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  • @Michael_the_Drunkard
    @Michael_the_Drunkard 24 дні тому +1280

    You forgot zodiac signs

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  24 дні тому +361

      RIGHT. That’s a communist flag 🤣

    • @Pist3l
      @Pist3l 24 дні тому +7

      😭😭

    • @bigpapibrad
      @bigpapibrad 24 дні тому +8

      😂😂

    • @ThomasNotJefferson
      @ThomasNotJefferson 24 дні тому

      He forrget church girls

    • @FBAGameplayHonorableGamer
      @FBAGameplayHonorableGamer 22 дні тому +28

      @@ybctoocold Like if u dont fit at all... like at all... but they say "but this Zodiac matches this, so we are meant to be" like... bruh 💀

  • @Dennisthemas
    @Dennisthemas 24 дні тому +1036

    Another red flag to me is if she smokes or vapes

  • @mihanich
    @mihanich 21 день тому +601

    So it looks like we shouldn't date 95% of women.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  21 день тому +340

      95% of women aren’t worth dating.

    • @Klasik616
      @Klasik616 21 день тому

      ​@@ybctoocoldand when you find the right one (I did) she has a boyfriend.

    • @queenambi7278
      @queenambi7278 20 днів тому +61

      @@ybctoocoldso aren’t 99% of men

    • @KevaunChildofGod
      @KevaunChildofGod 20 днів тому +150

      @@queenambi7278Bet you played the good guy🤣

    • @atroposV
      @atroposV 19 днів тому +5

      I walk around this world every day and yeah pretty much thats how it seems

  • @DoporaBHe6o
    @DoporaBHe6o 14 днів тому +350

    you forgot two extremely major ones
    1. fatherless - it's GG don't even try
    2. bisexual - tends to have other red flags

    • @Crey12321
      @Crey12321 11 днів тому +20

      Thats true. No father figure in life/bad relationship with father - stay tf away.

    • @maria.4.4.1
      @maria.4.4.1 11 днів тому

      @@Crey12321why do you say that?

    • @Crey12321
      @Crey12321 11 днів тому +10

      @@maria.4.4.1 experience. Btw by "no father" I didn't mean a situasion when woman lost her father at some point but rather that she's never had a father figure in her life. I will edit that to be clear

    • @maria.4.4.1
      @maria.4.4.1 11 днів тому +22

      @@Crey12321 okay, I grew up without a father figure and I don’t think I’m toxic… it simply depends on the person and how they react to things

    • @Crey12321
      @Crey12321 11 днів тому +10

      @@maria.4.4.1 of course there are other circumstances that may affect us and I'm glad You avoided being toxic. I might have generalised but I think most women who grew up without father figure or in toxic relationship with her father may have problems in the future with creating healthy relationships. Mostly due to relationship style they learned when they were young. Of course it can be fixed but many people just don't see any issues within themselves nor want to accept that there's anything they can work on. And this also work for guys. Just don't ignore the efects of unhealthy relationship or lack of relationship with parent of opposite sex.
      And if you want good and healthy relationship, don't commit to someone who has unsolved issues that may cause problems. You want to be their partner, not a therapist

  • @toptiercrip
    @toptiercrip 24 дні тому +635

    almost every girl is a phone addict and insecure dawg

    • @oafk
      @oafk 22 дні тому +102

      actually everyone tbh, just a few people actually aren't phone addicted nowadays

    • @toptiercrip
      @toptiercrip 22 дні тому +69

      @oafk most men can control their phone habits i be seeing females GLUED to dat phone dawg especially tiktok

    • @user-pn3im5sm7k
      @user-pn3im5sm7k 22 дні тому

      ​@@toptiercrip Be accountable, this isn't a female vs male thing. Both genders are glued to their phones whether you like it or not. The female is 304ing on it and the male is simping on it while both are being railed by a sophisticated misinformation campaign with the only purpose of destroying the family unit and thus making people easier to control. We can discuss who the real perpetuators are, but none of you are ever ready for that conversation.

    • @lelandp17
      @lelandp17 21 день тому +13

      Ur right ​@@toptiercrip

    • @ZeroDividedByZero
      @ZeroDividedByZero 20 днів тому +1

      @@toptiercripBro we was underway one time and this one bitch in our division would not put her damn phone down during the work day…we had no internet, mind you…

  • @RB_26
    @RB_26 24 дні тому +246

    "If a woman plays hard to get, make that decision a regret"- YBCTooCold 2024 🤣🤣

    • @homiesenatep
      @homiesenatep 19 днів тому +7

      Just play hard to get back

    • @shogunsteez2469
      @shogunsteez2469 16 днів тому +11

      If she plays hard to get, she won’t get got.

    • @AdblockAccount
      @AdblockAccount 11 днів тому +2

      Playing hard to get is the same a lying. Don't date a liar.

    • @homiesenatep
      @homiesenatep 8 днів тому

      @@AdblockAccount just play hard to get back lol

  • @meffer
    @meffer 13 днів тому +199

    Bro. Those Law of Attraction, manifestation, "I don't chase, I attract" women are nuclear red flag. It's like they think wishing is a substitute for action. Delusion level: maxed out. They are more in love with the idea of some romantic perfect relationship rather than in love with the actual guy.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  13 днів тому +20

      Yeah stay away from these types of girls. I know from experience 🤣

    • @trynagetuppp
      @trynagetuppp 10 днів тому

      ​@@ybctoocold pls elaborate on why as i fear I might find myself in a similar position very soon

  • @rudyh721
    @rudyh721 23 дні тому +223

    I have yet to meet a girl who isn’t a phone addict bro

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  23 дні тому +42

      Same, but she has to make an effort to control it around you. We don’t care what they do when they’re alone 🤣

    • @badtrip858
      @badtrip858 13 днів тому +8

      Sometimes they are just hella bored by whatever you are saying, so to avoid the awkward silence, they'll grab their phones. Either way, if she finds you boring, it's best to not get into a relationship with her. Remember, it's not always your fault, cause people have different preferences and find different things interesting. She just wasn't a match

    • @SuicidalH
      @SuicidalH 11 днів тому +5

      I am an addict but I put the phone down when I'm with him. It's a basic decency.

