Toddler Big Emotions

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  • @Shiann444
    @Shiann444 8 місяців тому +14912

    This definitely confirmed I’m not ready to have kids cause I would’ve just cried with him 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @tarawright1287
      @tarawright1287 8 місяців тому +415

      Nothing wrong with that

    • @echo4165
      @echo4165 8 місяців тому +440

      To be honest sometimes that is what you do and theirs nothing wrong with that, if anything adults having big emotions too shows kids it’s okay to have big emotions and how you eventually regulate yourself is a great modeling opportunity to show your child what healthy emotional regulation looks like

    • @maryuhh89
      @maryuhh89 8 місяців тому +506

      When they see you cry they stop and give you a hug. 😢 freaking angels

    • @echo4165
      @echo4165 8 місяців тому +113

      @@maryuhh89 those are the days you cherish because you know you’ve done something right

    • @deathbloom27
      @deathbloom27 8 місяців тому +43

      Yeah that's valid 😂 had I been doing this parenting thing alone like some of these amazing people out here then I'd have just been crying constantly. Just no end to the tears.

  • @chrismetz7108
    @chrismetz7108 7 місяців тому +1994

    Honestly, I wish us adults would speak to each other with this level of empathy and kindness.

    • @Emper0rH0rde
      @Emper0rH0rde 7 місяців тому +27

      Especially if we disagree politically

    • @SamoSjena
      @SamoSjena 6 місяців тому +32

      I made an experiment of doing so actually. So I speak to everyone who is upset with me or something else like she does with this child. Made MY life 100x easier! Would recommend, 10/10.
      So I guess we should all start at ourselves 😅

    • @mystosplosion
      @mystosplosion 6 місяців тому +4

      *Hug*

    • @martynatyna1111
      @martynatyna1111 6 місяців тому +3

      Right💓

    • @youngamer6297
      @youngamer6297 6 місяців тому +3

      Here your blancket ❤😊

  • @justjosie8963
    @justjosie8963 7 місяців тому +2416

    That boy's smile represents the joy of being understood.....and loved.

    • @magorzatamargaret294
      @magorzatamargaret294 6 місяців тому +8

      This boy is too small to recognize this and HE needs first of all HUGS at that age. And his mother dont understand this basic rules...

    • @mixedlag
      @mixedlag 6 місяців тому +36

      @@magorzatamargaret294 Oh please. She did a better job at handling this than most parents. He's not too small to feel the acknowledgement she gave him.

    • @WaterFountain
      @WaterFountain 6 місяців тому +15

      ​@@magorzatamargaret294 I've seen it with people around me when kids start acting out or crying real loud the parents getting annoyed and ignoring them. Some go as far as hitting them while asking them to stop crying. (Yes, it's sadly normal here)
      What she did was definitely a lot better than all the people I've seen dealing with kids.

    • @magorzatamargaret294
      @magorzatamargaret294 6 місяців тому

      @@WaterFountain get to know what is an OVERTON WINDOW....because nowadays it is used in many different areas of life to fool people...and what is more to change people thinking for the one that is enforced from the top down...and is not necessarily correct and good.

    • @shaylacrossland1475
      @shaylacrossland1475 6 місяців тому +19

      ​@@magorzatamargaret294That makes no sense. She handled it perfectly and with plenty of love. A whole lot of it.

  • @hermonghermay5422
    @hermonghermay5422 7 місяців тому +50

    She is full of Grace with take care of her kids. They are so lucky.

  • @ironman_546
    @ironman_546 7 місяців тому +5999

    There would be no hate in this world if all parents treated their children this way. Thank you for giving me hope

    • @person6768
      @person6768 7 місяців тому +56

      These are the kids that grow up and expect you to take everything they throw at you. This seems nice now but when he's screaming at people in McDonald's because they messed up it won't be cute.

    • @thetravelingmaid
      @thetravelingmaid 7 місяців тому +18

      Facts. Their self esteem would be intact.

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ 7 місяців тому +11

      ​@@person6768
      Then don't have them. Problem solved. 🤷

    • @Jennifer-gr7hn
      @Jennifer-gr7hn 7 місяців тому +16

      it involves people when they are SINGLE, working on their wounds before marrying. That's the way.

    • @janiyahale6878
      @janiyahale6878 7 місяців тому +51

      @@person6768 She is teaching him to recognize and communicate his needs to prevent big emotions from leading to negative actions.

