Unscripted E07: 7 days of silence // Overcoming pride in our marriage

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  • @babeskjo
    @babeskjo Рік тому +86

    You guys…your first podcast saved my marriage! I was so ready to pack and go,I had actually already called a broker to get me a house,thennnn I landed on your podcast. Thank you dear kitakas.

  • @natashakimberly2131
    @natashakimberly2131 Рік тому +11

    "Your partner is not the enemy, the enemy is the weakness in your partner. Separate your partner from weakness". Learning is taking place! Thank you the Kitakas

  • @markgordonm
    @markgordonm Рік тому +23

    " ....you are the one woman, I felt saw me...I was on the floor, I did need my friend, you saw something, over time the world agrees with you, I promise you, the woman that saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses over that woman. " What a statement , what a love story. This blessed me in so many ways, and I can relate, may we learn to honour our loved ones ( those who saw us ) over their weaknesses and mistakes. Amen.

    • @estarallen8575
      @estarallen8575 Рік тому

      In most times we determine and rate people how they dress how they sleep and this is our canal minds which we've to get rid off.
      May God help us see beyond material things in our spouses

    • @comfortgrace1023
      @comfortgrace1023 6 місяців тому

      🙌

  • @lilliannamugenyi1695
    @lilliannamugenyi1695 Рік тому +44

    I asked God for a good marriage counselor who will show me; not what I wanted to hear but the truth. I also didn't want a third-party who I would be afraid of opening up to, and I told God, to counsel me by Himself. I have been diligently following each episode. Today is when I realize this must have been God's answer to me. May God impart more wisdom to the Kitakas... I have been blessed beyond what I envisioned or ever asked for. God bless you!

    • @sarahnamwanje
      @sarahnamwanje Рік тому

      Amen

    • @rachellorna5109
      @rachellorna5109 Рік тому +2

      @@sarahnamwanje This is exactly my sentiment! It is just amazing how God in His great wisdom has a way of equipping us for every season of our lives. The Kitaka's were indeed meant to be here for us, in a time such as this. 💚💚

    • @charlesisabirye9128
      @charlesisabirye9128 Рік тому +3

      Mr. Kitaka you carry a wisdom i honestly admire. I pray i get to meet you some day. Thanks any ways!

  • @victoriabyoona4445
    @victoriabyoona4445 Рік тому +26

    ''Marriage can break simply because none of them is willing to break for it'' Very powerful statement .Thank you the Kitakas for this ministry, you are touching many peoples' marriages.

  • @rochellenteeba6291
    @rochellenteeba6291 Рік тому +18

    Naye these guys bring us back to earth regarding this marriage ministry. We need to share this content with as many people as possible . Wabula

  • @dalson1706
    @dalson1706 Рік тому +6

    I know what it means to be silent in the same house ,mine was extreme end for good 8 months ,when I told God let you will be done in marriage even around me knew my marriage was over but I trust God and God turned things around and my marriage was restored ,it was a miracle ,thx once again for saving people's marriage.

  • @millyodwar9206
    @millyodwar9206 3 місяці тому +1

    This man loves you from deep within. I love that you are giving God the glory in your marriage in a world where marriage is under threat.

  • @dortush
    @dortush Рік тому +9

    It is Shana's deep breaths for me when Mr kitaka is talking 😊😊😊

    • @liliannabirye3951
      @liliannabirye3951 Рік тому

      Because through her husband's talking,the Holy spirit is ministering

  • @anitatumusiime8323
    @anitatumusiime8323 6 місяців тому +2

    You can't fail to understand mwami Kitaka, he is so clear, drives his points home, it's amazing

  • @CynthiaKyofuna
    @CynthiaKyofuna Рік тому +7

    This man affirmed you at the end, I could feel your apprehension Rukhshana. He is honored to do life with you, he is leading you as he lets Christ lead him. Let your heartstrings flow and receive from this cup greatly. You are doing an amazing thing showing us how marriage should glorify God, and we thank you ❤️❤️🌺🌺

    • @persist.b.ushindi
      @persist.b.ushindi Рік тому

      That book on Honor by Ap.Moses Mukisa is such a blessing and life saver.

  • @eugeniatushabe9154
    @eugeniatushabe9154 Рік тому +8

    How I ended up here last night at 23.00hrs! I was already in bed but for some reason I couldn't fall asleep. Anyway, I got up and picked up my phone, went to UA-cam to pass time till I get sleepy then I straight away came across this video! It addressed me in many ways and I feel the Holy Spirit led me here! There's so much I learnt from you both. Thank you🙏🏽

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      We are glad you were led here :) Eugenia!

