8 Types of People To Completely Avoid

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  • Have you had to deal with some difficult people in your life? Did they put a certain type of strain on your relationship? While it’s true that no one is perfect, and everyone has their good traits and their flaws, there are some types of people that can cause you more harm than good. It might be best to avoid them for your own well-being and happiness. If you find yourself described in this video, that's okay! Sometimes, we got to work on ourselves and that starts with being self-aware, self-accepting, and knowing that growth is possible.
    Writer: Ria Parikh
    Script Editor: Morgan Franz
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Animator: Sam Rain
    UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References:
    “How Rumors and Gossip Can Actually Make You Sick” (2020). WebMD. WebMD Medical Reference. Ambardekar N, reviewed by. 08 February 2020.
    Inoa M. “Self-Esteem and Toxic People”. Full Potential Counseling. N.d.
    Steber C (2018). “15 Behaviors That Can Make Someone Toxic To Be Around”. Bustle. 09 May 2018.
    Van Edwards V. “Why Fake Friends are Ruining You and How to End a Friendship”. Science of People. N.d.
    “7 Types of People You NEED To Avoid” (2019). TopThink. 01 October 2019.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 2,7 тис.

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1505

    Does this video remind you of someone you know?

  • @D13GG5
    @D13GG5 3 роки тому +1964

    the title: “8 people to avoid”
    the thumbnail: “you”
    me: 👁💧👄💧👁

  • @killjoymofo
    @killjoymofo 3 роки тому +3333

    Summary of the video:
    1. People who invalidate you
    2. One-uppers
    3. Self-centered people
    4. Judgmental people
    5. Self-destructive people
    6. Fake people
    7. Manipulators
    8. People who love drama
    I hope this helps ; w ;

    • @isabellagraces5165
      @isabellagraces5165 3 роки тому +20

      Ty!!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +213

      Thank you for listing them down! Let us know if we've missed out any more types :)

    • @manofapril2657
      @manofapril2657 3 роки тому +38

      I have few of those pointers in myself 😭

    • @mlgpinky782
      @mlgpinky782 3 роки тому +31

      Well i learned to avoid psychopaths and narcissists. Imo they are the only ones i cannot help and deal with because the chance of the using and hurting me is very high and the chance of them changing in good is almost none.

    • @xxjeditsxx5935
      @xxjeditsxx5935 3 роки тому +21

      My fake bff has all of those traits... No wonder I feel really bad. Good thing I found a new BFF who makes me feel good, always motivates me to be better at what I do, selfless, caring, she always keeps her promises and never tells my secrets! I'm really thankful that I found her, she's a much greater person than my fake bff!!

  • @changbinletsgrowtallerinou3905
    @changbinletsgrowtallerinou3905 3 роки тому +1292

    i watched this for 3 reasons:
    - i was curious to read the full title
    - to see if there's actually people like this around me
    - *to see if i am actually one of those kind of people*

    • @idklol4324
      @idklol4324 3 роки тому +4

      그러냐

    • @starsshinesforever1425
      @starsshinesforever1425 3 роки тому +17

      Same the third reason

    • @-r-3656
      @-r-3656 3 роки тому +3

      Right?

    • @freireirei3358
      @freireirei3358 3 роки тому +2

      𝒀 𝑬 𝑺

    • @changbinletsgrowtallerinou3905
      @changbinletsgrowtallerinou3905 3 роки тому

      @@zephyrdian2408 i feel sorry :( well i usually figure out something when it comes to something related to mental issues of people around me but yours is kinda hard for me since i'm almost the same with you. it's good that you seek for professional help !

  • @rebeccar9470
    @rebeccar9470 3 роки тому +1625

    i avoid people all together, so i’m okay

  • @bobatea2845
    @bobatea2845 3 роки тому +2357

    wow, is it just me or is the sound design WAAAAAY above the normal standards of Psych2go? doing amazing work out there as always :D

  • @zuko1569
    @zuko1569 3 роки тому +1205

    I don't have to avoid people since to them I don't even exist
    _gone with the wind_

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +186

      You mean Zuko doesn't exist? :(

    • @missmissx4565
      @missmissx4565 3 роки тому +32

      @@Psych2go noooo :(((

    • @Animega
      @Animega 3 роки тому +53

      That's rough buddy

    • @protoncoccus3229
      @protoncoccus3229 3 роки тому +26

      In all seriousness, I'm sure there are people who care about you somewhere. Stay safe~

    • @uncleflagzz
      @uncleflagzz 3 роки тому +19

      How could you not exist if you made this comment
      Czechmate

  • @User-jr8uv
    @User-jr8uv 3 роки тому +612

    I’m really afraid of being toxic to others.

    • @karabreslin8034
      @karabreslin8034 3 роки тому +12

      Me too

    • @incarnation6664
      @incarnation6664 3 роки тому +41

      yes me too. unfortunately i've realized it too late and that image is already ingrained to to my classmates and friends .sigh. im trying to be conscious all the time about my actions and words but alas sometimes i just do it unconsciously esp when my emotions are unstable. I still have a lot of work to do on myself.

    • @theneighborskid5433
      @theneighborskid5433 3 роки тому +20

      Same here
      I am pretty sure I have been toxic before and I regret it :(

    • @professorcube5104
      @professorcube5104 3 роки тому +3

      Accurate of me

    • @AlanaArtDream
      @AlanaArtDream 3 роки тому +13

      Same; it’s a huge worry of mine; I just gotta keep trying to be the person I want to meet and befriend

  • @-_.-__
    @-_.-__ 3 роки тому +351

    Me: *cries*
    Mom: don't cry, boys don't cry.
    Me: *attempts to not cry*
    Me: *is now depressed*

    • @PansyPops
      @PansyPops 3 роки тому +4

      I’ve had similar experiences. I honestly just have a dark corner where I just sit down and cry for hours on end. If you have a desk or a cupboard of any sort, then just hide in the cupboard/under the desk and let it all out. Nobody knows about it, and it’s usually quite comfy. Especially if you keep a small throw pillow there.