  • @theSoftScenter
    @theSoftScenter 7 місяців тому +429

    So great that she turned his mood around before putting him to bed. So many parents don't know how to do this and put their kids to bed and let them cry themselves to sleep. This is so much healthier for both the child and the parent. Bravo and kudos.

    • @andzelina129
      @andzelina129 6 місяців тому +2

      Wystarczy przytulić,dziecko potrzebuje miłości matczynej.
      Nie umiałabym tak maleńkiego dziecka zostawić w łóżeczku z zadowalaczem w postaci smoczka.
      Oczywiście pięknie spokój mamy najważniejszy,gdybyśmy weszli w flustracje razem z dzueckiem to jestesmy na jego poziomie sami wtedy jesteśmy niedojrzałym dorosłym ale tutaj brawo spokoj i opanowanie ale ten dystans i tresura to nic dobrego one będą wszystko robić by zadowolić mamę i tak będą szły przez życie.
      Mało miłości w tym wszystkim.

    • @MessagesFromAurora
      @MessagesFromAurora 6 місяців тому +2

      what distance, she is literally holding him the whole time

    • @brynne77
      @brynne77 6 місяців тому +1

      So, it's really important for the parent to talk calmly to a toddler like this when they're crying like that, even if they're really loud before putting them to bed?

    • @riorangerz
      @riorangerz 5 місяців тому +3

      yes. 100%. THIS. it is SO important to not let your child cry themselves to sleep wondering what they ever did wrong. its important to comfort anf to understand, calm them down. it is a parents duty.

    • @riorangerz
      @riorangerz 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@brynne77correct!!!!

  • @Gossdo
    @Gossdo 8 місяців тому +2682

    She is so soothing with her kids. She is very intuned with their feelings. It's nice to listen to her talk to them. ❤

    • @darleneachille491
      @darleneachille491 7 місяців тому +2

      🙏🏽❤️

    • @susancohen8009
      @susancohen8009 7 місяців тому +8

      They are either tired, hungry or want to Play,Bless the Family

    • @jyotsnamuppala2888
      @jyotsnamuppala2888 6 місяців тому +4

      First of all she should hug the child. The child wants mamas hug.

    • @shaylacrossland1475
      @shaylacrossland1475 6 місяців тому

      ​@@jyotsnamuppala2888She gave plenty of love and understanding.

    • @LingaBirdie
      @LingaBirdie 6 місяців тому +11

      ​@jyotsnamuppala2888 when you hug the kid while throwing a tantrum you promote the tantrum. You need to stay calm and show him how to control big emotions, and when he manages to actually control them, when he laughs or stays calm and communicates then you hug him. You reward when the kid learns something new, cooperates and manages his emotions. The mom here does a great job, the kid will be more mature than other adults in his life.

  • @donnaflowers2007
    @donnaflowers2007 6 місяців тому +29

    That was adorable. May God always protect him and the entire family. It made me cry.❤🙋‍♀️

  • @teslayogini432
    @teslayogini432 7 місяців тому +1611

    I think this whole world would change if all parents were calm like this.

    • @lisa_moscow8833
      @lisa_moscow8833 7 місяців тому +6

      🥹

    • @davidcambero7190
      @davidcambero7190 7 місяців тому +6

      I'm great with you

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ 7 місяців тому +1

      It'd be better if they just didn't have kids in the first place. 🤷
      They never asked to be here.

    • @TonyToad22
      @TonyToad22 7 місяців тому +3

      💯💯

    • @annakleopatrabergendy9765
      @annakleopatrabergendy9765 7 місяців тому +7

      Most of them wish to be but lack the resources and overall well-being to do so. The reality of most parents is sleep deprivation and constant financial stress. Hard to be this calm. Every day goes a bit differently.

  • @Lea-bk3lx
    @Lea-bk3lx 6 місяців тому +3

    The joy of being understood. Love it🥰

  • @SLEMPY273
    @SLEMPY273 7 місяців тому +225

    Every child should experience this kind of love and tenderness.❤

    • @SaystheTruth3
      @SaystheTruth3 6 місяців тому +1

      Lol! On occasion...
      Times have changed, people divorced,& relationships failed

    • @ahsatan74
      @ahsatan74 13 днів тому +1

      @@SaystheTruth3they can still experience love and patience just because ppl separate doesn’t mean their kids will or shld be lacking in those things.

