#5 is spot-on. Often, guys touch girls not because they seriously like you but because they want to get sex. So if a guy is seriously into you, he might not touch you at all (at least at the beginning) until he is sure it is what you want.
I know a boy. I have been best friends with him since preschool. He is funny and kind- ish he is a bit mean to others but kind to me. He teases me but also stands up for me. We have the same interests and talk for hours about stuff like musicals and anime. I only have one problem. My ex-toxic best friend confessed to him in February in Valentines. He rejected her and I think he might of rejected her for me. I think he might like me but I have no idea... what do you think?
I'm currently talking to this new guy, and he does ALL 5! ☺ But he sends me good morning and good night texts, and checks in with me through the day, when he has time. I told him I think it's REALLY sweet! Then he said he didn't wanna blow his chance with me. I THINK I JUST FOUND MY HUSBAND AND HE DON'T EVEN KNOW IT YET! 😂😂😂
All of the words coming out of this guy's mouth are all true! I LOL at "you could have it plastered on your forehead that you wanting him to kiss you, and still he might not do it" - 100% bang on! We don't like to ef' up lol
This explains so much. I thought he liked me, but when we were together, he seemed distant and preoccupied...and showed no interest in being physical. I hung in there and after several discussions, it turns out he is very shy and likes me a lot. He was afraid of messing up. You pegged it, Clayton.
Overly Serious / quiet Formulaic approach He accidentally insults/challenges (he's trying to flirt with you actually ) you He might come off cocky He doesn't initiate physically
Clayton, Another thing that caught my attention and that I enjoyed about your post was I like the nice scenery you have included in your background, a touch of class...very nice!
"No. 3: He accidentally insults you" Slams phone down and busts down my target's door "You like me, I know now," "What the--" "Shh, It's okay. It's all going to be okay." *gets a restraining order filed against me*
I have crush who don't talk to me. They are complete strangers, but they are often around me. Is it a coincidence? They look down when I look or smile at them. How do you react around your crush?
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You nailed it, in the beginning of my relationship with my man I wanted to be intimate all the time after we were for the first time and he didn't I thought he wasn't interested, he's been hurt by so many women before, I felt rejected but after a year of this I stayed loyal and patient because I really was falling for him and so ladies it was because he did really like me and now we are intimate all the time he knew by then I wouldn't hurt him. Thanks for the video
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more patient, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
Number 5 yes. My guy friend said he never tried anything with me because he had an enormous amount of respect for me. I actually wasn’t sure if I appreciated that . 🤷🏻♀️ but he’s been my bff for years and years so it’s all good.
For me you can feel when the guy really likes you, he never stop to be feel with you his feelings and impress with you also you can feel it in their actions.
I'll offer four possibilities. Fear of rejection (immediately or when they reveal something deeper about themselves). Fear of misreading your signals and then getting accused of sexual harassment when he declares himself. Not being sufficiently experienced in the area of physical intimacy. And borrowing from Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility, being entangled in another relationship (think Edward Ferrars).
Lol I think we get weird becuase we view a person that were interested as something godly and we dont want to do or say anything that would be awkward, kinda like back in the school days when boy likes girl . We just get nervous that's all
Number 3 is very interesting. It is so weird bc you want to avoid narcissists. I had a guy actually tell me I did not know how to take my time. It basically sounded, with his tone and inflection that he was telling me I would not take my time in a romantic situation. It was very strange. But it did seem like he was trying to create tension. But you also do not want to dismiss someone who is genuinely trying to get to know you.
Clayton, Wow...I like the way you think and talk. Seriously, you speak in a way that is very soothing and you express yourself very well. Not only stating the subtle sign he may be interested in you, but also you explain the reasoning behind how he may be thinking or why this guy is more conservative on his approach. I never realized that a guy may think in this way (which would or could be why he is not appearing interested). It's good to know this information and thanks for the positive approach in your coaching tips. My first impression and thought as I listened to your speech was...Wow... I really like him. What I am referring to is I like your relaxed tone in your voice, your soothing voice, and how you had such a positive approach to the message you wanted to convey. Nicely done! Have a nice day!
Thank you so much. It means a lot to get such wonderful feedback. Big motivator for me to continue to share my perspective. Your ability to share how this impacted you says a lot about you, Betty. Much respect and I appreciate you.
