Death Valley Life #9: Making Progress, and Trying to Help Our Friend
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- Death Valley Life #9: Making Progress, and Trying to Help Our Friend
11.6.21
We make some significant progress in unpacking and decorating, and our friend "Elmer" moves onto the property. "Elmer" has been helping us fix stuff nearly every single day since he first showed up in October, so it made sense to have him park his trailer onsite, so he doesn't have to commute 45 miles each way. But he needs help! Anyone interested in chipping in to help Jim can so at his GoFundMe page:
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I am also a veteran nearly 79 years old. I admire you and your sister for helping this guy.
I picked up a guy the other day and the guy said Thankyou but wasn't I worried about him being a serial killer , i just laughed and said what are the chances of two serial killers being in the same vehicle at the same time ?
Oh wow I literally just had that conversation in all seriousness with my husband recently. An older man dressed like the Gordon's fisherman was walking the wrong way on the freeway desperately waving for help with a gas can. We turned around at the next exit to help him and beeped/waved to let him know we were coming. We went and got him some gas and upon our return he was gone. We thought well he must have got picked up. Then we thought about the weird circumstance of him walking the wrong direction and no vehicles broken down anywhere in sight for 10 miles past where he was. And we thought we might have dodged a serial killer bullet. Then we mused over the thought of another serial killer picking him up. And what are the chances of that. Of course that led to a hilarious scenario of a serial killer stand off in the car, whereby they eventually become friends, trading techniques etc. All the while both knowing they are trying to kill each other eventually.
And there's our little sick sense of humor story hope it entertains someone
Looking good lady! I totally empathise, having changed over all my furniture in the past month, piece by piece!
Sarah you are the best of the best. Jim 80 years old and helping you & your sister, plus passing on valuable knowledge. In return, letting him park his trailer at your compound. In my books you girls have just won the Nobel award. It is totally shameful how Vets are treated. Hopefully, you might have rich people watching your videos and maybe with a little luck one of them might buy a brand new SUV for Jim. That would be the icing on the cake. I will keep my fingers crossed. You should have your own TV show.
She Does 🌝
You made me cry Sarah, I'm an old vet from Nam, can't drive so I walk. 6 miles to grocery store o I get light stuff. People drive by like I don't exist
Says it all right there.
It's alright,I survive ty
Where are you Sir, Sarah has alot of followers, maybe someone out there close to you can help. 👍❤🇺🇸
Thank you for caring about Jim and all our veterans. This world is nuts.
Reach out and help an old person when you can . Remember your turn at being old is coming . You will be amazed how it good it will make you feel . They do possess the wisdom of the ages .
I'm old now (76), was drafted in 1968 but was not accepted (born with a deformed hip), but still donated to Jim.
Donated. Regarding Jim's knee, the distance to the VA, and the VA doctor who's likely incentivized not to treat Jim . . . "Veterans that live outside 40 miles of a VA facility or who cannot see a VA doctor within 30 days are currently allowed to use the VA Choice program to see a private doctor close to their home." It's called the CARE program.
Thanks for sharing this info
The CARE program still can only do so much for Jim in remote areas as this. He could get a local doctor in Pahrump but for major procedures he still will have to come to the Las Vegas VA Hospital which is one of the most modern in the US. Pahrump only has limited medical facilities and is the only city close to him besides Vegas. I know all about CARE being a Vet here in SoCal. And your comment about the doctor not wanting to help Jim is not useful. The VA here in SoCal treats me very well and just built a $100 Million facility in Redlands for the Vets 5 years ago.
@@georgespalding7640 Agreed, but he can get a second opinion, and likely one that will differ considerably from the one he got from the disinterested VA doctor.
@@Freempg it happens, I just try to keep going till I get the help I can get. Dr.s are just regular people to.