    • @galactikhex
      @galactikhex 5 днів тому

      @@SuicidalH many people nowadays don't have basic decency or common sense. Which is extremely sad

  • @Philosopheraptor
    @Philosopheraptor 23 дні тому +271

    Others to consider:
    1. Smokes &/or vapes
    2. Parties every week / Is a typical club or bar girl
    3. Is a stripper and/or sex worker / Has an OnlyFans
    4. Believes in astrology (horoscopy) &/or "magic"
    5. Is a single mother (with it being worse the more children she has)
    6. Has had a divorce (or multiple divorces) before
    7. Comes from (was or is being raised in) a single mother household
    8. Believes in the mythological "wage gap"
    9. Uses misandristic terms such as "Men ain't shit"
    10. Doesn't speak proper/coherent English or uses way too much slang
    11. Posts inappropriately revealing photos on her Instagram page
    12. Is in severe debt / Has financial &/or overspending issues

    • @mvloz113
      @mvloz113 21 день тому +7

      Don't forget raves

    • @ZeroDividedByZero
      @ZeroDividedByZero 20 днів тому +17

      Eh, some of these can be attributed to simply having had things not work out (i.e. divorce) but I still agree, and at best, those are yellow flags.

    • @65150s
      @65150s 18 днів тому +1

      ​@@mvloz113 Stay away 🏴‍☠️

    • @PrypiomStudio
      @PrypiomStudio 11 днів тому +3

      I'll add the body count in this.

    • @jeanpierrepolnareff9919
      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 8 днів тому +1

      Spot on except for the smoking, where i leave its very common, young old, men and women smoke. Unless its a big issue where she has terrible breath and lung problems, it doesnt mean much to me. Also a plus if she likes to smoke weed.

  • @freemover975
    @freemover975 23 дні тому +142

    The father of all red flags is missing: relationship to her father. Most other red flags are a result of that.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  23 дні тому +25

      True, I was looking at a more superficial level because it’s hard know a woman’s relationship with her father when you meet her. But if she has a bunch of red flags it’s probably bad.

    • @taksun2189
      @taksun2189 5 днів тому

      Can you explain what it means, please? Incest or something like that?

    • @lanepedraza
      @lanepedraza 5 днів тому +9

      @@taksun2189not necessarily. In my personal experience which in this case is vast. Women who had a bad relationship or even an absent father tend to be insensitive, detached, selfish or have a thought of “men sucks”. They are not gonna respect you nor follow you as a leader on the relationship.

    • @taksun2189
      @taksun2189 5 днів тому

      @@lanepedraza Thank you for the clarification!

  •  14 днів тому +23

    Basically all modern women these days have multiple red flags.

  • @marisacillahi1537
    @marisacillahi1537 9 днів тому +35

    Male red flags
    1:Promiscuous or high body count
    2: drinker/smoker and drug addict
    3: Single father or have different baby mamas
    4:If he aver pay money on 😻 directly or indirectly
    5: Have so many tattoos and listen to rap songs mostly
    6: phone addict and social media addict
    7: If he doesn't work/not save or don't have a purpose in life
    8:If he says misogyny things or follows misogyny men on social media
    9: Have so many bad friends or so many female friends
    10:If he doesn't know how to communicate

    • @jeanpierrepolnareff9919
      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 8 днів тому +4

      I think you ment turn ons? Maybe autocorrected

    • @marisacillahi1537
      @marisacillahi1537 8 днів тому +9

      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 Nop,I mean turn off
      If you are this type of man ,maybe a woman will date you for money and not for marriage differentiate short-term and long-term

    • @namenotfound6881
      @namenotfound6881 6 днів тому +1

      @@jeanpierrepolnareff9919any decent woman wouldn’t touch a guy like this with a ten foot pole. Red flag women on the other hand LOVE red flag men

    • @huh-ih5wq
      @huh-ih5wq 2 дні тому +5

      I dont see anything wrong with men who listen to rap mostly, tbh

    • @kamalatharat
      @kamalatharat День тому

      Whataboutist

  • @yoosf
    @yoosf 24 дні тому +153

    also if she doubts my decisions and what i am able to do, if she doubts my skills, my thoughts, its a massive disrespect for me

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  24 дні тому +28

      Yeah we don’t tolerate that. Either she believes in you or she outta there lol

    • @ningenzerokeikaku3719
      @ningenzerokeikaku3719 19 днів тому +1

      yeah bro my ex was like that, it pissed me off so much

    • @graveraider1029
      @graveraider1029 15 днів тому

      then be the man then she won't doubt, if she is doing that ther is a good reason

    • @gl3mmy903
      @gl3mmy903 15 днів тому +4

      For sure just remember not to be incompetent yourself as in give her valid reasons to doubt your skill

  • @mikokun7714
    @mikokun7714 24 дні тому +80

    Bro Didn’t Put Single Mother on the Pentagon DEFCON Lvl 1 Red Flag Tier 🚩

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  24 дні тому +25

      Bro created a whole new tier for single mothers 🤣🤣

    • @SalwixRaper
      @SalwixRaper 5 днів тому

      i mean, i like to hook upwith them but never got any seroius relationship

  • @livedeliciously
    @livedeliciously 5 днів тому +10

    One that I'd like to add: incapable of being alone.

