Your biological clock doesn't give a #@$! about your career
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- Опубліковано 17 жов 2024
- For the first time in U.S. history, women are more likely to have a college degree than men. At the same time, these women are delaying motherhood longer and getting pregnant later in life, with the help of cutting edge technology. Lisa Ling investigates how women are having babies from frozen eggs.
I was ridiculed so much when I had my son at 23. I was married and had a college degree. Now my son is 18 and I’m only 41. He’s off to college and I’m doing a road trip next month with my husband. Most of the women who ridiculed me are barren or divorced without kids. To each their own.
Noice ma'am !!!
Wish us good luck too, yess?
So you trashed the best and creative years of your life to be a slave for another human being. Wow so jealous of you.
@@MrOssyMoro perhaps she didn't think of it as trashing her life some people see it as a gift. I had my kids at 21 and 25 I couldn't imagine my life without them. Why would you call kids gross
@@jenjen4658 my cousin had children at 16yo.yes she trashed her life, she has never been out of Italy, she can't find a job and only find miserable ones. Children are a burden to you personal development. I'm 34 and I see parents my age be culturally and humanly miserable. I gave my life to myself, I don't trash it for other human beings. I will be death in some decades so who cares?
Sadly its the modern society that convinced these people that you can have everything. No, you can't. None of us can.
Young woman gets married, has children and stays home to raise her children= no one profits but her family.
Young woman goes to college( accrues tons of debt), gets a "career" (pays taxes), then eventually has to freeze her eggs or try medical interventions to get pregnant ( super expensive), sends kid to day care or hires nanny ( more money spent, taxes paid) = government profits
Are you transgendered? Women aware like that is mytholigical at this point.
This has to be the best comment EVER. Society today is so brainwashed they can't see what's right in front of their eyes. Women's "liberation" is far worse than the "slavery" they think they had before...
I agree
It really bummed me out when my ex could not wait to go back to work when our child was a few months old. My child was raised by strangers in daycare centers and public schools. Since she had majority of custody, I could not do anything but watch helplessly.
Exactly , Olden era of Man bringing Bacon back home while women stay home being a home maker. Golden age where life changing technologies were build like Planes and Light bulbs. However , Elitist and Greedy governments had a Problem, they cant tax women staying at home.
To trick women to get out of the house to slave for the government , they have to find a bunch of bitter women or man hating women, they are definitely easier to buy a lie , sold by the government that men hated women, Feminism. These Feminist funded by government , would then went around spreading cancer to all the female species.
Boom .. the revenue went up by another 50%. Feminism is the most misogynistic ideology that tricked and enslaved all women to do the role of all Male traditional role and at the same time giving birth. Now they even have egg freezing technology to milk women's hard earned money.
Good luck ladies who drank the Feminist Cool-aid~
At funeral:
"We're going to miss Becky. She was such a great career accountant. She crunched numbers like no other."
-said no one
Life is for the self. Not others
@GunsAndPoker No. I believe in individual freedom. Why live if we are not happy? Being under the rule of totalitarian dictatorial ass holes like your self? I would rather live a happy life with MY accomplishments than live a slave being miserable at the whim of others. Also. I have empathy, I just would rather live the life that makes me happy. I could give two shits about how I am remembered by others. Your way of thinking, wanting to control others makes YOU evil. It's called FREEDOM.
@@Crazywaffle5150 I totally agree with you.
@GunsAndPoker It takes one to know one.
Bingo this is what woman dont understand
The fact that they are making up faces when one of them told the story of how a doctor told her "your eggs suck" is the problem right there.
Too many women hate the truth and never accept it until it destroys them.
THIS THIS THIS. SO much truth in this statement. Women should - but will never realize, you can't have it all. They bought the lie of an independent "career-orientated woman". Trying to look all sophisticated, putting on the pretentious facade that they made the right choice. But deep down inside you can see it. They all just want to kill themselves because they KNOW they chose wrong. You reap what you sow. No kids for you!!!!
I wanna be a wwe champion .
I'm 36 , not going to happen especially when it takes guys two years to train to become a wrestler.
Then takes a minimum of five tears to get your name circulating on the indie wrestling scene .
By my 40s I'm no longer in prime shape as a twenty something year old .
An most guys are whinding down there careers by there early 40s .
I wanted to be a astronaut and play in the NFL.
Then I realized you can really only focus on one .
See , truth is something men have learned to accept because its part of manhood and the phrase manning up comes from accepting truth.
@Nickel MgtowFACTS!
They cant handle the truth. It forces them to face reality. Most women live in fantasy land. Did you see most of the women trying to have kids? They had already smashed through the wall. They will be single mothers forever. I don't know why women feel as though if they don't have a child, then lifes a failure. Shameful. They do a serious disservice to the kids they bring into the world without fathers. Selfish.
''What is truth to a woman? for the very first nothing has been more alien, repugnant, abhorrent to women than the truth, her great art is her lie, her supreme concern is appearance and beauty''
'Arthur Schopenhauer'
You know what will make men want to marry again? Take the government out of the family.
Repeal the 19th
Preach! Until then MGTOW all the way!
Where is "making men want to marry again" mentioned in the video?
@@jazzgrrl7369 huh?
@@Grimmes12, Have you watched the video you're all making comments on here, all the way through?
5:56 "I was in a 7 year relationship that 'didn't work out'" TRANSLATION: She dumped him for a better deal, but that never materialized
She nagged him to death so he bailed, or she monkey branched
It's one of these two I'm sure
or the guy learned about MGTOW and dodged the bullet like neo
She forgot its like looking for a job....don't quit until you have a better one lined up.
She'd hit the wall by the time she was looking to trade up, and thought her SMV was still as high as it used to be.
Its only funny until somebody gets their heart broken.....then its hilarious!
She is so educated that when she was in a 7yr. relationship with a Man her dumb ass still didn't have any children.
Right 😀
Sorry but how the hell is being ignorant of biology a "medical issue"?
Because being women apparently makes ignorance OK.
@@fkhowyoufeelaboutit Jack Nicholson said, of writing about women so well in As Good as it Gets, that he simply "thinks of a man and takes away reason and accountability."
Pink Elephant some people take a while to find a decent person to marry.
@@superdoglover5676 no.
@@eowyneadig7879 tuff life aight? Why should this foolishness be a general problem for the rest of society?
This is not a medical issue, it's a natural process.
Xav X
You could say that about tuberculosis, depression, and cancer, too, what's your point?
instead of telling women to froze their eggs, they should told them to get pregnent at 20, abd then have a career
@@Silvernite lol what?
@@Silvernite I mean, ageing is natural and happens to everyone, regardless. Infertility comes with that, and that's a consequence of choice. No one chooses to get sick, which is an external factor.
"It's quite frankly not fair..." Delusion at it's finest.
also they want the health insurance companies to make it cheap and affordable!
It's the way they think.
Mother nature is rarely fair.
laughable at best
Women are happier without children or a spouse, says happiness expert
www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert
First, a needle goes into your ovary? Heck No!
Second, you can't have it all. I tell women this: If you want a child, have one early. Work (or a career) will always be there. As you can see from this video, your fertility won't.
"If you want a child, have one early. Work (or a career) will always be there"
Exactly? Why are women so f*cking dumb? If your house is on fire you don't clean out your basement, you put out the fire before your house burns down and THEN clean out the basement.
I love your intelligence
finally, somebody with some sense
Prench!!!! Sis, Why are most of yall so damn hardheaded to you're own detriment?
