Please don’t ask me questions about specific sexual practises and whatnot :) I do not advise people to engage in them, advocate for decency and normality instead 🙏🏻
@@user-uu1cd2tp1v If a single ejaculation does that to you then you most likely have an underlying deficiency and so would be best off seeing a chinese medical practitioner to prescribe herbs to help you. At 36, if sex does this to you, then you definitely need some help medically. Good luck with it :)
Around 6 years ago I was practicing Kriya Yoga quite seriously. After around a year, I realized that I had no sex drive. I found it kind of concerning. But I had lots of energy in other ways. And it turned out, as you mention, that the sex drive was just dormant, until the correct circumstances arose. It's quite nice to not be distracted by sexual desire when doing admin or cooking dinner...
Great talk. I’ve not come across anyone who has such a practical, experiential and integrated perspective of Neigong, Qigong and energy arts as Damo And that cracked me up about Star Trek and wondering why talking about coming home at 1am, after drinking and watching Star Trek. It made me think of the importance of sufficient sleep for qi development, not over drinking intoxicants and reducing activities that put a blanket, numbness or distraction over the mind (for example nowadays back to back watching of Netflix!). Having said that I think Star Trek is great!
Would love to hear more on the female aspect of the energetics. Also thinking about a dear friend who's a Catholic priest and naturally gravitated to yoga and seemed to have tapped into the process. He is now well into his 80s and vibrant. He's shared with me some of his views on issues around celibacy, renunciation and intentions of the Heart especially in the context he is in. A lot resonates with what you're saying. Out of 30 years knowing him I only saw him lose his cool once... interestingly with a well-known Tibetan monk who is known for his 'daliances' (I have my suspicions why they butted heads) Which leads me to the question of how should serious female practitioners take personal care AND be aware of red flags in males that approach them? There are clearly obvious ones but I'm sure many of your female viewers would appreciate knowing the more subtle aspects in order to protect and preserve their own energetics. I know way too many women who have been compromised because they're not aware of what's really happening when they engage with someone who is depleted and find out too late.
the first time I felt the energy from my head drip down ( Fall down like a waterfall) into my belly, it felt like a magnant just like he said. But it can do it without the mind being quit.
Best comment ever over this method subject, and I've head more than hundred books of spirituality, as well as got initiated in some places. Fortunate eyes and ears those who get in contact with you, Damo.
Thank you for this. Ive been seeking normality from porn for nearly 4 years. Its a tough ride. For me it seems that anxiety and fear is what keeps me stuck in a low state. Im in a loop of noc emissions, but I do notice the body is able to create the Qi field when emotions are more stable. Emotional stability is 100% the most important thing if you want to achieve balance. Subsconsciously i knew this, but its nice to hear some clarity from a someone knowledgeable. Thank you sir.
Very interesting and fascinating! I do believe that in yoga where they talk about the bindhu and they use the term "hatha" which means force-full, they are talking about the forceful extraction of the essence, and all hatha yogis were celibate.
Damo, in your comprehensive neighing book you make note on refraining from working with the dantien within 24-48 hours after sex/ejaculation. Let's say someone can ejaculate once - twice weekly without issues, this would mean up to 2-4 days without practicing with dantien weekly. Doesn't this break a necessary consistency and momentum in practice? please advise.
I deeply resonate with this video wishing it had come out 3 years ago. Wishing to better my life while dealing with porn addiction i tried all kinds of practices to fight against that self destructive side of me pushing past the discomfort because I thought that’s how you tame or integrate it through grits and trying again which in turn changed what was a healthy 1h practice into a daily struggle to reclaim my life setting me back even worse than when I started till my body gave out.
Thank you for insightful video. I was addicted to lust PMO and SR and NOFap saves my life literaly. Yes it depence on how to do it. Process itself of absataining brings a lot of insights becuz all of sudden you have a lot of energy and you forced to deal with it. Like change all yout habits, eatings and learn how to transmute energy. If you stay in the same way with abstaining just charging your old ways of patterns like anger etc. but with more fuel power. In hindu culture there is concept of Brahmcharya - science itself of how to live this lifestyle. For me is first of all energetic issue if I ejaculate or edging too much aftermath is depletion, exhaustion. The less edging the more benefits. Semen retention is just power and energy and it depence how to use it.
Hi Damo. Thanks for sharing this info. Do you have a video or page where you explicitly explain step-to-step protocols for extracting and using the sexual energy?
