBT4zA, rstyle.me/+KERs15MonQVDgrUHSzZOig
Thank you for this. I just had an experience, bought jeans, wore them and yikes-like the 80's(a great decade for bands and hair) and they were so baggy. My husband even asked, about the cut of them. They were the same jeans I have been wearing forever. Well after 2 tries, returns and donations, I was buying the wrong size. Moral, if it has been awhile, double check in an actual store, what your go to looks like and try different sizes.
@Mamakate2382 Yes it is hard. I think the only ones that do not are this type of variety. But depending on the climate you live in they can be quite warm to wear rstyle.me/+bFYHDFUe3L6Fx-93H2DBsw
I’m 74 and have several pairs of jeans that are wide leg, straight leg and bell bottom. I love all of them as they have some give in them so they are stretchy making them comfortable. I wear either a 4 or 6. I went to a specialist to get fitted for bras. Now i have great support and they hold up the girls. I buy jockey white cotton underwear that some would call old lady undies but they fit me well and they don’t show under my clothing. When I worked as a professional, I wore spanx and I loved how they held me in. I had my colors done when I was younger. I was typed as a summer. I have embraced my hair which has changed as I aged. I used to be all blonde but now I am blonde streaked with a bit of gray. I love the colors of my hair. No long cardigans for me. They look too slouchy.
I’m 63, 4’11”, 110 lb. Things have shifted a little as I’ve aged, but I’ve been pretty close to the same size all my adult life, so I tend to keep things too long, so this is so helpful!
Hi came across this video today and really enjoyed it. You said to get in touch with you to find out what colours suit a gap, so I'm trying to do that. Thank you 😊
@cassandraachorne-klein3415 Hello; thank you for your comment. I would love to meet you and chat to you. If you book a discovery call with me, I can chat to you about how I can help you with that. You can book in here. calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation
Hi, just found you by chance!!. Can you tell me where I could find some nice cigarette pants/trousers please? I like pull on trousers or at least a flat front as have bit of a tum 😮
Thank you Michelle. I really appreciated your presentation Thank you - I will definitely come back….how about hair and makeup? I am 81 and a bit overweight…..😊
@Chris-2020-s9h Thank you for the feedback it is greatly appreciated. I do not do hair and make-up, but I suggest you look up Donna May London as she gives lots of advice on that.
Definately the good underwear advice hit home. Had a remeasurement two months ago for my bra and was upsized. Clothes look so much better and my posture too as a wrong sizing can hunch you over slightly. Enjoyed the video. Not sure if I want to ditch my Ralph Lauren parka style coat as it fits me well is comfy and warm. Maybe just to the market. I live in the wilds of Sardinia.
Michelle would you be able to share some of the solutions or examples of wardrobe or color consult guidance that you’ve shared with some of your clients? What I’m wondering is, without divulging any of the privacy of the clients, can you share the actual wardrobe and color challenges they’ve brought to you with images and what you’ve done to help them again, with specific images or details? Does that make sense. Sorry for the long comment. I’d love to see some of your success stories. Your approach is so helpful. I’m sure I’m not the only one of your followers who might find this helpful and educational. Take care and thank you for your hard work on our behalf. It’s extremely positive and uplifting to watch your content.
@mspayitforward5295 Thank you for your lovely comment it is greatly appreciated. Yes, this is a tricky one. Often when clients come to me they are not feeling particularly good about themselves so asking them for photos is tricky. It is quite a private process. But yes I have been thinking about doing a special offer whereby clients get a good deal but agree to images bring used in exchange. I can however talk about the process and show images of how I do it. So yes this is definitely food for thought thank you
'Those catalogues aimed at middle aged women...' need to be called 'How to look frumpy'. What also adds insult to injury is the colours/fabrics - washed out pastels, and easy to wash synthetics. As a woman in her late 70's I stick to natural fibres - they are easy to wash now. Thanks for your tips. (I do have a quadruple cashmere cardigan which will never see the catwalk, but is so cosy despite being baggy and not that flattering.)
@@flower-ss2jt speaking of cashmere… I shop very joyfully at the Goodwill and similar charity / thrift shops and I find wonderful cashmere and merino sweaters, and great brands. Just found a soft wool coral blazer type jacket. I sew, so I can alter if needed. Thrift Therapy😉 I’m 72 in rainy Portland, Oregon
@flower-ss2jt, I think you should stick with that cardigan then 😊. I totally agree about the catalogues; this is what I want to change. I believe this generation has none of that business, haha.
@cornflowertoile3026 ah thank you so much that is very kind of you. It is a jumper from here liketk.it/4Y97G?product=dc633d83-ab18-11ef-b8d2-0242ac110004
Good advice. I am short (5'0") and find the tips work well for short and petite women. I'k like to know what length skirt/dress helps older women look and feel younger. Including different occasions/seasons e.g., summer, business casual, date night...
@DesireeBeaudry I am glad you found it helpful. It is hard to say without seeing your body type, but generally would say just below the knee works best.
A couple of the things you mentioned hit home. Two cropped tops with a drawstring no less I have in my closet and I have never worn them. I get your point -out they go! Great information. Don’t be reluctant to say what you know. If someone disagrees, they can disregard that piece of your advice.
@dr.harrietterichard8992 Thank you for your comment. I agree, I am learning with this that some will not like what I say whatever I do so you are right.
Thanks for the video about avoiding the frumpy look! It gave me a lot to think about. I will say that in addition to wearing over high waisted pants and skirts, I've found that some cropped tops can be useful for wearing over certain plain dresses; they add color, texture and warmth, and create interest that draws the eye up from the stomach area. Sometimes that proportion can be very flattering.
@florentinalily Ah welcome. Subscribe to et alerts when I post. Of course this is where it is from I have one in grey, black and oatmeal. They are very cosy. rstyle.me/+xHcyQp4QST2njcsuIyLY0g
I thought at the beginning of the video … I kinda thought … hey … this is too fundamental. Because my career was in cosmetics and fashion. Having said that I had a traumatic injury at 60, right on the heels of a move , it’s been a long adjustment to get back to where I was or a new me that I’m happy with … I’ve gained a tremendous Amt of weight 40lbs & my right knee will always be swollen and larger … so while I was recovering I begin wearing comfy clothing. So as your video continued I either relearned or learned for my body until I lose the weight . And I just learned. Thank you ! I also wanted to say I really liked your personality , what I picked up on in a short video. I began to giggle with the long cardigan!!’ Haha … what I took from that personally was -Kelly, get rid of it !! I don’t want to look frumpy in front of my husband either ! Never give up !! That’s where I have to come from !! Awesome video ,
@kclav4666 Ah thank you for taking the time to write. I am glad you found it helpful. Only take the advice that feels right to you and ditch the rest 😊
Thank you for the tips! I am 62 and always looking for ideas on choosing the right pieces for me. Love the top you are wearing in the video, can you tell where you got it?
I so agree with all your comments! I am 70 and would not wear any of those things. However, I have one friend who wears those open neck blouses (we wore them in the 80s) and drwstring cut off trousers, and another friend who is slim and short, but insists of wearing those baggy dresses - from an expensive Swedish brand, very Pippy Longstocking, but they do nothing for her. They both say they are not worried about looking fashionable, but then they get offended when people think they are older than they are! I have had my colours done 3 times, but alas had 3 different results, none of which I feel really work, probably not uncommon?
@trishagoodwin4069 I think a lot of the time, people get stuck in a bit of a rut. I do say if you like a style you should stick to it, but just always be open to adapting.
I'm a 69 Yr old short tubby grandmother of 8 grandchildren, l try and follow all the tips you've mentioned in this video, except the underwear. Thanks for the reminder it's something I'll definatly look into. 🎉
@lindabarrett7543 Great surname Linda! Did you know it originates from the west coast of Ireland? Thank you for the feedback I am glad you found it helpful.
Agree. I have found I am paying more attention to the fit and what goes underneath (I like tall boots with leggings or a column skirts) but it’s still a look I like.
