Nice vidio Mia. I like you. Because you tell the truth with your people start talking about you. Because there might be some jealousy to you. Keep doing great job. Forget about other people what saying about you. They do not have anything better to do.
Nice vid Mia. I've said this a few times before. You and Paul have so much in common with me and my Filipina. We are about 16 years ahead of you. I'm very confident that your relationship will follow our arc. Many of the things that you worry about now become small issues because of the level of love that you will have for each other overcomes everything. I always tell my wife "it's me and you against the world and we live life one day at a time." You guys married the right partners at the right time for the right reasons. This puts you and Paul in a position of power that most others never get to experience. Focus on love and being good people and all your problems will be minimal :)
Love your videos for two reasons, (1) your honesty, and (2) your intelligence. Some Filipinas have their youtube channel and talk about stuff like this, but it just seems like it is a rehash of what everyone else is already saying. Your content seems more original. I appreciate that.
I would argue that women actually like it when they see other women trying to go after their man. The fact that they do, shows her that she has a man of high value, so high value that it's worth trying to go for him even when his wife is next to him in puclic. That kind of aman is a man worth keeping. If no other women ever try to go after your man, it tells you that no-one wants him. This in turn makes you question why should YOU stay with him. This is the basic nature of a woman. They want a man that ALL other women want too. The part where they actually get mad is when younger/hotter woman tries it. That is when a woman feels like she is in danger, because she knows that there is an actual chance of loosing him.
Hi Mia! Thank you for being open and honest about your feelings and the fears of other young Filipinas. It is something that us guys should be aware of and sensitive to those feelings and insecurities that our partners will experience. Another good video, thanks!
Thank goodness not another cheesy video with girls giggling about the "big banana." 🙄 My wife is only 14 years younger, and we live in the U.S. I did become a dad at 47, so some of the considerations you have mentioned have motivated me to get in better shape and better myself.
Mia, you are such a breath of fresh air. You are so good at expressing yourself in the discussion of these topics. Please keep up the excellent service that you provide to us.
Mia, I can understand your concerns and the one I would like to address is the older man and illness or passing away. A responsible man would make sure you had the benefits of a life insurance policy, trust or both. I'm from the US and we not only do this for our family but we want to leave our adult children an inheritance also
I do like your level headedness regarding the Pros and Cons in a relationship with an Older Man, knowing these failings not just your own but in others and dealing with them in a mature manner, says a great deal about you and your partners bond. The most important thing for any Young woman getting married to an Older man, is to sit down and talk about any and all fears she may have to find ways to try and overcome or resolve these fears with the help from her partner he must be willing to ensure that she feels as safe secure and comfortable in the relationship moving forward. by the way i must comment on your English it is better than most people here in the UK LOL
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Really impressive video. Excellent work. In fact there's 'another side to this coin' as they say - and this is meant as a compliment. Anyone watching this will certainly also be impressed with your husband - once again it's obvious that Paul is both a good judge of character, and also plain lucky. Again, excellent video.
Hi Mia, I'm a 65 year old American with 3, now older, Children and I just wanted to say I was married once then divorced but I was granted custody of my Children, who at the time were 13, 7 & 4, but I was Thankful being able to raise them so I feel Blessed🙏
That happens everywhere, don’t worry they see it as a game to try to get the man’s attention. For you and Paul, I think you have the perfect relationship, don’t worry about what others say, just live your life to the fullest as long as you can. Have no fear, just be happy. Out of all the married couples I’ve seen with age gap, you both seem to be really the best matched, regardless of your age gap.❤🙏 😊
Mia you are a very beautiful young woman and I have followed you and Paul and observe a very bright emotionally mature couple. Every fear you talk about is real, but as I’ve learnt in my 63 years, we must live for this moment not in fear of what will or might be. Whatever time you have together cherish. People who judge are really judging themselves, their lives are unsatisfying so they judge others to make themselves feel better. Trust each other you’ll be fine wishing you all the best as you build your family. You two are good.
I married a young Filipina and she cheated on me, emptied my bank account, wrote down all of my credit card information, went out to bars when I was in the USA. I brought her to the USA and three months later she wanted a divorce.
