Extroverts Are Rewarded, Introverts Are Punished
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Good vid and spot on! Just because Im introverted doesnt mean I'm shy - I just dont wanna talk to yall 😂 especially if the conversation is stupid
This. Also, it doesn't mean the discussion must be super deep either. If the vibe or subject is a bit off, I rather not collaborate.
One thing I've learned as an introvert is that you can pump your state to appear/behave like an extrovert for short periods of time. But your baseline will always be on the introverted side. If I get "warmed up" ie. start intentionally chatting/talking to everybody without filters, in a short time I can cold approach just about anyone with zero hesitation and continue the discussion for about as long as I want to. But for example if you tell me to hop on a zoom call when I've just woken up in the morning, I say hell no, I don't want to talk to anyone during the first 2-3 waking hours at least haha.
One other perk of being a introvert is that you rarely NEED company. But it's always ok if it's available.
this is so relatable for no fucking reason 😂
Exactly, and then people asking "why are you so mad" "why don't you talk" I don't want too! 😂
Yeah I’m really introverted too and I find most conversations to be dull and pointless so I avoid or try to exit convos really quickly.
@@NaWais true I find I rarely need or want company. That said, there’s a drawback to this as I’ve lost friends over the years just due to the fact that I stopped reaching out to them or accepting their invitations. I find with introversion there really is a “point of no return” where relationships become almost impossible to maintain
Crazy I’m an INTJ as well - your whole system to approaching dating makes so much sense now 😂
Trust me a confident introvert thrives at life especially with them being mysterious that draws people to them an they always leave people wanting more extroverts are coming of pretentious an loud in a world getting louder
Keep thinking like that and watch it take you nowhere, i’m sorry not sorry but this thought process is such a black and white approach to life that’s hindering and enabling people who suck at socializing.. you can be quite and mysterious if you want too but that doesn’t guarantee any special interaction or cool points from who knows who. Please don’t simply wish upon a star and think because your quite your gonna get more girls or opportunities will land on your feet, don’t listen to everything you read or hear on the internet. Nobody is the same and that doesn’t apply to every person. Regardless of the circumstances and changes outside
@@theeternalnightmare2630 Did not even finish what you just wrote you've never met a confident introvert have you ,they will run rings around you buddy, obviously a confident introvert has mastered socializing all y'all do is yap an yap into more debt after networking an get addicted to social scenes a extrovert is much more likely to end up in debt
@@theeternalnightmare2630I’ll say as a quiet average looking guy I’ve always gotten attention from seeming “mysterious” and of course it’s not an intentional thing. Im actually very open and talkative when spoken to but like Austin said I won’t typically speak unless spoken to. So I’d say there’s definitely some positives to the confident introvert in that regard
Guys life is EXTREMELY COMPLICATED. Remember it's everything but also nothing lmao
@@theeternalnightmare2630can definitely happen ive seen that happen as it happened to me..
"introverted Does not necessarily Mean You are shy" this Is absolutely true and Many people confuse them
True
Facts. You can be introverted and have great social skills. You just prefer your own company and peace and quiet over being with others 24/7.
@@Kumari_44best definition
@@Kumari_44best definition
@@Kumari_44 yep. I have better social skills than most extroverts yet I very rarely want to socialize. I find 90% of conversations are small talk and I got no time for that
I though I was alone, but you described my situation as an introvert just like it is lol
Lol
Introvert here, this was spot on. I'm looking foward to this type of content more Austin! 🔥
This is literally me at work rn people think I’m stuck up because I don’t talk
Me too- the worst is i usually select people and i speak extroverted with those and it dont help connecting with others who see me stuck up.
@@fseiba6718 yes exactly and if you live in the south that’s like the greatest sin ever
This was surprisingly thoughtful and insightful. Not to be insulting but I wasn't expecting much based on the title. Good stuff, and I'm looking forward to the pivot.
Yeah the title tends to make people form opinions on things before even reading or watching them
To the people we needed this deeply... Thank you austin
We loyal fans right here. Most importantly
I feel like we need a mix of both to thrive. I'm also introverted, but I taught myself how to speak to people, network, and communicate. Once I'm comfortable with someone, I just be myself, more silent. This is something I learned living in a Caribbean country where everyone is so lively; if you don't speak up or chase after what you want, someone else will.
