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They do it to find out how much control they have over you.
Pretty much
Yep but will continuously complain afterwards that they feel like they're walking on eggshells with you when their crap is stomped.
And how much they can get away with.
And if they gain full control; mission accomplished, on to the next one.
Let them think they are controlling you but at the end of the day, be the one pulling the strings without her even noticing.
Don't play those games. I had a woman who started talking to me and started showing interest in me. And out of the blues, she started saying that she has no time for a boyfriend (I never told her I wanted to be her boyfriend yet), so I stopped calling her because she said she has no time. As soon as another woman started showing interest in me, she literally jumped in the middle while we were having a conversation to sabotage my relationship, and started acting like we were dating for years.
I had similar 🙄
Fuck that man...I'd say no no its alright you don't have to help me I actually like this person and I want to talk to her. You don't need to lie, you don't have a boyfriend at all, you don't even have time for one!
Thwy think that they have the upper hand. You showed her that she didn't by moving on. You should tell her in front of the other lady that you are not interested in her. She will get back at you though so be ready.
I had the same situation 😐
Shoulda been like bitch get out of here i already told you i wasn't interested
We’ve been so beaten down, we think it’s normal. Time to cut the strings and walk.
"Sorry, that's the nature of the game."
"Then the winning move is not to play."
They're like children, testing the boundaries and men have to be the parent😂!
The Bible says a woman’s nature is “whimsical and capricious.”
Exactly like children!
I say this all the time, it’s this exactly. Women “mature” quicker than men, but the maturity stops very early in their development. Average I’ve seen is around 14 years old. Which is why they believe the sweet lies so often. Biological imperative fused with childish nature
Please Sir, don't insult Children..
@@letholamokhesi1253 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I never fall for those shit test...so I just dump them n move on
Discovering the S test was the final nail in the coffin as to why I took myself off the market place forever. Children. Utter children.
Well done
Well what's the point? You're trying to maintain a meaningful relationship and the woman is "stress testing" it into destruction. And then blames you for the whole thing collapsing
You got it. Bravo, however no children, if that's what you want...
There is so much power in just leaving a chik if she doesn’t fit your world.
That's where I am now. At 62 years old, I got NO TIME for shit tests! I've already made peace with the idea that I may die alone--so don't even think about it, B*tch!
Word cuz it’s pointless games n stupid at the end of the day I’m too old for it
Why would any man in his right mind want that in his life?
I have no sympathy for the men that put up with it.
Same. It’s not worth it
A man cannot avoid being shit tested if he's in a relationship with a woman. Either the guys check her or check out.
@@mrjjthor lol young words.
Wisdom will teach you, that you don’t have to accept any of it.
@@MicadelicMindset and I agree no man has to accept any of it. That's why it's best to just check out of any relationship.
@@mrjjthor well, I wouldn’t dismiss them all, however modern day women do have a control issue, so you are best off getting in tune with yourself.
“Chase excellence, not women.”
I hate that "If you loved/cared for me you would read my mind." I just respond with "What am I thinking about right now?". At that point I will think about pink elephants or drag racing cars. Generally they are so far off target. I respond with "If you cannot read my mind why do you expect me to read yours?"
CHECKMATE 👌👌
Tell her that thick craniums block your psychic ability.
@@rm5282 LOL, excellent.
@@rm5282 Or the lack of mind to read
@@ALJ9000 haha....that's a good one.
At age 40...2 years ago...I'm ashamed to admit that a woman played me like a damn harp. I thought I was past that point in my life but she got me and got me good...not financially. Just manipulation...had me open and I didn't even realize it. Finally realized what was going on toward the end. I think I was mad at myself more so for letting my guard down and getting played by a nice body and a gorgeous face.
