My own partner will say “I don’t know what will happen in 5yrs... I only know about now; we’ll definitely make the right decision to suit our family’s pattern as it comes 😊 but for the major ones like number of children, Career, likely family base, possibility of relocating, values, etc...things that could be “predictable” then he’d discuss it.
I recently came across your channel and I’ve been binge watching your videos. Very informative. I’m sure I’m much older than you because I’m closer to 50years not yet married but Boy o boy I’m I learning so much from you. I like the topics you are dealing with much needed especially for us mature singles
Hey Victoria...I loved the insights you and your husband shared. You guys are an inspiration. However i am wondering at which point in the relationship do you start to talk about things like kids, belief systems, finances and stuff? Well, because you are not 100% certain that you guys are gonna get married. You could love this guy, and he loves you but sometimes before the engagement, you are not sure that you guys have forever together🤔
I always advice you that as soon as you realise the two of you are falling in love. When your deep feelings and desperacy won't cause you to ignore red flags
New subscriber and I'm so glad to have come across your channel! I literally search for your content these days! You are such a delight, and you're both intelligent! Welldone ❤
Thank you so much. I recently came across your page and I’ve been binge watching your videos. It’s very enlightening and you two are very lovely. More grace and God continue to bless your home ❤️
I'm a new member here 😁. You guys should throw a welcome party for me 🤗... Vicky darling, i truly enjoy this session 😇.. very educating. Thanks so much
Very very good video! This is exactly what im looking for! So helpful in asking my future spouse these things. I had to keep pausing to write some of these questions down! Some things i didnt even think of! Well done! X
This is the second video I will be watching as a new subscribe. I will say I love your communication skill. I pray I have more sweet time with my partner when I get married because I really pray for it. We are still on the waiting list, I pray he answers speedily. I pray your marriage shall continue to experience sweetness in jesus name amen. More growth
I enjoyed every part of this. I was literally smiling to myself and I'm definitely sharing with my fiancé. Really guys, well done. I love the way your conversations are engaging. Makes it so relatable and easy to follow up on.
I can use my last card to travel, eating out is like cheating to me. I'll be calculating how many meals I could have made from that one plate, eating out is reserved for extremely important occasions only. 😃
Thank you ma for your enlightment.. Please ma kindly do more of editing... Writing out your points... Love this topic so much and I be glad to tell people..
Why can't he ask me My five years plan on our First date? Personally I want to be assured Of your ability to plan ahead and build something sustainable before I start bonding with a man. Cos definitely we will enjoy life together but foundatiomal matters have to be well sorted and financially designed and committed to God before we start shinning teeth together. In fact after designing our lifestyle together, it is the funds we have left that we will use for wedding. That's just me shaa! I'm an idealist.
Mothers correct their children while Fathers punish 😅 So sorry for the poor guy that died out of the parents ignorance. You husband is so supportive and smart. The money part, i think having a joint account for ur family is not bad.
And I love especially the genotype part. And its so good to see that there are people out there who are intentional about their genotype and blood group. The cases we see in the hospital on daily basis are heart breaking 😓😥. Thank you so much for that. 💞💞
i love your channel and your tips very much but i just have something to say. i am not trying to tell you how to raise your kids but i would highly highly highly recommend that you don’t use corporate punishment with kids. it is scientifically proven that it causes wayyy more harm than good. and based on my own experience, it is very ineffective and was the core of a lot of my poor mental health and feelings of unloved and being inadequate. it teaches kids to do things so they don’t get hit, rather than to do something because it’s right. i hate how our african culture has normalized putting hands on children. i know that’s how we and everyone around us was raised so we think it’s right but there a better, healthier ways. at least please consider it. thankyou
This is a very important topic. Every christian, infact every aspiring couple should ask themselves questions on important topics of life.
My own partner will say “I don’t know what will happen in 5yrs... I only know about now; we’ll definitely make the right decision to suit our family’s pattern as it comes 😊 but for the major ones like number of children, Career, likely family base, possibility of relocating, values, etc...things that could be “predictable” then he’d discuss it.
Sounds Great!
I think I know why your husband fell in love with you.
You are a very intelligent lady and that matches his energy
Awww.. thank you so much 🥰
And two years later you're actually doingggggg your master's degree in the states🤩🤩💃💃. Congratulations 👏
Thank you!! 😊
It's J;
Great video! I liked the way you each provided different perspectives on the same topic.