Hello! You mentioned color consult. I was a winter in the 80's and am wearing my natural hair color now at 61.I would like to wear neutrals but that leaves me pretty much with only blk grey and white. I know I still look good in jewel tones but they are harder to find and I feel less elegant in them. Help.
@martalepage9812 It can definitely change when your hair colour changes. If you want book in for a discovery call with me and we can have a chat about how I might be able to help you. calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation
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Hi, enjoyed your video, wondering if you have any style tips for middle aged women during hot summer months.....long pants are uncomfortable in the heat and if skirts are not practical for the workplace, what would you suggest?
I would add, pay attention to your shoes, socks or stockings to your gloves. This just a personal preference for me. Remember in the movie 'The Devil Wears Prada' the scene where Miranda glances at Andy measured her starting at the toes and finishing at the head? You may want to reserve those New Balance shoes to relaxed walking style status if you didn't buy them for sports. While it may have been slightly a thrill to show a bit of bare kneecap and leg in your 20's when wearing knee-high boots it will date you exact age when you are no longer less than 30. Never wear a glove that has a stain or dried or fade died fingertips, cracked leather. Reserve that for gardening if you must.
I buy those elegant slim, soft leather gloves at the op shops and use them for gardening & handling the firewood. I know it seems a sacrilege to use them for this purpose, but they are a perfect fit (and I feel a bit posh!)
I'm 79 and I'm a jeans and T shirt in summer and jeans and sweatshirts in winter type of dresser. Always have been and probably always will be. I was very VERY much a tomboy as a child and really I still am. I've always stated that "female I am, feminine I am NOT".
@@capsuleclosetstylist Thank you... I've watched so many "trends" come and go.. you know, the ones everyone as to run out and buy so they can look like everyone else... for me, that was a reason to wear the exact opposite... LOL...
Thank you for this video. Definitly I need to rethink my preference for cardigans :/ Maybe you forgot to mention shawl collars and blouses with bows ;) Greetings from Zurich in Switzerland 🙋🏻♀️
Full of content great video Thankyou So agree with you But I do wear plain black m and s leggings cos I have back issues and had an operation when I was a young child so have scars on tummy Your videos certainly have got me thinking on what I wear day today
@joannagooney8342 Ah, I think if they work for you, you do not have to explain that to me; you stick with them. I am glad you are finding it all useful.
First time I'm watching one of your videos. I'm in that age category. I'm really turned off by those who are criticizing your terminology and suggestions. You are helping us. People out there need to understand you are giving your opinion, and what works for you and others you know. Folks, she is not gospel. We still have the right to choose what we think looks nice on us or not. If you're in this age category, you should know by now, that not everything always applies to everyone. So please be kind and gentle to this marvelous woman who looks great, has good suggestions, and takes the time to do her research. Now, regarding my thoughts on her suggestions. And they are not cruel or word cringy. In regards to parkas, I believe they are more functional than stylish. If you're older and can still be athletic in winter, like skiing, sledding with grandkids, hiking, etc., for me, not everybody, the parka is a better way to go. Warm, lots of pockets, and not so tight that you can't function. These activities are just that, active. They don't have to be stylish. And I'm sure you could probably find some stylish parkas also. Colors: Lord have mercy! I've tried with those folks and I think it depends on what time of the year it is and how tanned or ruddy my skin is. I also notice, that every time I change my hair color, I have to go with the tones that work with it. That's all. These are just opinions and things that happen with me, not you. But maybe they can be helpful to you, also. Not criticisms. Now, be kind and nice to everyone. ❤🤗❤️
@phelinephrenzy2358 Thank you this has to be one of the best comments I have received. I agree this video has become very popular very quickly and unfortunately alongside its popularity has been several derogatory comments about my face, home and particularly my hair. I would have thought these women over 60 would have better manners, but clearly not. One even describes herself as a life coach, which is ironic! You are correct. Many people forget that I am a stylist, at home recording videos offering FREE help they can take or leave. Kindness costs nothing.
@cinders1413 It is tricky to say without doing a colour analysis for you. Some people can and some can not. How does it reflect on your skin? If you want to book in for a chat you can do so here calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation
This is meant for all the stylists who use algorithm taglines. I like the tips, but maybe we could dispense with equating “frumpy” with “looks that age us”? A lot of comfortable outfits simply don’t photograph very well, especially on larger bodies, but in real life where most of us live they move and drape nicely.
@sheilacroisier6446 So is this for me too? All of my content is based on real life experiences of, real people in a career spanning three decades. I do not give advice based on any algorithms. As I say in almost all of my videos it is ok if something does not work for you or if you do not agree with it, you can ignore it.
@@capsuleclosetstylistI sincerely hope it doesn’t apply to you! I’ve only seen a couple of your videos so far and your advice makes good sense. So perhaps I felt safe commenting here rather than on someone else’s channel. Labels like “frumpy” and “aging” seem to appear regularly in the same sentences and video titles. That they show up in my feed is probably the fault of the algorithm, but I do see far too many UA-camrs using these words. I wanted to comment because words repeated so often have power; if we don’t actively resist believing them, they become value judgments. They echo in the mind when I look in a mirror at my round, gray haired self clad in outfits that move well and don’t cling, but will never make me look taller, or thinner, or younger than I am. I do appreciate your styling and color tips, and the advice to wear what we love. Have a lovely day and thanks for answering my comment!
@sheilacroisier6446 Ah my apologies I may have read this wrong. It is no excuse, but this particular video has been very popular, and when they are popular, they invite a few trolls, so I was likely a little sensitive when I read it! Thank you for taking the time to explain. It is interesting on here because it is sometimes those titles that seem to do well. That said, I hope I try to explain that I am only offering that advise if someone wants it. Ultimately I just want to help people feel better in what they wear. I am glad you enjoy the content and thanks again for taking the time to write ❤️
I just stumbled across your channel and have to say your advice is among the best that I have heard. I am in Australia, 77 , overweight, even after losing 12 kg last year and losing height, which makes it worse. I carry all my weight around my torso and upper arms. I am a rectangle shape, no waist to speak of, flat bottom, slim legs, about 5’ 2”, and would love to hear your opinion on what style of dress might work for me. I make most of my clothes since I find this is the best way to deal with a body that defies all clothing manufacturers when it comes to fit and style. I know my colours well, age adjusted! I style my hair short as it is very fine and thin. I haven’t worn dresses for about 2 years and my daughter is encouraging me to think again. I think there are many women in a similar situation who haven’t lost their desire to dress well but have given up because they cannot find the right look and fit.
@jeansdaughter try a tea dress style. Think of the cut of the 1940's woman. As it comes in a little under the bust then gently flares out. That will give you shape without clinging too much. Thank you for your feedback I really appreciate it.
I love long cardigans. They look amazing, as they elongate the body and are always trendy, fun, casual or dressy. I agree with you on baggy dresses, but the better examples you showed, with a cinched waist and pleated/gathered skirt looked like my mother's dresses from the 50s-60s, which are very frumpy indeed. The right colors are definitely important, which is why I don't understand your color choice. Light grey is a down color which brings out those tones in a complexion, unless it is paired with brighter colors, such as yellow or gold. My first thought when I started your video was that you are not feeling well.
@Jingeb58 As I mentioned in the video, if you have preferences, stick with them-everyone is entitled to their own choices. However, it's simply not acceptable to throw out nasty, unnecessary comments about my personal appearance under the guise of advice. With over two decades of experience in colour and style since 1999, I know what I’m talking about. Silver grey complements my pale blue/grey eyes perfectly. On the other hand, gold would be the absolute worst choice for me, given that my features are predominantly cool. While I appreciate diverse perspectives, I would never presume to challenge a professional with 25 years of expertise online. It's beyond me how you think this is acceptable.
Okay, I’m a long cardigan offender 😂😬 But, in my defense, I like to belt mine with a gorgeous wide belt over jeans or skirts or dresses to bring sleeveless or short sleeves into the cooler months.
Just found you .I have no problem at all during the summer months …cotton dresses ,sandals ,Birkenstocks,nice lippy .Winter however is a nightmare ( i’m in Canada ) can’t stand too much black either .Your content is great ,honest and on point .
