It's heartbreaking to hear about your experience. I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you to share such a traumatic event. Please know that you are incredibly brave for opening up about what happened. Your safety and well-being matter, and no one deserves to go through such a terrifying ordeal.
Tinder is the hub of criminals and I’m glad you came out alive. I once matched with a guy who told me straight forward that he does heists. That’s when I knew that Tinder is no longer safe.
@@sparrow62210 I definitely would not advice it sis. I usually have better luck when I dress up and go on solo dates. Those men tend to be of a higher quality. All the best, hope you find someone amazing.
@@Thatsong-fr9nq You would be surprised. A childhood friend who ended up being caught once told me on a night out that he did heists. Some of them think its something to boast about.
I honestly wonder how girls in SA survive first dates. I have always used dating apps, but when I was in SA I had to reconsider because I literally thought I could never make it back home! Then growing up (I’m 31 this year), I have made a solid decision that no man is allowed in my house nor do I go to their house. Apart from purely wanting no sexual contact, this protects me from sexual predators.
Thank you for being vulnerable and allowing yourself to be a teaching aid. Don't carry the shame, it was just a learning curve and above everything i thank God for rescuing your life. These 3 things were signs that he was a horny bustard looking for a 1 night stand: 1. Asking you to go with him to his place to freshen up and not touching you was a trick to let your guard down so you can trust him. 2. Asking you to leave your car at his place so you don't shoot straight home after. 3. Trying to get you drunk. The assault and attempted rape is somethingelse, that's a real monster! I must say, you drinking and driving was very irresponsible, worse after being assaulted but im glad you made it home safe. Stay blessed queen Ninja❤
Ninjas, this is the platform to open up and share the most that could happen to any woman, and in some cases the worst has happened to most women. We're not here to judge one another but learn from our experiences. Girl , I am proud of you, you're brave, you expose literally all the abuse women go through. I'm proud of you and I love you ❤❤❤
It’s the shame that we carry hey 😔 I had a similar experience with someone I know and trusted. No idea why I didn’t report it other than not wanting to face the trauma and judgement (the shame). To think he tried to apologise 😭.
Even me too some guy did Dat to me and I never even report it,I was drunk and I just kept quite and tried to block de memories of Dat not,but thank God he opened his door gate and I just went out and never even called de police on Dat fucken naigerian guy
Same here it happened 31 years ago now am 47yrs😢. And never told anyone, it was my neighbor. 5 years later he passed away, Thanks for sharing Owamie i know that is not easy am also a victim. Atleast on this channel most of ladies here are very supportive❤ not judging or thinking that she's lying. Aluta continua❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉🎉❤
You are very lucky… God protected u…There’s a lady that met a guy on tinder n the guy had promised to cook for her as a romantic 1st date, only for her to go missing n later found in pieces… Most creeps search for their victims on dating sites…
Queen Ninja, I am so sorry that you went through such an experience. I wish you healing. I just wanted to inform you that some perpetrators are professionals, they are educated, fathers, brothers, and husbands and they use their positions to lure people into trusting them. The devil masks himself as an angel of light. Thank you for shedding light on this matter.
Grateful for your safety. 🙏 Next time this happens to anyone and they have seen this you will have saved a life. There used to be a game that we played back in Primary school. We would bend the thumbs and use them to place pressure on both sides of the neck. The pressure does not even need to be too much and the blood flow could be interrupted. The aim, you are correct, was to temporarily lose consciousness. This was deliberate and malicious. Never stop sharing your stories because you are literally saving lives. Ninjas please stay safe out there.
I Am shaking and I am shocked 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️😱😱😱😱😱😱 I don’t think Owami understands fully how God protected her that day, this is scary, straight horror 😱, this was serious and a lot nearly went wrong, you would have gone missing and and and and 😫😫😫🤯
Tx u for sharing… and raise awareness… ladies must be careful not only with strangers even with men you know( relatives, pastors, friends, colleagues)… DONT trust easily. When they see us they see sex. By the time you realise what is happening, you will be assaulted. I don’t like being in private spaces with men.
Not me being shocked and scared at the same time 😔🥺I am so sorry you experienced that Owamie, and I understand the blame feelings you had but in all honesty that night was supposed to be your fun night and he spoiled it for you. Everything you did was just out of the excitement and celebrating your freedom after fighting for it for so long. Thank God those two security guards came through and you were saved. Thank you for sharing this, it surely was not an easy thing to do. Just know this will serve as an awareness to many.
I am so sorry Owamie. Please don't blame yourself you could have not predicted you would have met an animal. So happy that God kept you safe and you are ready to share what happened to you.