  • @michikatsutsugikuni4096
    @michikatsutsugikuni4096 21 день тому +80

    "Active on social media" should be in DANGER tier. Chances are she's a narc sociopath especially if she has an OF account and she's taking advantage of lonely men for money.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  21 день тому +11

      Good point tbh

    • @AdblockAccount
      @AdblockAccount 11 днів тому

      Doesn't that depend on what social media it is? Almost anyone I know, including family and myself, are active on facebook. Is that so horrible?

    • @kate1060
      @kate1060 8 днів тому

      Tbh it depends on what she's posting a lot like it's hard for me to belive that women that post pics woth their family on Facebook or make up tutorials are looking for male attention xD

    • @SalwixRaper
      @SalwixRaper 5 днів тому

      OF should straigh go aboce the communist flag

  • @filipberes319
    @filipberes319 23 дні тому +86

    You forgot the type of girl who is gonna left you on read

  • @Kabirio93
    @Kabirio93 19 днів тому +79

    My personal red flags:
    1) Get drunk often.
    2) Into latino music and parties.
    3) Single mother.
    4) Social media addict.
    5) Not avalaible (answer me after days and days or just answer after 24 hours with lame excuses like sorry i was busy ahah)
    6) Love bomb ( calling me babe et very fast and without bound first)
    7) Mixed feelings
    8) Hard to get

    • @adriel6008
      @adriel6008 19 днів тому +37

      Lmfaoo the latino music part had me dying

    • @afrasiabi96
      @afrasiabi96 18 днів тому +26

      You forgot ghetto music and ghetto slang talk and she says Cap alot

    • @pesocheco
      @pesocheco 18 днів тому

      Finishing product = No h0ez

    • @gioromani
      @gioromani 14 днів тому +6

      “Latino Music” was very xenophobic of you.

    • @user-from-montreal
      @user-from-montreal 14 днів тому +35

      ​@@gioromani no... I'm latino and I understand why he said that.
      Latino music, latino nightclubs and parties are very sexual. Latino dances are mostly sexual.

  • @saint-simon1134
    @saint-simon1134 4 дні тому +2

    9:42 you convinced me that you really have the meaning of understanding women psychology. About tha tattoos I remarked also that those women are insecure and have passed trauma that they try to hide.
    They don't look cool for, actually every time when I see a girl with full body tattoo give me a vibe of hide depression.

  • @veo16
    @veo16 22 дні тому +22

    Society has fallen far. Degraded. Where dating has become a sick game. Instead of a simple meeting of two souls. The truth is there are no red flags. Every single person you meet will be somewhere in their journey through life. The person you end up with will have many faults. And you’ll wait forever if you try to find someone who checks some arbitrary list. They are capable of change. And you are capable of compromise. Just go and live your life. You may end up happy.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  22 дні тому +6

      @@veo16 There are the good kind of faults and the bad kinds. It’s not an arbitrary list, it’s a statistical one. And it works. By your logic dating a woman who’s murdered all of her exes is fine because “there are no red flags” and they’re in their “journey through life”. I see your point, and it’s generally true but there are absolutely things we should look out for to ensure healthy relationships.

    • @DevioussKing
      @DevioussKing 4 години тому +1

      Society is structured around human behavior, and I believe with or without it there are still things you would want to watch for in a relationship, like the video describes

  • @marcmeier2148
    @marcmeier2148 24 дні тому +42

    This tierlist videos are fkin fire lately man, keep it up bro sharing this knowledge is key to be prepared in this current generation.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  24 дні тому +3

      Thank you bro! Means a lot that you find it valuable.

    • @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060
      @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 День тому +1

      Prepared to die a virgin and never find love because of unrealistic expectations.

  • @EliteRamon
    @EliteRamon 23 дні тому +103

    if she's pan bi or whatever that's a red flag

    • @Dougm1989
      @Dougm1989 15 днів тому +13

      I would agree with that, something about the thought of any friend of hers she hangs out with being a potential partner or them sleeping with them behind your back doesn't sit right with me either regardless if it's another girl.

    • @user67999
      @user67999 15 днів тому +1

      Agree

    • @PrypiomStudio
      @PrypiomStudio 11 днів тому +1

      Bi I don't think because It's actually existing but pan... Things that are linked to gender 😬

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 6 днів тому

      Cap in at least one singular case, I once met a freaky ASF but loyal(I confirmed this by extremely detailed and extensive research into the contents of her phone, stalked any social media platformed accs she had which weren't very many to my personal knowledge, tested her multiple times a week and interrogated her. I literally went through her phone
      We was freaky as a MF tho fr 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 like gah dawm bro yummy.
      But she was in fact loyal despite having a high sex drive and I confirmed it many times.
      I kinda pushed her away tho I was "way too aggressive" except she literally liked that I was a bad boy 🤣🤣 "oh so u a bad child huh" like bro wtf??????????? It's how we humans work, we be so hypocritical in action frfrfr.
      Maybe I just got a rare freaky, kinda pretty and loyal shorty but trust me it's hard to find I've fumbled/ dumped.a few rls w a few of them tho they're hard to find but out there.

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 6 днів тому

      Bruh and she wanted me to be a "better person" and nicer to her but then she dips
      Women don't make sense cracka, they have this stupid standard of either he's 0.7% of population Tyrone level handsome, athletic, tall, strong, and kind and sexy n rich.
      Well I had 4-5 of those covered + my curls made them go wild.
      Women in this generation are so senseless like they be wanting a bad boy but don't wanna get hurt

  • @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060
    @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 День тому +5

    The tattoo thing doesn't hold much weight. Nerds get tattoos nowadays and it ultimately comes down to personal taste. If they have a neck/face tattoo its a different story though.