@Calla Mett We know your tricks hence the rise of #MGTOW. You screw around with players, "date" and do the career thing, then at 30, always 30, find some sucker nice guy to man up and take care of you. And then more likely divorce him since he was your backup plan.
Guess the Sex and the City storyline was was just that- a fantasy. The unmentioned subtext in this story is that men aren't looking for these types of women to commit to. Why would they?
jjberg83 ??? Huh? Sex and the City - 1 out of the 4 women on the show had a bio. child, with a bartender (she was a lawyer, and paid for childcare). 2 others childless and 1 had to adopt (fertility issues). If u ask me, the storyline is exactly what happened here.
You certainly did not watch Sex and the City. In the first movie (continuity from the series) the lead is left at the altar. And as they pointed out, the succesful one Charlotte has adopted kids.
...because all that life boils down to is having a man's commitment. Sheesh.
@BlueJayRobin, I know it may seem incredible, but there are women who have other plans for their lives. Interesting that you chose that number, tho, because that's how old my Mom was when she gave birth to me.
@@jazzgrrl7369 How many siblings do you have?
It's so funny. I got married at 22 and had my first child at 26. My goal was to be done having kids by 32 so that they'd all be out of the house by the time I was 50. Done! I used to envy all my peers that were still out partying and traveling, but not anymore. Now, while my kids are all in school, and my eldest is on the cusp of puberty, all of my friends from high school and college are either having babies or trying to get pregnant. While there might be some advantages to delaying a family, I think they're outweighed by the disadvantages, for either gender:
1. There is the whole biological issue for women. But while men can father children at any age, there is slightly more risk of genetic disorders as well as a lower sperm count the older he is. I know, that last part is absolute heresy among the Red Pill community.
2. While it can be argued that older parents can give their kids more material goods, I would argue that it's actually good for the kids to be around for the lean times. If they remember the tiny apartment or the run-down house, they'll appreciate the good times more. If they get the idea that Mom and Dad have always had the nice stuff, it will set them up for disappointment when they first get out into the world.
3. Taking care of small children is physically demanding, and you just have more energy when you are younger.
4. If you and your parents and your children all have their families in their early twenties, you're going to get to see a lot more generations of your posterity. In subcultures where having kids older is the norm, you'd be luck to see your grandkids graduate high school, whereas, in areas where having family when you're younger, you might even get to see your great-grandkid graduate high school.
@ Andrielle Hillis And the disadvantages of having children include less freedom, more bills, more stress, you may say you'll be lonely when you get older but I've seen plenty of old aged parents dumped into nursing homes and barely ever visited, and to be honest you are tearing someone out of peaceful non existence into a cruel meaningless world filled with disease, suffering and inevitable old age, sickness and death just so your DNA can be passed on, in truth the earth is a very hostile planet, people only have children because they are slaves to their DNA which only cares about continuosly copying itself it does not care if we suffer or not, logically leaving someone in peaceful non existence is the most loving option, rather than bringing someone into this meat grinder of a world, but people like to lie to themselves and think life is a gift and the world is all sunshine and rainbows.
The beautiful part? Now that you've started a family while you were young and at your peak, once your kids are no longer a problem you can start a career. Unlike what people seem to think, unless you're going into trucking or roofing, youth is not the end-all be-all of building a career.
As for the so-called "heresy". No. Just no. lol. Like a typical woman you're projecting your feelings and perspectives onto men. We are different "sweetheart". Our minds don't work like yours, and we are not the slaves of our emotions. We recognize that we men hit The Wall too. The difference is that while women hit the Wall at 30, we men hit it around 60. That's 30 more years we can reproduce and create healthy children risk-free.
Unlike women, the men of the Red Pill community are more than willing to embrace the truth, regardless of whether or not it is in our favor on one particular thing or not.
I am 21 and I am now realising I need to start planning my life!! My bf is luckily 5 years older than me so that buys me a bit more time than going with someone the same age.
But 26 isnt that young tbh, it seem like your friends got the best of both worlds. They got to enjoy their youth, freedom, be adventurous and build their careers. Now they are settling down to have kids and have enough money to spend more time and give them the very best. The only down side of waiting to have kids is the fertility issue, however most women in their early 30s do get pregnant.
Nah, no contest. Red pill guys know any old bastard trying to mate would poison the gene pool with their outdated and probably nasty old goop. Man or woman. Men just got a longer expiration timeframe
Woman in 20s: had abortion
Woman in early 30s: my career is priority right now✊
Woman in her 40s: I'm ready to settle down and have kids.
Men everywhere:😂😂😂😂😂😂 nah granny I'm straight
abortion(s)
the best comment.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm dead
That’s the trend, sad times
show me the20 or 30 year old man ready to settle down and have kids? No? Cant find one. Don't blame women then.
What's the problem here? All I'm seeing is people who made a clear choice. But now struggling with the consequences.🤔
Exactly. You can dedicate your entire life to your career or your family you can't do both. Chose wisely. And to those that say men have been choosing careers for thousand's of years. And to those men that have given 100% of their time, energy, desire to their work/career how was their family life? Did they see/spend any quality time with their kids as they grew up? Did their wife cheat on them because they where never home? Remember if you give 100% of yourself to a career you have 0% for family, God, hobbies, or anything else. So as you grow up learn what you want and learn what it takes to get those things, and make the choices to get those things. But realize if you make your time/energy/desire pie chart 100% of anything then there is 0% for anything else.
There's a difference between having a job and giving 110% to be the best at your job. To climb the ladder at your job. To be the best at a job. If you wanted a family maybe just get a job and give 100% when you are there and don't take overtime, don't request overtime, don't keep taking promotions getting more responsibility. Maybe just get a job, be good at it make the middle pay instead of the top pay and maybe don't try to have EVERYTHING materialistically and if you want a family maybe spend time with them? But that's just my thoughts on it.
I agree with you the short statement
They they they could bake the cake and eat it too.
big babies.
@@RossMalagarie Agreed. I see women my age (early 30s) at my work putting careers first and then (literally) crying because they're alone.
Sitting here at 21 years old 8 and a half months pregnant with my first. I still have goals and career plans other than just being a mother. But I also completely understand why people would keep putting this off thinking that there is a better time.. I don't think there is a "right" time to have kids. I just decided I'd rather deal with them while I still have the energy.
Toni Jackson I had my children younger and was a stay at home mom for years then went back to school when they were in school. It was the best decision I ever made.
coptic777 the real misogynists are the woman who judge other woman for their "lifestyle" choices, not the woman who are living their lives how they purposefully choose to live them.
Sarah Dunn I believe women like the op are miserable and want other women to join in their misery.
That is a horrible idea for these women bcoz they wld be in forth year of uni applying to grad school bcoz let's face it they grad, med or law school women. Its early even for none career driven women in uni reasonable is 25 these days.
My mother has 5 kids, she owns 1 hotel and manage 1 karaoke. It's possible if you want it
You waste 60k to freeze eggs why not just have a child
Because they want to have kids with a rich CEO, but they are all busy banging college girls 😂😂😂😂
VIVA LE FEMINISM
OK Candy I didn't say you should be popping out babies with any bumper on the street. I had my kids with a nice man I'm sure others can also. They were worried about making money not babies. If you're going to wait until your almost 40 there are usually problems.
Need a husband first. One must come before the other.
Because sometimes you don’t wanna have kids yet. If you have the money, why not? I don’t see the problem here.
Men do not want Christmas cake in February.
Very clever- I like it!