If they get very busy. Just have to wait or go somewhere else. If he's 80 year's old, shouldn't he have Medicare and Medicaid? That makes a difference in getting more options. Anyway, I always send prayers and love to all veterans and seniors. Hopefully he will be getting help soon. I thank Sarah and her sister for helping him. That's amazing awesome friend.💞
The VFW and American Legion is a helpful resource for dealing with the VA, as an advocate. You, likely won't achieve it by yourself
Additionally, using Medicare is appropriate, when I don't get adequate care from the VA, even as a hundred percent total and permanent disabled veteran. I wish him well! Best of thoughts
Loving these new Death valley blogs!🇺🇸
Unfortunately our elderly are considered worthless and not worth repairing, after a certain age your doctor will recommend not doing anything to alleviate certain conditions and just allow you to suffer, or just offering pain medication. We always have enough money to go to war and kill people, but never enough to have Peace and care for the poor. Amazing...
My wife is to be 95 next month on the winter solstice. She is mostly deaf and has advanced Alzheimer's. The latter prevents her from understanding why she is required to wear the stupid, suffociating Inslee (naned after our dictatorial leftist/fascist state governor) mask. For that cause she just will not keep it on. That in turn has inspired her Mediscare doctor and the bureaucracy that he works for deny her her annual Mediscare "wellness check." The doctor's advice a year ago was to submit her to hospice. I know of a woman in Pennsylvania who outlived her welcome in a hospice custodial institution, and guess what happened to her. i suspect that the bureaucrats there have their own name for it, but I would call it "Murder One."
64 and in need of a complete knee replacement. The Doctors have been less then helpful. Cash and carry baby. I have become non viable in their eyes
You are so right Sara Jane! We treat out elderly terrible! That us so sweet of you to help him. He has a lot of knowledge to share and we should do all we can to help him and thank him for his service. Love your compound. Good luck at the sale!
Sarah you're an awesome lady with a good heart. As an "old" veteran, too, it's a pleasure to kick in to help Jim get a good truck. Hope your "clan" overwhelms the Go Fund Me for Jim and gets him the best truck ever! Love you, Girl! 💖💖💖💖🙏 And I wish more of your clan members were able to come and help you with the monumental tasks ahead of you in your new home. Seriously.
I honestly think this is one of your best videos because of the message you gave us about not having a hardened heart. Your positive attitude towards friends you haven't met yet and trying to help Jim really shows you are a great person.
Death Valley Compound..”Secure the perimeter!” That’s sweet, you gave Compound Grandpa a place to stay..
That's very kind of you to help a senior citizen. 'Jim', the resident handyman!
Mike in Oregon
You're home is really coming along. Great message, wishing Jim all the best!
God bless you i'm 71 and not able to get around no family and hear from nobody so i hear that guy so bless you for helping him
It not fun being lonely
I understand I am sick and have nobody I never thought this would be my life.Bless you hopefully things will get better. 💕
Yes, happy to help Jim. First time I have used GoFundMe... what a wonderful way to help people in need (and Jim is certainly deserving).
Great job WonderHussy! And another most excellent VLOG. Keep em coming!
Just donated. Jim sounds like a great guy who deserves a break. Your place looks much better. You can tell a big difference since the last time. Good luck.
Sarah, it's wonderful that you are helping Jim in his time of need. I'm a Marine Vet who has been fortunate not to have to deal with the VA. It is terrible the way they treat Vets like Jim. Thank you for your kindness.
It’s a classic last line of a video I’ve ever heard and seen!
Love back to you 🫀
God bless you Wonderhussy! As a veteran myself I thank you for your wanting to help Jim. I served in the Marines and my last duty station was 29 Palms Ca and I learned to love the desert! I was duty driver, driving VIP's around and Joshua Tree national monument was where we went a lot, and we would pick up a park ranger and he would guide us on a tour. I loved it!
Semper Fi, '72-76
❤ thank you!!
SEMPER FI 75-79 82-89 Spent alot of time at the stumps.👍🇺🇸
@@kennysherrill6542 Semper Fi brother!