    • @coldturkey5333
      @coldturkey5333 8 годин тому

      Im yet to meet a heavily tattooed woman who didn’t have some sort of trauma in her life

  • @constantmotivation8489
    @constantmotivation8489 24 дні тому +49

    I love this tier list video series so much bro

    • @Yosef2-g
      @Yosef2-g 24 дні тому +3

      Yeah it’s hella helpful

    • @khakishark
      @khakishark 22 дні тому +4

      same bro its not just a ranking, its a learning experience

  • @belavera994
    @belavera994 6 днів тому +3

    mixed signals don't mean she has no interest in every case, many women are just insecure, especially when the guy didn't show clear interest and they're still wondering, if he likes them or if he's even single or not, it's different in the getting to know stage though, if there's already been a couple dates and she's still giving mixed signals, then she's either dealing with severe relationship trauma, she's not really interested in the guy or she's trying to play games while getting to know other guys at the same time, all of these options aren't ideal.

  • @matheuskekw
    @matheuskekw 22 дні тому +27

    "career oriented" is so true, it was my canon event

  • @Yungzhef
    @Yungzhef 16 днів тому +28

    Butterfly 🦋 tattoo… RUN

    • @Mystikik
      @Mystikik 11 днів тому +1

      Huh for a butterfly? Why tho?

    • @LilYungSatch
      @LilYungSatch 11 днів тому +7

      @@Mystikikits a trend for some girls to put butterfly tattoos in places where they have cut themselves before which definitely means they’re majorly depressed. Lot of emotional baggage

    • @comcastlover
      @comcastlover 11 днів тому +1

      lol definitely not the reason I have one.

    • @PrypiomStudio
      @PrypiomStudio 11 днів тому +1

      My mom have one and she's an awesome women who stay married to my dad after 30 years of marriage !

    • @Soundeagle3456
      @Soundeagle3456 9 днів тому +1

      @@LilYungSatch or they are mkultra slaves. lol

  • @niepboss3374
    @niepboss3374 24 дні тому +51

    Dating is like fishing
    Looks is the bait that actually gets the fish to bite/the one that sparks interest
    Personality keeps her around/ the fishing line. If you have a weak ass fishing line or personality she gonna leave.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  24 дні тому +15

      This guy gets it

    • @Halo4beatsB02
      @Halo4beatsB02 21 день тому +2

      I don't know about that your looks can take you pretty far.

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 6 днів тому

      ​@@ybctoocoldagreed

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 6 днів тому

      ​@@Halo4beatsB02agreed.

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 6 днів тому

      ​@@Halo4beatsB02I looks improved and grew out my heads hair follicles hair curls. I have curly hair, I have a pretty up there tall height, I have a 6 pack and dressed well , used cologne, and i have a deep and sonourous voice when not complaining ab the latest issue instead of fixing a problem. sometimes still do, circumstance and life context.
      W my 6 foot, interests in linguistics, science, history, art, women, looksmaxxing, and athleticism it was irresistible to some girls but most girls who like me i dont like. So it's not like I didn't attract even tho Im clearly pretty ugly. It takes effort.

  • @JakersField
    @JakersField 4 години тому

    I’m glad you touched on the guy friends. I’ve been called crazy so many times over that argument

  • @VladimirPutin-wt5yh
    @VladimirPutin-wt5yh 4 дні тому +2

    Bro you're doing God's work. Kudos

  • @michaeldawson182
    @michaeldawson182 12 днів тому +20

    I have found that one of the best filters for women is simply seeing how they react when you say no. If they can accept it, that's a green flag, but if they don't ask yourself if you really want to live with that

  • @mehakverma7043
    @mehakverma7043 24 дні тому +70

    How are you gonna put plays videogames as a red flag 😑 your reasoning was that she wouldn’t give you enough attention if she plays too much videogames. Like bruh, everyone plays them, what, so men are a red flag if they play videogames?
    Edit: wanted to add that it’s hard to do something you aren’t interested in if you’re merely doing it for attention. Also, a lot of people play videogames alone, as in, not going online. Women don’t play videogames for attention, e-girls with only fans do.

    • @jellophant9716
      @jellophant9716 24 дні тому

      Men are indeed a red flag if they play videogames

    • @birchgarden2238
      @birchgarden2238 23 дні тому +6

      It's not really about videogames, though the industry has discovered a lot of ways to combine videogames with social interactions, which is the actual thing that get normal girls hooked on. Of course you also got girls that are really interested in videogames as they are, and as such it's just a hobby, but she's engaging in something that most women don't do, so in the spirit of this video (not taking itself too seriously) it is sort of a red flag lol.

    • @mehakverma7043
      @mehakverma7043 23 дні тому +25

      ​@@birchgarden2238 Just because you are an outlier, that doesn't make you a red flag. For example, a black man who was raised in Harlem with a single mother who goes to Harvard is an outlier. That doesn't make him a red flag just because other black men in Harlem raised by single women don't tend to go to college.
      I got into videogames because my brother gave me his ps2 to get an xbox360, so I grew up with crash bandicoot and burnout, and I made my way up to minecraft and fable and whatnot. But my hobby has nothing to do with my femininity or my ability to love a man. Last summer I spent 188 hours playing Skyrim alone. A person just doesn't spend 188 hours for attention and validation.

    • @birchgarden2238
      @birchgarden2238 23 дні тому +10

      @@mehakverma7043 Don't stress too much about certain individual points of this video. It's talking in stereotypes, and it's funny (at least to me) exactly because it's not always true. Girls playing video game is statistically probably more of a red flag than not lol, because girls playing video game is not a red flag sometimes. Btw it's outlier.

    • @mehakverma7043
      @mehakverma7043 23 дні тому +7

      @@birchgarden2238 Okay, yeah that makes sense. It might be like tattoos, where girls with tattoos usually have mental health issues and baggage. But that doesn't mean that just because a girl has a tattoo, she isn't the one.
      edit: oops, sorry for the spelling.