  • @Kidslearningclub2016
    @Kidslearningclub2016 7 місяців тому +53

    I loved his laugh and comfort he felt, because mummy realised wht he is going through❤❤

    • @KitKat_293
      @KitKat_293 3 місяці тому

      that ability to laugh through the tears and find soothing comfort in the hug of a loved one is a healthy emotional regulation skill he will carry through his whole life time!

  • @laailahaillallah_h
    @laailahaillallah_h 7 місяців тому +768

    All I notice is how Mama's tank is full so she could help with such nurture. So inspiring.. thank you

    • @aliceignis
      @aliceignis 7 місяців тому +65

      That's an important point! I want to be like that all the time, but I just can't when I am stressed from all the things on my shoulders or sad because of marital problems. My tank is often empty and I just can't behave in the right way.
      I keep on giving my best and working on myself. I hope I can be always that calm and empathic, soon!

    • @Golden_Queen_888
      @Golden_Queen_888 7 місяців тому +30

      @@aliceignisu start to fill it up alittle bit by not blaming ur self.. u do the best u can & u appreciate urself for that & for the fact that u want improvement.. and if u could.. u would!
      That’s a good person right there..
      Taking away the guilt, shame & harshness with self will give u plenty of fuel 💕✨💖

    • @zeekachu000
      @zeekachu000 7 місяців тому +10

      ​@@aliceignisI feel EXACTLY like that.... My husband doesn't give me any attention and so I've been depressed for past 4 months. We've had conversations on it but he hasn't changed much so I've stopped wanting or expecting.....
      My tank is very empty now.... 😔

    • @bonniepaora8664
      @bonniepaora8664 6 місяців тому +9

      ​@@zeekachu000honey, its time for the ultimatum. Tell him exactly what you need him to do, and how often, and that if he cant do that, then you cant stay with him. A relationship is supposed to support your mental health, not deteriorate it

    • @shaylacrossland1475
      @shaylacrossland1475 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@@zeekachu000You sound like a very loving and kind person and you deserve better than what you are being given it sounds like. I hope it's ok to say that.

  • @PatrickCahill-q3w
    @PatrickCahill-q3w 3 місяці тому +3

    She is an amazing parent ❤

  • @ReapTheWhirlwind
    @ReapTheWhirlwind 7 місяців тому +480

    Acknowledging a child's emotions is so important. Lil guy needed help deciding to take a nap and his mom let him know that everything he needs, including her, were available. ❤

    • @brynne77
      @brynne77 5 місяців тому +1

      Ok, but what if his binky wasn't available? What if it was lost?

  • @CrushnickAngel
    @CrushnickAngel 7 місяців тому +6

    you will know how hard it is to be calm in that situation when you become a parent.
    She did it so great here

  • @ollie8500
    @ollie8500 7 місяців тому +323

    I can confirm that this feeling never goes away when I’m tired

    • @millie_n11
      @millie_n11 7 місяців тому +15

      Where's our hugs and blanket... 😭

    • @21CCommunIT
      @21CCommunIT 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@millie_n11
      Aww, man... ain't *that* the truth...! 🤔😢

  • @hockeymomWA
    @hockeymomWA 5 місяців тому +9

    Mama understands that these big emotions come out due to physical needs. Being so calm and able to understand what her children need is such an amazing skill.❤

  • @Muffinheadme
    @Muffinheadme 7 місяців тому +219

    I'm glad I learned these methods in parenting at a young age.
    How to love and support your little, and adult children their whole life long.
    I'm 72, and now my children have grown children, and the love and peaceful discipline remain. I have amazing kids and 10 grandkids !!!
    Hopefully this compassionate way of discipline will continue for another 72 years.😅

  • @josephstaples
    @josephstaples 3 місяці тому +3

    Learning about attachment and bonding was important for me in all of my relationships but watching a healthy mom regulate with her child and help them through the big emotions is speechless.

  • @dianeclayton4936
    @dianeclayton4936 7 місяців тому +252

    This interaction warms my heart! This is how healthy tiny humans should be supported. Well done mom!

  • @randycarson3476
    @randycarson3476 7 місяців тому +4

    What a great mama It knows how to handle your child when he's really tired and cranky love her

  • @heezypeasy8611
    @heezypeasy8611 7 місяців тому +465

    First of all, that sweet boy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, momma you are killin it. You handled that so well. I admire your ability to stay so calm and soothing.