I recently came across your channel and I’ve been binge watching your videos. Very informative. I’m sure I’m much older than you because I’m closer to 50years not yet married but Boy o boy I’m I learning so much from you.
I like the topics you are dealing with much needed especially for us mature singles
Thank you so much Tope!!! Comments like this makes it worth it 😁
You both might want to consider writing a book on this topic.
Nice one 👍🏽
Oh wow! We just might.
Thanks a lot!
@@VictoriaFash You guys can just transcribe your episodes into chapters. Just a thought. Once again thank you guys for your realness.
I’ve been considering a relationship and I’m at the age where I want a real relationship. I’m glad this came up gives me a lot to think about
I'm glad too!
What you are is really truth, God will keep you and your home.
Nice one
talking about family values is surely key
i love this discussion
Thank you for watching
i like the the way he respond to your question. very diplomatic. oga no wan argurement
Don't mind him him jare
Your husband is mature and polished. Nice one!
Invitation hmm and hope honorarium followed o....Well done guys, always a delight to watch your videos. Thank you.
Hey Victoria...I loved the insights you and your husband shared. You guys are an inspiration. However i am wondering at which point in the relationship do you start to talk about things like kids, belief systems, finances and stuff? Well, because you are not 100% certain that you guys are gonna get married. You could love this guy, and he loves you but sometimes before the engagement, you are not sure that you guys have forever together🤔
I always advice you that as soon as you realise the two of you are falling in love. When your deep feelings and desperacy won't cause you to ignore red flags
Chai, this couple opened my eyes to allot.
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New subscriber and I'm so glad to have come across your channel! I literally search for your content these days! You are such a delight, and you're both intelligent! Welldone ❤
Aww... thank you so much! 💓
Thank you so much. I recently came across your page and I’ve been binge watching your videos. It’s very enlightening and you two are very lovely. More grace and God continue to bless your home ❤️
Amen... thank you ❤
This genotype thing is very important.....I can't help watching your videos always very educative and informative. Thanks girl
Thank you!
I'm a new member here 😁. You guys should throw a welcome party for me 🤗...
Vicky darling, i truly enjoy this session 😇.. very educating. Thanks so much
😄😄😄
You are welcome in the name of the Lord ( X2)
We can see all over you, the glory of the Lord, you are welcome in the name of Lord. 💃💃💃💃😄😄
Very very good video! This is exactly what im looking for! So helpful in asking my future spouse these things. I had to keep pausing to write some of these questions down! Some things i didnt even think of! Well done! X
I'm glad this helped you! 😌
Thank you Mr and Mrs Fash especially for the genotype part of this session.
You're welcome 😊
This is the second video I will be watching as a new subscribe. I will say I love your communication skill. I pray I have more sweet time with my partner when I get married because I really pray for it. We are still on the waiting list, I pray he answers speedily. I pray your marriage shall continue to experience sweetness in jesus name amen. More growth
Amen! Amen! Very soon, God will hear you.
Thanks for watching ❤
I love this content i was able to learn some new things to ask my fiance I thought I we had discussed every aspect ...more grace ma
Thank you so much for watching
Vicky, how come am only seeing your Chanel now? You are very witty, love what you do girl.
My dear, let's just be grateful UA-cam finally put me out there o 😁... thanks so much! 🥰
Thanks for the free premarital counseling classes.
Thanks for watching
I love this session 🥰
I love the chemistry between you two.
And I hope to see more of you guys✌️💯
Thank you so much! 💓
Uwc🥰
I shared it cos I love the topic n points. Thks
Thanks so much 🙏
I enjoyed every part of this. I was literally smiling to myself and I'm definitely sharing with my fiancé.
Really guys, well done. I love the way your conversations are engaging. Makes it so relatable and easy to follow up on.
Thank you so much 💓
Girl!!! I just love you. Glad I found your channel.
Aww.. thanks love 😘
Wow! This video was excellent! I like the way you two were giving each other a chance to talk, how wonderful!
Thank you peace
@@VictoriaFash 🥰🥰
Powerful
What are you planning to do to me?. Honestly that's a valid one to know.
This is a complete package. Thank you, Mr and Mrs.. Fash
You're welcome!
Beautiful pipu.
Very educative! You have a good energy Vicky. God bless your home forever.