Hi Ninja it can happen to anyone, there is nothing wrong you did. At least he didn't drug you, and as for an element of shame its normal and eventually when you gain strength and feel ready that's where you will start talking about it.
Im so sorry this happened to you, thanks for sharing your story i hope alot of girls and women learn from this. People from social media dating sites can be dangerous
I am so sorry you had to experience this. This is definitely no way your fault. It doesn’t matter what you wore or said. Be it you kissed him back or not. Still doesn’t give him the right to try anything. A no is a no.
This is honestly a horror story of note.😮. Truth be told, even the guys u think u r family with or u know, u MUUUUUST be VERY careful of. Cause he has friends he has siblings possibly, colleagues so imagine trusting him as a friend . a rapist is a rapist guys. They could rape their cousin, their friend, colleague. Yeeeeeyi be careful around this gender period
Is there no way of reporting a date if something lime that happen? I think Tinder should actually force people yo register their actual details that they keep as their own record while the person uses a username for their profile. Otherwise this is dangerous way of looking for a partner.
From him taking you home, trying to make you drunk on the first date nje.. I already knew he wanted to take advantage. I’m so sorry ninja, that’s scary.
Oh Sis I'm so sorry you had to go through that traumatic experience, please keep these story times coming we really enjoy them, they are very informative❤
These preditors know about these things ninja coz I have an experience of a guy biting me like that and lucky for me there were people who saw it and I escaped but I was so weak after that and it took me a while to be okay
Ninja signing in. Sorry this happened to you😢. The vampire biting is very odd. You need anti-biotics after that if he does it to people he is just meeting for the first time, and actually draws blood. Who knows what diseases he is carrying from such episodes. Wild.
Wow Owamie that's very scary. I have never had of the bite but i literally am 1 person that can not trust strangers to the point that i can have panic attacks. Thank God this happened in public
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Bite? Thats a bedroom beast men!!! Yooooh noooo maahn this is srs😮 i am so sorry, im sho u immediately got sobber😢. U would hv been part of statistic gal.
@@mamawegirlz4309 This shows me that you live under a rock or you don't have tiktok. Update yourself with tiktok trends before you come under a stranger's post and comment things that are out of context.
Yhooo when you said he ws Pedi driving an Audi my heart stopped, just met a Pedi guy he said he's driving an Audi but I did not see his car. I'm scared now now to go for a second date and it's this Friday 🤔
I am on tinder I met this guy. So we are talking so last week we made plans that we are going to meet somewhere we agreed everything was fine. Last week Thursday he said to me I must come to joburg I told him I'm not coming there because I'm not comfortable in the CBD. Saturday he was like he want to do laundry I must I kept telling him I'm not coming there then later that Saturday he said he was done eating okay fine then as we were talking he said to me if I like dessert I told him yes but I'm not a dessert person. He started saying he wants to Uber for me to come at his place so I can be his dessert 😮..he talking in an appropriate way that made me feel uncomfortable I just saw that this guy was after something. Since then I blocked and deleted him. Why man are like this I mean we just met now you imagining me as your dessert.and he is a Pedi guy.. Boy bye
I am fine guys i am sharing so you guys are careful please ❤❤
Thank you for sharing Mama! You are the sister we didn’t know we needed. ❤
It's heartbreaking to hear about your experience. I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you to share such a traumatic event. Please know that you are incredibly brave for opening up about what happened. Your safety and well-being matter, and no one deserves to go through such a terrifying ordeal.
Owamie im over 55 yrs of age but im learning a lot from you ❤🤗❤🤗🤗🤗❤❤
So sorry. I'm glad you are ok
He is VAMPIRE....A demon for sure.....Thank you Jesus for His PROTECTION ❤
Someone from Metro fm recommended this channel, hence why I'm here
Wow!!!! 👏👏👏👏
It was me❤ on ask a man
@@Beingkat Ok🤣🤣🤣when was it? Bane ba buwa kang?
😲 🔥 🔥 🔥
You need to check all he'll and back
One thing I've noticed about your life stories is that you are protected!!!
I swear 😭😭
Very protected ❤
I was just thinking that, o tsamaya le Jeso Babygirl ♥️
Umntana wedlozi keh lo 😅😅😅😅❤❤❤❤❤
Yes please do the story time about the time your drink was spiked
Pleasw
Tinder is the hub of criminals and I’m glad you came out alive. I once matched with a guy who told me straight forward that he does heists. That’s when I knew that Tinder is no longer safe.
To think that I thought I might meet someone on Thinder, this vlog is an eye opener, thanks for sharing.
@@sparrow62210 I definitely would not advice it sis. I usually have better luck when I dress up and go on solo dates. Those men tend to be of a higher quality. All the best, hope you find someone amazing.