Two words... Never again
I got played like a fucking harp twice. Once by son’s mother, and then again by this girl who saw my fucking emotional side. Hard feels on this, bro
Becareful of them Harpies + Sirens... Don't fall for their charms and always remember that (just as their literal mythos counterparts) they are just voracious man eaters. Spend time with working out, learning surrounding knowledge, and experiencing the wonders life could bring u 👍
@@bisonbilly4065 I hear you. Sad part is they always ask why we don't or won't open up. No man in his right mind would
Not to be a dick. But at 40 you act like a kid that got embarrassed or made fun of in school and now you don’t want to go back.
Everyone gets hurt and heartbroken. Geez, that’s part of life. Men and women equally get hurt, betrayed, heartbroken and devastated. You can either learn from it and discover what about YOU attracted such a person i your life, or you can become cynical and not want to return to school cause all the kids are mean to you.
Good lord, life is not for the faint or the meek. I’m starting to think RP is straight up for pu$$y boys that can’t get pu$$y and when they do, they get taken for a ride because they scream desperation.
Everyone takes advantage of suckers. Car salesmen do it all the time. Again, life, lessons, learn or hide in a hole
@@lm3729 Nah. There's a difference between being a d*ck and being honest. I appreciate the honesty. I just dusted myself off and kept it moving. Another lesson learned. Some of us have to be reminded every now and then.
The only person she’s testing is herself. I pay no mind to that 💩 , if she wants to pull a stunt like that, I’ll gladly see her to the door 🚪 and slam it. Then afterwards I’ll order Buffalo wilds wings and hop on the PS5 👌🏽
buffalo wild wings… amazing food!
Her: I don't think this is going to work.
Me: See you 'round.
Oh shyt!!! I never knew this. I was always called an asshole by women cause I don’t really give a shyt or listen to em that much. 😂😂😂
Best thing you can do, lol
💯💯💯 same, never put yourself in a position to not be in complete control. If she doesn't like it, ciao ciao.
Keep on doing whatchew doing bro, ESPECIALLY now that you know.
Yadaddi bro... ur doin good. Just tell em to buzz of and collect "pollen" somewhere else.
You must be doing something right then. Lol
Maybe our grandfathers were onto something when they would just smack a woman when they got out of line. That seems to have been the perfect response to a shit test and showed them who is the boss.
Oh how I long for the days.
As bad as the majority ethnic group of the United States was in the early years of the country, not giving women the right to vote back then was probably for the best.
@@rm5282
At the time, the majority of women didn’t want the vote but that didn’t stop the suffragettes.
and that's exactly why feminism exists 😌😌😌and will never go away 😌😌😌
I'm deep into the manosphere and I am learning so much. I feel like I've actually broken free of the matrix. Everything looks different. And it's both exciting and scary at the same time. Exciting for me because I'm winning so much. But scary because you see the destruction and how it's even perpetrated by even your own family. You see the exact moment when the matrix grabs hold of your little cousin, or niece, and you try to grapple with whether to try to save them and whether to try to help the mothers so they can raise better daughters and sons, or be a direct influence in the kids' lives. We have so much work to do. But we are basically gods. We build. We will build a better world.
One thing to remember is: you cant save everybody. Tough though✊️
These guys: "Women will try to play these games and try to shit test you. Beta men suck at it, and alpha men know how to play it and how to win."
No, if you're still trying to "win" at games like that, you're still beta.
Well said, ultimately she wins at being a woman-child.
Enough with this Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Signa BS. Why are we labeling ourselves to justify our failures? Just learn from em and carry on for frontier folks. If they don't wanna settle down, why waste your time + energy + resources?
Use whatever skills you have/need and make your castle to your desire. If a "princess" wants to settle in *YOUR DOMAIN* ... TELL EM THAT WHEN IN ROME, DO WHAT THE F-ING ROMANS DO... AND THEY HAVE ENTERED "YOUR ROME"
@@shadmanhasan4205 what about Ligma?
@@crl122486 ligma balls got'em! Thanks for your service, sir.
Simple test to see how much she can control you and to see if you are worth having. They are Their Own Worst Enemy and inevitably this will undermine and Destroy almost every relationship they have
TOWE...you created a new acronym for these types of women. Good job sir! I will use it.