You've made huge progress even though it may not feel like it while you're living in it. Your vlogging is just as interesting as your travel videos.
Yup! You kind of hit the nail on the head for us Vets .. I'm 76 and close enough to Jim's age so I understand his plight. Still planning one more trip to DV before it gets too cold .. maybe I could come by and see what he might need and if I could give him a hand. Still want to get in some exploring .. I am aiming for sometime after Veterans Day! ... to about the 26th .. I usually go out for a week. That's my story and I'm sticking to it! 🤠
Good man! If I could get away, I'd go do what I could as well...in the mean time, donating.
To follow up on Jim’s plight .. being retired military I use the family camps on the bases .. lately I’ve run into a couple bases that did not want me sleeping in my car .. I could put a tent next to it and they would be happy. I think so many people are actually having to live in their vehicles that it’s freaking out the bases. I now call before I go to any base to find out their rules.
Thank you for the lesson in Hope and Caring ❣️
I hitched to CA when I was a teen in 78', nice folks picked me up there and back. I always make an effort to help folks out.
So true about how the “media” portrays life. I quit watching tv because it’s such bs. Good for you for your attitude and wanting to help!!
👍👍👍👊😎
My former father in law spent years in his retirement driving veterans to the nearby VA hospital to get medical treatment. I have to give him credit for his volunteering. He’s passed away now, but I want to give him credit for his efforts. RIP- Tony L.
Well done sir.👍
Sarah Jane you’re a beautiful person with a loving heart thank you from the old retired guy👍👨🏻🦳👍
As a fellow desert dweller I will say this. Good luck with the dust. You can tell you're freshly moved in ( no dust) also it looks like you may already have gravel somewhat in your yard but I highly recommend more for two reasons. One is it helps keep the dust down and two it keeps the mud from being tracked in when it rains. Just a suggestion.
Maybe a humidifier would help.
Yes, I confirm desert dust will take over and encourage her to let go and become more minimalist. All the exposed "stuff" will be covered in dust before long and require cleaning. And there are too many 'dummies' crowding such a small space! You are not in Vegas anymore! 😉
Oh yeah, good advice 👌 👍
Must be a bunch of newbees to the channel in this comment ! She had plenty of dust/sand in the house and they do have a humidifier / swamp cooler.
@@DAVIDBrown-zp8sz not a newbie at all
My heart goes out to Jim, I can definitely sympathize as we were not allowed into Arizona Charlie's RV park because we were driving a van pulling a cargo trailer (that has windows, ac, electric and water hookup) because it wasn't a traditional RV. Luckily we got a spot at the KOA next to Sam's Town. They don't judge and it was cheaper.
I write this as my leg is propped up due to a torn meniscus (major knee problem). Hang in there Jim!
hey wanda -i have a torn meniscus and got a knee shot every nine months and will ski mammoth mtn this winter and get surgery in the spring
@@dethray1000 so happy to hear! Makes me think of a better outcome.
Sad to hear, how people are. Donated a little, hope it helps Jim out. I understand not having a dependable vehicle. My old truck struggles a lot. Take care, Sarah.
Sarah, Thanks for helping that older man. Virgos are the caregivers of the zodiac! May your Good Karma bless you a 100 times! With being almost 70, older people are treated like crap now a days!
wow you are special, to let him stay on your land, loved this video. I so agree about the world and the news. Really hope Jim get's help and a new knee.
Way back in the 90s, a group of us got together to help a friend move a piano. The friend had gotten it for his girl friend. So while horkin' on that beast, one guy asked, "Hey, Bubba, why
didn't you buy her a guitar?" And my 2 cents worth, "Or a harmonica?" Oh, the item on the "bar"...Should have had 4 of those as hub caps on your pink Lincoln years back.
Chipped in to help Jim. Thanks for the update and love to you and Sis...and a better truck to Jim.