My comment and opinion to your problem. Should have never married her. Should have never given her access to your bank account or credit. One thing you learn you never bring a young Filipina back to your country. As her being young. She will have a lot of options in whatever that country maid be. Because she knows she has multiple opportunities. With younger men her age. Bessie here in the u.s..
I think the expat has most of the same fears yes he changed your status but so did you you made him feel like a teenager again and you ladies are probably the most beautiful ladies that ever gave your expat attention I think he is probably just as insecure about losing you. I think Paul is a very blessed man I can see the love in your expressions and hear it in your voice and your a beautiful lady but your love and commitment to Paul makes you lots more beautiful. I just pray to find my Filipina princess that will love me and be honest with me as much as I will be with her during my visit next month or when I move there in about a year Im not wanting a lady that will do more than me in our relationship but just one that will put in the same effort and will be as truthful and faithful as me. Good luck to you both and God bless you and your families.
WOW! I am speechless! I got married in Olongapo (while station dito) I was such an ass! But no going back in time. My X wife was is such an angel! You are being so honest I ashamed of my behavior but damn I was 21 years old.
Mia, thank you so much for sharing and thank you for your openness, I know this video wasn't easy for you. But it's so important to talk about feelings. Great job! Please continue. We're waiting for more sincere and thoughtful videos from you. Bravo!
Mia: There will ALWAYS be people who are jealous, stupid, evil, gossipy, etc.. The defect is with them, NOT you. If you base your self-worth on what other people think of you, you will almost surely think badly of yourself because bad things WILL be said about you by jealous, stupid, evil, gossipy, etc. people. You did nothing criminal or even unethical, and you didn't hurt anybody, by deciding to marry an older foreigner. If you are happy with your decision, that is all that matters, and other people have no right to belittle your decision. So, ignore the jealous, stupid, evil, gossipy, etc. people and be secure and happy in the life you have chosen.
You are so wonderful & speak with wisdom & honesty. I've experienced exactly what you share with your audience & you are so right. I just wonder, how can we find a girl like you? How did you get such wisdom. Salamat po. God bless you. With much Aloha
This fear that we older husband will leave you for any reason, including age, is unfounded. In my life a friend had the same thing, he had a twenty year age difference and had been married for over thirty years. His young wife recently died and now he is alone with his pain. As you say, I described these snakes in another thread. Once we have a good marriage, these snakes come out of the holes to ruin that marriage, but we older, good men are immune to it because we know what we are ruining. I also know that we need to continually affirm each other every second so that our connection stays together and takes away those fears you described.
I can see your point. Marrying a guy your husband's age means you may get 10 good years if your lucky then you will be widowed at 40. I'm sure you realize that it will be harder to start over then. Great video
Age gap ... Of coarse we can say that it is only a number and love has no boundaries, in reality this should be a great concern to a Philippina. Paul is a lucky man, having a wife like Mia shouldn't be a problem, I am sure he has taken care of these fears and concerns. Mia have great life and enjoy :)
Mia. I applaud you, for your acknowledgment that being with an older foreigner, brings about a significant shift in living standards and social status. However, I believe it to be a bit disingenuous to say or imply this has no or little effect on a Filipinas decision to date a foreigner. I applaud a woman if she can find a compatible mate that improves her standard of living whether he be foreigner or local, so I’m not so sure why Filipinas try to remove this as their motive, surely there are secondary motives (love, loyalty, companionship, etc.), but I suspect that the improvement in lifestyle is in most cases the primary, because all those other things can be and have been found in filipino men.
I always like to watch your vids Mia... I think your very smart. But Hey, live for the NOW, be happy with Mr Paul...enjoy good times together. We have no idea what layes before us - so we have to take it as it comes, make the best of it....thats life hunny :) Xx
Understood beautiful girl, i think my wife felt this even more as she moved to the USA with me, Luckily her sister came with her as she had a guy that lived near me.
