ADVANTAGES OF DATING A YOUNG FILIPINA!!!
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Join me in this lively conversation as we look at the benefits of dating a young Filipina. Learn why having fewer partners may lead to greater relationships, the enthusiasm we offer when trying new things, our less demanding personality, and our upbeat outlook. While every relationship is different, recognizing these cultural observations may give significant insights into the dating and relationship scene. Don't miss out on this enthralling discussion! Now press the play button and let's get started!
I tried dating a younger Filipina. Not a bar girl, just a young pretty province girl. I knew she was poor. I did my best to help her. It all fell apart when she accidentally sent an email to me that she had intended to send to another man. And email that revealed that her "nephew" was actually her son. Once that one lie was revealed all her other lies came crashing down like a house of cards.
I did that with a rich white girl from Georgetown DC. We got married. Had a kid. It turned into a sexless ordeal. 35 years and split. She always had many drinks per day and always had the high roller criminal on her mind. My gf is 42 with a kid of ten. She shares me with her 32yo gf plus kid of ten. Mom and dad thanked me for educating the kids etc. I feel for you man.
@@spudgn She shares you with her gf? That's very generous
note to self… be very careful and get to know the girl before making any big moves!
@@coms00 Someone once told me - Never make ANY serious decisions during the Infatuation Stage .
Over time I found that when the infatuation stage was over , I didn't want to make any serious decisions anyway ...
So probs best to do in person
The loyalty, enthusiasm and affection of a 20 year old Filipina is an amazing thing, but be ready for her instability and immaturity.
Married a young Filipina. Now married 15 years with 2 kids. Best decision ever.
Me to
Congratulations Mia🎉
You have grown as a person so much. Congrats on 21k! You did a wonderful job on discussing the positive qualities of dating a young Filipina. You’re very accurate. It’s my experience if a young Filipina has been raised traditionally with a loving stable family she could make a huge positive influence on a partner. I know provincial young Filipinas to be much more mature than their Western counterparts. They are not self centered and are willing to work harder than any young Western woman in unpleasant conditions. I find young Filipinas to be more free to be who they are than Western young women who are heavily influenced by consumerism, materialism and competition. Keep up the great work 🎉
Thank you very much! Thank you for your warm words and encouragement. It means a great deal to me.
Well said ✨🙏🏻✨
I’ve been talking to a young 24 year old Filipina. I’m 37, I usually don’t go this young to be honest, but I am really enjoying how sensitive, thoughtful, kind and direct she is. I like how beautiful she is obviously. But I love her caring nature. We’ll see how it goes.
Mia, very well explained... you understand your culture as well as ours very well!! I have been with my younger Filipina wife for 14 years (31years difference in age) and what you say is so true.
I lived in the Philippines for 2.5 years before meeting my wife and understand... If you treat a good Flipina with respect, stay faithful, you will both enjoy life to the fullest 🙂
well said Sir
You got a good one right there :-)
@@filipinalifewithmia5208 Thank you very much.
God bless you and your family...
When you said "maybe they chose to identify as a bicycle, who knows any more in the west?" I felt like I could both laugh and cry at the same time because it's so true. After all, just last weekend, for the first time ever a transwoman has won Miss Netherlands. That's right, supposedly the most beautiful woman in the Netherlands is actually a man. I'm not from the Netherlands, but I'm also from a central european country and I think I've seen enough of this madness.
I seen that wow it just keeps getting worse. Just like when Caitlyn Jenner won woman of the year, he had only been a woman for a few months and somehow was the best choice for woman of the year LOL!!!!!
Men are better at everything, even being a woman! Crazy chit!
HAHAHAHAHAHA yah, me too. LOL. There are a lot of weird things going on in the West when it comes to gender. I can't grasp all the happenings.
@@filipinalifewithmia5208 Don't worry, most of us Westerners can't grasp it either.
For all you guys who think I'm wrong , stop the money and see how long it lasts,,
Super agree.
Good way to test the woman.
Well said Mia... I'm dating a young Filipina in Cebu, and I get Great pleasure in seeing her "joy and delight" from enjoying new experiences together!! Even simple daily life chores or tasks are a pleasure to share with her...
Congrats!
There is a lot of insight in this video. My wife is not Filipina, but she is much younger and less experienced. Our love and excitement is genuine without being tainted by a lurid past. First choice? Maybe I was her ONLY choice, but together we have created a truly extraordinary life.
