If You've Ever Lost a Child, Watch This
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- Опубліковано 9 січ 2020
- Be it through a miscarriage, an accident, an illness or another means, the loss of a child has got to be the most unimaginable pain for a parent.
While the grief must be grieved in its own time and depth, one thing that can help such a parent is to focus on the love that was birthed from this
relationship.
When the parent commemorates the birthing of this love during this painful time of death, the parent transforms their pain toward the highest good.
Action through service is one of the most powerful ways this can happen.
It is through service that the harrowing experience of loss can be rejuvenated into redemption, love and a new tomorrow.
Dr. Shefali is a NYT bestselling author of The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family. She is also a clinical psychologist, an international speaker and a wisdom teacher, integrating Eastern philosophy with Western psychology.
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I just lost my baby girl yesterday I miss her so much i hope she isn’t in pain anymore and that the lord and my family watches over and cares for her till I can see her again one day
So sorry to hear that, unfortunately I know exactly what you are going thru. I lost my angel (Mae was 6) almost a year ago, and it is impossible to express what is going on in my heart. I don't even think I have begun to deal with those feelings. It is just hard enough to make it thru the day. But that is all we can do is move forward if not for yourself for your loved ones. I will pray for you and your baby girl.
@@jacquelinestewart3820 I will pray for you. God Bless.
Sending you this beautiful song penned by a 14 Yr old in memory of her sister
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I’m so sorry for your loss it’s been 5 months and the pain has not lifted
@@jacquelinestewart3820 exactly
I lost my son to cancer in 2020. He was only 6. I have never felt a pain so deep and I struggle everyday. I struggle with images of the pain he put up with and all those times he tried to show me how brave he was during his treatment. He wanted me his father to know he was strong and could face his cancer.
Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of grief.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
Praying for you, losing my Mae, almost killed me. Our stories are kind of similar she was 6 and passed in March of 2020, right when COVID really started. She had Complex one Mitochondria. I will never forget her struggles, they are burned into my brain. But we were blessed because she had 3 good years. I struggle sometimes because it hurts so much to think about her, but I always want to remember the good stuff.
Sending you lots of love and prayers..I lost my baby girl to AVM..she was 9..it's been 7 months and I struggle everyday
@@priyankashah4021 thank you, I will pray for you as well.
Seeing your child in pain and stress is horrendous. You feel their every twinge and it takes such courage to do the best. I have lost two children but did not have to go through long illness or watch them suffer. But have seen this in my work as a registered nurse. Loss of a child is the most deeply painful thing any parent will ever experience. Just be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to grieve and live on as most comfortable for you.
Nothing eases the pain or grief from losing a child. Advice from someone who has never lost a child is useless.. you make a decision every day to get up. You make a decsion everyday to carry on like everything is normal. You makeca decision everyday to laugh, love and enjoy friends and family.. because underneath all you want is for the pain and emtiness to stop. But it never will. So you make a choice everyday to live life despite what you feel inside, until it becomes normal again to just do and be. Because that grief, pain emptiness is the new normal you learn to balance them both. That is how you deal with the loss of a child.
I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number +17866676668 or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you..
Very true it’s useless
So true 🥰
Indeed, and I don’t like people bringing it up unless I do, because it’s my pain and my love for my baby boy….. I am no longer afraid of death, I will do what I have to but I’m just here waiting for the Lord to take me so I can do away with this pain, sleepless nights, headaches, the feeling of not able to breath and ofcourse the loneliness that overwhelms us. I have a daughter and I am doing everything possible for her, but nothing takes this pain that is more painful than anything else in this world. We can not see the pain waves or color of it, but we feel it!
Blessing and May the Lord guide you to your son when it is your time.
@@ChrisJohnson-lh9qb I understand this. And yes everyone does pass one day. But young children shouldn’t first.
Lost my son in mother's womb days before his due date. Feels like a part of me is gone with him even though he never took a breath or opened his eyes in this world. Feels so empty. May God give strength to every parent who lost their child.
I lost my baby boy two weeks ago. He was only three weeks old. It hurts so bad but am glad he isn't suffering anymore. Rest easy Amir
@@caroly767 may God give you strength to overcome your loss.
Amen may God strengthen you too. The pain of loosing child is the worst and only mother's can understand
I’m going through the same after my baby passed away 2weeks ago at 6days old….extremely heartbroken
i also lost my baby girl 2 month back …. in 31 week of pregnancy , still i feel her inside me 😭 may god give a much strength to all those parent who lost their child 🙏🏻
I never wanted to be a parent, until I found my husband. He had already experienced the loss of his son, born too early, lived for a week. It took him 5 years to recover. Our son, my first his second, never got to take his first breath, he was born at 18 weeks pregnant, stillborn. He is still my son and I will always have a love for him I simply cannot put into words, one I thought I'd never have. Today was his cremation, he will be loved forever.
I am sharing my best friend's story to help others find true hope.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I lost my son and only child 3 years ago, he was 34, not a child but my son all the same.
I will never ever get over the pain of losing him.
I will never celebrate what I had and lost, I'm not there yet.
I miss him with every beat of my broken heart 😭😭😭
Me too. My daughter was 18. She died 10/23/22.
It doesn't matter their age. They are our babies until the end of time.
I'm right there with you. I know I won't survive this. I may be physically present, but my soul is dead.
@@Librocubicularist1
I'm so so sorry 😭🌳
I am deeply sorry for your unimaginable loss. My son had two types of leukemia three times and was 24 when he passed. Love to you.
❤️💔❤️💔❤️
@@havelife
Thank you.
Bless your heart ❤️
Nothing has helped me. I miss my son sooooo much. May 1st 2020. 💔💔💔
I will be blunt, but honest. I lost my child in 2007. It took me 5 years to sort of heal. You never get over it. You only learn to live again. Don't except a quick fix, nothing is going to alleviate your pain, and there is no going back. Watch your alcohol intake. I am not saying Don't drink, just watch how much and how often. Learn about the 5 stages of Grief. If you can, get consoling. Unless the preacher has a doctorate in Psychology, he won't be much use to you. Get a real doctor.
You have a long road ahead. I wish you well and the closest thing to healing you'll ever find.
@@TurkPowers so true
I lost my son May 18th, 2019 I miss him more and more everyday
I lost my Son Seth on 10/15/2017 and I have never been the same.
@@chriskulm2468 my prayers are with you
We've lossed a 25 year old grandson nearly 2 months ago, it's so painful, my daughter is hurting, I pray she can get through with God's strength. I feel sorrow for all you who are going through this.
I'm so sorry to hear of your tragic loss.
My heart goes out to your family at this very sad time 🙏
I just lost my son... I miss him beyond words....
My deepest condolences. I also lost my Son. Is been 7 months now and I can't believe it.
May the Lord God and Jesus be with you and your family. Sorry for your loss
@@salsero397 the one year has just passed April 9 th it is as if it was a year ago.... I miss him so much... I still don’t believe he’s gone....
Take care brother. I too feel your pain.
I lost my son also, will see him again
I loss my baby girl earlier this year. It's been ten months now and I'm still in pain. I'm not sure whether I'm going or coming... I know, I miss her so much and it's not easy to turn the love you have for your child that you loss into something positive. My world stopped, it's like, I'm on autopilot. My condolences to everyone who's coping with the loss of a loved one. Thanks for sharing
I'm 3 days in my loss and I feel exactly how you described your emotions. My condolences.
