Exactly the man does not like her. How many other ways can he show it before she walks away. He’s been testing her boundaries and self respect from day one. For her to go pick up a the shrimp he wants showed how desperate she was and ready to appease him. She set no standards. When you have none anyone will abuse you. People love a challenge and she was easy
Envy is right on this one. He got what he wanted and is on to the next. He’s not interested in getting to know her any more. Some where along the line he’ll probably apologize for treating her bad. This is the unfortunate gamble we take with men
I’m a woman, and I AGREE with Envy!! She gave it up to fast!! She didn’t make him work for HER!! Therefore if he showed ANY of these signs BEFORE he smashed… which are RED FLAGS 🚩… she could have cut him off EARLY!! Cause ain’t no way!!! Yessss Envy!! You are definitely right!! 💯
Envy was helpful in this episode and as a woman I agreed with him. Glad to know she’s moving on. From hearing the information provided, this man isn’t for her or any woman that requires to be treated with respect and care.
Envy did a great job with his comments. He was spot on. My brothers always put me up on game when it came to men. They always called me a male in a females body. I don’t like when people try to use someone. Just be honest with each other!,
Gia,you look beautiful as always.DJ Envy,I completely agree with all what you said.I feel that he feels that he don’t have to court her anymore because she gave him herself.Great podcast.
I think I would have let it slide when envy said he could have given her money to get better shrimp. Also the nap is a NO! I get pissed when my husband says NOTHING! About the food! That’s why I choose not to care about making him something special. He is trying his best to tell me when he likes something or not sonI know. But we’ve been married for 8 years together for 15 years. But when dating he was appreciative when I did make it. This whole interaction! With the friend! LEAVE HIM!!! DO NOT SETTLE!!!!!
Hey Tracy! Thank you so much for listening/watching, per google: Criticism is judgmental and focused on placing blame, while critique is descriptive and focused on finding solutions. 😘❤
I’m gone be very honest this relationship story shouldn’t be a topic because they don’t have enough history together; four months is not enough time to really get to know a person
“He’s just not that into you”, should’ve been the episode title. Early or later, buddy was not about to do all that after he hit. Definitely not keep it up😂😂😂
I hope your friend isn’t dating that guy anymore. He definitely doesn’t want a relationship with her. It sounds like he was using her as a placeholder. As women we have to only go off actions and not words because some men can and will say anything to get what they want.
Envy is right . MoKenStef sang 🎵Went out on a date, wasn't out to late, took you to a room and you gave it up to soon, played you like a trick , cause you let him hit!!🎵
As blunt as Envy is being he is 💯 % correct. Men only court long enough to get the 🐱 once they receive it it’s downhill from there. I hope Gias friend left this guy in the dumps 🗑️🚮
I agree with Envy. As a woman, I used to only desire sexual relationships with women before attending therapy. It's essential that your friend learns to be assertive and takes action when she notices any red flags in a situation. Encourage her to seek professional help and consider therapy an effective option to build her confidence and stand up for herself.
Stop it! After all the bs… when they arrived “they do the do”? Wait a minute!!! She should not have given him any sex during the entire trip! That’s promoting his bs… that she doesn’t want to deal with. And so he repeats the bs at the dinner table later. Hot mess.
Sounds like they don't need to be dating each other. It's apparent that she overlooked all the tell tale signs and that he doesn't exhibit qualities that SHE desires. This isn't her first go round and with that being said I agree with Envy, he already smashed. Now as for her, why are you agreeing to going on a trip that you can't afford this early on? And he's probably gaging her in terms of, her true intentions and what she's about because is this going to be an ongoing thing where you're not willing to make sacrifices on your end, put in any effort etc unless he's gone all out for you? At the end of the day, you're both getting to know each other, just as much as women think they are the prize, he's also the prize too. Gia hold your friend accountable and maybe she should go back and refine her search.
Why was Gia trying to make Envy change his answer? That was annoying me. He was right the whole time but she kept getting frustrated as if she wanted him to change his answer.
OMG, I couldn't debate Envy because he keeps adding to/changing/pre-supposing the situation/creating hypotheticals...whatever. it would drive me crazy and I'd just have to say, "Forget it; you win. I guve up. " 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't agree with him not being able to take a nap. If he's tired, I don't mind. But Envy is right, I think. It kind of sounds like he love bombed her but he showed his true colors VERY soon
If I cook a meal for a man and he doesn’t say anything, babyyyy that’s the first and last meal he getting outta me 😂😂😂. You better be moaning over my food
If I’m being honest, I would have considered it a bit rude for her not to offer to drive. Not saying she needs to drive her car, but offering to drive his car considering he just drove back to meet her. I wouldn’t expect him to agree, but her not offering to drive to me would be a red flag. I think they don’t like each other.