😂😂😂 The way I love thrills, I would have probably went on a date with him, eish.
He might also be lying. Heist people dont confess to strangers
@@Thatsong-fr9nq You would be surprised. A childhood friend who ended up being caught once told me on a night out that he did heists. Some of them think its something to boast about.
I honestly wonder how girls in SA survive first dates. I have always used dating apps, but when I was in SA I had to reconsider because I literally thought I could never make it back home!
Then growing up (I’m 31 this year), I have made a solid decision that no man is allowed in my house nor do I go to their house. Apart from purely wanting no sexual contact, this protects me from sexual predators.
Let's stop blaming women for the actions of men. None of this was your fault. It's all him, he's the monster here.
Thank you. Yhuuuu sana.
Human bite is very dangerous. Thank you for sharing this story.
Sounds like a spiritual attack. God was with you my sister
Thank you for being vulnerable and allowing yourself to be a teaching aid. Don't carry the shame, it was just a learning curve and above everything i thank God for rescuing your life. These 3 things were signs that he was a horny bustard looking for a 1 night stand:
1. Asking you to go with him to his place to freshen up and not touching you was a trick to let your guard down so you can trust him.
2. Asking you to leave your car at his place so you don't shoot straight home after.
3. Trying to get you drunk.
The assault and attempted rape is somethingelse, that's a real monster! I must say, you drinking and driving was very irresponsible, worse after being assaulted but im glad you made it home safe. Stay blessed queen Ninja❤
The night started out just fine but it ended in horror, you are blessed Owamie for surviving such a traumatic ordeal
Ninjas, this is the platform to open up and share the most that could happen to any woman, and in some cases the worst has happened to most women. We're not here to judge one another but learn from our experiences. Girl , I am proud of you, you're brave, you expose literally all the abuse women go through. I'm proud of you and I love you ❤❤❤
It’s the shame that we carry hey 😔 I had a similar experience with someone I know and trusted. No idea why I didn’t report it other than not wanting to face the trauma and judgement (the shame).
To think he tried to apologise 😭.
Even me too some guy did Dat to me and I never even report it,I was drunk and I just kept quite and tried to block de memories of Dat not,but thank God he opened his door gate and I just went out and never even called de police on Dat fucken naigerian guy
Same here it happened 31 years ago now am 47yrs😢. And never told anyone, it was my neighbor. 5 years later he passed away, Thanks for sharing Owamie i know that is not easy am also a victim. Atleast on this channel most of ladies here are very supportive❤ not judging or thinking that she's lying. Aluta continua❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉🎉❤
You are very lucky… God protected u…There’s a lady that met a guy on tinder n the guy had promised to cook for her as a romantic 1st date, only for her to go missing n later found in pieces… Most creeps search for their victims on dating sites…
Yoh😮
Iyho😭😭😭😭
Spiked drink STORYTIME please 🙏🏾
As a woman in South Africa…I think it’s important to know some defensive tactics
Coz it can happen anywhere 😭
Anywhere, with anyone.... We should really be careful
As a woman anywhere...!
Predators aren't exclusive to one or few countries.
Queen Ninja, I am so sorry that you went through such an experience. I wish you healing. I just wanted to inform you that some perpetrators are professionals, they are educated, fathers, brothers, and husbands and they use their positions to lure people into trusting them. The devil masks himself as an angel of light. Thank you for shedding light on this matter.
This guy sounds like a monster. Sorry Owami for going through that.
Yeah 😭😭sorry OWAMI❤🥺🥺
Grateful for your safety. 🙏 Next time this happens to anyone and they have seen this you will have saved a life. There used to be a game that we played back in Primary school. We would bend the thumbs and use them to place pressure on both sides of the neck. The pressure does not even need to be too much and the blood flow could be interrupted. The aim, you are correct, was to temporarily lose consciousness. This was deliberate and malicious. Never stop sharing your stories because you are literally saving lives. Ninjas please stay safe out there.
I Am shaking and I am shocked 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️😱😱😱😱😱😱 I don’t think Owami understands fully how God protected her that day, this is scary, straight horror 😱, this was serious and a lot nearly went wrong, you would have gone missing and and and and 😫😫😫🤯
Tx u for sharing… and raise awareness… ladies must be careful not only with strangers even with men you know( relatives, pastors, friends, colleagues)… DONT trust easily. When they see us they see sex. By the time you realise what is happening, you will be assaulted. I don’t like being in private spaces with men.
