Good information. I said on your last video, if i can't be my full self (flaws and al), with a man. I have NO interest in being with him. A man should feel the same as well with a woman. I personally think most relationships are dysfunctional because people judge, shame, criticize and throw each under the bus. People don't own their stuff and blame others for their problems. I once had a midlife guy on a date say to me, I don't understand why I can'f find a wife, I said perhaps you NEED to learn how to be a husband (he was very selfish man and it was all about his needs). I fill my own cup every day and we all should be doing this.
I enjoy your videos Jonathan because it just makes sense! It's EXACTLY how I think. Most men, however, don't have "serious" or "long-term" in mind when they start dating. They don't have a "destination" in mind . . . And it becomes obvious early on when their actions don't match their words or they don't make you a priority or even make plans in advance! Its frustrating.
Jonathan, I've been regularly listening to you these past few months and learning so much. The funniest thing happened to me and completely supports your message. I ordered Chinese food and my fortune cookie said, LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AND EVERYTHING WILL FALL INTO PLACE. That's not coincidence! ❤😂😊
Thank you Jonathon for teaching all this valuable information. It is sinking in for sure. Every one should learn about this Thank you again Blessings to you for all that you do.
I’m at a place where I’m exhausted forcing something to work. I’m happy being alone really happier not even looking whew.. I always thought I needed to be with someone
Jonathan this was extremely helpful thank you ❤. My situation is extremely complicated and I have to listen to a lot of your sessions to help me choose my direction..so keep up the good work xx
Saying you're busy is always an excuse. Obviously in circumstances, you're busy with your children, court, but no one is ever too busy for someone they truly want to be with and care for. 💯
Thank you for all your great messages about relationships, Jonathon! I have learned so much from you! And thank you for giving us a list of the books you recommend. God bless you!
My long term low commitment long distance relationship (quoted by Ken in the Barbie movie) is moving along wonderfully. We have only gone on two dates/trips in one year, but we talk everyday. I constantly wonder if he will move my way soon but he seems scared to be that committed. Hearing all these signs makes me feel more at ease. He hits all these marks even at a distance.
If a man is serious.. He needs to provie it. Actions and words aligned. Ive always had a long term mating strategy. Serious and committed. Thats my standard. Its impossible to have a texting relationships. Quality communication is by phone or in person. Real Men Don't Text To Date---Natalie Clarice podcast Its impossible To Have A Relationship By Text- Natalie Clarice podcast
Can offering “help” in the early stages of dating sometimes be problematic? For me it can bring up uncomfortable feelings, like what if the dating doesn’t work out, yet I’ve benefitted from their “help”, and then I feel guilty? Or I can feel “obligated” or indebted, or I’m perceiving the offer of help as somehow manipulative or coercive. Also it can feel a bit inappropriate or even patronising. I guess it depends on the situation / the help being offered, and is ultimately quite nuanced. It could be either a big red flag or a sign of commitment and care, depending on what stage of the dating etc. I think ultimately if it feels off that may be enough to trust my gut. Though I’m also working on trust and self esteem issues around feeling worthy of being supported / being able to receive support and care etc… Anyway thanks, great video, I feel I’m making progress with my discernment capabilities and raising my standards. Chaos is now a huge turn off for me 🎉🙌 Thanks again 🙏
Question: I’m in a relationship that I do want to be long term… “it”… we both have kids. Mine are high school age, his are younger. I’m not in any rush to combine families physically until my girls are older, maybe even out if the house… this could be subject to change in a year or two… it’s just how I feel right now. Am I being too selfish?
Yes, it is possible, but a few things to consider… 1) His relationship status 2) If you were to make the first move & you did (or didn’t) get the outcome you wanted, would that make future appointments weird or uncomfortable? 3) How are your interactions with him currently? Is he flirty or just nice? In no way am I trying to talk you out of it. (I actually hope it works out in your favor) Just be sure to consider the variables and how you’d be prepared to handle it before making your decision. All the best to you!! 💕
I wouldn't suggest it, they may ban you as a patient because they may question your motives and be concerned about losing their license. Good looking doctors also have unlimited romantic. options so odds are he's unavailable
Can I point out an observation? I am so sorry for your loss. Today you pointed to a photo of your two children and never mentioned the surviving child...
Good information. I said on your last video, if i can't be my full self (flaws and al), with a man. I have NO interest in being with him. A man should feel the same as well with a woman. I personally think most relationships are dysfunctional because people judge, shame, criticize and throw each under the bus. People don't own their stuff and blame others for their problems. I once had a midlife guy on a date say to me, I don't understand why I can'f find a wife, I said perhaps you NEED to learn how to be a husband (he was very selfish man and it was all about his needs). I fill my own cup every day and we all should be doing this.
Jennifer absolutely. We need to call men out when it's necessary.
Indeed
Im sorry for your loss i pray God gives you the strength...thanks alot everything you said sunk in
Husband No.2 and went beyond that long trip. We moved on to our sailboat and lived together for three years always within 10 feet of each other.😂
I enjoy your videos Jonathan because it just makes sense! It's EXACTLY how I think. Most men, however, don't have "serious" or "long-term" in mind when they start dating. They don't have a "destination" in mind . . . And it becomes obvious early on when their actions don't match their words or they don't make you a priority or even make plans in advance! Its frustrating.
This is good information for everyone need to know. Thank you Jonathan for tell the truth about relationships/dating.
My pleasure 🙏
Jonathan, I've been regularly listening to you these past few months and learning so much. The funniest thing happened to me and completely supports your message. I ordered Chinese food and my fortune cookie said, LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AND EVERYTHING WILL FALL INTO PLACE.
That's not coincidence! ❤😂😊
Yes, is sinking in. Thank you!
You got this!
Thank you Jonathon for teaching all this valuable information.