  • @CAA_AB8
    @CAA_AB8 Рік тому +2

    This is a free therapy session. Thank you, the Kitakas.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  11 місяців тому

      It’s always a pleasure! -RK

  • @mugishagenchanger
    @mugishagenchanger Рік тому +2

    Yooooo.... Shan, God got you a sword to prune you and get you closer to Himself. You're a blessed woman.

  • @sarahmagoola3700
    @sarahmagoola3700 Рік тому +2

    Man s weaknesses are just their weaknesses not their definition. I maintain the definition i have of my Husband and rebuke every other definition that comes to mind because of their short comings or weaknesses. The has delivered me! Glory

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +1

      When you see people through the eyes of grace and love, it's difficult to perceive their weaknesses and define them by that. So the key is grace and love! -RK

  • @amyitogot5088
    @amyitogot5088 Рік тому +3

    Wow! Not glorifying the weaknesses of our spouse and knowing that it is by the grace of God. I have learnt alot.

  • @angellakyarimpa1323
    @angellakyarimpa1323 Рік тому +2

    A true definition of marriage as in Ephesians 5.
    Wonderful man, keep it up sanctifying your wife you'll surely enjoy life together.

  • @rachellorna5109
    @rachellorna5109 Рік тому +24

    "You are the woman that I felt saw me...over time, the world agrees with you. And I promise you, the woman who saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses above that woman." Just wow! ❤‍🔥 If this is not a perfect example of how Christ loved the church!

    • @godsown4683
      @godsown4683 Рік тому +1

      Weee I am telling you I love these guys.

    • @ninsiimaracheal8838
      @ninsiimaracheal8838 Рік тому +3

      Thank you Rachel (namesake) for writing the words for me... you know in these podcasts am helping Shana in crying...we always cry together and I miss the most important words. The more I play it again, the more I cry.....
      Thank you the Kitakas....it's not easy to do life with a spouse you just met and you have a responsibility of being one. But if that's the truth, am ready to walk the path well knowing that the grace is sufficient..in my weakness

    • @rosekitur8429
      @rosekitur8429 Рік тому +2

      Those last perfect words from a man to a woman he loves❤. It gives me tears. It reminds me of The Love of Christ for a mere being like me.
      Then reminded me in 2018 when I was going through hell and in a dream A man appeared to me and hug me so tightly and said to me I Love you, I accept who you are, I Love you both with your son and I don't care of your past. I cried tears of Joy and it began a journey of healing.
      I don't know if that Man was Jesus (he was so perfect) or my future husband 😊.
      Am still waiting and not losing hope.
      Kitakas you bless me. I can't wait to share and to re- listen these podcast with my husband in future.
      ❤❤❤

  • @sherrywilliams3691
    @sherrywilliams3691 Рік тому +6

    I love the way Mr. Kitaka always holds Rukh's hands eeeeh ummm only God knows how i feel

  • @dinahalinda4292
    @dinahalinda4292 6 місяців тому +1

    I really needed to watch this 😢. I love love Christian couples ❤ May God keep using you mightly 🙏

  • @flavianamiiro3764
    @flavianamiiro3764 Рік тому +10

    Kili wano..."who said am Settling" the Kitaakas I love love love while learning. God bless your beautiful marriage. Amen.

  • @annettewere4843
    @annettewere4843 Рік тому +3

    This is deep stuff, real discipleship. I have watched like six episodes of " The Kitaka's" in the last 2 days. God loves this.

  • @CynthiaKyofuna
    @CynthiaKyofuna Рік тому +4

    Eehhh this was deep… I felt that Rukhshana and I face the same thing. The reconciliation of who I married and who I had as a friend is hard because my friend and my husband seem like two different people.
    Super glad to have watched this.

  • @violamboneko3601
    @violamboneko3601 Рік тому +1

    Mr. Kitaka i am extremely proud of you and your lovely wife. This is what the world needs.

  • @patricianakigudde1579
    @patricianakigudde1579 Рік тому +5

    I dont really know how I landed this amazing podcast.
    But I really love them both.

