Living Interracial: Paul and Jessica Vallet

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  • Опубліковано 10 вер 2024

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  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 8 років тому +60

    Wow the look of disappointment and disgust on the faces of some of the women in the background of the wedding picture is so real smh

  • @rorschach162
    @rorschach162 8 років тому +84

    This can work even with age difference. She loves him. He loves her. Some women love older, wise and mature men.

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 6 років тому +3

      rorschach162
      Some younger men want to benefit from expertise of an older then them woman avoid drama, game playing , insecurities etc🤜🏻🤛🏾

    • @OBIANUJUAKU
      @OBIANUJUAKU 6 років тому

      I am one of those women

    • @OBIANUJUAKU
      @OBIANUJUAKU 6 років тому

      I prefare older men.

    • @ms.bubs4fun506
      @ms.bubs4fun506 5 років тому

      @WusPopN Mane? And? White women and biracial women use rich black males for money all the time. Why is it okay for other women to want a man that's a provider but when black women do it then it's bad???? FOH

  • @mariefrazier9920
    @mariefrazier9920 5 років тому +18

    Have to say, I’ve watched many of these interracial relationship videos, this is the most fascinating one because of the lessons about overcoming resistance from family and friends.

  • @somerealshit
    @somerealshit 10 років тому +60

    I cried watching this video. Because this reminds me of my husband and I.. I love my husband so much..My husband is the same age and I will be 25 next year.What a beautiful couple. This truly inspired me, Im in love with my husband alll over again. I wish you all the best!

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 6 років тому +4

      Klove xoxo oh Gosh!
      You too?!
      I thought I’m a softy ...LoL
      It is beautiful!

    • @Sergio-fu7mv
      @Sergio-fu7mv 4 роки тому +4

      Don’t worry! Love is love. We’re all of the human race. That’s it.

  • @antunesiaharris32
    @antunesiaharris32 5 років тому +23

    Every person deserves to have their happiness. Thanks Sis! Blessings to you both.

  • @angel29616
    @angel29616 5 років тому +18

    He said he had been waiting on her all his life...WOW!!😭💖

  • @MsTemptation
    @MsTemptation 10 років тому +14

    Your wife has an old soul. I am so happy for both of you.

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 7 місяців тому

      Yes she does gmhave an old soul and was so drawn to her. Congratulations on your marriage!

  • @HOUSEOFHONL
    @HOUSEOFHONL 4 роки тому +12

    This is pretty much our story so I can relate: interracial age gap marriage. God bless you two.

  • @amiiwhite8602
    @amiiwhite8602 8 років тому +16

    After ALL is said and done, I BELIEVE IN LOVE! Thanks this concludes all things for me!

  • @paulkendal1
    @paulkendal1 8 років тому +22

    really beautiful couple- so happy for them. I wish them the best of luck !

  • @reshemaewerse4022
    @reshemaewerse4022 8 років тому +19

    I am still in love with my husband after 9 years.We are best friends in every sense of the word.Even if we fight it never lasts long because we can't avoid that we are "besties".Guess what? he is 54 and I'm 33 and I can't keep up with him.Age says nnnnnnnnnnnoooooting!...only love respect and happiness!

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 6 років тому

      Reshema Ewerse
      You have made me cry laugh and encouraged me to keep staying on the course of my love to my African love . He is younger but I’m the burst of energy and flash of light . He is the calm after the storm, the desert after a meal chocolate warm and mellow . Yum 😋!
      Best of love to your relationship !

  • @glenbutler9611
    @glenbutler9611 6 років тому +6

    Beautiful Love Story!! "Persistence overcomes resistance" That's a classic phrase that needs to be patented somehow.. May God continue to bless their lives, love, and their families..

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 6 років тому +1

      Glen Butler I love the quote as well .
      The other one is “ you don’t marry you want to be with but you marry someone you can’t be without “
      🤟🏽

  • @hairlossdetective-1
    @hairlossdetective-1 5 років тому +14

    People are haters. Shes a grown woman..she knows what she wants. He clearly adores her. That's all that matters.