Thanks so much! ❤
Thanks Mr and Mrs
This discussion is so mind blowing God bless you both forever 👍💕💋
Thank you 🥰
You tube recommend this video for me and I'm already loving your vibe. Can't help but to subscribe. Much love
I'm glad! 😁
This is so much educating for the future...
You both are doing well
Thanks boo 🥰
I can use my last card to travel, eating out is like cheating to me. I'll be calculating how many meals I could have made from that one plate, eating out is reserved for extremely important occasions only. 😃
You're not alone in this 😄😄
This video....very valuable information! Would save and revisit over time. Thank you!
Thanks so much 🙏
Thank you ma for your enlightment.. Please ma kindly do more of editing... Writing out your points... Love this topic so much and I be glad to tell people..
I see.. thank you, I'll do that
I love Ur look today especially on my best colour 😍 red.nice video always
Thank you 😊
Why can't he ask me
My five years plan on our
First date?
Personally I want to be assured
Of your ability to plan ahead and build something sustainable before I start bonding with a man. Cos definitely we will enjoy life together but foundatiomal matters have to be well sorted and financially designed and committed to God before we start shinning teeth together. In fact after designing our lifestyle together, it is the funds we have left that we will use for wedding.
That's just me shaa! I'm an idealist.
Your laughter is mind-blowing ☺️
Thank you 🥰🥰🥰
Uncle Emmanuel, huuunm, I breath down 👍
Thank you so much Mr/Mrs Fash for this educating and interesting 😀video
❤️💡
Thank you so much for watching +
I really enjoyed watching this and I subscribed too❣️❣️
Thank you! 😁
Congrats mama on your ten thousands subscribers
Thank you! 💃💃
You are a fast talker 😁 How many words per minute? 🙈
I swear your husband has a beautiful mind! So intelligent! Your are blessed biko
Ehen... so it's only my husband, me nko? 😃
Mothers correct their children while Fathers punish 😅
So sorry for the poor guy that died out of the parents ignorance.
You husband is so supportive and smart.
The money part, i think having a joint account for ur family is not bad.
I agree... .thanks dear!
i am learning alot. Thank you so much for this video
I'm really glad! 🥰
I am in a long distant relationship. I relate so much with your content. Thank you for this
Aww... thanks you!
Long distance relationship is not really easy
I love love this
Thank you
I really love your channel. 5 stars👍❤️
And I love especially the genotype part. And its so good to see that there are people out there who are intentional about their genotype and blood group. The cases we see in the hospital on daily basis are heart breaking 😓😥. Thank you so much for that. 💞💞
@@maryamadedeji6928 thank you for your comment ❤
Very informative 😎
I'm glad!
One question I need to ask, in conversation is it you as a lady or the guy that’s supposed to ask these questions?
Both of you oo... any of you...
Let me sit down and watch
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Thank you so much!
You're welcome!
Future plan first.✔
Educating!
Thank you! 🥰
Beautiful👌
Genotype oo💫
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God bless your family
Thank you!
Madam, I feel your passion but Biko, please let Olga talk more.😆😆😆😆😆😆
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Na wahala o 😁
@@VictoriaFash 😅😅😅😅😅 Please oooooooo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You don’t have to keep explaining after him!🤣🤣🤣🤣. We understand his own explanations!!!😂😂😂😂😂
We with AS genotype has challenges finding life partner. God help us.
It is well dear.
@@VictoriaFash Amen
Madam fash, ori e o, I'm the lion in the house rulling, thank God, this is the result of the lion rulling, keep it up, more knowledge
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mummy you're here? 😄😄
Thanks mum 🥰
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't go school but I pass bye o
You Are saying the truth
You are talking too fast. You seem so be rushed. Good message, but pls don’t rush
Learn more
Sis You must have mAstered your sayings well. Your mouth was going on a 💯 smh
Like me i like to talk to hear your voice
What's your social media handle?
Instagram, Victoria.a.fash
i love your channel and your tips very much but i just have something to say. i am not trying to tell you how to raise your kids but i would highly highly highly recommend that you don’t use corporate punishment with kids. it is scientifically proven that it causes wayyy more harm than good. and based on my own experience, it is very ineffective and was the core of a lot of my poor mental health and feelings of unloved and being inadequate. it teaches kids to do things so they don’t get hit, rather than to do something because it’s right. i hate how our african culture has normalized putting hands on children. i know that’s how we and everyone around us was raised so we think it’s right but there a better, healthier ways. at least please consider it. thankyou
Thank you so much for this.