@Becky chat and Learn cave Becky Men no longer care what you want. Enjoy your cats & boxes of wine to keep you company
@Becky chat and Learn cave Becky Really? because Hugh Hefner was banging hot chicks all the way to the grave.
@Becky chat and Learn cave Becky yeah you do. Or I should say you want the old limp cake's money.
Becky chat and Learn cave Becky I see old men banging young chicks all the time.
Doctor: How do you like your eggs?
Lady: ......Fertile?
Doctor: Lol no they're scrambled.
I d like my eggs frozen, please
The ball's on this woman who says insurance companies should step up and cover the egg freezing process....LADY PLEASE. This is not a medical issue. You chose your career over getting pregnant at an ideal age....now deal with the consequences.
There should be no consequences
unfortunately there are consequences for the innocent child - risk for congenital conditions, neurocognitive disorders, and even the incidence of childhood cancers are higher.
women are saying let's play russian roulette with the baby's life.
It is a legit scam too. It cost $20,000 and only has a 12% chance of having a successful pregnancy.
@@Pastor_Sempa the same degradation in reproductive health happens in men over 40-50 years of age, I don't see anyone policing men.
"Consequence" is a forgotten word in today's society unfortunately
The wall is undefeated. Mgtow is freedom.
jason speratos all these women have hit the wall indeed
@@Grimmes12 There is no such thing as the wall, there will always be simps and thirsty men willing to date these women, just put a profile for a 50 year old woman on tinder and watch as the matches come flooding in, women never hit the wall.
@@Grimmes12 Keep coping, Jason Momoa, a good looking celerity with fame and high status is with 50 year old haggard Lisa Bonet, Hattie Retroage is 82 years old and sleeps with 3 men per week and even gets 18 year olds with ease, even an 86 year old granny would get more 1000x more matches than you on tinder, don't believe me? see for yourself.
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@@kowalski4130 and you keep coming up with technicalities and starting debates with random folks because I never said anything about the wall until you brought it to my attention
The vast majority of men hit the wall the moment their father's sperm fertilizes their mother's egg.
"This is a real medical issue for women". No, it's a choice. YOUR choice. So accept the consequences of your choices, and pay.
Agreed. This is no medical issue. Its a choice. But they want it all. A good career and fertility.
Lol. Is that really too much to want? We're allowed to have jobs and kids.
@@kimberlygonzalez9911 nobody said otherwise. But it's your choice, nobody is forcing you to do anything. It's only logical and fair that you pay it with YOUR money, not the community's money.
You must be rich enough to support a four person family on your single income then? I don’t know about you but as a women my parents pushed me like crazy to go to school to be a doctor so that I can support myself financially in case I have to. Then if I get married and have kids we are dual income family. Why are so against this? You must be prepared then to financially support everything
@@MrDameech Like men. And we have.
40 year old men care more about fishing and early retirement than starting a family with women who have been with other men sexually for 25 years +.
yeah, because they should all stay virgins for life
@@b1000-t1s
Thats an either-or arguement and deflection away from the point that its silly to expect traditional relationships at 30-40 years old as a women. Very typical brainless response. Sex in the city was television not real life.
@@eyezwideopen7590 it's 2019, there's no traditional anymore when the price of everything is absurd. settling down is not always a fully controllable choice. look around
@@b1000-t1s
Except a womens reproductive worth and value to a man. Thats still traditional. Tick tock. Tick tock.
@@eyezwideopen7590 then how come they're all asking for divorce?
No fathers were harmed during the making of this video.
Don
Hahaha wait for it...waaaiiit fooorrr iiiiitttt!!!!?
This comment is hilarious af!!
Lol
Why should insurance pay for it? Life is about sacrifice and you chose that. Everyone knows after 40 it's hard and more risky to have children. This is not hidden information. Dont make excuses I'm sorry.
*after 30. Frankly, I suspect risks might start noticeably rising by around 27.
@@Thalanox after 35....
Amen
Don't fall for this crap. It's very Expensive and not very successful. Have them young. Its the best choice and in most cases the ONLY choice. All you need to know is in the very title of this video.
I agree with you but I know for me I am taking care of my mom so I won't be able to have children until she passes. It doesn't always work out.
@@jesuschild07able Sorry to hear your mom needs such help. Your a good daughter. "It doesn't always work out". Yes. Preaching.
Just a thought.... When you imagine yourself on your deathbed, do you really think, "wow I should of worked longer on that deadline and waste all my youth." have your children. Then have your career. You don't need to be rich to have children. These are all wants. You WANT to be a mother at 40. It's been scientifically proven getting pregnant in your 20s is biologically better for baby and mama and worst at 40.
MehlMaus Having children is a biological instinct, logically it is immoral to bring a child into a cruel meaningless world filled with suffering, disease, inevitable old age, sickness and death, the world is very hostile for humans, we only have children due to our evolutionary programming, our DNA just wants to keep passing itself on it does not care whether we suffer or not, so no having children is not some great achievement, in fact it just repeats the cycle of suffering and death, but people don't want to admit that , they like to pretend life is all sunshine and rainbows.
@OSCAR Jowkowski There is no purpose to life dumbass, we only reproduce due to evolutionary programming, our species is set for extinction anyway and the universe will inevitbaly die from heat death, having more offspring to prolong the inevitable is pointless.
@@kowalski4130 NICE COPE LMAO
FFS AUTISTIC FUCKS EVERYWHERE wtf is wrog with wanting to have a baby later than 20
As a nurse I can tell you that majority of elderly people are on their deathbed alone and there kids barely visit them. I highly encourage people to enjoy their lives, their youth, freedom and be adventurous for as long as possible before they have kids. Atleast you have fun/happy memories and did everything you wanted to do.
These clinics are making a fortune.
And good, loving self respecting men are not interested in these eggs. DNA traits already showing a lack of being able to give love in reciprocity. No brainer
Egg freezing, box wine and pet food are the industries of the future, mate
I'm 30 with no kids; not married. With that said...60k to freeze your eggs????!! Hats off to these women. But for me, once it's too late for me to have children I'm just going to adopt. There are plenty of children here already that need loving parents. No judgment though. I wish these ladies all the best. But the money and the hassle , not to mention dealing with a high risk pregnancy if it does works out, isn't worth it to me.
At the age of 32 is still okay. My mom gave birth to me at 35 years-old.
"it's not fair" ..... your right, welcome to life. round things roll, fire is hot and feelings don't matter at the end of life.
If you do not desire solitude, it is a long time between 40 and 85 to be alone.
Pick your path carefully, every path has costs.
And yet a blink
Crazy how society says you can have whatever you want and people eat it up. The problem is we are the society, but play by life’s rules. And life doesn’t give you what you want, it gives you what you deserve.
@@aetank_yyteawu3436 I disagree, life gives you whatever the fuck it wants to give you. Doesn’t matter if you deserve it or not. Plenty of messed up things happen to those who don’t deserve it at all. Sometimes shit just happens at the fault of no one. It’s just the way the cookie crumbles. People think they have so much control over things but really…a lot of times you don’t. Life is random sometimes. I’m sure many women did not plan to be single and childless. It just happened that way and there’s no need to feel bad about it and it doesn’t mean you have to be lonely and with no one else in your life because of it
I'm no genius, but I have a feeling the massive thumbs downs from these videos aren't from women who are pissed they wasted their fertile years, but rather people who are pissed at the new algorithm changes that are pushing CNN and other big media over smaller channels. They have a right to be pissed. Good thing youtube lost 70 billion for alphabet, their parent company, recently. Alphabet will have to pay if they want to keep promoting big news channels over smaller youtube creators
with all the neckbeard women hating comments on here, I believe the algorithm managed to hit middle-aged men who were dumped recently.