Again, I’m compelled to acknowledge your candor and sincerity are adorable and worth gold in these tumultuous times. I’m sure your husband is grateful to have you around to comfort his difficult days. When I arrive I would hope there are more like yourself to have a smile and an open heart to ease my mind of the pain this country has caused. Well done sister, well done.😊
Hi Mia..fantastic stuff as always! Fifteen years ago when I was looking for my Filipina online, I wanted to meet a young lady for the reasons you provide. However, I was wary of maturity issues that came with dating a young lady. So to counter this, I would only speak to ladies that either graduated from college or had some college experience, like yourself. Why is this? Going to college proves that you have some smarts and college is an experience that makes all of us grow, prove maturity and accept responsibility. I'm glad I had this extra demand because it paid off in the long run. I got married to a 22 year old college grad and she was mature and smart for her age. BTW, dating site search engines do allow you to add college as a search parameter for those of you currently looking.
Thank you very much for your wonderful words! It's wonderful to hear that you had a nice experience in finding a partner that fulfilled your standards and that your additional effort paid off in the end. Seeking a partner who has finished college or has some college experience can help you assess their level of education, maturity, and accountability. Individuals can gain excellent life experiences and possibilities for personal growth by attending college. However, a college degree does not determine a person's maturity or intelligence. Each person is unique; you may come across someone with a college degree who lacks maturity.
I love the happy, optimistic attitude that many Filipinas have. I am like this as well. I look forward to when I am in the Philippines and I can celebrate life with a lovely Filipina ❤
You are a fantastic speaker. Your content is well-prepared and authentic, and your presentation is flawless.
I appreciate that :-)
Wow, young lady. You are such a delight. I know your husband is proud to have you by his side.
“You can’t take the bar out of the bar girl “. There is a lot of truth to that. Once they get used to that money, they are generally unmotivated to do anything else.
Mia, you are so well-spoken, with a fantastic vocabulary and wisdom that seems to be far beyond your years. It has been quite a while since I caught up with you, and I thoroughly enjoyed your take on this subject. Your attitude, candor and effervescence on-screen is incredible. You are a tribute to all Filipinas.
boy howdy
Thank you so much!
Mia!!! I am shocked you knew that 5+ sexual partner stat. BRAVO! I feel like women don't know this or do not want to know this to justify their actions! You need a girl who can pairbond as well as someone who can practice delayed gratification! very very important
Yep, because it's obvious, the more partners you had, the less bond you felt towards the next person since your emotions kind of felt like slowly detaching from that person. You will feel like, Uh, maybe this relationship will end, and you know you'll just move on directly after your relationship ends. So yeah, it's better to have fewer partners and have a deeper bond than just fool around and not feel the love, the security, and the contentment.
I found my girl she’s 28 and my age is 36,we videochat every day for 3 hours or longer.I meet her in January ❤ and we are so in love.Also talking for future plans!Our love is so strong,and I love her sooooo much.With Every heartbeat I thinking about her!
Good for you, sir!
Hi.
I"m done with dating young Philippinas.
My still wife turns this year 30. When i met and marry her she was 25.
Now 4 Years later we are in the divorce process.
I done nothing bad to her. She simply changed her behavior after she come to my country.
I like Philippina women. But if i ever take one then she must be at least 35
Why i looked for Philippinas? Because many told me they are loyal. They not more loyal then any other women in the world.
Thanl:s always for your interesting videos.
U were just unlucky
U just met a bad one :-)
A bad woman is a bad woman no matter where from....
thats u homeboy maybe you screw up
Makes me want a Filipina!!! Im41 in the United States!! In love all ready!!!
What your saying is true what my mother said about my first wife that can’t be changed regardless unless they want change or better themselves! Yes you are very true about unable to partner and bond if they have fewer partners!
I have lived in various European and North American countries, and dated women in those various countries. From my experiences, many of those women had negative baggage and/or where on psychotropic medications. I currently live in Central America, where women feel they only have to bring beauty and physical attributes to the table. I plan on visiting the Phillipines in the near future. If I were to get into a relationship, it would be with a traditional and educated Filipina. I have dated a professional Filipina in the U.S. years ago, and still have very fond memories of the relationship, to this day!
My daughter inlaw is an American filipina. So at family events we have both Filipino and American food. I found 3 dishes I just don't like. These are dried fish, dinuguan, and especially balut. After I tried balut I felt sick to my stomach and thought I was going to vomit. I'm sure some of it was psychosomatic, but I'm never eating balut again. If it was the last thing on earth to eat, I'd die. 🤣🤣
Ohh.. not all also filipino loves balot 😅 personally i dont like too
Ha, I tried after 5 months here. Forced myself so I did not insult the husband & wife who offered it .. and "to try". Okay, I tried and won't again.
before I hear any of this video (besides the opening sentiments as I write this) for me, I have 1- wanted someone younger than me as I want plenty of kids and it takes time to chat, get to know, meet, propose, marry, and even get your spouse to the USA (I have heard 24 months time is very standard to get someone you are married through the marriage visa process...correct me If I am wrong)
So, if it takes 1 year between first chatting and visiting the Philippines (and you propose at that time which yes is fast),
another year before the wedding,
and 2 years after the wedding before they get to the USA.
