Food banks: 'I go without food so my son can eat'

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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2021
  • More than a third of children in London are currently living in poverty, according to a recent report by the Childhood Trust.
    A quarter of the children it surveyed are also not expecting to receive a present under the tree this Christmas.
    Many families are relying on food banks to feed their families.
    One mother explains how she goes without food so that her son can eat.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 563

  • @Fireguytrys
    @Fireguytrys 2 роки тому +129

    Those who say, " money doesn't buy happiness" should try living like this.

    • @xristinarose2409
      @xristinarose2409 2 роки тому +5

      I think ppl understand this wrong. I think what they mean is that money s not nessesary gonna make you happy. Rich ppl also sometimes commit suicide because of depression etc.
      They dont say that being poor will make you happy, because it s pretty obv it wont when you are hungry all the time

    • @stargazingdaydreamer
      @stargazingdaydreamer 2 роки тому +9

      Having no money is the root of all evil

    • @Fireguytrys
      @Fireguytrys 2 роки тому +7

      Xristina absolutely agree, but I'd sooner be down with money than down with no money. People commit suicide because of poverty too.

    • @SevenEllen
      @SevenEllen 2 роки тому +1

      @@stargazingdaydreamer I agree. That's how the rich get richer: By taking the money of others via politics and business.

    • @empty-ed
      @empty-ed 2 роки тому +2

      Money makes you happier if you are already happy . If you are an unhappy human it will make you happy for a short while then you drop back to being a misery

  • @dannybourne_
    @dannybourne_ 2 роки тому +74

    Nothing wrong about asking for help, ever !

  • @pizzyg
    @pizzyg 2 роки тому +129

    It's tragic to see parents who have to resort to using food banks and struggling no matter how hard they work 😔❤❤❤

    • @jesuslovesyou1
      @jesuslovesyou1 2 роки тому +2

      There's always something to be happy about😊

    • @barrett7893
      @barrett7893 2 роки тому +7

      No one no idea you should go to bed hungry. It is just so shameful with all the money in the world that the 1% and 10% don’t help their employees more!! Don’t pay them a living wage and instead of a minimum wage!!!

    • @daviniarobbins9298
      @daviniarobbins9298 2 роки тому +5

      Makes you wonder why anyone should get off benefits into work. Work doesn't pay.

    • @weeblywinkleman6410
      @weeblywinkleman6410 2 роки тому +4

      How hard does she work? Does she train in her spare time to become a care manager in order to progress her career so she can feed and secure her child? Are the fake nails a struggle to pay for?
      Is all the extra fat she's carrying a symptom of missing meals for her child to eat?
      Lots and lots of questions

    • @weeblywinkleman6410
      @weeblywinkleman6410 2 роки тому +10

      @@barrett7893
      This isn't poverty, clean running water, electricity, safe clean home, fancy nails, Heinz ketchup, Nutella!!! name brand breakfast cereals, the fat around her mid-rift.. it's BS - if you've ever traveled to a third world country you know what poverty looks like.... This is BS

  • @cindyrolle6476
    @cindyrolle6476 2 роки тому +112

    My mother would do the same when we were growing up. If any food was left after the 4 of us children had eaten, then she would eat.

    • @igotbandaids
      @igotbandaids 2 роки тому +5

      😢💔❤️

    • @MrTommyboy68
      @MrTommyboy68 2 роки тому +11

      My mother would always eat the burnt piece or the smallest piece or just have a cup of coffee after the rest of us finished.

    • @barrett7893
      @barrett7893 2 роки тому +15

      God bless your mother!! 💯

    • @TheMantaRae
      @TheMantaRae 2 роки тому +7

      Thats what its like for me if Im lucky. Being a single mother of 3 with no help or family I just live in guilt and misery knowing my children deserve better. Its heartbreaking

    • @aievgindustries
      @aievgindustries 2 роки тому

      Where u from

  • @barrett7893
    @barrett7893 2 роки тому +121

    This is so heartbreaking. That in the 21st-century people are still going without food!! 😢 😭

    • @dianebrady6784
      @dianebrady6784 2 роки тому +2

      .. and churches gain and horde millions or more. Look at the 80 BILLION $ empire the Mormons built. With all that why are there homeless or struggling Mormons???? Because the ' leaders' keep the money for themselves.

    • @weeblywinkleman6410
      @weeblywinkleman6410 2 роки тому +6

      I know! and she probably only gets her fake nails done once every few weeks🤣
      Whys she got a large layer if fat around her mid-rift and on her arms? Is that from going hungry feeding her child?

    • @weeblywinkleman6410
      @weeblywinkleman6410 2 роки тому +2

      @Equality Peace maybes it's genetic... Wouldn't that be convenient

    • @weeblywinkleman6410
      @weeblywinkleman6410 2 роки тому

      @Equality Peaceshe literally has spent money on having her nails done, while saying she goes without food so her son can eat... Apologists then say, things like *maybe it makes her feel normal* as if that warrants wasting money on food 🤣 she then opens a cupboard with all sorts of stuff in, named brand ketchup, Nutella!
      People like you don't know know what poverty is, you are just a mindless drones thinking what you are told to think and not even looking at the facts Infront of yoy

    • @MCshlthead
      @MCshlthead 2 роки тому +2

      @Equality Peace its some right wing troll, look at the display pic

  • @sumanbhave6441
    @sumanbhave6441 2 роки тому +16

    BBC should give advertising money from this video to her.

  • @Prodetailmidlands
    @Prodetailmidlands 2 роки тому +53

    This is heartbreaking.

  • @cutandgo
    @cutandgo 2 роки тому +16

    I think that the problem also lies in many people having relied on takeaways, processed and packaged food for so long and have no clue how to whip up healthy and hearty meals on a budget.