  • @MauryaKaushik
    @MauryaKaushik 19 днів тому +10

    8:05 that was so real-

  • @freesteylerr082
    @freesteylerr082 10 днів тому +16

    how about talking about her ex boyfriends non-stop, sometimes even bragging about them and making you feel insecure

    • @jeanpierrepolnareff9919
      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 8 днів тому +2

      Cut their crap straight on. Theres ways to do this, normally i just ignore them and go do something else(if its a date i go to the bathroom or smoke). In other situations just tell her straight up"i dont care about your ex". Depending on how she reacts, youll know everything you need.

  • @KingKhupacabra
    @KingKhupacabra 6 днів тому +2

    That last one. It’s the truth. Liked this one girl in my 1/2nd year of uni but every time I left her proximity, the energy I felt was low. Something felt off. So I just stopped talking to her. Look wise my type but the connection was so mundane

  • @thepainphantom
    @thepainphantom 4 дні тому +18

    Here's one: thinks she's a 10.
    We love confidence, but not narcissism or delusional ones.

    • @rockagamez7704
      @rockagamez7704 3 дні тому

      that would just fall under big ego

    • @thepainphantom
      @thepainphantom 3 дні тому +1

      @@rockagamez7704 I'd like to think that's the case (as in the past). But with social media trends nowadays it's cancerous. It's a megalomaniac thing and status clout.
      Oh and in some cases, the ones who say she's a 10 are 300 lbs and females on that 'shady categories'🤪

    • @ming454
      @ming454 2 дні тому

      Unless she is actually a 10

    • @rockagamez7704
      @rockagamez7704 2 дні тому

      @@thepainphantom looking too much into man. Those women you are describing think very highly of themselves because they know they are good looking and they use it to their advantage. It's big ego

    • @thepainphantom
      @thepainphantom 2 дні тому +1

      @@ming454 Nobody's a 10.

  • @donaldtrump2728
    @donaldtrump2728 21 день тому +24

    Simps for celebs should be in red flag

  • @ItsDrayTV14689
    @ItsDrayTV14689 23 дні тому +15

    IF SHE STILL SLEEPS WITH HER EX

    • @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060
      @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 День тому +2

      Bro this should go without saying 😂

    • @ItsDrayTV14689
      @ItsDrayTV14689 День тому +1

      @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 I had a good first date with a girl recently and afterwards she texted me she slept with her ex during the weekend 💀
      I didn't care that much since I didn't intend anything serious anyway
      Still it was a wild situation

  • @Indigenous_Rambo
    @Indigenous_Rambo 22 дні тому +6

    Can you do "male hobbys attractiveness to women" tier list? Keep up the great content 👍

  • @michaelb6729
    @michaelb6729 19 днів тому +4

    Great video !
    One of my redflags is whether she keeps her car maintained and clean inside. !
    If the interior is dirty or the Check Engine Light is on constantly . . . . I walk ! hahaha

  • @DevioussKing
    @DevioussKing 4 години тому

    A lot of these red flags reflect men as well, and as such, learned a lot about myself from this video. Thank you for sharing this knowledge.

  • @MalikFlorence-zr3kv
    @MalikFlorence-zr3kv 23 дні тому +8

    an hour video by you would be fire bro

  • @soapygaming1562
    @soapygaming1562 6 днів тому +6

    You forgot talks about her exes a lot

  • @PizzaChess69
    @PizzaChess69 4 дні тому +3

    Thins I would add:
    1) No father/bad relationship with her father/father was a "Nice Guy"
    2) Used to be a prostitute/porn actor/has OnlyFans (I don't need to explain that)
    3) Is not financially responsible
    4) Single mother wanting you to take care of her children (Don't get this wrong, dating single mothers, especially if you're a single father over 30 yourself, is okay on its own as long as you don't have to play the role of being the "father" for her children)
    5) Goes to partys when she's in a relationship (I don't need to explain this either)
    Also, telling women with many guy friends to call them and pretend to be horny is such a genious idea why did I never think about that before watching this video???

  • @j2kpr368
    @j2kpr368 День тому

    Hit right in the spot with the feeling good about being clingy but not liking it in the long run

  • @Kylesalt-od4cr
    @Kylesalt-od4cr 2 дні тому +2

    My ex was one of those girls with way too many guy friends. The majority of our conversations would be about her guy friends and her latest conversations with them. She would snap random guys she hasnt met before, stay up late to call her guy friends, and before we started dating, she talked about how many times shes been rejected, aswell as ranting to me about how a guy rejected her. Even when she asked me out to our first date, she immediately started talking about another guy she likes. I didn't recognize how big of an issue this was at the time, even though it was such a huge red flag, and i still persued her anyways like a dumbass. Throughout the relationship, hearing about all her guy friends pretty much all the time made me feel as if i wasn't enough for her, so i texted her a lot more because i felt she would leave me for another guy if i didnt. She broke up with me for this after a lot of conversation about it, and oh my god if that isnt the best decision someone else has ever made for me. She had so many other red flags ontop of this, but i wont get into it. She always told me "im a loyal and loving girlfriend", yet she never showed for it, and thats why she emphasized it so much. Becuase she wasn't.
    Anyways, moral of the story, NEVER EVER overlook a red flag. Do not give them your heart because theyll just destroy it. It becomes so much more trouble than it needs to be. If shes truly the one, things will develop naturally and smoothly. If roadblocks appear, its a sign of trouble. Run.

    • @HarryMcLeod-q8p
      @HarryMcLeod-q8p День тому

      Yeah, I had a gf in the summer who had loads of red flags, but I was too infatuated to look past them. She had guy friends, went on day trips and said she thinks she gets bored of guys.