What if he is always talking to girls in front of me or next to me. Also, rather saying hi to someone next to me then say hi to me directly. I feel it's intentional.
This is the 647381919 video I watch about the topic and I think I finally found my answer. You are literally describing the situation I'm in. Thanks, great video, not the signs other youtubers post.
He is actually like that to me. Sometimes he came quiet, suddenly said things that i got offended, he opened up things he needs, he is really touchy; hugs me, holds my hand, back, arm, and shouldes, he smiles alot, he always stares but doens't initiate physically. But i'm a gay! Isn't applicable? What Ibknow is we're friends.
Wow these are SO TRUE!!!!! I was honestly noticing these different things, like not initiating physical contact, but making excellent eye contact and looking at me when I'm not looking, but then keep eye contact when I notice him. Certain things such as these random insults that seem slightly degrading yet the way he says it and laughs makes it seem like it's supposed to be light hearted. I can't seem to understand why he is the way he is sometimes.. but anyways this really helped!! Thanks so much Clay!!
I remember genuinely being upset because the one time I put full face makeup on, his first question/reaction was "why is your eyeliner like that?....other girls do it differently". I still can't tell if it was an accidental insult or genuine question ??
I've had an on/off thing with a wonderful guy who does almost all of these signs, so thank you, its so helpful to hear them explained. Deep down I can feel that he is really keen but is scared to let go/mess up. He's had two long term relationships and I feel he's scared of 'failing' and falling again. It's hard going though and he ends up backing off. I guess keep being happy doing my thing and he might eventually lose his fear, or maybe not?! He needs your help Clayton 😉😃 Great video as always, your content and delivery are so gentle and helpful.
OMG! Today is my first day listening to you and this is exactly all i wanted to hear, now i understand my guy he really likes me which i can feel it. but he is kind of afraid to hug me or even hold my hands. thank God for this video . i have subscribed immediately. thanks for making this video. my number 1 channel.
I agree.. Done the same stupid things.. I behave completely different when im talking to a girl i know for a while and i really really like(even have a crush), regardles if they are 6 or 10.. And completelly different with girls i dont know or dont like..Where im a bad boy type..And hook up easily.
Omg this made me smile. :) The guy I'm currently dating literally checks off every single one of these boxes. The last one made me laugh because I distinctly remember trying hold his arm on our walk and he was so rigid (almost as if it made him nervous), so I stopped. Then I tried to kiss him when he walked me to my door and he turned his head so I kissed his cheek. That stuuuung. Lol, but then he was texting me all happy like nothing happened. And we still have another date coming up. Guys are so fucking weird, but it's cute.
I am in middle school and the crush I have always tries to challenge me and insult me but he smiles kind of. Sign 3 in the video really helped me becasue that is exatly what he does.
Wow, This is crazy. He did all of these except with #4 he went back and forth and added a little bit of humility. Yes, these 5 signs were very useful. Thank You.
So I like this guy at my work ( Lifeguard/Swim Lessons). And We see each other everyday and talk a lot. Plus he always teases me saying he's going to push/throw me in the pool, and splashes me when he's in the pool and I'm not. He's always trying to get me to smile. sometimes we will make eye contact across the pool and he'll make a silly face or smile and it will make me laugh. He always seems to have something to talk about with me. And touches my shoulder or back occasionally, or he will push my lips up into a smile. when I had a bad day he tried to give me advice and comfort me about the situation... Do you think he likes me?! What should I do?!?!?!
What does it mean when he is flirty with others around you, but he deeply looks into your eyes and is quite around you. This man I am crushing on, gives full smiles but is so serious when looking at my eyes. Like he is trying to read the back of my brain. Which I say is a turn on. He has that serious part, where it gets confusing is when he is flirty with other ladies.
This happens to me All The Time! I'm not sure what I'm doing to get in these types of interactions, men get very serious, then they strut and show off their manliness, then come the misunderstandings about compliments, then I get my feelings hurt and it goes downhill from there. I love, love, love the strategy where I look for signs that he Does like me, instead of focusing on the weird stuff. This may help immensely.
Why a guy always say hi while smiling but when his colleague - he's always quiet? And when I want to give him something, he opens his palm and makes it like I need to put that thing in his palm, why he tries not to touch me??
