Thanks guys for all of the free sex addiction content. You guys are soooo helpful and amazing really just eye opening the things you say. I have read so many books Google so much and never found out half of the things until I found your amazing website. Thanks !!!!!
I scored a 16 on the SAST! I'm 70 days abstinent from porn and just moved some flirtatious chatting behaviour from my middle circle to my inner circle. Recovery is my new MO. I'm now 50 and need to live the rest of my life free from shame!!
You say the goal for a sex addict should be to have some kind of active sex life? Does that involve entering a committed relationship? What if due to your situation in life it is challenging to both be able to have and find someone willing to have one with you? It's also a question of priorities and values too. Whether you are willing to spend a big chunk of your time working on making a relationship thrive.
Wow, the first few minutes of this video where you describe what sex addiction is pretty much describes my husband I believe if he has sexual addiction but he doesn't. Like somebody who has a drug or alcohol addiction, how can you get somebody who very obviously has the sexual addiction to see what they have that? He has admitted a few times that he has a problem but he doesn't want to go as far as to say he has the addiction.
Denise Bond I had to catch mine in the act. Searched his phone - found a secret file full of porn. Computer, memory sticks& cards hidden around the house. He couldn’t deny it when I waved & screamed in his face.
Name it and stick with it. They often don’t want to admit it, to themselves, you or anyone else. Name it, call it what it is, and act accordingly, so you can stay safe. ❤️
How long and cost to get help from your rehabilitation clinic? And where are you located? And if a person seeking help from this disease can’t afford help at your facility what can they do? I already attend ACOA and dysfunctional families . Thanx
Now the problem is hes still so passive he doesnt inittiate affection with me it is heartbraking to need love & afection from my husband who has desensitized himself replaces me with masterbation. Does not initiate affection with me when i express i wish hed initiate afection he gets mad yells blames says mean things & becomes more distant. When he does initiate its in a way that a man that is bored would behave
A sexless marriage is grounds for divorce. I usually don't agree with divorce but if you go months or years without sex that could be a reason to divorce. Especially if it's years without sex.
What do you do when your partner doesn’t want sex again I’m 62 a recovering sex addict which has harmed my marriage greatly Now we are in a situation where she doesn’t want to have sex again The other issue is I’m a Christian and know that masturbation is a sin So when I get excited how do I bring that desire down without committing sin I am on medication and it certainly takes the sting out but not completely
Thanks guys for all of the free sex addiction content. You guys are soooo helpful and amazing really just eye opening the things you say. I have read so many books Google so much and never found out half of the things until I found your amazing website. Thanks !!!!!
I scored a 16 on the SAST! I'm 70 days abstinent from porn and just moved some flirtatious chatting behaviour from my middle circle to my inner circle. Recovery is my new MO. I'm now 50 and need to live the rest of my life free from shame!!
This conversation is very informative regarding my husbands sex addiction. Well done.
I gave all my stuff up and have come clean I still have that lingering shame . Now looking to look past that and move forward
Thanks for all your work--sharing these vids around
Dear Robert!!
This is me your talking about. Its more easy to explain to my freinds thank to you.
Love and respekt
Bengt
You say the goal for a sex addict should be to have some kind of active sex life? Does that involve entering a committed relationship?
What if due to your situation in life it is challenging to both be able to have and find someone willing to have one with you?
It's also a question of priorities and values too. Whether you are willing to spend a big chunk of your time working on making a relationship thrive.
Wow, the first few minutes of this video where you describe what sex addiction is pretty much describes my husband I believe if he has sexual addiction but he doesn't. Like somebody who has a drug or alcohol addiction, how can you get somebody who very obviously has the sexual addiction to see what they have that? He has admitted a few times that he has a problem but he doesn't want to go as far as to say he has the addiction.
Denise Bond I had to catch mine in the act. Searched his phone - found a secret file full of porn. Computer, memory sticks& cards hidden around the house. He couldn’t deny it when I waved & screamed in his face.
Name it and stick with it. They often don’t want to admit it, to themselves, you or anyone else. Name it, call it what it is, and act accordingly, so you can stay safe. ❤️
How long and cost to get help from your rehabilitation clinic?
And where are you located? And if a person seeking help from this disease can’t afford help at your facility what can they do? I already attend ACOA and dysfunctional families .
Thanx
There's so much misunderstanding when it comes to a sex offender and addict.
Now the problem is hes still so passive he doesnt inittiate affection with me it is heartbraking to need love & afection from my husband who has desensitized himself replaces me with masterbation. Does not initiate affection with me when i express i wish hed initiate afection he gets mad yells blames says mean things & becomes more distant. When he does initiate its in a way that a man that is bored would behave
I cry yurn for affection its a nightmare
I was in your position and now he’s in recovery but it’s still hard.
As a sex addict, I can tell you;that you are not the issue. If your partner declines to get help, then it’s time to save yourself.
@@beerman1957 thank you for your honesty. I hope you have found help and healing as well.
A sexless marriage is grounds for divorce. I usually don't agree with divorce but if you go months or years without sex that could be a reason to divorce. Especially if it's years without sex.
What's your view on masturbation?
9:26 what is sex addiction
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Is crossdressing an addiction?
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What do you do when your partner doesn’t want sex again
I’m 62 a recovering sex addict which has harmed my marriage greatly
Now we are in a situation where she doesn’t want to have sex again
The other issue is I’m a Christian and know that masturbation is a sin
So when I get excited how do I bring that desire down without committing sin
I am on medication and it certainly takes the sting out but not completely
Greg Stickler it’s not the sex that’s important. You need to change your mind set that sex is intimacy. Intimacy and romance is.
Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters