"You Skipped Over The Man You Were Supposed To Marry..." Anton Addresses Single Mothers, Stepfathers
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The last three minutes were amazing, but unfortunately. The woman to the far left was extremely sarcastic. She was also combative and didn’t want to digest any of the information that went against what she believed. The guy in the middle was very confrontational and arrogant. He wasn’t smart at all, he appeared to be more brainwashed and laugh at anything that he didn’t understand mentally. In fact, the man in the middle was the one who was the most disrespectful because he laughed when someone else is giving their explanation. He didn’t listen to any of Anton‘s information in good faith. He’s liked probably by women based upon him being 6 feet long dreadlocks, and agreeable to women. Because I can assure you, it’s not his mental capabilities.
Bro! Fiyah!
Anton's right. It's called being intentional. And when you believe wrong, you're going to do wrong. Fix your belief system for success. Plus dating and the boyfriend/girlfriend phenomena over the last 100 years was created by the enemy.
I’m 49. I’m been telling my female friends this since I was in my mid 20’s. Women don’t listen well but they want an honest man’s opinion. No they don’t…
@mrhutchesonsum
Agreed.
They all want leaders but don’t want to be told what to do
You give them honesty and they will claim you are jealous. Seen women fight their boyfriend's baby mother then he turns around and do the same thing to her. The funny thing is, before she became baby mama number 2 I told her exactly what was going to happen and she got offended. Game don't change, the players do, but the game is the game. No matter if it is the drug game, the money game, the trick game, or the baby mama game, the game is the game. Once you recognize the formation you can read the play.
why benefits are you getting by being friend zoned by them? Do they network for you? Are they your wing-mon? Do they give you constructive financial advice? Did they introduce you to the most attractive girlfriend(s) for possible type marriage?
@@concerta56damn that friendzone
Damn. "Most women skip over the men they were supposed to marry" 🎤 drop. I have seen this play out my whole life . Good men discarded over the thug ninjas
FACTS! Even that Grifter Umar johnson said "Ladies Stop giving your best years to these pookies, y'all ain't ciara"
timestamp?
they do it on purpose because they know its only a matter of time before the thug goes to jail and they move on to the next one so that they never have to be loyal or settle for one man its disgusting and then they try to convince the world that it was the mans fault no you they know exactly what their doing
Then they become single mothers and want the dudes they skipped over 😂
Nah women get with the guy they think they can control & manipulate. Most women avoid men who are leaders.
Anton is just too principled for this panel - he’s disciplined, structured, and accountable. Along with sitting on biblical principles he’ll be as well as his children successful in creating a legacy - FAMILY!!
📠 some MF just Ike to argue… even when they really agree with what you sayin.
That’s the part they not understand biblical principle when it comes to building a healthy house
@@otisellis7131 it was like 4 kids and one adult
@@lilikaramirez1848 For sure!!
@@ChadRice-r4l preach!
The same mistakes over and over, is a choice not a mistake
agreed
Nicely put.
Man thank you!
Profound and true statement!
Becomes a way of life
The Tone Police never sleeps: “I don’t agree on your delivery of it but however…….”
🗣️😩😂
I noticed that too. That woman could never be submissive feminine to a man
I'm a woman and this irritates me. Is the statement valid or not? Who cares about tone?
@@omarr44_ yup exactly 💯
YUP. Anton is better than me bc I would've made them hate me LOL
Whenever someone says that, they're either not listening at all, or just don't want to admit they're wrong...
These modern women, don't want to follow the blue print for marriage and family structure
Modern black women*
Modern woman reject femininity. This why they are failing in marriages and in life. They consider the blue print of marriage outdated.
@@Jedilord882 Nah he said it right the first time... modern women.
But it is much worse in the black community. We're already in a place where other races of women are eventually headed.
Every other Cultures do.
Because they don’t want the marriage that comes from the blueprint. They want modern marriage where they have the power and control
Anton is cookin, the other men are simpin hard. Most black men don't have kids, we can create are own families. They going hard for stepdads. Sorry times have changed !
*our
🤔🧐
Times has changed big time!
You can't say most black men don't have kids and then say most black women have kids.
Most black women aren't getting with men the same way most men aren't getting with women.
It's only a certain amount of men and women, for that matter that folks are attracted to.
It's certain types of men that get all the women, and it's certain types of women that get all the men. That's just life.
After that, you have your exception to the rules person on each side, men and women who beat the odds.
As far as being a step parent or foster parent or adoption parent is concerned. All of those situations are very dependent of the two adults and their ability to be reasonable, communicate, adjust, work through issues. You have to be real adults and real problem solvers and leaders when you bring kids in the home that you didn't birth.