  • @thomasdemetz6145
    @thomasdemetz6145 9 днів тому +4

    I mostly agree on those, but a girl without humor should be a major red flag. Let me explain: she does not understand your jokes, takes everything too seriously, constant need to explain yourself to her. Humor is what keeps marriages alive, to be able to laugh about ourselves and our mistakes and weaknesses.
    Plus you missed:
    - "Single Mothers" -> communist flag, run for your life
    (widow may be exception to this rule)

  • @Speculector
    @Speculector 2 дні тому +1

    My older cousin who graduated valedictorian and is currently married gave me this dating advice:
    "I'll let you in on a little secret, all women are crazy."

  • @zdopezz3744
    @zdopezz3744 11 днів тому +2

    I wouldve ranked "competitive" and "carreer oriented" way lower. Imo I would rather date a girl, who knows what her goals are and what she wants to achieve in life, rather than a girl who is just at home all day/out partying, etc.. and more likely doing nothing with her time. Id say, it could actually improve the relationship, if both of you are succesfull at your profession.

  • @blackthorn7298
    @blackthorn7298 2 дні тому +2

    Wow. You just took some of the most attractive things I find in women and put them into red flags. I guess i am not dating anyone then.

  • @SI-Omen
    @SI-Omen Годину тому

    "Call him, pretend to be horny, and see what he does" is actually a genius response.

  • @zeranderman4170
    @zeranderman4170 23 дні тому +4

    Wtf did i just discover bro this channel is a gem 🔥

  • @IM-qq4zn
    @IM-qq4zn 11 днів тому +8

    Thank you. it is an absolute fact that women with tattoos tend to lean closer to the devil. but it is important to hold men with tattoos accountable too, because they're the same sides of the same coin.

  • @Az00069
    @Az00069 3 дні тому +1

    When they talk about their confidence that's a BIG 🚩 for me. You kinda covered it with insecure.
    A nicer way to put it is that some humbleness is a green flag. 👍
    We know they're attracted to confidence!
    Where they mess up is they project thinking we're going to be attracted to that quality in the same way.
    I honestly find it disgusting when confidence is something they brag about. Too masculine for me. ✋
    I'm attracted to feminine traits. As Theo Von said "look lost" 😂 I wanna feel like she doesn't have it all under control so I can help her.

  • @briansmoothie7854
    @briansmoothie7854 9 днів тому +4

    Playing video games is a big green flag for me and piercings aren’t too big of a deal as long as her tongue isn’t

  • @bergermaniz4812
    @bergermaniz4812 День тому +1

    I agree and disagree with a lot of these but Withholds Femininity=won't do all my chores later IS WILD I thought it would be like "Doesn't want to have sex" but no, having this expectation out of someone is wild. (Not talking shit to the people that want a traditional marriage/relationship but expecting one is fucked up.)

  • @pringleshotspicy5282
    @pringleshotspicy5282 8 днів тому +3

    putting 'pick me' in the orange category is just wild to me, should be a huggeee red flag but i guess its easier for women to spot a pick me than for men

  • @AG26498
    @AG26498 18 днів тому +2

    I would add, "earns money through social media". Now, if it's art, or music that's fine. I am talking about ASMR 'artists'. You better be sure there are thousands of simps in her DM's

  • @kevinj894
    @kevinj894 9 днів тому +7

    Bruh the mixed signal one is spot on, its like she is into you, but she isn't in a rush to date you, like you're not a priority, but she doesn't want to miss out on someone who has potential.

    • @jeanpierrepolnareff9919
      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 8 днів тому +3

      When youre younger you can play around with women like that. Once you have to work for hours on end every week and take care of other responsibilities, these women arent worth your time, just ignore them. Funmily enough, that will make them chase you more

  • @caseyjones6662
    @caseyjones6662 17 днів тому +3

    I agree with everything but the video game one. I've dated plenty of gamer girls that are balanced. Some even value me more than the games. I think its just how the girls personality is.

    • @graveraider1029
      @graveraider1029 15 днів тому

      I do not think this guy actually plays video games and his input on girls who game is telling thinking they all do it for attention which is honestly rare bro, I have met a lot of girls who are better at games than dudes.

    • @Soundeagle3456
      @Soundeagle3456 9 днів тому

      @@graveraider1029 yes we get it women are superior RA RA RA, lol fuck off.

  • @bigcharva909
    @bigcharva909 13 днів тому +27

    Love how the content creator won't reply to this because the guy's never pulled a woman it's actually jokes, I've known women without tattoos and piercings and there absolute menaces, your evidence is false buddy, keep making videos for the "woman-less" crew

    • @chromastrophe
      @chromastrophe 13 днів тому

      this monkey put "Doesn't reciprocate" below "Plays video games", you can't make this shit up ☠️☠️

    • @polaroid5711
      @polaroid5711 13 днів тому +1

      I think he meant women with a lot of tattoos, like sleeves, for example. If she’s got Dua Lipa’s amount & style of tattoos, then I think that’s fine

    • @bigcharva909
      @bigcharva909 13 днів тому +5

      @polaroid5711 yeye I respect that honestly, it's the fact I used to know these girls and they had no tattoos or piercings and they was clubbing and they was constantly meeting boys in the area I live around, but yeah I 100% agree with you. By the way I'm talking to this girl she has a few piercings and tattoos but they do have meaning behind them one about a past away pet or about her family.