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 8 років тому +14

    People let things like age and skin color block them from connecting with people who can bring so much positivity into their lives. A black or white person could meet someone who shares the same interests as them but because the person isn't the same race or a certain age they'll think it won't work. That's bull.

    • @brendacarter4389
      @brendacarter4389 3 роки тому +1

      If u find true love, go for it, chase it. Opportunity knocks once, don't let race stop you. See future happiness and not color.

  • @cdropable
    @cdropable 6 років тому +6

    Great story. Paul, you express yourself very well.

  • @Sankines
    @Sankines 9 років тому +11

    Wow! Brought tears to my eyes. How can anyone fault their love? This world :/

  • @ceili540
    @ceili540 11 років тому +6

    I Love It, and I give Paul credit for being persistent, she's Beautiful and she has a beautiful smile.

  • @mrmagniffy
    @mrmagniffy 4 роки тому +2

    It is Good to see what King said for the content of character rather than the color of skin very nice!

  • @sarahharper21
    @sarahharper21 11 років тому +6

    Wow what an amazing relationship despite all those against you guys. Love is stronger than anything. You guys look beautiful together!

  • @rishona123456789
    @rishona123456789 11 років тому +3

    I love the fact, that you said, you have been waiting on her, all your life. You are a beautiful couple, regardless of the age difference. Love does not have an age, nor does it knows, the color of your skin. You both said, some positive things, and I like the idea, that you love each other, no matter what, others might think. May you have many more happy times together, being as one.

  • @valeriegrimes8337
    @valeriegrimes8337 10 років тому +2

    You guys said exactly what is in my heart. Thank you.

  • @ladyamba1
    @ladyamba1 День тому

    Amen! Lovely! I like when she said "the person may not look exactly like what you expected..."

  • @nyag1764
    @nyag1764 8 місяців тому +3

    He thought she was going to steal his phone. I'm done.

  • @neonelishuax1962
    @neonelishuax1962 8 років тому +25

    Well this was pretty coo. I wish this handsome couple the best.

  • @polasal0088
    @polasal0088 7 років тому +7

    Love is we need. Age is just a number. Jessica mentioned that her family already predicted that she would marry a white man who is perhaps older than her. So for both of them to be together, it's already predestined . May God your family.

  • @trice1456
    @trice1456 5 років тому +2

    I really like these videos they show the reality of interracial relationships/marriages it give hope and provide truth these couples truth

  • @MrTubarr
    @MrTubarr 11 років тому +7

    I think more people could find love if they wouldn't focus so much on little things such as race...

  • @wilmababygirl5629
    @wilmababygirl5629 4 роки тому +2

    This world is soooo SAD I wish them nothing but the best People need to stop hating and love 1 another god love all his children REAL TALK 2020💖💖💕

  • @rawlawgirl
    @rawlawgirl 8 років тому +5

    the age difference is more concerning than the race difference, but in the end, the heart loves who it loves. i cannot help but think of Monsters Ball.

  • @H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI
    @H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI 7 місяців тому +3

    He was STALKING Her and thats NOT NORMAL

  • @hanankuehnle8857
    @hanankuehnle8857 10 років тому +13

    Wow!!!It's not so much a race issue for me here but the age difference is like....29 years!!!I'm in love with a young woman who is 26 years old and I am 45 so I guess it can work can it?You guys give me hope indeed!!!...

    • @lucyavarda1742
      @lucyavarda1742 10 років тому +4

      Dating really young women is weird. You should probably try to find someone who is at least 30

    • @strongwoman2575
      @strongwoman2575 5 років тому

      Hanan Kuehnle sure you can

    • @ltalib6436
      @ltalib6436 3 роки тому

      My grandfather was 32 years older than my grandmother, they were happily married and had 8 children. Wishing you both many years of happiness.

    • @ltalib6436
      @ltalib6436 3 роки тому

      Oh and they were interracial 🙂

  • @lilymax1297
    @lilymax1297 6 років тому +6

    The main challenge for them is not race but age difference. He could be her father.

