How to Win a War with a Narcissist

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  • Опубліковано 31 гру 2019
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 74

  • @idinloreng4580
    @idinloreng4580 2 роки тому +8

    God can destroy the narcissists. We need to just pray to Him.

  • @BuffaloBilly69
    @BuffaloBilly69 4 роки тому +50

    I am 43 years old. I am 4 years no contact in a couple of weeks. This festive period has been one of the most difficult periods in my adult life. If you have genuinely suffered at the hands of these people then i wish you peace and much love in 2020

    • @SilentFigure1
      @SilentFigure1 4 роки тому +12

      Yes I agree.

    • @pegasus5148
      @pegasus5148 4 роки тому +2

      Me too... Truly Free Me is the best!

    • @BuffaloBilly69
      @BuffaloBilly69 4 роки тому +2

      Patriarchy cult Is the beast system I only get depressed over the festive period and my birthdays. My birthday was on Wednesday there! The depression never misses me! I started on Monday but thankfully lifted on my birthday. About 2 weeks before Christmas I start to go downhill. You could set your watch by it. My depression and anxiety have massively reduced any other time though

    • @stevens4492
      @stevens4492 Рік тому +1

      I hear you. The people who you thought were going to build you up are the ones who tear you down and want to see you suffer. My siblings have done worse than I have ever done. Yet, they are the ones who are having a problem with my behavior. My brother drove drunk with my mom. He drinks and drives constantly. (He has even gone to prison for drunk driving multiple times, but he does it anyway.) He was speeding and swerving and almost killed them. She was scared, but I'm the problem. Who needs enemies when your family plays that role perfectly. I'm working on my exit strategy now.

    • @BuffaloBilly69
      @BuffaloBilly69 Рік тому

      @@stevens4492 thanks for the comment. I am over 7 years no contact now

  • @juliamarie8551
    @juliamarie8551 4 роки тому +34

    So true!! They spread their narcissism like poison - affecting everyone in their path.

  • @miraclesforus2
    @miraclesforus2 4 роки тому +14

    Ruthless demons

  • @nigtau2715
    @nigtau2715 4 роки тому +13

    When you defend yourself, they say you're "defensive"... So frustrating!

    • @pegasus5148
      @pegasus5148 4 роки тому +3

      Never react to them because it is all used against you.

  • @miraclesforus2
    @miraclesforus2 4 роки тому +20

    I am 62 and my life is temporarily in ruin from EVERY sphere.
    Thank God there are people like you that are educating victims.
    There is a utube I came across recently called trace face it.
    It gets at the root of this issue by validating the spiritual basis by identifying it as demonic.
    Be blessed in the mighty name of Jesus.

    • @m.f.richardson1602
      @m.f.richardson1602 4 роки тому +5

      Susan, I started my healing journey in 2013. As of 01.01.2020, I'm a new person. It was not easy. Praise God.
      Peace Sister
      ps. I'll be 70 this year💝

    • @miraclesforus2
      @miraclesforus2 4 роки тому +4

      M.f. richardson bless your heart. Please pray for me .

    • @caroll.conner6577
      @caroll.conner6577 4 роки тому +3

      Will look that up thank you

    • @TheBuronic
      @TheBuronic Рік тому

      Thanks for sharing trace face it..ive been watching different deliverance ministers like derek prince and win worley or even Frank Hammond..they focus on the spiritual side..

  • @popatochips7677
    @popatochips7677 4 роки тому +34

    I was worried when I saw that you hadn't made a video in a while. But I'm glad you're okay!

  • @concerned1
    @concerned1 4 роки тому +8

    I’m in a war with a narc at work. It was an unspoken war for many years but it became overt about six months ago. I did use the narc’s tactics against him. HR are dealing with it now. I wouldn’t recommend it as it consumes your life. I’m just looking forward to the day I can leave that place.

    • @pegasus5148
      @pegasus5148 4 роки тому +7

      Good Luck and be safe!
      Document everything.
      Trust no one at work.

  • @freedom768
    @freedom768 4 роки тому +13

    I will not get angry nor fight with a empty soul, I will not feed them ,I ignore focus on me my inner self, and honestly enjoy being me ,I couldn't careless what they say about me or anyone things about me ,this is my life it's what I think about me that matters, sooner or later the hang themselves, dont play their games, your time on earth is precious dont waste it on the narcissist madness, hand them the shovel too dig their own graves, rise above them and smile they hate it ,they dont exist in your life walk away is more enjoyable...

