My ex 's birthday is also within a week or so. No "happy birthdays", no "merry xmas", no "happy new years". No more "I love yous" too. It's NOT that I don't care. It's about keeping my ground and putting myself first.If I'm hurting, they'll be hurt too or at least....they won't get any supply from me. I get nothing, I give nothing. (I actually think I'm dealing with a narcissist and I won't make any effort to get my ex back) I'm not full of hate. I'm just choosing to love myself. Time heals everything, isn't it? Merry xmas everyone else.❤
Not gonna happen unfortunately, she's permanently gone. I miss her so much but after 3 months of no contact, I'm not delusional enough to believe a Christmas miracle is going to happen.
Three months is not long. I personally had exes reach out after two years no contact and the greatest no contact success story I ever heard was 52 years. Just focus on your purpose and pray for guidance in all aspects of life meantime. NC is the best chance you have to get an ex or to heal and move forward.
My ex 's birthday is also within a week or so. No "happy birthdays", no "merry xmas", no "happy new years".
No more "I love yous" too. It's NOT that I don't care. It's about keeping my ground and putting myself first.If I'm hurting, they'll be hurt too or at least....they won't get any supply from me.
I get nothing, I give nothing. (I actually think I'm dealing with a narcissist and I won't make any effort to get my ex back) I'm not full of hate. I'm just choosing to love myself. Time heals everything, isn't it?
Merry xmas everyone else.❤
If she won't say it to you, neither should you.
Not gonna happen unfortunately, she's permanently gone. I miss her so much but after 3 months of no contact, I'm not delusional enough to believe a Christmas miracle is going to happen.
3 months is no time !
Three months is not long. I personally had exes reach out after two years no contact and the greatest no contact success story I ever heard was 52 years. Just focus on your purpose and pray for guidance in all aspects of life meantime. NC is the best chance you have to get an ex or to heal and move forward.
If you're not already in contact with them, then you shouldn't
NEVER.......