And there has to be absolute trust in that home and between both parties. If there isn't absolute trust and loyalty, that situation is doomed from the jump.
And absolute trust and loyalty is mandatory in all family relationship bonds/unions if not it's also doomed from the jump.
So regardless of the dynamics of the relationship, if there is no loyalty and trust.....it's not going to make it anyway.
@@sweetnessdabutta9985 it's true though. Over 80 percent of black women have kids. Yet over 50 percent of black men don't. Your word salad doesn't change the facts
Chick with the braids is the typical example of those who do not have a foundation for their beliefs, they just feel. So when you poke holes in their flawed belief system they become aggressive and combative. If you are secure in your thoughts, then there is no need to cut others off and be passive aggressive.
Exactly 💯
You are right
Look at how they have an attitude with Anton. A successfully married man giving advice to people who giving push back bc there has to be a level of accountability. Black women are terrified of that “A” word.
SYSBM is the solution.
Not just blk women
Yeah it is, or maybe pookie. Guys who successful are done with the communitah.@@Giopowered
The fe-małe with the hair gave him the most push back
@@Giopoweredtrue. It's a woman thing
Too many unmarried ppl talking bout how to be married. Anton speaking facts on here. The hit dog started to holler toward the end.
Yes! It went right over their heads! Always excuses!
Facts. They bring so many purple pill sensitive men on podcasts to support women's viewpoints. Women have already proven that they don't have the solutions
Their actions are what got the community in this place to begin with. Men with experience can understand but most of these men that support these unconventional strategies have children with the mother of their children who is with a man who is playing stepfather. So by default they are defending their own position versus what is best overall for the community.
Of course Kita had to rebuttal with "there's so many single fathers"... no there aren't. The majority of BM are single and childless at a rate of 54% according to the CDC. And... even the single fathers she's mentioning most likely won't have custody of the children... which means if he gets with a single mother those children will become his responsibility since they'll be living in his house with their mother.
Studies show that the kids are better off with the Father.
She's retarded. She literally said that for every single mother to a child, the father of that child is a single father.
But If those single mothers have primary custody, then the father cannot be a single father. Everybody knows when someone is referred to as a single parent, then that person has primary custody. If the other parent is involved at all, then they usually only have visitation. I've never heard any parent who only has visitation referred to as a single parent.
And that's how you can tell that chick is full of ish and just says things to be contradictory to any point that she dislikes. Because if she really believed that every man who had a child with a "single mother" (an honored title in the sistahood) deserved the equivalent title "single father", then you wouldn't hear all the smoke she has for men and dead beat dads that you hear her spew on social media. I mean, which one is it? That the majority of men with children are involved single father's, or are the majority deadbeats who abandoned their children and the mother's alone to raise the kids?
She's slow af!! SMH
It's actually more 54% when you count the negative dna test
She thinks for every single mother there is a single father as in it’s a 1 to 1 ratio even though Anton and other men have told her the actual stats! There is a small percentage of men impregnating the majority of BW but she’s just going to act like that doesn’t exist!
Anton.
If you noticed. You’re the only one in this panel with certified and historical proof that your method works.
For you and your family. With results that any community would die for.
But what did you get in return ? Black women than couldn’t shut their mouths or opinions down to listen to learn. They’re calling you wrong. Interrupting. Would let you complete thought.
KS was right. No one can correct a black women.
I have two sons. Both electrical engineers. Taught them to put in work now. Save in savings and investments.
But most importantly. Stay as far away from disagreeable people on any capacity. Recipe for disaster.
We are all a reflection of who we let in our lives.
My mother taught me at a young age. When an elder that has the keys to life is educating you. Shut up. Look at your feet. Take notes. You just may learn something. At a minimum. How to save from losing money and time. Translation. Making more money. And building a better future.
Anton has done right by black women more than those dudes who call them queen. He actually marry a black woman and made an actual family.
Yet papi don, shumake, umar, derek jaxn all made broken home... but black women will listen to those men more... crazy
There was another married woman in the panel
@@calebhenderson6507 Solutions = accountability and responsibility. They don't want that.
@@calebhenderson6507 we are not good creatures..men need to understand this. While society tells u to reverse us...and love us and protect us ..we are horrible ppl .( We women)
😂🤣😂 Kita being Kita… She’s always making false equivalencies while speaking condescendingly to project the idea that she’s obviously right, while being totally wrong…
She does that in every debate, she always deflects when she’s wrong or someone else she agrees with is wrong.
Wowwww they’re trying to run from the truth…Great job Anton✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
Absolutely 💯. The man they should have married is ignored by her because she believes that she must experience many men.
Men such as the bad ones, pookie, and ray ray, etc.
@@Alazar654 Yes. It's insane.
Anton has it figured out. Spot on. All that other noise they talking is excuses
Anton was SO ON POINT….. they hated that……NO ACCOUNTABILITY!!!!Typical scapegoating of bad decisions,women agree with!!!
Agreed.. all he said think before you act and they didn’t like it
Them ppl up there know damn well they wouldn’t want their son who’s well educated groomed and has a head on his shoulders to date a single mother wit 1/2/3/4/5 kids with 1/2/3 baby fathers foh they’ll have a fit
😂💯
yes but see the thing is, they want YOU the idiot viewer to do. Thank god you know what's up. But a lot of people don't.
@@HecFrmdaAVE I'm not so sure ..some ppl are willing to put their pride over logic
I did the step father thing. I will give my ex credit..she gave me full authority over the kids when they were young. Where it went sideways is when we got divorced..then she didn’t want to have ANY contact with them. Years later we all connected and remain tight. Overall, I would tell any young man NOT to marry a single mother..start your own legacy..
Kita will NEVER be married
Never.
She doesn't listen and always try to compare ,and is combative when she can't combat the truth.
She was married
she will be , but to a beta man that she walks all over
@@ymcz6339 WAS!!!
@@malimal4972 yea I see that
Anton is speaking facts💯💯💯 The Most High's word is the perfect blueprint for life period. Blessings to you, Anton, and your family.
It's amazing how much pushback the clear cut truth gets. Anton was giving straight facts and guidelines and they push back as much as they possibly could.
Damn what's crazy is that the people who grew up in bad or messed up families are all trying to tell this man Anton, WHO HE & HIS FAMILY ARE DOING RELATIONSHIPS THE CORRECT WAY, that he is wrong or that he is only "BlEsSeD".
This is a sick mentality that ignorant mofos are trying to spread to the rest of the Black community! THAT'S CRAZY!!
Anton is on fire here 🔥
The woman sitting next to Anton is quiet because she agrees with him, but she gets money with the other panelists, so she can’t go against them.
She's the wisest woman on this show. She's smart sitting next to Anton
She agreed with him a few times.
Anton stood his ground firmly like a real man that he is !! 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
When you dont identify evil for what it is, you willingly invite chaos into your life. Becoming a stepfather is evil because in the childs eye, you are coming in between their parents who never put whats best for the child first. Your presence as a stepfather breeds resentment. That's nothing but evil.
Ms. Kita...evil identified...run, faster than Usain Bolt
😂 I TOTALLY AGREE RUN 🏃 FROM KITA TOTAL DEMON
YOU CAN JUST FEEL HER BAD VIBES OFF THE SCREEN LITERALLY
AND SHE HAS NO SHAME OF IT HOWEVER SHE DOESNT EVEN REALIZE HOW IT EXPOSES HER COMPLETELY DISGUSTING 🤮
Wow never looked at it that way! Good point
I don't get why she doesn't like his delivery. His point had clear words, that have meaning. There were no attacks. What they think is working does not work as the data shows.
There was *NOTHING WRONG WITH HIS DELIVERY*
Bc it’s personal
& it’s gon hurt ur feelings
Bc deep down u kno it’s true
& that makes it hurt even more
@@olaakande5581that part.
The truth is, it's really never about the delivery. They just don't like hearing anything that goes against their reality
The two men adhered to everything that they mother said in their household. The stepfather was there to help with the bills and nothing more. The mommaism is strong in their spirit.
The big dude w/ the braids said it
His Grandpa was his counsel
His step dad was just there to take care of his mom
He didn’t mention if the step dad & his mom had any kids. If not, than that dude wasted his life with his mom
6:04 I’ve been married for 26 yrs and when people ask how I did it, I tell them, “On purpose.” I felt for Anton in this, he was fighting an uphill battle.
Kita is literally a 15yo girl in a 30yo woman's body.
Danm 😂😂
This.
Seriously bro. It’s terrible.. and she’s the one that’s all over social media giving advice? Smh
Anton's right. It's called being intentional. And when you believe wrong, you're going to do wrong. Fix your belief system for success.
Me and my furnace didn’t date. We met, went on a date, liked each other, and decided to be in a relationship from that date on. This worked well because she’s not an American black woman who’s a serial dater.
The sister with the sports jacket has an attitude and is ready to rebuttal for no reason. Instead of just listening first
Anton be Spitting FACTZ
You my man be spitting .. this needs to be on National Broadcast
I will never be a crash step dummy. I'm not sure how useful these talks are when these men are at such a lower maturity level than Anton.
Their in the matrix Anton changed a lot in the last few years he talked like the others dudes when I first started see him.
@@emerysutton5430 good to know
Agreed. It's like talking to a wall.
It’s funny how everyone is quiet when the gibberish is being spewed out but when Anton is talking, everyone else is talking and not listening, interrupting and interjecting him…
Talking to that 2nd bih from the left is like talking to a brick wall! I don't know how you do it Ton!
I need to see the rest of this because Anton started to cook. And ol girl needs to learn how to listen to understand and not have a rebuttal for everything my god 🙄
When they talk about “great parents” they are talking about what society would deem as a great parent. But what determines greatness in any aspect is results. You can’t call yourself a great parent if you have bad kids
That’s false. Some parents do everything in their power for their children to live a healthy and successful/prosperous life but they can choose to do otherwise. It’s a lot of suburban kids who go down paths that they don’t have to. And I think a great parents allow them to do so and don’t bail them out, forcing them to either get their act together get their act together or continue down the path of destruction
@@acehg1410 if your child is a failure as a person thn you are a failure as a parent end of discussion. You can say whatever you need to in order to cope but the truth is still the truth. Your goal as a parent is to make sure your child doesn’t end up on a path of distraction, so how can you be great if you failed at your primary goal as a parent? You can’t
@@fastguna650 so if your child makes certain decisions as an adult it’s the parents fault?
Yes. People see how my kids are doing and say we’re great parents. I tell those people that time will tell. Let’s see what decisions they make in adulthood.
@@Roccofan ok now there’s layers.. how are defining great? How are we defining successful? Were the results that persons fate or free will? What about successful people who had shitty or mediocre parents or no parents?
For your family? No, for humans for all of history, there's a blueprint.
Anton you're wasting too much good knowledge and advice.. they are just listening to argue
Anton does shit like this bring people like kita on platform
@@bigcut695yeah and it's smart. Kita needs to be pointed out as an example
@@cephas5053so we can definitely avoid women like her
@@bigcut695that's a good point.
Anton...Thanks for advocating for the family (man/woman)
Anton was preaching
That girl in the New York jacket has so much anger in her.
@@jeremyhorne1989 she does..it's literally permeating off her and u can feel it
Thanks Brother Anton- The BIGGER point that the brothers can’t see (the women see but won’t reveal) is by primitive nature a man raising another man’s sperm shot is NOT for his future no matter how noble, compassionate, whatever… let that stepfather get into a physical brawl with the biological father and “primitive” nature will speak without filter
3:10 Parenting has its challenges. Not having a blended family eliminates extra people having a say in your life/dictating time/where and when you can take off.
Anton is right. There is a blueprint. I have 3 other siblings, and all of us have been married to our spouses for a minimum of 21 years. So 4 children coming from the same household and all married. Same thing with my father's brothers and sisters.
Its crazy to see, right before your eyes, people that embrace and ate emotional and psychologically latched onto FAILURE
Anton speaking facts!! 6:49 - 7:24
These dudes is some simps and they only feel that way cause they daddies wasn’t in there lives
So you telling me it’s smart for chick to leave a no toxic environment to go be with someone that beats her and cheats on her??? You not gone stay with a bitch that’s dogging you out is you. That’s jus common sense no feelings involved. You basically saying a person should fuck they life up over be with somebody that’s actually trying to propel them forward. You grew up with a father for what he didn’t teach you shit. If people show you they not for you get away from them.
😂 I am not interested in a woman that has kids if I don’t have any. It’s funny that people try to talk around it. You lose value when you have a kid!
kita is talking about "in theory" like he didn't just give generations of evidence to prove his point. it's funny when someone is making all the excuses in the world the panel is quiet and nodding along but the moment a man who follows scripture says no there will be order and accountability everyone has something to say while he is making his point.
I guarantee she's smokes weed and been involved in domestic violence. She's lacking femininity!
Anton is truly the big brother I didn’t know I needed….I don’t agree with everything you say(Probably cuz I’m not rich…yet) but you cooked them folks with this one. They all stared thinking about they life at 8:41 😂
The truth is parenting is a challenge and kids with other partners is more of a challenge. Kita is being difficult for no reason.
Nah she knows Anton is making points but she just doesn't wanna hear it bc then it brings her mistakes to light. And people that listen to her will judge her.
when it zoomed in on anton's face, i knew, this show aint shit without him haah
On that note,the message still did not sink in with those females!