    • @witchypoo7353
      @witchypoo7353 3 роки тому

      @@edwardelric3574 same, but mother still doesn’t care when I’m upset lmao.

    • @witchypoo7353
      @witchypoo7353 3 роки тому +1

      I just dealt with this yesterday! But it was my dad & sister

    • @dahlia7605
      @dahlia7605 3 роки тому +4

      @Daniela Borda Alvarez You can cry as much as you want. Just don't bottle up your emotions. Just be yourself. It doesn't matter what type of gender you have. If she tells you to not cry then just kindly tell her how you feel. If you wanna go outside just go if you wanna stay inside then stay. Gender doesn't matters. No need to be ashamed of crying. Try to convince your mom. :-) Bye!

    • @dahlia7605
      @dahlia7605 3 роки тому

      @@witchypoo7353 Are you okay now?

  • @Caro-os2sj
    @Caro-os2sj 3 роки тому +732

    "Self centered people"
    "People who like Drama"
    "Fake people"
    Me looking at that one person in my friend group:
    *I see you*

    • @hana1235
      @hana1235 3 роки тому +69

      Me looking at your comment:
      *I feel you*

    • @smellycat4413
      @smellycat4413 3 роки тому +46

      @@hana1235 me looking at your comment
      *i same you*

    • @shania1586
      @shania1586 3 роки тому +37

      @@smellycat4413 me looking at both of your comments
      *I agree with the 3 of you*

    • @belleisdone
      @belleisdone 3 роки тому +34

      Me looking at this chain
      *I shall continue with the four of you*

    • @ventiilylol
      @ventiilylol 3 роки тому +23

      me looking at all of your comments: I agree with the 5 of you

  • @beautycontis5884
    @beautycontis5884 3 роки тому +655

    Toxic and narcissistic people are the people who I avoided like COVID 19

    • @laaibah7445
      @laaibah7445 3 роки тому +10

      Lol

    • @Grayson2433
      @Grayson2433 3 роки тому +10

      That’s good

    • @Lin-qm2ft
      @Lin-qm2ft 3 роки тому +9

      That's great, it's something everyone should do honestly

    • @Grayson2433
      @Grayson2433 3 роки тому +5

      @@Lin-qm2ft I do it!!

    • @Lin-qm2ft
      @Lin-qm2ft 3 роки тому +5

      Pastel Kitsune that’s good!

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee 3 роки тому +218

    "Have you ever met any one those people" 5:00
    Me: Everyone, meet my family

    • @yudu9058
      @yudu9058 3 роки тому +3

      my mom and brother are the same😔

    • @litinupcito2044
      @litinupcito2044 3 роки тому +2

      My brother is self centered

    • @yudu9058
      @yudu9058 3 роки тому +4

      @@litinupcito2044 same, and he just got into a fight with my mom he hits her hard and he destroyed her phone. Because he wants to eat more but my mom wouldn't let him because he's too fat...

    • @yanyan-kl9xz
      @yanyan-kl9xz 3 роки тому +1

      Same. My relatives also.

    • @witchypoo7353
      @witchypoo7353 3 роки тому

      I have mommy issues because my mother literally does everything on that list

  • @sillysputnik
    @sillysputnik 3 роки тому +80

    "self-destructive people"
    see? i'm doing y'all a favor by not socializing!

  • @nasuri1100
    @nasuri1100 3 роки тому +301

    Guys: Please avoid people that hurt you. You don't have to be their friend. They don't deserve you. Say 'em goodbye.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +40

      Thanks for the positive comment! :)

    • @fendy5124
      @fendy5124 3 роки тому +9

      Problem is, theres alot of people who cant cut their ties off of the toxic people because they still need them.

    • @nasuri1100
      @nasuri1100 3 роки тому +6

      @@fendy5124 Yeah. Just be strong until you can get out toxic people's life. Life ain't just :/

    • @treznopresto4878
      @treznopresto4878 3 роки тому +2

      When i avoid most of people like them i always get threaten so i dont have choice i need to keep close to them :(
      My friend just complicated they like me but they hurt me (or i being to nice?)

    • @nasuri1100
      @nasuri1100 3 роки тому +3

      @@treznopresto4878 If they fucking toxic with u, nothing can excuse them. Just run away from them before they really get you in trouble. Even if they're fucking idiots if you avoid them, let them do their own toxic business while you're hanging out with better people. Be strong, you can get out of this shit.

  • @notanartist9908
    @notanartist9908 3 роки тому +295

    Behaviour I can't stand being around with:
    1. Constantly saying 'destructive' criticisms about a person or a friend.
    2. Jealousy.
    It's draining. T-T

    • @bluesoul1260
      @bluesoul1260 3 роки тому +3

      True I used to kinda be like the 1st one and I regret it I don't do that anymore. I think it's just mean and useless

    • @monet4143
      @monet4143 3 роки тому +2

      blue soul ugh is totally is.. I would feel so confident going to school after getting my hair done and then this girl would compare me to someone on tv who’s hair was ugly. Everyone else would give me compliments throughout the day, but she was so jealous she would try to bring me down with her-

    • @sashanagle3028
      @sashanagle3028 3 роки тому

      I know it's annoying

    • @bluesoul1260
      @bluesoul1260 3 роки тому

      @@monet4143 ignore this girl she probably has nothing better to do with her time and probably felt like her own hair looked bad that day so she didn't want anyone to feel pretty. Her behavior is just trashy people like this deserve no attention so just ignore her and keep doing your thing bc I'm sure you were looking gorgeous on that day

    • @monet4143
      @monet4143 3 роки тому

      blue soul Thank you😬

  • @fieryelf
    @fieryelf 3 роки тому +79

    My sister is married to a guy that constantly talks about himself and tries to one up every single person he encounters. He keeps leaving every jobs he has on the basis that "His boss is an idiot" and lives off employment insurance more than half the time. Most annoying guy I know and I try to avoid him as much as possible. I feel for my sister who has to live with him.