@Frances-c5q Thank you for the feedback. I am glad you found it helpful. If you want to book in for a chat with me I would be happy to talk to you about how I can help you with your colours. calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation
Collars: I agree if you’re talking about 90s style collars. 1930s/1940s collars are classic and current trendy, though. A structured collar is the worst thing if you’re jowly or your neck is wrinkled because it draws the eye right to your jawline and neck. The rest is pretty good! I’ve never seen a heavy long cardigan, though. I’m short so I wear fitted coat type cardigans so I don’t look like a potato dumpling.
Yes! 💯 agree with your list. I don't worry much about dressing frumpy or old because I wear classic cuts, or arty monochromatic looks, made with good fabrics. To me, fabric type and quality are a big deal, natural fabrics for me though I do love Rayon now and again. Garment construction is another thing on my list of things important. I screw up once in a while and buy something that doesn't work, mostly because of fit. Young me could wear about any cut or style and so I rarely hit the fitting room. Now it's more important because I have found my shape has changed somewhat. One thing I find dated is big fluttery elbow-length sleeves. I get the length requirement, but please God banish the big butterfly sleeves. Get a long-sleeved top and push or roll up the sleeves to just below the elbow. It's more slimming and has better upper-arm camouflage. So that's my thoughts. You have a really good channel and I hope you keep at it.😊❤😊.
@TerriKash-NEO Thank you for your comment and feedback it is greatly appreciated. It sounds as if you have a great grasp on what works for you and what doesn't which is fantastic!
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@@capsuleclosetstylist Your hair?
@@Scheherazad100 Yes it is fabulous isn't it? Well, I presume that is what you mean and that you are not one of those bitter trolls I get from time to time. nothing like hiding behind a keyboard to say nasty things is there? I see you have yours short? Short doesn't suit me. I hope you enjoyed the video 😊
@@capsuleclosetstylist your hair is beautiful. I am close to 60 and still wear long hear with pride. Nobody else can say what works or doesn't work for each of us - that is the beauty of getting older isn't it?
@@annatetiad.4991 Ah thank you yes I agree it is.
@@annatetiad.4991 Your comment's are accurate. I find longer hair, for me, give's versatile look's, while at the same time , freedom and ease.(all up, 1/2 up ).
Just found this channel, enjoying it!,
Cheer's from Ontario, Canada.
I still wear those timeless wool coats like your gran’s! I wear my 40-year old Dior burgundy wool coat all the time and have since added to my collection, always in the highest quality I can get. Every time I wear that oldest coat I get tons of compliments, such classic styles never date and it’s so beautifully designed and made. I wore it every cold day of my whole career and it looks never-worn, such amazing quality was standard in the 80s. I hope it comes back!
@KimberlyPerrotis Yes I totally agree they are timeless. That coat sounds wonderful.
Quality fabric is key! I made my own winter coat in the late 80s and had to get rid of it 15 years later because it was sagging in some areas.
I have gone through many fashion stages in my life but always preferred the hippy look as that was my era. At 68 I now wear midi tea dresses with wool tights & combat boots in winter with fair isle cardigans & sandals in summer. I like vintage jewellery & I only have a few coats, one a green wool duffle for winter. Luckily I am still as slim as I was when I was young, but the days of showing my skin is over. I feel liberated to have got rid of so many clothes that I never wore.
@gill8779 It sounds like you have a lovely wardrobe which reflects who you are which is fantastic. I love it when I hear this.
Good for you! It's important to be yourself no matter what age you are. My heart and mind are ageless. Unfortunately my body isn't!😂 That's why I'm going to subscribe to this channel!
@@gill8779 Same here, 68 and gravitate towards the same kinds
of clothes I wore as a teen. For me
Levi’s or
Wranglers, good quality simple boots, fair isle cardigans, turtle neck or rib knit wool sweaters and the classic cashmere open swing style coat from Sears circa 1940. Also receive compliments in it. Was wearing classic perfect neutral moto jacket with boots and wool leggings the other day and a handsome much younger man lavished compliments on my style.
Also remaining slender has been a real Godsend.
@@gill8779 yes I agree with your style, I’m 74 and still dress how I like. Love anything vintage! ❤️
I bought a long cardigan a couple of years ago. It was lovely. I wore it once or twice and then ditched it. I felt like I was wearing a bathrobe in public.
@ritabutler1951 I think occasionally they can work but the vast majority look a little sloppy.
I have a black one that fits well and looks great.
Oddly enough, the examples that were shown in this tutorial were very nice- not ageing at all.
Thanks Michelle, you are my ONLY go to fashion adviser!!! Im 74, from Oz and float between a 12 and 14. I love listening to your advice and happily act on it! I'm not fashionista, I just like to look good. Cheers! xxxxx
@maureenrhysjones4643 Ah bless your heart that is so lovely to hear. I am glad you like to look good. By the way, both myself and my daughter loved Oz beautiful country. 😊
I am tall and LOVE long ( very long) cardigans. I usually get lots of compliments when I wear them. Never gonna give them up....and I am way over 40!
@lynzimoore4010 If you love them you should absolutely keep them 😊
@@lynzimoore4010 ditto ! I’m very tall and I love them . They cover a multitude of sins! Mine are full maxi length
Maybe you could do a video on what hairstyles work for an older person. Each time I go in a hair salon I come out with a “Bob”.
@cathymedina8876 I would go in with some images of styles you like and ask for a restyle. It sounds as if they are putting you in an old lady box to me. I do not really work with hair too much but I recommend Donna May London.
I find it interesting that all of the pieces you recomended sere pieces that were in style in 1979 and 1980 when I went to fashion school. I guess it just proves classics are always fashionable.
However, I live in west Texas so its Jeans, and sweaters for winter or my down filled jacket for 30 and under, which is rare. Loose Hippe Boho clothing in summer due to the 110 temp. I am so glad panty hose are no longer the norm.
Thank you for your input!
@MoriaCooper-ln2tz You are very welcome and thank you for the observation.
Love your hair! I think that some some ladies age themselves by adopting middle aged bob. There is real beauty and youth in hair, so why give it up?!
@SculptExpress-gv8jp Exactly do what makes you happy.
Thank you, Michelle. I found this video to be one of the best! I appreciate the fact that you explain what is not so good and you give examples of what we can do instead-so very helpful! Keep on keepin' on!
@dorismatthews4416 You are very welcome I do my best haha! I do listen to the feedback and adapt for future content.
I've just spent 4 hours with a neighbour, clearing out her dresses. I was brutal (but kind). 😂 Most of the 30-40 that went, still had tags on. A lot were sleeveless , or spaghetti-strap, and bar a couple, were all polyester. No matter your age, polyester is not your friend... And if it's cheap, it looks it.
@bernitajenkins7581 Ah what a good friend you are to give her a hand. Yes natural fibres are generally a lot better.
Great video. Completely agree about how the colours that suit you change when you go grey. I can no longer wear black, or deep red, or turquoise, all of which were my favourite colours when I was brunette. I used to also wear chocolate brown really well. Now I suit a clear navy (was awful on me before), some greys look fantastic (didn't expect that!) and possibly my favourite new colour is teal green. And I never suited green before, in any shade.
@erica6825 Yes exactly! That is the issue with the traditional colour palettes in my humble opinion; once you embrace the grey some of the colours no longer work. Occasionally I hear someone say they still work but it is few and far between. If you want them updated book in for a consultation with me and I can chat to you about how I can help you. calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation.
I want to just stay blonde. I see ppl w grey, and they look 20 years older.
Thank you for sharing these! No need for apologies...people who don't agree shouldn't watch this segment. I think your tips are really helpful.
@iahorvath Thank you. Yes some can get a little angry. I welcome feedback, but it is very hard to make everyone happy 😊. Thank you for your comment
"I could throw a packet of crisps on my daughter, and it looks good on her." I love your expressions! Great video. I'm 51, but it really makes a difference to have well fitting clothes and good colors. Thanks for your video. Just found your channel.
@asklaurabruno Ah thank you for your feedback I am glad you liked it. Yes it is the truth, she looks eat in EVERYTHING haha.
