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Why Men don't Date Single Mothers | Manosphere Highlights
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- Опубліковано 14 сер 2024
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Dating a single mother is like picking up the bill for a dine and dasher. You didn't get to enjoy any of the meal but you got to make someone else happy
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Using my real photo and name for this one.....young men, DO NOT DATE, SCREW, OR EVEN TALK TO A SINGLE MOTHER. Ladies, you have your advice for young ladies, and we have our advice for young men, young men, DO NOT TIE YOURSELF TO ANOTHER MAN’S ISSUES/SITUATION/PROBLEMS, you deserve the ability to choose your family and not have a family choose you.
PREACH IT BROTHER! Let's wake more men up and make these conversations normal amongst men. God knows we are always shamed in society for these stances.
When i was young and dumb i tried dating a single mom. She brought her kid over one day he misbehaved and i stopped it. She exploded on me and i told her that i will correct anyone in my houses behavior i didn't like and that she can GTFO never again.
I dated a woman with 4 kids. She was always down to bang. Long as she set up the time. But if I said hey can we meet. No go. They know but they can't help but want.
You were wrong for having that bastard in your house!
NEVER let a fefail bring another man's child into your home.
NEVER!
You are Wolverine. Welcome to the pack!
You dodged a huge one and her small gremlin!
Fuck yeah. Should’ve paddled his little ass. I was in Germany and this American woman’s kid was acting up touching shit breaking shit. Finally an older German woman had enough, grabbed him spanked him before the mom. Wasn’t shit she could do. We weren’t in America. I was like hell yeah!! “You Americans have the most rotten children!” Or some shit like that in her German accent. Happened in K Town 2009. Funny as shit.
HERE HERE TO ALL US MEN 🍻🍻
Woof woof!
Ha!
@BLACK PILL GOD OF MGTOW no one cares 😑
@BLACK PILL GOD OF MGTOW or DON'T give her the D. Lol did you watch the video?
Silence you fools!
When I was a teenager working in a fast food restaurant, I was explicitly told by an older, single-mother co-worker not to date single mothers.
"You don't want a ready made family."
I never looked back.
You owe that woman a gift or something. That’s some selfless wisdom she helped give you
That's funny. 😆 But she told you the truth!
Im surprised she didn't try to date you... these women are turning into desperate perverts hitting on kids now.
Just got out of relationship like this and trust me I feel like I'm a recovering drug addict trying to get my life back together.
How long were you together?
@@jangolub8240 About a year and a half, and really ti be honest the juice isn't worth the squeeze mate.
@@jangolub8240 Also if you listen to the very beginning of the video Rich was spot on you will always be last and it is a THANKLESS position.
@@iamlimitless7543 that yr felt like 5 yrs
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Bruh, that's some serious imagery right there...
Mothering works best for babies and toddlers, Fatherhood works best for adolescent's and young adults
I also dislike dealing with babies and toddlers. Just shifting shitty jobs on women. No, thanks.
@@Netokrate That's your duty as a mother. tough luck
I married a single mother. After 18yrs she chose her daughter over me. That was a brutal betrayal to me. I got tired of supporting her kids and I had enough and walked out...
Good for you brother. Protect your peace. Meanwhile she is miserable and probably still single.
I get SOOOOO MAD when these women out here wanna PRETEND like you don't exist bro :(
bitches bout to get tha slap!!! lol
Wow case in point case in point...thanks for sharing
Not to beat you up; but you should have never been there to begin with
@@jahrules8674 duh dude.....duh
To a woman with a child you're nothing more than a wallet to support her bad decisions of the past.
That's all you are to any woman who isn't your mother. Don't fool yourself.
REAL ALPHAS BUILD THEIR OWN KINGDOM!!! BOOOOOOM!!
I told my ex that I’m the best you’ve got at this point and we are 42. She’s done and I’m in my prime with 1 kid.
When they are a single mother, they are only looking for someone to pay the bills, you dont get much if anything in return. I made that mistake ONCE and I will NEVER do that again....