@@shimmyshim2318 my condolences for your loss. It's been a year now. The pain won't ever go away. I buy little trinkets for my fairy angel and put it in her memory box. I sketch her, talk to her. I cry out of nowhere but... I'm crying now
I lost my daughter. My only child. My everything. The love of my life. There is no life without her. Her dad was killed in a car accident. It was just her and me against the world. Now I have nothing. There is nothing. Only excruciating pain. 24/7. I'm glad people find a new purpose or they have other children that need them, but I don't have anything without my baby girl. I wouldn't want a life without her. I don't want to live in this horrific nightmare. I just want to be with her.
It's not something anyone can yearn for... We all deal with our grief differently. We have others out there that been there and no matter how long ago it happened, the same emotions come.
@anewlondon4402 same here I woke up to my 2 1/2 old baby girl dead next to me while we were asleep she quit breathing. We have 2 boys 9 & 12 and they had a friend over as well who saw the blood out her nose and mouth and tried to help with cpr please lift my sons up in your prayers she was the joy of our whole family with them all being older they loved loving on her and spoiling her it wasn't like when you have a newborn and toddler fighting for attention no, she lit up our WHOLE UNIVERSE. times frozen for me but flying at the same time but I never ever even keep up with the dates or days anymore 😭😭😭😭I'm sorry for your loss I know it hurts so bad ugh hurts so bad aren't even descriptions that can barely explain it
I watched this and it did nothing for me. My 21 year old son passed away this past September 5th 2021. Not a day goes by I do not think of him and miss him. I can watch all the videos that mention help for the grief all day long but I will never forget about my son and will take it to the grave with me. The main hard part is going through this mostly alone.
I lost my 2 years old son 3 months ago on a vacation trip ..
the pain will never be away but you will learn to live with it.
Myself till today my mind want a reason that he can understand but i know nothing will change the reality not my pain not my tears but my love for him… i just want to tell you live for him, do what you live to see you happy is a all what a kid want from his parent love and happiness continue rest in peace to your son ❤️
I lost my son a month ago, he was 23 years old. I have no answers, but I feel exactly like you.
Jesus doesn't want you to go through this alone, He is there for you if you will let Him in. Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of grief.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
@@rastorga4771 Jesus is the answer. Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of grief.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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I feel your heartache. I lost my 28 year old son 2 days after you lost yours. 9/7/21. I honestly still cant believe he is really gone. Not sure I will ever accept it. The pain is indescribable. Its like I’m in withdrawal and the only thing to satisfy the yearning is never coming back. I want to climb the walls out of frustration and desperation. There is no consolation or justification. Its like I have a terminal illness and am waiting to die. I, too, am alone. I am so angry at God for leaving me here to do this by myself. I keep asking Him “Why would you do this to me”.
In fact I scream it to Him over and over again. Of course, I never get an answer. I hope I die early. So sorry for your loss.💔❤️🩹❤️
It isn't one of the most devastating things, it is THE MOST DEVASTATING thing one could go through.
Everything you are saying is easy to say, when you looking from the outside in. When you are on the inside, it's a darkness you can feel and it's a nightmare that never ends.
However, you do become numb to the nightmare and you learn to live your life once again.
I am 14 years removed from the loss of my daughter. I still have a hole in my heart. I have accepted it, and I learned to live with it.
There is only acceptance. It took me 5 yrs to do that, which is normal. You can distract yourself all you want, but acceptance is key. Everything else is meaningless.
It's a long hard journey, but it can be achieved.
I agree completely
Grieving the death of a child has taken a toll in my life that is unexplainable. I'm not the same person. Very Painful ,lonely Journey
@@salsero397 - Brother, my heart goes out to you. It does take an incredible toll on you, and the journey is filled with heart wrenching pain, with no signs with relief. I don't know how far down this path you are forced to go down, but I am 14 years. As you mentioned, it is life changing. I am no where near the same person. Everything changed about me, my philosophy, my attitude, my work habits, etc. etc. It devastated me and changed the very core of my being. I will say some of that change was for the good, and some of it was for the bad. However, who I ever I was, is no more. Not only did I lose my daughter, I lost myself. I died that day too. So I hear you brother. I will be wishing you well and my you find a way to be happy again.
Thank you Turk. Your truth resonates with me. I lost my 20 year old son 9 months ago. I'm 50 years old, 2 younger kids still. I'm devastated and heartbroken.
@@larrydal4555 - my heart goes out to your brother. No one should ever have to feel this level of pain. While I don’t know how you feel, I am familiar with the madness this pain brings. Part of you actually dies that day too. It changes one dramatically from the soul out. You are no longer the same, and you will never be the same. People hate it when I say that; however, it is true. It changes you. Some of the change is good, and some of it is… well, what is “bad” anyway? From my own experience, and the people I have talked to, you are just different. AND THAT IS OKAY.
You have a long journey head. My friend, this type of heart ache takes years to accept. As I have told so many other people, "There is no healing, nor is there “getting over it,” there is only acceptance. It took me 5 years to accept it. Believe it or not, 5 years is the normal amount of time it takes. So, 3 years from now, when you are still under the dark clouds of depression crying your eyes out, please understand this is normal.
5 years… remember that. It took my 5 years, when I realized it no longer consumed me. It’s not easy. It still grips me ever once in while out of the blue. I will be driving down the road, and it will hit me. I will tear up. Nobody ever told me it takes 5 years. No one told me it will take your breath away 15 years down the road. I met a man last summer. He was 50+ years removed from the loss of his baby. He broke down in front of me.
Remember, you are normal. We all process this and feel differently; and we all are normal for doing so. If you haven’t been to grief counseling, see what you can do to get some. Get a good Doctor, with a real PHD and get some help. Sorry, for this issue, I don’t recommend pastors, shamans, spiritualist, etc., but real psychologist, I wish I had of. I couldn’t afford one, and damn near had a psychotic break.
One thing that helped me was, I started to write a letter on her birthday. I would say how the family is doing, how I missed her, and so forth. It helped me put my feelings in order, whereas I could sort them out. I still do this, and I post it on Facebook. I still do this, I find it helps me clear out mind, soul and emotions. I find that this is my way of remembering my daughter, and that daddy will always love her. I encourage your own to find a way to honor your son. It doesn’t have to be expensive, just something personal you can put heart into. Something that is you.
My friend Godspeed, you have a very long journey ahead.
I lost my baby boy a week ago. It feels crazy to write. I lost my first brother on Dec 11 2022. I can’t put into words the pain. I will never stop loving him. At least I have that. He was only a 1 month old. But it was the best 4 weeks of my life. Hold on to the love.
😢I’m sorry
I lost my baby girl, she was just 48 days old, she died in sleep, she was sleeping on my chest, I don't stop grieving her, for I don't want to forget her ever
I’m sorry you had to take the journey it’s horrible 😢
You will reunite with them 🤍🪽
Mat God Almighty give you strength and power.❤
I.lost my son feb.2, 21, he was 38, my heart is so broke, lost empty and crying all the time, I miss him so much..pray daily.