@@Underyourbedeyes interesting. Thanks for commenting. i really wanted to change my comment to 70 billion from 70 million which is what i originally inaccurately commented. Lol
@Timothy Clark Do you live here? lol. I do.
@Timothy Clark But why leave? lol. Jk. I know why you left. If I leave here it's probably because the women here are not my type. They are massively overweight and have no shape . Thanks tortillas and margaritas
Women always telling someone they need to "step up"...men, insurance companies, the state. "Step up" just translates to "someone else pay for this thing I want."
Dear feminists...step up.
But then it's men like you who spit in my face when I say I don't want kids or a boyfriend. Wtf... Some people are never happy
Lilith spit in your face WOW the DRAMAtizations! U will stay single lol!
Jean P. G. What a hateful person you are. No one forced those men to date or marry the woman they are with. You are absolutely wrong that all men want to date 20 year olds. Majority of men actually enjoy being with someone they connect with and love. You are obviously immature on this issue.
Lilith Scyther was that literal spit or figurative spit because in the 70s at 9 yo i literally had had a woman spit in my face because i held a door open at the hospital for my sister who was in labor followed by "best you learn now woman dont need men to do anything for them" now i don't treat woman bad or disrespect them i give them what feminists demand i leave them alone i dont talk to them i dont assume they need me to buy them a drink or anything. I also had a vasectomy just so i wont accidentally get a woman pregnant and "ruin" her career. When i die all my assets are going into a family trust for my biologically confirmed nephews that specifically will only pay for tuition books fees and board while enrolled in a trade school. Thus more college and university spots will be available for women.
Brett PGH Bitter much? It takes TWO to make a baby you idiot!
Honestly, I somewhat wonder why it even matters. So many people seem infatuated with the concept of biological children, yet there are plenty of children who would gladly wish to be adopted. Besides, it saves the women the misery of pregnancy, even if the adoption process itself may be complicated.
@angelicwildcat no thanks
Its not the same and you know it
You should be the example if that’s how you see it. Kind of sick of people always going the route of Do as I say not as I Do.
I like how the not one mention of having a father involved was brought up.
Heaven forbid you actually want to raise a stable human let alone have one when nature intended.. Be a good mother or be a good career cog. Pick one and own it..
women and morons do not understand the importance of a father recently. fathers teach children how to be adults, women raise babies and kids. without fathers, we have children running around pretending to be adults because they have no guidance.
@@ew6230 THANK You
@@ew6230 "fathers teach children how to be adult"..."women raise babies and kids"... Interesting. You just forgot to point out the "father's" who abandon the family... definitely they raise adults 🙄and the women who raise real adults without the so called "father". It's disgusting seeing"people" like you acting like only children without both parents can go wrong we even when the reality proves you wrong every damn day/year/era/century and more disgusting when your argument only referees to the women, like we do the children by ourselves, and never reference the so called"man/father" to the responsibility...very misogynist of you. "Congratulations"
@@evalinacesarcassule5097 you simply cannot understand
Exactly. It’s all about them, not the welfare of the future children… wtf has happened to these people…
What’s wrong with simply
not having kids? Or adoption 🤷🏽♀️
E M. because you will be the crazy lady with the cats at 45
@@SJ-lt6yf nothing wrong with that. Everyone loves cats 🐈
@@SJ-lt6yf Dude! Cats are amazing!
Whats wrong with wanting your own biological kid that has your own genes? When adopting you don’t actually know the medical or family history of who you are adopting. So no its not the same
@@imdinma9826 Nothing is wrong with it I just wish there was a policy that made it so that people had to adopt a child before having a biological kid or after having 1 biological kid to adopt 1 kid to have another.
One more thing... What kind of husband do they hope to find when they are 35-38? Because any available 'career successful' guys are mostly taken by then. Or are very rich and will go for a 21-year old supermodel.
40-year-old virgin Poindexter can be the husband....as long as he never realizes how his sexual market value has grown with his net worth.
@@carultch yeah but she’ll never respect him. And then she’ll mistreat cheat on and divorce him
And i can’t be the successful women because it will hurt men’s ego?
Just wait for the divorced one at 40 because that's the age for the most divorced.
@@davinky1229 you can be as successful as you wish. Far more than me. But it you are 40, I will still chose 22 years old college girl instead.
For all the men saying that it isn’t unfair, would you be alright with supporting a family on only your salary then? Don’t complain then that your wife stays home and has kids without working if you are so opposed to her having a career. A two income household is always more stable than a single income household. You wife has her own money to take care of herself and you both share the responsibility of the child financially.
@Harvey Smith sources please.
@Harvey Smith most families world wide can't survive off just the father's income. I really want to read the proof of your statement
I’m waiting from these women... “it’s all the men’s fault!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes blame the patriarchy!!!
Truer words were never spoken. 🙇
The Rockefellers (technically the creators of feminism) were men. 🤔
@Forsworn they already have, women can't find economically attractive men. NY times
@nithin raaja Proof: ua-cam.com/video/KEYVNIm_wp8/v-deo.html
As a women who had no luck dating in her 20s and is now in my 30s: it wasn’t my choice. I got rejected all the time by men. My career is just regular: nothing fancy. So just posting this for all the red pill men who think we all choose ‘to wait’ and for the girls like me who aren’t that appealing to men.
And how many men have you rejected?
@@abi71200Good question. Women get it so easy, men are so easy to please compared to women's demands.
pride and ego can be quite a quagmire in comparison to loving, giving and receiving mutually.
If you can’t have kids there’s another possibility you can adopt
To many children need parents
Virginia Fascetto *Too ;)
Eat a Tide pod theyr delicious!
Virginia Fascetto inthink adopting is great but I would never love an adopted child like a child I have so i def should not adopt
Too many dogs need a home too. They’re just ugly as shit.
Beside the point kitty.. after 30 get ready to suffer.. that's why you fucken listen to advice. Your youth isn't forever . Time runs out beauty goes away. Wash out with your career goals.
Wait, that lady said she cried for a year on the thought of the inability of having a biological child but then immediately said "so what if I focused on my career." Isn't this a classic case of sacrifice? You sacrificed your chance at children to maximize your career potential. That's the "so what".
Exactly!! "So what if women want to pursue their careers". This dumb rock cant even convince herself she made the right decision
Women are delusional. Feminism taught them that they can have it all and that they are entitled to it.
I believe they call it opportunity cost.
There isn't anything wrong with putting your career first but expecting to have your IVF Etc pay for because you decide to put your career first is ludicrous. Let's flip the script and say that men were having the same issues where they put their careers first and finding out that their sperm becomes defective over time........ should men expect to have a corresponding procedure become free for us? No.
It's easy for men to make snide remarks at women waiting to have kids or not having kids at all but don't realise that having even one kid creates a massive pay gap for mothers compared to childless women, one which is never recovered no matter if mothers continue working or not.
Men simply are not affected the same way.
Besides, pregnancy is very risky for a woman. Why would a woman choose to risk her life giving birth to sons that end up hating them. You only have to see this from the hateful comments left by men here.
About the pay gap.
Does not the husband/ father financially support his family?
Don't welfare countries pay chuld benefit fund?