  • @mihanoid_sc2
    @mihanoid_sc2 3 роки тому +64

    Psych2go: 5. Self-destructive people.
    Me: *destroyed in seconds*

  • @iseeyou506
    @iseeyou506 3 роки тому +864

    The Title: *"Types of People you need to Avoid"*
    Anxiety: it's talking about you
    Me: Definitely not
    "The Thumbnail"
    Anxiety: Definitely yes
    Me: *Internal sadness*

    • @keziahmauipalmares5165
      @keziahmauipalmares5165 3 роки тому +26

      waaaahhh can relate ahaha

    • @iseeyou506
      @iseeyou506 3 роки тому +24

      *Cries in fake*
      When you can't be yourself and developed a fake persona out of habit because of your anxiety

    • @keziahmauipalmares5165
      @keziahmauipalmares5165 3 роки тому +6

      @@Nightmare-nc8eb @Nightmare 980 wahh exactly me too i have anxiety disorder : ( i just lost my friends bcuz of being negative and kept on asking for help and they can see no change .. i never knw i would be toxic for asking for help but yah things happened : (

    • @valarmathei95
      @valarmathei95 3 роки тому +8

      @@Nightmare-nc8eb me too! I bottle up a lot cz I know i am number 5.. i have been dealing with depression, self-harming, anxiety, suicidal thoughts since i was a kid, without even knowing what was it.. growing up in an asian household, they don't believe that mental illness exist and especially for a kid. being scolded for showing my emotions, i learn to hide my emotions really well as that's how it's been since i was kid. my cousin sister was the only person that sensed my struggles alone (a year ago), offered help. it was nice to talk to someone about it, to open up. but once (i guess i didn't realize that I was being number 5), she snapped at me for being annoying (guess she was stressed at work). I never felt hurt that much in my life. I always have this guilty feeling of being a burden to others. since then i tend to bottle up a lot. Sorry for this long text. Have a great day people!

    • @valarmathei95
      @valarmathei95 3 роки тому +3

      @@Nightmare-nc8eb I know it's a struggle to live like us, but I hope you find people who you can trust and truly rely on.. it's good to have someone on your side though! ❤️

  • @stargazer6097
    @stargazer6097 3 роки тому +324

    So.... basically everyone at my high school 😑

    • @merlinhlr3553
      @merlinhlr3553 3 роки тому +23

      teenagers can be shitty sometimes... we've all been there, right?

    • @monet4143
      @monet4143 3 роки тому +17

      Merlin The Blue Kids in general imo😭 I hate everyone equally, but have you ever just wanted to kick a 5 year old running around at a Walmart?😂

    • @musicallands7385
      @musicallands7385 3 роки тому +5

      Some good people are there, you just have to find them :)

    • @pumpygoddess9881
      @pumpygoddess9881 3 роки тому +7

      ok yes yes,i pull down my mask for a split second because my mom couldnt hear what i was saying,even after i immediately put it back on..this 5 year old kid screams in my face and points directly at me because i said "wheat bread" and i dont think they realize how embarrassing that was when i barely did anything wrong it was kinda annoying and i wanted to just slap them and shut their mouth with tape😃👍🏻

    • @ezpub6755
      @ezpub6755 3 роки тому +3

      Everyone at high school . period
      ua-cam.com/video/6A9K0TkLGIU/v-deo.html

  • @nefelibata4190
    @nefelibata4190 3 роки тому +16

    can't really avoid when you work with them, just take distance.

  • @dontbullyme4646
    @dontbullyme4646 3 роки тому +36

    “People who like drama”
    Me: *questioning my best friend*

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +10

      I see. Do you personally like drama too?

    • @dontbullyme4646
      @dontbullyme4646 3 роки тому +2

      Psych2Go no, i’m that kid that doesn’t have that many friends-

    • @weirdlyghostly1814
      @weirdlyghostly1814 3 роки тому +4

      @@dontbullyme4646 i need the tea tho

    • @lyx8039
      @lyx8039 3 роки тому

      XD

    • @shagunrawat7864
      @shagunrawat7864 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Psych2go sometimes🥲

  • @Komi.awkward.silence
    @Komi.awkward.silence 3 роки тому +222

    This whole video in two words :
    "Avoid everyone"

    • @swatisaini6447
      @swatisaini6447 3 роки тому +5

      Great summary!

    • @mjrussell414
      @mjrussell414 3 роки тому +18

      harmonixia uwu Oh c’mon now. There are wonderful gems in the world. You just have to learn that you don’t have to be everyone’s friend, and grow enough to know what you want and don’t want in your life. Then, the toxic people stop appearing, or at least you recognize who they really are before they cause damage. Learned these things the hard way, but now I can spot manipulators and am able to deflect. Sometimes the best weapon is silence.

    • @wildflowers2580
      @wildflowers2580 3 роки тому +4

      I avoid everyone at all cost!!

    • @hanamellow972
      @hanamellow972 3 роки тому +3

      Not really honestly not everyone is like that

    • @srabostidutta4607
      @srabostidutta4607 3 роки тому +4

      "Avoid everyone"
      My life summarized.

  • @youssefmuhammed848
    @youssefmuhammed848 3 роки тому +33

    You are just saying everyone I know is toxic right now.

  • @hime_ohime2874
    @hime_ohime2874 3 роки тому +247

    Not criticizing.. but who on earth is not an example of these types isolatedly? Or the vague sum up of these traits or a whole combination of all of these ..bcoz I've never met any saint in my whole life

    • @euop01
      @euop01 3 роки тому +6

      Sħira yuki true

    • @Shyguy5104
      @Shyguy5104 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah
      that's a thing that they need to work on

    • @fluffyhamster550
      @fluffyhamster550 3 роки тому +6

      I am a Saint 😇

    • @sabulolife8110
      @sabulolife8110 3 роки тому +6

      ok well this is for people who show multiple signs having one sign doesn't mean anything.

    • @loveloveaii
      @loveloveaii 3 роки тому +16

      It’s gotta be more than one and if the signs are severe. I mean, for example, with the first one, obviously everyone would want to compete. But it’s super toxic if someone doesn’t even see you as a friend and only puts you down, not caring at all how you feel. That’s not normal competition, that’s just toxic.