    • @MrCJ-qz9dl
      @MrCJ-qz9dl 7 місяців тому +3

      Would you expect her to lose her cool while being filmed for TikTok? It would spark outrage.

    • @randomvintagefilm273
      @randomvintagefilm273 7 місяців тому +9

      ​@MrCJ-qz9dl She isn't the type to lose her cool. She is consistently sweet and her baby feels safe with her

    • @MrCJ-qz9dl
      @MrCJ-qz9dl 7 місяців тому +1

      @@randomvintagefilm273 That's good to know.

    • @shaylacrossland1475
      @shaylacrossland1475 6 місяців тому

      ​@@MrCJ-qz9dlIt's pretty obvious she's not the type to lose her cool even off of tiktok or UA-cam.

    • @MrCJ-qz9dl
      @MrCJ-qz9dl 6 місяців тому +2

      @@shaylacrossland1475 Nothing is obvious if you don't know a person. Some people are smart enough to stage *anything* .

  • @angelaworld5383
    @angelaworld5383 7 місяців тому +27

    If only all kids were treated this way, they could have a lot more better relationship with their parents…
    And yes, the world would DEFINITELY be a better place

    • @natemorgan1996
      @natemorgan1996 6 місяців тому +3

      Ramen to that, sadly that isn't always the case with most people

    • @umhi9778
      @umhi9778 Місяць тому

      Most parents don't deserve a relationship with their kids.

  • @lindaa2437
    @lindaa2437 8 місяців тому +150

    Such kind and gentle mommy soothes her baby so fast! 💕 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @crystal-matthew4.4
    @crystal-matthew4.4 6 місяців тому +9

    That look in his eyes as you lay him down 🥰. You mommy are the best thing in the word for him ❤️❤️🙏🏼

  • @elenatramsti5176
    @elenatramsti5176 8 місяців тому +90

    Mom handled this perfectly.

    • @BebeDaull
      @BebeDaull 7 місяців тому +1

      I'd just take him to bed.

  • @justovaccu7768
    @justovaccu7768 7 місяців тому +34

    They get overwhelmed by the day just like we still do! And even as adults this is our heaven. Our bed and comfort.

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- 6 місяців тому +1

      Right!!😊😊😮

    • @brynne77
      @brynne77 5 місяців тому

      And also someone to give us a nice, big hug.

  • @N-G-U.78665
    @N-G-U.78665 7 місяців тому +23

    Not every parent has the ability to turn a negative into a positive... but when dealing with innocent children it's so important as it's less about what the child does and more about whay you do in situations. Well done & keep up the positivity. 👍😊

    • @robyndismon394
      @robyndismon394 7 місяців тому +2

      yes they DO have the ability. but for so many its overlooked, diminished or even ignored Bcz abrasive, ugly and violent reactions are just far too common AND convenient

    • @brynne77
      @brynne77 5 місяців тому +1

      @@robyndismon394 I can understand why mohammed might say that, for example if the parent has had a bad day, it might not be easy for him or her to be calm and talk to their toddler in a calm manner like she's doing, but I think all parents need to make a big point in doing what you said and keeping calm so they can talk to their child calmly to make him feel better.

  • @Siddharth-Aerospace
    @Siddharth-Aerospace 7 місяців тому +34

    Every mother should be like this 😊.
    Not every couple deserve kids but
    All kids deserve good parents .

  • @astrea9279
    @astrea9279 7 місяців тому +2

    Validation, you guys. VALIDATE always. And especially validate your own feelings, because this is why we grew up with so much disregulation. We've never ever been validated for our feelings.

  • @midabst
    @midabst 7 місяців тому +3

    ❤️ Exactly how it should be done... kids are kids... they don't always understand how to deal with big emotions and it can be overwhelming. the last thing they need is punishment or criticism for expressing them. they need comfort and understanding. Great job mom xx

    • @christianb8228
      @christianb8228 6 місяців тому

      “Big emotions” ? They are just emotions.