@@saadiaahmed6617 So are you saying "Women should depend on a man to supplement any of her earnings lost by having a kid"
@@RedFlyingFox007 yes because the child is very much the father's responsibility so why should he not provide for the family. Its a bilateral contribution from the two parents.
@@saadiaahmed6617 Good. I'm glad we agree that women should be compensated for the labour and opportunity costs of child rearing.
Career women needn't worry, a wage is just the same as a child.
When you get home, your wage runs to you, gives you a big hug, and tells you they love you.
You enjoy listening to your wage talk about their day at school.
Watching your wage grow and make you proud is great.
The best part of course, is being eaten by your many cats after you die.
We kept telling you about this, but you didn't listen to us, because we're men, and you think you know better. Wrong.
You didn't listen to women with families because they're not feminists, and you think you know better. Wrong.
Women not listening to others is why they're so unhappy, and getting more unhappy each generation.
okay mgtow, no one asked you
I didn't mention MGTOW.
Labelling others does not make you right. Try making a point.
Lololol... troll:) mr. know it all... you forgot to mention the endless sleepless nights when the baby wont sleep, the long lonely days spent in yoga pants and mickey mouse clubhouse. The never ending cheerios, apple sauce and who knows what that is on the floor. The screaming... the yelling... you cant even leave your house for 10 mins to take a coffee break. Damn.. you cant even shit in peace cause toddlers are banging on that door... when that becomes YOUR life Mr. Troll for more then few hours on the weekend... then we can consider listening to you... until then... bitch nobody asked for your damn opinion!!!!🔥🔥🔥
It was my life when my son was a baby, and I enjoyed every minute of it, but then, I'm organised.
I like how you presume I only offer a few hours at the weekend to my child. Is that what you reduced your child's father to?
Ha! so true.
I asked a chinese why they don't marry ladies in her 30s and he respond that asian ladies over 28 are a high risk to have children with birth problems, the risk grows exponentially after 30.
I have read the comments and there is not one which comments on women staying in their 30s to have kids.
My career doesn't give a sh%#t about my biological clock. LOL
Here's a crazy idea:
Stop selling women on competing with men and start selling men on the value of relationship and building a family unit... Oh wait, that's "regressive"
There shouldn't be a competition however everyone should be independent and able to support themselves before getting into a relationship. That means getting an education or at least having a trade to support yourself. Life happens too fast and tragedy is always around the corner. Married couples with a house full of children, the breadwinner dies or leaves plunging everyone into poverty. Why take that chance?
It's easier to do the former though.
@@Lioness_Es I agree. Its alot harder to support a full house on one income compared to the past. But the attitude that comes with it is wrong.
A lot of single women & single mothers have or have had this attitude where "I dont need a man" (only government and multiple men) because I make $$.
A teamate says "yes!" now I can build and create much more with my future partner.
@@Lioness_Es Everything is competition whether you like it or not. That's human nature
You know this is not a gender competition, this is a national competition? Women are forced to go to work for national strength. It effectively double the workforce, lowering the wages, and increasing the quality of the workers. With a huge pool of workers then the nation could fight on the stage. China force women to abort every children except one cause them to be free to work in factories thus increasing the GDP of China. Meanwhile India do not and there's still expectation for women to stay at home birthing numerous children so their economy is not as good as China.
Everyone should work so the nation remain competitive. What's the point of a 'family' when your nation is weak?
My mom had my sister when she was 34 and me at 36, at that time she was considered too old to be a mom I'm sure she had heard all the nonsense about birth defect and down syndrome risk escalating in pregnancies in mid to late 30s and early 40s. It turns out that me and my sister are healthy and pretty smart. I say this is a business, like someone said down below if you're meant to be a mom you will be. However if you're thinking about becoming a mother in the near future just don't go sleeping around with random guys, STDs are a major cause of infertility both in men and woman and abortion can also hurt your fertility regardless of your biological age. Heck I've even seen woman becoming pregnant at 40 and just fine!!
hahah yup that's my mom (40) and I never even get a cold 😂
@James Dean don't use oranges in an apples fight :), be better
If you want to focus on career,you cant be good mother.Not cause you are bad as a person,its cause raising a child is like full time job.And to disapoint you...age does mather...not just im the biological way..
The problem is that the U.S. economy requires women to begin working A.S.A.P., & sometimes both the man & woman needs to work to make ends meet. Everything has gotten too expensive to the point where many can’t afford to have kids early.
not a medical issue at all.. why would an insurance company cover it? that is just ludicrous. First off having a baby is a voluntary choice, second postponing it to further your career is another voluntary luxury.. what's next? you think insurance should pay for your vacations to the Bahamas as well?
sbkpilot11 in my case it was a medical issue. At 22, I was diagnosed with a condition that meant I could go into menopause at anytime. With no guy in sight, my doctors recommended that I could retrieve my eggs, and freeze them. At 23, I froze 11 mature and 3 immature eggs. Yes pregnancy is a choice but some of us have medical conditions that may limit that choice.
sbkpilot11 why do they cover Viagra then?
Lack of children in first world countries is a huge problem for us (especially white people who are basically dying off). I would personally donate to people who decide to have children. Too much feminism not enough feminine women. We want women to work and do everything a man does but now. . .who takes care of the feminine work? Who takes care of the house and children. That's why so many couples fight now. Both work so neither want to care for the children, house, social responsibilities, etc. Women are even starting to look like men.
Wait white people are dying off? LOL I agree though women and men are equals but were created for different roles. Women are created for childrearing and being keepers of the home. Sorry ladies dont get triggered does not mean you have to but its what we do best
@ Karmen Fox: no, Karmen. It's what YOU do best. Some of us would go insane with that lifestyle. But that's the beauty of it, isn't it? The CHOICE to do what's best for each of us. So, please, don't go off with your cliches that it's what "WE" do best.
The wall is out there. It can’t be bargained with. It can’t
be reasoned with. It doesn’t feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will
not stop,…… ever. Until you are old, alone, and with your cats.
Every beautiful woman dies twice, the first time is when she
hits the wall.
Hahaha. Kyle Reese
At least they had their good times. And you were always irrelevant, unless you are handsome or have what others don´t. It´s a blessing that pornhub exists.
"Type A kind of person"
Got some bad news about you, you are not a type A person and you failed to prioritize.
Its only funny when women have been led astray by other women and beta cucks, spending the best years of their lives prepping to become good, loyal tax serfs and debt slaves. Then its hilarious.
@P.O. Spot on. Let these carreer women become the new batteries for society while we go minimalist and work to live while they live to work. Equality at its finest!
Is that funny? I find it sad.
"..doesn't give a #@$! about your..." CLICKBAIT
One word ADOPT! There are already children in need of love people!!!
lalala land how many have you adopted?
Pyrrhus of Epirus 2
absolutely! people who can't love children(just because it's not their genes) should not have children !
absolutely! people who can't love children(just because it's not their genes) should not have children !
+Thomas Hoffman then why getting offended with advice of adoption ? shouldn't you talk to your partner and ask her to lay eggs for you . rather than taking advice from strangers
Advice I got in my 20's: Don't have kids until you are financially stable, educated, married, & have a career
Advice I got in my late 30's: You're running out of eggs! You should have had kids in your 20's
Can't win 🤷♀️
Depends on what's more important to a woman, career or having a family.
no one can have it all , men who focus more on study are called nerds they dont have a girlfriend but later on when they are rich they invest money and time to ger laid , men who are womanizer and waster their 20s in chasing women dont have money in their 30s...women who want family can have family and the time for them is from 25-30 the most ideal age , if you dont want that and want career then no harm please do but then dont expect to have best of both worlds ( as with men )
Freeze your eggs all you want. It's the health of your uterus that matters. Want a baby? Get married and pregnant before you're 30 years old AND be faithful to your husband.