See It looks great 👍. You both have worked really hard. The house is coming together. Jim is a lucky man ..... kindness is rare & he is helping you out & teaching you how to do things in your house & property. That is fabulous 😀 so a great exchange . Have a blessed week 💖🌟
Rent a shipping container, or a large cargo trailer, keep your stuff in there until you can finish the house. It would give you a place to sort what stays and what goes as well.
It was a privilege to donate to Jim's GFundMe page and see how the amount grows! 💕
Isn’t it interesting that the people who have the least are the ones who give the most. Sarah Jane and your sister are angles to help Jim and allowing him to help you, most surely makes him feel he has a purpose. Love ❤️
Thank you for sharing this Sarah ❤️
You are such a great person for doing that. I've been lovin'your posts.
Greetings from Italy!I cannot believe I found your channel!You must be a sign!I love Nevada, I love Death Valley, I love the Eastern Sierras and I love the USA!
I cannot wait to come back, pay a visit to Vegas and Lone Pine and travel through the beautiful South West!
Ciao ciao!
Thanks Sarah, Jim's lucky to have a few people who care enough to look out for him. It's sad but true folks just don't respond the way they used to. I've pulled over to help people on the road and you can tell they more afraid then they are appreciative that someone stopped. Kind of sad to think that this the same country I grew up in where you could stick out your thumb when things didn't go well with your car and folks would stop to help or give you a lift. Wish I was out that way I'd give his van a go over and see to it he's able to get around safely. Thanks for being a true American WH!👍🇺🇸
That guy in your office scared the beegeeezes out of me!
Yep, the baby face one you just caught a glimpse of? Jeezalou, that was a double take, lol
Headed to Vegas and Death Valley this weekend. Perfect time of year to visit I think!
Just donated to Jim's cause. A veteran helping a fellow veteran. Thank you for your service, Jim. Thank you Sarah and your sister, for letting your fans know, so we can all help.
Time to recall that it’s the journey, not the destination, always. Sarah, you are a ray of sunshine.
Yeah, when you opened the door it was like the scene from the Wizard of Oz where it goes from black & white to color! Your place is really shaping up. Must be nice to feel like you’re finally settling into your new desert compound
Letting Jim place his home near you, just solidifies you are truly Service to Others. What a wonderful soul you possess. Love your videos....🙂
Looks like a fine start to a great hoarder house... : ) OMG, where's the cat!
God bless you Sarah, thank you for bringing us this story. We should take better care of our vets. I pray that this video will allow Jim to get what he needs.
Yes! Jackie Gleason also made music.He was a band leader. Truly a man of many talents.👏👏❤️✌🏼
Gleason is the best …. ‘and away we go !!’ 😎
My mom had all the Gleason records and Ray Coniff too.
“…and AWAY WE GO!” Oops dating myself there. I actually got a signed photo from him when i was a kid…
Ughhh you're a riot Alice, a real riot! BANG ZOOOOM 😁😂😁😂😁
And away we go !!!!
Your Jim is just a few years younger than my dad, who is also a vet named Jim. I'm happy to contribute to the fund to help your friend get into a newer and safer tow vehicle. Best of luck to him.
In my last life when I didn't have much I'd often hitch hike or walk along highways. I think it's pretty safe to say walking along a highway is not something you want to be doing. I ALWAYS appreciated a ride when offered.
There are a lot of vets like Jim. I am lucky being in Phoenix, with a large hospital! I have big problems with my back and had several appt. missing work, only to be told they decided to do nothing for me! I was so angry with the system, but no skin off there backs. CARE would be a good option for Jim. God bless you for caring WH!!
Don't be fussy, Wonderhussy! We had to replace the flooring and carpeting in our apartment and two years later, I'm still looking for stuff in boxes, paying for storage and finding dust! Just do what you can do, and try not to be overwhelmed! Also, I watch the "Minimalist Mom" for motivation! I loved your "Leaving Las Vegas" video
amen will be preying for him, from a fellow vet.
