POV: You’re an INTROVERT
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As an ambivert, I get recharged by both socializing and alone time, but if the balance isnt perfect, I just feel exhausted all the time.
Same for me
THISSSSSS
I felt that. If I get home early enough, I can hang out back to back with the same people over the next couple of days but If I stay out way past my "time frame" I won't want to see anyone for weeks
Then I m an ambivert as well. Balance is really the key to my liking!!
We might as well be twins
"NO! People drain me and i need to be alone" ~ Jeffrey Chang
is probably the best this I've heard my whole life till now so I'm gonna quote it.
lmao
I will never get tired of watching you cook/bake while listening to your relatable thoughts
This is commonly known as being an introverted extrovert. My psychologist taught me about.
Im an introverted extrovert :]]
i was told im an extroverted introvert bc of this experience, i love being around people and im quite loud in public but it drains me mentally and i get my "mental energy" from being alone (the last part is basically what an introvert is)
Or an introvert who is not shy?
Ok, I watched the full video. I don’t fully understand the difference. Help🙃
I like thinking about introvert vs. extrovert as if You enjoy talking to people at stores working behind the counters, etc., it makes it a lot simpler and is usually pretty accurate
Finally someone who get it. Sometimes you just have to be alone to recharge. You explained it very well. I need to share this video with my friends.
ikr people need to understand this topic deeply tho, without getting mad! i know it hurts others but it is what it is:(
Ah good to meet another fellow introvert. Sure we can socialize but we would rather keep our peace, quiet, and tranquility.
I consider myself a shy introvert who loves talking and meeting new people, but gets anxious just thinking about starting a conversation... so... it's complicated 😅
And gets energized at the anticipation but gets mid key stressed at the start and during the convo🥲
I’ve never been able to explain this in words to people because it’s just hard to explain but FACTS
Totally relate to this. I really appreciate and enjoy hanging out with friends, specially when is one on one because I can use my more of my energy on that person and get tired less quickly. And after hanging out with people, even if it is in class or work, I feel so sleepy… anyway, good to know I’m not the only one
Thanks for explaining those terms. Now i understand my kids better👍🏼
I couldn't relate more 😩
You explain how I feel perfectly
Same bro, same bro…sometimes
I don’t want to go to a social gathering if I’m still recovering from another social gathering.
it's so beautiful that you have just explained my whole nature.. like it is so difficult for me to explain to others that I am neither an introvert nor an extrovert... I just need some me time after a gathering or I become really emotional. I just loved the thing that you explained this whole thing beautifully
💕Learned a new term🤩 (I was thinking that why some parts of being an introvert doesn't suit me now I know why) I will look into more information to understand and express myself better.
Thank uuuu, love u🥰 hoping we can be friends one day 💗
You explained it so accurately, I have social skills but don’t like socializing, love being alone yet I attract others to reach out and open up to me and the extrovert in me gets out and then I’m drained for weeks…
Huh that's so crazy! I always thought i was an introvert but i just loveee being around people and i get so depressed if I'm alone for more than like 2 days. But it's so interesting, just how you said, that there is a spectrum for it and it's not all black and white.
This is energy related, it’s something beyond explanation sometimes. Youre one of the few as “i am”
I feel like I finally have a good word for this oh my gosh!!
Brooo seeing how far you've come with your cooking skills brings a tear to my eye!! 💯✨
It’s tough to find the balance sometimes. If I stay alone for too long, I get too lost in my own though and miss social interaction, but if I’m around people for too long, I’d want to be away from them for a while ✨
That's so true, you're explanation to things are amazing. Like you simplify complicated things. Also are you okay, what happened to your arm.
THANK YOU. now I’m goi g to show this to all the people who think I’m a mixture of extrovert and introvert because no I’m an introvert that is just great at socializing and is not shy at all
Same, I can talk to people and I've gotten better at starting conversations but I very much enjoy my alone time.
I feel weirdly understood here 🤩🙋🏼♀️ high five fellow "social introverts". Love your introspect as always!