I love the misogynistic comments made by salty men.
The comments that women who are in their 30s somehow went from man to man in their 20s alongside pursuing their careers and how them panicking now they’re 30+ and childless mean they somehow deserve the panic and deserve to remain childless.
Completely unfounded, but so vitriolic.
Get a clue, fellas and be concerned with your own lives.
One problem these women face is that no man wants it to feel like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. These women expired years ago and hit the wall without wearing helmets. Also egg freezing is a total scam.
I'm a 57 year old male, I used to be a martial artist and weightlifter. I'm amazed at how much my body has gone downhill in th last 20 years, in terms of flexibility and endurance. I have two friends that waited till their mid thirties to use IVF. One conceived after about one year, one never did. There will always be the exceptional ones, but from what I've seen and heard, most women who wait beyond their thirties are going to have real trouble conceiving. Sorry but that's all I can say. Steve
everyone gets old, pops.
Mind if I ask what is and was your diet?
You’re forgetting that ectogenesis is coming up.
Oh great! ... another poor victim (woman) who wants others (insurance) to pay for her poor choices in life.
Haven't we seen this before in this welfare country?
Mr. Spock how do you know why her relationship didn’t work out?!?! A lot of losers think they “need” welfare because they can’t keep their pants on and produce a bunch of illegitimate kids. Some people, male and female, just struggle to find the right person.
@@eowyneadig7879 Nobody forced her to open them leggs.🤸♀️ And nobody forced her to choose the "bad boys"😎
Funny how all the females do the exact same mistakes and complain when they get older.👵
Acting like nobody warned them and they never saw it coming...😉
Sipe the story never said anything about her being with bad boys.
Having biological children is overrated. Just adopt. Mother's love should be unconditional
It's not a real medical issue,u chose to wait longer...can't beat father clock
Mother nature is a b*tch
Father Time is a b*stard
Do any these women really want us to believe that despite all their college degrees and PHD's they NEVER ONCE HEARD their fertility rate diminishes as time goes by? That's common sense, ladies! Like, birds and bees schoolyard stuff. Is this a friggin' joke??
This egg freezing business is just sad. Focus on becoming a great partner that a high quality man would actually want to commit to before it's too late.
No amount of quality can force a man to marry anyone. Marriage is not a reward for being an awesome person.
@@PaninaroAurora Read my comment. Did I say anything about forcing? Your comment does not apply here.
@@BroTheDude -- No, you didn't say anything about forcing. But everyone acts like becoming the best possible version of yourself is *guaranteed* to get you a partner, and that lacking a partner means you're still not high quality enough.
It's a great idea to become a high quality person anyway... even though it's still not going to magically make someone choose you for their partner. Nothing is guaranteed in relationships.
@NightWolf yeah all those 20-year-old men lining up to get a long-term partner. LMFAO. Every one of you "supportive and caring" men are trying to get laid by every girl in the world, and once you do finally commit in your 40s, the men are the first to run off if their partner gets ill or sick, statistically, or leave your children. Really you're all nothing but sperm vendors. Useless otherwise.
Chick: I’m freezing my eggs
Same chick: i DiD evErYThiNg rIghT iN LifE.
No, you had one job.
Woman's ambitions is the best contraceptive ever made.
True!
Raising healthy, well adjusted, stable children is MUCH more important than ego, wealth, autonomy or combat ability. A strong family is the key to having a strong society. The Spartans knew this. Spartan women provided strong and sometimes tough psychological support to their boys in order to produce the best warriors. Great mothers produce great men.
Just gonna ignore that they abandoned disabled babies and abused young boys just to use as weapons
advice to men, do not get involved with a successful career woman in her mid 30s. she got there and is there because she has prioritised herself and her ego over everything (which is fine..its her own choice). But now she sees that its time for her to have a baby..for the same narcissistic reasons. you are only there because it gives her a chance to have what she wants and you're the one who gets left with the seat at the end of musical chairs after all the other men she has had have been cast aside. you will never be her priority and there is a fair chance the child might not be either. run away..be successful, find a younger more reliable woman.
I chuckled. Great post.
So true.
Have seen so many "career woman" finally settling for a man below their "potential" and once child comes, husband is left alone.
The crazy thing is that even if they get pregnant after 35, closer to 40, or even after 40, they may not be able to carry to term. They might endanger both their and their babies health.
I get wanting biological children, I desperately want one and I’m 27. It’s really not foreign news that fertility starts dropping at age 30.
If you are in your 40s and really want to be a parent, you should consider adoption.
It stops only if you don't take care of yourself. Which is typical for most Westerners in their youth.
There are women in the world who remain fertile well into their 50s and 60s.
@@lMP5602 yeah thats bullsh!t
@@TusharSharma-cy9xo In parts of Asia, it is happening.
@@lMP5602 I am from india, which pretty much covers 41% of Asia's population and i say that what you're saying is bullsh!t. If you're a man, learn better, what you're saying is completely false. And if you're a woman, come out of your delusions if you can and accept the truth.
yes, because males are SUCH a sure bet. We all know men never leave and marriages don't break, ever, right? Right?! Right...
@Entrenched Mgtow meanwhile 90% of men casually scoot away from their unfended newborns and vulnerable wives/girlfriends. It's become somewhat of a thing amongst men to pretend they have decensy when all the stats are stacked high against such statement.
But at least you got your circlejerks to get back to.
Why the hell would insurance cover egg freezing? Insurance is there to cover you in emergencies/situations that are out of your hand. Having kids is entirely based on your life choices. Women need to get a bloody grip on reality.
I think you have answered your own question.
the first asian one talking.. she said "I was... 38/39..." when I thought she is 29. wth
Julia L - some asian women can look 20 years younger than they are.
It's not their looks that matters, it's their clock.
Well, some women honestly just can't find husbands and don't wanna be single parents for those of you hating on career women. Not everyone wants to be a single parent. tbh a career woman will very likely create insurance that covers it.
F Offenton So she has standards? Wow what a concept. You have standards too, bud. Like you wouldn't date a ditch pig, she wouldn't date a broke ass who can't get his shit together. Boo fucking hoo cry me a river.
@@lesleysmith9122 Okay, but a man wants a thin virgin who has no debt or tattoos. "So he has standards, wow what a concept."
@Jamilla Dobson Whether they're cheating or not, women only sleep with one person? Sure about that?
ua-cam.com/video/Te6L0PrMmTw/v-deo.html
And as for what you saw on tv about the 1800s how men had wives and a mistress on the side, tv is an indoctrination mechanism used to program people on what and how to believe. The feminist gynocentric society always portrays men as the ones who do this, they do that and women are always innocent. Here's proof of that:
ua-cam.com/video/0H1EkSAmbHk/v-deo.html
@Jamilla Dobson Women have cheated since the beginning of time. The fairy tale of women being loyal just doesnt work in todays society. Life choices have consequences and these women are finding that out. Its what adulthood is about. Marriage in America is a joke....most dont make it close to 10 years so many men are opting out....the reality of family and divorce court
@F Offenton you sound mad, dumb, short, flabby, ugly and broke.
Jesus. This is so easy to avoid. You don't need to try to beat the biological clock. Just have children in your 20s! Jesus...
Amen. Easiest to get pregnant, best for the babies, and the mother recovers the quickest...