Same. Never again.
My dad dated a single mother with three kids. I did grown up right somewhat but I had to find ways to finish growing up on my own. I keep getting asked when am I getting a girlfriend, and I tell my dad that it's not happening. I am perfectly happy being single. I am not going to date a single mother and have my resources go to kids that are not mine.
Good on you my friend.
Single Mothers are used cars with over 250,000 miles on it. They're leftovers from a New Years feast reheated on Christmas day.
Been there, done that. Young men/guys... don't go there. At best you'll be secondary. I learned the lesson too late and I'll be 60 in less than two years. Be wise and learn from the mistakes of us older guys. Peace.
Thank you for helping younger men.
If you expect a man to treat you as priority 1, then you need to treat him as such. Anything you expect you need to bring. If you don't, then don't act suprise when your alone.
With all the birth control options out there, I don't understand how an adult woman can get pregnant if she does not want to? If you say this to most women, they get mad at you, they take NO RESPONSIBILITY for their actions.
Some want the financial support from some sucker. Some others see a player slipping away and think to trap him with a kid.
Of course, the guy has already three other baby mamas he ignores, but he will surely change for her. How could he not? She's special!
I totally agree with you - herbert harris , most women have kids at a young age, instead of concentrating on their career first , haven't these modern women heard of condoms , the female decides when she wants to get pregnant and have a baby not the male , kids are expensive these days , if a female allows a man to impregnate her without helping financially", then she's a fool ---- !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok not all men are dead beats dads. Stop it. Some men just can't take it any longer. In other words some good men where driven away. Because she still wants to play around with bad men
Exactly😂😂....
90% of the time when a single mother says she has a dead beat baby daddy, it means 2 things.
She took him to the cleaners, so yeah he would be dead beat now.
He turned into a dead beat baby daddy so he don't have to deal with her shit.
My buddy knocked up his girlfriend way back when. And her single motherdom was basically spent screwing him out of as much visitation as possible. She could’ve started a family with the guy. She chose to be an evil witch
No matter how wonderful, sexy, beautiful, or just friendly, a woman is, somebody somewhere is sick of her b*******.
TRUTHS!!!
I can say, for a fact, that a lot of woman use their kids as a tool to help themselves, not the children.
They belong to the streets guys 🤷🏽♂️
@Grand Admiral Thrawn 😂
kanye the goat
Seen too many single men get shot by someone's Ex.😐
Single mothers don't have much of a social life outside of her kids unless she hangs out with other single moms .
Never play another man’s saved game.
I want this channel to gain over a million subs. That's how much I respect the work put into it. 💯
Love this channel!
Kevin Samuels is such a great dresser. That's a dandy right there. Pure elegance.
I was with a women with 2 boys 7 and 11 who didn’t have father’s and moved them into a 4 bedroom house.. the mother eventually started cheating and fucked up the relationship I had with those boys because she kept using the boys as collateral to try to get us bk together.. SMDH..
Dating a single mother right now and let me tell you she would be a perfect side chick not a girlfriend
Let me guess. You’re there when the kids asleep. Lmao 🤣
@@mr.duanesharpe crazy thing is she's bad as fuck makes money treats me like a king..... Pros out weighs the cons........
@@calmsyvibes1010 hey man. If that’s the case then good for you. If it’s just a “thing” then good for you. I’m dating one also but I have no intentions of marrying her etc. I just can’t see myself with her long term and have told her this but she is in love. Ummmmm yea I’m an asshole 🤷🏿♂️ (cheers)
Also also. Some single moms are not as bad as people think. They make it seem like it’s a disease and they are un datable. I would say it’s the “intentions” of the man who date women who have children. Right?
@@mr.duanesharpe well for the most part single mothers are not a great fit for long term.... Only a few out there are
@@mr.duanesharpe I can't see myself marrying anyone Woman kid or no kid
Tom leykis's version is more direct
Interesting thoughts. I think this would help a lot of women not opt to become single mothers. It’s often a lack of proper teaching. Younger women don’t know ”game” and fall for BS and do not understand their worth w/o children. I was a single mother after a bad marriage but I still chose wrong overall. Hopefully the men want to see change their communities will begin to teach and hopefully young women will listen.