Then you are looking at adding 4 years to the woman's age before you start trying for kids
(ignoring the honeymoon and starting right when they get to the USA with you)
at 30 years old she has lost 90% of her eggs...and at 35 years old it is considered a geriatric pregnancy (high risk) at that time. if you want even 3 kids before she is 35 and assume 1 every other year that's another 6 years....so between meeting and having 3 kids with the woman it will take about 10 years time!! so you need to meet a 25 year old max just to fit it into that timing.
I think most girls do not consider this when they shame men for looking at younger girls.
Then you have to avoid the girls who just want college support in the Philippines
As well as those who just graduated college, want to marry you, say it is not your burden to pay her parent's back, and refuse to have kids for however long after marriage because all she should do is work...
I would argue from my point above that you should want to have 3 kids BEFORE she turns 30. So instead of 25 you are looking at 20 years of age....
On top of that 90% of the Filipinas I have talked to on multiple dating apps from pinalove, blossoms, Christiaan Filipina. They have had at least 1 sexual partner. If an American is going overseas and is running from the sexed up hoes of the west.... He is looking at the stats like a girl with 5 sexual partners vs 0 on her wedding night have a 20% chance of a happy marriage after 10 years if she gets married at all...compared to virgins on their wedding night have an 80% chance of a happy marriage after 10 years.
So if you want a good girl (virgin) who will make a good wife and you want at least 3 kids and don't want to risk eggs from her last 10% (post 30) or geriatric pregnancies that are high risk (post 35) then you really are looking for a younger than 25 year old, realistically closer to 20 especially if you are not proposing right away, having kids as soon as she gets to the USA, want more than 3 kids, or want a good virgin girl...
I think if people understood what the average guy wants and the risks of an older or more seasoned woman, then they would not ridicule someone being a passport bro who is 30 or so looking for a 20 year old girl, because that is the only way to get what they want.
Well said
Please 25 word's or less, I didn't read ur line of crap
Wow.....overthinking a little there maybe...that could of been a book
You seem to have certain preferences and concerns regarding age, fertility, and relationship dynamics. When it comes to finding a partner, it's crucial to understand that everyone has different interests and priorities. Remember that relationships are complicated and unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Just be very careful, though; you may meet some girls who are conniving.
Thanks and well written
I know and wish you well.
Another Very Good Video. Videos like this are priceless and a great thing to share to the world. It is truly Great to see these videos. Best wishes to your Future.
My pleasure!
This woman is more wise than 10,000 western women imho. You know more about men and women than I have seen my whole life in my western country. All the best🫶
Excellent video... and superb handling of this sensitive subject 👍
Glad you enjoyed it!
My ex wife had many more partners than me. I over looked it and tried to change her but it didn’t work. After 8 years of marriage it ended in divorce.
Oops, sorry to hear that.
Did she get rewarded by the family judge for her behavior?
So that makes the break-up her fault...after 8 years...??? Dude take a look in the mirror...you see a saint...??? I'm pretty sure you see a moron...Cheers
It's always a pleasure listening to you on your shows. You do make finding the right Filipina better than winning the lottery. I agree 👍 but sometimes winning the lottery has some downside also. 🦋 A lot of happiness is the result of one's own expectations and attitude. ☕🤠
So happy that your subscriber base is growing! Good topic and again such a pleasure to listen and see your face🤗 Keep The great videos coming!
Yah, me too. Thanks for watching :-)
This is one of the best videos because this is exactly what I want in my life, laughter peace, joy, love, trust, and a woman who loves me for me and we have a good peaceful relationship. You are very beautiful I know you’re married, but I am definitely going out to get my Filipina Very soon because I know I would be a good husband
Have a blessed day Mia
I’m a good man and I wish I could find a good woman to enjoy my life with I think Filipino women are so nice and kind and gentle and I’m a strong man who will take care of my wife I want to be in love again
I am single, no children and I want to start a new life
Yep, we all deserve that kind of relationship. No one deserves a relationship where there is pure chaos and negativity.