Exactly, have kids just after your degree, stay with them for 10 years then have a go hard at career if you want to
Men also should have children in their 20s. Most of them don't want to.
@@nullenbuffeh3201 Men don't have a small fertility window. Why should they have kids in their 20s? I don't get it...
@@murozman men have a biological clock too... Have you not read what happens to sperm after 35 of age? It's not as good as it was when younger. So if a man wants to make a baby he should be a father at ages about 20-31, same also goes to women. No one should make babies when they are 40... And also what makes a man think he could choose from 20 year olds when he's 40?
As a career coach I help people with shifting their careers all the time in their 30s and 40s. So much easier to get into your career than it is to start a family as you get older.
Why not adoption? It seems kind of silly to stress out about getting pregnant when there are so many children who need love. I'm 31 if I don't find a good man to have a family I'll be a foster mom and from there adopt.
superb title...your biological clock doesn't give a #### about your career...and neither do potential fathers...
I couldn't believe the liberal feminists at CNN threw PC out the window with that title lmao
@@Grimmes12 me either brother...
Yes, the title doesn't sound CNN-ish at all.
I am male. And even back in basic school, I knew that I wanted to be done with becoming a father around 30. Many friends asked me - why?
We knew not much about the effects of age on female fertility and especially I did know very little. But I knew one thing. I wanted to be a father to several children and in my young mind, a father should be young to keep up with the kids.
Probably because my father was rather old, in my eyes.
Anyway, my answer always was the same: "I want to be able to enjoy my life after the kids are out of the house and about 50 you are still young enough to do the interesting things."
Today, I still feel the same. However, as my ex robbed me of my fatherhood years, today I would consider becoming a father once again. Even if I would never see grandchildren in the time I have left.
What happened? Was it the lady's career building priority that came un family's way or else? Only if you'd like to share.
Saddened to read how you said you were robbed of your wish to father kids.
I wish you get to be a loving father to grateful kids.
I'm 36, female, and want a child but don't want it bad enough to go through all these procedures/process. If I happen to get pregnant naturally, then that's awesome! But if not, then I'm okay with being child less. I can always get a dog, be happy with my partner (just the two of us), or adopt (but I'm not interested in this route). Plus I already have three nieces and two nephews, and I have brothers and sisters. I know I'll be okay regardless if I have a child or not.
I understand and sympathize with these women. We do have a time line as to when we can get pregnant, where as men, can still reproduce in their 70s. Not fair at all but that's the reality of life.
As for the men that makes horrible comments about feminism, blah, blah, MGTOW, Blah, blah, yea..go ahead and do that. Go be by yourself and don't bother to have a relationship or children. It's a good thing because your genes will be eradicated. Lol
I ignore men who have this type of mindset. Not worth my time. These type of men don't realize that men need women and women need men. Nothing is gain by pitting males and females against each other. We as humans (males and females), need each other. Point blank period.
Terrie Smith, the reason most men choose not to have a girlfriend and get married, have children and settle down is because their wives divorce them, take the house and then the husband has to pay alimony and child support. Basically they don't want to get fucked in the divorce courts and sleep in their cars.
dat boi~Totally understand that. That's why I say, go ahead and be MGTOW. No one is stopping you. It's your life. You gotta do what is best for you.
Like, I said, I ignore men like this (mgtow), there's literally no point in convincing someone to want what they don't want. It's a waste of time.
I only date men who are interested in marriage and kids. If not, that's okay too, that is their prerogative, just like it's my prerogative to only date men who are marriage minded.
I have nothing against MGTOW. It's their life, their decision. Got nothing to do with me. Just as it's my right to ignore men who are mgtow.
Again, men need women and women need men. Life is more fun that way.
Søren 3.0~Hahaha😂😂🤣🤣😂Bitter much???? I know you're lonely af and the only way women will fuck you is if you pay for it. Lmao😂😂🤣😆
My bf and I are very happy, planning our wedding and right away we'll try for a child. And I recently cashed out my bitcoins so I'm now worth more then you'll ever make in your lifetime.
Don't flatter yourself.......sweet cheeks. 😁😂😂🤣
✌✌DEUCES!!✌✌
Abigail Wold~I agree, dogs are better than some humans. They are loving, loyal, kind compassionate, innocent. Truly a gift from heaven.
Terrie Smith chances are men wont approach women as it is now against the law to say hi to then on the street
"I didn't do anything wrong to deserve this."
"It's a medical issue!"
Woman! You wasted your best years for getting married and have children! It's your fault!
not everyone had a person to marry and mate with at a younger age. Whos to say the man wouldn't commit, or that he didnt want kids then. Why is it her fault?
The fertility company CEO saying : "It's not fair that I have to spend thousands of dollars to preserve my fertility"
This shows it's all about business. If the service is paid for by healthcare coverage women will be pressured to do so, meaning huge bucks for the industry.
Insurance is supposed to be for covering unexpected catastrophic expenses, and to promote regular checkups to avoid unexpected catastrophic expenses. Not for elective expenses like artificial reproduction, that are only going to exacerbate your healthcare expenses (by adding the child to your plan) in the long run.
Expecting health insurance to cover artificial reproduction methods, is like expecting car insurance on your pickup truck to cover the purchase cost of a trailer to tow behind it. It is a choice to add the trailer to your truck, and it increases the insurance company's liability on that policy.
I dont understand why women are so obsessed with having children. Life is so much more. Not everyone need to have children.
Then why are they obsessed with having children? Because life feels empty without a family.
@@thepatriot9969 I´d rather have an empty life than one full of shit. Failure rates of marriage are enormous, but everybody thinks it can only happen to someone else. There are cases, in which women have to pay for years for their Illusion of a happy family. I mean, your husband or wife is not your father or mother. Why do you think that they will stand up for you and not for themselves if hard times come? You are more or less a stranger to them and you are replaceable. You may dislike it, but it´s reality.
it seems that men are more obsessed with telling women they should have children.
Because biology kicks in
I can see a lot of women opting for this and artificial insemination in the future
Even if they freeze eggs most guys don't want to have kids that way
LANCE true
@@sxm2009 but I guess they will prefer a healthy kids as compared to a kid with high possibility of genetic diseases.
Pretty sure they just want to be single moms using the sperm bank.
A lot of angry guys commenting on this video when throughout the entire video men are hardly mentioned.
We talk because regardless of the facts it will be our fault.
Millennials nowadays are on minimum wage and can't afford a good house. How on earth can broke 20 somethings afford to raise a child with no house, crappy job, and no insurance???? These women are trying to be responsible by getting a good job and house and find that it's too late. Sad!
Exactly
TheNineteenKing
She has to find an older man
By "No house" what do you mean? You can always rent very affordably.
joe lee that is def not true in new york or in many other big cities
Get a suitable man to marry. A man who is somewhat older than them.
Let's be kinder to each other, both men and women. Let us not forget we are two halves of humanity, and neither gender is a monolithic group. We are all individuals.
Its cheaper just to go with younger women. There's a biological reason why men are attracted to younger women and why women over 40 have a hard time finding mates.
so they can make more babies they can run away from?
@@Underyourbedeyes like women making men to pay child support
I can’t believe a video that actually admits that older women are less fertile and quality and quantity of eggs is affected by age. Shocker! A weak host is a weak seed!
Look at all the smiling faces of these career driven women. They are dying inside their souls because those Easter eggs in the basket are cracked and spoiled. Like their entitled mindsets have a good one.
many women don't want kids. Have a good one.