Well if a girl is raised by a single mother you cannot expect a man to teach them those things. She most likely will learn from the public school indoctrination camps and repeat her mother's mistake.
@@lonelydogclub No he sure does have to. However, it would better for the black community as a whole. My daughters father was not present but I made sure she had that masculine energy in her life. You don’t have to be doomed to anything. You can still learn what you weren’t taught. If a man cares about this issue he’ll educated if not he will keep moving. His choice.
@@candicefloyd6532 If the man can only see his daughter 2 times a month what do you expect him to do? Family court injustice is real. Restraining orders are real.
@@lonelydogclub You seem to have a specific scenario in your mind. My point is that education is the key to stopping lots of negative cycles. Single mothers do not deserve a free pass. However, their children can still be taught to be better.
@@candicefloyd6532 I agree with you that promiscuous lifestyles need to stop being glorified, but men are just as guilty as women in this. The breakdown of the family has had disastrous consequences, but I believe that men need to be held accountable for their role, the same as women.
Trust me I don't even like Richard Cooper and he's completely right about being a stepfather
Never finish baking another man's cream pie.
The problem here is the assumption of the fathers being losers that just left. As one of those fathers I will tell you it’s not the kid that is the problem to the fathers. It’s the mother being entitled and infantile.
That part. I am a great father, my ex on the other hand was hard to deal with. Unresolved childhood trauma. Daddy issues. The list goes on. I take blame to cause I didn't vet her properly. But good luck to the next man that has to deal with her, thus while having to help her raise my child when he's not with me lol
I would never date a single mother, ever!
Lol dope compilation 😭🤣💯
I have never date a single mom; and i never will. Don´t do it, you will earn a responsability that aint yours.
(A friend back in college date one, at the end he was in home taking care of another man childs, while the so call "lady" was with her friends drinking an partying,)
My two biggest issues is first and foremost, I can't stand being around children. I got a vasectomy at the age of 38 and childless (wanted to get one at 25 but everyone kept telling me that I'd change my mind). And second, I'll never be a priority in your life. Every child is a choice. You made your choice.
StephisCold be going off!! Legend.
I think most of them are missing one important point:99% of single mothers, wanted to leave kids fathers. Either they acted it out directly or indirectly it doesn't change the facts. So if she didnt had morals to act in her child best interest, why do you think she has morals to be a decent person with you?!
Exactly!!!!!
True
“Why take care of another man’s kingdom, That’s like wearing another niggas drawers ” 😭😭😭😭 Steph killed me with that one 😂😂
The hardest thing for men to accept is that the majority of this isn't even limited to mothers that are single; it's literally just what it's like when you're with a woman and kids are involved. You will always be last priority whether you get with her as a single mother or if you get with her and have your own kids together.
If she has your kids though she also goes down in your priorities, that's how it should be
I don't want to be more important to my kids' mother than they are to her. What kind of pathetic excuse for a man wants to be more important than his own kids?
Of course, the parents should put the children first, but that doesn't mean the parents neglect each other.
Unfortunately I married a single mother who was never married to either of her kids father , I
took good care of her and her kids tried my best to raise my step son... long story short he lied to CPS and said I was mistreating him and abusing him...so I was arrested, l lost thousands of Dollars with Lawyers, fines, job opportunities etc....I definitely would advise any Man to avoid being a step father.
Wow!!! That's fu-ked up!!
Where are all these Dads who should be paying child support for the kid/kids they helped create? Last I heard, it takes 2 to tango, do the lateral mambo, and do the horizontal bop?
He trusted you with birth control. He has no say in abortion, adoption, and custody.
Most of his child support is spent on mother and he has no say. And with all this being shoved down his throat all you can say is he shouldn't of trusted you.