@@asklaurabruno my little girl put the oddest combinations - almost like my Asian friends ( who she doesn’t know) and it just works for her. I just loved it, she looked so cute
Love your advice,the one trend that bothers me; women who wear leggings as pants.
@conniemountainraven2181 I think it is good to know what you do not like and even if every other person is wearing it you choose to go your way.
@@conniemountainraven2181 Leggings are pants. They aren’t tights. They’re athletic pants and pair with tennis shoes, or they’re riding style pants that you wear with riding boots. Shiny/leather look on any kind of pants for skirts hasn’t been a thing since the 80s.
and/or the tight spandex pants you wear when you work out.
@@schoolingdiana9086it also depends on what size you are, anything over slender, leggings are just a no no. I’ve seen some horror leggings where the bum area looks like a load of lumpy meat 😂
@schoolingdiana9086 ❤ I don't need women griping about my matte black leggings. I'm slender and aged 74. I refuse to subject my crotch to regular pants (trousers for Brits). I had a pre-cancerous condition of the vulva years ago, caused by soap and scented sanitary pads. I'm still tender, and the stretchy fabric is essential for me. So, to all the hysterical females who criticise leggings, get the facts first.
I love long cardigans, they’re comfy
They're warm and I think the shorter ones look more frumpy
I think they can look great, too. Depends on the cardigans!
@@kathybrem880 but a little frumpy, nevertheless.
@kathybrem880 If you love them you keep them 😊
@@suzannemerhige9575many styles depend on body type! I'm short legged, long torsoed, extremely wide shoulders! I've ended up sewing since a teen to tweak the styles I like to my proportions! Sloppy to me just means mass made with no concern to women's shapes!
I think what you’re showing there when you discuss parkas is what we in the US would call a utility jacket. I completely agree about these, this is a 20-year+ old trend that doesn’t look current anymore. I dutifully bought several back then, and also denim jackets and a black leather moto jacket, because they were on all the wardrobe “must-have” lists. But, I never wore any of them even once! Neither the very casual, nor tough/edgy styles of these are really mine. I’m also not buying the current Barn Coat trend, it’s just not me, nor do I have a country lifestyle that would warrant such a sturdy item. I do have a few down-filled puffer parkas for going to the mountains or desert here in California, which get a lot colder than my coastal location (San Francisco) does. I just bought a new Ralph Lauren cream color, faux-fur trimmed, down parka, I think it’s still in style. I think a neutral color like this looks more current than the old-lady lilacs, hot pinks, etc., that are marketed for mature women. I really need a casual, lightly insulated windbreaker for my exercise walks, like a Patagonia jacket, but they never come in neutrals, just those bright, so-called “fun” colors that I won’t wear. Weather and activity allowing, I’m always going to choose a structured, tailored 100% wool lined “city” long coat, or similar blazer for autumn and spring. Age 64, thanks for all your great advice. (I promoted your channel vigorously in the beginning and am happy to see it’s taking off. My only suggestion is to minimize introductory material and jump into the content as soon as you can. We YT viewers maybe aren’t as impatient as Tik Tok and IG ones, but I wouldn’t say we’re all that patient, either).❤
@KimberlyPerrotis I agree with those colours that are marketed to middle-aged women. They are so predictable.It is fantastic that you have a great grasp of what works for you and what does not. It is the perfect place to start, but It can take a little longer to find the perfect item. Thank you for promoting my channel it is much appreciated. In addition I appreciate the feedback. 😊
I’m in America. We call them parkas as well. Could be regional
Great tips! I thought the lady in the first cardigan didn’t look frumpy, and I love that look at any age. But then, I’m tall, and the cardigans are long, and not bulky…. I love the rest of the tips. These changes give a classy elegance to any age.
@c.s.p.3978 Yes, if you have some height, that can make a difference. For info, too, I subscribe to an images platform, so I have the rights to use the images, and so I am often limited as to what I can show.
Love this. I'm 61, and i was given a thick knit grey long cardigan, and I honestly wonder what I should do with it, would i ever wear it? I DO wear it now (after much thinking...) - with straight black jeans, kick-a$$ "tough girl" boots (military short) with silver metal black belt on the jeans, strong silver earrings, sometimes a thick strong silver necklace, sleeves pushed back and walk with purpose. Hair is grey/silver/brown and put back, strong-ish ear liner and lipstick. The cardigan flows behind me (as much as it can for a heavy thick one), and i love this look on me. Makes me feel powerful. 😌 Thanks for your info and inspiration! Love your videos. (Hi from Canada)
@thatswhatisaidCA Thank you so much for your comment. Yes it sounds as if you are completely owning that cardigan! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Your cardi would also look great with a burgundy maxi-skirt or pants/jeans. Grey can also look great with navy & Camel.
Definitely the exception! I agree with your style choice!
Sounds great - just having difficulty imagining ear- liner 😂
Less fuss works for me! I do have a lightweight jacket with a drawstring! hahaha! I've been looking at replacing it with something vintage at just below the knee. What is the best length for a jacket and blazer so as not to look frumpy? I finally got rid of my straight leg Levi's. They look dated and unflattering on me now. Thank you Michelle!
@mamalovesthebeach437 You are very welcome. It depends on your shape but I would say no longer than the top hip for the blazer and wait to top hip for a jacket works for most people.
Thank you for this advice. I found it very helpful. In my opinion, I was surprised that you had your hair in a pigtail, which in MY opinion aged you dramatically compared to when you let your hair loose and flowing, which looked stunning.
@kathycrowhurst1106 I am glad you found it helpful. I get a lot of comments regarding my hair, a lot of them very derogatory. I am not sure what that has to do with the 25 years of experience I have and how I share it. I like my hair down and in a fishtail plait.
It’s a braid, my dear, which is a timelessly classic hairstyle that is ageless. Pigtails are like Shirley Temple or the youngest Brady Bunch girl.
@sandrawestley4193 Anything else? Well this is a bit awkward. You seem upset and bitter, are you ok? It is tricky sometimes when that green-eyed monster rears its ugly head and spews all over your keyboard isn’t it? But let’s be real-if we were face to face, I bet you’d be less likely to throw that nastiness about.
So, let’s talk about that comment of yours.
With 25 years of experience in my field, I can assure you that my expertise is far more valuable than any remarks on my looks. So, how about we focus on something a bit more positive, like lifting women up with a compliment?
Remember, my channel is all about keeping it respectful and inclusive. Your comments about my looks are strictly in the “not cool” section of my community guidelines.
Consider this a gentle nudge to keep the compliments coming and the negativity at bay. Otherwise, I will have to send you to the naughty corner with a "Time Out" sticker. Trust me, it’s not a fun place to be! You and your channel will likely disappear after all and we would not want that would we? You can read more here support.google.com/youtube/answer/2802268?hl=en#:~:text=We%20may%20terminate%20your%20channel,dedicated%20to%20a%20policy%20violation.
So, let's make a deal: I’ll promise to hold my comments about your inability to respect a professional woman when you see one, if you keep your keyboard monster in check. Sound fair?
Thank you - I have just started following you. I really appreciate the tips and like the alternates you provide
@sandi9275 You are very welcome. Welcome to the community.
Love your presentation style - feel you’re talking directly to me and love your humour. Great advice also.
@JoanneBurningham Ah thank you so much. I try to make the mistakes light hearted.
I absolutely agree with every item.
I found that even in my 20s... these particular items made me look "unkempt". Not just "frumpy"... but sloppy & under-dressed.
These items can be made of "formal" types & colors of fabric... but still come across as though they were picked out by your great-grandmother.
@moreGraceNpeace Ah thank you for the feedback
My wardrobe has many of the flat collar short-sleeve blouses. This explains why I have been so unhappy😢. I love the long sleeve blouse with strong collars, and I can roll the sleeves up in the summer. Thank you!
@mlight6845 You are welcome. Take your time with it, though; there is no rush for getting there first. 😊
Your right. I'm 77 and have tried every style and what you have mentioned never get out the door. I buy them then give them away. They just don't feel right. Frumpy. The best thing was to lose 12k on the carnivore diet and go back to a much smalleer size in everything. That made all the difference in reversing age. Now I enjoy buying clothes again. No more frump!