Just get Jim started on the baseboard trim, closet drywall etc. You're way too busy SJ. Plus he'll feel great for being allowed to pitch in. When I was able to pitch in, it made me feel so good !!! Utilize your assets !! A neighborhood kid is helping me now, and I cannot believe how much we are getting done. Plus now he has pocket change !
I wish the kids in my neighborhood had some desire to make a few bucks.
Your house is looking very good, I knew you and sis would make it happen. Well it took the VA 25 years to admit my injuries were service related but in the meantime they gave me great service and health care. I'm still waiting on the money part of it but my case was unusual because of what I was doing. I would do it all again if I could, I love this country and my people and If everyone in this country looked after each other we all would be alot happier. Thanks for helping Jim I know he loves being needed I know, when you find yourself alone the worst thing is not being needed that's why I still help my ex, even though she drove me nuts it's good to help someone. There were alot of good suggestions, there are organizations that are willing to help Vet's with vehicle and their very willing to help. 👍👍👍👍👍❤🇺🇸
I slo-moed the bar area 3 times and didn't see anything odd. Either we have the same sense of humor or I'm dense as a post!
As project manager for 20+ years, I know task dependency. You'll get there. Thanks for helping Jim.
Desert 🏜️ Sarah, you and your sister are kind and considerate gals. Glad both of you founded your PARADISE in the desert. Both of you are YOUNG and BEAUTIFUL❤️, and have a lot to look forward in life. Hope I meet you Sarah by chance once I relocate to Vegas soon. Stay safe and healthy 24/7! Peace ✌️ always.
Hello I usually watch your videos and not comment; however tonight I felt like commenting and saying thanks for helping “Elmer” out. I appreciate you sharing his go fund me page allowing others to assist him as well so he can continue to make more meaningful impacts on other peoples life’s.
Like to thank Jim for his service and sacrifice 🇺🇸🇺🇸 compound is shaping up 👏👏👏
So Funny, on the living room table is a book of "Dessert Images" LOL, just walk outside!
here We come Wonder Fussy. Save that Town! danged Vegas carpetbaggers
Totally LOVED your comments. Esp about how the media excentuates the bad. I'm on SS myself but see what I can scrape together.
Sarah it looks a lot better than before but when you get more time I know it’s going to look gorgeous again ❤️👍you don’t know how much you have until you move make sure you girls don’t over do to much at one time
I thought the comment about old people was a dig at the vlogger ,so I thought weird she looks younger than forty really,but it got me watching,I started watching documentaries about super Max and bribing customs officials. Crazy how I got here ,seems like a purposeful ,nice life ..riots in Ecuador prisons ,covid ,me unemployment problems. I'm going to watch a few more of these,cheers me up.
You sound happier. Good for you. You have time.
Some very wise words Sarah, makes you wonder about caring for your fellow man. It's a damb shame. God bless you dear! 😎👍
The ManicMaN IS PERFECT as an empty suit.
Donated. We need more people like Jim.
There was a time that most vehicles were unreliable and before cell phones that people would stop and help or call someone at the next opportunity for them. Now when someone is stuck by the side of the road we mostly think, well they'll just call AAA or it's a trap to get you to stop and get out of your car.
Always happy to help a veteran in need.
Watching you for awhile now.... you are the Huss
I am a USAF vet who uses the VA for most of my healthcare. I donated to Jim's cause because I can. I believe in passing it on...Good luck Jim!
I love your new place it is already so eclectic and artistic. I don't want to be creepy but I would so love to take a tour lol. I live vicariously through you and your family and friends thank you for being open to giving us a virtual tour. Love tagging around the desert with you. From Vegas and an old ladies point of view you are living the dream.
Sarah, you deserve better. Good luck xoxo
Nothing like a train wreck, you can't stop watching it.
Jimbo must think he hit the lottery.
