THE SECRET TO GREAT CONVERSATIONS
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- There is this great myth about conversation skills that in order to have great conversation, you need to have great conversation TOPICS.
This is absolutely wrong.
In this video, you'll learn instead what the SECRET is to making great conversation. And, it is NOT a great conversation TOPIC. Here's a hint: It has everything to do with the game of tennis.
The greatest conversationalists, like Craig Ferguson, are masters of knowing how to create great conversations from nothing. They know this one secret that almost nobody else knows. Find out what that is in this video.
Also in this video, you will also find out the one TYPE of conversation that reliably and consistently gets you into a great conversation all the time, every time.
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It's not what you say, it's how you say it.
randytaylor 69 Amen to that!
Half true. You need to first have something to say before how you say it is relevant
I've never seen such verbal gymnastics. You said so much of absolutely nothing. Brilliant👏
Just buy the course and obey.
Got your little PDF there only to read through to the end about 17 frameworks or whatever which aren't even included in it. Thanks bud.
“It’s not how articulate you are, it’s not even necessarily how WELL-SPOKEN you are!”.
The ultimate tautology.
I love the tennis metaphor, Min.
Thanks for sharing your intellectual brilliance on the tube 😎👍
Thank you Tony!
Where’s the next conversation frameworks?
I got nothing from this video
same, he doesn't have a conversation with anyone. Most of youtube is like this. It's an absolute insane amount of narcissists just filming their own face.
After 4 years I found this quality of content
I think your communications skills are immense, so can you help me with improving my love life? Would you have an ideas on how to have a Seductive Conversation? To let a woman know you are attracted to her without offending her? Many men get ‘friend zoned’ as we don’t know how to steer the conversation towards this tricky subject. The setting would be a café or a restaurant based date, or even a club scenario. I consider myself a gentleman, but I struggle to be able to tell her how I feel about her.
@Tony Stark Getting friend zoned is a common problem that a lot of guys have, so you're not the only one. You don't usually want to directly tell her how you feel, so it's all about conveying it indirectly. My course, Conversation Superstar, is a fantastic resource on how to have exciting and yes, even seductive conversations. Let me know if you're interested it and I can hook you up with a discount for the course.
Hi, I'm a female. If she agrees to the date and knows that it is a date there has to be some interest there to begin with I would say. Your best bet is to take a chance. I Don't try to be seductive but straight forward. Tell her some things you like about her life/her personality and at the end mention that you think she is incredibly attractive. And make sure you state your goal. The most attractive thing is a decisive man. What do you want? To get to know her better, A committed relationship, marriage etc...let her know what you are looking for and that you are interested in being more than friends. Ask if she feels the same way. If she does, great. If not, be cool. And have another topic to transition into or just say something like " well thanks for hearing me out, stay as awesome as you are and we'll catch up another time" and make your exit. Being friend zoned is NOT a bad thing. That frees you up for the person that's meant for you. Hope all goes well Blessings 🙏🏾
Great advise thanks! I've been really struggling with this.
sending you good vibes
Hi Min,
I just see 3 books of your's on Kindle. Can you add this one to Kindle too ?
@Kunal Kher I wasn't planning on selling The Conversation Manifesto, but I can create a Kindle version of it for you if you want. Just send me an e-mail (info@artofverbalwar.com) and I'll set you up.
It is all about listening.
Heads up, the link doesn't work. I still got the manifesto by doing a search outside of youtube but wanted to let you know that the link posted here doesn't work.
There seems to be a problem with your link dude. Great content, keep up the good, important work
Hey this is the best video i have ever seen on how to make good conversations! Thanks man
5:28 "listening to others is flat out wrong and incorrect?" Wait what? 😶
I get the idea. But it is a reach to say great topics arent important. A great conversationalist, idc how good they are i dont want to hear some bs about some BS! HENCE CRUMMY TOPIC. Also to say stories, or listening etc are not important is another reach, well just wrong. Cmon. These are part of the greater whole of what a great conversationalist knows how to do, be a player like u said in a tennis match.. a listener is a team player. U need to work on your teaching skills and knowing what ur conveying with your blanket statements!!!
Ok so to do double tennis I have to break down the question and comment it then make a question back
That is a crucial conversation technique, but it's not quite what "doubles tennis" is. Check out The Conversation Manifesto if you want an example -> www.artofverbalwar.com/manifesto
It's being sincer in what you exchange and turn in listening. For sure humor is Q
Wow, that was a true mindblow! Thanks for the upload! :)
TKV Education Thanks @TKV Education!
So what did you do during the past weeks
toilet brush I've been a bit MIA. Went on a short vacation in Los Angeles, but I'm back now!
I love what you, keep up the amazing work brother 🙏
Your content is good, but sound quality is very important and the background noise in your video is annoying
Sorry about that, I'm still trying to improve my sound quality. Not sure what I'm doing wrong :(
Art of Verbal War you probably need a mic on your person, and thank you for the video. Great content
Thanks Paul, I definitely need to improve my audio quality.
Art of Verbal War hey I didn't think it was difficult to hear at all, but theres always room to make things better lol
Ain't that the truth!
Good video
For somebody to make something outta nothing means they talk too fuckin much 😂
A commercial basically...
1.05
Where are your eyebrows ?
But I suck at 🎾 So... 😢
sales pitch
Another commercial video, don't bother