  • @yasuthelittledoggo8978
    @yasuthelittledoggo8978 3 роки тому +414

    Me: please don't be me, please don't be me, please don't be me.
    Number 5: Avoid self-destructive people
    Me: Shi-

  • @yoshi314
    @yoshi314 3 роки тому +45

    #6 is very typical of introverts. we open up to people we know, but when a stranger shows up, we get more withdrawn. so do not judge too quickly.

  • @WORTHY1111
    @WORTHY1111 3 роки тому +2

    Last one was most frightening amongst all the 8.....this is the major cause I had introverted myself from an extrovert...& I now love being in my own company

  • @raya2752
    @raya2752 3 роки тому +1

    i’m glad they started including credits at the end of the video. (maybe they have been before but i never noticed so i guess it wasn’t as apparent?) everyone works so great and does a great job with these. love to see your work

  • @katnise6313
    @katnise6313 3 роки тому +17

    1. People who invalidate you
    2. One-uppers
    3. Self-centered people
    4. Judgemental people
    5. Self-destructive people
    6. Fake people
    7. Manipulators
    8. People who love drama

  • @wonders4069
    @wonders4069 3 роки тому +47

    Try to imagine all these 8 types of people being friends with each other
    It's really hard to imagine that

  • @dominicdemercurio7933
    @dominicdemercurio7933 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you. I had a friend who displayed most of those behaviors and finally had to have a clean break from the friendship Your videos are really helping me to see things much more clearly.

  • @karabreslin8034
    @karabreslin8034 3 роки тому +5

    Damn #3 called me out! I can admit that I'm self-centered, I do talk about myself a lot and often don't realize it. However, I think being self-centered is different from being selfish though. Self-centeredness is defined as "being preoccupied with one's own affairs" while being selfish is "lacking consideration of others for one's own pleasure or gain." I can understand what they mean in the context of the video. I think what they're trying to say is avoid people who are selfish. Sometimes people that are self-centered can empathize more because they can put themselves in that situation and see how other people feel since they know how it would feel if they were in that situation. There's a fine line between selfishness and self-centeredness, which I've tried to figure out for myself for years so I don't act like a selfish person and hurt other people.

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 роки тому +96

    “You can practice social distancing on social media too. Stay away from people who are infected with negativity, a lack of kindness, an unwillingness to seek truth etc.”
    --James Clear

    • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
      @QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 роки тому +5

      @Patterson Lawrence fake people are everywhere while treasures are hidden and are waiting for us somewhere.

    • @alienism4229
      @alienism4229 3 роки тому

      How do I avoid my friend when he himself says that we both r best friend but for me he is a narcissist.. Pls help 🙏😭😭😩😩

  • @nickrazes2720
    @nickrazes2720 3 роки тому +927

    Video in a nutshell: avoid everyone. get a dog.

    • @mikerainwater6154
      @mikerainwater6154 3 роки тому +26

      I had 3 Labradors. They were heaven. Best relationship i ever had too bad their all dead

    • @nickrazes2720
      @nickrazes2720 3 роки тому +7

      @@mikerainwater6154 :(. Yeah i've had 2 labs that have since passed. Also a weenie dog.

    • @denizakarca0405
      @denizakarca0405 3 роки тому +34

      or a cat!

    • @killykat4425
      @killykat4425 3 роки тому +8

      🐈

    • @evadazagonzalez1642
      @evadazagonzalez1642 3 роки тому +8

      I have a guinea pig... He is soooo cute 😍😍😍😍 and I love to sit down and stare at him

  • @DarkFoxKit
    @DarkFoxKit Рік тому +3

    I definitely had that one friend who was very self destructive. I had 2 actually. It was extremely exhausting to have to keep coming to their rescue, and they always ignore any advice I give them. They both ended up leaving, which, to be honest, has been a relief even if it was painful that they just kinda left despite everything I did for them.

  • @baconchan8939
    @baconchan8939 3 роки тому +32

    me: Oh hey I'm none of those types of...
    psych2go: "#5: Self-destructive people."
    me: Oh

  • @smellycat4413
    @smellycat4413 3 роки тому +73

    *Me forgeting why i cut of my "bestfriend"*
    Me watching this video: **checking of everything on this list** oh so thats why....

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +8

      We're glad this video helped remind you. Which point described your ex-best friend the most?

    • @smellycat4413
      @smellycat4413 3 роки тому +4

      @@Psych2go it's mostly 1,3,4,5 and 8

  • @nevel-luna5070
    @nevel-luna5070 3 роки тому +63

    Nah, I just ignore the people that gives me bad vibes.

  • @3DVizzion
    @3DVizzion 3 роки тому +101

    I never avoid them, I just treat them the same way they treat me and sometimes I just tell them the blunt truth. I changed many people with toxic personalities. Not standing up to them is in fact what you should not do, fleeing is always temporary as soon enough you shall be meeting again somebody else with issues. Will you be fleeing all your life and end up just closing yourself in an isolated box. Face your demons and rule your world!

    • @snowf0xx586
      @snowf0xx586 3 роки тому +8

      Cool advice!

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino 3 роки тому +2

      Agreed.

    • @sametoyoutoo8509
      @sametoyoutoo8509 3 роки тому +7

      You changed nobody. You're unqualified. Protecting oneself is a great thing and so is therapy. Don't shame others with your fleeing remarks.

    • @3DVizzion
      @3DVizzion 3 роки тому +8

      @@sametoyoutoo8509 Yes, everybody changes everybody. You changed me today because you commented on my comment and now I know you, so my life has changed. Likewise for you, your life has changed because of my comment. But you don't know me as a person so your comment is empty and more of a vain attack showing your true feelings that you have trouble facing life challenges and you think attacking other people opinions will make you feel better. It will not! Maybe it will be a quick rush but that's it, try to seek for true peace and stop being paranoid nobody is out to get you. Open your mind and look beyond what you see before you.
      Peace be with you!