Not me being shocked and scared at the same time 😔🥺I am so sorry you experienced that Owamie, and I understand the blame feelings you had but in all honesty that night was supposed to be your fun night and he spoiled it for you. Everything you did was just out of the excitement and celebrating your freedom after fighting for it for so long. Thank God those two security guards came through and you were saved. Thank you for sharing this, it surely was not an easy thing to do. Just know this will serve as an awareness to many.
❤thank you Owamie for sharing 😢it's scary but educational, many women will never go into tinder again
I love when you give us personal story times! ❤❤❤
Me too
Nami net ubone the other UA-camrs bazoyenza eyabo💔....
I won't judge u. Thanks for sharing your story. Thank God you made it out.
I am so sorry Owamie. Please don't blame yourself you could have not predicted you would have met an animal. So happy that God kept you safe and you are ready to share what happened to you.
Yooooo so scary......I think I'm going to b single for the rest of my life😮.....thank u for sharing.......
Sounds like a spiritual encounter to me, life is in the blood
So sorry Owamie. You are definitely right. I think he was aiming for the carotid arteries. Hai dating is a struggle 😢
It is spiritual. You are really protected❤🙏🏽
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this with us. Much appreciated ninja ❤❤
I am so obsessed with you Owamie, your stories and person ones - make me to be extra careful. Thank you for sharing the stories.
Bad experience so scary !! Sorry Ninjie 😢 That was a vampire not a human being 😢
Thank God for saving you 🙏
15:40 😭😭my sister you walk with Angel's iyho❤
On behalf of all capable men , my apologies. Next time make them wait until you visit and when you visit dnt touch alcohol.
Can you elaborate on the alcohol part
Much appreciated advice, thank you
@@elsiemahlangu4464 alcohol is the easiest way to drug you.
Don't blame yourself,you wouldn't have predicted ❤ it's scary out there, dating has become so scary
People are sick out the, OMG I’m so glad he did not do anything to you! So sorry you had to go through that! ❤️🙏😢
Yho. Dating is a dangerous sport 😳
Dangerous Dangerous 😳
Hi Ninja it can happen to anyone, there is nothing wrong you did. At least he didn't drug you, and as for an element of shame its normal and eventually when you gain strength and feel ready that's where you will start talking about it.
That sounds so scary Owamie, I'm really glad you are fine now
It is wild out there ladies, be careful
so sorry babe. There are crazy successful males out there. Hope u can help someones life out there..
Im so sorry this happened to you, thanks for sharing your story i hope alot of girls and women learn from this. People from social media dating sites can be dangerous
Things horror stories are made of 💔💔 I’m so sorry you went through this. Thank you so much for sharing and educating 😢
Yoh! Thanks for sharing Owamie. We have to be super vigilant.
A lot of women do not actually report sexual assaults due to shame and fear of victim blaming...it's really sad and traumatic...askies Queen Ninja ❤❤❤
Don't blame yourself Owamie thanks God u are here to tell the story.God will punished him .
Bite?? Some men need deliverance😭
😭😭😭😭
I am so sorry you had to experience this. This is definitely no way your fault. It doesn’t matter what you wore or said. Be it you kissed him back or not. Still doesn’t give him the right to try anything. A no is a no.
This is honestly a horror story of note.😮. Truth be told, even the guys u think u r family with or u know, u MUUUUUST be VERY careful of. Cause he has friends he has siblings possibly, colleagues so imagine trusting him as a friend . a rapist is a rapist guys. They could rape their cousin, their friend, colleague. Yeeeeeyi be careful around this gender period
I'm so sorry Owamie Please don't blame yourself
I appreciate the honesty and alot of women go through this ❤
Thank you for sharing girl ,ladies let’s learn
Oh my word thank you so much for sharing... 😢
Is there no way of reporting a date if something lime that happen? I think Tinder should actually force people yo register their actual details that they keep as their own record while the person uses a username for their profile. Otherwise this is dangerous way of looking for a partner.
From him taking you home, trying to make you drunk on the first date nje.. I already knew he wanted to take advantage. I’m so sorry ninja, that’s scary.
Imagine how many women he has done this to. SMDH
I’m sorry Ninja..
this is sad coz for some ppl they are scared to report Rape because of shame.. so so sad.. when u said u were also shameful.
Dont blame yourself cc , you didnt know and he seemed genuine ❤... you thought you were with a potential bf so dont beat on yourself
Thanks my queen 👸 for the awareness im still in shock 😲
Oh Sis I'm so sorry you had to go through that traumatic experience, please keep these story times coming we really enjoy them, they are very informative❤
These preditors know about these things ninja coz I have an experience of a guy biting me like that and lucky for me there were people who saw it and I escaped but I was so weak after that and it took me a while to be okay
Iyhoooo😮
Argh man. I'm sorry about this. This is so sad and sickening...sheeesh!