So, I believe we can take the positive traits from extroverted people and learn from them while also staying true to ourselves. Now, I have close friends as well as acquaintances for work and other endeavors. I'd say the most draining part is being invited to a lot of events and having to decline 😂because you're not about that life and your friends are. But when they like you enough, they truly don't care they find a way to meet with you.
Learn the arts of both it's a good thing people!
The video was very insightful especially being an introvert myself. looking forward to the next
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Introvert is one of those words I think a lot of people overuse as an excuse these days. A lot of people are just lazy or scared and use “introvert” as an excuse to not go out and be active or network. They might say I’m quiet but I honestly just don’t talk much if I don’t have anything to say but if there’s a need for me to talk then I do. Think of how ridiculous that sounds to be scared to talk lol. Not scared of fire, not scared of snakes but scared of having a conversation. That sounds ridiculous when you say it like that. Close mouths don’t get fed and you’d be surprised how many good things happen to you and for you when you active go after it and also let other people know what you want.
The English language is screwed bruh 😂 people overuse almost every word without any meaning
In certain situations talking can cause you more harm then a snake lol
@@Saber23 But still you need to talk to people when you want something from them because people won't come to you and talk
definitely deep talks w fitness/lifestyle in the background will do well 💯
Yo man, Ive been watching your content for a while (hell man the only reason I can handstand is because of you in watching one of your earlier videos) and I absolutely love this video concept of having this discussion while showing your workout routine.
Great topic! I did have a friend a while back tell me that a person becomes the narrative they create for themselves in their thoughts or maybe you're right, we all come down to being extroverted or introverted in the end. Either way good stuff!
This is the best advice I've ever been given through out my life as an introvert TBH thank you dude you motivate me ❤
I was an extrovert up until 5th grade when I went from a urban city school filled with kids of all races to then my parents moving to a suburb where I was literally one of the only black kids and everyone including all the teachers were white at the school…i never felt racism or feeling like I didn’t belong until I switched schools, I was literally the black sheep, I still made a lot of friends but i definitely was not extroverted as I was before. I was a class clown before I switched but after I moved schools I barley talked because I felt like I was going to be judge or looked at as weird due to the complete polar opposite of the culture i came from. thank god that from 9th-12th grade my parents moved back to a city and I went back to the extremely culturally mixed schools in the city where I actually felt welcome and not like black sheep my extrovert side came out again but I still felt like a introvert now as a 23 yr old. your environment and the people around you can 100% shape your personality. had I not switched schools I feel like I never would have became an introvert and would be so much more extroverted now.
I absolutely love this type of video, hearing your perspective on things while watching you workout, you truly are an inspiration to me and a major factor in wanting to improve my life
True just stay away from the redpill BS it’s nothing but male feminism
8:00 the girl running in the background lol🤣
😂 she like a titan from Attack on titans
lmfaooooo
@@AlphaSpeedster 😀🤣🤣
She must have got infected by a zombie
I think she may have a disability..
you're a good guy austin I've been following you for a very long time now brother, I learned frestyle calistenic thanks to your channel, glad to see that your past projects have become a reality, it's Inspiring
What if you’re an ambiovert? Selective at who you’re extroverted with because you don’t want people wanting to know everything about your personal life.
Same here but not as much about personal life but more like who do I select to drain my social battery on.
Then you win!
This is nothing but facts coming from a guy who’s been an introvert his whole life I don’t speak much to ppl unless it’s a meaningful, valuable conversation and I always would get called out for being quiet but thing is as an introvert life is not so bad when u use it to your advantage and focus on the pros of an introvert and don’t pay attention to the cons even tho you’re aware of it 💯🗣️
Kind of in a situation where i am ostracized so i cant really work on my introversion. Some form of black mail is being used against me and anywhere i go in my town it gets weird. I just have an attitude of not caring, or deliberately being an asshole. I have to be alone and it pretty much is what it is. Fuck em
This vid was a breath of fresh air
I realised this long time ago ,and I'm glad I did that time than now and regretting.
I used to cope of the positive things introverts ,but reality was something else most introverts including me were punching bags and laughing stock for others and even introverted women go for extroverted sports guys that's when I ran out of copes and hated my current self and wanted to be better .
What I did was basic grooming and used to observe and imitate the popular guys who were good with words and funny ,whenever they were not in the room i wpuld practice their way with less popular guys and it really helped me alot raised my confidence and sef esteem.