Thank you Jeffery, I needed to hear this. Your channel is very inspirational! Many thank!👍🥰. Makes me want to start my own UA-cam channel.🙏
I have the exact same thing, nice to see other people with the same experience ◡̈
It's weird how much I relate to this video.
My best friend is an introvert (big time) and I'm an ambivert (sometimes more introverted). I sometimes give her her personal space and other times I bug the heck out of her that she'll actually hit me.😅 LOVE y'all introverted beings❣️
I think I’m an ambivert, being alone can help me charge up for the day and be more excited near others, while also socializing with friends and family give me energy as well. But I do get exhausted from being alone and socializing smt
I feel you I like to socialize at times but if I’m there to long I get annoyed and easily angry
team introvert here! socializing is so exhausting but i love hanging out with my best friends though! just as u said, need time to recharge afterwards xD
Finally this put words to how I feel. I was trying to explain it earlier but I couldn’t. This is literally me on a daily basis haha
I relate to this 100% and I’m also such an awkward person in front of other people that I don’t know how to be normal 😭 I’m usually okay with talking to someone one on one but then I’m with a group of people or a group of friends I start feeling awkward and rethink anything i might say out loud a hundred times before actually saying something. It’s like a form of insecurity for me, of being judged or feeling stupid in front of my friends. There’s only a few people in my life who I’m comfortable around. I wish I was more outgoing and didn’t care what people thought of me, I wish I could get rid of nerves and be like how my friends are. I envy them, I envy them so much because they are so natural and don’t let anything get in the way but ME, I don’t feel normal.
This is the perfect description for me. I'm the life of the party when I show up but I'll disappear randomly for a few weeks lol
Pleeeeeaaaase put the written recipe in the comments, because those cakes look heavenly delicious 😍😍
This looks so good😭
you’re and extroverted introvert, just like me!!
All of my closest friends are extroverts and I'm an introvert, which can make things interesting sometimes... Especially being a people pleaser, I tend to overspend my energy and then lock myself in my room for a week binging TV shows and doing nothing productive bc I've left no energy for myself and my needs
I understand you so well
Love all your videos !!!
My social battery has a short. I enjoy the company of people, but I'm very limited doses spread across a decent timeframe.
It's difficult because I deal with people for a career, which is where my social battery short comes from.
I used to think that I was An introvert. I used to hate going out.
Now I'm in a completely different environment and I absolutely love it. I don't want to leave early, I'm usually there until the end. I need some time to recharge after, but in the moment I get very hyperactive. The few weeks after I'm absolutely exhausted. In the worst cases I fall into a pit and feel the urge to completely isolate myself because I just hate everything and everyone and I especially hate myself for no real reason.
But I'm getting used to it. I haven't fallen into such a pit in a couple of months and I've been going out quite a bit. I've been the most confident I've ever been, in fact.
I thought for a while that I just needed to get used to going out, and that that's why I like it now... But I went out with some People from high school again and omg... I hated every second of it.
I didn't dislike going out, I disliked the vibe those People Bring. I don't know what it is, cause they're very Nice, but they just make me feel so bad.
They're the kind of People I can't stand in a group. I love them one on one, but I am absolutely never doing that in group again.
But I would say that I do have some Extraversion. I hate meeting new People, but I love the People I know. I get immens joy and energy out of talking to People and actually enjoying it.
With certain People it's more of a chore, that's exhausting, but with others it's so easy and genuinely just Fun.
I do need some alone time though. And I don't mind Being alone for Longer periods of time.
Idk, I wouldn't say that I'm An ambivert, but I also don't think of myself as a fully blown introvert anymore.
Maybe it's also worth mentioning that I tend to enter a dreamlike state after Being around lot of People for a long time. Now I don't notice it as much because usually I'm drinking, so the alcohol is also to blame. But I get that even when I'm not drinking. I become hyperactive, and it's like I'm just on Autopilot. I stop fully realising what I'm doing. I'm not fully in my body... It sometimes feels like I'm just watching myself do thing at that Point.