  • @evanfrancisca9674
    @evanfrancisca9674 5 місяців тому +1

    That's a happy child growing up.We need more of them amd their loving parents

  • @betford2
    @betford2 7 місяців тому +10

    I like this mom. ❤️

  • @elisabetta4478
    @elisabetta4478 5 місяців тому +3

    To be a mother is a lifelong responsibility. It never ends ❤

  • @elieenm4391
    @elieenm4391 7 місяців тому +11

    Loving Mother with alot of patience and so much love. God Bless her

  • @Onelovewellness11
    @Onelovewellness11 3 місяці тому +1

    This parent is wonderful!❤

  • @SerenEnfys
    @SerenEnfys 7 місяців тому +5

    Oooh this baby will grow up to have such a healthy, secure attachment! 🤩 lucky him 🥹

  • @tiffanysalling4272
    @tiffanysalling4272 7 місяців тому +9

    I suddenly want a nap so much that I started crying. That kid is such a sweetie - what a great way to help him with processing his emotions. Awesome job mom.

  • @SweettoothMarie77
    @SweettoothMarie77 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow, it was a moment that needed to pass and she let him go through it!

  • @maryjay7833
    @maryjay7833 7 місяців тому +43

    Your method is great ; All parents should behave like you 🥺

  • @Sayspace
    @Sayspace 7 місяців тому +6

    I don't have my own kids but I definitely love the way you raise your children. That's the way I would want to raise mine. If I ever have any thank you for the content because it does speak volumes

  • @Ranoo857
    @Ranoo857 7 місяців тому +10

    Thank you for raising beautiful well mannered children ❤

  • @randilevson9547
    @randilevson9547 4 місяці тому +1

    An understanding, calm, patient, loving mom.

  • @lindas3795
    @lindas3795 8 місяців тому +60

    Lucky baby to have a patience and well prepared with strong positive reactions. Salute to mommy🫡. Tq for the tips❤.

  • @ShockResistor
    @ShockResistor 6 місяців тому +1

    Its lovely to see parents actively communicating effectively w their kids in a healthy manner. Part of me envys that child cause I was not treated this way. Great job mama!

  • @davinahicks6764
    @davinahicks6764 7 місяців тому +13

    Good mom with listening skills!!! ❤

  • @mir3349
    @mir3349 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤️lovely calming interaction🥺🥰👏

  • @karenemberley5786
    @karenemberley5786 7 місяців тому +6

    Refreshing to see a video of a mother comforting her crying baby. Most just laugh because for some reason they think it's hilarious.Good job Mom

  • @philiptromp231
    @philiptromp231 7 місяців тому +1

    Master level. Those kids gonna do really well in life! Great Mum! ❤

  • @jadeamerie89
    @jadeamerie89 7 місяців тому +23

    Nothing like a mothers love 💖 mothers heal , grow and nurture 🫶🏾💫

  • @bellbottomblues131
    @bellbottomblues131 6 місяців тому +1

    Your videos always make me smile…and sometimes teary eyed. Great mom!!!!

  • @francestaylor9156
    @francestaylor9156 7 місяців тому +4

    I never found the toddler years difficult. Routine, proper planning and understanding triggers made for a wonderful experience. The toddler years are actually my favorite.

    • @HalfNHalf.
      @HalfNHalf. 7 місяців тому +1

      I totally agree. Once you get in that routine, life is easy

  • @MozartHerbert
    @MozartHerbert 5 місяців тому +2

    His beautiful smile and giggles at the end when you are putting him to slepp are so adorable 🥺🤏🏻🥰

  • @piekop4148
    @piekop4148 6 місяців тому +4

    Raise kids and put them on social media at all times! Great parenting 👌

    • @lenanona-p1x
      @lenanona-p1x 17 днів тому

      Putting this on social media gives others valuable information on how to parent with structure and compassion. I’ve worked in mental health for years and I wish reels like this would have been available decades ago.

    • @piekop4148
      @piekop4148 17 днів тому

      You know that everything on social media is fake right? Right?

  • @itspossible3381
    @itspossible3381 7 місяців тому +1

    Someone is healing ❤️‍🩹 by watching this.

  • @alicechamberlain6411
    @alicechamberlain6411 8 місяців тому +22

    He’s so adorable and a good boy, tired boy !

  • @Username74-b8h
    @Username74-b8h 7 місяців тому +5

    Yessssss validation is super important forr kids. It makes them feel safe and heard

  • @sunnyquinn3888
    @sunnyquinn3888 5 місяців тому +2

    Amazing, as soon as she started talking happily to him, he calmed right down and started smiling and giggling!