@my2cworth4U Oh bless you, well done for finding your way back 😊
@@my2cworth4U agreed, working on it. also hair gone gray which i do like, colours changed drastically. living in blue at the moment, my ideas on clothes just now are a bit scary,
Yay, carnivore!🐂 It works, I agree. ❤
I love your channel❤I agree with eveything that you mentioned! I would also add clunky "statement" jewellery to the list. I think that this type of jewellry can work for women who are naturally artsy and have a funky style but for the average woman I find that it looks cheap and ageing.
@msbeaverhausen7226 Yes like a lot of things it depends on how it is styled.
I am rather slender and have a small face, so clunky jewelry would overwhelm my face, whereas it looks great on women with bigger faces and features. Also depending on the shape of the face, the eyes, nose, mouth, and chin all are things to consider matching with jewelry or clothing. Most clunky jewelry is bigger than my eyes, so the jewelry becomes more noticeable than my eyes. I love wearing jewelry that mimics the sizes nature gave me. For example, my eyes are a bit almond so patterns with that size and shape that ressemble my eyes, look great on me. It's really learning how to see your shapes, your features, your coloring, your energy, and enhance what nature gave us.
Great tutorial! Thank you! My challenge is finding clothing stores that sell stylish clothing. I’m petite and nearly all the tops I see are frumpy tunics, wildly patterned or in old lady pastel colors and capri cut stretchy pants. I don’t want to wear juniors, as I’m 67. I can’t stand tops that are polyester, boxy, and shapeless. I often question who the stores’ buyers are that they think older women want to wear that crap?! Anyway- it’s a challenge to find clothing stores that sell chic, stylish clothes in petites. And buying online? -nope. I like to try on my clothes first.
@phyllism7757 Yes I do hear you on this front. It does feel like many manufacturers want women post-50 to wear boxy polyester in lilac!
Agree!👍 Buyers are out of touch. The best shops seem to be more $$$, unfortunately.
try Ann Taylor or Talbots if in the USA
I have found that sweaters that hit me at the hip tend to make me look matronly so whenever I can I take my sweaters to a seamstress to shorten the hem and fit them in slightly. Just an inch or two really makes a difference.
@pamelab7235 Yes this is the point they should be no lower than the top hip or they do give this appearance I agree.
@@pamelab7235 I wish manufacturers would listen to us! Some brands feature only these dowdy, long tops. Nothing to high hip or waist. Especially in Plus size tops.
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 Yes I agree I just replied to a different comment and said I ould love to take a group of plus sized women to these manufacturers to get their input on the designs.
I appreciate all the great tips! The only thing I politely disagree with (for me) is the parka jacket with the drawstring waist. I LOVE THOSE!! I've always been drawn to this style jacket, probably because I feel like it gives me waist definition, even though I'm thin, and also, I like a more feminine style jacket. I've always thought of them as a classic style. If they make me look frumpy, so be it! I certainly don't feel frumpy when I wear them.
@michellekelly2937 You are perfectly allowed to disagree! I do understand where you are coming from and yes they can be good to draw the waist in.
@@michellekelly2937 I agree with you. Just because someone says something is frumpy, doesn’t mean it is. Opinions are just that..opinions and are entirely subjective.
In my 60's, lucky to be tallish and still wearing small sizes. It's great to see women 60 plus on the catwalks in the big designer shows, looking fab, grey and non-classically beautiful.
I don't want to look frumpy- so I shop where the young women shop and choose carefully- as you advised, with some rules! Must be quality fabric that sits well, and wash well. Fit that is flattering, colour is important, and will it work hard in my wardobe? No short dresses, no cutouts, no deep cleavege/side boob! Treat prints with caution! For me, top half must be structured.
That said, I try to be a little adventurous trying on in the changeroom. Just bought a beautifully cut linen sleeveless (in OZ, it's hot in Summer!) jumpsuit with wider longer length leg! Can add a tee under if worried about the crepey spot on my arms...😆Out of my usual comfort zone, but so happy with it!
Thanks💐 for continuing the work Trinny and Sussanah started back when.😊😊
@willowvee5844 Ah thank you for your lovely message. It sounds as if you greatly understand what works for you and what doesn't. I agree with all that you have said and in regards to the side boob and even worse (under boob, what is all that about????!!) I don't think I would have done that even in my 20's haha! Yes, and I agree. Always still experiment a little; you never know where it will take you.
Really good.I love your style and the way you think about fasion for older women. Your hair is amazing and i was thinking my hair was getting a bit to long but now i have seen yours i will leave it a bit longer. I have gone grey but i add a few coloured foyles in it and it works really well. Iam a new fan. Cant wait for more.
@annayoung6610 Ah thank you so much. I am glad you like my hair, it appears some don't haha! I think if you like it keep it that way don't listen to anyone else 😊
Gotta say you look amaaaazing in your black pants and sweater outfit with your fab mane of hair down. Lucky you!
@Lotus7119-9 Ah thank you that is very kind of you.
I bought that coat just last year, and just love it, I always feel good, with a nice fitted dress underneath and I’m 80 now, I never wear blouses ever, I’ve got a big bust and it always looks untidy, bursting at the buttons.
Great advise. Love the samples of 'not this ... this.'
@leejacobs3620 Thank you for the feedback. I am glad you found it helpful.
So i believe that you are doing a great service for women, and i absolutely agree with you one hundred percent, i love the items you chose for their replacements ..which is a more classic timeless style instead of trendy pieces that come and go. Not everyone comes equipped for natural style sense so ..this is a great video for women looking for help..i feel like a lot of people don't think that fashion matters but its amazing how a great outfit can make you feel confidence and beautiful ...while we all need to have inner confidence..nice clothes can really help if you lack some of that inner confidence.
@heidihunt-qu1vl Thank you for taking the time to give me feedback it is greatly appreciated. I totally agree and want all women to feel good about what they wear.
I wear a crop top sweat shirt and layer it over a longer shirt and I think that looks cute.
@marielawrence-settle6476 This sounds like a great idea!
I also think so and do the same.
I do the same 👍
I am 76, average size and I love long (not bulky) sweaters!
@elizabeththomas5351 If you like them then you should keep them 😊
The classic, collared semi-tailered button-up shirt is nice. However, large bust & button-up somehow is more difficult at best. To get it large enough to button correctly without excess tailoring becomes challenging at best. Any other suggestions please?
@CM-uq7km Yes this can be the case. So I would suggest two things here, avoid breast pockets and choose shirts in your size that accommodate your bust with shape and darts in the back. If the shirt fits your bust well but is loose around the waist or shoulders have it taken in or if you are able to, take it in yourself. If you find a brand and cut that works, I would get a few of them. Also wear them with a couple of buttons undone at the neck as it will reduce the impact of your bust, buttoning them to the top with only make your bust appear bigger.
Hi from Norway,I hope a lott of old ladys se this. I am 80 and do realy like your video. Thank you😄😘
@motteredisch9086 Ah Thank you for your lovely comment. I am glad you enjoyed it. I suggest tea and cake with your friends and you can watch together? 🧁🧁🍰☕️🫖😀
I'm 74 from OZ and totally agree with you!
The pants in the last photo look more cropped than they do 3/4 length. That's how I wear all of my pants and to me this look is more on trend, whereas full length pants look dated to me.
@KarinM-u4f If they work for you then absolutely keep on wearing them 😊
Ironically I recently thrifted a dress very similar to the black lace one you shared because it reminded me of a top I had in the early 90s.
I’ll probably still wear it to the event I got it for but will donate it back to the thrift shop after. :)
@itsjustmarie1 If you like it keep it. There are always exceptions to every rule and the most important one is how it feels on you.
I love the lace on dresses or tops, very flattering
@DotP2787 Go for it!
around 11 minutes in you show an image whith an amazing colorful scarf. Any idea where I can find that? Love the colors.