Thank you for the video I really think you are very intelligent and very beautiful. I married a Filipina myself and she is 10 years younger than me. I don't think the age gap. Is that bad? I am 65 and retired. I married her 2 years ago. And we are now finally getting our final paperwork done I can't wait to have over here in the US with me. But now listening to you, I'm gonna ask my philippino if she is a scared of anything. Are afraid you made me think about it? Thank you very much for the video and I always keep watching you.
Merry an older guy it's the best choice for philippina.......First her man will love her and most likely stay together for life and the second it's we are reliable and easy going we have a lot of experience in life witch improve relationships to be much better
I just seen a video where a 59 year old White man from the Southwest USA, got with a 27 year old Christian woman. She is now with child. That is a disgrace and does no good for the child to have a very old man as his /her father. Such actions and behavior are a moral disgrace. I have to make it clear to all Philippine people that I meet, "I am not here to marry young girl from Province!". I also tell them that I think such a person is being disrespectful to the Filippino people. Same holds true for the sex perverts that go to Angeles City for the sex tourism, which results in the births of unwanted and neglected babies an children.
The guy is young enough to see his children grow adult passing away, that's really what a parent should do. Also a 27 woman seems young by American standards, but in most countries she'd not get married because she is too old. Last but not least, close to every man wants children and you can't really have children with a 59 old woman, can you? Even when he'll die he'll still leave his family 10 times (or more) the money and lifestyle she'd ever be able to achieve otherwise.
A great video, Mia... Your first point - being 'left alone' by an older partner - comes up in our relationship now and again. Other than doing the best I can to ensure my wife would be financially secure, should that happen, I wish I knew what else I can do to reduce or remove that fear for her...? Your other points, I can assure you, are not just felt by (younger) Filipinas dating, or married to, foreigners! As most Filipinas, in my experience, leave the Philippines to live with their partner generally in 'the West', I guess the being judged issue is less of a problem, although age-gap relationships will always be judged by some in society - usually out of jealousy! Your use of the word 'snake' to describe predatory Filipinas made me laugh (sorry! 😂), as in the West it is more commonly used to describe men - with various meanings!
In the Western world, it is normal for there to be multiple moral codes. In this society, it is good for honosexual people to be married, but it is not good for us to marry young women. This is the so-called equality in the Western world. Here in German-speaking countries there was a very well-known actor who married a young woman 20 years ago, the age difference was 56 years. He died 5 years ago at the age of 101 and the wife had to endure a lot of suffering in the media, including accusations of inheritance fraud, etc. We will never get rid of the prejudices of old-man-young-woman couples and the vice. We also have to stand strong against it and ignore it.
This is important to know, but also how the foreigner would feel if he took the Filipina back to his country and all the men began making passes at her when she went shopping at the store or went somewhere for a couple of drinks with him and all the other foreigners began looking at his wife. I know it would make me angry, but if my Filipina truly loved me, as she said she did, she would tell all those other men she was married and not interested in them and then would tell her husband. I despise disrespectful people no matter their sex or what country they are from.
That's what the guy has to deal with in Western countries. Every other guy (mostly) will stare at your wife/girlfriend right in front of you. If you get up to use the C.R. during dinner you can be sure at least 1 guy is either trying to hit on her or is getting ready to. Just take it as a compliment that others are jealous of you and let it go. You can't waste time on something that is beyond your control. You did nothing, your spouse did nothing, so in fact, nothing happened. Enjoy the fact that others wish they were you. And then have a laugh with each other about it. Then go on and enjoy your lives. A snake is only dangerous if you allow it to get too close. Otherwise it's just a big worm. 😀
It is true everywhere, that when a rich, famous etc older man is with a much younger woman, most people don't see it as a 'big deal', unless that man is none of those things. Most of the same people, would like a younger partner, if they had the chance, but because they can not, they are hypocrites. Also, if an older man gets married to a much younger woman, (usually he has more money), he SHOULD make sure that the woman and maybe future family, MUST be left with some kind of 'security', if he really loves her and if he is a decent human being. MIA, I understand how you feel, but the older men are also 'afraid' off other younger men, so they try to show off , in order to show their young wife that they are still 'desirable', by other women. Communication is very important with your partner, for any little or big fear one has, because when it is left in the dark, it will grow and can destroy a couple. It is very important for a couple to communicate with each other of what is bothering them, because 'fear/anxiety'' can destroy a couple, especially when 'friends' talk shit in secret to each one of the couple. There are many snakes out there, on both sides, especially when they see a happy couple.