  • @bonniescanlan8772
    @bonniescanlan8772 8 місяців тому +106

    So sweet when he smiles as you lay him down precious

  • @lmbrusch1
    @lmbrusch1 4 місяці тому +2

    Relationship with kids (or anyone really) always require good communication full of consideration, calmness, patience and a bit of humor

  • @manojtiwary6891
    @manojtiwary6891 7 місяців тому +16

    Lovely caring momma and sweet cute boy. He understands telepathy of mommas not crying😮 by sweet communication. 😮

  • @sravpola
    @sravpola Місяць тому +1

    After watching your videos. I had an insight about babies/children. About their growing pains... physical and mental and unable to express what that is. It makes so much sense now. I love the way you don't allow their emotions to draw you in. Instead lead them out of it. With your temperament.

  • @divine_simplicity
    @divine_simplicity 6 місяців тому +1

    Shes such an amazing, wonderful mother! ❤❤❤You kid is lucky to have a mom like you🥹🥹
    This is how all parents should be

  • @9a_03_alishaturuk8
    @9a_03_alishaturuk8 7 місяців тому +99

    These young parents will give a positive future generations to this world because they know handling traumas is one of the most difficult thing ❤

  • @Nelson_Swamp
    @Nelson_Swamp 7 місяців тому +1

    This was a seriously awesome display of how to model, acknowledge, and manage the emotional peaks and volleys of our youngsters. Bravo.

  • @karen.island3697
    @karen.island3697 8 місяців тому +23

    What a great mommy you are! ❤

  • @dwe9935
    @dwe9935 7 місяців тому +2

    I wish our generation grows into these wonderful parents even after every wrongs and battles and modernisation we go through

    • @natemorgan1996
      @natemorgan1996 6 місяців тому +2

      I absolutely agree with you on that, it's sad especially when knowing that this generation of parents will be criticized by the older generation parents and whatnot, know what I mean?

  • @MsJoyce31202
    @MsJoyce31202 7 місяців тому +9

    Talking to him makes him laugh! 😊

  • @MochiColorsZanos
    @MochiColorsZanos 6 місяців тому +1

    The way he looks at her as she laid him down. Pure trust and the feeling of being loved 💛 Melted my heart 💛💫

  • @debbiewear7823
    @debbiewear7823 7 місяців тому +11

    You are a good mom I thought the little boy was so happy and cute to take a nap. You made the nap sound so cozy ❤️☺️❤️☺️

  • @lmbrusch1
    @lmbrusch1 4 місяці тому +1

    She's definitely prepare her kids for their future by setting a good example. Love her.

  • @tonilehman6254
    @tonilehman6254 7 місяців тому +51

    I love how you parent River so calmly. I wish all parents handled their children in this loving manner.❤❤

    • @annabrahamson4320
      @annabrahamson4320 7 місяців тому

      Remember this is UA-cam, you are only seeing the good outcomes only the best.

    • @hanjissidegirl8672
      @hanjissidegirl8672 Місяць тому

      @@annabrahamson4320exactly people are delulu to assume this is how she acts all the time

  • @whatmyohmy
    @whatmyohmy 2 місяці тому

    That's a wonderful way to sooth him and put him down for a nap! He reminds me of my son when he was that young. 40 years ago! It's just like yesterday again. Thank You!

  • @toniangelo555
    @toniangelo555 5 місяців тому +3

    Everyone needs this female angel as a mom❤

  • @Fan-zx1lz
    @Fan-zx1lz 3 місяці тому

    What a beautiful mother she is Amazing!!! This is how every parents should handle their toddlers.

  • @janellerudloff5073
    @janellerudloff5073 7 місяців тому +98

    Currently 25 weeks pregnant with my first and it’s a boy!!! and watching these give me hope and this is teaching me a lot about validating my son’s feels and remaining calm. I needed to see this!

    • @FionaIngrid
      @FionaIngrid 7 місяців тому +2

      Congratulations! :)

    • @silkecarina991
      @silkecarina991 7 місяців тому +3

      Im so happy about people like you. Slowly but steady the world will change into better

    • @1josi3
      @1josi3 7 місяців тому

      Im in week 38 with my first, its also a boy and I love to watch those Videos, its helping me to be a better mom

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- 6 місяців тому

      Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉

    • @brynne77
      @brynne77 6 місяців тому

      Agreed and so did I :)

  • @ParminderKaur-vf5fd
    @ParminderKaur-vf5fd 3 місяці тому +1

    U r the best mother also am learning so much many things from you as af i also become a mom

  • @Anita-pi9ip
    @Anita-pi9ip 7 місяців тому +4

    These are future people who won't need therapy. Thank you Mom ❤

  • @Human_soul_n_mind
    @Human_soul_n_mind 5 місяців тому +1

    She is giving positive emotions, that good

  • @tinapadilla4755
    @tinapadilla4755 7 місяців тому +5

    Mom, very well done. All is well. ❤

  • @sumayahzadran7587
    @sumayahzadran7587 6 місяців тому

    Much love for this little angel. ❤❤ Thank you for being so good to children. I slowly get back hope into humanity when I see people treating their children well.