  • @bumberClart1000
    @bumberClart1000 4 роки тому +14

    They stop when you kill them off
    By any means necessary ☝️😷

  • @bluhummingbird2179
    @bluhummingbird2179 4 роки тому +15

    So true, especially the covert Narcissist. Not only do they prey on weak people, covert narcissists prey on the most successful people around & make them weak too. They are cowards as well as codependents. I still don't underestimate them though. They can be pretty dangerous & inflexible. So yeah, I totally can relate & agree with you beautiful robot girl. Also, can you do a video on examples with Narcissists as athletes, therapists, police officers, doctors & etc professions? It would really help me.

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 4 роки тому

      Mr. ISFP I believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted whatsoever. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of (Genius-Tracker) who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with (Genius -Tracker) and i got access to her Facebook, Instagram, Email, Snap-chat, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. He’s a genius, contact him via gmail (geniustracker701) or reach him via WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can text/call +1 (601) 287-5528. Thank me later.

  • @elizabethd.2398
    @elizabethd.2398 4 роки тому +18

    Happy New Year, Truly Free Me and everyone! 🥳 I'm going into my 7th year of NC with my narc family and it just keeps getting better by the year.
    Here's my recipe for a wonderful life after narcissistic abuse:
    1 cup of courage
    1 cup of fortitude
    1 cup of determination
    1 cup of no-contact
    Generous sprinkles of love
    Mix together courage, fortitude, determination, and no-contact. Sprinkle love towards others (who aren't narcs) as you move on with your new narc-free life. Bake until new, wonderful life emerges. 🍞 Much love!🥰

  • @SilentFigure1
    @SilentFigure1 4 роки тому +20

    Great to hear from you.

  • @ninaromani1550
    @ninaromani1550 4 роки тому +11

    So so true! Kiss them goodbye, they will all be against you, people you thought you could trust.. all with the narcissist now, and you wonder how did that happen? I didn’t even think they knew each other.. it’s crazy and so evil all of it.. just need to drop them all and start over.. it can be so overwhelming. So glad you are making more videos! Thank you! 🙏❤️🙏

  • @lizabella4885
    @lizabella4885 4 роки тому +4

    When you feel the need to stand up to a narcissist,..and point out their hurtful behaviour towards you,...try this,...talk some comman sense into a cinder block,...that's basically the same results you'll get from ur narc abuser. Just walk away & laugh,..

  • @DayaTom
    @DayaTom 4 роки тому +15

    Happy New Year!!
    Forget the narcs.

  • @andreajohnson5100
    @andreajohnson5100 3 роки тому +3

    He's (the narcissistic ex)is always saying it's my fault that him and his family,gaslighted and mentally and physically abused abused me,they would keep it up,then when I struck back they would call the police.Now,that I've gone no contact,(minimal with the ex,he won't move out)I'm finally able to have my record expunged,and pursue a decent career.🙂

  • @dona4him942
    @dona4him942 4 роки тому +3

    Since they don't like exposure and if enough of us know enough about them, BINGO! They're exposed!

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 4 роки тому +17

    Finally learned the game NM, has been playing all my life.
    2020, is going to be a Great year for Me.
    NO CONTACT. NO CONTACT.
    Only way I can survive and heal.
    Glad your back.

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 4 роки тому

      M. F. Richardson I believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted whatsoever. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of (Genius-Tracker) who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with (Genius -Tracker) and i got access to her Facebook, Instagram, Email, Snap-chat, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. He’s a genius, contact him via gmail (geniustracker701) or reach him via WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can text/call +1 (601) 287-5528. Thank me later.

  • @yvette3049
    @yvette3049 3 роки тому +3

    Yes indeed, they'll get you to invest your energy, time, money, etc, and then viciously pull the rug out from under you. Best invest in one's own life.

  • @teresahaw5454
    @teresahaw5454 4 роки тому +10

    💯true

  • @misha2197
    @misha2197 4 роки тому +4

    This is timely, my brother started a fight with me for defending myself today. He's trying to turn my daughter into his flying monkey but she's not falling for his bullshit.

  • @rhondakoski2948
    @rhondakoski2948 2 роки тому +2

    I found the only way to beat a narcissists is no contact whatsoever.

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 3 роки тому +4

    My second response to this video.
    In my first response, I said "2020 will be a good year for Me".
    2020, has been a Great year for Me.
    NM, died. 93yo, stroke.
    The End.
    I had been NO CONTACT.
    I felt complete Relief.
    Thank you

  • @jenniferconroy4517
    @jenniferconroy4517 4 роки тому +7

    We really need this channel , thank you , healing and happiness to all .....