  • @kayzon7
    @kayzon7 11 років тому +2

    May the universal love continue to teach us valuable lessons of life, through the experience of those who love with their whole heart, mind and soul.

  • @dewalt7669
    @dewalt7669 8 років тому +12

    AWESOME COUPLE. SWEET

  • @ismailmusa5598
    @ismailmusa5598 4 роки тому +1

    Beautiful family, I'm happy for you guys, lots of love from Nigeria

  • @MSNOLLY1
    @MSNOLLY1 6 років тому +4

    Love is love . Age as long as it’s legal shouldn’t matter .

  • @FX3user
    @FX3user 11 років тому +2

    Simply incredible. I wish happiness for both of you.

  • @eleanorgreen9780
    @eleanorgreen9780 5 місяців тому

    Saw this years ago and fell in love with them. Now 2024 the story still touches my heart.

  • @mounbakko5871
    @mounbakko5871 5 років тому +2

    ... the spirit of the LOVINGS visibly resides in you...

  • @Kiki-837
    @Kiki-837 5 років тому +3

    There is no problem with age, what profit does it have to be with a young man and full of problems. If she is happy thats what matters

  • @user-ep4jo1ev3j
    @user-ep4jo1ev3j 9 років тому +14

    Not so sure about the age gap though

  • @gratitude5740
    @gratitude5740 6 років тому +1

    You just made me cryyyy......damn!
    Your story is full of love courage humour wisdom, sadness the whole emotional shining !
    I am dating a man who is Tanzanian and loves there .
    I am Caucasian living in Canada .
    His family accepted me from the day he said he has a girlfriend in Canada . His parents wanted to see me on Skype the very weekend . I must add that I am 19 years older than him. His partners may hafe a little stirred up feelings about my age. Perhaps they want their son to marry someone younger and I understand them. Africans want big families and we won’t have our own children. I have a son and he has his . If we get married and remain stable we can adopt if he wishes to do so .
    I trickled the information to my family that I have a romantic feelings to a black man across the word in Africa. My sister was shocked , my nieces cautioned me that he wants to come and get his status in Canada then leave me . My son seems to be ok but he is the kind of man that holds his emotions within. He speaks to him from time to time briefly.
    I know that I may get some resistance from family and friends but I feel I need to do this for myself and follow my feelings . I love him . I decided to trust him and God . We date with a purpose to marry not to just kill time we don’t have . We date constructively discussing serious matters and creating scenarios. I am getting information from marriage counsellors, pastors and psychologists. I want to do this right .
    If we go the way we are, this older white woman may marry the younger black man .
    ( I can’t say I’ve ever dreamt about this as al little girl . I had never seen a dark colour skin person till I came to Canada as a grown up )

  • @Aboish1981nj
    @Aboish1981nj 10 років тому +25

    at 0:24, no one looks happy at all in that pic...

    • @lucyavarda1742
      @lucyavarda1742 10 років тому +3

      Lol didn't notice that!

    • @Aboish1981nj
      @Aboish1981nj 10 років тому

      lol.. They are terrible people!

    • @buddhamedia7306
      @buddhamedia7306 9 років тому +2

      umm thinknot probably not, who's gonna be happy for a 54 yr old and a 25 yr old getting married

    • @zeezees.183
      @zeezees.183 9 років тому

      umm thinknot LMAO! They sure don't.

    • @mahletadanech
      @mahletadanech 9 років тому

      umm thinknot
      Oh no! Our White Brother preferred Other Sisters (non-white women) ALL along!
      NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
      ROTF

  • @theleslieirving
    @theleslieirving 5 років тому +2

    What a loving story.

  • @TheNiloticEmpress
    @TheNiloticEmpress 8 років тому +8

    I am 35 he is 49 :)

  • @jessicaaudate
    @jessicaaudate 6 років тому +1

    That was one of the sweetest man I will never meet.

  • @sonyahferris5510
    @sonyahferris5510 10 років тому +8

    How beautiful!!!