I wish I could find a Filipino woman like you is very educated very well spoken and smiles, and enjoys life and we could be working together strong on a marriage
20th yr w/ my wonder woman/wife from Leyte ! Best phone call I ever made . She's 46 now ..looks 26 !!! College degrees ..Solid / high quality person ...full of enthusiasm for each new day ! Gotta be sure to get enough sleep and vitamins !! Don't wanna lose this one 😲
10 minute long video, but she nailed it completely within the first minute. That's one hell of an intro 😂
HAHA tnx
❤ Congratulations Mia!!! Your Husband is Soo Lucky to Have you with All of your Wisdom!
Thank you Mia for your beautiful thoughts delivered by a beautiful person. We do not have Western women like you in the USA unfortunately! I subscribed and I'm looking forward to more guidance in the future.
Great video, you really captured the beauty of the Philippines women
This is so true. I took my wife out of the province, but I can't take the province out of my wife. That's a good thing. She is a good country girl!
You are so smart ! Thank you for the wonderful video 🌺
Also, meeting a young filipina u just got to be aware. They will stick to older men for monetary reason and will still seek physical gratification with younger men, of course. This is a fact.
I would be pleased to get to know you. You're goergeous, intelligent and not spoiled.
Thank you, but I am happily married to my husband :-)
Congratulations on the success of your UA-cam channel. I am looking forward to your new posts with your hubby!
Thank you. I'm excited too :-)
💯 Mia 😃 you are so right , I agree totally,
and i speak out of experience 😉
I enjoyed your vivid and joyful video a lot 😄
Wonderful!
@@filipinalifewithmia5208 😃
A beautiful wise head on young shoulders. Lovely to watch and listen to you.. Such lovely people.
The town bicycle line put me in stitches. 😂😂😂
Good Video Mia 😊. Moving to the Philippines 🇵🇭 this year. Not looking for a bargain bar girl. Hopefully someone similar like you. Keep the videos coming.
Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
Best of luck!
I do agree ... I have spent much time in the Philippines and you seem to be a very wonderful woman ... Good luck to you always ...
Thank you for sharing so. Many good points to think about.
Thanks for watching!
It's always a pleasure to watch your . Mia ❤❤
Absolutely refreshing!❤. You’ve gained a subscriber! Yay
A lot of your pointers are on point
My main reason for going to Philippines was to seek a gf in her 20’s!
I was in my 40’s and already divorced and living in California working as an RN Director of Quality Management. I make a stable salary and have a nice home and cars but their is a big stigmatism when I take a 20 y/o nursing student or young girl that I met at the gym on a date. In California this girl is going to feel uncomfortable that she looks like she’s an “escort”. Sure I could have found a gf here but it would have been much different and the girls in CA are a lot different than young girls in PHL.
Anyway I’m happy that I met my 24y/o Pinay and very lucky that she was raised by a very stable family, her papa provided a nice home and her mom also worked hard and had a small Internet cafe. My gf spoke perfect English and was very aware of how foreign men act towards a young Filipina.I respected her for being a mature young girl who was not desperately seeking a relationship with a grandpa.
Anyway, I’m happy for you and Paul and your future with him. I married my young Filipina, we remodeled her family home and now I travel back and forth to stay there. Obviously riding my bicycles and spending time together. Unfortunately her papa passed away so it’s just her mom and daughter there now.
Good luck to you all.
Thank you for all your knowledge in kind words you're a good in every race are scammers in every race too my girlfriend is the Philippines their loyal Filipinas are loyal and they like to work with you I don't know what makes you happy I want to know what makes her happy too show me my girl we always talk everyday when I bought her everyday I love you videos the biggest fan Cedric when you bring another video up I will watch it have a great morning evening or night❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Happy New Year
Very interesting and great vlog Mia, you have a good head on your shoulders. Most time people just have to go into these things with eyes open and not be naive.
Yep
You have just sealed the deal for me. I am definitely on the hunt for my Filipina. I will be moving out there permanently next year.
Hey, do you have a twin sister?😂😂😂❤️
Wow, so smart and reasonable.
Lots of truth is spoken here. i came into a conclusion i want to meet a young Filipina, after dating a few here in my country. I dated both young and mature, both seemed to have more of a baggage in their life`s. still they were very sweet i wouldn`t overrule them as partners as a whole, however, being younger guy myself in my late 20`s i felt i want to meet a Filipina who didn`t went through the grinder of having to leave her family and commit to an employer overseas. it seemed more logical to me to meet someone who can commit to a relationship and i can provide some security to her and her family and our future family. currently me and my girl are LDR since i still gotta work, but weve met in person a couple of time, i miss her every day its hard.
Do not bring your Filipina to the USA. I brought my Filipina wife to the USA, and three months later she wanted a divorce even though the law requires at least two years to be here in the USA, she left me in three months. My ex-wife is a scammer.
