8 First Time Father Mistakes - Don't Do This! | Dad University

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  • @DadUniversity
    @DadUniversity  3 роки тому +5

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  • @vnomik
    @vnomik 4 роки тому +41

    00:00 intro
    01:10 buying too much stuff
    02:33 not accepting help
    03:29 being empathetic
    04:47 thinking you should bond right away
    06:00 calling it babysitting
    06:32 comparing your baby
    07:31 taking things personally
    08:25 thinking you need to be perfect

  • @LordKenyonII
    @LordKenyonII 3 роки тому +3

    "Love the child you have, not the one you want" Love that

  • @MWash-yr1xe
    @MWash-yr1xe 2 роки тому +5

    I have a baby on the way and this is such a trip to me, I can build a house from the ground up but when it comes to children I’m completely clueless. Thanks for the invaluable content!

  • @richardnopedji8507
    @richardnopedji8507 2 роки тому +2

    I need lots of lessons. My wife is six weeks pregnant. And figuring out how to be a good Dad peaks my mind all day. I pray I do it well

  • @kurokensei888
    @kurokensei888 Рік тому +1

    First time father here. I really appreciate your videos, you are a sensitive and kind man who has a lot to teach the new generation of fathers. Thanks for all your advise.

  • @rhyzruslan6886
    @rhyzruslan6886 3 роки тому +9

    Never thought I'd take dad advice from Tom Cruise 😂

  • @maxsteffens6855
    @maxsteffens6855 Рік тому +1

    I’m going to be a new dad in 8 months, and a young dad, I’m turning 24 in April. This is all new for me, some friends have kids but I see them sporadically. We planned this, and we are really happy that we are having a child! It’s new, and definitely scary but your video’s are really soothing and reassuring. They are definitely worth watching and very intriguing as well! Keep up the great content and I hope to learn more from you!

    • @ryanculler7324
      @ryanculler7324 Рік тому +1

      Congratulations 🎉 👏🏽 How's it going? Hope all is well
      My wife tested positive last night 5 different tests confirmed it we've been trying for 7 years now we had a miscarriage 2 years ago and been trying every since just found out last night she has appointment October 16th last menstrual was July 30th so she's like 9 weeks along I can't wait 🫷🏽 I'm so excited but would be a lie if I said I wasn't nervous I just pray for a safe carry and delivery.

  • @x..x141
    @x..x141 4 роки тому +5

    Expecting my first child (daughter) tomorrow! - Been watching these videos throughout the pregnancy and I will continue to, thank you!

    • @selahman1074
      @selahman1074 4 роки тому +3

      Sam Praying favor for you guys!

    • @burnoutboy8991
      @burnoutboy8991 3 роки тому

      I thought your profile pic was a hair on my screen that I couldnt get off for bout 10 seconds. Thanks

  • @nathanieldejesus3797
    @nathanieldejesus3797 Рік тому +1

    Expecting my son in March and I appreciate this content. Makes me more confident going into it!

  • @blacccheech5540
    @blacccheech5540 4 роки тому +1

    Respect to this dude

  • @BernardAkem
    @BernardAkem 3 роки тому +1

    We are expecting - August due date - and I am beyond excited, nervous, and excited again. These are helpful tips

  • @shai5564
    @shai5564 4 місяці тому

    Great video, thank you

  • @grumpy-_-ghost3911
    @grumpy-_-ghost3911 4 роки тому +2

    Great advice! Ty

  • @daveh8139
    @daveh8139 4 роки тому +1

    First time dad. Baby girl was just born and this video helped alot.
    "Taking things personally" is something I definitely did wrong. Thanks again!

  • @chriswebb8011
    @chriswebb8011 Рік тому

    my wife is 10 weeks and i am already talking to my child and telling him/her i love you

  • @chillenwithjj3237
    @chillenwithjj3237 4 роки тому +5

    First time dad of an 9 hr old baby boy and already this helped

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  4 роки тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed it! Welcome to the community

  • @FridayTheDon
    @FridayTheDon Рік тому +1

    Great tips

  • @brianthomas6808
    @brianthomas6808 Рік тому

    My wife and I ate welcoming a little girl in the world in a couple of weeks. Great video!

  • @walkermcnabb4812
    @walkermcnabb4812 3 роки тому +1

    Dude, thank you for creating this content. I stumbled across this channel recently and its changing my life. Thank you, needed this to prep for my first baby on the way.

  • @DodoBirdies1
    @DodoBirdies1 2 роки тому

    Going to be a dad soon.. Just found this Channel, and its helping me a whole lot. Thanks

  • @samteria434
    @samteria434 3 роки тому +5

    It amazes me that millions of babies are born every year and this video only has 20k views…

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 роки тому +1

      It amazes us too :) The reality is that people need to be looking for this type of content and unfortunately not enough people do. It doesn't mean they don't need it, they just aren't searching.