    • @christinekelly5916
      @christinekelly5916 2 роки тому +9

      She's got a nice set of false nails - surely food comes first?

    • @Black.Sabbath
      @Black.Sabbath Рік тому +2

      I think the answer you're looking for is in the tart's hands.

    • @gary36104
      @gary36104 3 місяці тому

      Is she allowed to have glasses surely their a luxury

  • @kartiersupremewhite330
    @kartiersupremewhite330 2 роки тому +20

    She a Great Mom and Women doing her best! God Bless her and her Son.

  • @Isa-jr9en
    @Isa-jr9en 2 роки тому +42

    What a brave mom!

    • @barrett7893
      @barrett7893 2 роки тому +5

      God bless this mother and watch over her. She is the most amazing mother just like other mothers that do the same. They do with out so their children can have. That is the true love only a mothers can give!! 💯

    • @johnnypham2850
      @johnnypham2850 2 роки тому

      @@barrett7893 That is an amazing take on poverty and producing progeny regardless of circumstance and I commend your outlook because I too believe ALL have the right to reproduce.

    • @pw4259
      @pw4259 Рік тому +2

      Brave mum What is so brave about her the war 1945 mothers were brave then. These people always wanna blame the government for their mistakes 😊

    • @sopyleecrypt6899
      @sopyleecrypt6899 Рік тому

      @@pw4259 there would be plenty to go around if there wasn’t so much greed from the richest tier of society. Many of these people were born poor, they are just ordinary people, not particularly bright or talented. They make mistakes because they are human, do they deserve to starve for that?

    • @Armed-Forever
      @Armed-Forever Рік тому +1

      @@pw4259 what did 1945 mothers do to be brave ?? they didn’t get sent to war, women always have it the easiest

  • @margaretcorfield9891
    @margaretcorfield9891 2 роки тому +14

    At least there are foodbanks these days. When my children were small, we went through a period from September to January where my wages did not come through. We collected the wilting vegetables from the tray outside the greengrocers at the end of the day, scavenged for hazel nuts, blackberries and other free growing fruits in the woods and fields, grew what we could in the back garden. The child benefit gave us a little money for limited electricity, and whatever was over bought mostly flour, eggs , and dried pulses.

  • @heathercrawford5501
    @heathercrawford5501 10 місяців тому +2

    When my daughter was small, I didnt have much and didnt overspend on Christmas. She knew that I would give her what I could (without getting into masses of debt). The best gift I gave her was love, not material things. To this day she is a responsible person, grateful for what she gets.

  • @CoolAsianBrit0358
    @CoolAsianBrit0358 2 роки тому +28

    Not just the basic food to survive also utility bills and others add up - so called ‘ cost of living’

  • @wendygraham6863
    @wendygraham6863 2 роки тому +57

    Used to do the very same thing when my kids were little , no food banks then , but how on earth do we need it now? , this country is going baciwards

    • @dannybourne_
      @dannybourne_ 2 роки тому +4

      Foodbanks are in most of EU and USA.

    • @barrett7893
      @barrett7893 2 роки тому +3

      Amen! And God bless you and God watch over you. You are the best mother. You put your children before yourself. I hope God blesses you!!

  • @babycharliebrown
    @babycharliebrown 2 роки тому +4

    I feel so sorry for this lady trying to do the best for her son. She’s a real hero..it’s disgusting in this day and age in the UK that a lot of us are living like this.

  • @GeckoHiker
    @GeckoHiker 2 роки тому +21

    Gee, I would do without fancy nails before letting my child go hungry.

    • @AfricancoolChic
      @AfricancoolChic 2 роки тому +5

      Those "fancy nails" probably give her a semblance of normality or luxury in what is otherwise a very deprived state of living.

    • @GeckoHiker
      @GeckoHiker 2 роки тому +7

      @@AfricancoolChic Good grief! Luxury nails? Normalcy is when you don't need to be on the dole to feed your family. She should have ripped off those fake nails and used her hands to dig into the soil and plant a garden.

    • @RR-on4sk
      @RR-on4sk 2 роки тому +8

      She just has them painted... 🙄 Probably dollar nail polish she's had for years. Guess that's too "fancy". Next you'll demand mothers go without panties and bras, because you know, too "fancy".

    • @GeckoHiker
      @GeckoHiker 2 роки тому +9

      @@RR-on4sk Mothers and fathers need to get their hands dirty and grow food--not "paint their nails". She was wearing artificials nails. No excuses while you are on the dole. Sorry, not sorry!

    • @weeblywinkleman6410
      @weeblywinkleman6410 2 роки тому +8

      @@AfricancoolChic
      The semblance of normality🤣
      What about the Heinz ketchup which is just sugar, or the breakfast cereals which literally have so little nutrition in them, they have to be "fortified"..
      If she didn't get her nails, the ketchup and cereal she'd already have £46 extra in her pocket, that buys a lot of pasta and vegetables, but from the look of the fat on her arms and mid-rift - I imagine there's a Mc Donald's near by

  • @juliechristophe9847
    @juliechristophe9847 Рік тому +1

    My dear mum used to do this in the 70s how sad to see things haven't changed

  • @daviniarobbins9298
    @daviniarobbins9298 2 роки тому +7

    Most adults only really need to eat 2 meals, breakfast and dinner. A third meal isn't essential unless you do heavy manual labour.

    • @Landis_Grant
      @Landis_Grant Рік тому +2

      I only eat lunch and for dinner vegetables because it is filling. Lots of water to hydrate me. I am 70.

    • @rachelcooper5753
      @rachelcooper5753 Рік тому +1

      Very true. I only ever have 2 meals a day. 3 is too much.

  • @SevenEllen
    @SevenEllen 2 роки тому +2

    One in three children in London are living in poverty?? What the hell is happening to this country?!!