I'm interested in being celibate for a long time. Can you help me? You suggested to be "guided" individually ..in order to not become ill in any way and I'm gonna do it with or without your help. Let me please know if you have any online session thanks
Thank you Damo a very interesting topic especially the part where you said men lose a lot but women lose very little... after the act. I watched a lecture similar to this by another Daoist Master who told the audience that there are some monks out here who are very adept in these practices and they can take the the woman's power during the act and become even more powerful as a result or prolong their life-force. They usually only do it with young virgins though not with older women as the latter would suffer ill health and lessened life force. Do you know if this is true?
Good day to all. Can I practice qigong? even if I can't change the noun e.g. 8 brocade, five animals? which practice would be more appropriate to begin with the essence transformation. Thank you
I am wondering about the meditative/energetic approach to delaying ejaculation and experiencing prolonged orgasmic states. Is that something that will also naturally arise out of a prolonged practice with qi gong and meditative training, rather than something that should be pursued? It is something I have experienced some tastes of, but am cautious to approach directly because of your warnings about the 'unsavory schools,' however it is something I am deeply curious about for facilitating deeper connection with partners. Any insight is welcome!
It’s pointless and a waste of mental focus IMO. Nothing good ever comes from the practice of anybody I have ever met who has become fascinated with all this :)
Good lecture Damo thanks. You mention someone in their 40's should only ejac. 2 times a week but what if someone has been celibate for a year and in their 40's does this mean they could then ejac say, 4 (2 times for previous year and 2 times for current year) times a week in the following year and not affect their jing levels, all things being equal? Is there somewhere legitimate on the web to find out how to extract the yang, I would like to try as I am practising celibacy and im into a year already. I want to use the energy to nourish my weak organs.
I was of the opinion that energy work can help in case you have emotional imbalances, however what I learned here is energy work can actually amplify emotional issues... So how can one normalise their emotional system without doing energy work.... Pls answer...
Stabilise your self-awareness in the hara or belly. The reason why these emotional issues become a problem is that the rising energy goes to the head and remains there. Reed the experience of a Danish yogi Morten Tolboll, who became an alcoholic after his kundalini event. Alcohol was the only way to deal with his kundalini psychosis symptoms. After he started to practice hara/lower dantien awarness, he was healed. He also mentions the story of Zen master Hakuin experience with kundalini/zen sickness.
do you know the "Extraction" method he is referring to? He doesn't want to share it because he thinks ppl will harm themselves but i have been practicing semen retention for a while with some successes but probably more failures but i have some understanding in regard my sexual energy. How do i extract my jing after i have built it up for a while? plz
@@91dgross ha! I agree that it injures a ton of people. Best to avoid semen retention and Just to calm strong desire. 😅 Extraction of the qi from jing isn’t really about semen. Should be a different alchemical process resulting from deep stillness. I think it’s probably a method resulting from bad translations of “jing” and people who should not be writing books. But that’s just my guess as a beginner. 😵💫🐌
@@SnakeAndTurtleQigong my sifu told me in simple a while ago something like, “if you’re alone and don’t have a woman it’s okay to masterbate every so often, but it’s also okay if you decide not to masterbate, your body will just get rid of any extra semen it doesn’t need when you sleep” my sifu didn’t say it would nocturnal emissions are bad for your kidneys or anything, basically he implied that wet dreams are harmless. However Damo says “wet dreams” are damaging to the kidneys. I wonder if there is any Daoist literature on this or something. Maybe I’ll have to give my sifu a call and have a chat. He always loves to tell long stories or examples of things when I ask questions so it will probably be a long conversation lol but he’s always fun to talk to anyway. See ya tomorrow John
Spirituality aside, the truth of modern relationships is rather grim for most men. Women simply aren't attracted to around 80% of men. Those men need a healthy way to deal with their abundance of sexual energy. This is why there is so much bad info on semen retention on the internet. These men are searching for a solution to the issue. Not having a ready solution to this issue is the cause of all of the disregulation and addiction in the world. Women and men who find themselves in the top 20% have very little empathy or understanding to offer these men.
This situation in the dating world is always discussed as if it is a new phenomenon but it really isn't. It was the same when I was younger. The responsibility to grow and change to adjust your life situation is also not new.
@@LotusNeiGong I certainly agree that it is and has always been the responsibility of the individual to grow. Social media and dating apps however have radically changed the prospects of men who are lower end of things. I'm just glad I'm no longer in that market, but I have a great deal of empathy for the young men coming up today.
@@LotusNeiGongThe new date from Japan and other developed countries on dating, sex and marriage suggest thet your quite out of touch. The social reality of dating has drastically change then what tit was for hundreds of years ago. More and more people are choosing to be unmarried, sexless and childless. Not to mention the phenomena of plummeting fertility among men.