@KathyBochonko Ah unfortunately that was just an image `i used but I have found these similar ones rstyle.me/+ujFtmnenTMENrvbtDEWWaw, rstyle.me/+IuJXQwCE9rJqxKwrseegSw, rstyle.me/+xdg_e0519kWuCvHyCBT4zA, rstyle.me/+KERs15MonQVDgrUHSzZOig
I loved that scarf too and own one just like it but thick, to wrap around with my long stone coloured wool coat with the huge collar.
so many amazing scarves to be found in op-shops for a steal!
Thank you for this. I just had an experience, bought jeans, wore them and yikes-like the 80's(a great decade for bands and hair) and they were so baggy. My husband even asked, about the cut of them. They were the same jeans I have been wearing forever. Well after 2 tries, returns and donations, I was buying the wrong size. Moral, if it has been awhile, double check in an actual store, what your go to looks like and try different sizes.
@alisonschooley5459 Great advice. Yes because I think sometimes brands adjust their sizing to reflect their customers.
I have never found any foundation garments that would not either roll up or roll down, creating a tourniquet of sorts. Just cannot wear them.
@Mamakate2382 Yes it is hard. I think the only ones that do not are this type of variety. But depending on the climate you live in they can be quite warm to wear rstyle.me/+bFYHDFUe3L6Fx-93H2DBsw
If the pants are high-waisted... I tuck them under my bra!
@bernitajenkins7581 Great tip will keep you warm too!
@@Lindalu0422 I'm with you! Hate those things!
Hahaha..me too
I’m 74 and have several pairs of jeans that are wide leg, straight leg and bell bottom. I love all of them as they have some give in them so they are stretchy making them comfortable. I wear either a 4 or 6. I went to a specialist to get fitted for bras. Now i have great support and they hold up the girls. I buy jockey white cotton underwear that some would call old lady undies but they fit me well and they don’t show under my clothing. When I worked as a professional, I wore spanx and I loved how they held me in. I had my colors done when I was younger. I was typed as a summer. I have embraced my hair which has changed as I aged. I used to be all blonde but now I am blonde streaked with a bit of gray. I love the colors of my hair. No long cardigans for me. They look too slouchy.
@suegordon6805 Ah it sounds as if you have this nailed! I am so pleased you are embracing it all.
I’m 63, 4’11”, 110 lb. Things have shifted a little as I’ve aged, but I’ve been pretty close to the same size all my adult life, so I tend to keep things too long, so this is so helpful!
@reginawatts Ah I am glad you found it helpful. Yes I am similar. 😊
Hi came across this video today and really enjoyed it. You said to get in touch with you to find out what colours suit a gap, so I'm trying to do that. Thank you 😊
@cassandraachorne-klein3415 Hello; thank you for your comment. I would love to meet you and chat to you. If you book a discovery call with me, I can chat to you about how I can help you with that. You can book in here. calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation
Just found you and subscribed. Loved the video with very useful advice.
@JeanJames-z3n Hello thank you for the feedback I am glad you enjoyed it. Welcome to my little part of the internet! Happy New Year!
Hi, just found you by chance!!. Can you tell me where I could find some nice cigarette pants/trousers please? I like pull on trousers or at least a flat front as have bit of a tum 😮
@janicestjohn8190 Where are you based?
Thank you Michelle. I really appreciated your presentation Thank you - I will definitely come back….how about hair and makeup? I am 81 and a bit overweight…..😊
@Chris-2020-s9h Thank you for the feedback it is greatly appreciated. I do not do hair and make-up, but I suggest you look up Donna May London as she gives lots of advice on that.
Definately the good underwear advice hit home. Had a remeasurement two months ago for my bra and was upsized. Clothes look so much better and my posture too as a wrong sizing can hunch you over slightly. Enjoyed the video. Not sure if I want to ditch my Ralph Lauren parka style coat as it fits me well is comfy and warm. Maybe just to the market. I live in the wilds of Sardinia.
@catherinecoales4392 I think if you still love the parka you should keep it. Yes, having a fitting can make a huge difference.
this was an excellent video. i am glad to say i don't wear any of those clothes you mentioned: gold star for me x
@juliejames3338 Yay haha ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Hair wots team best style length colours I think your program is fab well done jox
@joannestone2471 Thank you for the feedback I am glad you enjoyed it.
Michelle would you be able to share some of the solutions or examples of wardrobe or color consult guidance that you’ve shared with some of your clients? What I’m wondering is, without divulging any of the privacy of the clients, can you share the actual wardrobe and color challenges they’ve brought to you with images and what you’ve done to help them again, with specific images or details? Does that make sense. Sorry for the long comment. I’d love to see some of your success stories. Your approach is so helpful. I’m sure I’m not the only one of your followers who might find this helpful and educational. Take care and thank you for your hard work on our behalf. It’s extremely positive and uplifting to watch your content.
@mspayitforward5295 Thank you for your lovely comment it is greatly appreciated. Yes, this is a tricky one. Often when clients come to me they are not feeling particularly good about themselves so asking them for photos is tricky. It is quite a private process. But yes I have been thinking about doing a special offer whereby clients get a good deal but agree to images bring used in exchange. I can however talk about the process and show images of how I do it. So yes this is definitely food for thought thank you
'Those catalogues aimed at middle aged women...' need to be called 'How to look frumpy'. What also adds insult to injury is the colours/fabrics - washed out pastels, and easy to wash synthetics.
As a woman in her late 70's I stick to natural fibres - they are easy to wash now.
Thanks for your tips.
(I do have a quadruple cashmere cardigan which will never see the catwalk, but is so cosy despite being baggy and not that flattering.)
@@flower-ss2jt Try buttoning it down the back or belting it or even tucking it in
@@flower-ss2jt speaking of cashmere… I shop very joyfully at the Goodwill and similar charity / thrift shops and I find wonderful cashmere and merino sweaters, and great brands. Just found a soft wool coral blazer type jacket. I sew, so I can alter if needed. Thrift Therapy😉 I’m 72 in rainy Portland, Oregon
@flower-ss2jt, I think you should stick with that cardigan then 😊. I totally agree about the catalogues; this is what I want to change. I believe this generation has none of that business, haha.
@striderm8389 Ah amazing. I was at a preloved shop yesterday that my friend own and i came away with a gorgeous 100% silk blouse.
Thanks for this good video! ❤
@ginaneu2546 You are very welcome
Love your hairstyle today & the poncho (I assume) looks nice on you.
@cornflowertoile3026 ah thank you so much that is very kind of you. It is a jumper from here liketk.it/4Y97G?product=dc633d83-ab18-11ef-b8d2-0242ac110004
I agree, crop and high wasted pants look nice. I have a high waist, therefore I suit the crop high waist pant look❤
@kimdelorme6314 Yes it is a great way to make it work.
Good advice. I am short (5'0") and find the tips work well for short and petite women. I'k like to know what length skirt/dress helps older women look and feel younger. Including different occasions/seasons e.g., summer, business casual, date night...
@DesireeBeaudry I am glad you found it helpful. It is hard to say without seeing your body type, but generally would say just below the knee works best.
A couple of the things you mentioned hit home. Two cropped tops with a drawstring no less I have in my closet and I have never worn them. I get your point -out they go! Great information. Don’t be reluctant to say what you know. If someone disagrees, they can disregard that piece of your advice.
@dr.harrietterichard8992 Thank you for your comment. I agree, I am learning with this that some will not like what I say whatever I do so you are right.
Will definitely be booking in for colour analysis and wardrobe advice in the new year. Thanks Michelle ❤
@BeyondtheBreed You are very welcome. Yay! I can not wait to work with you.
Wow! This cut to the heart of what I see. Excellent analysis!
@deanam.3773 Thank you for the feedback it is greatly appreciated. Love the cat profile pic by the way 😊
I appreciate the advice and agree…even if I like a couple thing…I’ll keep them for crumping at home. 😊
@cory5478 Always do what works for you and just pick and choose from my advice.
Thanks for the video about avoiding the frumpy look! It gave me a lot to think about.
I will say that in addition to wearing over high waisted pants and skirts, I've found that some cropped tops can be useful for wearing over certain plain dresses; they add color, texture and warmth, and create interest that draws the eye up from the stomach area. Sometimes that proportion can be very flattering.