1:15 this dude killed me lmfao
I'm in my early 50's. Never Cohabitated. Never Married. No Children. Successful. Stand Up And Be The Man That You Are. Stop Chasing Women And Start Living Your Life...
Instant family. Just add wallet.
Thank you white American guys for setting the trend in the beginning for not settling with single mothers now the world opening their eyes on the situation.
1:31 I'm done bro.. 😂
Single mothers are for men attractive like homeless men with 500.000 in debt.
So much truth.
Lmaooo my brother with the orange durag has me crying 😂😂😂😂
Dam Rich that testorone made your voice deep-
Don't be a sucker for love aka meal ticket especially if you don't have any kids FOH
Another mans drawers? - Ultraaaaaaaaaa Comboooooooooo!
The only way I would ever consider dating a single mother would be if she had only one kid that was old enough to the point that she didn't need a babysitter. And the baby daddy would have to be deceased.
I am finished dealing with baby daddy drama.
I'm a 23 year old who is interested in this 18 I started working with but she is a single mom of a 9 month old. I am a virgin and I plan to wait till marriage. I wasn't even looking for this video but my FBI agent is looking out for me.
DON'T DO IT young brother. You have your whole life ahead of you. You don't need to provide for another man's kid. Build yourself not someone else.
Guaranteed, she will make you the step (wallet) dad & she will cheat on you. She's too young. Go find a girl without a child.
Nope pump and dump or down mess with her.
If men want to take care of someone else’s kids, they’d adopt. You hear men talking about adoption regularly? Exactly. It’s not common. I’m only willing to do it because someone else did it for me and I don’t feel comfortable denying someone else the same opportunity I was given.
(I’m not adopting anyone-just willing to do so. It’s never mattered to me if the kid was genetically mine so long as I can imprint my thoughts and beliefs on them like any other parent does.)
And you cant do that if the daddy is still around
To all the single "Ladies" reading this..... here's some great advice.
1. Get & keep a full time job.
2. Visit your local Sperm Bank.
3. Don't EVER try to contact the Donor.
4. Pay for EVERYTHING, for at least 25 YEARS.
*GOOD LUCK*
Awesome video and facts
Lions kill the cubs of the Pride When he takes over, there is no step fathers in the Animal Kingdom
"That's like wearing another man's drawers"
No, thanks
You are the live-in John.
This is why I would rather be single, take care of my own child and raise him myseld than be judged harshly because my marriage didnt workout. Thank you for reminding me the mentality of the choices of men out there to stay single and put my son first.
why was this video in my recommended lmao
Well explained.
That was absolutely brilliant how you didn't say a word. You let red pill content providers speak on the subject in their own words!
I married a single Mom with 2 kids who was a closet addict and liar. We had a child and she abandoned all 3 with me for addiction. I got full custody because of a no show at Family Court so thank you LORD!!! She's a disaster and I was two blue pilled to notice now my kid is almost 6 and I'm 5 years plus into single parenting. Who abandoned a 8 month old baby? We visit his Brother's when we can I gave them to the other to Fathers.
Never finish another man's saved game!
I think the underwear analogy is the best one. Why would you want to wear another man's underwear ? lol..
I'm 🙏 for all of us men! May we have peace, prosperity an good health!
!Bump&Dumps!
This is facts
Responsible men do not date irresponsible women.
Here’s a thought. What if you mean MORE to her than her children by another man? Then that’s another problem if you decide to marry and have kids with her. What kind of mother will she be to YOUR children?
I did this...decades ago. and they are correct. I was 5th or 6th on the importance scale. It really hurts when you are doing everything, for everyone... but it seems like everyone in the household is more important that you most of the time. Stay focused men! Dont do it.
With baby mamas you get all the drawbacks of kids with none of the rights or benefits. These kids that she's conning you into paying for will stand lookout for her while she's cheating on you behind your back.
So true.
We should say the question that "single mothers ask themselves" Well should I suffer and support my kid alone?" and the answer is yes and worst of all your kid will suffer with you.
Dead on!
