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@Breeny Lee ⤵👀 Breeny i have a important question to you. Could you please open the german dub or translate with undertitled in german .I love your content but I don' t understand everything .Greetz from Germany.😘😀👍💝
YOU ARE WORTH ENOUGH TO FOLLOW AND SUBSCRBIED, YOUR CONTENTs AWAKEN ME FROM FULL OF INSECURITIES LIFE, I REALLY HATED MYSELF FOR BEING ME, BUT WHEN I HEARD YOUR WORDS AND WATCHING ALMOST ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS WHEN I GOT TIME..IT REALLY HELPS ME A LOT AND BOOST MY STRENGHT. THANKS TO YOU MISS BREENY. GOD BLESS YOU.
Yes she looks hot.The messages we give ouselves have a great deal to do with how attractive we feel and the beauty we project to others. It's ok to take pride in your appearance and to be proud of the way you look. Say nice things to yourself about your body and your personality. Give up the idea that you're not good enough. Remember that loving yourself is just the first step toward loving someone else.
When I was 14 years old I had an incident that attacked my confidence. I remember going to God and saying, "I don't ever want to have my validation in the hands of man again." I think the most consistent way to be confident is to recognize that your confidence comes from God and not people and that the only validation that you need is from him. When he made you, you were valid. I also speak over my life positive affirmations and I take time to recognize what I truly value. I hope this helps someone today. Thanks B for your consistency.
I feel the same way like " a lost cause (financially)". I'm looking at life like "it's never going to be the way it was just a few months ago and what can I do to make of it"
Great decision! About 11 years ago, I was on FB and found that I was constantly comparing myself and my accomplishments or the lack thereof. Viewing other people's pages where they announced via photos their highs like engagements, weddings, child birth, home purchases etc made it very hard to find even the slightest satisfaction in my own life. I had none of those things and viewing people who accrued the things that I wanted took a toll on my faith and self-esteem. In a year's time, I became depressed. Depression is not something that I deal with so I knew that something "drastic" needed be done in order to change my view to start working towards changing the perception of self. So I disconnected my account and have not been back on ANY social media platforms in 10 years. I instantaneously felt better and though some of my desires have not yet been realized I have found peace in the direction of God's leading. Our lives when depending on God's directive may never look like what we've envisioned for ourselves at first but in due time, we see that our paths are specifically created for our own particular journey. It took me to step away from social media to finally understand that no two peoples' identities are the same so neither will our paths be.
Faith in yourself is a real thing, I look at myself daily in the mirror naked and compliment myself, I smile at myself when I see the cellulite, stretch marks ( which I think are very cute by the way) and I tell myself I am beautiful daily, and I've never felt more confident.
Some can't believe in themselves due to what others have said or how they got treated so there's a reason for why people think the way they do about themselves. Some had a bad childhood or were not seen as the smart child etc
Everyone can believe in themselves! It's harder for those who have grown up being diminished in their childhood, but once you discover that deep instrinsic self worth you become unstoppable
True that’s the case with me no matter how much I wanna be confident I still end up being insecure because of how people always used to speak about me/treat me . It’s hard forgetting that
@@dollynina8992 Unfortunately some people are scard for life and some lose themselves for ever. Once your severely damaged emotionally then you can't just pick yourself up and see your own worth. There might still be hope for others who weren't seen as the little dumb thing all their lives
@@Abby-uf8ud yer I'm severely damaged and always been seen as the dumb little thing. Every person comes with their own status and mine clearly didn't side by me
"Being confident is a byproduct of you being authentic and living your true self unapologetically doing as nature intended for you." - #RaphaelOnochie...true or facts?
Breeny, this is an appreciation comment for you . A few months back my ex took my virginity and then totally discarded me off. Like a whole year of relationship which I thought was "perfect" ended up being fake. I was inconsolable that time and I didn't have family support. But you're someone who's words kept me going and I didn't give up even on dark days by having faith in almighty. So I genuinely thank you for everything and sending you lots of love ❤
QUEEN! i love your channel! Im a teen that was never taught about confidence and last few years ive been insecure to the point where i couldnt look people in the eyes. You changed my perspective of myself. Thank you
Literally the best internet big sister ever ❤️😭 my boyfriend knows every time you upload I scream “Breeny Lee” and get like a little kid in a candy shop .. sounds lame but it’s the truth I love you girl 😭❤️ God bless you and keep sharing your stuff .. waiting for some books from you
I was half listening but THIS hit me like a tonne of bricks! I felt this hit my heart. "Beliefs influence my feelings which influence my actions". I needed this today! Thank you SO much.
LADIES PLEASE HELP ME PUSH THIS TO B🌹 Breeny, I’ve been following you now for more than a year. I just want to say that you are such an inspiration to all of us and I really admire all your hard work that you put in the existence of this beautiful channel. 🌹 Whenever I start second-guessing my choices regarding guys/relationships (or I get the urge to start hoeing around), your notifications pop up. It is like you are keeping an eye on me (and on all of us, really)! In your previous video you said you want to be here for us, and I just want to say to you, as the oldest sister of 5 kids, I appreciate that so much that for once somebody wishes to take care of ME. Thank you for that, Breeny... You have taught me so much and you look absolutely gorgeous (as always). You raised my standards (and you just keep reminding me of them whenever I forget). I hope you get the chance to read this to know your dedication to this channel is appreciated and valued. We love you. Take care! ❤️
I suffered from social anxiety pretty much my whole life(more than 25 years) and it affected terribly my beliefs about myself and my worth, it made me belive a HUGE amount of irrational lies about myself. I know it is not the truth for me but it's still hard to feel it. I'm really struggling to get in relationships because I believe that I'm a boring to be around, and with no interesting personality, and that I dont have much to offer to the other person.