Just run the numbers: divorce rates for first, second and third marriages versus inheritance and/or alimony settlement amounts for men in your husband's income bracket. That should give you a good idea of where you stand.
If I do wind up with a Filipina, I can show her how to dig for gold. We can get a donkey to carry all of the digging tools, and camping gear. Maybe we can strike it rich together. If we don't strike it rich, we can have a lot of fun trying.
Hold your head high and let people talk, because they will. Nevertheless, in my opinion, give your husband no reason to look at another babae. Enjoy the moment and don't future trip about what may happen.
I have still yet to see a filipina as beautiful, physically and mentally as you Mia, Paul knows this as well. You have nothing to worry about. Other women may find this to be true in their relationship but you should not. Paul knows he won!
Hi Mia. I understand Your fears. My question: If many filipinos are judging You having a relationship with an older foreigner isn't it a sign that large age-gap relationships aren't viewed that positive and aren't really accepted like many Vloggers want to make us believe? Are there large age-gap relationships between filipinas and filipinos?
I understand that u shouldn’t put everyone in one bucket but u should be able to make general statements that are generally true for example the Philippines is humid now of course sone regions in the Philippines is more humid than others and in the mountainous areas it is more dry and breezy but that doesn’t change the general fact that the Philippines has a humid climate year around
All women seek men with resources and need security as well. There is no shame in marrying older or younger. Focus on each other and ignore the rest. The more I learn about the social interactions there, the more and more I feel sorry for my gal. It pains me that she has to face these issues because of me.
That's crazy, girls flirting with a foreigner when he is married ? i'm talking with a filipina and i hope to meet her within a year, we're 7 years apart.
I am having a hard time trusting a young woman that I am given the best time of my life I 46 and she is 21 she has a very bad way of joking testing me😮
I wish I could formulate "self confidence" into an injection and vaccinate you with it. If you now live in Europe- you have huge rights as a woman and wife. In particular, there are lots of help out there for women who are coercively controlled.
Cultural differences? Used a lot. Culture = whatever I do. Don't like what I'm doing? Sorry, cultural differences so you have to accept it. Same gender games, just slightly different rules.
Say what? That’s all every Filipina that has a UA-cam channel talks about.fear of dating us foreigners.but you hardly hear about what us foreigners should fear about talking to Filipina’s because they are not all sweet and innocent
Nice vidio Mia. I like you. Because you tell the truth with your people start talking about you. Because there might be some jealousy to you. Keep doing great job. Forget about other people what saying about you. They do not have anything better to do.
Nice vid Mia. I've said this a few times before. You and Paul have so much in common with me and my Filipina. We are about 16 years ahead of you. I'm very confident that your relationship will follow our arc. Many of the things that you worry about now become small issues because of the level of love that you will have for each other overcomes everything. I always tell my wife "it's me and you against the world and we live life one day at a time." You guys married the right partners at the right time for the right reasons. This puts you and Paul in a position of power that most others never get to experience. Focus on love and being good people and all your problems will be minimal :)
Love your videos for two reasons, (1) your honesty, and (2) your intelligence. Some Filipinas have their youtube channel and talk about stuff like this, but it just seems like it is a rehash of what everyone else is already saying. Your content seems more original. I appreciate that.
I would argue that women actually like it when they see other women trying to go after their man. The fact that they do, shows her that she has a man of high value, so high value that it's worth trying to go for him even when his wife is next to him in puclic. That kind of aman is a man worth keeping. If no other women ever try to go after your man, it tells you that no-one wants him. This in turn makes you question why should YOU stay with him. This is the basic nature of a woman. They want a man that ALL other women want too. The part where they actually get mad is when younger/hotter woman tries it. That is when a woman feels like she is in danger, because she knows that there is an actual chance of loosing him.