Underyourbedeyes but these women do
My sister dont wanted kids and she is 43 ,still dont want one and she's far happier than me,who is not career driven but trying to settle down with my boyfriend anytime soon,but if my bf throws me out of the house someday,I might have a tough life. She's not gonna have any of it.
You sound sad because many women don’t want kids haha, cry more
Yay for adoption! No pregnancy needed, the ability to take life at your own pace, not adding to the ever increasing population while helping a life! OR how about not all women want children?!
hi, i'm curious about your comment. Some weeks ago I had this conversation with a friend and we were talking about how being a mom is not very compatible with building a succesful career, and she told me, well, don't get pregnant and adopt after you built a career.. but what about my own children? I've always thought about adopting, I think it's a beautiful and noble thing to do, I probably will if my income in the future lets me; but what's wrong about wanting also my biological children if I'm perfectly healthy and can have them and can become pregnant. She acted almost like i was being terrible for wanting that, as if I won't love both children the same. I'm a women and thank to that I'm able to experience pregnancy. i don't want to miss out on that. I don't think I'm being a bad person at all for simply wanting that..
+Vanessa Saint Well said!
+Thomas Hoffman men who think children are problem should never have them at the first place . I bet they are the ones only to fertilise the egg and leave the woman after baby pops up because somehow the baby isn't perfect enough
+Thomas Hoffman beta male is the one getting offended at an advice given to women ? are you a women and your right to reproduce being taken away ? if not then don't be insecure !
+Thomas Hoffman you need to learn to read ! I said that your right to reproduce aren't fucking taken away ,what are you crying about ?
Rockefeller is laughing to the grave this was the purpose of feminism
Michael Geneste ye...so true..I don't want my vote anyway..fuck being treated like a human..blame rockefeller..😒😒😒 oh my god.......
Saoirse Rosenstock it's not that his plan was to cut the cost of labour and the best way of doing that was to also put women in the work force so now people need 2 incomes to survive.
@Joi Powell Late bloomers, that's why. Am one of them, just be patient and give us your kindness so we can do better.
ze ez you are so right on the money
I came here to laugh at you
Me too, women facing the ugly truth
Hahahahahahahaha
@Jean Nichole Hernandez The fact that you actually believe that shows how little you know about nature and science, but this is neither time nor place to even begin to try to convince you otherwise. The best.....or the worst thing is that nature will convince you....in time....without fail because when nature fails, that is the exception, not the rule. Good luck!
@Jean Nichole Hernandez I simply had to comment.... What an impressive ilussion, Jean!
@Jean Nichole Hernandez You really think being 60 while your kid starts getting hormonal is a good thing?
Women age like milk. It's not matured, it's spoiled.
This is what women need to talk about.
Loud and often!
It's almost as if women have to make a choice. Have a family, or a career. No halfsies, no having it all.
Also. Should women become single mothers at 40? You'll be 60 by the time the kid is 20. Think about that.
Why would any women even want to be a mother? To me its a waste of your life.
@giveagoodsong Thank you.
Not all women who have kids late are chasing careers. Some just can't find a guy they mesh with
@giveagoodsong that's a moot point because we are all flawed. No one is perfect.
@giveagoodsong I'm not blaming anyone. If anything I'm sick of women saying men are shit and sick of men saying women are whores. Lots of men are single not because they are horny assholes who just want to use us and lots of women are single not because they're chasing careers and bypassing good men. Some people just take longer. It's like people are worthless if they don't get married and have children before a certain age. Also people who are single and work on themselves and still nothing changes. Some people are also just unlucky
The problem nowadays is the reliance on two incomes to support one household. Women spend years trying to better their financial situation to prepare for children, only to realize that it's too late sometimes. I myself come from a high-fertility family with cousins and aunts having lots of kids (3, 4 +), yet they try to tell me to just "stay in school and get a good job to take care of yourself". It's so hypocritical. Yet they have multiple children with different fathers sometimes.... And I'm married, yet still on birth control due to the insane costs of renting. Double standards abound. Perhaps I'm just ranting now... It's not like we don't want children, we literally cannot afford to create a stable life for them without delaying childbearing.
Problem started with feminism and women joining the work force, it was great for employers/corporations because they had more wage slaves and it was great for government as it nearly doubled the tax base, cost of living rose, a few years ago a man working on one wage could support a family, not the case anymore. The more I look at feminism, the more I believe women were sold a lie, even a quick glance at Tinder and its unbelievable the amount of 30 + single women on it, we're starting to see the negative impact of it.
Why are you on birth control because of renting?
Freezing eggs, surrogacy or using a donor should be a choice that anyone should have the right to have.
However, it's really sad that the options are either to have kids naturally and have no career, or to have a career and freeze your eggs. Society should get to a point where having children in your 20s or early 30s (which is the healthiest and less risky way of doing it) is in no way an obstacle to women nor to men. Also, it would be fantastic if we talked about ADOPTION a little more. There are still so many little ones in search of a family.
Cecilia Pvs seriously, where are you women getting your "education"... ?
"It should be a choice everyone should have"... There is literally no choice or anything in the WHOLE universe that everyone can have.. your starting premise is flat out wrong.
Having children in your 30s is certainly not the healthiest option if the woman never had a child before. The doctor in the video even says "I prefer women to come to around 25"...
Then there is the problem of costs... IVF and freezing of eggs is extremely expensive and worst of all there aren't a lot of doctors who specialize in that field to begin with, so unless you find a way to increase the number of doctors in that field it will never be cheap and there is no way institutions are gonna cough up that kind of cash for something that has a 15% of materializing without a health risk to the mother or child (more costs after investment).
Why women want to buy a cow when nature had given it to them for free is says a lot about female "logic", nothing comes without a cost, if you have children early then you impede your career prospects, if you have your career first then as the knowledgeable women said in the video your chances are slim even with IVF and egg freezing.
Heck experts in this field don't even recommended it to healthy women, and that was said in the video 8:48. This is supposed to be more of a last resort option.
"Choice for everyone" really?....
David, with my first sentence I simply meant that I believe that everyone should be free to decide for themselves and we should never be so arrogant to forbid or force anyone when it comes to their own body. I wouldn't pick IVF or surrogacy for myself, but I don't feel like I am in any position to tell anyone else what to do.
If you continue reading my comment and manage to get over my flawed premise, you will see that not only I understood the content of the video (so no need to explain further, but thanks anyway for taking the time), but I actually pretty much agree with you. This is the reason why I was trying to open a conversation with regards to the issue of women not being able/prepared/ready to have kids when it's healthiest for them and the children. It is clear that this is something that is happening and the numbers are growing, so maybe we could think of alternatives or ways of tearing down barriers that sometimes prevent women from choosing to conceive in their 20s.
Lastly, maybe you want to look into what makes you feel so angry at the category of "us women" when the opinion of one of us (not that I think I speak for all females, but I'll take it as a compliment) is not exactly the same as yours. I am certainly always happy to learn more from other people's point of view, but being this aggressive on your part is not only unnecessary, but also quite unpleasant.
Have a great day!
There’s also ectogenesis, guys should freeze their sperm too when they’re young because sperm quality also declines with age.
There's a simple solution here, DONT HAVE KIDS, focus on urself and ur job.
Right
I can’t believe we’ve reached a point in time where women care more about their career than having a husband and children.
The brainwashing done by the Rockefellers apparently succeeded. 😑
Wow I can’t believe a woman is ambitious and wants to contribute, has passion and dreams aside from child rearing. Gosh I just can’t believe it.