  • @Poppi_Weasel
    @Poppi_Weasel 4 роки тому +7

    Facts

  • @nickyaerobones
    @nickyaerobones 4 роки тому +10

    Always nice to see you post a video. Happy 2020 for you and all the survivors you've helped.

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 4 роки тому

      Nicky Aerobones I believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted whatsoever. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of (Genius-Tracker) who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with (Genius -Tracker) and i got access to her Facebook, Instagram, Email, Snap-chat, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. He’s a genius, contact him via gmail (geniustracker701) or reach him via WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can text/call +1 (601) 287-5528. Thank me later.

    • @1IlIl
      @1IlIl 4 роки тому +2

      @@iniubongnkanga9390 stop spamming your comment so many times! you criminal. I bet you cheated on your 3 wifes, not the other way around!

    • @1IlIl
      @1IlIl 4 роки тому

      @@iniubongnkanga9390 spammer

  • @paulpavro6457
    @paulpavro6457 4 роки тому +5

    That's right. you cant beat them coz they have done this many times before. They have tools to test your acceptance of their behaviour. As said its best just to escape to a new town because they basically have the psychopathic mindset of a serial killer only their act is slower, more calculated and legal.
    Maybe the best thing to do is tell as many people as possible of your suspicions immediately, sure you will damage yourself but this will damage their game much more and as you have identified yourself as a victim any further act against you will validate your claim. This is the only way you win, you both go down then you get up and brush yourself off, but their shit sticks. Best to 'use' your contacts in this way to prevent them being lost. This form of attack is the best defense.

  • @lhcheng9155
    @lhcheng9155 4 роки тому +6

    Nice to see you with a new video. I just watched some of your videos again yesterday, they are always comfort to me. The information is not always right (like thinking of hurting yourself to accuse your narc), but your heart is right. Narcissist is everywhere in China, half of them are narc I think, you can't escape. When we can't escape, confrontation and exposure is effective. or expose them before escape. When fighting them, fight with stick, not with our hand, but with iron stick, with a mind of cold ,strong, true and honest.
    But we must have at least a member of our army on our side, ( which is a luxury most time), otherwise we just strive for breathing, too weak physically and spiritually.

  • @mukttamahajan524
    @mukttamahajan524 4 роки тому +6

    Nice to see you 😍

  • @Kymmieee
    @Kymmieee 4 роки тому +7

    HAPPY NEW YEAR

  • @MisterJenkins1
    @MisterJenkins1 3 роки тому +2

    My god this lady is good !!!!!

    • @tcbcmoto4895
      @tcbcmoto4895 3 роки тому +1

      She brilliant God bless her and us,I seen another of her videos she had a tough life with narssissits I hope she's doing great as her videos have helped a lot of us 🙏

  • @keithfreeman5840
    @keithfreeman5840 4 роки тому +4

    So true! Thank you!!

  • @BiggZenx7
    @BiggZenx7 Рік тому

    They the lowest of the lowest envious of the envioust 💯

  • @FlynaijaGuy
    @FlynaijaGuy 4 роки тому +2

    I had to apologize to my narcissist because of my position in church. And because of the age gap (they are an elder I’m a young adult). They found the pettiest things to complain on me for. They ended up stepping down though, from the department we shared because, I introduced rules and reform to the department and basically frustrated them out of the job we shared.

  • @tcbcmoto4895
    @tcbcmoto4895 3 роки тому +3

    God bless you and your great videos I hope your doing great,and God bless us all and all people of good heart 🙏❤️

  • @amandamcdonald6152
    @amandamcdonald6152 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you!!

  • @wintergoddess8210
    @wintergoddess8210 4 роки тому +2

    Wonderful Thank you 😊 Happy New year 2020 🎊🎈

  • @Th0ughtZ_
    @Th0ughtZ_ 4 роки тому +3

    Keep making videos.

  • @Sunlitgrace
    @Sunlitgrace 4 роки тому +2

    Hello wishing you a happy and prosperous new year!

  • @wonderfullymade5191
    @wonderfullymade5191 4 роки тому +3

    I love your videos. Could you send me the link to the program you use to conceal your identity?

  • @-chilly-142
    @-chilly-142 2 роки тому

    love you alot

  • @maca5868
    @maca5868 3 роки тому +1

    2:04

  • @1IlIl
    @1IlIl 4 роки тому +2

    the link in the description doesn't work!

  • @dissolvingreality2479
    @dissolvingreality2479 2 роки тому

    I'm in HELL