But even though it might sounds strange, I really do still enjoy it. Unless the vibe is off, then I'm just kinda miserable lmao.
Same, my mom tries to drag me out of my place to go places with her and meet people but after an hour I’m ready to go home.
I wish I was a social introvert. I'm more an unwilling antisocial introvert
I’ve never felt so understood lol
If I had to never leave my house I wouldn’t lol. That’s how introverted I am anymore. It’s weird because when I was way younger I was the exact opposite 😂
I think you’re an ambivert. I’m the same way. Love your story and cooking. I will cook as well as you one day.☺️
I’m an extroverted introvert
So I’m basically an extrovert around my best friends but an introvert around people I don’t necessarily talk to a lot ❤
As an introvert,I can cook,can do everything.except math and other power request activity.but I can cook and others thing.and it sucks at this that if having making meal with my mom she really have weird food mixing idea ,for example of making salad.or more 😅
The spectrum is very accurate.
You'd be hard-pressed to find an extrovert that needs absolutely zero time by themselves and, vice versa, an introvert who doesn't benefit from occasional social interaction.
wAiT a MiNuTe- I didn’t know I was an ambivert until now cuz I kept saying I was in between but had no idea there was a term for it😅
same can relate ✋🏻
The avoidance of inviting people over is meee
I Love your Videos ❤🎉
Same dude, same!
Same!💕
Hm now I understand much about most from you. I’m an esfp so I’m basically extrovert and sense peoples emotions based on how there feel , sometimes I can be a bit introvert whenever there too many people from church . If it’s huge crowd I have so much anxiety 😟 so I just cling to my close friends so I won’t get too exhausted. If I need some quiet time I would usually make some activity for school for music since that’s the space where I’m free to express myself . So at least you’ve grown from social gathering btw nice suit from you Snapchat hehehe ❤😂
I literately love you
luv u
Im exactly the same!!
Wow bro wtf… literally me to fuckin T. That honestly just gave me anxiety
I could only talk to one person at a time anymore and I'm drained (in around 10-30 mins)
You are a healthy introvert person ... all the introverts stereotypes on social media are kind of people who really need help ... being an introvert does not mean you avoid every social gathering in your life ... being an introvert means you charge your social battery by being alone to be able to make any kind of social interaction.. and yes it is exhausting at some level depends on how fast your social battery needs to recharge again ...
Dear speak slowly❤❤❤
Can you put the ingredients in the comments? (or maybe the next time you make it?)
I second this
Me too broo. Like I am the same person.
I totally relate
I really need to make these.
Introverted extrovert
I’m the same way
omg the nutella one 🤤🤤🤤
bro I am like that
Same!
I'm the same lol.
Your style is 👌👌👌 🧥
Honey same
Honestly same XD
We are the exact same
Esfj...but i think it wrong cus i do get tired after a few days of extroverting..i crawl back home n I just want to sleep n not do anything ever...
I can imagine you offering to make all the snacks for a party in return for you not attending the whole event
ahaha
AMBIVERT
Look good, oh! Im a extro
I can relate
Sameee.
Same bro but people who are around me don't get it fully
I would really appreciate it if you could share the recepies too❤
Introvert mistaken for an extrovert
thats us
Yeah that’s me
Takoyaki🤤🤤🤤
I'll take some of those
Am I considered an introvert or an extrovert if I like socializing but not talking or being friends but can’t keep a relationship going because of my silence?
Me too
Ohhh my goodness
Me too
I love to get out but depending on who’s near me I’ll come home and sleep for ever due to all the people tugging on my energy..
🧘🏽♀️♾️🫠🧬🙌🏾🤎🫀🧬
Stay energy safe
Blessings blessings blessings blessings blessings blessings
Have an amazing rest of your day
Yes I agree💀👍
That's called an "ambivert", sir
Same
SAMEEEEEE 😫😫
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