@@rm5282 I like it brother let's take it and run with it. Anything to help move us forward
True story
"Women, then, are merely children of a larger growth;..." Lord Chesterfield
And this video proves that statement, which was taken as a received fact, to be an immutable truth.
They develope faster than males throughout puberty. When they reach adult age this thing called logic stunt further development.
Be prepared to get up from the table and leave the building. Watch what happens. Whoever cares the least has the power in the relationship.
It's in their nature. They need constant reassurance to know you're strong enough to lead the relationship and take it wherever it needs to go. This is fundamental and at the core of a lot of their neurotic behaviour. The funny thing is they have no idea they're doing it! It's driven by their subconscious. They're so instinctive and indirect. Disconnected from their true selves. Hilarious creatures!
No, they don't. They need to grow up and catch up to the other adults in the world. IF men would leave the childish little girls in women's bodies alone, that is...then they'd not have a choice...
@@conandude76 hilarious and true
@@conandude76 I want you to imagine that Fallout or Mad Max happens in real life. Now I want you to ask yourself “could women survive these situations without men?”
Depending on your answer, you’ll understand why sh*t tests will always be here
I dont play that "constant" 💩. They get one chance upon wich they will KNOW that's the last.
When you realise that women are basically the same as children you start to get a better perspective. A kid will always push your boundaries and see how far they can push and get away with it.
If you show them you don’t need them they will respect you.
Well children have a personality and humanity to show compassion and actual love. Modern women don't. Children learn modern women don't
Best comment on this thread 👍🏻 and it’s the simplest because when they play that game & you walk
You’ll start seeing there shadow everywhere
I'll say fine. It ain't gonna work and I'm off this.
Agreed
As a man, you're always on trial....
~Sandman
I was told this in my early twenties, '"She will kick you in the balls, hoping they're made of steel." or something to that effect. Took decades of experiences with women to finally figure out what that meant.
This video has been one of the most influential videos I have seen this year.
This shit needs taught to all young bucks so that they can better navigate life.
they do it to find out if she's replaceable. if ur like "deuces ✌🏽" then she knows you have other options... then she will find you irresistible.
The only way of winning anything is never to play the game by the rules and terms of others.
Every girl I met on dating apps gives me the shit test after I tell give them my occupation and salary.
For example? What’d they say to you?
When you step away and they protest..say: " I just don't it will work out..you are right... good luck. "
Watch what happens.
It's crazy how much clarity you gain after a shit relationship.
It's these Petty childish games they do that have made me gone MGTOW.
Whenever I’m having fun being single. My ex wife tells me the kids are sick or bored. Meaning go take them out. She’s shit testing me. I figured it out. I double down on fun.
I like when you put the other content providers in....each one teach one.
If you get emotional with a woman she will metaphorically put a chastity belt on just for you.
Why should I respect you?
Why should I provide for you?
Why should I protect you?
Why should I love you when this is how you move?
Ask women.
I discovered your channel very randomly yesterday and really like the content. Good job man
Congrats on 10k subs
Great compilation from some of the living legends! Well done!
Been shit-tested--walked away. I have no need to prove my worth for my character speaks for itself. I don't mind being alone; I'm good company.
I'm one of those type of guys that don't have the patience to be playing these mind games with females as soon as a female start playing those type of game then I am done like I said I don't have the patience or the time to be playing these type of games
I do not play... Quite simple of a move. They get one chance and only one chance.
New Love and Peace Family Always! Understand: Womennare the highest expression of water. If you Truly want to understand women study the Nature of water. Water always looks to test its boundaries. Water always seeks its own level. Water seeks the path of least resistance. Water takes the shape of whatever vessel it is placed in. Water is the second most powerful force in Creation, the Most Powerful is Thought. Water cannot clean itself, freeze itself or turn into a gas. That is for the Sun to do. 😤👍🏾
Nonsense...water does not test it's boundaries it accepts and embraces them!