He gets serious and quiet with you. He comes across formulaic. He accidentally insults you. He comes off cocky and bragging. He doesn’t initiate physically.
LOL Number 1 is so true! I was the only one talking during our dates so much so that I began doubting his ability to hold a conversation or express himself.
누나 seosi army Guys hate to be interrupted when they're talking. Maybe you're too pushy and interrupting people while they're talking. That's an anti-social behaviour. It is also rude behaviour. Stop interrupting people.
Thanks for clearing things up! I’m currently seeing someone and he’s kind of a bit slow in terms of contact. I have noticed that he would text me about 3-4 days in between texts. When you talked about him being formulaic totally makes sense.
Best video I have seen on the confusing signs an uptight guy gives. Every sign is right on the money. Thanks for clearing up the confusion, but how long do you wait on Mr. Conservative???
hi! one of the strangest thing I've encountered is when you show up suddenly in front of him, he looks at you and then blinks rapidly and he immediately tries to look down or somewhere elsewhere... This happened to me in the past...when my crush suddenly appears and when my eyes unconsciously catches him, i panic and then i unconsciously blink rapidly trying to look down or elsewhere...
Thanks for this great advice. I'm seeing a whole new light on a guy I'm interested in. Wasn't sure if he liked me but....he has done all of these things. I think he is moving slowly because he IS interested. And I can now have more patience. After this video. I myself have more confidence. Thanks so much.
If a guy fears rejection and protects himself from being hurt, it only shows that he loves himself more than anyone else. A guy should continue to wait on the girl even if he is rejected. Sometimes, timing is every thing. Give the girl enough time to see his goodness. She may be moved in the end. She may give a second thought as the other guys simply move on when they are rejected while that guy still stays on. That makes that guy stand out among the rest. It will be different if the girl becomes nasty when she rejects that guy.
Haha. Exactly! He says weird stuff. Sometimes grumpy and then all of a sudden “Why don’t we start all over again?” WHAAA? He is serious around me- almost cold. Yes, brusque. Then he says he’s lonely and misses me. We fight on the phone, laugh, and we talk sexy. He doesn’t even hug me! I showI care. Don’t understand lack of trust.
the guy that I dated now he also isnt initiating me physically... when i make my move he is completely fine with it... is indeed sometimes confusing haha
Your voice is so calming.
Miss V Yes and darn sexy too!!
Very sweet explanations! Love your advice.
He is so nice and so cute.
Good potential yogi instructor, lol.
I agree.
i like the way u talk and the tone of ur voice
Why thank you. :)
Yes indeed.. just said that
Yes. Very comfortable. :)
You are just adorable 😘
Thank you for the advice.
He have sexy voice :)
#5 is spot-on. Often, guys touch girls not because they seriously like you but because they want to get sex. So if a guy is seriously into you, he might not touch you at all (at least at the beginning) until he is sure it is what you want.
Thanks for adding your experience!
81ice Good point. I'm already feeling out a guy who have not touch me but made small talks when I see him. Nothing rude but he's serious too.
A best friend of mine that i really2x like won't hug me back. He's stiff whenever i hug him.
I know a boy. I have been best friends with him since preschool. He is funny and kind- ish he is a bit mean to others but kind to me. He teases me but also stands up for me. We have the same interests and talk for hours about stuff like musicals and anime.
I only have one problem. My ex-toxic best friend confessed to him in February in Valentines. He rejected her and I think he might of rejected her for me. I think he might like me but I have no idea... what do you think?
My crush doesn’t like to be touched so I don’t know how to process that.
I'm currently talking to this new guy, and he does ALL 5! ☺ But he sends me good morning and good night texts, and checks in with me through the day, when he has time. I told him I think it's REALLY sweet! Then he said he didn't wanna blow his chance with me. I THINK I JUST FOUND MY HUSBAND AND HE DON'T EVEN KNOW IT YET! 😂😂😂
Update? 😇
@@schattenvolkofficial1121 right. An update would be nice
Hey congratulations😀😀
What happened? Update?
Ain't no update because he probably ghosted after love bombing 😂
his voice is so soothing. almost asmr-ish
I had to look that one up! Thank you.