It is sinking in for sure.
Every one should learn about this
Thank you again
Blessings to you for all that you do.
Glad it was helpful!
I’m at a place where I’m exhausted forcing something to work. I’m happy being alone really happier not even looking whew.. I always thought I needed to be with someone
Your videos have changed everything for me. Thank you. Reading your book now. So glad I found you 😊
Jonathon, appreciate your wisdom today.Thank you so much!
My pleasure!
Jonathan this was extremely helpful thank you ❤. My situation is extremely complicated and I have to listen to a lot of your sessions to help me choose my direction..so keep up the good work xx
So glad!
I am really enjoying your channel all the way from sunny England! Thank you :)
Awesome! Thank you!
Saying you're busy is always an excuse. Obviously in circumstances, you're busy with your children, court, but no one is ever too busy for someone they truly want to be with and care for. 💯
It feels like I’ve tried everything… still single … 🤦🏽♀️
Thank you for all your great messages about relationships, Jonathon! I have learned so much from you! And thank you for giving us a list of the books you recommend. God bless you!
You are so welcome!
My long term low commitment long distance relationship (quoted by Ken in the Barbie movie) is moving along wonderfully. We have only gone on two dates/trips in one year, but we talk everyday. I constantly wonder if he will move my way soon but he seems scared to be that committed. Hearing all these signs makes me feel more at ease. He hits all these marks even at a distance.
Jonathon this absolutely sinks in….God Almighty knew I needed this video so thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤❤❤
So glad!
Right on❤target as always.
I STOP discussion with anyone who tells me their Children are their "priority"!!
I dated someone that didn’t really text much between our dates, but he texted a whole lot when we were out and about.
Other people?
Likely other people. Compartementalizing.
The Longest Third Dare was really good.
Yes
Thank you Jonathan 🌺
You're welcome 😊
Staying single for now celibacy
Men just drain my energy field 😇😇😇
Hi Jonathan it was a FILM on NETFLIX and it was called LONGEST THIRD DATE.
That's it...
Your videos are really helpful to me. Thank you!
Glad you like them!
Yes thank good advice love you brother
So nice of you
Hi Jonathan I always enjoy your topics . But hey ! I saw you on Bumble by the way 😊
Yep... I'm out there. Happy you enjoyed the video
If a man is serious.. He needs to provie it. Actions and words aligned.
Ive always had a long term mating strategy. Serious and committed. Thats my standard.
Its impossible to have a texting relationships. Quality communication is by phone or in person.
Real Men Don't Text To Date---Natalie Clarice podcast
Its impossible To Have A Relationship By Text- Natalie Clarice podcast
What, no sunshine and lollipops 🤣
Your unfiltered humor has returned 😅👍
Lol 😆
We love your humanity and sense of humor! 😁
I'm the 77th person to hit the like button, the year I was born😁
Thanks Jonathon for the video❤
👍🏼
Born in 77 too 🙋🏻♀️ Turning 46 this years was the 1st time I kind of got my butt kicked. 🤷🏻♀️ Middled aged 😬
How many months into a long distance relationship should you move in together or move to that city to ensure the relationship lasts?
Just found you!
Was I lost? Lol 😆 🤣 😂
Can offering “help” in the early stages of dating sometimes be problematic? For me it can bring up uncomfortable feelings, like what if the dating doesn’t work out, yet I’ve benefitted from their “help”, and then I feel guilty? Or I can feel “obligated” or indebted, or I’m perceiving the offer of help as somehow manipulative or coercive. Also it can feel a bit inappropriate or even patronising. I guess it depends on the situation / the help being offered, and is ultimately quite nuanced. It could be either a big red flag or a sign of commitment and care, depending on what stage of the dating etc. I think ultimately if it feels off that may be enough to trust my gut. Though I’m also working on trust and self esteem issues around feeling worthy of being supported / being able to receive support and care etc…
Anyway thanks, great video, I feel I’m making progress with my discernment capabilities and raising my standards. Chaos is now a huge turn off for me 🎉🙌
Thanks again 🙏
Yes it can...
Question: I’m in a relationship that I do want to be long term… “it”… we both have kids. Mine are high school age, his are younger. I’m not in any rush to combine families physically until my girls are older, maybe even out if the house… this could be subject to change in a year or two… it’s just how I feel right now. Am I being too selfish?
I guess.. I want us to be committed… I just want the “integration process” to be really slow. 😅
Hello Johnathan, I signed up to get a phone call but never got one. I don’t know what I should do now? Thx
Check your spam folder
I am attracted to my family doctor. Is it possible for me to make the first move? Concern about ethics and being appropriate.
If he is single, go for it.
Yes you can...
Yes, it is possible, but a few things to consider…
1) His relationship status
2) If you were to make the first move & you did (or didn’t) get the outcome you wanted, would that make future appointments weird or uncomfortable?
3) How are your interactions with him currently? Is he flirty or just nice?
In no way am I trying to talk you out of it. (I actually hope it works out in your favor) Just be sure to consider the variables and how you’d be prepared to handle it before making your decision.
All the best to you!! 💕
I wouldn't suggest it, they may ban you as a patient because they may question your motives and be concerned about losing their license. Good looking doctors also have unlimited romantic. options so odds are he's unavailable
@@daliladavis8313 thank you! Yes, is a tricky one 😊
Can I point out an observation? I am so sorry for your loss. Today you pointed to a photo of your two children and never mentioned the surviving child...
Some times I do and other times I don't.
I have noticed the same, but I know he loves his other son.
Also, I think he is about 15 years younger (guessing)
The movie is on Netflix... LONGEST THIRD DATE...2023
Yes, that's it...
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@@JonathonAslay you are soooo cool 😎
It's a crap shoot
Always great advice! BIG BIG HUGGS🫂
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