@@sammaloney1746 Question: Why then does the ocean waves splash up against the rocks? Why do rivers flood their banks? Remember: water is shapeless and formless and will RUN until it meets its boundaries.
@@cortneyjones5159 Because of the fucking MOON!!!
You're confusing tides and rivers with water. Yes the water obeys gravity...but so do we.
What if a lake? What of water in a bottle. You see water is completely controllable and easy as fuck to manage. Women take far more effort!
In the words of Bill Burr, "why do you wanna understand women? Women understand women and they hate each other..."
@@conandude76 That was Al bundy wasn't it?
If I thought I was getting tested I ended my association with her immediately. No explanation; just disappear. No sense in telling her why because she'd only deny that she was testing you, and then she'd turn the tables on you. Of course you'd wind up being the nut case.
Amazing how, to some women, doing them small favors like "bringing them a beer" makes you a beta male; since they view themselves as the prize, these simple acts of politeness along with consideration for their feelings, thoughts, etc., is expected rather than appreciated-- to be returned in kind at their leisure, if returned at all. And they wonder why chivalry is dead. No rational person, man or woman, would or should encourage these maladaptive, childish behaviors by catering to hem.
Test them back. It’s your kingdom, your assets, your time. Don’t let liabilities in your lives gentlemen
Come here after doing some researching about the "marriage activities" in Japan, when they agree to meet, the man is expected to do every prepration for the date, planning, researching, booking, escorting the woman, selecting the table, pulling the chair, lead interesting conversations (while being a good listener), paying the bills, being clean and well-dressed (if he fails any of those shit tests, he is immediately disqualified, and he can still be disqualified even if he passes them all too, if she happens to find a better Beta),....and that is only after he got the chance to meet her because he has very high income, higher than average height, and is high on the social ladder, all of this is just a way for the woman to train her Betabux. All that just so when they marry, she can stay at home and enjoy his money.
And mind you not, these woman are typically in their 30s, or even 40s.... who in their 20s have been sleeping around with the chads and spend all her money on stupid things and luxurious travel.
That's why 1/4 of the man in their 30s in Japan say they are not even interested in marriage anymore, if you are not a chad and get to play those free holes, it's just better to save your money and enjoy your life.
Had a female once say to me "I'm gonna be expecting something from you on valentine's day." I was like "you not my valentines." Then she played it off with a jokingly response. I knew exactly what she was trying to do smh foh
You should have said, " cool, I'll bring the type of condo you like."
5:22 I'd get up, go get a beer, come back and drink it myself.
I've been falling them my whole life.
The best response that I know of for many sh*t tests is simply to yawn. Regarding "get me a beer". Say, sure to her but then do it in your own time. Make her wait and ask at least two more times so that she sees that you know what she is doing. Once she knows you are hip to her little game then you can do what she asks. I would go so far and pretend to be a waiter at a restaurant with napkin on my arm. Just do it at your own pace and with "we all know what this is" humor. This will frustrate the woman and gain you respect at same time. Last part. After you bring the beer sit down and then ask her in nice way to go get the chips and salsa.
I’m really concerned about this...I mean, we can’t expect to have a healthy and clear relationship with any woman? We need to be or act as jerks to keep on the game as much as possible? Isn’t it sick for men and women?
As a woman I agree with this video. We do not test alphas because they are good-looking and wealthy. We are just innately drawn to them. There is no need to shit test them. ❤
This must be an early relationship thing. As the relationship matures the people in it are supposed to mature also.
That's not even close to true. I wish it was
@@alexinfinite7142 That's the whole purpose of having a relationship with someone.
@@RobertRayDmv yes. What I meant to say is, that's not what we are seeing. Everyone is so bay emotionally immature. I thought I was bad (I still probably am) but holy cow it's a real disaster out there
Steph With the Daggers 😭😂😂😂
Truths spoken here.