I truly believe you can change yourself to become more of an introvert or extrovert. I used to be very quiet and not talk with anyone that I didn't have to talk to. Like, I would go on with my day hoping no one would talk to me. I only spoke to people very close to me and hated bigger and social gatherings. When I got older I just felt like I had to make a change, I wanted to become a more outgoing person, talk to more strangers, laugh and just live my life fully. And that's exactly what I did, I just started talking to random people I met in my daily life, people I previously would never have said a single word to. I realized it was actually a nice feeling, I get to know a new person, maybe get them to laugh about something and also get to work on my social skills. Nowadays I try to talk with literally anyone, just striking up a conversation with a person you meet somewhere will most of the time make people happy and you will also be perceived as more likable.
I have had many people tell me they like how "extroverted" (most people where I live are not very extroverted) I am which surprised in the beginning as I always saw myself as an introvert. Nowadays I truly like to meet and talk to new people, and I think most people can also achieve this if it's a goal of yours. That said, I still have no issues at all being by myself and don't need people around me to feel good, in fact I really enjoy spending time by myself.
I’m an introvert myself. Quality information I got from this video
One thing about being an introvert that’s not discussed is that attractive introverts tend to get attention. People don’t ask every quiet person why they are quiet or if they are ok.
What the hell are you on about? 😂 if someone is seen as attractive they’ll get attention regardless
I wanna be Extrovert but, I can’t, thank you for the advices. « Don’t try to be an extrovert »
Id actually love more content like this
@@jon4254 same 🙂↕️👍
Austin's content is always on point 💯🔥..
Millionaires are usually extroverted.
Billionaires are usually introverted.
💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🙏🔥💯🔥
You’re amazing bro proud of your growth
I’m an extrovert and happen to be handsome. My Aura is always felt because i make myself known when i walk to and fro. I have correct posture when gallivanting about. Because of my charisma and confidence many doors have opened for me that wouldn’t have been possible if i was socially inept. I’m not here to tout my horn but as someone whos been snaked, talked down on by people who came back around when i started to flourish and not care makes me always have the last laugh and play my hand how i wish. Get out your head fellas and be authentically you. You will receive things from people, the universe that you’d never expect or anticipate. I understand that you can be unnerved at times but you will cripple yourself and be your own worst enemy if you don’t strive to make the necessary changes YOU know you can and should make. Thats all i got. C'est la vie ladies and gents. You only have one life. Please do not squander another day, week, month. Extinguishing the flame residing inside of you.
Nobody can and will do the homework for you. Nobody will hand hold you or spoon feed you the answers. Get out there and be a flippin man & stand on big bidness. You didn’t come into this world to be a loser or a feeble minded individual. Take incremental steps to brighten your future so you don’t have to settle with a dull, bleak and bitter reality later on when you miss these fleeting moments of time you can never recover.
Wholesome Austin is back!
I like how you are changing things up.
There's nothing really wrong about being introverted. But you can't complain that your life isn't going anywhere if all you do is not talk to anyone or leave out the house.
Great Video glade I came across this it’s hits home and breaks it down n makes it makes sense
The Weeknd is an introvert and he’s famous singer
This was an awesome video. Very introspective and I related to a lot of what you were saying.
Bro keep making these type of videos man, their awesome
Love this style of content bro,keep it coming!!
Great video Austin, you gotta make more like this
I’m an INTJ too, and I can tell you we can go long stretches without much social interaction, we get energized by understanding systems and developing skills. However, if we take being social as a project, we can tap into our inner architect/engineer and study our way into a social life.
my favorite video you ever uploaded, thank you bro
Im a introvert. I am the type or introvert that like you mentioned, has more going on in my thoughts rather then speaking them out loud. I’m more of a loner type but I do love to spend time with a select group of friends of mine. I love to spend time alone and focus on my goals like fitness, money etc through consistency and discipline
Great Content Austin
No wonder why they keep it to themselves if Ppl still think "invtrovert" means shy
i laughed when he said he is an INTJ because if he took the time to study the mbti he would know he is not an intj. He comes across more as an esfp rather than an intj. The way he speaks and presents his videos lacks any kind of lead Ni for me to remotely think he is an intj.
great video I'm digging dez types of videos, keep it up man💪
You dont come off as an introvert. Jacked and Stacked seems like an introvert but you dont.
I don't care. I was punished when I went outside and punished for staying inside. Why? I got the same results with woman, I was completely invisible. It's all based on genetics. I have two in person classes in college with a giant lecture with 150 people. Woman literally don't even know I exist. If you're short and average looking you won't have many options if any. So when I stay inside all day I literally get the same results lmao. No woman inside or outside. Even when I went out to the club or out with my friends nothing changed. let's be real bruh
You could be jacked intellectual know how to dance
You Can go against the odds
Sadly with more adversity comes with more precision. You have to get even better than your ability to get average results
Try to find hobbies
@@frog6054 lmao step outside please bro. I go to jiu-jitsu and MMA 5 times a week and lift weights, I’m finishing my degree at university, and work. Like what are you on bruh. Most people are out doing stuff, that doesn’t automatically make you physically attractive to woman.
@@thealiminop7571
You ain't finding women if your place is mostly men oriented....
Keep posting bro...Will like to watch such videos❤
great video, one of your best 👍
8:14 the girl on treadmill , is running in a funny way
I happen to be an intj too, would love to see a video about that.
honestly pls do more of these
Thanks for making this. I'm an ambivert so I identify with this
Good piece of content💯
Austin is amazing and handsome 🫶🏼
Next video should go like "The science of discipline" keep up the good work.
Couldn’t agree more with this video
The good thing about this is that social skills can be increased no matter whether you are an introvert or extrovert
I think it's an event that happens at childhood, that makes you become closed off
Austin you need to talk to Michael Sartain and have him introduce you to Owen Cook. He was a big introvert and now probably one of the best extroverts personalities many have come across
I like this style of video too. Big ups
I’d say I’m half introvert and half extrovert
Love the content
I don’t think you would have built this fitness empire if you were really extroverted. Building things requires some degree of introversion
He says hes an introvert…
People have a problem with introversion because they lack the understanding that not everyone hss the same personality type...
Most people correlate introverts and extroverts into the social aspect. However, an introvert and extrovert is actually how one regains their energy back. (Introverts regain energy in solitude where extroverts feed off energy from other people).
In the content of this video, I presume he is talking in the manner of the saying 'Fortune favors the bold'.
Crazy I didn’t think you were an introvert.
Must be an extrovert to become an introvert
YOU DID A LOT IN A DURATION WE PROUD THAT THE HUMAN SPECIES HAD A MALE LIKE YOU
edit: *HAS
not all introverts are sigma - but all sigmas are introvert
Every body wants to be extro I want to be intro but I got to accept how I am 🤷🏿♂️
Fortune favors the bold
i'm extremly extraverted when my status treaten but usaly i'm introverted
Dude what is that spelling? 😂
@@Saber23fr😂😂😂😂
Half Introvert, Half extrovert
In my opinion, an extroverted introvert is the best 😮💨😮💨💯💯
That extrovertedness only lasts 2-3 hours it's tiring
the girl running at 8:00 holy bo legged.. she cute tho
Lmao
Interesting i am a INFP
I am planning a reconversion in software engeeniring and probably product owner as I tend to be introvert but not secluded
I like my space being paid for things I am in control of
Bro said it's genetic no way ☠️☠️☠️
No way he's a INTJ
At that start of the video where you had those metal handles you were using, what are those called?
A lot of shitty people call themselves introverts.
What gym is that? Looks dooope!
Introverted Specimen
you can still choose not to conform to this
You should take the Big 5 OCEAN personality test. Much more accurate. Myers Briggs is more pseudo science.
INTJ as well
austin you’re a nerd fam 😂 you’re an introvert
The cell phone and social media has limited social interactions,
limited social interactions = loss of social skills,
loss of social skills= spending more time alone=
more time alone= research about yourself "why I'm i not social"? ...
Google: your an introvert
Human: oh ok I'm an introvert.
Your not an introvert you have just been programed. Cmon now, think about it. All of sudden everyone is an introvert smh🤦♂️
not true, ppl born extroverts still want to meet ppl despite growing up with phones.
it only makes introverts even worse
@@flyaway6671ok
Ok
@@leosolis5846 nope I've been an introvert even before social media and cell phones and my dad is too. Talking to people is a waste of time most of the time. They don't care about you and just want to tell you their problems.
@TheoOJamaloO1 " talking to people is a waste of time" that's sounds like antisocial social and possible not a big fan of other people. Don't mix the 2 Introvert is about being reserved , not being the party person. But it seems you are choosing not to talk to ppl because you think it's a waste of time.
What's the 2nd channel?
How much do you weigh Austin?
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yo caves are so small
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thsnkd
Do some more informative vids
Pin please