@dollmatrushka That sounds like a great idea! I do sometimes wear cropped tanks over shirts.
thankyou - just found your vlog! Just one question.. absolutely love your jumper - would you mind telling us where it comes from? many thanks again x
@florentinalily Ah welcome. Subscribe to et alerts when I post. Of course this is where it is from I have one in grey, black and oatmeal. They are very cosy. rstyle.me/+xHcyQp4QST2njcsuIyLY0g
I thought at the beginning of the video … I kinda thought … hey … this is too fundamental. Because my career was in cosmetics and fashion. Having said that I had a traumatic injury at 60, right on the heels of a move , it’s been a long adjustment to get back to where I was or a new me that I’m happy with … I’ve gained a tremendous Amt of weight 40lbs & my right knee will always be swollen and larger … so while I was recovering I begin wearing comfy clothing. So as your video continued I either relearned or learned for my body until I lose the weight . And I just learned. Thank you ! I also wanted to say I really liked your personality , what I picked up on in a short video. I began to giggle with the long cardigan!!’ Haha … what I took from that personally was -Kelly, get rid of it !! I don’t want to look frumpy in front of my husband either ! Never give up !! That’s where I have to come from !! Awesome video ,
@kclav4666 Ah thank you for taking the time to write. I am glad you found it helpful. Only take the advice that feels right to you and ditch the rest 😊
Thank you for the tips! I am 62 and always looking for ideas on choosing the right pieces for me. Love the top you are wearing in the video, can you tell where you got it?
@bsmith336 Ah thank you yes of course it is from Jaki London rstyle.me/+TdgykM1EUb1kPMI-Wx7D-Q
Great anti-aging method, thanks for the video
@goldenhealthwithandrew2210 You are very welcome I am glad you enjoyed it.
I so agree with all your comments! I am 70 and would not wear any of those things. However, I have one friend who wears those open neck blouses (we wore them in the 80s) and drwstring cut off trousers, and another friend who is slim and short, but insists of wearing those baggy dresses - from an expensive Swedish brand, very Pippy Longstocking, but they do nothing for her. They both say they are not worried about looking fashionable, but then they get offended when people think they are older than they are! I have had my colours done 3 times, but alas had 3 different results, none of which I feel really work, probably not uncommon?
@trishagoodwin4069 I think a lot of the time, people get stuck in a bit of a rut. I do say if you like a style you should stick to it, but just always be open to adapting.
I'm a 69 Yr old short tubby grandmother of 8 grandchildren, l try and follow all the tips you've mentioned in this video, except the underwear. Thanks for the reminder it's something I'll definatly look into. 🎉
@lindabarrett7543 Great surname Linda! Did you know it originates from the west coast of Ireland? Thank you for the feedback I am glad you found it helpful.
Love this so glad I found you 😊❤
@HilarySing-z5c Thank you for the feedback I am glad you have enjoyed it.
Sorry, completely disagree with long cardigans! With boot cut jeans and a long tunic underneath, I feel it’s youthful!
@sianhayes6751 You are allowed to disagree. If you love them you should absolutely keep wearing them 😊
I think it's fine for tall, slim women with nice boots. I'm curvy 5'2", doesn't work for me!
Agree. I have found I am paying more attention to the fit and what goes underneath (I like tall boots with leggings or a column skirts) but it’s still a look I like.
Hello! You mentioned color consult. I was a winter in the 80's and am wearing my natural hair color now at 61.I would like to wear neutrals but that leaves me pretty much with only blk grey and white. I know I still look good in jewel tones but they are harder to find and I feel less elegant in them. Help.
I am loving oatmeal as a neutral...natural textures...so flattering to your complexion
@martalepage9812 It can definitely change when your hair colour changes. If you want book in for a discovery call with me and we can have a chat about how I might be able to help you. calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation
@louisetaylor6952 Yes it works for a lot of people.
I definitely need to rid myself of a lot of clothes I don't wear and are outdated. Thank you.
@marylmarquez7811 Take your time with it there is no prize for getting there first.
enjoyed the cardigan with pocket segment [not a fan of pockets on cardigans] - thank you for sharing
@lrogers707 You are very welcome i am glad you enjoyed it.
I LOVE the high waisted, flowy pants you were wearing in the crop top segment. Those are gorgeous!
@LaPinturaBella Thank you. You can get a pair here and use code stylist20 for 20% off 😊 thehalara.co.uk/products/High-Waisted-Plicated-Side-Pocket-Wide-Leg-Flowy-Solid-Palazzo-Casual-Linen-Feel-Pants-24-583?pmui=undefined.1.collection.list.1.flowy-style&pmuih=flowy-style&variant=2206742
Hi, enjoyed your video, wondering if you have any style tips for middle aged women during hot summer months.....long pants are uncomfortable in the heat and if skirts are not practical for the workplace, what would you suggest?
@soniabaker7525 This is a tricky one, but have you looked at linen pants or shorts?
I would add, pay attention to your shoes, socks or stockings to your gloves. This just a personal preference for me. Remember in the movie 'The Devil Wears Prada' the scene where Miranda glances at Andy measured her starting at the toes and finishing at the head? You may want to reserve those New Balance shoes to relaxed walking style status if you didn't buy them for sports. While it may have been slightly a thrill to show a bit of bare kneecap and leg in your 20's when wearing knee-high boots it will date you exact age when you are no longer less than 30. Never wear a glove that has a stain or dried or fade died fingertips, cracked leather. Reserve that for gardening if you must.
@susannahallanic1167 That's great advice. I love the 1950s (and previous) style of wearing ladies' gloves; it is so elegant.
I buy those elegant slim, soft leather gloves at the op shops and use them for gardening & handling the firewood. I know it seems a sacrilege to use them for this purpose, but they are a perfect fit (and I feel a bit posh!)
This is brilliant and so insightful, thank you 🙏
@stellacollins3114 Thank you for the feedback I am glad you enjoyed it.
I found this very helpful
@joanne2145 Thank you for the feddback. I am glad.
I'm 79 and I'm a jeans and T shirt in summer and jeans and sweatshirts in winter type of dresser. Always have been and probably always will be. I was very VERY much a tomboy as a child and really I still am. I've always stated that "female I am, feminine I am NOT".
@mardinoetling7871 I think this is fantastic you know who you are, what you like and you are not budging.
@@capsuleclosetstylist Thank you... I've watched so many "trends" come and go.. you know, the ones everyone as to run out and buy so they can look like everyone else... for me, that was a reason to wear the exact opposite... LOL...
@mardinoetling7871 Yes I have always been a little like this.
Thank you for this video. Definitly I need to rethink my preference for cardigans :/
Maybe you forgot to mention shawl collars and blouses with bows ;)
Greetings from Zurich in Switzerland 🙋🏻♀️
@antonia15ch Only if you want to. Many seem to really like their long cardigans which is fine.
Full of content great video Thankyou
So agree with you
But I do wear plain black m and s leggings cos I have back issues and had an operation when I was a young child so have scars on tummy
Your videos certainly have got me thinking on what I wear day today
@joannagooney8342 Ah, I think if they work for you, you do not have to explain that to me; you stick with them. I am glad you are finding it all useful.
black leggings with funky tops in fab colours can look amazing. (regardless of the current trends) !!!
love it, thank you!
@pamelablaine4102 Thank you for the feedback. I am glad you enjoyed it.
First time I'm watching one of your videos. I'm in that age category. I'm really turned off by those who are criticizing your terminology and suggestions.
You are helping us. People out there need to understand you are giving your opinion, and what works for you and others you know. Folks, she is not gospel. We still have the right to choose what we think looks nice on us or not.
If you're in this age category, you should know by now, that not everything always applies to everyone. So please be kind and gentle to this marvelous woman who looks great, has good suggestions, and takes the time to do her research.
Now, regarding my thoughts on her suggestions. And they are not cruel or word cringy.