@@gideonros2705 I don’t know why anybody is supposed to have either sympathy for this kind of situation? Not in the case of men anyway. Men are supposed to struggle and work to change their situation in life. That’s called being a man. These days, my respect for men is plummeting big time as they spend all their time crying about how hard the dating scene is cos they watched some shit from Fresh and Fit 😂 time for them to grow and change
It's better for someone who has engaged in the practice to speak from experience, not from reading something just before a webcast. There are huge benefits to the practice. Just don't believe everything that everyone says, including Mantak Chia.
Guys and girls. Just be kind to eachother and practice safe sex. Keep things clean if you can. 😂 I heard that if you want to develop Qi powers you have to put a ground cable from the perenium into the ground 😅 Insecurty issues are deep seated issues. Just be kind and loving towards yourself and others that you meet. Practice what Damo, and Adam put out.
Premature ejaculation is a deep rooted issue in allot of men. Sex Education and simply talking about sex is very important. This can make guys relax and understand the human body, the human experience much more. Otherwise, maybe become a monk. 😆
Please don’t ask me questions about specific sexual practises and whatnot :) I do not advise people to engage in them, advocate for decency and normality instead 🙏🏻
@@user-uu1cd2tp1v If a single ejaculation does that to you then you most likely have an underlying deficiency and so would be best off seeing a chinese medical practitioner to prescribe herbs to help you. At 36, if sex does this to you, then you definitely need some help medically. Good luck with it :)
21:21 - "Normality is the baseline for any advanced or complicated practice." 💎🙏
Finally someone knowledgeable commented on this matter. Thank You Damo.
Right, ive been researching this topic for years. Glad someone with sense is covering it
Around 6 years ago I was practicing Kriya Yoga quite seriously. After around a year, I realized that I had no sex drive. I found it kind of concerning. But I had lots of energy in other ways.
And it turned out, as you mention, that the sex drive was just dormant, until the correct circumstances arose.
It's quite nice to not be distracted by sexual desire when doing admin or cooking dinner...
This is the damo video I've been waiting for. Thank you.
Great talk. I’ve not come across anyone who has such a practical, experiential and integrated perspective of Neigong, Qigong and energy arts as Damo
And that cracked me up about Star Trek and wondering why talking about coming home at 1am, after drinking and watching Star Trek. It made me think of the importance of sufficient sleep for qi development, not over drinking intoxicants and reducing activities that put a blanket, numbness or distraction over the mind (for example nowadays back to back watching of Netflix!). Having said that I think Star Trek is great!
Would love to hear more on the female aspect of the energetics.
Also thinking about a dear friend who's a Catholic priest and naturally gravitated to yoga and seemed to have tapped into the process. He is now well into his 80s and vibrant. He's shared with me some of his views on issues around celibacy, renunciation and intentions of the Heart especially in the context he is in. A lot resonates with what you're saying. Out of 30 years knowing him I only saw him lose his cool once... interestingly with a well-known Tibetan monk who is known for his 'daliances' (I have my suspicions why they butted heads) Which leads me to the question of how should serious female practitioners take personal care AND be aware of red flags in males that approach them? There are clearly obvious ones but I'm sure many of your female viewers would appreciate knowing the more subtle aspects in order to protect and preserve their own energetics. I know way too many women who have been compromised because they're not aware of what's really happening when they engage with someone who is depleted and find out too late.
thanks you for this, very good information
the first time I felt the energy from my head drip down ( Fall down like a waterfall) into my belly, it felt like a magnant just like he said. But it can do it without the mind being quit.
Best comment ever over this method subject, and I've head more than hundred books of spirituality, as well as got initiated in some places. Fortunate eyes and ears those who get in contact with you, Damo.
this is so incredibly helpful. so much harmful misinformation on this subject - thank you for helping us correct course
Yes, very helpful and full of details I was missing. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for this. Ive been seeking normality from porn for nearly 4 years. Its a tough ride. For me it seems that anxiety and fear is what keeps me stuck in a low state. Im in a loop of noc emissions, but I do notice the body is able to create the Qi field when emotions are more stable. Emotional stability is 100% the most important thing if you want to achieve balance. Subsconsciously i knew this, but its nice to hear some clarity from a someone knowledgeable. Thank you sir.
Nice description of a cruch👍 i also use my body like this
🙏🏻
Very interesting and fascinating! I do believe that in yoga where they talk about the bindhu and they use the term "hatha" which means force-full, they are talking about the forceful extraction of the essence, and all hatha yogis were celibate.