All of the words coming out of this guy's mouth are all true! I LOL at "you could have it plastered on your forehead that you wanting him to kiss you, and still he might not do it" - 100% bang on! We don't like to ef' up lol
You have a nice tone of voice, it's easy listening to you...also the content is well exposed...good work
Thank you very much!
It feels like you care for us and you're on our side. it's soft. thats why
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you are full of peace and tranquillity. you are humble and kind
Ladies and Gentleman, I present you, my ideal man!
Blue TeaTree who? The guy he described?
@@jollyjokress3852 No, this sweetheart, Clayton. :)
This explains so much. I thought he liked me, but when we were together, he seemed distant and preoccupied...and showed no interest in being physical. I hung in there and after several discussions, it turns out he is very shy and likes me a lot. He was afraid of messing up. You pegged it, Clayton.
Overly Serious / quiet
Formulaic approach
He accidentally insults/challenges (he's trying to flirt with you actually ) you
He might come off cocky
He doesn't initiate physically
The gist of the video begins at 1:53. Thank me later
How about now....Thank you ; )
Thx
Thanx
TY..
Cheers 🍺
Clayton,
Another thing that caught my attention and that I enjoyed about your post was I like the nice scenery you have included in your background, a touch of class...very nice!
"No. 3: He accidentally insults you"
Slams phone down and busts down my target's door
"You like me, I know now,"
"What the--"
"Shh, It's okay. It's all going to be okay."
*gets a restraining order filed against me*
L X E 😂😂😂😂
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Idk why I’m watching this😐
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I don’t even talk to my crush
I have crush who don't talk to me. They are complete strangers, but they are often around me. Is it a coincidence? They look down when I look or smile at them. How do you react around your crush?
Well you should talk to them. You are probably making them nuts!!
Same here. I think I got friend zone now :(
Talk to this person...you will regret it ...sooner or later...trust me!
@@Violet.star40 lol same
I think I could sleep with that voice (it's good, I'm telling you!) great video, by the way.
adam au I could sleep with that face you've got bud.nice.
I actually felt asleep for 2 mins there
I actually felt asleep for 2 mins there
What you have just experienced while listening to him is called ASMR !
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I think women also act bizarre sometimes when they like someone, which looks pretty the same... also when oppressing the emotions
Shqiponja Mehmeti lol this is how I act . I get so shy and won’t say hi to him . But everyone one else get a hug and a hiii for me .
You nailed it, in the beginning of my relationship with my man I wanted to be intimate all the time after we were for the first time and he didn't I thought he wasn't interested, he's been hurt by so many women before, I felt rejected but after a year of this I stayed loyal and patient because I really was falling for him and so ladies it was because he did really like me and now we are intimate all the time he knew by then I wouldn't hurt him. Thanks for the video
sherry spies awwwww. My bf of 5 months is being cold n polite....i think he does not like me but maybe as friend only. So hard to tell.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more patient, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
that's what you call authentic logics !! Welldone !
All men likes me according your first reason. No man even talk to me, I don't exist to men
Number 5 yes. My guy friend said he never tried anything with me because he had an enormous amount of respect for me. I actually wasn’t sure if I appreciated that . 🤷🏻♀️ but he’s been my bff for years and years so it’s all good.
Very soothing voice👍🏻
can you do a video on the different types of eye contact men do that could indicate that he is feeling you?
Lucky Bamboo 444 I would love that as well. 😃
That would be a good one to know!
Absolutely yesss! I need that, too!
Soft. Sometimes intense when they think you're not looking. Concerned if they think you might be uncomfortable
Those five signs can also interpretate perfectly as he's not into you at all.
True
For me you can feel when the guy really likes you, he never stop to be feel with you his feelings and impress with you also you can feel it in their actions.
Wait too long and the right moment may pass you by... Hard to live with the what ifs...just do it..if you fail don't kick yourself just move on
Yes! The last one! Touching isn't a mandatory thing to prove he likes you.
Another great unintentional ASMR video
So my crush actually likes me! Eek 😬!
Edit: Me and my crush are now officially dating!
Wholesome
please do a ted talk your voice is amazing
I like the tone of your voice! It's very calming
Incredibly relaxing..