  • @shirazulchowdhury24
    @shirazulchowdhury24 2 роки тому +40

    This is so heart-breaking....

    • @greenknitter
      @greenknitter 2 роки тому +4

      @@Craig121000 Pity your Mum didn't have you.

    • @mrteletubby75
      @mrteletubby75 2 роки тому +3

      @@Craig121000 This country would be a much better place if so many plebs stopped having kids

    • @MatthewChapmanYT
      @MatthewChapmanYT 2 роки тому +1

      So only have kids when you can afford them??
      You do realise very very few people can afford children, sadly when I retire in 30 years I’m gonna need young people working to pay my pension…. :(

    • @Black.Sabbath
      @Black.Sabbath Рік тому

      💅💅💅💅💅

    • @Armed-Forever
      @Armed-Forever Рік тому

      @@MatthewChapmanYT correct

  • @Iceis_Phoenix
    @Iceis_Phoenix 2 роки тому +2

    Im full of joy I have no children that rely on me. I am struggling.

  • @Stringbean421
    @Stringbean421 2 роки тому +45

    Food banks are a blessing in disguise. As long as we have food banks then the Government of the day will not do anything. That's the trouble with food banks, the Government have passed the buck onto the ordinary poor citizens. If we had no food banks imagine how many people would die from either starvation or committing crimes in order to try and survive and that would not look good for the Government now would it.

    • @gordonlawrence1448
      @gordonlawrence1448 2 роки тому +1

      Actually the government are using poverty as a political tool according to the UN so even if food banks did not exist they would do nothing. This is borne out by the fact that "care in the Community" and "big society" have proven to not work yet the cuts to provision for disabled are radical and getting worse.

    • @hilarygibson3150
      @hilarygibson3150 2 роки тому

      Many first world countries are in a similar position. A few years back, Germany had more food banks than the UK. Inequality is rife.

    • @barrett7893
      @barrett7893 2 роки тому +1

      Amen to that! As much money is in UK and America no one should go hungry at night!! 💯

    • @kristinesharp6286
      @kristinesharp6286 2 роки тому

      Food bank are the lifeline before benefits can start. They are also free to be more flexible than the gov can be. To be fair sometimes you are just living in the wrong area.

    • @cliffsofmoher4220
      @cliffsofmoher4220 2 роки тому

      It's not the government fault you voted for this and now food prices have gone up because of less farmers. This wouldn't have happened if brexit didn't happen. This is the result of brexit

  • @noone6454
    @noone6454 2 роки тому +6

    I go without food because I’m vain. My self induced torture aside...
    I’m seeing an incongruence with her cupboards being fuller than mine and herself being a far heavier lady than I am as a man.

    • @stoundingresults
      @stoundingresults Рік тому

      High processed foods cause bloating. Not necessarily living the good life.

    • @Black.Sabbath
      @Black.Sabbath Рік тому +1

      Open your eyes, this free food bank user is a walking skeleton and her cupboards are empty. 😔

  • @RespectFor3RunFamily
    @RespectFor3RunFamily 2 роки тому +46

    For Britain this is unacceptable!

    • @lighteningsnips
      @lighteningsnips 2 роки тому +5

      It's unacceptable for people to suffer anywhere in the world, not just in Britain.

    • @weeblywinkleman6410
      @weeblywinkleman6410 2 роки тому +4

      @@lighteningsnips
      Oh for that, you win one Marta badge, but I can go one better, it's not acceptable for anyone in the universe!

    • @MCshlthead
      @MCshlthead 2 роки тому

      @@weeblywinkleman6410 its acceptable for trolls like you

  • @laniharris2038
    @laniharris2038 2 роки тому +3

    This hunger crisis needs to be covered by every major news outlet.

  • @doctorpanigrahi9975
    @doctorpanigrahi9975 2 роки тому +27

    It gives an idea why Many European countries went on to invade other countries. Cold climate and Lack of agricultural land are a liability when a country has to survive by importing foods.

    • @gordonlawrence1448
      @gordonlawrence1448 2 роки тому +1

      Nope that is simply not true. The population of Europe 100 years ago was far smaller than it is now. IE near 750 Million now compared to 300 million in 1900 and less than 150 million in 1800. Most of the European wars were fought over two factors, dynastic control (EG the 100 years war) and in the case of Napoleon the belif that France was superior and therefore deserved to rule the world (Survival of the fittest from Darwinism). The rest were purely over control of spice routes and silk routes.

    • @zuzanazuscinova5209
      @zuzanazuscinova5209 Рік тому

      Makes one wonder why any population would settle in Northern Europe. It's practically unlivable. I guess the better parts were already taken lol.

  • @rogerliu1182
    @rogerliu1182 2 роки тому +3

    The love n care of a mom is forever great n selfless. God bless

  • @SusanA1056
    @SusanA1056 Рік тому +5

    God Bless this Mom. We should not have to make these choices. I am very glad to hear that she is a good Mom and cares about her son. So many won't.

  • @patkelly6349
    @patkelly6349 2 роки тому +14

    What a lovely woman

    • @scruffylee
      @scruffylee 2 роки тому +1

      god i hope you don't have kids if you consider this a good mum

    • @jennifermarie3158
      @jennifermarie3158 2 роки тому +3

      @@scruffylee Better than you. The best thing we can teach our children is empathy/humanity

    • @Armed-Forever
      @Armed-Forever Рік тому

      she’s lovely cuz she’s broke?

  • @capnhands
    @capnhands 2 роки тому +22

    Do they make fathers pay child support in the UK?

    • @MrBisketTV
      @MrBisketTV 2 роки тому +2

      They do, if they are on the birth certificate or not, 🙄

    • @atomicsnowflake
      @atomicsnowflake 2 роки тому +8

      No, it's very easy to dodge child support. I used to receive £4 a week.