  • @sbeach1971
    @sbeach1971 5 років тому +1

    Their was a girl in the gym that had a crush on me. She was 22 years younger than me. I said young pretty but way too young for me. I'm glad she got the hint and kept it movin. No one will every accuse me of being some dirty old man like this dude.

  • @tecumsheaholmes9064
    @tecumsheaholmes9064 4 роки тому

    You are right, you can’t live without the woman you truly love.

  • @Yasmine1962
    @Yasmine1962 10 років тому +7

    Sweet!

  • @AT.inbetween
    @AT.inbetween 5 років тому +1

    I love your story!

  • @imankamara2766
    @imankamara2766 2 роки тому

    increase your sound please i can't hear anything.

  • @jurrisaddler8427
    @jurrisaddler8427 4 роки тому

    thanks for sharing your story inspirational.

  • @Yemms
    @Yemms 10 років тому +3

    Wow!! Amazing,...

  • @bhathornbarnes
    @bhathornbarnes 5 місяців тому

    Persistence overcomes resistance

  • @lucyavarda1742
    @lucyavarda1742 10 років тому +17

    To me it looks as if he has some black in his ancestry. He looks very much like my close friend, she looks white but there's more to her history.

    • @rawlawgirl
      @rawlawgirl 8 років тому

      i thought EXACTLY the same about him.

    • @lucyavarda1742
      @lucyavarda1742 8 років тому

      Raw LawGirl yeah he's defo got some black blood there

  • @maddiec7888
    @maddiec7888 7 років тому +2

    love works out everything, doesn't it.

  • @Nerobella2006
    @Nerobella2006 10 років тому +3

    Powerful

  • @PARALEECulbert-kz6qv
    @PARALEECulbert-kz6qv 7 місяців тому

    Hello I'm late on this video but what it comes down to is the next best thing in life to you'll is Peace of mind and if you have that nothing can stop you❤.

  • @Rishonable
    @Rishonable 6 місяців тому

    Can we have an update on this lovely couple ?

  • @dumilegugushe7523
    @dumilegugushe7523 6 років тому +2

    Love is amazing.

  • @royroberts1475
    @royroberts1475 4 роки тому +1

    LOVE IT!!!

  • @kendramarco9357
    @kendramarco9357 11 років тому +1

    DAMN! That is a huge age difference!!!! Race is the least of your worries. I guess age ain't nothing but a number. Good luck to guys:)

  • @scarvega5189
    @scarvega5189 5 років тому +1

    Beautiful.

  • @babyzorilla
    @babyzorilla 6 років тому +3

    Best of luck to them

  • @rawlawgirl
    @rawlawgirl 8 років тому +5

    he should his ancestral tree. he seems to have quite a bit of mmmm...

  • @fallindowndrunk
    @fallindowndrunk 5 років тому +2

    Man that story was awesome, it’s always beautiful to see a white person that gets it, I wish you both the best!

  • @mrswilliamstoyou3325
    @mrswilliamstoyou3325 Рік тому

    That is so sweet.

  • @TheBrownIsland
    @TheBrownIsland 11 років тому +2

    This is so Cute.

  • @cheybroad106
    @cheybroad106 3 роки тому

    That's so special. Happy Life💖

  • @giftmathebula4275
    @giftmathebula4275 Рік тому

    God bless you too 👏

  • @jappiemutezo4377
    @jappiemutezo4377 Рік тому

    Love this

  • @cind8347
    @cind8347 7 місяців тому

    I bet he IS happy. He’s 29 years older! Too old. And stalking is NOT normal and should never be acceptable

  • @dalegrays8053
    @dalegrays8053 7 місяців тому

    That's So Beautiful 🎉🎉🎉😅😅😊😊😊i!Thats genuine LOve You're Both Beautiful Couple from the Love of because GOD is Love and he wants All Creation to b Happy!! Again Congratulations Be Blessed

  • @justinanthenge619
    @justinanthenge619 2 місяці тому

    I love this couple

  • @mahletadanech
    @mahletadanech 9 років тому

    I'm 31 and the Other Brother i'm seeing just turned 60.
    Other Brothers are where it's at...