  • @ylu_cuerna4640
    @ylu_cuerna4640 Рік тому +4

    So truthful, so painful.. And at the same time so deeply profound 😔
    More grace to you both. The Kitakas you are, forever in Jesus name. Amen

  • @sarahagea9066
    @sarahagea9066 3 місяці тому

    Men’s weakness ain’t their definition 👏🏽👏🏽u guys are blessed and a blessing 👏🏽

  • @deno1512
    @deno1512 Рік тому +2

    Came back to give my appreciation for this seed. Thank you so much guys

  • @julietkentaro7802
    @julietkentaro7802 Рік тому +3

    If only I could meet you Mr and Mrs Kitaka for me to say thank you and ask you more
    Blessings

  • @annetatim9243
    @annetatim9243 Рік тому +6

    This is answered prayer for me💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
    I asked God that you do more podcasts in a month after watching 06 and I found this🙏🏽🙏🏽, thank you the Kitaka’s, God bless you more🙏🏽

  • @atuhaireedinah1501
    @atuhaireedinah1501 2 місяці тому

    WOW , glad am getting to learn all this before i get married ...i can only be better .Thankyou Thank you

  • @jacintaewuramaotoo2400
    @jacintaewuramaotoo2400 Рік тому +4

    With few minutes into the podcast I quickly subscribed and turned on the notification! I can’t afford to miss and upload! I’ve been so blessed by this podcast!! God bless you both!!

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +1

      Welcome aboard! And thank you.

  • @bonabanamay
    @bonabanamay Рік тому +2

    My take way ,a marriage can break because neither is willing to break for it .The little fox Pride that couldnspoil the vineyard ,thanks .i have subscribed immediately ,im so blessed

  • @beatricetume1007
    @beatricetume1007 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much the Kitakas, there is a way am changing everyday after watching your podcasts 🙏🙏

  • @leodinaaero9333
    @leodinaaero9333 Рік тому +1

    You guys embody a love that I believe in. A love that sees deeper and seeks to know the soul of a person. Lovely..

  • @solatim2142
    @solatim2142 Рік тому +1

    Expeditious Shana. I am your no.2 fan. I salute the Kitaka's. Merci beaucoup !!!

  • @graycebironse7985
    @graycebironse7985 12 днів тому

    Preparing for my marriage...this is soo helpful..

  • @stelakem
    @stelakem Рік тому +4

    Ehhh but Mr. Kitaka always has the perfect words to make his wife feel so special! 🥰🥰 God bless you both! ❤

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +1

      That he really does 😊! -RK

  • @malogeanthony2555
    @malogeanthony2555 Рік тому

    24:43 There is a PUREST form of a man, the SPIRIT! Separate the weakness of men from their true identity. War unto not fresh and blood... I am blessed. Thank you, thank you, thank you the Kitakas❤

  • @ninsiimajosephine5881
    @ninsiimajosephine5881 Рік тому +5

    I can only say see what the Lord can do when you surrender. You are such a blessing to this generation. I see we are almost reaching the topic of submission 😂😂. Eagerly waiting for the next episode❤

  • @dianaamongdiana2849
    @dianaamongdiana2849 6 місяців тому

    Wow I love the Spiritual maturity Mr Kitaka has led his bride to surely like Christ cleansing the church to present her to himself, I pray God gives you an unction to raise more men unto a place of being spiritual leaders. God bless you

  • @annaakampa
    @annaakampa 2 місяці тому

    1year later and am still being blessed 🙌, the Spirit of the Lord will lead and prepare you for what you ask for before you receive it. Woooo

  • @bazimbyeevans7420
    @bazimbyeevans7420 Рік тому

    It doesn't matter the duration of the podcast. The unveiling of what lies underneath the decisions/reactions we make in every circumstance is golden. Thanking you for this podcast is not enough.... You are making that mark...

  • @laker256
    @laker256 Рік тому +2

    I feel the Holy Spirit in this channel.
    Continue with the great work.

  • @carolinembithe4544
    @carolinembithe4544 Рік тому +10

    Sending love from Kenya..I'm not married but following you is really preparing me for it. Keep loving, alil of your vernacular here and there that I don't understand but I'm glad I follow your teachings.

  • @Beneth91
    @Beneth91 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so the Kitakas. I like how Mr. Kitaka has explained how to know a person using David's relationship with God. I too is looking for a man with such level of understanding

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      May the Lord prepare you a man such as that!

  • @sarahteira1816
    @sarahteira1816 Рік тому +5

    This is wisdom

  • @rwakijumasarah1716
    @rwakijumasarah1716 Рік тому +10

    too short but sweet😉😍. I never get enough of this always. i always have to repeat watching and listening like 2 times😂 , u guys bless my heart sooo much and i keep blushing from the start to the end🙂. am not yet married but u guys make marriage look so beautiful, easy and authentic🙌. a man who loves the lord is all that i need 🤩👃

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +5

      I couldn't agree more Sarah. A man who loves and is submitted to God will help make marriage worthwhile even with all its struggles. -RK

    • @annettewere4843
      @annettewere4843 Рік тому +1

      Yeees, may God fulfill your heart's desire, it is noble.