I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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My pain is recent and the pain is in every breath I take, but I try to remember the beautiful moments that we created over 16 1/2 years. Some days I can’t even move, but I have to try to be normal or pretend I am alive for my daughter…. She is my source of power..
I want to give up every day and I just can’t wait to be with him when the Good Lord tells me it’s my time. For now, I’m trying to be a good person so when it’s my time, I can go to the same place where My son went. God allowed me to see where my son is and I am thankful for that and gives me some peace, but the pain is overwhelming and nothing like anything I could have ever imagine. Everyone wants to go to Heaven, but no one wants to die, my son is there and I am not afraid of death nor I welcome of it until my duty is fulfilled with my daughter.
I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I lost my son on December 4th. It was my birthday. He had a heart attack. He was 38. I truly believe it was from years of drug and alcohol abuse and it just wore his heart out. He had just been released last March from his first prison sentence. I had such high hopes that he would get his life together this time. He fell back into meth and was shooting it this time. He is at peace now and no demons can taunt him now. He did believe in God and I believe he called on God and God took him. My pain is still fresh and I am praying my way through it
My heart and prayers are with you----I love you in the Lord
May Allah give you strength and patience 💖
I am so sad when I hear such stories...my brother too. He was driven crazy by a nutty woman and although he won in court...it devastated him. he took care of his child for years but...he was never the same.
I lost my son Eric on Dec 4th, 2013 he was 24 years old in a motorcycle accident. It's been hard he was my only son. Healing has been slow and I miss him so much.
I have your same story, buried mine 2 days ago, same exact story
I lost my son, Felix on 10/14/22. He was 5 days away from being 19months old. My entire being aches with the pain of longing to hold my baby again. He was truly special and such a kind soul already. I love you forever, and as long as I’m living, my baby you’ll be
I lost my little boy just over a month a go he was 12. It's a pain unimaginable yet there are days you just can't cry. You don't know how or what to feel. Sorry for you loss 💞
@@Raven_2912 I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It is truly a pain unlike any other. I hope you and your family are able to heal, talking about him with my loved ones has helped, keeping his memory alive. I still think about him every day and talk to him in the middle of the night when it’s really difficult. Unfortunately healing is not linear and it’s okay to be broken sometimes. And please remember, your son loved you
So sorry you are enduring this awful pain. May God give you strength.
I lost my 24 yr old a month ago and my husband and I are destroyed. It's a pain unlike anything I've felt before.
I lost my Son on 10/15/2022💔
Personally nothing can help me now. I feel like I don’t need to be here anymore.
I lost my son a month ago ,gun down shot in the head, but it feel like , he not gone. But im very thankful to have my son 30 years, and every day i try accept reality and know even being broken , i encourage myself by saying, you made be gone from this place but not from my heart , even at his funeral i didnt break down. But i sit down and just cry and then i humble myself and say there parents who lost they children at birth as teenager and i was bless have 30 years with my son., i can not even imagine how them parents feel that lost they children younger then mines. But i want tell every parents stay strong be encourage and remember the good moments, i really cant believe he gone , but i know in reality he is, and i have accepted, that God been good to me better then , i deserve and i refuse be angry at God, because there was days , God has protected me and my family , provide for me, but to forgive me for my sins over and over, and every day i wake up i might cry, God will see justice for my son, and if he decide not to. I want question him, because i was bless to have a child and there someone wish and pray they could, and i tell myself , i was born to die no matter how hard it is to accept it, i have keep prayer for strength , it a deep scar it deeper then losing my parents and my brother, but there is A God who heals
I’m so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain. I just lost my 24 year old son the same way.
I am in shock and disbelief. I feel like part of me died with him. It’s a pain like no other and no one can understand unless they’ve lived it so I just wanted you to know you’re not alone. I pray for our peace and that our sons are in heaven and are smiling down at us.❤
I feel the same my son was just murdered my only son on 6/19/24 22 years old I pray and ask God to give me strength and peace and thank him for me even being a mother and having him 22 years
@@monicawashington5595❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
Today December 18th I lost my Beautiful only child to a horrific accident. It has been 3 years and the loss is still so Deep it cut through to my Soul. It shattered my heart and Dreams....Life is Cruel is what I learned from this horrible experience....Erek I miss you every moment every day. I Love you Infinity and Our Souls will intertwine Again and that will be the moment my Soul smiles again as we Reunite with Joy & Laughter..Love Momma..💙💜 Thank you for 28 years of knowing you in this Lifetime...
My 11 year old passed away Dec.18, 2023 Im devastated
This is a lovely message--and it's all true. My cousin and her husband just lost their only child to a heart attack, he was only 47. When they had him, they had agreed to "one and done" and never had another child. Even if they had decided to have more children, you can't replace one because each child is special in their own way. I was never able to have children, so I don't know how to comfort them. I do know that even if they'd known this was going to happen, they'd rather have their "fifteen minutes of wonderful instead of a lifetime of nothing special". I've lived my whole life with nothing as special as their son was to show for it. That's a grief that hasn't gone away for over 40 years.
I lost my baby a couple weeks ago and I’m broke and I name her Cora Blair she is in my heart 😭❤️❤️
You have my condolences. I lost my baby 14 yrs ago. I am familiar with your pain. Take care of yourself and give yourself grace. You are going to need it. You have a long journey a head.
I lost her yesterday her name was Cora Kapnissi
I know your pain. 🙏🏽❤️
I lost my child a week a go. What did you do to get better? My heart is broken.
@@249nickym To be honest my friend, there is no getting better. You lost a child, the most unnatural thing in world. I wish I could say something poetic, which would give you that sense of understanding; however I understand no such words exist. There is no understanding to the “why.” There is no “quick fixes. There is only “Acceptance.”
It takes about 5 years to accept this type of tragedy. It is an emotional roller coaster, which brings you up and down for the first 2 years. The 3rd year, there doesn’t seem to be many ups… just a long drop into hell. The 3rd and 4th year after, the depression is awful. Finally the 5th year, you begin to accept it as it is.
Always feel out your feelings. Don’t repress feelings. Feel you feelings. Understand them. You are not weak for crying 5 years after the fact. You lost a child and it is a pain that is indescribable. If possible, seek some grief consoling. Seek real consoling too, this means no pastors. Preachers can help you find Jesus, but they are in way over their head when it comes to dealing with this type of problem. Find a real psychologist, one with a real degree, and has a real practice. They can help you.
Also, you can find books over the issues. If you know someone else who has lost a child some years back, talk to them. They can clue you in on a few things.
Some of the things I have done:
One is that every year I write my kid a letter. I tell her how my year went, how I am doing, and describe what I am feeling. I tell her I have met other people like me, who have lost a child. I just write what is in my heart. Then, I post it on Facebook. It is just a practice I do, and I find it rather comforting.
I don’t know if you are a drinker, but be very careful when it comes to alcohol. You can drink at social gatherings, parties, get-to-gathers, however try not to drink alone. While alcohol does numb you, it can do more damage than good, when you are going through this type of life event. (This was something I struggled with personally. I still have to watch myself, make sure I don’t fall into the hands of alcoholism. It is very easy to do, if you are hurting.)
I am 14 years removed from that awful day. I live a fairly normal life, or as normal as normal can get. There are still times that I break down and cry. However, those break downs are few and far in between. As I said earlier, there is no getting better. You just learn to live, without your child. Think of losing an arm. Your arm is gone forever. You can’t grow a new one, it is gone forever. However you can learn to live again, and live it well without it. You just learn how to live without the arm, do things that one armed people do, and occasionally you remember your old arm. This is how it will be for you.
I wish you well.
Such a difficult topic to talk about but yet so important. Taking the love for your child and using that to be of service for the greater good and live your life is the best thing you can do for your deceased child. Appreciate this video.
I lost my child virat😢😢😢😢12 may 2021
I loss my son on January 24 2022 he was 33 years he was my first true love i can't feel anything I can not focus at all fell into depression anxiety and panic attacks i had to go back on anti depression meds they are helping that out I don't like to be around alot of people I rather stay in my house
Stay strong. It will never be forgotten but it will be less painful with some time. I know life is unfair but please try to get out of this dark hole step by step. We are all going to leave this world. It's just a matter of time. For yourself and for your son, keep enjoying your life until your time comes. Enjoy the little things. Anything that makes YOU a little bit more happy. Life is unfair and hard but we are stronger.
I'm only 10 years old and my mom was 5 months pregnant and we just lost the baby we just got the news...
So sorry for your loss...God bless you 🙏
I am so sorry my dear
God bless you hon! I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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I’m sorry for your loss my friend may God bless you with peace in your heart and mind. 🙏
AMEN! AMEN! Our healing is IN the pain! I lost my 22 year old just over 2 years ago. I thought my heart was broken beyond repair, but it was only opening to the new possibilities of my life's purpose, that my son intended all along! **Thank you Tim! I love and miss you SO much! I can't wait til I can see you again, Love Mom❤️**
Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of grief.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
Stacie, I lost my 22 year old son as well, 2 years ago today. We are not alone.❤
@@kristiefish7041 I'm so sorry Mama. What is your son's name? I'm sure they are friends up there, just hanging out ya know? I hope you feel your boy with you everyday, intensely loving on you!💞 Sending you my love as well!❤
Hello everyone ,my deepest condolences to each and everyone here in the comments, I lost my son" only 27 years old; these past 3 weeks, tomorrow is his funeral and iam lost for words ,feeling angry, sad,confused, hurt; guilt ,and everything in-between, I can't accept he is no longer here with me, how I wish it wasn't true;I miss him so much,keep waiting for him to come home, but he's not,I hope and pray he is in a better place ,his soul rested, miss you my baby,R.I.P
I lost my only child my 29 year old son 💔 😪 😢 I feel ur pain sweetie...he passed July 2, 2022 U will go thru alot of emotions and one day u think it gets easier and it does get some easier ❤️ 💙 so know that u won't feel as lost and painful hurt u feel now it does get easier . It's not sopppsed to ever go away and we all greive different . I have Severe Greif brain 🧠 fog and it's horrible but it gets better as time moves on. I think about my son 24/7 😪 and wish he could have adjusted his shirt or tied his shoe to lose those few seconds of the coward who ran the stop sign and hit him throwing him off his motorcycle...my son was my world as I know ur son was too ...We can't question it and we can't lean on human understanding. It is hard I mean I know so know ur not alone and REMEMBER THAT OUR SONS DONT WANT TO SEE US CRYING AND LONELY AND HURT ..they need us to continue to live and learn and experience life again. U have to keep your mind fixed on your higher power. As with me it's Jesus and the promise of God that God says we will see our loved ones in heaven again. 🙏 ❤️ I pray whatever it is that were sopppsed to learn from this that we have God's grace. I am sending u love and healing vibes ✨️ 💖 From one Son*s Mom to another. I am writing a book, I am learning to play 🎸 guitar and am trying to put the bad emotions into nothing but love and goodness. ❤️ #Ihaveaholeinmysoul
My brave 8 year little boy has just passed over only on 23-01-2022. The hospital could not stop the seizures, he had had seizures for over 5 years from batten disease cln2. All our children are such brave warriors. There are no words for the void we have. But I know my son soul is free of pain and we will meet again, all together soon. He has returned back to divine light, I miss him so much. Love you Son x
God bless you! I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
hi, i lost my only son too last May 14,2023, the hospital also can not stop the seizures he is just 10 years old, he is the love of my life..he is the only reason why i get up everyday work hard for both of us and for his future ,now he is gone, its me and only him against the world..i can not explain the feeling of emptiness and pain right now.
@@corazonliva6117 I am so sorry ❤🙏 please know he never left you, it is that you just can not see him. Maybe contact a psychic medium to make contact with your son. I did and it has helped me so my much, grief comes in waves, we all feel like we are on a pause button. Take care Xx
I lost my eldest daughter 21 years ago. The pain is still there it never fades but it gets easier to cope. I'll forever treasure those two days we had with her in the SCBU and will always be grateful for the compassion and support of the nurses and staff for their help in me being able to carry on and bring my son(my daughters twin) home.
I lost my son may 7,2021
I miss my son so much 😭 he was just 12 yrs old
I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
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@Laura B. Im sorry about your loss, my condolences goes out to you as well, thanks for your nice response, hopefully you're doing great ? It's nice talking to people with similar experience likewise, it'd be nice to talk to you more maybe have a great conversation, if you don't mind sending me your gmail address so I can reach out on you.
@@ChrisJohnson-lh9qb naveedhmufti@gmail.com my dear i read all ur tragedies i have also lost my beloved son in liver cancer,,,pain is same so v could b good friends and understands eachothers problems thnks Naveed
@Laura B. reallyy i need support ...i lost my beloved six years son in liver cancer...so i m total loss...plz help me..my whatsaap number +923002923584
I lost my son the same day, he was 23. Deepest sympathy for your loss. I'm still in shock.
I lost my 5 yr old daughter September 4th. She,her sister, and I were in a bad car wreck. My 7 yr ols is in the hospital and I had to have surgery. My heart hurts everyday
So sorry for your loss
I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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I lost my son 1 year ago tomorrow. 9/7/21. He was my best friend, soul mate, whole world. He was autistic and soooo very special. I lost 1/2 of me when he left. The bond between us was so strong. He was my everything. There are no words to explain the emptiness and loneliness in my heart and soul. There is no love deeper than a mother and child. I ask God to let me die every night so I dont have to wake up and start fighting another day. Its a daily struggle and so exhausting. That feeling of nothing will ever be right again. Quite honestly, I am so angry at God for allowing him to go. It ruined my life, our future, everything. I cannot even imagine ever being able to accept this and ‘move on.’ Its just not possible. I love you and miss you so much Blake Anthony.
I pray I’ll see you soon💔❤️🩹❤️
❤️💔❤️💔❤️🤣
The last emoji is a mistake I was only sending hearts I know your pain... my son Matthew has been gone 1 year 7 10 days and his birthday is Saturday💔💔💔
same, my 1 year old died last week. the only true love i’ve ever had. i can’t explain how much i loved him and he was my all. i’ve gone through so much and finally had my everything for him to be taken away. shits never gonna be okay. Parents aren’t built to take this kind of pain there’s no way I’m gonna be able to live with this type of paying the rest of my life
The last thing on my mind is helping someone else when I am going through loss.