    • @micah3028
      @micah3028 3 роки тому

      awesome advice mate

  • @mirtescheffers6096
    @mirtescheffers6096 3 роки тому +2

    After finding confirmation that the people I dislike aren’t so awesome I continued to watch to make sure I’ll avoid being bad to others. I know seeking out confirmation of other people’s badness isn’t great but it helps me understand I don’t need to worry about them because they’re wrong.
    I find seeking to improve life (of anyone as well as me) a good guide to doing the right things.

  • @husnaliyana8393
    @husnaliyana8393 3 роки тому +368

    "Judgemental people"
    This is why i generally hate people n the society.

    • @milkonokemono
      @milkonokemono 3 роки тому +1

      HEY YO MARIOS FUKING BALLIN!!!!!1!1!1!1!1!!11!

    • @VampguyN85
      @VampguyN85 3 роки тому +8

      I live with one tho. My mother. So kinda stuck for now.

    • @starkitten101
      @starkitten101 3 роки тому +7

      @Off Ready Pancakes that’s no boomer. You’re acting like the boomer here by judging them for their dislike of how judging society is. Be quiet please.

    • @milkonokemono
      @milkonokemono 3 роки тому +1

      🎵PIZZA PASTA PUT IT IN A GUN🎵
      🎵COCK IT, SHOOT IT, INTO MY HEAD🎵
      🎵MY HEAD MY HEAD MY HEAD MY HEAD MY HEAD MY HEAD🎵
      🎵LEAVE IT THERE WITHIN AND SPILL SPAGHETTI ON THE FLOOR🎵

    • @starkitten101
      @starkitten101 3 роки тому +7

      @Off Ready Pancakes you didn’t even try, did you. You have the ignorance of a boomer. What’s boomerish about hating that society is so judgmental of you? Do you know how hard it makes it for non-neurotypical people to be part of society, knowing your every non-typical action will be judged harshly?

  • @okimimitsuko2735
    @okimimitsuko2735 3 роки тому +107

    I think I'm the self-centered one , I might need to change myself a bit
    Edit : I did some research, I thought that I'm self-centered because I talk to myself all the time and the only person in the world who I truly understand and know so much about is myself since that I don't have friends. I don't identify with most of the self-centered stuff and I can't imagine myself like that , even tho I'm not sure if that means that I'm self-centered or not I'm very confused.

    • @jamsya493
      @jamsya493 3 роки тому +3

      Okimi mitsuko yes please do change

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +38

      I see. Thanks for being so honest. It's good to be self-aware. Because self-awareness is key when it comes to becoming a better version of yourself. How do you plan to improve? :)

    • @treznopresto4878
      @treznopresto4878 3 роки тому +1

      @@Psych2go Hey Psych2go do you upload video randomly or there is a schedule for the upload?

    • @lamowkachow4597
      @lamowkachow4597 3 роки тому +3

      Same, I want help

    • @okimimitsuko2735
      @okimimitsuko2735 3 роки тому +9

      @@Psych2go
      I have no idea how , I'm not even sure if this is a big deal because I rarely interact with people outside my family (my parents and little sisters) but I will try searching Google for some tips.

  • @MysticaReych
    @MysticaReych 3 роки тому +3

    Wow, Sam did an awesome job animating and drawing this! I love the style, would love to see them do more work!

  • @deadcry2
    @deadcry2 3 роки тому +3

    I think its important to mention that some of those listed types/behaviors can also be easily misinterpreted tho and that it's almost always a good idea trying to speak up and talk about those things first. Otherwise you yourself count into the "judgmental" toxic category.
    for example:
    Someone who seems self-centered at first glance could very possible be just be a person who is depressed introvert who hasn't been able to talk/open up to anyone for quite some time - enjoying to seemingly having found a trustworthy person they feel comfortable enough around to finally let out all those pent-up thoughts and feelings which very likely evolve around the own self at first.
    Or someone who seems self-destructive is maybe just not able to break out of certain unhealthy patterns on their own and needs some extra help by professionals while you as true friend can help by simply letting them know that you will have their back - instead of trying to fix them and their lives for them.
    Not everything is always what it seems.

  • @starma5145
    @starma5145 3 роки тому +65

    Me checking to see if I am that person:
    👁👄👁

    • @froelorc2064
      @froelorc2064 3 роки тому

      Glad im not one of them •^•

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому

      I see. Did any of these apply to you?

    • @aynsac7765
      @aynsac7765 3 роки тому

      @@froelorc2064 wich it be the same for me

  • @neemohwairimu9845
    @neemohwairimu9845 3 роки тому +69

    Yeah, avoid internet trolls.

  • @SpardaDiablo
    @SpardaDiablo 3 роки тому

    So glad to have gotten away from someone who was toxic like some of these ways mentioned. Hardest decision to leave, but the biggest sense of relief I could have imagined.
    If you're stuck in a household with someone non-related who is like this, take the plunge and GET OUT OF THERE. You will finally feel relieved, and you will thank yourself!

  • @Disciple4eternity
    @Disciple4eternity Рік тому

    I needed to listen to this. I have a toxic person whom I’m healing from and I need to get rid of fully. I found of she physically harms others and I ended up fearing my own death at work. The conviction in my mind and body is true and I need to trust it.

  • @azryxthefolf6331
    @azryxthefolf6331 3 роки тому +140

    "Your emotions are valid and important."
    For everyone else? Absolutely.
    Me...
    Well...
    No.

  • @PINKROUND
    @PINKROUND 3 роки тому +247

    *To the unique person that’s reading this:*
    *You’re a very intelligent and adorable human! Stay healthy during quarantine*

    • @Subscriberswithoutanyvid-dm2zc
      @Subscriberswithoutanyvid-dm2zc 3 роки тому +9

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +24

      Thank you for your uplifting comment

    • @mrunmayeegogate4724
      @mrunmayeegogate4724 3 роки тому +7

      Thank you, and you too. You are also a intelligent, nice,adorable person. Stay safe and healthy!!!