Miss Maya, I have to say I appreciate your sincerity in your videos. I live in the US, but your words and sentiments are universal.
Wow, thank you
I’m 20 years older than my fiancée ..I wish we closer in age as we both want as much longevity as much as possible.
Hi Mia! Thank you for being open and honest about your feelings and the fears of other young Filipinas. It is something that us guys should be aware of and sensitive to those feelings and insecurities that our partners will experience. Another good video, thanks!
Thank goodness not another cheesy video with girls giggling about the "big banana." 🙄
My wife is only 14 years younger, and we live in the U.S. I did become a dad at 47, so some of the considerations you have mentioned have motivated me to get in better shape and better myself.
Mia, you are such a breath of fresh air. You are so good at expressing yourself in the discussion of these topics. Please keep up the excellent service that you provide to us.
Good and interesting chat Mia.
Such a wise head on your young shoulders. Thank you lovely Mia. I live in Thailand and my wife is much younger than I am.
Bless you young lady.
Mia, I can understand your concerns and the one I would like to address is the older man and illness or passing away. A responsible man would make sure you had the benefits of a life insurance policy, trust or both. I'm from the US and we not only do this for our family but we want to leave our adult children an inheritance also
Some do slither in on relationships. Guys do it too so it’s not just women you’re talking about in that regard lol . Good video
Well presented and spoken from the heart.
I do like your level headedness regarding the Pros and Cons in a relationship with an Older Man, knowing these failings not just your own but in others and dealing with them in a mature manner, says a great deal about you and your partners bond.
The most important thing for any Young woman getting married to an Older man, is to sit down and talk about any and all fears she may have to find ways to try and overcome or resolve these fears with the help from her partner he must be willing to ensure that she feels as safe secure and comfortable in the relationship moving forward.
by the way i must comment on your English it is better than most people here in the UK LOL
A very good advice and yes her English is so good and well spoken, Paul is a lucky man :)
i Enjoy listening to your English.
Anyone providing information, that is factual, an opinion, a view of observations, and interview statements are appreciated for which critical thinking minds need. Thank you.
Excellent vlog Mia - thank you.
Really impressive video. Excellent work. In fact there's 'another side to this coin' as they say - and this is meant as a compliment. Anyone watching this will certainly also be impressed with your husband - once again it's obvious that Paul is both a good judge of character, and also plain lucky. Again, excellent video.
Mia thank you for sharing your thoughts 💭 on this topic keep up the good work 💪🏾😎
To the wise people no need much to understand that happiness is the most important thing in life
Ok thank you for all your help im looking for some one also it's not easy but I'll keep looking
Hi Mia, I'm a 65 year old American with 3, now older, Children and I just wanted to say I was married once then divorced but I was granted custody of my Children, who at the time were 13, 7 & 4, but I was Thankful being able to raise them so I feel Blessed🙏
very brave of you, Mia
That happens everywhere, don’t worry they see it as a game to try to get the man’s attention. For you and Paul, I think you have the perfect relationship, don’t worry about what others say, just live your life to the fullest as long as you can. Have no fear, just be happy. Out of all the married couples I’ve seen with age gap, you both seem to be really the best matched, regardless of your age gap.❤🙏 😊
Mia you are a very beautiful young woman and I have followed you and Paul and observe a very bright emotionally mature couple. Every fear you talk about is real, but as I’ve learnt in my 63 years, we must live for this moment not in fear of what will or might be. Whatever time you have together cherish. People who judge are really judging themselves, their lives are unsatisfying so they judge others to make themselves feel better. Trust each other you’ll be fine wishing you all the best as you build your family. You two are good.
Thank you, both of you. I appreciate all your kind words.
I married a young Filipina and she cheated on me, emptied my bank account, wrote down all of my credit card information, went out to bars when I was in the USA. I brought her to the USA and three months later she wanted a divorce.
Sorry that happened. That must have been terrible.