Right
My son was 61 when he died on past Christmas Day from cancer, which he had battled for 23 years. He was a fun, witty guy who was young at heart. I miss him but I am glad he is in Heaven and out of that awful pain.
I lost my son just 11 days ago,,he was just 14 yrs old,,,he went to a waterfall with his friends and he accidentally slip and hit his head on the rock below,,then he sank we couldn't find him for almost 5hours😭😭,,,it was the longest hours of my life,,I blame myself for giving him the permission to go,,,,and this guilt now is slowly killing me😭😭,,,I don't know how can I go on without him,,as he is very king and loving to me,,,I really miss him so much,,,so much that I would do anything just to see and talk to him again😢😢
🙏😔
Samuel. I lost my daughter in January. She took her own life after a long battle with depression. i/we blame ourselves aswell. It's been 6 months for me, and we are slowly getting our life back. Or, rather, this other life. One rule that helped was never to think "what if" thoughts. That was helpful the first 1-3 months. After that and the funeral it's time to decide if you choice life, or if you are not ready for that yet. But you have to choice life to be able to move on. Your son would like you to. And he will be remembered for ever. Use your anger in the gym.
Thank you❤
We lost our son over six years ago he would be thirty here in October. I sit on my patio and just stare. I stayed strong for my wife all this time and made sure she was alright but i never really grieved because I had to be strong for her and our daughter I really don't know how to feel anymore. It doesn't get easier and wish all this pain would go away but I know it won't.
I'm so sorry for your loss, but I am right here with you. I lost my son yesterday to a drug overdose and I am completely numb.
My sister is suffering and there is nothing in world I can think to do to help! But I’m gonna send her this bc I want her to know he will always be a part of her he will always be important to her and we will help her keep his life and name on no matter what! My words can fail but I love her and I want her to know I’m here we are here for her
Losing a child is something that you can never fully get over. I do agree with you on what actions a person should take to move forward with their lives. Yet another great video Dr. Shefali. 🙏
I knew of a powerful man that help me bring my son back and if you need him in anyway contact him on WhatsApp +2348166743471 or email: drpaul141@gmail.com
@@williamblessing5117 - A person looses a child and you seek the chance to peddle bull shit. Go fuck yourself William...
I'm a first time mom and I lost my daughter last July 15. I was traumatized I don't know what to do, I wish she was still here by my side and now I'm all alone. How am I supposed to live without her? She is my worl my happiness 😢 I miss you baby and I love you so much. I hope you are happy in heaven rest in peace my love👼👶💛💔
I would not wish this on any human being. My heart breaks for any family that loss their precious baby...
My life has never been the same . It's been 26 years and it seems like it was yesterday. I miss them very much .
I lost my oldest child & only son who was 18 just over a year ago hit by a susp license dui driver. I'll never understand why this is usually the case. In my mind I know I couldn't do anything but my heart tells me that I failed him somehow. I couldn't protect him, my shining light in this dark world just extinguished & stolen from me. This has to be what a rape victim feels like, the violation of ripping away everything good inside me that I'll never get back. I wish I could say it gets better, but it deft don't. Your stuck, remembering the person you used to be wishing anything to just go back to that for one brief moment so the pain will subside. I pray somehow my mindset changes & I envy the people who seem to have it "figured out" somehow even though I know there's no real "figuring it out". Maybe one day, I just keep telling myself that. Just hold on for one more day. He was my best friend, all I wanted was him to have anything & everything he wanted. So many times I happily went without food so he could have things he needed. Many people don't understand this type of bond or love. Love is not words, it's actions. Sacrifice. He never disappointed me once.
Lost my child virat 12.05.2021 my child is very cute boy but heart problem so painfully death😢😢😢😢
I understand you so well. I too felt Mirabelle was taken away from me and I couldn’t save her. It’s HORRIBLE. I get flashbacks really randomly, I can go from “normal” to a flood of tears in a second.
I'm sorry. I recently just lost my dear Son. He was only 47. He was my dearest friend too. He always looked out for me. We looked out for each other. I miss him unbearably and I have lost my joy in life. Please pray for me. Thank you. ❤
I am praying for you. There's no pain like this. I'm so sorry. I understand. 😪
I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
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I just lost my 3 year old baby girl yesterday, her name is Arabella. I miss and love her so much
sending all good vibes to you mama 🥺 we will be okay
I'm very sorry for your loss
Sweetheart I just saw this . And didn't even know you saw this video I was going to send it to you. Mommy loves you sweetheart 💗
I lost my 3 year old son 9 years ago. Prayers.
@@user-dg9ls1xt4h I'm sorry for your loss
gosh...thank you for this. Having walked this walk, and now sharing our story, I know the power of community and doing this together. thank you
I’m watching this video to find some answers like all of you guys did, I just lost my son 5 days ago suddenly, the pain was so big that only you guys know, imagine this, I am also a funeral director and I have to do my son service in a few days and take him to the cemetery myself if beyond pain… but I do have hope, I know my son is in heaven now as my Angel, I know he is with me all the time even though I don’t see him. The support of my family and friends is very important and I am determined to transform this love and bring my love to others… and i know we will see again!
Keep up!!!
God bless you! I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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My son, his only a month old. We got to take him off life support tomorrow 😭. I will always love my son unconditionally, Steffan G Ozenna JR.
He is with Jesus safe and sound. God bless you! I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
Today would've been my son's 2nd birthday. He passed from SIDS... I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TOBIAS😭
Tobias Presley Leon
4/16/19 - 6/2/19
💔
Oh my god why SIDS happens? I was so sacred of this
It's easier said than done, I'm not ready to transform, Im not ready to let go, I need to grieve and let things happen naturally with time. We all grieve in our own way. It may take years but it's my right to feel the loss of my child and deal with with it in my own way.
The world owes nothing.
God loves you more than you can possibly know. I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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We have been through the hardest thing that can happen to future parents. Full of joy and pleasure we have been looking forward to the birth of our daughter for the last 9 months. We played, laughed and talked with her. We went swimming, massaged, touched and hugged her. We were ready for her and she for the world. The delivery had started nicely on the due date. Unfortunately, you were no longer there, you were so close. We miss you so much and will never forget the last 9 months. You will forever be our daughter. Your mom and dad love you dearly.
I agree. Well meaning, but seriously, she has no clue how grief work when you loose your child of any age.
Thank you for your advice and important words, just lost my son yesterday this helps, God Bless you Dr. Shefali.
This is beautiful. She expressed this truth so well. She explained how I felt after losing a loved one. ❤
I could never imagine the pain. I’m 19 and had to take care of a 6 year old for about 3 months. The way she felt like a part of me after just a week or so made me realize how “children” become such a source of Joy and Happiness for any parent. When she went back to her family and I had to say goodbye it felt like I was losing a part of myself and I honestly found it so difficult to let go. I’m so deeply apologetic to any parents who’ve lost a child to an illness or accident of some sorts cause the amount of pain I felt was probably a fraction of what you hero’s have to deal with each and everyday.
I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I appreciate all words of help. For me grief is a sickness I’ll never be able to control no matter what. There may be a day I actually enjoyed something good. Then out of nowhere it’s like being attacked.