    • @protoncoccus3229
      @protoncoccus3229 3 роки тому +7

      Well said! Language is powerful. Use it wisely

    • @mishrasuvigya5541
      @mishrasuvigya5541 3 роки тому +3

      this commenter : you're intelligent
      me who is useless, dumb, ugly and suicidal :
      i don't believe you 😒😒😒😒

  • @bcj3100
    @bcj3100 3 роки тому +4

    Amanda Silvera has the most soothing, pleasant voice out of all the voice overs 🌼

  • @krystalpapers6873
    @krystalpapers6873 3 роки тому +1

    Your voice is soo soothing and calm thankyou for the advice °w°

  • @LoriToriBorito
    @LoriToriBorito 3 роки тому +219

    Psych2Go: Eight - People who love drama
    Me: oh no-
    ( *talking* *about* *my* *'friends'* )

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +34

      What do you plan to do next after realizing this?

    • @LoriToriBorito
      @LoriToriBorito 3 роки тому +16

      My mom also saw their behaviours but she just told me to ignore or to not get influnced by their behaviours, but i just tried to not get involved

    • @oceanetir8824
      @oceanetir8824 3 роки тому +3

      I'm I the only one to thing that people to avoid in this video are represented as blue like Twitter's logo
      Cause people in Twitter are the one to avoid

    • @mjrussell414
      @mjrussell414 3 роки тому +2

      l a e * It is hard, but they don’t sound like good friends for you to have. You’ve grown up more. It happens. Sometimes you have friends for a short time, then you move on. Others, more aligned with your values and personality, stay for a lifetime. It’s okay. I would just say, start distancing yourself. You will find new people who share your interests and contribute positively to your life and growth.

    • @Nakai865
      @Nakai865 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go make them commit not alive base on a gut feeling.

  • @holo6883
    @holo6883 3 роки тому +98

    **Looks into mirror**
    **Throws out mirror**
    Begone

  • @ritaochinko
    @ritaochinko 3 роки тому

    great visualization! the animations are on point and really picture how that feels like

  • @jyotikadam8459
    @jyotikadam8459 3 роки тому

    Thank you for the video❤️

  • @mostlyplacebo1475
    @mostlyplacebo1475 3 роки тому +33

    This art style looks so alive! Love it :o

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +11

      Aww. Sam is great isn't she?

    • @kamilapavlinska5647
      @kamilapavlinska5647 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go yes, and the voiceover is great too. So calming, supportive. It always makes me feel more happy, comfortable and generally calm.

  • @beezerz5587
    @beezerz5587 3 роки тому +16

    *People who like drama* :
    I was having a good time, and I honestly feel so attacked right now :(

  • @zerlom
    @zerlom 3 роки тому

    This channel is great! Thank you guy's for all the work ❤

  • @yovis2141
    @yovis2141 3 роки тому

    Thank you! I'm Brazilian and I really love your videos. They help me a lot.

  • @skippysmom
    @skippysmom 3 роки тому +10

    i’m starting at my new college in two weeks and i hope to make really good friendships there. i have a habit of making friends with toxic people, so now i know how to avoid them! thank you, this has helped so much :)

  • @ventiilylol
    @ventiilylol 3 роки тому +25

    "Self centered people"
    *the fact one of my best friends in the friend group I'm in she always talk about herself on discord even in voice chats e v e n when someone is venting in their own channel like sis stop please-*

    • @southernkatrina8161
      @southernkatrina8161 3 роки тому +1

      And if you say SSSH she blows up because she has a right to express herself and how dare you criticise her? Yep.

    • @penntopaper9305
      @penntopaper9305 3 роки тому +4

      *side glance* I catch myself doing that sometimes but im trying to improve it i swear. when people talk about things i have a tendency to like try to forward the conversation by talking about a similar experience ive had and it just ends up with me talking on and on about myself /:::: thing is i literally don't know how else to keep a conversation going other than saying something like "wow that's cool." .... okay fuck im literally doing it right now you see

    • @melc7516
      @melc7516 3 роки тому +1

      PennToPaper focus on what they say, not on what you think

  • @Jachangirl94
    @Jachangirl94 3 роки тому

    Thank you for that video! I actually started to sort out some of my "friends", where I realised that they were toxic for me or didn't treat me the right way. Now after a while I feel mich better after that. 😃 I am more secure around my real friends and have less drama which is quite nice actually. 😄
    I wish everyone who reads this a nice day and keep on going, even if it's hard sometimes with those kind of people. You will find a way! 😊

  • @wolfkid4297
    @wolfkid4297 3 роки тому +5

    Hey I have that achievement!
    “Decreased Sense of Value”
    I’ve actually had it for quite some time.

  • @jasminebano8051
    @jasminebano8051 3 роки тому +14

    And all types are present in my own family!

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 роки тому +8

    “Some people are like trees, they take forever to grow up.”
    ― Nitya Prakash

  • @bellaleister5755
    @bellaleister5755 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this video! This helps me a lot :)

  • @Noname-jd1vp
    @Noname-jd1vp 2 роки тому

    A true friend or two would be enough, since sometimes, you need outlet of your problems as well: someone who will listen to you, not to judge you, someone who's willing to involve themselves when you have problems, someone who supports your goals and encourages you, someone that makes you feel warmth when they're around, and someone who you can count on.
    I'm glad that I've experienced having one, but he passed away at his young age. I really am hoping I will find another one that I could give my trust, with them taking care of it atleast. 🙂

  • @teenoush7489
    @teenoush7489 3 роки тому +20

    I've hit the jackpot: My mum is an amalgamation of all of these signs.
    What a great revelation 😅👌🏼