My advice to everyone. Never bring a Filipina to your country. Did the first chance she gets she will leave you because of the opportunities of younger men and more wealthy men or at her disposal who would not hesitate to snatch her up . And she knows this and she hides it from you. But you won't know until it's too.
Such good knowledge Mia, Salamat
Salamat too!
Your English is excellent!
Thanks :-)
Thank YOU, Mia! I always like your content.
Great video..thanks Mia..!🙂
Thanks for watching :-)
Great video the amount of effort you put in this is astonishing. Keep going! :)
Thanks a ton!
Yes spot on you cant take the bar out of the girl
great content. appreciate the information.
Thanks for watching!
She is so right.
Always nice commentary. I must add that a bar girl can become a housewife if she makes the change within herself and exercises discipline. We all have the capacity to become better than we were the day before. And although it's possible, her options of finding her ideal man will be limited because of her past choices.
It's not that. Bar girls support a family so be prepared to be the "bar/money" replacement when you choose one.
I agree.
nice message, thanks 😊
A great video and perspective!! I was kind of curious about age numbers for young and middle age!!! Some maturity does come with age !!!
Cool channel, good advice.
Thanks :-)
there are many pros and cons to this story, one thing I have learned though through UA-cam videos, is that you involve your self with a young Pilipino, is that her family will expect a lot from the guy. Money plays a very important role in these relationships. It seems that there are much more problems and insecurities within these relationships if they are long distance. Young women in your country have needs, and many will find others to help support themselves and their families, and have several relationships at the same time, which only leads to someone's heart getting broken. A man will have to invest everything in the relationship, and take on all the responsibilities, because that is what is expected. It is very very hard to find any female that can be trusted when the relationship is based on money.
Love this..thanks for sharing 🌺
Thanks for watching!
Nice points about young girlfriend, enjoyed from Toronto Canada, keep smiling ❤
My gf/fiancee is over 40 years younger then me. We love each other very much. We decided to live close to her family, which makes her happy. She was married before to a European for six years. He died. She still loves him, which I find good. We respect each other and love each other. She is financially independent, earning far over a million a year from income and investment - she does not need me financially and neither do I. We live in a beautiful house, close to her family. We have guests many times. I find it very nice. Her family is my family. They accept me and I love them.
The Philippines looks beautiful, I'd definitely like to visit one day if nothing else.
Please do!
Isn't she lovely, no wonder we love Filipina, great
We have a saying also "resistance is futile" serve me a cold one hehehehehe
I can watch your video over and over, it' so filled with positive energy 😃
and I can't help wondering: Do you have a twin sister ? 😉
or better where to find a girl positive and well educated like you ?
I love this video. Very interesting. I need a wife from the Philippines.
Well said young lady! 😎😎
“Maybe they chose to identify as bicycles” hahahahahahahahahaha
It’s the first time I see a video from you,but now I will subscribe because you made my day with this joke
Great video! You seem very happy with life and marriage. I’m happy for you😊
I am!
I dated young filipina on line. Everything seemed so good and perfect. She impresed me with humbleness, beauty and purity. I fell in love in couple of days snd shee seem too. It turned out to be a scam.
Great wisdom as always Mia, and I always thought you and Paul bring the perfect balance to each others life,
Thank you. I appreciate that :-)
Keep smiling 😁
This is my thinking, emotional and psychological damages are too far gone. She’ll never forget her experiences, it will take a long time to regain self esteem and realize she’s a beautiful, worthy and deserving of a married life. Time heals all things if you allow the time to do its thing. A lot patience and re-education has to happen.
Mia you are a very wonderful, intelligent, funny and caring young women. I know if I was married to you it would be impossible for me to not be with you all the time. Someone needs to get their priorities starlight. Family first then money.
Thanks :-)
Yep, I totally agree.
So true! Nice video
Thanks!
Thank you for a great video, keep up the good work 😊❤
Thank you for watching :-)
It's about a person's character traits. Bars, drinking, drugs, no church services. It's were your heart is❤
Wow am really touched but the thing when one gets married to the wrong one all this glory and pleasure will all turn into a volcano
Philippine girls are great. Sana ol
Thank you Mia👍
Very reassuring🙏
I look forward to the flip slide😱😆
You’re welcome 😊
Thank you for your outlook. I have a new outlook on things now.
Wonderful!
Thank you for your insights. What are some good date night activities to take a young Filipina?
Great video! I would love to have a wonderful relationship with a young Filipina, but all I have met so far want kids. Do you know any young Filipinas who don't want to have kids? I think it would be rare.
Excellent video!
Just follow your heart😅❤
Very true, I think Men know a lot of this instinctively but not know why.