    • @frieren848
      @frieren848 10 днів тому

      @@bigcharva909 brother you're focusing on the tattoos and piercings only but what about the other traits? whether they get inked/pierced or not is irrelevant when they have bigger red flags to worry about
      i don't like OP either or the way he made this video but you're being Fkn restarted by wasting your time thinking about club h03s

    • @bigcharva909
      @bigcharva909 10 днів тому

      @@frieren848 are you silly in the head where did I once worry about club 304s? My statement is that I've known women with no tats and no piercings buddy yet they was 304s and they used to go with new men each time. Well done I know they're other red flags but my statement is clearly talking about strictly tattoos and piercings, they're not outright red flags?

  • @Neuroszima
    @Neuroszima День тому

    9:49 - maybe because it is sign of "independence", like "i do with my body whatever i want, and you can't influence that", that is a sign of deeper "i do ___ whatever i want, and you can't influence that"

  • @toongamer2810
    @toongamer2810 24 дні тому +12

    Finding a high interest girl is so hard, it doesn't help that the narrative historically is that we're supposed to "chase" them. I'm so exhausted at this point, I don't wanna chase and dance around for her like a jester just to be able to potentially have her like me back.
    But then we stop approaching and it's "why don't guys approach anymore" or "there are no good men left."
    Like please, for once either give us more clear signs, or take initiative and ask us for a change. A relationship is a two player game. I can't be pining for you while you don't give af about me.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  23 дні тому +5

      It might be hard but it’s not impossible. Becoming the type of man that women choose is a must if you want to avoid being a jester and chasing after scraps. That’s why I recommend holding out and being alone for a while instead of chasing. At the same time though, it’s important to have good social skills and be able to talk to women in the way they want to be spoken to. Unfortunately they’ll just never approach you no matter how good looking you are (unless you’re a celeb). So you still have to approach, but after picking up on signals that she WANTS to be approached. A woman who chooses you first makes your life infinitely easier. And yes sometimes that involves dropping your ego and going for a girl that doesn’t look like a super model. It all depends on what you realistically want. You got this bro

  • @ajanbeko5707
    @ajanbeko5707 4 дні тому +1

    Best red flag video

  • @iGhostr
    @iGhostr 24 дні тому +10

    Before watching the video:
    Has tattoos is orange

  • @Andmaj
    @Andmaj 12 днів тому +2

    needs a remake but with EVERY red flag!. these are basic ones

  • @LivingParable693
    @LivingParable693 15 днів тому +9

    Bro, please do a male red flags. I swing both ways. Kappa. But seriously tho, that would be interesting and an opportunity for us bros to self reflect to be our best selves.

  • @Neuroszima
    @Neuroszima День тому

    Conjecture - most "tierlist videos" put items in tiers in a way that, after final item is "graded", end up normally or normally-like distributed

  • @Gabriella_Macy
    @Gabriella_Macy 24 дні тому +3

    Keep this kinda content coming 🔥

  • @pg9739
    @pg9739 16 днів тому +16

    girls with tats def a red flag. prolly the first red flag you can see without talking/approaching her. easy.

    • @gene6794
      @gene6794 11 днів тому +6

      One or two small tats are fine for me, as long as they’re not stupid ones and have some form of meaning to them. Where they’re placed on the body definitely matters for me as well.

  • @Unknown-px6lm
    @Unknown-px6lm 22 дні тому +16

    Phone addict is the most common one we're done for boys

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  21 день тому +3

      We’re cooked 🤣

    • @rastafit23
      @rastafit23 20 днів тому

      😂😂

    • @Dougm1989
      @Dougm1989 15 днів тому +2

      To be fair though alot of ppl are regardless of gender

    • @Unknown-px6lm
      @Unknown-px6lm 15 днів тому

      @@Dougm1989 Yeah but women are affected at a higher level by it to the point they've become delusional and thinking 90% of men that they come across are unattractive due to see one attractive man on social media comparing them to every men they come across.

  • @thomasliangus
    @thomasliangus 14 днів тому +1

    Man! This video is Classic! Thanks!

  • @insetticida5918
    @insetticida5918 11 годин тому

    bro great video❤

  • @clipsmovil8322
    @clipsmovil8322 15 днів тому +2

    hmmm, agree with everything except the phone addiction, to me that should be in the DANGER zone, its not only about the dopamine receptors, if she is addict to her phone is probably addict to external validation and always will have other guy in reserve if you dont give her the attention she want, not the attention she needs but the attention she wants

  • @pawrra1412
    @pawrra1412 День тому +1

    Mate you need to start viewing women as people. If you don't want a career oriented woman, don't get with someone career operated - doesn't make it a red flag, just a personal preference. Half of these things should just be considered your opinion and definitely not given as a universal truth.
    Having healthy friendships of both genders is a green flag. You can be close to someone and realise that a romantic relationship isn't the right dynamic for both people. Why wouldn't you be friends with a career oriented woman?
    Plenty of women have male friends they don't see as 'back-up' options. You can value someone whilst not wanting to be their life partner. Learn to value women as people first, then the deep relationships follow.

  • @enoch727
    @enoch727 5 днів тому

    I agree on most of the points except the guy friend one. I can understand why having too many of them might be a red flag but having one or two isn't necessarily a red-flag. We're all humans and I think the presumption that all the interaction we have with the opposite gender has lustful intent then it will just make dating more awkward.

  • @Klasik616
    @Klasik616 21 день тому +14

    Most girls out there have everything of this

  • @JayHoga82
    @JayHoga82 20 днів тому +1

    That list was awesome. Great job.

  • @yoshihisaokada4039
    @yoshihisaokada4039 4 дні тому

    The last one is everything imao

  • @mariosaucedo6234
    @mariosaucedo6234 7 днів тому +1

    Don’t entirely agree with all of this and so far things have been really great with me and I’m dating a gamer girl. It’s been more than a year now. Also there’s a couple of stuff that could be taken into account, some people could be aware of their own flags and try to work on them. So maybe an idea for a future video could be a green flags list. I would include self improvement in there since anyone that tries to work on themselves for the better is always a green flag for me. Especially because if they’re working on the red flags, I met someone that was working on that and I can say that the progress she made is really good. Obviously I had to work on some stuff of my own as well but we’ve been progressing together.