Wow I’m so so sorry you experienced this Owamie 😮
😮 Thank you for sharing your stories
Thank you for sharing❤
I really get you when speaking about a sense of shame interms of reporting 😢
That vampire💔💔 askies Owamie, no one deserves that. Don't blame yourself my Ninja, you were let loose and trusted in that moment. I'm glad you okay.
I am so sorry you had to go through that Queen ninja❤ Thanks for always raising awareness
Sorry that happened to you Owamie. Sending you love and light...❣❣
Yho Sorry Owamie this is deep. Hayi shame online dating not for me I would rather join a convent and be a Nun.
Ninja signing in. Sorry this happened to you😢. The vampire biting is very odd. You need anti-biotics after that if he does it to people he is just meeting for the first time, and actually draws blood. Who knows what diseases he is carrying from such episodes. Wild.
Is that even a thing??
Yoh, vampire vibes, okabe omotamusitse marete sies
Yoh! Life is something else. Sorry Owamie.
So sorry queen ninja, grateful for your courage to share.
Wow Owamie that's very scary. I have never had of the bite but i literally am 1 person that can not trust strangers to the point that i can have panic attacks. Thank God this happened in public
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Bite? Thats a bedroom beast men!!! Yooooh noooo maahn this is srs😮 i am so sorry, im sho u immediately got sobber😢. U would hv been part of statistic gal.
OMG I'm shaking so sorry Owamie
Yhooo, that was so scary. I'm sorry you had to go through that and grateful you made it out. Thank you for sharing
Oh no, I thank God for your life mama, He always carries you man🫂😢
We are glad you’re okay Owami ❤. Please do a story time about your drink being spiked
Sorry you went through that. Thanks for sharing
Thank for sharing and so sorry you had to go through that.
She said "bite me" I died 😂😂😂
Sorry Owamie! We're glad you're okay!
😂I also could not help myself
I waiting for her to laugh 😂 but I'm glad she's okay.
God loves you sis❤😊😊
Stranger danger ⚠️
Thank you queen Ninja
❤❤❤
I'm really sorry you had to go through that owami❤
Oh yes
Please share the spiked story
Hallo Ninja. Sending Greetings from Germany.
Yoh this is such a scary experience. So sorry you had to go through that Owamie😢
😮😮😮 thanks for sharing your story, Queen ninja. Please be safe out there as well 🙏 ❤
He almost rpd you yhooooo💔..Im so sorry sorry for what you went through....God is good shame
❤❤❤❤ thank you for sharing Queen Ninja
The scream I scrome 😱 when I heard "he bit me" yooooh!
Hayi wena English is not our mother's toung
@@mamawegirlz4309 This shows me that you live under a rock or you don't have tiktok. Update yourself with tiktok trends before you come under a stranger's post and comment things that are out of context.
Oh my God, I'm so sorry Owamie, wow, scary❤
Yhooo when you said he ws Pedi driving an Audi my heart stopped, just met a Pedi guy he said he's driving an Audi but I did not see his car. I'm scared now now to go for a second date and it's this Friday 🤔
Wear a gold choker babes😅
😂😂 Why specifically gold?
@@mbalikhoza5154update? Lol
We thank God for ur life cc
I am on tinder I met this guy. So we are talking so last week we made plans that we are going to meet somewhere we agreed everything was fine. Last week Thursday he said to me I must come to joburg I told him I'm not coming there because I'm not comfortable in the CBD. Saturday he was like he want to do laundry I must I kept telling him I'm not coming there then later that Saturday he said he was done eating okay fine then as we were talking he said to me if I like dessert I told him yes but I'm not a dessert person. He started saying he wants to Uber for me to come at his place so I can be his dessert 😮..he talking in an appropriate way that made me feel uncomfortable I just saw that this guy was after something. Since then I blocked and deleted him. Why man are like this I mean we just met now you imagining me as your dessert.and he is a Pedi guy.. Boy bye
Unfortunately that app has turned into a "prostitution" app so the guys think girls who are on it are selling.
He is disgusting. Glad you blocked him.
Omg Pedi guys are turning out to be creeps! I was also vibing with one in 2022 and he was always making sexual remarks and being creepy
@@siphokaziluzipho4197 I am glad I did
@@Yassmiinn. Imagine that. I don't like them anymore
When renting the studio do I use the equipment and the camera or do o bring my own camera and lighting ?
Iyoo Owamie this is so scary 😢😢
Love you Owami❤😊
Yhooooo God is good all the time he always protects us
Maybe that guy is a soldier 😮. Soldiers are thought these tricks 😢