I`m sure he`s such a nice guy wanting to help you guys and all. Old age isn`t easy for all of us. I`m retiring soon and I`m not sure what will happen other than someday I`ll croak.
That's really cool, I saw Peggy Lee in Vegas back in the early '70's...."Is that all there is, is that all there is?
If that's all there is my friends, then let's keep dancing
Let's break out the booze and have a ball
If that's all there is"
Wow, a Jackie Gleason album cover. He should have received an Oscar for his role of Sheriff Buford T. Justice in "Smokey and the Bandit".
I can't believe that you too have a copy of Jackie Gleason's Music, Martinis and Memories LP. It was one of my parents favorites, and I am now the proud owner. The music is definitely a trip to that era with no shortage of dreamy lead trumpet and background violins. A true classic
Hey hun, you ought to call your little VLOG “Death Valley Daze!” Just an idea
Sarah,
I’m sure the Lord will bless you on Jim’s behalf. Someone who has such compassion for people as you and your sister deserve goods things to happen for them! I’m sure your followers will come through for Jim’s cause!🙏🏻✝️🙏🏻
There's a channel called Curiousity Incorporated on YT that did a fundraiser for a guy they knew that was always helping everybody out like Jim apparently does. That guy was living in a 5th wheeler because his trailer burned down. He didn't have enough money for propane for his heater, so the guy from that channel started a go fund me. They raised enough money that the guy wound up being able to buy a small fixer-upper house for himself.
Miss Sarah. You are a very kind hearted person.. The elderly hold things that we all can learn from.. He teaches and you 2 learn. Good people are still out here. You and your sister are one of them... Thank you!!
Caught Up In Alls Eternity!
We've been staying in our van, taking care of a family member for the past month.
Thanks that was great.
im glad you are doing better with your moving you just neede it to get read of some stuff it was too much stuff love watching your videos from california,
Check with your local VFW, DAV, or American Legion and see if they have any grant money or relief funds available for auto repairs. Also Jim should request a referral from his VA doctor/nurse to be seen by a private knee doctor through the VA's Office of Community Care. Lastly his local County Veteran Service Officer should know what benefits/resources he may recieve because he is a veteran. Hope this helps and wish him a Happy Veterans Day.
Good advice.
Donation to Jim complete. Thanks for helping Jim, Sarah.
Im edtje from the Netherlands,i love what you are doing, echt waar,you have a speciale place in mine hart 😘
Donated, paying it forward. Kudos to you for helping Jim and good luck to his quest toward his truck. Bummer no one stopped to help. Please thank Jim for his service to our country and is there an P.O. Box/address we can mail support type stuff to him?essentials,etc. Stay awesome!
Space You Can Finally Rest In Must Feel Good Getting out of That Rat Rase Too! Also You Know who Hi sis and your New Help Also !
Hello from May 2023! It looks like with the assistance of our hostess, almost $19k was raised for Jim 🎉
I hope he is able to get from place to place with more ease now, would love an update on this dear man 💙
Several years ago I was driving somewhere SW of Lubbock and passed a man wearing work clothes and crrying a convenience store bag walking fast along the road on a vast open stretch of highway many miles from town. I did not stop and offer him a ride. I still feel guilty about it to this day
My experience with the Las Vegas VA Hospital (VA Southern Nevada Healthcare System) has been very good.
The hospital is awesome. It opened in 2012 at a cost of $600 million dollars. (The first newly constructed since 1995).
It's well staffed, clean, organized, bright (lots of windows). There are also four VA clinics located around the greater Las Vegas area. (I'm a 67 year old US Air Force veteran. That hospital and staff have saved my life...twice)
I’ve been trying to post a comment that wonderhussy should check out the VA website but it won’t post. The website tells all about free transportation for Jimmy to and from VA. Disabled American Veterans is another source. Has anyone posted specific links to the VA?
Love the new villa. The silence is deafening. 👍