He using her & playing games because he is not that into her and like Envy keeps saying he smashed already so he doesn’t Care in fact he really want her to leave him alone but his heart is to good to just stop talking to her because he doesn’t want to See her hurt
I am so for keeping kids busy. I cannot wait to become a mother. I made a promise to my mother when I have children about 10 years ago or so. I will keep your grandchildren busy. I made a promise to keep them humble, responsible, respectful, and to honor God. They can choose their own religions when they're adults lol. They must keep their rooms clean, come home with grades As and Bs, volunteer and do community service, spend time with their grandparents, and go to church. You do that I will give you whatever you want. Those are my conditions. And Envy!!!! Listen to the your children's days and what they did don't shoot them down that's how you find out what is happening in your children's life no matter what stage of life. Lol. Keep your marriage spicy 🌶 and hot 🔥🔥🔥all for the toys lol. So happy to hear you all are back lol.
Gia, you’ve only dated two guys your entire life, (which is not a bad thing, btw)…you don’t have that much experience of how dudes think and move. Your hubby is 100%.
I have to disagree about not sharing details of your past relationships. You can say “things just didn’t work out” but if you did things to destroy your own past relationship, the person you’re dating now should know
I'm in agreement with Envy on this one because for 1 if he's already "earned" her body, which is way more valuable than a meal. I think that if us women started valuing our bodies more and taking the vetting process more serious we'd prevent ending up in these types of situations. Why buy the milk when you're getting the cow for free?!?! Where's the challenge and standard?
It also sounds like it could be a possibility that her sex is not worth splurging on and he's doing the bare minimum so he doesn't have the guilt of breaking her heart. There are women that give up sex on the first date and get wifed.... Ijs
It is an unfortunate truth. And then again, if a man wants to be lead by lust, she don’t want him anyway. Of course our bodies are sacred and we really should wait….the Bible really shows us how to be honor one another and we act like it’s too hard until we are heart broken and taken advantage of. Im rambling lol but great episode! Cheers !!
The box was probably not as good as he expected, and he realized thats something he didn't want to deal it, so he did all of that stuff to run her off.
I agree with gia you shouldn’t say what you don’t eat how about go and get what you eat don’t be ungrateful . For her I wouldn’t even had went out again
Sometimes it is desperation… but goodness. Why are women having to think or try to figure out if he lying about who he is… it’s just a lot. Men be having representatives for years these days. It’s wild!
You don't fall asleep and we are dating 4 months in....nah G you don't earn that privilege. 4 months is too soon 4 years is different the man or woman earned the privilege they proved themselves, they worked for it. Any man getting good seafood and a meal in general should be satisfied. He was being a little bougie in my opinion. Too soon. At that point when he says "Oh, nah it was good." He's going to leave my house or go order Uber eats or order takeout. Don't get too comfortable men or women. A meal is a sign of appreciation and an act of service. He got too comfortable too fast. I agree with Envy there was a level of comfortability with these two. There's a possibility they slept together early on. But even if they did that should have made him appreciate her even more and the meal too.
12:16 the way y'all tell stories or describe examples drives me insane. Neither one of y'all give the other space to tell the entire story without interruption. Why can't you wait til the story is complete to ask clarifying details?
Dat box was bad! 🤣🤣 Cuzz a man that wants to get that again would have handled her with much better care! Sorry Gia …& you was actin like she was a real catch but she sounded like an opportunist!! Couldn’t afford half the trip, car was on lease, wanted all free meals, chauffeured around, bag shrimp … she sounds very average. Sorry girl 🤷🏾♀️
Envy is always making excuses for men. Why does this friend even want his opinion? This dude has hit and that’s all he came to achieve with her. Now he’s being a jerk purposefully. Envy would never give this bad advice to her friend that he’d give to his daughters.
I'm ROTFL at Envy making up excuses for the guy sleeping while his girl is making him a meal. Sir take you nap at home before you come over. Or we nap together and no meal. And this gut has red flags all over this story. I hope she has moved on.
"A lot of women look at mediocre as great." Envy WHOA---- truth unfiltered!
Envy was helpful in this episode. As a woman, I agreed with him. Good to know that she recognizes this man isn’t for her and she’s moving on.