Great video, very helpful and simple.
If someone has wasted a loot of sexual energy ..will it be possible to restore it? Can you give some info about this ?
Much appreciated, Damo! Thanks a lot, really!!
SKINS was an awesome show😎
Agreed but it’s mind control at its finest
Damo, in your comprehensive neighing book you make note on refraining from working with the dantien within 24-48 hours after sex/ejaculation. Let's say someone can ejaculate once - twice weekly without issues, this would mean up to 2-4 days without practicing with dantien weekly. Doesn't this break a necessary consistency and momentum in practice? please advise.
Yes, slow down goat
I deeply resonate with this video wishing it had come out 3 years ago. Wishing to better my life while dealing with porn addiction i tried all kinds of practices to fight against that self destructive side of me pushing past the discomfort because I thought that’s how you tame or integrate it through grits and trying again which in turn changed what was a healthy 1h practice into a daily struggle to reclaim my life setting me back even worse than when I started till my body gave out.
Thank you for insightful video. I was addicted to lust PMO and SR and NOFap saves my life literaly. Yes it depence on how to do it. Process itself of absataining brings a lot of insights becuz all of sudden you have a lot of energy and you forced to deal with it. Like change all yout habits, eatings and learn how to transmute energy. If you stay in the same way with abstaining just charging your old ways of patterns like anger etc. but with more fuel power. In hindu culture there is concept of Brahmcharya - science itself of how to live this lifestyle. For me is first of all energetic issue if I ejaculate or edging too much aftermath is depletion, exhaustion. The less edging the more benefits. Semen retention is just power and energy and it depence how to use it.
Hi Damo. Thanks for sharing this info. Do you have a video or page where you explicitly explain step-to-step protocols for extracting and using the sexual energy?
Fascinating. Thanks Damo. 🙏
I'm interested in being celibate for a long time. Can you help me? You suggested to be "guided" individually ..in order to not become ill in any way and I'm gonna do it with or without your help. Let me please know if you have any online session thanks
How long have you been semen-retaining for or celibate for?
How would one reach the base of normality? Therapy? Meditation? A good qigong teacher?
If one is not in a romantic relationship/married then is sexual desire going dormant really a problem?
Thank you Damo a very interesting topic especially the part where you said men lose a lot but women lose very little... after the act. I watched a lecture similar to this by another Daoist Master who told the audience that there are some monks out here who are very adept in these practices and they can take the the woman's power during the act and become even more powerful as a result or prolong their life-force. They usually only do it with young virgins though not with older women as the latter would suffer ill health and lessened life force.
Do you know if this is true?
It’s an old myth :)
Good day to all. Can I practice qigong? even if I can't change the noun e.g. 8 brocade, five animals? which practice would be more appropriate to begin with the essence transformation. Thank you
Thanks a ton Damo!
thank you
I am wondering about the meditative/energetic approach to delaying ejaculation and experiencing prolonged orgasmic states. Is that something that will also naturally arise out of a prolonged practice with qi gong and meditative training, rather than something that should be pursued? It is something I have experienced some tastes of, but am cautious to approach directly because of your warnings about the 'unsavory schools,' however it is something I am deeply curious about for facilitating deeper connection with partners. Any insight is welcome!
It’s pointless and a waste of mental focus IMO. Nothing good ever comes from the practice of anybody I have ever met who has become fascinated with all this :)
@@LotusNeiGong i dunno man, they seem pretty happy to me ;)
Good lecture Damo thanks. You mention someone in their 40's should only ejac. 2 times a week but what if someone has been celibate for a year and in their 40's does this mean they could then ejac say, 4 (2 times for previous year and 2 times for current year) times a week in the following year and not affect their jing levels, all things being equal?
Is there somewhere legitimate on the web to find out how to extract the yang, I would like to try as I am practising celibacy and im into a year already. I want to use the energy to nourish my weak organs.
I was of the opinion that energy work can help in case you have emotional imbalances, however what I learned here is energy work can actually amplify emotional issues... So how can one normalise their emotional system without doing energy work.... Pls answer...
Stabilise your self-awareness in the hara or belly. The reason why these emotional issues become a problem is that the rising energy goes to the head and remains there. Reed the experience of a Danish yogi Morten Tolboll, who became an alcoholic after his kundalini event. Alcohol was the only way to deal with his kundalini psychosis symptoms. After he started to practice hara/lower dantien awarness, he was healed. He also mentions the story of Zen master Hakuin experience with kundalini/zen sickness.