    • @seangallagher6075
      @seangallagher6075 2 роки тому +1

      @@atomicsnowflake was it his kid tho..

    • @sophieschoices9663
      @sophieschoices9663 2 роки тому +6

      Thats a good question...People would be surprised at how in Brazil, a so-called 3rd world country fathers are made to pay or they could face jail...Im really not sure how the system is in the UK but from the comments it seems these mothers cant really rely on that? If so that really is backward of the UK!!

    • @oswaldjameslangston6008
      @oswaldjameslangston6008 2 роки тому +3

      They pay like 18% of their wage total for any kids they have but the government hasn't increased it because they said it would mean more fathers would stop working if too much of their purse went on child support because many fathers resent paying that money to their ex wife or former girlfriend etc.

  • @pereinarolsson3928
    @pereinarolsson3928 2 роки тому +10

    You are the big hero Tara - I know that I can not really understand - but I know that this too will pass. Sending you a rich life in every aspect.

  • @ShoppingwithRina
    @ShoppingwithRina 2 роки тому +3

    Nobody deserve to be in this position

  • @ben8878
    @ben8878 2 роки тому +23

    It's a disgrace in this country people are living in such insecurity. A particular disgrace is food insecurity. Let's not delude ourselves that families were not struggling before energy and gas price rises and inflation.

    • @hilarygibson3150
      @hilarygibson3150 2 роки тому +1

      It's the same in the States and nit sure now but around 5byears ago, Germany had more food banks than the UK. Its a problem in many first world countries sadly.

    • @barrett7893
      @barrett7893 2 роки тому +1

      Amen 💯

    • @cliffsofmoher4220
      @cliffsofmoher4220 2 роки тому

      Well it's their own fault that they don't have food they voted for brexit kicking out eu farm labour's now food are rooting in fields and can't bring in food because of custom check so they brought in upon themselves and comes and cry about it what a cry baby.

    • @ben8878
      @ben8878 2 роки тому

      @@cliffsofmoher4220 what are you talking about. This has been going on well before brexit.

    • @cliffsofmoher4220
      @cliffsofmoher4220 2 роки тому

      @@ben8878 nope it hasn't the British kicked out farmers now they come on the news and cry while it's their fault. Before brexit the price was OK why the prices are rising after brexit. Also if brexit didn't happen you had option to move to another country now you are trapped in the UK so basically you voted to become a prisoner meaning you can't leave the UK

  • @tonirad9577
    @tonirad9577 2 роки тому +1

    She is so right . Do not be afraid to tap into resources in your area . She looks and sounds like a very good mother .

  • @omarsiyaad4552
    @omarsiyaad4552 2 роки тому +4

    Strong mom.

  • @daviniarobbins9298
    @daviniarobbins9298 2 роки тому +5

    I wonder what she is doing with her £77 a week JSA/IS/UC benefit plus £20 Child benefit plus other child benefits? She also gets housing benefit and council tax reduction benefits I assume?
    Gas isn't all that expensive. I carried out a little experiment yesterday, I left my heating on at 20 degrees for 24 hours and used up 24kwh of gas which at 9p each plus 27p standing charge cost me £2.46 I was blooming freezing though. That is £17.22 a week or £447.72 for the coldest 6 months of the year(October to March). Do what I am going to do and put extra credit on the gas meter over the summer months. Even if you use £5 per day in gas that will cost you about £900 or so which building up a credit at £200 a month is doable between now and September. Go without now so you don't have to later.

    • @Black.Sabbath
      @Black.Sabbath Рік тому

      💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻

    • @Armed-Forever
      @Armed-Forever Рік тому +1

      them nails ain’t cheap them cigarettes ain’t cheap

  • @jetnight88
    @jetnight88 2 роки тому +35

    It’s insane the prices go up and everyone gets less

    • @MatthewChapmanYT
      @MatthewChapmanYT 2 роки тому +2

      Until it gets so bad and thousands take to the streets for what they need

    • @barrett7893
      @barrett7893 2 роки тому

      Amen! And there’s no real living wage. What they pay you nowadays you can’t live on that. Unless you work two or three jobs!!

    • @jetnight88
      @jetnight88 2 роки тому +1

      @@barrett7893 and then they wonder why we have a problem in this country with homelessness

    • @jetnight88
      @jetnight88 2 роки тому +1

      @@MatthewChapmanYT I can actually see that people protesting on the streets because the prices are ridiculous it’s going to get to a point where whole of Britain is in poverty.

    • @MCshlthead
      @MCshlthead 2 роки тому

      Ill let you in on a secret. we vastly overpopulated the planet and for many decades it was ok because we simply plundered the planet but now its catching up with us. so now sadly we stand on the brink of a horrible sudden depopulation event. physics unfortunately writes the rules. what goes up must come down

  • @Gigi-rg7xy
    @Gigi-rg7xy 2 роки тому +10

    Tara is a hero 🦸‍♀️ .All moms are . ❤️🙏

  • @jessicaloveland4034
    @jessicaloveland4034 2 роки тому +3

    I did the same thing as a mother of two, I was around 90 lb it would never eat because I knew I couldn't afford it, my daughters are grown now, and now they have their own issues with food

  • @MotoTvWoodsFarm
    @MotoTvWoodsFarm 2 роки тому +19

    the society and services you receive are the ones the nation gets when it votes for conservatives government. Expect it to get much worse there's couple years before the next election

  • @pam0626
    @pam0626 2 роки тому +8

    I’ve been watching all of these BBC clips avd they are heartbreaking. Why is this happening in the UK right now? Is this Brexit-related?

  • @anniejones5204
    @anniejones5204 2 роки тому +1

    I think it's disgusting that a rich country like the UK has to have food banks, COME ON BORIS SORT IT OUT😠

  • @johnnypham2850
    @johnnypham2850 2 роки тому +4

    She actually cannot go without because it will eventually destroy her health.