    • @rwakijumasarah1716
      @rwakijumasarah1716 Рік тому

      @@thekitakas ❤

  • @ruthsenyonjo6145
    @ruthsenyonjo6145 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the ministry to add value to marriages. This is purpose! May God grant you more wisdom beyond your years.

  • @faithamaro5134
    @faithamaro5134 Рік тому +3

    Such encouragement 🙌 I am edified and encouraged! What a blessing you are to this generation. Thank you so much for sharing so vulnerably 💜

  • @Marykitala
    @Marykitala 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for being open.
    Have come to maintain my prayer after this insight.

  • @pureorganicempire5976
    @pureorganicempire5976 Рік тому +1

    This is wisdom overload

  • @naggayirebecca9083
    @naggayirebecca9083 6 місяців тому

    Am blessed beyond measure. Thank you the Kitakas❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 sending love. Many many returns ❤❤❤

  • @nampijjahope4899
    @nampijjahope4899 Рік тому

    I have loved that first part, praying together 😊

  • @stellahwangota9130
    @stellahwangota9130 Рік тому +1

    Wow, I like the way this ended . Thank you

  • @mercykakama
    @mercykakama 5 місяців тому

    It was a blessing listening to you guys may God continue to use you

  • @kwikirizambabazize5743
    @kwikirizambabazize5743 Рік тому +1

    Am speechless, looks like i have homework to do. May God be my guide. God bless you the Kitakas, thank you for allowing God to let you be vulnerable to us.

  • @faithamong2389
    @faithamong2389 5 місяців тому +2

    Watching this in 2024
    It's such a blessing

  • @BrendaKeron
    @BrendaKeron 3 місяці тому

    Amazing God bless you

  • @jovanis824
    @jovanis824 Рік тому +1

    Banange tuwebwa omukisa in these videos they have added value in my life be blessed ba dia

  • @godfreyluwate6084
    @godfreyluwate6084 Рік тому +3

    Thanks so much for this am always waiting for the new podcasts
    They are of help
    Many thanks

  • @pearlmujuni1455
    @pearlmujuni1455 Рік тому +2

    I have been blessed beyond measure. Thank you the Kitakas.

  • @tusiimecatherine5651
    @tusiimecatherine5651 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for letting us in your space. Am learning so much

  • @opemipoesther4215
    @opemipoesther4215 Рік тому +1

    28:43 🔥🔥🔥

  • @sarahsinger07
    @sarahsinger07 Рік тому +1

    This has the GLORY of TMH all over it. May the two of you be increased. ✨🙌🏿☺️

  • @liliannabirye3951
    @liliannabirye3951 Рік тому

    This is such an intimate discussion.Big up to you Shana for actually allowing to share your world with us.I don't think I can bring people this upclose so help me God

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      🙏 It is He that works in us both to will and to do for His good pleasure (Phil 2:13). - RK

  • @malogeanthony2555
    @malogeanthony2555 Рік тому

    Thanks!

  • @stecididi3320
    @stecididi3320 5 місяців тому

    Mr kitaka you are a very good listener

  • @kimberlychelsea9341
    @kimberlychelsea9341 Рік тому +2

    Shana brown looks very lovely on you.❤Blessed couple.Thanks for being raw and same time giving marriages lessons.

  • @pesh2305
    @pesh2305 Рік тому +1

    ❤wow this is too good,thank the Kitakas.

  • @brendansimenta6013
    @brendansimenta6013 Рік тому +4

    Wow..this is so beautiful❤

  • @ENIDASIIMWE
    @ENIDASIIMWE 2 місяці тому

    U guys r the best....ur real

  • @sherrywilliams3691
    @sherrywilliams3691 Рік тому +5

    My councelors .....im learning from u people ....i pray God keeps you together not only for u but for me too....your my marriage role models .....love love you so much guys

  • @joygood2795
    @joygood2795 Рік тому +4

    Am first here today. Thanks for always blessing me with so much wisdom the Kitakas❤❤

    • @charityngabirano-fz2pd
      @charityngabirano-fz2pd Рік тому +1

      Me too❤
      Here taking notes ❤

    • @joygood2795
      @joygood2795 Рік тому

      @@charityngabirano-fz2pd Mrs. JM omu bwati... glad to know you also tap from the well of wisdom of the Kitakas. How is outside countries?