Clayton, just make a sleepy time video for all of us. I found myself so relaxed listening to you.
This is so accurate. Why are you guys so nervous and afraid?
Why do you think you could screw things up?
I'll offer four possibilities. Fear of rejection (immediately or when they reveal something deeper about themselves). Fear of misreading your signals and then getting accused of sexual harassment when he declares himself. Not being sufficiently experienced in the area of physical intimacy. And borrowing from Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility, being entangled in another relationship (think Edward Ferrars).
Lol I think we get weird becuase we view a person that were interested as something godly and we dont want to do or say anything that would be awkward, kinda like back in the school days when boy likes girl . We just get nervous that's all
Because some women out there are playing stupid games with them
@@rabbit9979 as if men can say anything about playing games haha
It's all they fucking do these days..
Very informative . That's really true. His actions does say that he's not into me but the chemistry between us is hard to be break .
:)
Number 3 is very interesting. It is so weird bc you want to avoid narcissists. I had a guy actually tell me I did not know how to take my time. It basically sounded, with his tone and inflection that he was telling me I would not take my time in a romantic situation. It was very strange. But it did seem like he was trying to create tension.
But you also do not want to dismiss someone who is genuinely trying to get to know you.
Clayton,
Wow...I like the way you think and talk. Seriously, you speak in a way that is very soothing and you express yourself very well. Not only stating the subtle sign he may be interested in you, but also you explain the reasoning behind how he may be thinking or why this guy is more conservative on his approach. I never realized that a guy may think in this way (which would or could be why he is not appearing interested). It's good to know this information and thanks for the positive approach in your coaching tips.
My first impression and thought as I listened to your speech was...Wow... I really like him. What I am referring to is I like your relaxed tone in your voice, your soothing voice, and how you had such a positive approach to the message you wanted to convey. Nicely done! Have a nice day!
Thank you so much. It means a lot to get such wonderful feedback. Big motivator for me to continue to share my perspective. Your ability to share how this impacted you says a lot about you, Betty. Much respect and I appreciate you.
Thanks Clayton, you are a good man and I appreciate you as well.
I'm so serious with my crush. He always teases me, but I can never think of anything clever to say back. I must seem so boring to him.
Spot on. Precisely spot on. Your the only video that talks about this trait.
Thanks Castiel
Better than all of the other videos on here on this topic!
In love with that landscape!!!!!
I agree, Clayton really has a soothing voice
I especially loved this one. You have a great way of bringing to light things that other coaches dont. Really value it.
What if he is always talking to girls in front of me or next to me. Also, rather saying hi to someone next to me then say hi to me directly. I feel it's intentional.
It's called DISRESPECT my Dear.
This is the 647381919 video I watch about the topic and I think I finally found my answer. You are literally describing the situation I'm in. Thanks, great video, not the signs other youtubers post.
He is actually like that to me. Sometimes he came quiet, suddenly said things that i got offended, he opened up things he needs, he is really touchy; hugs me, holds my hand, back, arm, and shouldes, he smiles alot, he always stares but doens't initiate physically. But i'm a gay! Isn't applicable? What Ibknow is we're friends.
you are a very genuine coach who really cares about people's relationships
Wow these are SO TRUE!!!!! I was honestly noticing these different things, like not initiating physical contact, but making excellent eye contact and looking at me when I'm not looking, but then keep eye contact when I notice him. Certain things such as these random insults that seem slightly degrading yet the way he says it and laughs makes it seem like it's supposed to be light hearted. I can't seem to understand why he is the way he is sometimes.. but anyways this really helped!! Thanks so much Clay!!
Two things: 1) Yes, you are spot on with the odd signs. 2) Where are you? Looks like Arizona. Very pretty.
Boulder Colorado!
I remember genuinely being upset because the one time I put full face makeup on, his first question/reaction was "why is your eyeliner like that?....other girls do it differently". I still can't tell if it was an accidental insult or genuine question ??
I've had an on/off thing with a wonderful guy who does almost all of these signs, so thank you, its so helpful to hear them explained. Deep down I can feel that he is really keen but is scared to let go/mess up. He's had two long term relationships and I feel he's scared of 'failing' and falling again.