I was about to say the same thing
Exactly the man does not like her. How many other ways can he show it before she walks away.
He’s been testing her boundaries and self respect from day one. For her to go pick up a the shrimp he wants showed how desperate she was and ready to appease him.
She set no standards.
When you have none anyone will abuse you. People love a challenge and she was easy
"The new man is not your therapist." BARS!! Well said Gia.
Envy is right on this one. He got what he wanted and is on to the next. He’s not interested in getting to know her any more. Some where along the line he’ll probably apologize for treating her bad. This is the unfortunate gamble we take with men
Envy was right from start to finish. Sisters close your legs until the wedding night! GOD way is the right way!
I’m a woman, and I AGREE with Envy!!
She gave it up to fast!!
She didn’t make him work for HER!!
Therefore if he showed ANY of these signs BEFORE he smashed… which are RED FLAGS 🚩… she could have cut him off EARLY!!
Cause ain’t no way!!!
Yessss Envy!! You are definitely right!! 💯
Envy telling the truth. He tryna get her to dump him.
During the email of the week, love how Gia looking at Envy like, “that’s my man! ❤”
46:09 😂😂😂 This “What?” was iconically hilarious
Ohhh yall really coming back to back !! Thank you soooo much !!!
Envy was helpful in this episode and as a woman I agreed with him. Glad to know she’s moving on. From hearing the information provided, this man isn’t for her or any woman that requires to be treated with respect and care.
Once the trip went from overseas to Atlantic City I would have blocked him. That’s such a disrespectful downgrade ‼️‼️
So happy y’all are back
Envy did a great job with his comments. He was spot on. My brothers always put me up on game when it came to men. They always called me a male in a females body. I don’t like when people try to use someone. Just be honest with each other!,
Gia,you look beautiful as always.DJ Envy,I completely agree with all what you said.I feel that he feels that he don’t have to court her anymore because she gave him herself.Great podcast.
This is one of the rare times I agree with Envy over Gia.. 🤷🏿♂️.. he was right on all the topics.. 💯 in my opinion
I am so happy the story about the friend didn't turn into a Reesa Teesa situation. Good on her for knowing when to remove herself from the equation. ❤
Envy was spot on! Right from the beginning to the end!
I don't like envy given out secrets but he's right. he got the box already sis, he not that into her
🗣️the consistency is back baybeee 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thanks yall!!! ❤❤❤
I would have went back up to the hotel room and I would have left.And I would never spoke to him again.
Gia’s always on point!! Envy’s math was mathing this week
Gia, I love your outfit!!! Can you share where you got it?
Hey Girl!!!! Got the outfit from Zara and it was around $29.99 for the top and about the same for the bottom.
@@TheCaseyCrew Thank you Thank you!!! ❤️
13 mins in. This shit is hilarious. I’m cracking up 😂😂😂
As a formerly desperate girl, I totally agree with Envy. 💯 I want to write in now bc I have a similar situation going on with a friend ☹️
Envy your intro always sounds like your on the radio 😂guess so many years doing it it comes natural lol 😂😂 all love
I dont know why she gave this guy so many chances. The dinner wouldve been the one and only red flag for me to bounce.
Agree w Gia..getting too comfy too quick is 🚩🚩🚩 10:47
Gia is so classy
Envy is 100% correct. That man got what he wanted.
I think I would have let it slide when envy said he could have given her money to get better shrimp. Also the nap is a NO! I get pissed when my husband says NOTHING! About the food! That’s why I choose not to care about making him something special. He is trying his best to tell me when he likes something or not sonI know. But we’ve been married for 8 years together for 15 years. But when dating he was appreciative when I did make it.
This whole interaction! With the friend! LEAVE HIM!!! DO NOT SETTLE!!!!!
Envy spilling the truth about some men thoughts about getting the box.....
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Gia said, that is not critism, its a critique. 😅😅
Hey Tracy! Thank you so much for listening/watching, per google: Criticism is judgmental and focused on placing blame, while critique is descriptive and focused on finding solutions. 😘❤
@@TheCaseyCrew Gotta love the classy clapback! Lmaoo
42:34 the dude in this story screwed from the beginning and at every turn thereafter. 😂😂😂
He was griping at $400 when he early on talked about here take the credit card 😂. Yeah bye my guy smh
I did not hear one lie that’s was told. Envy was completely on point with his opinion’s .