  • @monipenny408
    @monipenny408 2 роки тому +27

    Like George Carlin said (slightly paraphrased)
    “Now, there's one thing you might have noticed I don't complain about: politicians. Everybody complains about politicians. Everybody says they suck. Well, where do people think these politicians come from? They don't fall out of the sky. They don't pass through a membrane from another reality. They come from British parents and British families, British homes, British schools, British churches, British businesses, and British universities, and they are elected by British citizens. This is the best we can do folks.
    This is what we have to offer. It's what our system produces: Garbage in, garbage out. If you have selfish, ignorant citizens, you're going to get selfish, ignorant leaders. Term limits ain't going to do any good; you're just going to end up with a brand new bunch of selfish, ignorant sods. So, maybe, maybe, maybe, it's not the politicians who suck. Maybe something else sucks around here... like, the public. Yeah, the public sucks."

    • @barrett7893
      @barrett7893 2 роки тому +1

      Amen to that! 💯

    • @DavidSmith-oy4of
      @DavidSmith-oy4of 2 роки тому

      Unfortunately not many are willing to consider the bigger picture or look at the true root causes for these issues. We live in a system that promotes selfishness and competition then wonder where such huge inequality comes from. Monetary funds claim success when they say they've saved a million less people from starving to death this year without bothering to mention it was the system which they so happily reaped the benefits of that put those people in that desperate situation. Other systems exist if people are ever ready to learn.

  • @kellykreqeli8924
    @kellykreqeli8924 2 роки тому +8

    No one should be without food it’s disgusting

    • @Black.Sabbath
      @Black.Sabbath Рік тому +1

      No one should be without false nails it's disgusting

    • @Armed-Forever
      @Armed-Forever Рік тому

      @@Black.Sabbath hahahaha loool

  • @pedrothewise2584
    @pedrothewise2584 2 роки тому +37

    Its not right for mums to worry about food in britain. There should be enough for all.the shame is on the capitalist system that allows this while others have way too much

    • @AR25326
      @AR25326 2 роки тому

      Yeah

    • @oswaldjameslangston6008
      @oswaldjameslangston6008 2 роки тому +3

      What u gonna do? Punish innovation, increase taxes so all the rich people fk off to Monaco or the cayman Islands?

    • @hellybelle5
      @hellybelle5 2 роки тому

      Do you donate to food banks, and or check in on neighbours to make sure they have enough to eat. The government wastes whopping amounts of money, I don't want them taking more under the guise of feeding people, whilst making more governmental jobs, waste, and red tape. It's our job to help those in need💗

  • @ShantiTrish
    @ShantiTrish 2 роки тому +32

    I give to the food banks. It is very sad, when one looks at the money spent on the pandemic, if the news is reliable, many millions has been wasted, despite government mandate good intentions. One hopes that soon, the situation will be resolved, whereby people don’t have to rely on food banks. The present laws, sadly are failing these vulnerable people. In 2022 everyone on the planet, should have clothing, shelter, food and a environment that is caring, sharing, loving. Hopefully things will improve for everyone soon.

    • @dwindlefoddl7225
      @dwindlefoddl7225 2 роки тому +6

      You would shocked at the amount of food that is actually thrown away...from grocery stores to restaurants.!!! I just watched a documentary about this..my jaw dropped open...I couldn't believe that just 1 Apple farmer has to throw away up to 7 tons of apples every week because stores won't buy them because they are not perfectly round.!! The couple who did the documentary went to several restaurants and stores and received so much food...they themselves almost had to throw food out..!! I am still shaking my head in disbelief...so sad this world is so out of whack...

    • @femmeNikita27
      @femmeNikita27 2 роки тому

      It should be obligatory for all food selling chains not to destroy food but to automatically donate it to food banks in each country. There is no planet B, food production and farming is a source of global pollution. No food already produced should ever simply go to waste if Earth is supposed to continue being habitable for humans. Period.

    • @dwindlefoddl7225
      @dwindlefoddl7225 2 роки тому

      @@femmeNikita27 FINALLY...Some who knows and speaks the TRUTH.!!! THANK YOU FemmeNikita27.!!! Go watch the documentary film about food wasted...I was in shock for 3 days afterwards..Farmers throwing 3 to 5 tons of apples every week because they are NOT PERFECTLY ROUND so grocery stores won't accept them..!! 1 farmer has a several hundred acre farm of celery and throws away half because stores don't want the outside stalks!!! The couple who did the documentary went to stores,restaurants etc and the amount of waste was just ..just un-believable...smh

    • @Black.Sabbath
      @Black.Sabbath Рік тому

      You might as well donate to the nail salon directly as that is where your money is going.

  • @chiquitafeldberg8512
    @chiquitafeldberg8512 2 роки тому +3

    I used to get my lump sum at Christmas. 500 extra at Christmas. It's a small loan the government gives every year I'm sure it's doubled now. I just don't understand this, I was a single mother also. I never went without food because cooking up a meal dosnt cost much. Also I developed extra skills to earn extra.

  • @joeheritage5195
    @joeheritage5195 2 роки тому +2

    So have many millions before you.

  • @Ricki10
    @Ricki10 2 роки тому +2

    Heartbreaking💜

  • @ArchnaKapur
    @ArchnaKapur 2 роки тому +15

    Parents presence over presents is more important.

  • @christopherallen9580
    @christopherallen9580 2 роки тому +2

    One-third of the children in London are living in poverty! What is wrong with the UK?

    • @tanyajackson622
      @tanyajackson622 2 роки тому

      nothing. Its the useless parents and media propaganda.