My comment and opinion to your problem. Should have never married her. Should have never given her access to your bank account or credit. One thing you learn you never bring a young Filipina back to your country. As her being young. She will have a lot of options in whatever that country maid be. Because she knows she has multiple opportunities. With younger men her age. Bessie here in the u.s..
Very heartfelt message. May Paul and you continue to cherish each other. 🤗
Always!
I think the expat has most of the same fears yes he changed your status but so did you you made him feel like a teenager again and you ladies are probably the most beautiful ladies that ever gave your expat attention I think he is probably just as insecure about losing you. I think Paul is a very blessed man I can see the love in your expressions and hear it in your voice and your a beautiful lady but your love and commitment to Paul makes you lots more beautiful. I just pray to find my Filipina princess that will love me and be honest with me as much as I will be with her during my visit next month or when I move there in about a year Im not wanting a lady that will do more than me in our relationship but just one that will put in the same effort and will be as truthful and faithful as me. Good luck to you both and God bless you and your families.
WOW! I am speechless! I got married in Olongapo (while station dito) I was such an ass! But no going back in time. My X wife was is such an angel! You are being so honest I ashamed of my behavior but damn I was 21 years old.
Nice video
Mia, thank you so much for sharing and thank you for your openness, I know this video wasn't easy for you. But it's so important to talk about feelings. Great job! Please continue. We're waiting for more sincere and thoughtful videos from you. Bravo!
Mia: There will ALWAYS be people who are jealous, stupid, evil, gossipy, etc.. The defect is with them, NOT you. If you base your self-worth on what other people think of you, you will almost surely think badly of yourself because bad things WILL be said about you by jealous, stupid, evil, gossipy, etc. people. You did nothing criminal or even unethical, and you didn't hurt anybody, by deciding to marry an older foreigner. If you are happy with your decision, that is all that matters, and other people have no right to belittle your decision. So, ignore the jealous, stupid, evil, gossipy, etc. people and be secure and happy in the life you have chosen.
You are so wonderful & speak with wisdom & honesty. I've experienced exactly what you share with your audience & you are so right. I just wonder, how can we find a girl like you? How did you get such wisdom. Salamat po. God bless you. With much Aloha
A good video. Especially liked you discussing the "snakes." I wish you and your man happiness.
This fear that we older husband will leave you for any reason, including age, is unfounded. In my life a friend had the same thing, he had a twenty year age difference and had been married for over thirty years. His young wife recently died and now he is alone with his pain. As you say, I described these snakes in another thread. Once we have a good marriage, these snakes come out of the holes to ruin that marriage, but we older, good men are immune to it because we know what we are ruining.
I also know that we need to continually affirm each other every second so that our connection stays together and takes away those fears you described.
I can see your point. Marrying a guy your husband's age means you may get 10 good years if your lucky then you will be widowed at 40. I'm sure you realize that it will be harder to start over then. Great video
Age gap ... Of coarse we can say that it is only a number and love has no boundaries, in reality this should be a great concern to a Philippina. Paul is a lucky man, having a wife like Mia shouldn't be a problem, I am sure he has taken care of these fears and concerns. Mia have great life and enjoy :)
stay strong
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❤
My God lady you are soooo beautiful in many ways.
Don't overthink life...
Mia. I applaud you, for your acknowledgment that being with an older foreigner, brings about a significant shift in living standards and social status. However, I believe it to be a bit disingenuous to say or imply this has no or little effect on a Filipinas decision to date a foreigner. I applaud a woman if she can find a compatible mate that improves her standard of living whether he be foreigner or local, so I’m not so sure why Filipinas try to remove this as their motive, surely there are secondary motives (love, loyalty, companionship, etc.), but I suspect that the improvement in lifestyle is in most cases the primary, because all those other things can be and have been found in filipino men.
Best of luck in your marriage.
Thank you
Well Said :)
I always like to watch your vids Mia... I think your very smart. But Hey, live for the NOW, be happy with Mr Paul...enjoy good times together. We have no idea what layes before us - so we have to take it as it comes, make the best of it....thats life hunny :) Xx
Understood beautiful girl, i think my wife felt this even more as she moved to the USA with me, Luckily her sister came with her as she had a guy that lived near me.
i don´t know if go to the filipina , or Thailand, but it´s surely i go to asia, and live there.