  • @Space_Princess
    @Space_Princess 8 місяців тому +52

    I love this ❤ it brought tears to my eyes because when i was a kid my brother and i used to get told off for showing emotions and we got punished. We would get told we cant have want we want/need and just have to suffer until we are allowed it because we were the child and they were the adults. Seeing parents like this teaching kids how to take care of their own needs and how to regulate is so beautiful 🥲 most people say this is what makes kids grow up to be snowflakes but actually it doesn't. we need more parents like this 🙏🏻💕

    • @RubyShelton-nf4mb
      @RubyShelton-nf4mb 8 місяців тому +4

      Thank you for sharing your experiences. I love how there she is for him. He can see and probably feel he has her full attention in a good way. Sometimes comfort is in tone and simple attention.

  • @royalmeredith3695
    @royalmeredith3695 7 місяців тому +1

    Ma'am, you are doing a great service to the community by sharing your valuable knowledge on PARENTING. God bless you and your family!

  • @breathe8214
    @breathe8214 7 місяців тому +22

    Even I felt soothed😂😂

  • @lovelylibra8765
    @lovelylibra8765 5 місяців тому +1

    These are going to be the sweetest, most well-adjusted people. You're doing an amazing job, mom.

  • @lenajane595
    @lenajane595 6 місяців тому +3

    The way he looks up at his mama 😭❤️ I’ll be honest, I’ve never wanted kids, not because I don’t like them - I think they’re adorable - but just because I love just taking care of myself. Seeing this though, damn, that kind of love is so beautiful

  • @kathrynmitcheltree8022
    @kathrynmitcheltree8022 6 місяців тому +1

    We had time out corner but it was a feelings corner. When emotions were big and you needed to step back and calm yourself. Had many incidences where I'd find my kids in that corner. They would tell me they got in a fight with their sister or got angry and felt like pushing their brother. They chose the amount of time they needed. Each of my kids are very open with their communications and feelings. They never got in trouble growing up. They aren't alcoholics or drug addicts. They have good jobs, good relationships, good credit-and they regularly come to me for advice. I didn't have the secretive teenage stage. They trusted my judgement, knew I would get it. You don't have to be strict, you have to be available.

  • @ElizabethBallesteros-mo1zi
    @ElizabethBallesteros-mo1zi 8 місяців тому +9

    He is so adorable and cute 🥰

  • @SaHayes-it2uw
    @SaHayes-it2uw 8 місяців тому +26

    I love how you love him and are so patient.

  • @LivingLily
    @LivingLily Місяць тому +1

    This is too cute I CANT

  • @alphapbet
    @alphapbet 8 місяців тому +32

    The Big nod from him just got me!

  • @CSB458
    @CSB458 Місяць тому

    Baby boy has stars in his eyes looking at his momma. Very sweet

  • @anitapienaar7355
    @anitapienaar7355 8 місяців тому +5

    You are amazing

  • @belindanelson9823
    @belindanelson9823 5 місяців тому

    Kudos to this mom ! She is doing it all right . ❤

  • @jenniferlambert5581
    @jenniferlambert5581 7 місяців тому +5

    Hes a baby not a toddler!!!! Love your babies good grief

  • @Kat-zj5kd
    @Kat-zj5kd День тому

    she is v beautiful, her parenting is very sweet and remarkable and her children are so lucky..

  • @ms7953
    @ms7953 8 місяців тому +5

    😂Watch out for "trigger words" though.
    I've known some little ones if you said "tired" or "take nap" would move from big emotions to hysteria because they recognized the trajectory towards going to bed and they hated to go to bed.🙄But Sweet Momma here, good job.🙂🙂

  • @gree-uz8pv
    @gree-uz8pv 5 місяців тому

    What a wonderful mom who gets it and is so giving. Stay strong and he will love you forever.

  • @lauracofman7128
    @lauracofman7128 8 місяців тому +12

    Please allow the feelings.