I’d like to say in that moment for me I go outside with a glas of water. It doesn’t matter what time of day it is or the weather. That’s what i do to distract. Either it works or the wave of grief emotionally drained me and I can sleep. I lost my adult son. June 2020 I made a tribute video for my son to try and get attention to grief of an adult child a good thread ppl helping each other. That didn’t happen. I feel it’s to hard for ppl. Maybe just makes their pain worse. In counseling I was desperate for help after a few sessions I dreaded. Cause the pain would be full blown. But I kept going for my husband. And maybe it did help. I just don’t know. Hugs to all moms and dads here searching for relief ❤️
Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of grief.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
May peace find us all.
@@marsperre we so need it. 💔
My oldest son had fatal heart attack 10/11/22, only 42 and he went to cardiologist regularly cus he had a heart murmur, 3 months ago - your fine. They just had a surprise baby 1 year old and 3 older children. Fuck the doctors, fuck God, what kind of cruel game is this?
@the shakie
Thank you for sharing. You spoke words of despair on behalf of how I feel. 3 years ago today, December 18th 2019, I lost my Beautiful son Erek to a horrific accident....MY 💔 shattered heart is numb and it's difficult to find the words to express my gut wrenching Pain. My soul is so lost. I miss you my sweet Erek. Love Momma 💙💜💔
It's almost 6 months I lost both of my boys in a car accident. They were 24' and 18. I only have my daughter left. She 26. I feel lost. The only thing is my son the 24 ur old left me his 2 Lil girls. It's so hard. Sometimes it's unbarable
I feel ur pain lost my daughter 6 weeks ago il light a candel for you hope u feel the energy God bless u 🥰
I'm so sorry for your loss I lost my son he was 30, Oct 2021 to pulmonary embolism. My heart is broken and pain unbearable. 💔
I am so so sorry for your losses
God bless you! I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
@@tommymangan2675 I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I lost my princess on 19oct2021 she was 7 years old its worst experience I pray to God nobody can face this I don’t know how can I imagine my life with her i miss her every single minute its so hurts why god take the life of such a small children I don’t know how life is possible
i don't even have a child yet i feel so heartbroken. sending prayers to parents who lost their kids.
I gave birth to a very beautiful girl on the 28 of July and she passed away on the 30th of July, I have cried all I can day and night and I wish I could remove the memories of my pregnancy and the 3 days we were together out of my head but I couldn't and the pain and sadness is just overwhelming,
i am experiencing grief over a living child.... i miss her so much...
may God comfort my cousin Sabina in her moment of grief for the loss of her child rest in paradise Akeem 👍🏾🙏🏽💖
God bless us all.I lost my son my best friend my shadow he was 24 yrs 0ld.My hole life change 8-1-21 the worst day of my life was on my way it was such a nice Sunday afternoon never in all my life I thought I would be laying my Jr.to rest and I seen the accident it plays over and over in my head every second of every day and the feeling of going down a roller coster sucks so bad I was told it never go away.Am still hurting and missing him more and more he was so humble. Trying to stay strong please pray for me.God bless
I created a UA-cam channel to be of service after the tragic sudden loss of my son Grant he died from pneumonia. He was 5 months and 6 days old and died on Christmas 2018. I’m so grateful for this video and all of your comments. It really helped me tonight. The pain doesn’t fade but you just learn to cope with it through transforming grief into service and purpose. In Love & Light 👼👼👼👼👼💙💙💙💙💙
I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
Thanks Dr. Shefali, i am doing this right now..i've lost my 4 year old and now I'm creating UA-cam video content to help those who are grieving..it's so hard but it helps me so much with my grief and healing! this video is just a confirmation of the things I've talked about as well.
I knew of a powerful man that help me bring my son back and if you need him in anyway contact him on WhatsApp +2348166743471 or email: drpaul141@gmail.com
@@williamblessing5117 serisouly he died how anyone can bring back fake
I just lost my 4 year old 💔😭 how do you cope? How do you go on?
@@IntentionallyCreated I'm very sorry to hear that...its been 4 years now for me and March is one of the hardest month as it suppose to be her 8th birthday. But here is what I can say to you. Hang in there. It will be very very hard and at this time it is best to surround yourself with people you love and care for you the most. The fact that you are searching for answer on how to cope is already a great start. For me I started a youtube channel to share my grief and that helps but no longer doing that as sometimes it feels like a chore but before I did enjoy and found comfort in doing so. As you can see grief changes and it you will learn how to deal and cope with it. Faith in God was my foundation. Holding on to Christ, the only one that can give true peace is where I found my comfort and strength to continue to live for my wife and 2 other kids. I'm here if you need to chat, talk or whatever. Take it one day at a time, or even one second at a time.
I lost my 4year old daughter.. and the pain is draining me.. I can’t imagine how my life without her
This is such a load of crap. Grief and pain that takes over when your child dies is not something anyone can just snap out of. Especially when you're traumatized and have no support.
At least we have each other in the comments :(
@@TheKyramSingleton I'm so sorry you know this pain as well. 💔
How...I lost my daughter on her birthday last month,I try to be strong for everyone...but my wife is sooo depressed it brings me back down,its 3:45 am ,I don't sleep anymore,just pass out,I wish it would have been me and not her...I try to keep myself busy,I don't know what to do anymore,I feel so self destructive,Mimi was 11 and i love her always,take care everyone and never take your loved ones for granted...
I lost my son in August 2021, I feel like I abandoned him because he passed, I feel like I can't continue living without him. I'm lost and cry all the time, I cant even be strong for my daughter. How do you move on? I love him but I'm empty without him we've been together for half of my life.
My heart is with you-----You did not abandon him, you may be suffering survivors guilt-------I lost my son and only by the Grace of God did I make it------after 3-4 months I tried to keep busy and I did have grandchildren to help me get thru ----I still miss him today (21 Years) later but I do Thank God for loaning him to me for those precious years------I pray that that you may look for a grief group or someone to really help you-------I took it moment by moment then day by day-----I love you in Christ
@@greeneyelady56 Thank you for sharing this with me. It felt like time was standing still. I realize you never fully stop grieving, and I'm taking it one day at a time. Thanks again for your kind words
I lost my beautiful 20 year old daughter two weeks ago to an asthma attack and I’m sooooo lost I feel so lost!
Me too, Diana. I am Christina. My story is below.
I don't know how to handle this. My life is over. Everyone says, "Be strong"...but they aren't going through this. She died 2 days after my 46th birthday.
I hope I die young.
Dr Shefali
Thanks so much for doing this Video❤
My 20 year old Son Transitioned in 2014 & what you Shared is so true 🙏
The loss is tremendous & So is my Passion to help others ❤🙏
Bless!