It's hard going though and he ends up backing off. I guess keep being happy doing my thing and he might eventually lose his fear, or maybe not?! He needs your help Clayton 😉😃
Great video as always, your content and delivery are so gentle and helpful.
OMG! Today is my first day listening to you and this is exactly all i wanted to hear, now i understand my guy he really likes me which i can feel it. but he is kind of afraid to hug me or even hold my hands. thank God for this video . i have subscribed immediately. thanks for making this video. my number 1 channel.
I like the way you talk and the tone of your voice.Your good advice is very helpful.
I agree.. Done the same stupid things.. I behave completely different when im talking to a girl i know for a while and i really really like(even have a crush), regardles if they are 6 or 10.. And completelly different with girls i dont know or dont like..Where im a bad boy type..And hook up easily.
Omg this made me smile. :) The guy I'm currently dating literally checks off every single one of these boxes. The last one made me laugh because I distinctly remember trying hold his arm on our walk and he was so rigid (almost as if it made him nervous), so I stopped. Then I tried to kiss him when he walked me to my door and he turned his head so I kissed his cheek. That stuuuung. Lol, but then he was texting me all happy like nothing happened. And we still have another date coming up. Guys are so fucking weird, but it's cute.
Beautiful voice:)
niba bilal he cursed in the video but with that calm soothing voice and I was like "oh YESssss that sounds WONNDERFULLL "😌 lol he's so cute
I am in middle school and the crush I have always tries to challenge me and insult me but he smiles kind of. Sign 3 in the video really helped me becasue that is exatly what he does.
Wow, This is crazy. He did all of these except with #4 he went back and forth and added a little bit of humility. Yes, these 5 signs were very useful. Thank You.
My crush do all of this signs and in the same time keep flirting and I still don't understand why he is not doing any other move
Your voice makes me really relaxed and calm... The backdrop is pretty amazing too.
So I like this guy at my work ( Lifeguard/Swim Lessons). And We see each other everyday and talk a lot. Plus he always teases me saying he's going to push/throw me in the pool, and splashes me when he's in the pool and I'm not. He's always trying to get me to smile. sometimes we will make eye contact across the pool and he'll make a silly face or smile and it will make me laugh. He always seems to have something to talk about with me. And touches my shoulder or back occasionally, or he will push my lips up into a smile. when I had a bad day he tried to give me advice and comfort me about the situation... Do you think he likes me?! What should I do?!?!?!
Alexia Kimbrell he's acting as a brother...to you. more like a friend. Maybe you're a moody person and he's trying to cheer you up.
He is flirting!!!!!!
HE IS/HAS FALLING FOR YOU ❤
What does it mean when he is flirty with others around you, but he deeply looks into your eyes and is quite around you. This man I am crushing on, gives full smiles but is so serious when looking at my eyes. Like he is trying to read the back of my brain. Which I say is a turn on. He has that serious part, where it gets confusing is when he is flirty with other ladies.
This happens to me All The Time! I'm not sure what I'm doing to get in these types of interactions, men get very serious, then they strut and show off their manliness, then come the misunderstandings about compliments, then I get my feelings hurt and it goes downhill from there. I love, love, love the strategy where I look for signs that he Does like me, instead of focusing on the weird stuff. This may help immensely.
Why a guy always say hi while smiling but when his colleague - he's always quiet? And when I want to give him something, he opens his palm and makes it like I need to put that thing in his palm, why he tries not to touch me??
I love this one. It's intersting sing 3. It's so weird but I can understand man's subtle feeling
Wow so great! You are very unique in a good way and a great communicator. I like the tone of your voice as well!
Much appreciated. Glad you enjoyed it.
I just love the background. The scenery is very calming.
I know he likes me but there is no place for a coward guy. They can easily hide & play safe if things go wrong. This is not genuine.
I thought that too
Completely agree with you.
I actually walked up to this coward and asked him if he liked me. In the end, he married me. Hahaha.
There is a guy, i think he likes me. But always when he touches me, he apologizes. WHY?? thats weird..
he might think you find it weird and uncomfortable :)
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naturalzzz sis no cuz i m touching him for example his leg when we sit or his shoulders... i m flirting but i think he doesnt feel comfortable..
then stop lol that seems wayyy to desperate to me. you shouldn't have done them in the first place, only when you were sure he felt something to O.O
naturalzzz sis but he told me that he has feelings for me and that he is my dreamman lol
I'm usually super oblivious when someone likes me, I usually find out a lot later.