  • @shitstorm7428
    @shitstorm7428 13 днів тому +6

    Social media is incredibly addictive and over the past decade it's only become more addictive and predatory, it just seems that everywhere I go people are just looking at their phones doom scrolling. On the street, people walking down the road with earphones and scrolling, in the gym, people sitting on the benches for ages scrolling and scrolling instead of actually lifting weights. Everyone feels the constant need to take a picture of something to show off online, their dinner, their shoes, a selfie especially girls do this. I feel very lucky that my current gf is not like this and sees sharing personal life on social media as a negative thing and pretty much only uses her phone for texting and calling, but my ex was a full on social media junkie and it was the most depressing relationship ever. In my opinion this the worst red flag as it is a building block to things like insecurity, phone addiction, too many guy friends and so on.

  • @imanolproaso3141
    @imanolproaso3141 15 днів тому +10

    Incel tier

  • @53cconadailee46
    @53cconadailee46 10 годин тому

    I would put simping for celebs a red flag. That's the girl that get's a DM from any relatively famous person and cheats on you with him.

  • @nathantanti8283
    @nathantanti8283 24 дні тому +3

    Bro this vid is funny af 😂

  • @cassidy1203
    @cassidy1203 11 днів тому +3

    bro this vid proved me to be happy im not attracted to men thx

    • @scrambledeggs1677
      @scrambledeggs1677 7 днів тому +3

      for real, the comment section is just pathetic and it makes sense why people who view women like this aren't in good relationships. this guy's content is so sad, he uses photos of attractive women for clickbaiting incels rofl

    • @cassidy1203
      @cassidy1203 6 днів тому +3

      @ at first I thought it’s just a rage bait to get attention but then I realized these losers are really thinking this way and it’s just horrifying

  • @Guilherme-nc5li
    @Guilherme-nc5li 12 днів тому +1

    Agree with most of them, but you can tell it was a really young gut that did it

  • @JK-nj3bt
    @JK-nj3bt 23 дні тому +10

    Don't date at all its cringe

  • @tobilliontv7276
    @tobilliontv7276 23 дні тому +5

    You forgot never apologies

  • @llkjhv8250
    @llkjhv8250 22 дні тому +3

    How the hell is being career oriented is higher than simping over celebrities and being loud🤦🏼

    • @Gelato41_
      @Gelato41_ 10 днів тому

      their career is the Carousel

    • @Em.thebabyyy
      @Em.thebabyyy 7 днів тому

      I mean being career oriented is usually something masculine. Honestly that’s not a quality that you should really want in a female. That’s even worse than being passive.

  • @Ieozawa
    @Ieozawa 7 годин тому

    can you do a video about red flag signs but like on an LDR type relationship

  • @bvdh9071
    @bvdh9071 18 днів тому +19

    red flag : votes liberal / get's unhinged when hearing the name '' Trump''

  • @Dougm1989
    @Dougm1989 15 днів тому +2

    I like your way of puting women in there place about guy friends an telling them to call an pretend to be horny well done my friend!

  • @prfoks1344
    @prfoks1344 24 дні тому +5

    Are you sure about this list? There is literally no woman below BE CAREFULL category.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  23 дні тому +3

      You have to be careful with 99% of women nowadays anyways. Im sure.

  • @ming454
    @ming454 2 дні тому

    I wouldn't put phone addiction higher than orange flag, it's too usual nowadays for both men and women and at the same time totally fixable.

  • @ecommerce430
    @ecommerce430 7 днів тому

    I agree with your every video, you earned a sub g

  • @Apep88
    @Apep88 21 день тому +11

    Tattoos and piercings are major red flag

    • @bigcharva909
      @bigcharva909 21 день тому

      In some cases maybe, it depends how many, stop being delusional it's considered a yellow flag at best not a major red flag your soft is what it is

    • @bigcharva909
      @bigcharva909 21 день тому

      No you're delusional in some cases this is a factor and depends on how many tattoos but other than that keep thinking these 2 are red flags when they're not and you cannot even justify why they're

    • @Apep88
      @Apep88 20 днів тому +4

      ​@@bigcharva909 In my experience, every time I meet a woman with tattoos, she tells me what mischief she's done and if you listen closely, she tells you what else she's going to do. Especially women under 25 with tattoos, she's already got a lot of roof damage. There is no Logical or /healthy Emotional state which tells you "YOU NEED A TATTOO OR PIERCINGS"

    • @bigcharva909
      @bigcharva909 20 днів тому +2

      @@Apep88 listen you've no knowledge whatsoever, so you wanna generalise every woman with tattoos and piercings, you're wrong, I've know girls without tattoos or piercings and they're absolute menaces going to clubs and everything so once again you fail to justify

    • @staybased9320
      @staybased9320 13 днів тому +2

      don't forget dyed hair

  • @nathanw9770
    @nathanw9770 24 дні тому +13

    99% of women have piercings. I think its only an orange/red flag if they are anywhere other than the ears. Same if they have more than 5 or so tattoos.

    • @ChloeFuller-n8x
      @ChloeFuller-n8x 21 день тому

      Incredibly delusional once again another one who's spouts nonsense

  • @Carlos15Romero21
    @Carlos15Romero21 6 днів тому +2

    Could you do green flag tier list?

  • @JobeeTabs
    @JobeeTabs 24 дні тому +5

    here before you get 100k subs

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  24 дні тому

      Appreciate the love brother

  • @spider-jonah-man7148
    @spider-jonah-man7148 День тому

    I can’t bro dude is too funny😂. But he’s right