Im glad you talked about this topic, thanks
🙏
Joh, youre here too!!! :-)
do you know the "Extraction" method he is referring to? He doesn't want to share it because he thinks ppl will harm themselves but i have been practicing semen retention for a while with some successes but probably more failures but i have some understanding in regard my sexual energy. How do i extract my jing after i have built it up for a while? plz
@@91dgross ha! I agree that it injures a ton of people. Best to avoid semen retention and Just to calm strong desire.
😅
Extraction of the qi from jing isn’t really about semen. Should be a different alchemical process resulting from deep stillness.
I think it’s probably a method resulting from bad translations of “jing” and people who should not be writing books. But that’s just my guess as a beginner. 😵💫🐌
@@SnakeAndTurtleQigong thank you for this! Some things to consider for sure
@@SnakeAndTurtleQigong my sifu told me in simple a while ago something like, “if you’re alone and don’t have a woman it’s okay to masterbate every so often, but it’s also okay if you decide not to masterbate, your body will just get rid of any extra semen it doesn’t need when you sleep” my sifu didn’t say it would nocturnal emissions are bad for your kidneys or anything, basically he implied that wet dreams are harmless. However Damo says “wet dreams” are damaging to the kidneys. I wonder if there is any Daoist literature on this or something. Maybe I’ll have to give my sifu a call and have a chat. He always loves to tell long stories or examples of things when I ask questions so it will probably be a long conversation lol but he’s always fun to talk to anyway. See ya tomorrow John
Spirituality aside, the truth of modern relationships is rather grim for most men. Women simply aren't attracted to around 80% of men. Those men need a healthy way to deal with their abundance of sexual energy. This is why there is so much bad info on semen retention on the internet. These men are searching for a solution to the issue. Not having a ready solution to this issue is the cause of all of the disregulation and addiction in the world. Women and men who find themselves in the top 20% have very little empathy or understanding to offer these men.
This situation in the dating world is always discussed as if it is a new phenomenon but it really isn't. It was the same when I was younger. The responsibility to grow and change to adjust your life situation is also not new.
@@LotusNeiGong I certainly agree that it is and has always been the responsibility of the individual to grow. Social media and dating apps however have radically changed the prospects of men who are lower end of things. I'm just glad I'm no longer in that market, but I have a great deal of empathy for the young men coming up today.
@@LotusNeiGongThe new date from Japan and other developed countries on dating, sex and marriage suggest thet your quite out of touch. The social reality of dating has drastically change then what tit was for hundreds of years ago. More and more people are choosing to be unmarried, sexless and childless. Not to mention the phenomena of plummeting fertility among men.
@@gideonros2705 I don’t know why anybody is supposed to have either sympathy for this kind of situation? Not in the case of men anyway. Men are supposed to struggle and work to change their situation in life. That’s called being a man. These days, my respect for men is plummeting big time as they spend all their time crying about how hard the dating scene is cos they watched some shit from Fresh and Fit 😂 time for them to grow and change
the crutch is often referred as anchor; 2 month of nofap is not seman retention, just do it, its good.
Great information but you're gate keeping in other traditions such as brahmachariya they explain how to "extract sexual energy"
A "giga-chad😂 and all your problems will be sorted"😂
If you have a bad intent but do everything properly wont have the results all the same?
Nope. Not with regards to internal work :)
And what a banana!
😋😅
It's better for someone who has engaged in the practice to speak from experience, not from reading something just before a webcast. There are huge benefits to the practice. Just don't believe everything that everyone says, including Mantak Chia.
I have worked within this field for a long time and am very familiar with it. Mantak Chia is not an accurate source for anything on the internal arts
i read white moon on the mountain peak years ago and did the 100 day thing and i got suicidal. i probably did it wrong
Yes, I would say you needed to regulate your mind first! Settled inside first is the key :)
this video would have been very helpful back then and is helpful now
Good to hear it’s useful :)
Guys and girls. Just be kind to eachother and practice safe sex. Keep things clean if you can. 😂
I heard that if you want to develop Qi powers you have to put a ground cable from the perenium into the ground 😅
Insecurty issues are deep seated issues.
Just be kind and loving towards yourself and others that you meet.
Practice what Damo, and Adam put out.
Premature ejaculation is a deep rooted issue in allot of men. Sex Education and simply talking about sex is very important. This can make guys relax and understand the human body, the human experience much more.
Otherwise, maybe become a monk. 😆
Have you made people yet? Lol
Complete nonsense and NOT necessary. This actually has major negative consequences.
Another anonymous online expert heard from. Go back under your bridge.