If you are not the father, why would you even bother with that woman? Don't spend time with their kids..if you can't " slip in "..and leave.. don't hang around.
Sometimes a man just wants to get in, get off, empty their balls, clear their head, and get out.
It just takes more effort when you are seeing a single mother.
In marriage, you will be fiftieth on the list..with a single mom..even lower.
Men, Put yourselves first!
This video has been HIIIIIGH LIGHTEEEEEEED
Haha, I learned this the hard way. Thought to give her a chance to prove prejudice wrong, too much empathy with the lil girl abandoned by her dad. Ended up proving prejudice to be true that I didn't even hold before, lol. Too absorbed in my fantasy of her to see who she really is. And of course liked to have a pretty girlfriend who seems to be a caring mother, ultimately what I'm looking for in the woman to bear my children - because my own mother lacked that nurturing quality and I want my own kids to have it better. But once the little daughter really bonded with me I was trapped because it made me love her back. Not so hard to get over a girl that can't appreciate a good man. Harder to forget an innocent 2.5yo child that loves you like a father.
Most painful lesson of my life. But without it I'd still hold some idealistic feelgood beliefs about how women are. Those beliefs get you into trouble sooner or later. So glad I got rid of them. If the truth hurts it's probably saving you from a LOT more hurt in the future.
I always love the "you know what I'm so happy little joey is here". Bitch, you better be. You gonna be taking care of him for life. The fact they say that instead of I fucked up shows no accountability and an excuse maker.
I can see only one reason why a man might want to help raise a single mother's children. He can't have his own, and he has knowledge he would like to pass down. That's it! You can have your own kids, then raise your own seed. Don't waste your time on these proper garden tools.
@0:54 the most real words a young dude NEEDS to understand! NEVER...FORGET...THAT...SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Here's another reason: If they accidentally have a kid with another man, why not you?
Man... good take
Spread the word of the Lord Almighty!
The ex said... You need to be more envolved with the kids.
I played playstation with the boys... Thats all they did.
I broke up with my ex because of her daughter.
Her daughter asked me if I'd go shopping with her... We went first bra shopping. Strike 1.
Her daughter asked me to go shopping with her... We went female hygiene shopping. Strike 2
There was no strike 3
Apparently I'd stolen some key mommy/daughter moments and she didnt like it... The daughter asked me because she didnt want the fuss.
I want to add to this by saying this: if you are single with no kids, the people who try to hook you up or recommend meeting a woman with kids do not have your best interest in mind. Limit or cut off contact with those that try to hook you up single mothers.
It drops like a bomb when u hear ..u are not my dad 💔
Non sense
I dated a single mom once. She was a fucking nightmare! Guys. Don't do it. Stay away. Stay far away. Everything Kevin Samuels said in this video is exactly everything she told me.
I briefly dated a single mother, she was really beautiful, femenine, the baby kid was from a failed serious relationship, I really liked her. BUT she was very judgemental on anything I did or said because "she was protecting her kid, fair Okey, but what ruined it is that she was so damn broken, the amount of baggage from the kid's dad relationship and previous bad experiences with men she just throw it all at me, that was the deal breaker, to this day I feel bad for her, but I don't deserve to be held accountable or attacked for things I didn't or could do.
There's a reason they are single moms.
Let's be honest anyone that calls themselves an alpha isn't an alpha
What's this tune ? Its very smooth.
Thats right.
I'm Lorenzo, Italian and activist for the defense of the rights of the male gender. I share the principles of the MGTOW philosophy but it needs to be improved, in my opinion, by sensitizing all men and boys to never donate sperm, vice versa we give another weapon in the hands of women who can decide to have children even without a father, maybe even choosing the sex, obviously female. Therefore, please continuously and obsessively spread the advice to all men and boys to NEVER donate sperm to the sperm bank. NEVER.
These women are lucky because in the lion kingdom all male lions kill the new female mates young in order to start his own family with his new mate
I made the mistake or marrying a single mom. Never again.
I think marriage is the best way to go about it
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