  • @orionash7067
    @orionash7067 2 роки тому +22

    Yet she has fully done nails that cost atleast 20£

    • @haseen5286
      @haseen5286 2 роки тому +12

      Give the lady a brake

    • @tessy28
      @tessy28 2 роки тому +15

      She may have done them herself

    • @greenknitter
      @greenknitter 2 роки тому +15

      She has varnish on she may have had for a long time, and you can get a bottle for less than £1, hardly an extravagance. Should she wear sack cloth and ashes too, or is she allowed one thing that will make her feel attractive?

    • @Armed-Forever
      @Armed-Forever Рік тому

      @@greenknitter she doesn’t look like he missed a meal either just being real

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits 2 роки тому +4

    What is she talking about? Her cupboards are filled with food.

    • @dcarr2506
      @dcarr2506 2 роки тому +3

      I thought her shelves would be bare. She can have something even if it's a bowl of cereal.

    • @Armed-Forever
      @Armed-Forever Рік тому

      she’s waffling, she’s just upset cuz she doesn’t have any money to do other stuff which i get

  • @Greenpoloboy3
    @Greenpoloboy3 2 роки тому +21

    It's what happens when rich uncaring people who have never have money problems and who look down on the poor are in power

    • @iangreen1719
      @iangreen1719 2 роки тому

      We put them in power so we get what we deserve

    • @Greenpoloboy3
      @Greenpoloboy3 2 роки тому +1

      @@iangreen1719 Ok, cannot argue with that. people fall for their lying promises

    • @Greenpoloboy3
      @Greenpoloboy3 2 роки тому +1

      @@Craig121000 But unkind to say the poor cant have children

  • @eddy45686
    @eddy45686 2 роки тому +8

    She is obviously using food banks that's why cupboards are, full.
    With all the other expenses like heating, rent and bills not much left for food. Feel sorry must be a struggle. Yet some spend £30 a, day on fast food don't think about the unfortunate needy people.

    • @sweeta17
      @sweeta17 2 роки тому

      so do many people and taxis - s.phones ( even latest ones ) etc on benefits as plenty of docus have showed .

    • @ulty1395
      @ulty1395 Рік тому +2

      Thank u, she is my aunt, can u believe that, she goes out with friends everyone weekend and lies to bbc, so sad to do such a thing.

    • @Black.Sabbath
      @Black.Sabbath Рік тому

      @@ulty1395 Did she offer the BBC to do this interview or did they ask her?

    • @Landis_Grant
      @Landis_Grant Рік тому +1

      Do food banks give Heinz ketchup?

    • @Black.Sabbath
      @Black.Sabbath Рік тому +1

      @@Landis_Grant Yes, and chocolate and the most expensive rice.

  • @utilitariodonutil1302
    @utilitariodonutil1302 2 роки тому +1

    Where are our brilliant well fed politicians looking somewhere else?

  • @ev500sam
    @ev500sam 2 роки тому +1

    I never felt ashamed of any resources that I sought out, in order to provide safe housing, food, or clothing for my children while bringing them up! Today, they are all well and I give back wherever I can.

  • @sarahsnow1585
    @sarahsnow1585 2 роки тому +33

    Don't get your nails done, stop buying branded items. Get access to a wholesale card, buy specific items in bulk. Pasta is super cheap, even bigger super markets are selling sacks of pasty for way cheaper than the smaller ones. Get chopped tomatoes, make health soups with cheap individual vegetables that can be discounted or sold on the cheaper side.

    • @ailsaeccles111
      @ailsaeccles111 2 роки тому +10

      Her nails got me too! 🤔🤔🤔

    • @margaretzoheir4468
      @margaretzoheir4468 2 роки тому +15

      She may have painted her nails herself you know. Is she supposed to wear 'sackcloth and ashes' to look the part in your mind.

    • @relaxation-Corner
      @relaxation-Corner 2 роки тому +1

      @@margaretzoheir4468 they looked done to me

    • @sarahsnow1585
      @sarahsnow1585 2 роки тому +1

      @@margaretzoheir4468 Mate she's not eating over getting/doing her nails done? Even one off costs at nail equipment can cost a small amount.

    • @sweeta17
      @sweeta17 2 роки тому +3

      quite right . surely she can afford to buy beans to put on toast < even with the nails done if it is so important but should not be > which is very nice and healthy we like it and add curry powder or cheese to the beans when she does not eat the same as her son . there are plenty of healthy cheap quick foods she can make .

  • @jimmiepatrum
    @jimmiepatrum 2 роки тому +16

    It's admirable that this mother is willing to go without food so that her son can eat. One thing I might suggest for this mother to do is to forgo getting her nails done so that she might be able to have fewer times of her going hungry. I mean no malice; it's just a suggestion to her be able to eat.

    • @fn716
      @fn716 2 роки тому +4

      Why shouldn't she get her nails done? I can imagine it's an extremely miserable situation she's in and you're suggesting she deprive herself of even more. It does a lot for people self esteem and mood to be able to have a few nice things.

    • @jimmiepatrum
      @jimmiepatrum 2 роки тому +10

      @@fn716 Of course, she should be able to get her nails done if that means more to her than feeding herself. Please don't be defensive...I was making a suggestion that if she doesn't have enough food for herself, giving up having her nails done is a way for her to eat. If she'd rather do without eating, so be it.

    • @fn716
      @fn716 2 роки тому +1

      @@jimmiepatrum the last thing she needs is your condescending suggestion. The only way to alleviate the poverty she and millions of other people are is to fix the massive economic equality that exists in this country. Her nails probably one of the very few things that makes her some happiness. Its like telling someone to go without a haircut because they technically don't need it.