  • @patrickdiaz3788
    @patrickdiaz3788 3 роки тому +3

    Amazing things Prof! I will definitely purchase the bare necessities. I'll be a dad sometime around Oct 1!

  • @eugeneviljoen8513
    @eugeneviljoen8513 4 роки тому +1

    Three months until my daughter is to be born. This video and a lot of the others has helped me immensely to be a whole lot calmer regarding this new stage in my life.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  4 роки тому +1

      That is so great to hear. Let us know if there are any topics you want us to cover.

  • @markadam1237
    @markadam1237 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the tips! Will be very helpful when my first born arrives!

  • @neomothusiakadfg2492
    @neomothusiakadfg2492 3 роки тому

    Thank you bro. I tend to take things personal. I am going to work on the that, it is not about me the baby is trying to survive in this world.

  • @beepiffy2550
    @beepiffy2550 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you for the content. I’ve been watching since before my twin boys were born 14 months ago. Your advice has been invaluable. Finding ways with your partner to give each other breaks has been really helpful, even though with twins it can be hard early on when you pretty much have to run man-to-man. With twins it’s also really hard not to compare them to one another, but like you said, they all develop at their own rate. We had one of our sons crawling a couple weeks before the other, and I was getting nervous. Now they’re both bulldozing all over the place. Thanks again.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  4 роки тому

      So glad you are part of the community. I can imagine twins is a handful and does make it harder to take breaks. Sounds like you are making a lot of effort which is great. Ahhh the bulldozing phase...that's just around the time of the open every single drawer phase!

    • @vnomik
      @vnomik 4 роки тому

      @@DadUniversity so.. is this "bulldozing phase" optional?? :P (lolll), could I skip it with my twins? #expecting :D :P

  • @plethorax7127
    @plethorax7127 4 роки тому +4

    My baby is 5 days old, love him a bunch! And yeah would say it is a little bit longer for bonding with being a father, a tactical gear baby chest carrier would be great once he gets bigger lol

  • @darrionhoggard5734
    @darrionhoggard5734 4 роки тому +5

    Wow this video very helpful!.. I'm going to be first time dad, my son will be due on June 20, 2020..I'm so nervous!.. Your videos are so helpful..

    • @hvac1017
      @hvac1017 3 роки тому +2

      Any advice since your one year in

    • @darrionhoggard5734
      @darrionhoggard5734 2 роки тому

      @@hvac1017 it stressful I’m just now learning #1 balance

  • @denzilsmall5391
    @denzilsmall5391 4 роки тому

    Very helpful. Thanks. Was making all these mistakes. My baby is 2 weeks old. Appreciate it

  • @harryphillips2638
    @harryphillips2638 4 роки тому +4

    Fantastic content yet again!!! 4 months to go till my little girl arrives. Hope all is well.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  4 роки тому +2

      Thanks for the feedback. It feels like forever during this time but once they are here it goes so fast!

    • @nathan.365
      @nathan.365 3 роки тому +2

      How's the journey so far?

    • @harryphillips2638
      @harryphillips2638 3 роки тому +2

      @@nathan.365 absolutely fantastic. Cannot imagine a time without her. Absolutely in love!!!

    • @nathan.365
      @nathan.365 3 роки тому +2

      @@harryphillips2638 That’s amazing man! We're expecting a son in August- my first! I feel totally unprepared. Excited times though! Love these Dad videos and comments they're priceless

    • @harryphillips2638
      @harryphillips2638 3 роки тому +2

      @@nathan.365 MASSIVE congratulations to you! Believe me I was unprepared too but you learn to adapt very quickly. You’ll be absolutely fine. Good luck with everything.

  • @Savage209er
    @Savage209er 3 роки тому +4

    My first baby is due on 9/23/21. These videos are helping. I’m very anxious about caring for a new person. It’s very scary.

  • @ernestoantonio9578
    @ernestoantonio9578 2 роки тому

    less than 10 days and my sons due date! This will be my first!

  • @InvestorVentures
    @InvestorVentures 4 роки тому +10

    "LOVE THE CONTENT!! My son will be 11 months on the first and can’t thank you enough for your help!! 🚼
    List below (Spanish Translation) . . .
    1: Buying too much (Comprando demasiado)
    2: Not accepting help (Aceptando ayuda)
    3: Being empathetic (Tener más empatía) 4: Thinking you should bond right away (Pensando que necesitas una conexión íntima desde el inicio)
    5: Calling it babysitting (Llamándole el cuidado de su bebé “babysitting”)
    6: Comparing your baby (Comparando tu bebé)
    7:Taking things personally (Tomando las cosas personalmente)
    8: Thinking you need to be perfect (Pensando que tienes que ser perfecto)"

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  2 роки тому

      I have just started a Dad University en Espanol Channel: ua-cam.com/channels/sn85a7482-ZY-sA1-R08Zw.html

  • @eduardogarcia9793
    @eduardogarcia9793 2 роки тому

    Man. This video is so legit!!!