Thank you for the video I really think you are very intelligent and very beautiful. I married a Filipina myself and she is 10 years younger than me. I don't think the age gap. Is that bad? I am 65 and retired.
I married her 2 years ago. And we are now finally getting our final paperwork done I can't wait to have over here in the US with me. But now listening to you, I'm gonna ask my philippino if she is a scared of anything. Are afraid you made me think about it? Thank you very much for the video and I always keep watching you.
Merry an older guy it's the best choice for philippina.......First her man will love her and most likely stay together for life and the second it's we are reliable and easy going we have a lot of experience in life witch improve relationships to be much better
I just seen a video where a 59 year old White man from the Southwest USA, got with a 27 year old Christian woman. She is now with child. That is a disgrace and does no good for the child to have a very old man as his /her father. Such actions and behavior are a moral disgrace.
I have to make it clear to all Philippine people that I meet, "I am not here to marry young girl from Province!". I also tell them that I think such a person is being disrespectful to the Filippino people. Same holds true for the sex perverts that go to Angeles City for the sex tourism, which results in the births of unwanted and neglected babies an children.
The guy is young enough to see his children grow adult passing away, that's really what a parent should do. Also a 27 woman seems young by American standards, but in most countries she'd not get married because she is too old. Last but not least, close to every man wants children and you can't really have children with a 59 old woman, can you? Even when he'll die he'll still leave his family 10 times (or more) the money and lifestyle she'd ever be able to achieve otherwise.
A great video, Mia...
Your first point - being 'left alone' by an older partner - comes up in our relationship now and again. Other than doing the best I can to ensure my wife would be financially secure, should that happen, I wish I knew what else I can do to reduce or remove that fear for her...?
Your other points, I can assure you, are not just felt by (younger) Filipinas dating, or married to, foreigners!
As most Filipinas, in my experience, leave the Philippines to live with their partner generally in 'the West', I guess the being judged issue is less of a problem, although age-gap relationships will always be judged by some in society - usually out of jealousy!
Your use of the word 'snake' to describe predatory Filipinas made me laugh (sorry! 😂), as in the West it is more commonly used to describe men - with various meanings!
In the Western world, it is normal for there to be multiple moral codes. In this society, it is good for honosexual people to be married, but it is not good for us to marry young women. This is the so-called equality in the Western world.
Here in German-speaking countries there was a very well-known actor who married a young woman 20 years ago, the age difference was 56 years. He died 5 years ago at the age of 101 and the wife had to endure a lot of suffering in the media, including accusations of inheritance fraud, etc. We will never get rid of the prejudices of old-man-young-woman couples and the vice. We also have to stand strong against it and ignore it.
I think you shouldn't care about people's comment. And remember. The main reason for critisim is envy, so just relax.
This is important to know, but also how the foreigner would feel if he took the Filipina back to his country and all the men began making passes at her when she went shopping at the store or went somewhere for a couple of drinks with him and all the other foreigners began looking at his wife. I know it would make me angry, but if my Filipina truly loved me, as she said she did, she would tell all those other men she was married and not interested in them and then would tell her husband. I despise disrespectful people no matter their sex or what country they are from.
That's what the guy has to deal with in Western countries. Every other guy (mostly) will stare at your wife/girlfriend right in front of you. If you get up to use the C.R. during dinner you can be sure at least 1 guy is either trying to hit on her or is getting ready to. Just take it as a compliment that others are jealous of you and let it go. You can't waste time on something that is beyond your control. You did nothing, your spouse did nothing, so in fact, nothing happened. Enjoy the fact that others wish they were you. And then have a laugh with each other about it. Then go on and enjoy your lives. A snake is only dangerous if you allow it to get too close. Otherwise it's just a big worm. 😀
It is true everywhere, that when a rich, famous etc older man is with a much younger woman, most people don't see it as a 'big deal', unless that man is none of those things. Most of the same people, would like a younger partner, if they had the chance, but because they can not, they are hypocrites. Also, if an older man gets married to a much younger woman, (usually he has more money), he SHOULD make sure that the woman and maybe future family, MUST be left with some kind of 'security', if he really loves her and if he is a decent human being. MIA, I understand how you feel, but the older men are also 'afraid' off other younger men, so they try to show off , in order to show their young wife that they are still 'desirable', by other women. Communication is very important with your partner, for any little or big fear one has, because when it is left in the dark, it will grow and can destroy a couple. It is very important for a couple to communicate with each other of what is bothering them, because 'fear/anxiety'' can destroy a couple, especially when 'friends' talk shit in secret to each one of the couple. There are many snakes out there, on both sides, especially when they see a happy couple.