Loved this episode! ❤
I’m gone be very honest this relationship story shouldn’t be a topic because they don’t have enough history together; four months is not enough time to really get to know a person
Hey Gia. Where did you get your lounge ware from? I love this outfit
“He’s just not that into you”, should’ve been the episode title. Early or later, buddy was not about to do all that after he hit. Definitely not keep it up😂😂😂
I hope your friend isn’t dating that guy anymore. He definitely doesn’t want a relationship with her. It sounds like he was using her as a placeholder. As women we have to only go off actions and not words because some men can and will say anything to get what they want.
It seems as if Gia isn't listening to Envy because he doesn't agree with her. Envy said it clear as day! Sheesh 😫😫
The funniest episode ever😂
LOVES YALL
Co-courting 😂😂
Envy is right . MoKenStef sang 🎵Went out on a date, wasn't out to late, took you to a room and you gave it up to soon, played you like a trick , cause you let him hit!!🎵
I miss you guys
As blunt as Envy is being he is 💯 % correct. Men only court long enough to get the 🐱 once they receive it it’s downhill from there. I hope Gias friend left this guy in the dumps 🗑️🚮
I agree with Envy. As a woman, I used to only desire sexual relationships with women before attending therapy. It's essential that your friend learns to be assertive and takes action when she notices any red flags in a situation. Encourage her to seek professional help and consider therapy an effective option to build her confidence and stand up for herself.
Stop it! After all the bs… when they arrived “they do the do”? Wait a minute!!! She should not have given him any sex during the entire trip! That’s promoting his bs… that she doesn’t want to deal with. And so he repeats the bs at the dinner table later. Hot mess.
Sounds like they don't need to be dating each other. It's apparent that she overlooked all the tell tale signs and that he doesn't exhibit qualities that SHE desires. This isn't her first go round and with that being said I agree with Envy, he already smashed. Now as for her, why are you agreeing to going on a trip that you can't afford this early on? And he's probably gaging her in terms of, her true intentions and what she's about because is this going to be an ongoing thing where you're not willing to make sacrifices on your end, put in any effort etc unless he's gone all out for you? At the end of the day, you're both getting to know each other, just as much as women think they are the prize, he's also the prize too. Gia hold your friend accountable and maybe she should go back and refine her search.
Why was Gia trying to make Envy change his answer? That was annoying me. He was right the whole time but she kept getting frustrated as if she wanted him to change his answer.
Envy is def right . They only care about the box
OMG, I couldn't debate Envy because he keeps adding to/changing/pre-supposing the situation/creating hypotheticals...whatever. it would drive me crazy and I'd just have to say, "Forget it; you win. I guve up. " 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't agree with him not being able to take a nap. If he's tired, I don't mind. But Envy is right, I think. It kind of sounds like he love bombed her but he showed his true colors VERY soon
I'm with Gia on the road trip! What's wrong so drive back 😂
I concur Envy!
If I cook a meal for a man and he doesn’t say anything, babyyyy that’s the first and last meal he getting outta me 😂😂😂. You better be moaning over my food
Sorry Gia Envy is right with this one. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
If the friend was one of the girls at the table during the book video, I know which friend it is 😂
Looove y'allllll from Germany❤❤❤
If I’m being honest, I would have considered it a bit rude for her not to offer to drive. Not saying she needs to drive her car, but offering to drive his car considering he just drove back to meet her. I wouldn’t expect him to agree, but her not offering to drive to me would be a red flag. I think they don’t like each other.
Yeah, she could've at least drove halfway, being that he drove to her.
He using her & playing games because he is not that into her and like Envy keeps saying he smashed already so he doesn’t
Care in fact he really want her to leave him alone but his heart is to good to just stop talking to her because he doesn’t want to
See her hurt
I am so for keeping kids busy. I cannot wait to become a mother. I made a promise to my mother when I have children about 10 years ago or so. I will keep your grandchildren busy. I made a promise to keep them humble, responsible, respectful, and to honor God. They can choose their own religions when they're adults lol. They must keep their rooms clean, come home with grades As and Bs, volunteer and do community service, spend time with their grandparents, and go to church. You do that I will give you whatever you want. Those are my conditions.
And Envy!!!! Listen to the your children's days and what they did don't shoot them down that's how you find out what is happening in your children's life no matter what stage of life. Lol.
Keep your marriage spicy 🌶 and hot 🔥🔥🔥all for the toys lol.
So happy to hear you all are back lol.
Gia, you’ve only dated two guys your entire life, (which is not a bad thing, btw)…you don’t have that much experience of how dudes think and move. Your hubby is 100%.