In regards to parkas, I believe they are more functional than stylish. If you're older and can still be athletic in winter, like skiing, sledding with grandkids, hiking, etc., for me, not everybody, the parka is a better way to go. Warm, lots of pockets, and not so tight that you can't function. These activities are just that, active. They don't have to be stylish. And I'm sure you could probably find some stylish parkas also.
Colors: Lord have mercy! I've tried with those folks and I think it depends on what time of the year it is and how tanned or ruddy my skin is. I also notice, that every time I change my hair color, I have to go with the tones that work with it.
That's all. These are just opinions and things that happen with me, not you. But maybe they can be helpful to you, also. Not criticisms. Now, be kind and nice to everyone. ❤🤗❤️
@phelinephrenzy2358 Thank you this has to be one of the best comments I have received. I agree this video has become very popular very quickly and unfortunately alongside its popularity has been several derogatory comments about my face, home and particularly my hair.
I would have thought these women over 60 would have better manners, but clearly not. One even describes herself as a life coach, which is ironic!
You are correct. Many people forget that I am a stylist, at home recording videos offering FREE help they can take or leave.
Kindness costs nothing.
My hair is a choppy bob cut and its white....Should I avoid wearing black ? I love purple and good shades of pink.
@cinders1413 It is tricky to say without doing a colour analysis for you. Some people can and some can not. How does it reflect on your skin? If you want to book in for a chat you can do so here calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation
This is meant for all the stylists who use algorithm taglines. I like the tips, but maybe we could dispense with equating “frumpy” with “looks that age us”? A lot of comfortable outfits simply don’t photograph very well, especially on larger bodies, but in real life where most of us live they move and drape nicely.
@sheilacroisier6446 So is this for me too? All of my content is based on real life experiences of, real people in a career spanning three decades. I do not give advice based on any algorithms. As I say in almost all of my videos it is ok if something does not work for you or if you do not agree with it, you can ignore it.
@@capsuleclosetstylistI sincerely hope it doesn’t apply to you! I’ve only seen a couple of your videos so far and your advice makes good sense. So perhaps I felt safe commenting here rather than on someone else’s channel. Labels like “frumpy” and “aging” seem to appear regularly in the same sentences and video titles. That they show up in my feed is probably the fault of the algorithm, but I do see far too many UA-camrs using these words. I wanted to comment because words repeated so often have power; if we don’t actively resist believing them, they become value judgments. They echo in the mind when I look in a mirror at my round, gray haired self clad in outfits that move well and don’t cling, but will never make me look taller, or thinner, or younger than I am. I do appreciate your styling and color tips, and the advice to wear what we love. Have a lovely day and thanks for answering my comment!
@sheilacroisier6446 Ah my apologies I may have read this wrong. It is no excuse, but this particular video has been very popular, and when they are popular, they invite a few trolls, so I was likely a little sensitive when I read it! Thank you for taking the time to explain. It is interesting on here because it is sometimes those titles that seem to do well. That said, I hope I try to explain that I am only offering that advise if someone wants it. Ultimately I just want to help people feel better in what they wear. I am glad you enjoy the content and thanks again for taking the time to write ❤️
❤ Useful information, thank you 🌹
@catherinehoride-rt3lk You are very welcome thank you for the feedback.
I just stumbled across your channel and have to say your advice is among the best that I have heard. I am in Australia, 77 , overweight, even after losing 12 kg last year and losing height, which makes it worse. I carry all my weight around my torso and upper arms. I am a rectangle shape, no waist to speak of, flat bottom, slim legs, about 5’ 2”, and would love to hear your opinion on what style of dress might work for me. I make most of my clothes since I find this is the best way to deal with a body that defies all clothing manufacturers when it comes to fit and style. I know my colours well, age adjusted! I style my hair short as it is very fine and thin. I haven’t worn dresses for about 2 years and my daughter is encouraging me to think again. I think there are many women in a similar situation who haven’t lost their desire to dress well but have given up because they cannot find the right look and fit.
I meant to say 20 years, not 2
@jeansdaughter try a tea dress style. Think of the cut of the 1940's woman. As it comes in a little under the bust then gently flares out. That will give you shape without clinging too much. Thank you for your feedback I really appreciate it.
I love long cardigans. They look amazing, as they elongate the body and are always trendy, fun, casual or dressy. I agree with you on baggy dresses, but the better examples you showed, with a cinched waist and pleated/gathered skirt looked like my mother's dresses from the 50s-60s, which are very frumpy indeed. The right colors are definitely important, which is why I don't understand your color choice. Light grey is a down color which brings out those tones in a complexion, unless it is paired with brighter colors, such as yellow or gold. My first thought when I started your video was that you are not feeling well.
@Jingeb58 As I mentioned in the video, if you have preferences, stick with them-everyone is entitled to their own choices. However, it's simply not acceptable to throw out nasty, unnecessary comments about my personal appearance under the guise of advice. With over two decades of experience in colour and style since 1999, I know what I’m talking about. Silver grey complements my pale blue/grey eyes perfectly. On the other hand, gold would be the absolute worst choice for me, given that my features are predominantly cool. While I appreciate diverse perspectives, I would never presume to challenge a professional with 25 years of expertise online. It's beyond me how you think this is acceptable.
Oh my goodness - I so agree with you, thank you
@season.appreciation8102 You are welcome. Which part resonated with you>
@ All of it really but particularly the shiny leggings/trousers and exposed midriffs - yuk 🤦🏼♀️
Okay, I’m a long cardigan offender 😂😬 But, in my defense, I like to belt mine with a gorgeous wide belt over jeans or skirts or dresses to bring sleeveless or short sleeves into the cooler months.
Its sounds like you style it well. I was more talking about the ones that just hang. If you love yors I think you should keep it. 😊
Watched it all 👏🏼 thank you…agree with everything 💐 hmm 🤔new knickers!!!!❤
@lindaodd9681 Haha make sure they feel fabulous 😊
Just found you .I have no problem at all during the summer months …cotton dresses ,sandals ,Birkenstocks,nice lippy .Winter however is a nightmare ( i’m in Canada ) can’t stand too much black either .Your content is great ,honest and on point .
@maggiefisker994 Thank you for the feedback it is greatly appreciated.
Very helpful. Not sure what my colors should be. 9:49 p.m.
@Frances-c5q Thank you for the feedback. I am glad you found it helpful. If you want to book in for a chat with me I would be happy to talk to you about how I can help you with your colours. calendly.com/capsuleclosetstylist/free-consultation
Collars: I agree if you’re talking about 90s style collars. 1930s/1940s collars are classic and current trendy, though. A structured collar is the worst thing if you’re jowly or your neck is wrinkled because it draws the eye right to your jawline and neck. The rest is pretty good! I’ve never seen a heavy long cardigan, though. I’m short so I wear fitted coat type cardigans so I don’t look like a potato dumpling.
@schoolingdiana9086 I am sure you do not look like a potato dumpling! Yes the shorter variety are better anyway.
Yes! 💯 agree with your list. I don't worry much about dressing frumpy or old because I wear classic cuts, or arty monochromatic looks, made with good fabrics. To me, fabric type and quality are a big deal, natural fabrics for me though I do love Rayon now and again. Garment construction is another thing on my list of things important. I screw up once in a while and buy something that doesn't work, mostly because of fit. Young me could wear about any cut or style and so I rarely hit the fitting room. Now it's more important because I have found my shape has changed somewhat.
One thing I find dated is big fluttery elbow-length sleeves. I get the length requirement, but please God banish the big butterfly sleeves. Get a long-sleeved top and push or roll up the sleeves to just below the elbow. It's more slimming and has better upper-arm camouflage.
So that's my thoughts. You have a really good channel and I hope you keep at it.😊❤😊.
@TerriKash-NEO Thank you for your comment and feedback it is greatly appreciated. It sounds as if you have a great grasp on what works for you and what doesn't which is fantastic!
@capsuleclosetstylist Well, I'm watching your channel, so I dont have a great grasp. 😆 🤣 I would call it holding on with my fingernails.
@TerriKash-NEO Haha that is one of the best replies I have had haha.
Thanks Michelle
@JoshuaCoventry You are welcome.
Love what you’re wearing ❤the neckline is right up my alley so attractive
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