I knew of a powerful man that help me bring my son back and if you need him in anyway contact him on WhatsApp +2348166743471 or email: drpaul141@gmail.com
My 20 yr old died a year ago.... I am still heartbroken
@@ebonyburnette4211 I'm so very sorry for your loss💜🙏 Its Heartbreaking
@@ebonyburnette4211 I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I don't know what to do without my kristi.i want to hug her so much. I wish I could bring her back
Lost my son over 2 years ago he was 2 love you dylan
Lost my Son who was 2years just this past Monday. No illnes or anything but he just left. Don't know how to be strong
I loss my grand daughter on 3-6-2021 she was only 3 years old ... I feel so alone
I lost my baby yesterday and i never felt what would be lost until now. My heart is broken and i need lot help to process it. I pray that my son is in a better place now. Lot of love for those who lost their child…🕊❤️
My Son passed away a year ago this March which none of us knew it was going to happen it is something that has almost destroyed me at times I'm feeling better but I still feel quite destroyed I miss him and I'll always miss him I just I hurt inside and it's hard to deal with but I'm trying to for the sake of my other loved ones and plus I can't leave here till God wants me and I don't want to leave my other one loved ones too soon
lost my son at 24 almost two years ago n i cannot stop the pain
They at least have each other. I lost my husband, mother, father and both brothers. I have no family to help me through this pain
Sending lots of love ❣️
Take care ❣️
I loss my son last year on April 13th when I say it's a hard pill to swallow its been really hard for me.but I think God ever day I wake up that I can thank him.....Amen .
Easier said than done. I lost my Leim four + years ago. It hurts to be alive. He is all my meaning.
I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
My 39 day old son was beaten to death by my ex-wife and after several susical attempt's I now am trapped on earth for ever, never being able to get rid of the mortal sin of failing my son
I lost my daughter May 10th 2020 the day she was born with
hydrops . I haven’t gotten over her passing and never will I love her beyond words. I know I try not to blame myself but I know God is holding her in his arms now . (Mehlani Miyoko) . I’m blessed to have her little sister on the way and I’m praying for a healthy rest of the pregnancy and baby girl . To all of you who has lost yours , I understand how broken you are and your not alone even though you may feel alone . It feels like no one understands your pain and that’s what’s most painful. I get it but the strongest goes through the worst . Even though your baby is not here physically he/she is still here in spirit and still understands you are mommy and daddy and will love you forever . God bless you all even though it feels dry better days will come you deserve it 💜
I lost my daughter at 36days on July 5,2020 i feel u.
This pain is unbearable ,life will never be the same from the loss of my Son on the 3/7/2020 he was 25 .
I'am still not coping I miss him more than words can describe.
This is why i wouldnt go to therapy, experts do not qualify, they will never know the pain, heartache and sorrow ever full stop
My condolences to everyone on this thread. My heart aches for you as I read each comment. We all share a common bond and this is the unbearable pain of losing a child. My 27 year old son left this world recently through suicide and I have days that feel so heavy. I understand what it feels like to experience pain that no medicine can heal and that no words can provide comfort for. I can honestly say that the only that has been getting me through is God's strength. I know that my baby is no longer in pain and I remember the beautiful times I shared with him. I have reconnected with the love with him as opposed to only loss. It's hard but I'm determined to keep running this race because my granddaughter needs me. I have started a non profit in his name and hope to help other veterans like my son. God can give you purpose in your pain. I love you all. May God continue to be with us.
My love to all of you here.....May we all find peace and comfort .....
I got pregnant for 38 weeks. I went for my 38 weeks check up and I was hospitalized because of my high blood pressure and doctor wanted to induce my baby. The process was done. I was in a hospital for 3 days for inducing. I gave birth to my baby boy. He did not cry when he came out. He lived for about 8 to 9 hours. I did not have a chance to see my baby’s face after giving birth to him since he was so sick that the doctor had to take him away to the NICU. At the time I came to see him, he was on life support and was about to die. When I held him, his temperature dropped. He got colder and colder. Doctor couldn’t save him since he was so sick. My new born baby passed away after that. It just happens less than a month ago. I am still sad about it. The pain is so much.
I feel u dear,the exact thing happened to me, can't sleep and asking myself alot of questions
The same thing happened to my 3 weeks daughter but I'm still in pain ,blaming myself
last night ,my precious son lost his battle to sickle cell disease at age 28 ,,,this was 29 days after losing his brother (age 29) who was killed in freak accident his job , i am consumed with grief bewilderment, anger, deep down i feel like God has cursed me or punishing me. my pastor and friends debunk this theory, but I can't shake this overwhelming sense of abandonment from God . I try to hold to be strong for my 2 daughters i try to rationalize tat it was God will and that there is a reason for losing my 2 sons within a month ,,,i know that with time, prayer and maybe some grief counseling i can feel like living again. but right now i secretly long to sleep and stay there, but i must live and be there for my remaining children.
I never lost a child but sorry to who all lost a child and comfort on a bereaved mother’s day
you'll never understand my pain
Did you lose a child? Because if you did you would know it doesn’t work that way. It sounds nice in theory though..
@Laura B. Completely agree. Im very sorry for your lost. ❤️
I only read the comments on the videos , I get some comfort knowing I’m not the only one going through this hell, and the stories I’ve read in the comments, will stay with me they always make me cry, I’m so sorry for your pain and loss, and your right everyone’s grief is different, but very painful all the same.
@Laura B. I completely agree with you! My sincere condolences to you. We list my first granddaughter in 2017 to murder. There is nothing that will ever take away that pain. I talk with my daughter daily and it's still like yesterday that she passed. Telling others how to grieve is horrible especially if you have not been in their shoes. My granddaughter was put on life support Dec 10 ,2017 and passed from a brain bleed from trauma injuries on Dec 13, 2017. It is the worst pain and feeling that even a grandmother can't fully feel mother's pain but I embrace her daily with love and prayers. It hurts daily . This lady needs to delete this as it's truly not how loss works and it's completely disrespectful to those who have gone through these losses. My Prayers and heart go out to you. 😥💔❤️
I stand in total agreement with you. People think they can imagine child loss. Sadly you cannot. You have to go through it to understand it and this woman doesn't "get it". A waste of time watching it. Such nonsense.
I think this was the best advice I've gotten since I lost my 32 yr son 6 months ago. Im struggling to accept he no longer exist that's why I'm watching videos like this. He loves to help others and contribute to community and society, and I do believe thru doing that giving and contributing to life it will, help me find a purpose and a way to honor my son and have a meaningful life after this awful loss
I lost my baby Sunshine last Aug 28,2022. 4 days after her birth. No one in the hospital detected that my baby have congenital disease before they discharge us. And it's too late to treat my baby because of complications. there are some people trying to console me not knowing their words add pain in my heart.
I feel empty every minute, every day. all her sufferings always flashback to my mind as if I'm watching a movie. tears can't hold back. I'm still struggling and grieving..
My strength to keep moving is my husband and my family.. Right now, I am not still able to accept what happened... I love you so much Sunshine ❤️
My daughter has lost three kids in a row 2019,2021 and on 27 April this month I have no words to console her broken to the core just praying that God will strengthen her and the whole family since everyone is grieving
Your daughter deserved it
We lost our daughter last week. She was 34. We walk around numb. Dream like state. Not understanding why. I Dad feel anger, guilt, everything. The only thing that makes total sense to me at least is knowing our daughter is going to be taken care of. We love you Meagan.
I lost my only daughter due to a asma attack. Her name was Amanda. She past away on March 28 2021. I miss her so much I still cry everyday and go sit with her everyday of the week. The sorrow and crying never goes away since day one. My life isn't the same anymore. I miss you baby wish it was me not you.