  • @somewherefaraway3093
    @somewherefaraway3093 3 роки тому +23

    I have this friend who always wants me to do everything for her, one time, she wants to join my school-club, and I said "Oh sure, you wanna join? Ask the teacher because I don't know anything about it" And she said "I can't...can you do that for me?" I already said no, but she was so "lazy" to do it all, she said "This is the last one" because I always do everything for her...I asked the teacher, and he said "Oh, She can join, just make sure she doesn't be late for class." So I told my friends about the information, since I didn't give her contact number to my teacher because It's her privacy (We use WhatsApp) so I just told her to give it to the teacher herself, and She said "But I can't...Can you do this for me? Oh come ooonnn, just this one timeeee." I've had enough of her and said "You must go there by yourself, I'm not always gonna be there for you." And the most annoying thing she said to me that day was "Actually...I'm too lazy." She said that so casually! I already told the teacher, there's no going back, moreover, that teacher is scary! If she doesn't go to the class, I'd be the one who is going to be shout at. She said "What should I dooooo?" And I told her what to say, She just had to copy & paste it, "But I caaaann't, I'm too lazy! Can you do this for me?" I was so mad! "ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS COPY & PASTE IT! I'VE ALREADY DONE THE THINGS FOR YOU!" And luckily, she told the teacher and joined my school-club.
    I know I should confront her, or just be friends with other people...but the thing is, she's my bff's bff. What should I do?! I can't just leave her alone with my BFF!
    And sorry for my bad English

    • @evadazagonzalez1642
      @evadazagonzalez1642 3 роки тому +6

      Maybe you should talk to your BFF and tell her what you think... If she really is your BFF she should understand it

    • @somewherefaraway3093
      @somewherefaraway3093 3 роки тому +1

      @@evadazagonzalez1642 Yeah...maybe, thanks for your advice ❤️

    • @somewherefaraway3093
      @somewherefaraway3093 3 роки тому +1

      @@Lia.harlin Alright, thanks, I appreciate it 🥺👍

  • @fuyumi4309
    @fuyumi4309 3 роки тому

    this has really helped me change rather than helping me know who to avoid.. i've recently become quite a toxic person and this helped me realize what my actions can do,, i'll try to never act like any of these people

  • @dipasrisardar1728
    @dipasrisardar1728 3 роки тому

    I completely agree with all the points. Very well presented. 👍

  • @sodakoby554
    @sodakoby554 3 роки тому +55

    Keep up the good work. I've learned so much from you guys

    • @mossypawprints
      @mossypawprints 3 роки тому +3

      SoDaKoby yeah! I love this channel

    • @Kayylaaaaaaaaaaa
      @Kayylaaaaaaaaaaa 3 роки тому

      Me too

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much for your comment!! Is this your favorite video so far? :)

    • @sodakoby554
      @sodakoby554 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go My favorite videos from you guys are the ones about relationships and about yourself. I like learning who I am and learning about love and how to do it correctly. I love finding out the reasons why people do certain things or act a certain way. You guys have help me grow and have a better understanding of myself and others.

  • @witheringlunatic
    @witheringlunatic 3 роки тому +6

    I personally do like to listen to drama but not to get involved in it. Getting involved just makes it worse. But I do have a habit of talking about myself sometimes so I'll definitely make sure to listen to myself when I talk and make sure that everyone is able to talk in the conversation. These videos are always super cool to listen to! Thank you for letting me know about my own strengths and weakness!

  • @ayshakhatun00
    @ayshakhatun00 3 роки тому

    I love your voice, it's calm and soothing.

  • @rawanwalaa8325
    @rawanwalaa8325 3 роки тому

    Loving the theme of the video !!

  • @yumi-fn8ve
    @yumi-fn8ve 3 роки тому +32

    I love how Psych2Go explains psychology in a fun and simple way they helped me understand psychology in a better way and I showed this to my mom and she passed her mid-terms for her degree 📜 thank you your channel is amazing

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +5

      Aww thank you so much for your kind comment

    • @yumi-fn8ve
      @yumi-fn8ve 3 роки тому +5

      @@Psych2go she was amazed at how educational the video and how it corresponds with the textbook honestly I’m really proud of her for continuing school after having her fourth child

    • @mjrussell414
      @mjrussell414 3 роки тому +2

      SugasCupTae She is an inspiration to you, your family, and others.

  • @ohh9079
    @ohh9079 3 роки тому +29

    Eight : people who love drama.
    Me, who loves k-drama : 👁️👄👁️

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 3 роки тому +2

      Lolll the only drama i like 😂😂

    • @nightfall445
      @nightfall445 3 роки тому

      I think the meaning is different

    • @ohh9079
      @ohh9079 3 роки тому

      @@nightfall445 i know, but that makes me surprised for a while before knowing that's different type of drama.

    • @nightfall445
      @nightfall445 3 роки тому

      @@ohh9079 Yeah same🤣

    • @lyx8039
      @lyx8039 3 роки тому

      XD

  • @dominicdemercurio7933
    @dominicdemercurio7933 2 роки тому

    Thank you! If only I knew then what I'm learning now!

  • @Lilyrose7777
    @Lilyrose7777 3 роки тому

    Thanks for the video it's very helpful 💙

  • @dark_knight_2_u
    @dark_knight_2_u 3 роки тому +28

    Title: 8 types of people to avoid
    Thumbnail: You?
    Me: What did I do?

  • @Qtipatootie
    @Qtipatootie 3 роки тому +5

    I thought of my mum.. Always stopping me from doing my fav things like painting and baking, stopping me from making my own decisions like if i want to buy a cream which has good reviews and i can afford it she will still stop me

  • @jananij3668
    @jananij3668 3 роки тому +1

    I’m always afraid that these people are also going through something and me cutting ties with them or avoiding them would just make things worse for them.

  • @Bella-qw4re
    @Bella-qw4re 3 роки тому

    Throughout my life I’ve encounter all of these types in one way or another. I stay away from them if possible, focus on my own like and the people who truly cared about me and I them, I don’t take crap and lastly, I refuse to be disrespected and bullied etc. so I walk away and I’m done with you, no more chances. My life has become more peaceful, happier and I focus on what and who matters.