    • @jimmiepatrum
      @jimmiepatrum 2 роки тому +13

      @@fn716 It's very different going without a haircut than going without food...not a true comparison! No condenscending attitude on my part - I guess you think she should stare at her beautiful nails while her stomach growls for food because having beautiful nails does a lot for her self esteem and mood, huh? Get real: if a person truly is hungry, self esteem is the least of her worries. Indeed, the poverty problems do need to be fixed, but in the meanwhile, I have enough sense to know that luxuries have to go in order to survive. Maybe you've never been truly hungry and didn't know how you were going to feed yourself. That's not a good place to be. Not going hungry trumps self esteem everytime.

    • @hellybelle5
      @hellybelle5 2 роки тому +3

      @@fn716 because she is saying she doesn't have food, but is getting her nails done. It's all about priorities. I wouldn't dream of getting my nails done, as I don't have the money. However, I wear mascara in an obsessive way, as my eyelashes are literally invisible without it! However, if I had to choose between basic makeup, and food, the food would win every time!
      People in the west don't know we are born. Look at places like the Philippines, where they literally have a cup of rice to share between two children for lunch. There are loads of places where they only eat once, or twice a day. I'm not suggesting she does that, but since she doesn't have a baby/toddler (so no nappies, formula, or wipes to buy) she could totally feed them both on a shoestring. Atomic Shrimp has loads of ideas on how to do it.

  • @jesuslovesyou1
    @jesuslovesyou1 2 роки тому +3

    God bless you

  • @kunmwas9437
    @kunmwas9437 2 роки тому +2

    I would understand if this happens in third world countries ,like where I'm from because it does everyday,but not in the U.K...this breaks my heart 💔

  • @KatherineUribe-1
    @KatherineUribe-1 2 роки тому +19

    That's terrible. We live in a world with so much. We should be able to give our people the basics, in every country, everywhere. Call me a socialist, I don't care. No one in this world should be going hungry.

    • @greenknitter
      @greenknitter 2 роки тому

      I'm proud to call myself a socialist. Being a socialist means you care for the welfare of others over profit motif.

    • @vegiemantwo2505
      @vegiemantwo2505 2 роки тому

      Its badly managed for ulteria motives....yes

  • @jmudikun
    @jmudikun 2 роки тому +2

    Poverty has always existed in the middle of apparent affluence, even in the West. What is sad is that the politicians I'm charge could care very little for the wellbeing of a child that goes without, in a London full of wealth. Having a full tummy and shelter is the least we could do for a child, but there is so much more that a child needs

  • @onewell6894
    @onewell6894 2 роки тому

    you are a great parent

  • @MrMarkhall1
    @MrMarkhall1 2 роки тому +2

    Where's his Dad?

  • @anewstart6927
    @anewstart6927 2 роки тому +1

    الاعتماد على الشراء اليومي من البقالات مخيف !! ماذا لو حصل فوضى او انقطاع للإمدادات !! لابد ان يكون لدينا بعض الطعام الجانبي للطوارئ ..الخبز الجاف لايلقى في القمامة يحفظ ويؤكل مع شوربة او حليب او مكرونة اندومي .. الخبز المجفف (وجبة الطوارئ) !!
    يضل صالح للاكل خاصة لو كان محمص قليلا .. يحفظ في قطع قماش مثل
    ( كيس المخدة) خارج الثلاجة والفريزر ولمدة طويلة لايتلف .

  • @martineg8398
    @martineg8398 Рік тому

    What a great woman

  • @trevorpollock3024
    @trevorpollock3024 2 роки тому +2

    This is so wrong in a western world that is so rich.
    People should be ashamed of themselves.
    Where is the caring government?
    Such a digrace!

    • @pm2886
      @pm2886 2 роки тому +1

      Where is her caring family?

    • @sweeta17
      @sweeta17 2 роки тому

      we keep hearing western countries are very rich then how come they are in debts of 1-2 triliens and things like this carry on and countries keep giving aid to everywhere else then they say no money for their citizens even basic things .

  • @DeeManSony
    @DeeManSony Рік тому +1

    Crazy how the most poverty stricken areas I see in London have about 15-20 Deliveroo drivers at every fast food joint - not only can the poor afford takeaway but they can pay twice to get it delivered

  • @whyohwhy3407
    @whyohwhy3407 2 роки тому +1

    people DO empathise, where there’s a genuine need to! I saw one person being interviewed, hadn’t a job in 14 years, had 4 kids, 5th on the way! Was interviewed outside a food bank! How long did you want the empathy to stretch, no, seriously! Why breed if you can’t feed? Why ask fo empathy when half get into a situation of their making? Education for unemployed is FREE! The only thing the government doesn’t provide is a a 6 AM alarm call so people could attend Adult Education classes! Why is it ALWAYS someone else’s fault for EVERY bad decision/choice in your life? When do people take ownership of their actions? Serious questions need serious answers!
    And there is always a portion if society which refuses advice! Go figure!

  • @nuclearwinter1984
    @nuclearwinter1984 Рік тому +1

    I honestly don’t get why you’d have kids if you don’t have a job, and you can’t afford to look after them, when contraception is free on the NHS??

  • @mariangelacanzi1441
    @mariangelacanzi1441 2 роки тому +34

    Very poignant. Thanks to food banks people like Tara can cope with a tough life! The British welfare is getting worse just like the Italian one, unfortunately.

  • @SchnuckySchuster
    @SchnuckySchuster 2 роки тому +3

    Poor people used to be skinny, now they are overweight. Food banks should hand out rice and potatoes but sugary, fatty junk food.

  • @beaulieuonnp593
    @beaulieuonnp593 2 роки тому +1

    Where is the father in this? And shouldn't parents have insurance for this ?

  • @DanielMartinez-ov6cc
    @DanielMartinez-ov6cc 2 роки тому +1

    UK same thing is happening over here in the US.

  • @user-yb6tk1ru6x
    @user-yb6tk1ru6x 2 роки тому +4

    Does this count as intermittent fasting?