#5 I guess I'm screwed then because whenever I'm within arms reach, he either pulls me into his side or wraps his arms around me and holds me
He gets serious and quiet with you. He comes across formulaic. He accidentally insults you. He comes off cocky and bragging. He doesn’t initiate physically.
LOL Number 1 is so true! I was the only one talking during our dates so much so that I began doubting his ability to hold a conversation or express himself.
These make a lot of sense actually...somentimes its hard to know what men really think
You should do sleep meditation videos. You have a very soothing voice.
I can't watch you talk like this anymore, I'm starting to fall in love lol
The guy I like told me to "hold on" really firmly when he was talking to two other boys, hate him now
누나 seosi army Guys hate to be interrupted when they're talking.
Maybe you're too pushy and interrupting people while they're talking. That's an anti-social behaviour. It is also rude behaviour. Stop interrupting people.
Mine sometimes pretend to be a bad guy to hide he is in love, it's what you said - the mask of masculinity
Thanks for clearing things up! I’m currently seeing someone and he’s kind of a bit slow in terms of contact. I have noticed that he would text me about 3-4 days in between texts. When you talked about him being formulaic totally makes sense.
Alas, he wasn’t feeling me so he ended things. It’s okay though because I learned not to put all my eyes in one basket.
Omg! How much I love intelligent and clever guys like you Clayton .
You seem like a very intellegent guy! Thank you for the video, it really helped me!
Personality is a must. Sounds like you're not trying to wake someone up.
Best video I have seen on the confusing signs an uptight guy gives. Every sign is right on the money. Thanks for clearing up the confusion, but how long do you wait on Mr. Conservative???
hi! one of the strangest thing I've encountered is when you show up suddenly in front of him, he looks at you and then blinks rapidly and he immediately tries to look down or somewhere elsewhere... This happened to me in the past...when my crush suddenly appears and when my eyes unconsciously catches him, i panic and then i unconsciously blink rapidly trying to look down or elsewhere...
Thanks for this great advice. I'm seeing a whole new light on a guy I'm interested in. Wasn't sure if he liked me but....he has done all of these things. I think he is moving slowly because he IS interested. And I can now have more patience. After this video. I myself have more confidence. Thanks so much.
Omg number 3! 😂😅 Ive been wondering a lot about this strange behaviour! Thanks for sharing!
Beautiful scenery behind you and also you are so calming and easy to listen to. Your voice is so smooth. I feel so relaxed
you have described the situation I am in right now
now I know he likes me. thank you
Suppose he just doesnt like you and is being "polite". Men are so hard to understand.
Extremely hard to understand
Signs 1, 2 and 5 are so true!
YOU ARE VERY HELPFUL... I FEEL LIKE I UNDERSTAND GUYS BETTER.
Wow!! Now I know a certain guy I met likes me after hearing this. Awesome video. Thanks for sharing :)
Listening to you talk is very calming to me.
If a guy fears rejection and protects himself from being hurt, it only shows that he loves himself more than anyone else. A guy should continue to wait on the girl even if he is rejected. Sometimes, timing is every thing. Give the girl enough time to see his goodness. She may be moved in the end. She may give a second thought as the other guys simply move on when they are rejected while that guy still stays on. That makes that guy stand out among the rest. It will be different if the girl becomes nasty when she rejects that guy.
Such a soothing coach voice.
Very good points on the signs, and extremely good advice there at the end.
Haha. Exactly! He says weird stuff. Sometimes grumpy and then all of a sudden “Why don’t we start all over again?” WHAAA? He is serious around me- almost cold. Yes, brusque. Then he says he’s lonely and misses me. We fight on the phone, laugh, and we talk sexy. He doesn’t even hug me! I showI care. Don’t understand lack of trust.
Wow! My crush does all of signs and here I thought he secretly despised me lol
My crush did too. I thought he secretly doesn't like me too
Guilty with the insults!!!!! 😂
What about when he asks me for the floor plan to my house including all possible exits?
the guy that I dated now he also isnt initiating me physically... when i make my move he is completely fine with it... is indeed sometimes confusing haha