  • @Knocksley
    @Knocksley 4 роки тому

    5 months and I’ll be a dad, absolutely pumped! Happy to have stumbled across this channel subscribed instantly, great content thanks man 👍🏼

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  4 роки тому +1

      Congrats. Glad to be along with you for the journey

  • @sergiollanos4347
    @sergiollanos4347 4 роки тому +13

    One month left to have my baby girl arrive. Writing down here everything you say! 💪🥋🤓

  • @johnsantos9099
    @johnsantos9099 3 роки тому +2

    Due Date September 1st . Anxious hahaha

  • @CHMALY
    @CHMALY Рік тому

    Love to be a dad😊

  • @MrAlbertamike
    @MrAlbertamike 2 роки тому +1

    We want grandparents around after the birth for help because we'll I have no idea what I'm doing. Lol

  • @Sheiksvlog
    @Sheiksvlog 4 роки тому +1

    Kudos to chancellor or Dad university! 😜

  • @ryanculler7324
    @ryanculler7324 Рік тому

    I appreciate the information ℹ️ im gonna be the best Father always there supportive loving honest this is a true blessing we had miscarriage 2 years ago 💔
    My wife tested positive last night 5 different tests confirmed it we've been trying for 7 years now we had a miscarriage 2 years ago and been trying every since just found out last night she has appointment October 16th last menstrual was July 30th so she's like 9 weeks along I can't wait 🫷🏽 I'm so excited but would be a lie if I said I wasn't nervous I just pray for a safe carry and delivery

  • @anthonyspencer9992
    @anthonyspencer9992 3 роки тому

    I am a first time Dad and my daughter is so far then amazing and beautiful and I've had a rough time with having her at the mother's house due to the cats there I feel cats are a big deal around newborns

  • @s.v.o.7234
    @s.v.o.7234 4 роки тому +1

    Perfectly❤️ 💛 💚 💙 💜

  • @jennaflint977
    @jennaflint977 2 роки тому +1

    Every woman doesn’t bond right away… it’s not always an emotional connection… nothing is wrong with any of you…
    The kids are both parents kids… they should share the work load… as well as the housework… and meals.. it both parents share the workload! Babys are used to hearing mom’s heartbeat… so it is always calmer with the mother… bond more with your baby in utero… if baby hears your voice it’ll bond with you before birth…

  • @claytonbourne8967
    @claytonbourne8967 3 роки тому +1

    Random thought. Anybody else think this dude sounds exactly like Rob Lowe?

  • @samuelmire9389
    @samuelmire9389 3 роки тому +1

    When youre a professional dad*

  • @StarChild131
    @StarChild131 2 роки тому

    Guilt is my middle name. That must mean I am a normal dad.

  • @jmbeats9523
    @jmbeats9523 4 роки тому +1

    Bruh, im 19..

  • @ManuelGonzalez-vl7cl
    @ManuelGonzalez-vl7cl Рік тому

    Must say: great content. Really. Loving the content, just really: your loud man. Like. This topic is beautiful so the high tone, alpha american guy vibe is too much. You sound like Kasey Casey from American top 40. Annoying tone! If you can chill a bit, would be better. Gentleness is good. Not everyone is super pumped up on coffee and american alpha republican vibe bra!!!! Chill!!!! Aloha

  • @hancock1475
    @hancock1475 3 роки тому +2

    VASECTOMY IS THE WAY TO GO BOYS @/stop THE BABY TRAP. @/stop THE CHILD SUPPORT.# GET A VASECTOMY AND KEEP YOUR MONEY.

  • @stemclenz
    @stemclenz 4 роки тому +1

    this dude is like 65.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  4 роки тому +1

      Wow I look that old? That sucks!

    • @RexT3rra
      @RexT3rra 3 роки тому +1

      No way he looks
      65

    • @zacharycotton8642
      @zacharycotton8642 3 роки тому +2

      @@DadUniversity no buddy you don't. He's being a pecker head. Appreciate you.

  • @daddyplus7732
    @daddyplus7732 4 роки тому

    Always insightful and I did get quality advice in this video for 6 year old girl ans my newborn twins! Yeah its a bit wild ova here, come check us out! New episode realeasing today!