  • @enti1102
    @enti1102 3 роки тому +11

    I feel like psych2go is just telling me to avoid myself when she said "people who love drama"

  • @pluviophile5996
    @pluviophile5996 3 роки тому +5

    Animation + Content quality + Soothing voice + Simplified complex psychology + Timing = Admirable work.
    Really helpful..
    Much love ❤😄

  • @tejaswiniagale2933
    @tejaswiniagale2933 3 роки тому

    Better than avoiding people I would like to keep my self on high positive vibration...spread Love ❤❤❤

  • @shahin3dart
    @shahin3dart 3 роки тому

    your voice is so calm and soothing,there is a bit of windy breath in your voice that makes it like it comes from the heavens.have you ever considered to become a singer?

  • @murder7415
    @murder7415 3 роки тому +13

    You should avoid people who say first on UA-cam comments

    • @user-ec4nt2es8y
      @user-ec4nt2es8y 3 роки тому +1

      Yes, unless they actually are first

    • @iexist1300
      @iexist1300 3 роки тому +1

      I used to say first, but now I blue shell the people in first. I've learnt my lesson but I don't know why everyone hates them.

    • @mjrussell414
      @mjrussell414 3 роки тому +2

      I Exist Because it is a stupid and useless act to claim almost ownership by stating you are first to watch a UA-cam video. It is silly and immature. It’s not like they were the first to climb Mount Everest. And even then ,it’s just a mountain. It’s not like world peace was achieved, or hunger and poverty eradicated by the act. When someone does that, they can brag all they like. But I suspect that individual would be more humble.

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 3 роки тому +1

      Haha

  • @Zee090
    @Zee090 3 роки тому +66

    I hope this isn’t overused by-
    Psych2Go really do upload such videos whenever I desperately need them! So thank you for that:D

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +8

      We hope this video helped!! Do any of the types mentioned in this video remind you of someone you know?

    • @mjrussell414
      @mjrussell414 3 роки тому +4

      RainbowSwirl Z You are seeking answers and the universe is providing. It means you are growing.

    • @Zee090
      @Zee090 3 роки тому +2

      Psych2Go hmm-not exactly but I have this one online friend who I’ve been friends with 3-4 years, but a few weeks back they got mad at me for not getting a joke reference and second, I git into an argument in them in which they said they were disappointed in me and that I broke their trust (I will not be going to the details) This really hurt me and I apologised so many times but I felt terrible and I dwelt a did they wee wonky blaming me. They said that I didn’t even look at my own actions while they’re the ones who did do so..:(

    • @Zee090
      @Zee090 3 роки тому +2

      Marilyn Russell woah-that’s awesome! Tysm for the information^^

  • @confusedscreaming2541
    @confusedscreaming2541 3 роки тому +16

    Video Title: 8 Types of People To Completely Avoid
    Thumbnail: You
    Me: I know...I hate me too.

  • @rucringe643
    @rucringe643 Рік тому

    no doubt this is 100% the best channel for learning

  • @anakarlanelsondeoliveirama9884
    @anakarlanelsondeoliveirama9884 3 роки тому +6

    Myself, its always a time to improve some of this things in my destructive personality

  • @SANK8MADEIT
    @SANK8MADEIT 3 роки тому +45

    It reminds me about the people I was with.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +7

      I see. How many of these types described these people?

    • @mrunmayeegogate4724
      @mrunmayeegogate4724 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah, me too. My all classmates are like this. (More than 4 schools classmates)

    • @Lin-qm2ft
      @Lin-qm2ft 3 роки тому

      Same, i'm glad i got rid of them.. heh.. :)

    • @Potato-fw1hj
      @Potato-fw1hj 3 роки тому +1

      @@Lin-qm2ft Help. I am mentally attached and I have fear of abandonment

    • @armyyyyyyyyyyyy
      @armyyyyyyyyyyyy 3 роки тому +2

      Same. But I left them😌

  • @wombles2403
    @wombles2403 3 роки тому

    This was a very helpful video, as I recently stopped being best friends with someone and I’m looking for good friends but also people to avoid :)

  • @rafaelaviolis
    @rafaelaviolis 3 роки тому

    Well, I identified some of my behaviors and I identified some of them on situations I passed through. I hope be a better friend to others and stopping put burdens on their shoulders... and treat myself better too. It's never late to improve. :) thanks for the video! :D

  • @someone-hk3so
    @someone-hk3so 3 роки тому +8

    I used to have judgemental friends and that kinda destroyed my self steam, thank god i separated from them last year. They would criticize my body, hair,..
    Everything about me even in front of me 🙄 and they are very fake, that makes me so angry idk why...

    • @claricethefox7922
      @claricethefox7922 2 роки тому

      Oh, you know why. It's because they don't genuinely love you.

    • @someone-hk3so
      @someone-hk3so 2 роки тому

      @@claricethefox7922 Hey, that's right, now i don't care much about them, they not only didn't value me, they were unhappy with themselves and were very toxic, i can be thankful that i don't have friends like them anymore hahahaha

  • @jamalbakir-6206
    @jamalbakir-6206 3 роки тому +3

    Summary of the video for the people who don't have time to watch:
    1: People who invalidate you✌🏻
    2:one-uppers✌🏻
    3:self-centered people ✌🏻
    4:judgmental people ✌🏻
    5:self-destructive people ✌🏻
    6:fake people 😏
    7:manipulators ✌🏻
    8:people who love drama✌🏻
    if this was helpful please make sure to follow me❤

  • @magenxmajestic
    @magenxmajestic 3 роки тому

    I struggle with my father's side of the family judging me and I've always felt an outsider on that ever since I was young, they say they love me but it's only to cover up the sting from their judgment. They don't even really know who I am. My own father was manipulative and abusive physically and emotionally and verbally, and I know he was abused by his father. The abuse just led to more abuse. Mix alcohol and drugs on top of undiscovered head trauma over the years and mental disorders and yeah, I struggle with letting go everyday. The endless guilt I have for no reason. The PTSD. The bottled emotional trauma from early childhood. I don't know how to process things sometimes, this video helped me share this though, so whoever reads it maybe, they won't feel so alone anymore..
    Peace and love

  • @Qmodi
    @Qmodi 3 роки тому

    amazing you have in a single video summarized every human being i met.
    no wonder i always feel like shit