I lost my son to asthma on 12 November 2022…. Matthew. My only child. He had just turned 27. He was to marry the love of his life (9 years together) in January and was to embark on his new career that he worked so so hard for. He was my best friend. Our beautiful man-child. I am shattered. I ache. I cry… 💔
I feel so sorry for all parents that lost their child at baby stage. I read about a couple in Norway who lost their young boy after 9 days. Mother asked "is it the cream i put on my sun that killed him" to the police. And it wasnt. Mindset of this couple is "what did i do wrong so my baby is dead now":. Its hartbreaking.
12 years ago this past July I lost my 17 month old beautiful baby girl Jade Jessa-Marie to SUDS (Sudden unexplained death of a child) ever since I have never fully grieved with the loss of her there was so much left undone i was angry that this happened to me and my family, I miss her more than anything but I know one day we will meet again and that she is watching over me and her little brothers Zyler(10) and Chance(6)♥️ I see her mannerisms in them often and it gives me hope that one day I will get the chance to hold her and be her Mama❤
I lost my oldest daughter 27 years ago and the pain is never fade away. I miss my daughter so dearly that I my soul has gone. As im still here thinking about my daughter and tears rolling down my eyes my hearts aches each and every day. Every year on her birthday I cry so hard that I don't want live anymore I want to be with my daughter
my 42 year old son died on 10/3/22 he overdosed on 8/29/22 and I think that if rockland state psychiatric hospital had kept him he would still be alive, he overdosed the day they discharged him.
My baby girl, 18, was in a car accident. She had been drinking, but was far from being an addict. She did something stupid and would never have done it again.
She had two broken ribs and a small puncture in her lung. The doctor discharged her the day after she was admitted and would not prescribe pain medication. This was on a Friday.
He treated her like a piece of shit.
She wanted to go to her rental where her bed was and had her boyfriend with her. She talked to our family Saturday, said she was hurting, but she said she was okay.
Later that evening, she began hurting. She didn't call us, because she knew we would take her back and in her mind, since the hospital hadn't done anything for her, it was pointless.
She never did pills or any other drugs. She was very naive and overly trusting.
Her boyfriend said that her "friend" claimed to have percocets she'd gotten from her mother.
My daughter bought them. They were Fentanyl.
She died 10/23/22.
She was an incredible little girl. She had the light of the world in her. She didn't deserve this. She had made 2 bad decisions that ended up costing her life.
I'm so devastated that I want to die. If I didn't have her brother, I would certainly kill myself.
I don't know how I'm going to make it without her. I'm strong, but not this strong. God didn't will this.
That doctor killed my daughter. He neglected to care for her.
The attorney said that the lung puncture warranted admission at least until the hole closed. He also said that since she was admitted, he was obligated to treat her pain, but neglected to do so.
I am going after him.
The FBI is treating the case as a first degree homicide.
My 28 y/o son died 2 weeks ago... I am beyond devastated. The pain is encompassing and my world is dark and cold. How will I ever go on 😭
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I'm so sorry, I too lost my Beautiful 28 yr old son . Today marks 3 years & Nothing changes the devastating soul Crushing feeling. I miss my Erek so desperately.... 😭😭💔💜
I m from india i have lost my baby who was a goddess for me.but i am unable to change my sorrow as my strength.i pray to the nature that please take us again to your heart i am unable to live without my Duna.she has left only one option for us and that is suicide.miss you like insane DUNA
My baby girl, 18, was in a car accident. She had been drinking, but was far from being an addict. She did something stupid and would never have done it again.
She had two broken ribs and a small puncture in her lung. The doctor discharged her the day after she was admitted and would not prescribe pain medication. This was on a Friday.
He treated her like a piece of shit.
She wanted to go to her rental where her bed was and had her boyfriend with her. She talked to our family Saturday, said she was hurting, but she said she was okay.
Later that evening, she began hurting. She didn't call us, because she knew we would take her back and in her mind, since the hospital hadn't done anything for her, it was pointless.
She never did pills or any other drugs. She was very naive and overly trusting.
Her boyfriend said that her "friend" claimed to have percocets she'd gotten from her mother.
My daughter bought them. They were Fentanyl.
She died 10/23/22.
She was an incredible little girl. She had the light of the world in her. She didn't deserve this. She had made 2 bad decisions that ended up costing her life.
I'm so devastated that I want to die. If I didn't have her brother, I would certainly kill myself.
I don't know how I'm going to make it without her. I'm strong, but not this strong. God didn't will this.
That doctor killed my daughter. He neglected to care for her.
The attorney said that the lung puncture warranted admission at least until the hole closed. He also said that since she was admitted, he was obligated to treat her pain, but neglected to do so.
I am going after him.
The FBI is treating the case as a first degree homicide.
I feel like dying, too.
I lost my 9month old daughter 5-14-22 and I can't seem to stop crying. This is most emptiness and sadness I've ever experienced. My 4 yr old keeps asking me where she is and why I'm crying but everytime I mention her name or see her stuff I'm sitting in tears again. I don't see myself moving past this pain. It feels like I'm dying from the time I wake up till the time I fall asleep and I don't want to be around anyone but taking all this pain for myself is suffocating me.
God loves you! Your baby is safe with Jesus and would love to see you again someday. I love sharing my best friend's story to offer true hope to those suffering through grief and sorrow. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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I feel this... I lost my son.. 2 days shy of turning 7 months old....he spent 136 of those days in the hospital...I am dead inside...but we must move on....lmk if I can help in some small way? We both need to heal. Peace be with you.
Keara....my heart aches for you...keep your head up.
I lost my son on 7 th June 22. He died in his sleep. He was perfectly fine in the night when he retired for bed. He did not wake up in the morning. It was me who discovered that he passed away in his sleep. I cannot one to term with this. I feel its a dream and he will appear. I have to remind myself that he is no more and now I will have to live my life without him.
My wife and I lost our 4 month old child 2 months ago. She was so beautiful and full of energy. We woke up in the morning, she was not breathing. She died in the middle of the night of SIDs. She was my baby girl. She was so special to all the family both sides. We are lost, feels insane most of the time. My wife not doing well at all. I cry all night watching over her. Our world has been destroyed. Crying over your lost son.
I lost my daughter own 1/17/21 and I don’t think I’m going to make it through this every pore of my body my soul my heart is shattered she was 24 years old had a two year old daughter and was 6 weeks pregnant and she died in my arms I saw it can’t get it out my head and I still don’t no what happened god please help me
Sometimes it takes time to accept the loss. Death is over all of us daily.
No one has a guaranteed on life. God does give strength if you ask.
Your daughter, if she could talk to you, would ask you to be strong and to accept her death. Also she would ask you to take care of her baby . She needs you a lot.
Go day by day . You can do it. She lives in your mind and heart. If you had died instead of her, you would want her to be at peace. It's not easy but try.
Life is unpredictable.
@@anacampos5220 thank you and my mind no’s this but my heart will not listen but I am trying iv started counseling thank you
@@lareetalunsford7715 how are you feeling ?
It took me about 5 years where it didn't consume me. It takes a long time to accept. My little girl was lost in 2007 and It still hurts today. You never get over it, you just learn to live without.
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