This is so true I suffered being a partial beta male I thought I was helpful but I was just playing myself I learned that the hard way
I’ve never taken shit testing in my life my father was red pill when I was born he said when a girl does that “walk” and every time I walked they’ve followed with there dumb excuses like “ you know I was only joking don’t you? You take yourself too seriously!? 😠 if a girl starts shit testing you she won’t stop doing it no matter how alpha you are She just waits for the next best opportune time
Went through it once. After that, I dont put up w that 💩. And guess what, I only have to put a 🛑 to it right away, and ONLY ONCE and they get in line.
Im a natural nice guy. It is tough but gets easier. It is necessary 🤷♂️
Man. I wish this was advised to me during the times I was dealing / w Toxic females. I know better now, though.
If a woman tests my boundaries, it's only fair I test her limits.
In my opinion the whole "read my mind thing" is a sign that their still mentally stuck in a child like state. The desire to just be understood is a leftover from when they were children and their adult parents had to dicern what they, as small children, wanted to communicate but couldn't due to a genuine lack of mental development. Children can't communicate clearly due to having little life experience and a still developing mind that still mainly runs on emotions. And most of this Wmn who want a Mn to "just get it" are still stuck in that mental state so they expect the Mn, the new substitute parent, to act as a parent to them and dicern what they aren't mature enough to just say it and express it in a clear manner.
Fantastic video
Observed & Intimidater
MAT IN THE HOUSE!!! the33secrets rocks
Once I realized this, I put my foot down and put my woman on blast. She has rarely shit tested me since.
If men become what women want, then they won’t have a problem getting women. If women become what men want, they’ll actually get married and stay married. Traditional roles work, strive for the traditional family model. Accept no less
Women continuously playing games is not the nature of adults that really want lasting relationships. If a woman is playing games with you, simply walk away. You are wasting your time. We need real women, not little girls that need to play games to validate themselves and try to gain/maintain control over men…And they wonder why they can’t keep good men around. It’s your game playing that’s why. Real men don’t need that in our lives. We got better things to do.
Last time someone did a shit test on me here's how it went:
Her: I don't think this is gonna work out.
Me: Alright. See ya.
Her: Hang on, you don't want to talk about this?
Me: If it's not going to work there's no point. Good luck with finding someone.
Left and ghosted her. Don't waste time or put up with games. Make that abundantly clear and be ready and willing to leave at the drop of a hat. If anyone thinks they can keep you in their life and play mind games with you drop them from your life. Family, friend, or gf. Some people deserve a warning and a second chance but no one in my life gets a third.
Steph is funny as hell, lol!
There is no testing, obey or kick rocks.
Beta telling me I gotta be a mind reader, that's golden.
No I don't gotta read minds. I stopped chasing after childish girls and swapped to actual women a long time ago. If she's playing the mind reading game with you, she's a child.
Then he tells us that '...that's the nature of the game.." Yeah, because simp betas such as yourself have SET that precedent over the past 20 years or more. If guys would stop listening to their dicks, and stop being such fucking weakling simps, it would then be WOMEN who are telling themselves "...that's the nature of it...". Many of us have already been doing that (basically when we became adults and decided we wanted a women, not a childish girl in a woman's body) and have actually seen results. Again, with REAL women, not girls.
/smh beta. talking weakling beta crap, while trying to teach betas to be alphas.....
Stay AGILE-MOBILE-HOSTILE. Do not put up with sheet tests…she thinks she COULD be above you? Dump that B, do not allow women to interrupt your good life! Goose we are in a target rich environment! Thanks MANOSPHERE for keeping us on track! We are MEN.
My girl just did a shit test, me & her was in 7-11, I told her to get distilled water but she went to get ice mountain. I told distilled is healthier, she still took the ice mountain. I gave her a frown & moved on. She backtracked & try to get the distilled water, i said no need. just take the ice mountain cos it was such a hassle. Did i pass or fail? Im just flexible like that but if i dont like something, i will not change me mind though.
The way to win the game is to not fall in love. You can love consciously, but dont fall in love. If u feel uncomfortable or disrespected, you will automatically, show it in the face & tell her off or move on easily to someone who knows how to respect you cos at end of the day, the dynamic should be comfortable for you too.