  • @charlotteasiimwe6607
    @charlotteasiimwe6607 Рік тому

    Wow. Thank you so much! I believe we all need to have such honest conversations with our spouses

  • @ninakatungi9568
    @ninakatungi9568 Рік тому +1

    I dont have the exact words to describe this video. Thank you so much for sharing your hearts ❤❤ I have been extremely blessed

  • @Emilyanks
    @Emilyanks Рік тому +1

    Down to earth couple,thank you for sharing your life

  • @laureenkabaseke
    @laureenkabaseke Рік тому +3

    I love you both. Thank you for Ministry

  • @janewerikhe9528
    @janewerikhe9528 Рік тому +1

    First time here but l must say l am loving it

  • @politeayikiriza4605
    @politeayikiriza4605 Рік тому +4

    I like the honest conversation ❤

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for the message we need to look at how God has been graceful to us and we give that to our friends. Neighbors.
    Another is needed

    • @MsGratefulgal
      @MsGratefulgal Рік тому +1

      ...being completely humble and gentle; being patient, and bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2

  • @VictoriaKwagala-ez9so
    @VictoriaKwagala-ez9so 3 місяці тому

    Wow thank you guys

  • @robinahcleopatranamboyera819
    @robinahcleopatranamboyera819 Рік тому +1

    May God continue bless you more

  • @idahsituuma1378
    @idahsituuma1378 6 місяців тому

    Thank you guys for those smiles on your faces.
    But this is history. Where the videos of now.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  6 місяців тому

      Hey Idah, you are watching Ep 7, we are at Ep39. All episodes are in the same place. -RK

    • @idahsituuma1378
      @idahsituuma1378 6 місяців тому

      ​@@thekitakasthanks for the feedback I will get there.

  • @eddiekasiga
    @eddiekasiga Рік тому +2

    The words we speak can only be forgiven and never forgotten.... I have learned to use them carefully..

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +1

      That's very wise. “When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent” ( Proverbs 10:19 ). -RK

    • @annettewere4843
      @annettewere4843 Рік тому +2

      I know even good people can do damn 🙄 things, these don't define us. I have said several damn things to my husband, i look back to & wonder how I could stoop so low, i get goose bumps. May God give us grace to grow & live in the character of Christ.

  • @akansiimajoan3029
    @akansiimajoan3029 Рік тому +1

    Mr Kitaka
    Honestly,you have made my evening
    I have watched this oba how many times,my marriage will grow sweet by ur melodic voices,u can't believe,I now talk lyk Shana😂🎉

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +1

      Amen to a beautiful marriage! But this talking like me I need more clarity on 😂😂. -RK

  • @josephineebiu
    @josephineebiu Рік тому +5

    I am always blessed by this couple!
    Thank you the kitakas for allowing the Lord to use you to speak to marriages! These real stories build!

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      We are thankful for the opportunity to share our lives in the hope that it helps someone some couples grow better. -RK

  • @GTDGDee
    @GTDGDee Рік тому +1

    Thank you for being candid and sharing your marriage with us. Thank you doing it with such purpose, this podcast gives us so much information for us looking to marry. Thank you for being purposeful!

  • @ronahmusiima9882
    @ronahmusiima9882 Рік тому +2

    Best UA-cam channel! May God continue to grant you grace. You are a blessing❤

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      Thanks Ronah. Amen to more grace! -RK

  • @mulawazachariah9062
    @mulawazachariah9062 Рік тому

    Honestly am blown out with this, blessings 🙏🙏🙏 a lot unsaid

  • @mariangonzi5599
    @mariangonzi5599 3 місяці тому

    Wow. Amazing

  • @theugandanvillagewife6647
    @theugandanvillagewife6647 Рік тому +2

    Woooow nze leero am speechless bantu bange. The ending got me oba how....

  • @rebeccalunkuse1156
    @rebeccalunkuse1156 Рік тому

    You people are lovely. Kale I have loved this

  • @kemi0495
    @kemi0495 Рік тому

    Thx
    We are really humbled to hear from you guys

  • @Marykitala
    @Marykitala 6 місяців тому

    You people inspire me alot

  • @naturindaesther8964
    @naturindaesther8964 9 місяців тому

    Ouhhh this is so amazing 🥰🥰💕💕, thank you the KITAKAS.

  • @Linda-ro1rl
    @Linda-ro1rl Рік тому +12

    I love love love your conversations...I have a request though...can you write subtitles so that I can understand the parts you speak in Luganda...Love from Kenya Thank you in advance😊

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +1

      Let's work on that Linda. -RK

  • @ValentinaLive10
    @ValentinaLive10 Місяць тому

    May God bless you both I love your channel

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Місяць тому

      Thank you Valentina! -RK

  • @emmasendi9778
    @emmasendi9778 9 місяців тому

    This was so beautiful.. I thank God for your marriage.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  9 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! -RK

  • @ashepetflavia4295
    @ashepetflavia4295 Рік тому +1

    Olwalero mubadde mu kiboko. But we are learning.