I seen men give woman money and they promise to pay those men all through my those men never seen a dime. We live by two sets of rules in society men understand this and woman don’t care.
Anton, is preaching, this is how we need to talk about these issues.
I’ve only just come across this channel and anton said the perfect speech.. think before you act, simple, the others seem to keep creating scenarios to validate excuses
These people are living life by the scriptures so they cant even have a conversation. I agree 100% with Anton. That is how my husband and I live our lives and plan to raise our children.
Anton is one informed, wise and principled guy. Too principled to be on this panel.
"I dont agree with the delivery" I roll my eyes every time I hear a female say those words.
Aton spitting bars 🔥
Can't lie, Anton nail it!!! All Facts
People are *Finally seeing what Kita Rose is all about* my God
Took long enough!
You are blind not to see she is a masculine ass woman.
She been trash for a long time.
3:00 Another false equivalency from Kita…
Bottomline step parenting likely involves a 3RD PARTY OF AUTHORITY which can create more difficulties in decision making with a one or more of the children in the home UNLIKE a situation where the child or children in the home belong to the two parents of the children in the home. This is not hard folks.
“How could I meet said hypothetical person?”
Ma’am, did you attend school or a religious gathering ever? He was probably there. You don’t have to date to socialize with people outside of your family.
Anton was telling nothing but facts! 💯
A bonus parent is crazy
Mr. Daniels is absolutely 💯 percent on point.
Anton represented in this one. Kita is full of diversions and disengenuousness as usual, actively trying to thwart solutions and problem solving.
You having the right conversation with the wrong people
So what happens if women start taking accountability? Most likely nothing at all. This is why it’s important to ignore what you don’t desire and give attention to what you do. Otherwise it comes off as if you do desire what you claim you don’t. Inconsistency and hypocrisy runs rampant in this part of America.
AD was prolly the only one raised right outta everyone
Mic dropped ,women chose pookie over the good guy,that they curved because he didn't have the swag,or street cred.kita will never marry again, she is in her men aint ish mode
I don’t always agree 100% with everything he says but Anton is absolutely right on this one. Practicing good fundamentals will keep you on course for success in everything aspect of life. Be smart and control your lust while making intelligent decisions and black culture won’t be in the negative state that it is in today.
Antron preaching Amen
Anton just earned himself a follower salute my guy 🫡
I was dating a girl I really liked in my late 20s. At this time I had left the streets alone and squared up working at a Law firm in SF. She ended up leaving me for a dude I knew, he sold heroine.. Long story short I bump in to shorty years later and almost couldn’t recognize her. She had missing teeth, lost her azz, skin looked bad she lost all her beauty. I said hey love how are you? How have you been? She leans in and whispers in my ear “ I should’ve stayed with you “ 💯 She overdosed three years ago.. Rip LaQuetta 🙏🏾 She didn’t want the square trying to live right. She chose the demon that gave her her final dose..
Anton was spot on when he said that children are a reflection of what was put into the by there parents or lack there of. Just because a child grows up in a two parent home doesn’t mean the parents are parenting there mental and emotional needs.
*Absolute facts Anton. Thank you.*
Oh he was cooking at the end 🔥🔥🔥
7:55
*_TRIGGERED BOMB IGNITED!!_*
Truth and hard facts are like kryptonite to these ‘modern’ people
Anton with a huge W that is not sinking in to a bunch of talkers aka non-doers
I’m so with Aton 150%
Talk to these fools, Anton!💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Very well said, Anton. A principled family can never divorce. That’s how we grew up ...
God was using Anton with this message.
Anton is absolutely correct!Gods words never change,he is the same today as he was yesterday!Stop trying to redefine marriage and family in order for it to fit into today’s societal norms !id rather deal with the hardship that comes with a family I created and cultivated for myself vs dealing with the hardships of family that I didn’t create.
They put him in the friend zone
Our children are a reflection of the failures before them. - Anton
Is so true. From my father failure and his father . Left nothing no legacy.
I dont agree with anton on everything but he is spot on. I am a step father and even if the woman and kids are on board it doesn't necessarily mean the biological father will be. Being a step parent is difficult because its not Natural! Its a reaction or consequence to someone doing things the wrong way. And any woman who constantly has a rebuttal that says well what about the man....run 4 the hills. That woman clearly has a lack of respect for men and its probably because of the men that she chose or did not chose. Dont argue just leave
I agree with Anton it’s like riding a bike you will never forget
The ending of this clip = "Mic drop"
I hope Anton was paid for that appearance. The other panelists have a long way to go. 😅
Bro! You were punching their head off with all facts
Nice one Anton Daniel, you are saying the truth as it is.