Lol 😂 this is RICH. Yes! Do exactly what this video says
The point is to be a fan. When the S hits it, she gets it in the face.
Yah before that used up Idol... Amen.
I used to make up excuses for my bullies. I would say, "It's not their fault or true intentions, they are just immature or they working through issues". I would become their punching bag, their jesus crist on the cross, for years. Until I said, FUCK THAT SHIT! I dont give a fuck if a woman is doing consciously or subconsciously. Anyone that tries me, will get burn.
For some guys they lose either way
Stephiscold is jks 🤣
They need to test themselves. They give mean test like they already deem themselves having no problems with them that might end the relationship.
No woman who does that is worth being with, so as soon as a woman starts playing such games, he should break up with her.
Jack Murphy lol
The best way to deal with this is to ask those questions you really want to know about her. She starts testing you, ask her " how many guys did she take out to dinner as a surprise ?"
4:00. So everybody following her social media is just shooting themselves in the foot.
Women play far too many games!
Who wants to have to walk on eggshells 24/7/365?
When you add up all the crap they put you through, expense, nagging, games, criticism, negativity, etc. and, still have to worry about them cheating, baby, I've got too many things to do and ya know what? the really young ones don't pull that crap on you, so, for me, 18-28 only!
Be like Leonardo D! Hahahahaha
My Ex-wife did this constantly. Daily poking and prodding me, always trying to get reaction out of me. If she spent half of that of time on studies she be a dam doctor by now. There was this constant game that I was always trying to learn the rules but the rules changed constantly with her every little whim or mood and I am just left to figure it out. More than once I got fist fight with some other dude over her little games. When I knew I was done, driving home from Halloween party. I had just got into fight with some bozo over her, we are car I am still fuming over what had just happened she says to me "it's makes me happy you would fight for me?" I realized that she had set me up to pump up her ego by blackening his eyes. I knew at that moment I had to get out, someone was going to end up in prison or the morgue. I played nice threw holidays, new years day she comes home from work I had moved out. 13 years later she is still trying get back into my life, still random calls. Women are not worth it.
5:55 lmfao
The most important thing i learn from the red pill community is that i see bad traits in women in the women in my family such as aunts, sister and cousins. Amazed i was blind for so long and glad i walked away.
Word..... It's CHESS not Checkers!!!
This channel is missing Coach Corey Wayne. Still awesome content though.
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Mhd you wanna know sum too they do it sometimes and think we don’t realize this girl I was talking to and I was being very cautious with her seeing if she had any red flags and I found that she when she would get mad would become combative and masculine and she shit tested me multiple times she would do dumb shit to try to test if I would get mad she even told me and she kept doing it so I had to tell her nope thanks for the daily message 💯 red 💊
When enough women are crying to each other they will self correct but we as men have to collectively stop simping, man up, call them on their bullshit and let them walk when they test us!
Women will test... it's just a fact. I've had lots of tests run on me. Don't tolerate them, or ignore that advice @ your peril. You can set the rules early, or you can struggle with the games...
Think of it this way? Children need boundaries/rules/structure.. or they're fkd up for life? Your relationships with women are the same. You have options, whether spinning plates or not. Personally, if I don't have plates spinning, I'd Much rather be alone than tolerate a drama queen. Learn to enjoy your solitude, your friends, your pets, your hobbies. If Any woman isn't a asset/complement...then she's a liability. Life's too short to tolerate those sort. 👍👍
I leave once any shit test begins.
I don’t care why they do it. I just care THAT they do it and unless they’re gonna stop, I have no interest in them. It’s why I talk down about humans. Y’all suck-aim higher. Be more, be better than human.
A sh!t test is a basic form of questions? What else would you guys do? Not have a conversation and just stare at each other?
I don't act and I don't pretend. It is what it is. If she's down with the man I've become, great. If not then she's free to leave.
Is this sandman??