Just run the numbers: divorce rates for first, second and third marriages versus inheritance and/or alimony settlement amounts for men in your husband's income bracket. That should give you a good idea of where you stand.
👍😎🤿🇵🇭! Married to a Filipino I know what you mean!👍
If I do wind up with a Filipina, I can show her how to dig for gold. We can get a donkey to carry all of the digging tools, and camping gear. Maybe we can strike it rich together. If we don't strike it rich, we can have a lot of fun trying.
Hold your head high and let people talk, because they will. Nevertheless, in my opinion, give your husband no reason to look at another babae. Enjoy the moment and don't future trip about what may happen.
Fear The Red Pill.
Correct that marriage doesn't erase deep seated anxieties. Reason 16 to never get married.
I have still yet to see a filipina as beautiful, physically and mentally as you Mia, Paul knows this as well. You have nothing to worry about. Other women may find this to be true in their relationship but you should not. Paul knows he won!
Hi Mia. I understand Your fears. My question: If many filipinos are judging You having a relationship with an older foreigner isn't it a sign that large age-gap relationships aren't viewed that positive and aren't really accepted like many Vloggers want to make us believe? Are there large age-gap relationships between filipinas and filipinos?
I understand that u shouldn’t put everyone in one bucket but u should be able to make general statements that are generally true for example the Philippines is humid now of course sone regions in the Philippines is more humid than others and in the mountainous areas it is more dry and breezy but that doesn’t change the general fact that the Philippines has a humid climate year around
What does older mean? How old?
All women seek men with resources and need security as well. There is no shame in marrying older or younger. Focus on each other and ignore the rest. The more I learn about the social interactions there, the more and more I feel sorry for my gal. It pains me that she has to face these issues because of me.
When we're walking and other filipina stare at me, my filipina grabs me close, and sometimes even kiss me, despite she feels shy kissing me in public.
That's crazy, girls flirting with a foreigner when he is married ? i'm talking with a filipina and i hope to meet her within a year, we're 7 years apart.
I am having a hard time trusting a young woman that I am given the best time of my life I 46 and she is 21 she has a very bad way of joking testing me😮
Sounds like my Filipina ex...a very sick way of testing...what she called pranking..
She was also a notorious Liar and a cheater
@@wernerkuehbacher1632 yes bro she is a honest lier she is definitely delusional and it is to be honest it's just not worth it 😑
snakes , yup you know what my thai ex mrs used to describe other thai women as snakes , it not just the philipines
I wish I could formulate "self confidence" into an injection and vaccinate you with it. If you now live in Europe- you have huge rights as a woman and wife. In particular, there are lots of help out there for women who are coercively controlled.
THEY BELIEVE IN DIVORCE I DO NOT ALONE 34 YEARS SHES DIVORCED I AM NOT A ONE IN I TRILLION YES MY SADNESS IS HELP BY MY FATHER IN HEAVEN
Cultural differences? Used a lot. Culture = whatever I do. Don't like what I'm doing? Sorry, cultural differences so you have to accept it. Same gender games, just slightly different rules.
Say what? That’s all every Filipina that has a UA-cam channel talks about.fear of dating us foreigners.but you hardly hear about what us foreigners should fear about talking to Filipina’s because they are not all sweet and innocent
Well in America it would be worse if we bring a Filipina to America because the men would be very disrespectful and would not respect boundaries.