  • @marianserra8371
    @marianserra8371 4 роки тому

    So sweet.

  • @lthomas8515
    @lthomas8515 8 років тому +12

    the age gap tho??

    • @1JokerOne
      @1JokerOne 8 років тому +3

      +lolly Parkside Probably has a whole lot of money! Lmao

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 6 років тому +1

      Me and mine are 19 years age difference and I’m in debts after divorce. It is he who went after me! He know s everything about me and that including my debts . It took me to get used to the idea that he would desire me as he does . And it is not sex either as we decided to remain celibate till marriage.

  • @ruthsrants8308
    @ruthsrants8308 7 років тому +3

    i like them

  • @eloiseramsey9276
    @eloiseramsey9276 3 роки тому +1

    Interracial relationships is becoming more widespread these days. Hopefully as this trend continues, racism will end. I think, personally, that's the purpose.

  • @sandiwalker8007
    @sandiwalker8007 2 роки тому

    God bless you both.

  • @9lemonlime
    @9lemonlime 9 років тому +5

    I no issue with their race but I'm not sure that I could be with someone that much older than I am.

    • @vanessajones7087
      @vanessajones7087 7 років тому +2

      9lemonlime It's not the age that count,it's the love.

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 6 років тому

      If you are with someone for looks ( lust) don’t expect your relationship or marriage to last! Tall skinny or old , the emotional connection that counts . You cal that love . Die for yourself to live for your partner .

  • @ColRusSer
    @ColRusSer 5 років тому +1

    Sooo sweeeet!💓

  • @Sergio-fu7mv
    @Sergio-fu7mv 4 роки тому

    His dad is the real MVP.

  • @rablair1966
    @rablair1966 5 років тому

    Listing to this man, I hear wisdom. Ijs

  • @HippieMosquitoQuatro
    @HippieMosquitoQuatro 7 років тому +2

    hmmmh...i think this is less of a race-issue and more of a stockholm syndrome issue...

  • @frankieclayton9303
    @frankieclayton9303 2 роки тому

    A beautiful couple 💑

  • @Smithjgwhs3
    @Smithjgwhs3 12 років тому +1

    fornication means to not touch a woman outside of marriage for it is better to marry than to burn..book of matthew..also the book of genesis..for this cause a man shall leave his father and mother to have a wife. Not so called same race wife..

  • @katerinagiannioudi401
    @katerinagiannioudi401 7 місяців тому

    I live in a country with very few black people.
    My parents would have freaked out if I dated or married a black guy!

  • @GWENgb3B
    @GWENgb3B 11 років тому

    beautiful

  • @sbeach1971
    @sbeach1971 5 років тому +1

    He's way too old for her.

  • @Phoenix-yh6ec
    @Phoenix-yh6ec 5 років тому

    I like this channel and the perspective it brings but maybe let the black spouse speak more. This is the first I’ve watched with a white husband so initially I thought it was a wife thing. But let both sides speak equally and tell their stories equally.

  • @tomite2001
    @tomite2001 4 роки тому

    I dont like that title "Living Interracial". It should be like "Happily Married Interracial" !!

  • @brineted1010
    @brineted1010 9 років тому +3

    age doesn't matter

  • @NarnianLady
    @NarnianLady 2 роки тому

    Intense approach is fine! as long as the guy is honorable, he can approach me :)

  • @jacobdrollinger4802
    @jacobdrollinger4802 6 років тому +3

    Exactly what I said. What did you do to get that fine black woman? Interracial I have no problem with. Intergenerational? I have a problem with that. 😆

  • @animes399
    @animes399 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alking1088
    @alking1088 Місяць тому

    Good

  • @esperanzagonzalez5440
    @esperanzagonzalez5440 3 роки тому +1

    ❤❤❤👌👌👌💖💖💖

  • @user-tm4my4jb6d
    @user-tm4my4jb6d 8 років тому +2

    HAHAH Do you know how many relationships started from the man not giving up. haha Myself included.

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 6 років тому

      Samantha Taylor my guy is like that . If it was for him only we would be married already ....hahaha