  • @vanessasimmons1175
    @vanessasimmons1175 Рік тому +1

    Why does she go hungry? Her cupboard was full of food.

  • @lestrem11
    @lestrem11 2 роки тому +3

    She does not appear to be starving does she?

  • @googlebanmetoomuch2601
    @googlebanmetoomuch2601 Рік тому +1

    She should be ashamed of herself

  • @user-tt6pq8tg1k
    @user-tt6pq8tg1k 8 місяців тому

    When I was working on dialysis with 8 other medical issues my wages for the local labour council went down too less than 10k per year. Travel to work and medical appointments cost me £1500 a year. Food became hard to afford but luckily for me I was able to eat out of next doors bin when it was financially hardest. The people next door hadn't worked for 20 years. Both fit.. and luckily got enough benefits to throw half freshly cooked eaten joints of pork into the bin. I luckily ate out of it a few times until they caught me and threatened to inform the police and council for Trespass. I worked for the local labour council at the time doing very long shifts in a children's home. The manager new what i was going through so made sure any time I attempted to eat at work would make me stop eating. Laughing and make me have a meeting as each shift why I needed dialysis. Laughing whilst doing so.

  • @shanedraper240692
    @shanedraper240692 2 роки тому +2

    I know quite a few poor people and every single one of them smoke or vape and as soon as they get paid they will order takeaways and waste it all

  • @SilverStarEyes
    @SilverStarEyes 2 роки тому +7

    Victim mentality but money for a manicure.

    • @MatthewChapmanYT
      @MatthewChapmanYT 2 роки тому +2

      Not once did she say she went to a salon and paid … for a manicure.
      Clearly a DIY Job..
      You bitter horse faced Tory

    • @ramochai
      @ramochai 2 роки тому +4

      oh leave off. You don't know about that. She might even have been given a freebie by a friend because she was going to be on tv and, suprise surprise, wanted to look good. Why judge?

    • @billcaan4192
      @billcaan4192 2 роки тому +1

      Totally with u on this pasta is £1.50 tins of tomato even cheaper dont tell me she can feed herself 3ven if its a flipping sandwich bread is £50p but she wants to look nice what the hell. Get a part time job when kids in school I got 2 jobs! She has one child who goes school what does she do all day self employed hcs u get an additional benefit if u can show u earn a little bit. Which is fine but get a part time job even doing deliveries she can join amazon whatever do deliveroo on a bike its flexible there many options

    • @Armed-Forever
      @Armed-Forever Рік тому

      @@ramochai freebie by a friend lol not even you believe that

  • @hamsahealinghands5423
    @hamsahealinghands5423 2 роки тому

    I’m a nurse in the Nhs I go without meals so my kids get the foods they like our wages can’t keep up with inflation

  • @carolginsberg7741
    @carolginsberg7741 2 роки тому +1

    Cant believe the crap in the cupboard..she can make some good healthy stews in a pressure cooker

  • @JK-jm6kd
    @JK-jm6kd 2 роки тому +1

    Very sad to hear.

  • @psalm91.666
    @psalm91.666 2 роки тому

    Same here I go without so my family can

  • @finanzferdinand9874
    @finanzferdinand9874 2 роки тому +1

    When you have kids and cant afford it

  • @shaunahill516
    @shaunahill516 Рік тому

    That's d love of a mother...

  • @mgtowlife106
    @mgtowlife106 2 роки тому +1

    UK people should avoid carbs and save money 🤑
    So much obesity in UK...

  • @agnesphilips2714
    @agnesphilips2714 2 роки тому +3

    Is there a gofundme

  • @cantagiousca5220
    @cantagiousca5220 9 місяців тому +1

    She looks fed to me

  • @nomad9338
    @nomad9338 Рік тому

    'I can go without and that's ok' No, it's never ok! Shame on politicians for allowing this to happen in modern Britain.

  • @deborahcox1773
    @deborahcox1773 2 роки тому

    Thank God for food banks.

  • @juliechristie3736
    @juliechristie3736 2 роки тому +5

    This is sad an here's millions being spent on illegal law breakers should help struggling people here first

  • @jostafford3367
    @jostafford3367 6 місяців тому

    I do the same … once bills are paid there’s barely enough left to eat . I’m a single mum just came out of a horendous domestic violence marriage . He left me with no home no car nothing . I’m struggling to get in my feet not to mention my and my sons mental health . I have a casual job and still have no money . My son won’t have a Xmas or Xmas food . I go home and cry after iv don’t the shopping cause I know I have to struggle till next week 😢😭

  • @behuman3801
    @behuman3801 2 роки тому

    How can there not be enough food

  • @d.o.l1998
    @d.o.l1998 2 роки тому +1

    Grow your food folk..

  • @jayveebloggs9057
    @jayveebloggs9057 Рік тому

    Help me out. A loaf of bread containing about 20 slices is 36p at Aldi. So 2 slices would be 7.29. Add some spread and round up to 10p. Then add a glass of milk for another 5 p. That's 15p. A coupl of slices of toast and some milk is a normal breakfast isn't it? So if any child is going to bed hungry it's a matter for social services. If you want to tell me people are suffering then I accept that but this doesn't really add up does it?

  • @fortitudevalance8424
    @fortitudevalance8424 Рік тому +1

    Just an observation and all that, don’t know if I’m blind but she says that she struggles to feed her son and herself but judging by the cupboards, THEY ARE ALL FULL. I volunteered at a food bank where a frequent visitor often get her supplies there. I noticed that when parking my car up to do Christmas shopping at a north Wales town this “struggling carer” who gets £100 worth of food was driving a brand new RANGE ROVER VOGUE, the Autobiography edition I think. That’s the type of people who go to food banks and scrounge in a false guise of misfortune. Stop deluding yourselves!!!