I have to disagree about not sharing details of your past relationships. You can say “things just didn’t work out” but if you did things to destroy your own past relationship, the person you’re dating now should know
He hit already
I TOTALLY Agree With ENVY she gave it up too soon!! I love you tho boo but u never dated around 😅js
If you going to ask someone their opinion on something. Be prepared for an honest response. That’s why I hate when someone ask how the food?
I hate homie for her. Nothing worse than a man who kills the beginning stages of a new relationship..boy bye
Maybe he didn’t really like the food and it’s his right to give his opinion, I really don’t understand why this is a big deal
I agree with Gia, he should be up with her while she was cooking. It was way to early in a relationship.
Envy is telling you THE REAL from a man’s perspective. Ladies listen when a man talks.
I'm in agreement with Envy on this one because for 1 if he's already "earned" her body, which is way more valuable than a meal. I think that if us women started valuing our bodies more and taking the vetting process more serious we'd prevent ending up in these types of situations. Why buy the milk when you're getting the cow for free?!?! Where's the challenge and standard?
Envy is right. He got what he wanted. He does not care anymore and probably hopes she dumps him so he won't have to do the dumping.
It also sounds like it could be a possibility that her sex is not worth splurging on and he's doing the bare minimum so he doesn't have the guilt of breaking her heart. There are women that give up sex on the first date and get wifed.... Ijs
It is an unfortunate truth. And then again, if a man wants to be lead by lust, she don’t want him anyway. Of course our bodies are sacred and we really should wait….the Bible really shows us how to be honor one another and we act like it’s too hard until we are heart broken and taken advantage of. Im rambling lol but great episode! Cheers !!
This dude got what he wanted now he’s trying to force her to end the relationship.
The box was probably not as good as he expected, and he realized thats something he didn't want to deal it, so he did all of that stuff to run her off.
Word
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Gia is just spoiled and expects everyone to operate how she wants them to..... you don't know nothing about dudes Gia
Gia, snap into reality...... Yessssssss, that's how guys work, unfortunately
I agree. Gia only dated Envy and has no real experience.
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Truth is he got money on the low and he’s testing her. Good episode . No woman wants a yes man.
They wasn't compatible.
I agree with gia you shouldn’t say what you don’t eat how about go and get what you eat don’t be ungrateful . For her I wouldn’t even had went out again
She should’ve left him right in Atlantic City 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Sometimes it is desperation… but goodness. Why are women having to think or try to figure out if he lying about who he is… it’s just a lot. Men be having representatives for years these days. It’s wild!
You don't fall asleep and we are dating 4 months in....nah G you don't earn that privilege. 4 months is too soon 4 years is different the man or woman earned the privilege they proved themselves, they worked for it. Any man getting good seafood and a meal in general should be satisfied. He was being a little bougie in my opinion. Too soon. At that point when he says "Oh, nah it was good." He's going to leave my house or go order Uber eats or order takeout. Don't get too comfortable men or women. A meal is a sign of appreciation and an act of service. He got too comfortable too fast. I agree with Envy there was a level of comfortability with these two. There's a possibility they slept together early on. But even if they did that should have made him appreciate her even more and the meal too.
That 📦 must be 🗑
12:16 the way y'all tell stories or describe examples drives me insane. Neither one of y'all give the other space to tell the entire story without interruption. Why can't you wait til the story is complete to ask clarifying details?
Im only 5min into the EP and i was asking the same question. Did they have sex.
All my guy friends say they immediately think smash or pass with females.
Dat box was bad! 🤣🤣 Cuzz a man that wants to get that again would have handled her with much better care! Sorry Gia …& you was actin like she was a real catch but she sounded like an opportunist!! Couldn’t afford half the trip, car was on lease, wanted all free meals, chauffeured around, bag shrimp … she sounds very average. Sorry girl 🤷🏾♀️
Your 👏🏾new 👏🏾man 👏🏾is 👏🏾not 👏🏾your👏🏾 therapist👏🏾
Envy is always making excuses for men. Why does this friend even want his opinion? This dude has hit and that’s all he came to achieve with her. Now he’s being a jerk purposefully. Envy would never give this bad advice to her friend that he’d give to his daughters.
I'm ROTFL at Envy making up excuses for the guy sleeping while his girl is making him a meal. Sir take you nap at home before you come over. Or we nap together and no meal. And this gut has red flags all over this story. I hope she has moved on.
He might be a sexual predator.