i did this online course called worthy of the wait , which isnt directly about social anxiety but it covers confidence and relationships. IT really HELPED ME because i found it hard to make friends and after this find it so much more freeing to be friendly. Please google it and see if it helps, i promise you it will get better, but you just have to rry and work on the issues. Also "Changes that heal " by dr henry cloud. is 100% what you need to read!!! because it will help you discover what caused the social anxiety and then heal from it!! Really hope this helps Sara lots of love xxxx
im insecure about my anger. Ive been so hurt and traumatised in life, I get so angry when i feel im not listened to and its very hard for me to manage it now. Ive recently started anger management because i cant continue this way. but when i have to talk about my feelings and im required to "dig deep", i want to close off and run away, its just an uncomfortable feeling. and when i let the anger control me, i begin to hate myself because of my actions.
I know exactly what you mean and I struggle with the same thing. Literally have lost friends bc of it and ruined some family relationships. And then even after feeling guilty and shame over it it's like I never change which is also frustrating
You’d want to look at videos on emotional maturity they normally go over the positive ways at accepting your own emotions, accepting and dealing with others emotions on things and also expressing how you feel without coming off harshly as well
I once heard someone say that anger is a response to your boundaries being violated. If they have been violated repeatedly it leads to anger problems. I'm on the same journey and one thing I've found helpful is to accept that I've had poor boundaries in the past that left me resentful when they were violated. Instead of focusing on trying to control the anger, I'm working on developing healthier boundaries now.
Sometime I am thinking that I am not pretty enough to be with my boyfriend. What is strange about it is that I only get these thoughts when we are outside f.e. at a restaurant. I am seeing all of these woman that are looking good and thinking to myself, would he want to be with them, if he knew that they would be interested too? Instead of being with me? Really strange, because when I am with my girls, I never feel that.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ! Your BF is with you because YOU are what he wants... Also comparing really allows us to attacks ourselves which has such a negative effect on us. We need to stop it ASAP, you are 3X more attractive than you seem to yourself. One woman's beauty is not a lack of your own Xx
Your videos have been helping me all throughout college and I’m currently going into my final year! I can really say that I’m growing into the woman I’ve dreamt of becoming because of your advice!! 💜💜💜
Focus on who you are vs who you are not. Focusing on who you are not drives insecurities and deficiency not abundance. Focusing on who you are is empowering. Beliefs bring insecurities. Layers to everything. Everything has roots. Uproot everything. Beliefs->feelings->actions. Insecurities are linked back to lies we tell us about ourselves. Think positively about yourself and what do you like about yourself. Positive self talk.
I totally agree that taking a closer look at your beliefs is the key to improve confidence. This is easier said than done. For me, I like to carry a small notebook around with me so when I am starting to feel low or not confident, I can write down exactly what I am feeling and doing at that time. Then later, when I have time, I will look back at what I wrote and try to work out the belief that triggered those feelings to try and get to the route of the problem. Then I will make a plan for the next time when the situation occurs to take care of myself and not let myself fall victim to my negative belief. This is very similar to what you talked about in your video and is routed in CBT.
Breeny, you are so right! Whatever you believe affects your feelings which results in your actions. I have observed this about how I behave for a long time, especially within the last two months.
I started a 21-Day Abundance Meditation challenge today - day 1 task is to write 50 people who positively influence/d you - so glad I put you on my list. Thank you, Breeny! 🙌🏻🙏🏻🙂
Great video Breeny! I agree that all aspects of confidence starts from within and you have to dig deep to really know what you are truly insecure about. Positive self talk is SO important but can be hard to do. It is a journey for sure.
I lost my confidence a few months ago after starting a new job but I realized that confidence was conceited-ness in reality, just like you said! But since returning regular prayer and belief in what God says I am, I’ve found real confidence and am truly re-learning to love myself again. Thoughts are truly powerful. Your video confirms this! Thank you for sharing 💜💜
Sometimes i forget that i have the almighty powerful and perfect father who has never let me down and always loved me as i am by my side and that gives me back the confidence that he can fight the battles i can't and that i am a whole person because he completes me
I freaking love you, you are like the big sister I never had, unlike any other confidence video it actually feels like your talking to me like a best friend, and I'm just so happy, thank you 😄😄
Breeny I hope you read this! please make a video of not feeling you can be yourself depending on who you're around. I don't like that I hide my true identity when I am around certain people. Great video by the way😍!!
I know this video is like 8 months old but every since I found your channel which was recently, you’re like a big sister I never had. Its hard being a role model for my little sister when I’m broken or really insecure about myself but anyways thank you for this message
Some of my reoccurring thoughts/ insecurities: 1. People think your weird 2. You are an idiot 3.Your incapable of doing the schoolwork 4.People can tell your not confident 5.People think your boring 6. Your immature and childish (even though I'm not) 7. People think your a loner. I get really insecure when I'm alone I just feel like everyone's judging me and thinks I'm weird. Breeny if you could make a video helping with some of these things that would be awesome.
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Just when I was hitting hard on myself again this pops up on my screen. I really think you’re like an angel with perfect timing. Thanks so much!! #blessed
Breeeennyyyy!! Thanks alot! I have always struggled with inner confidence. Someone would probably see me and think I have it together. It's just that, this vulnerable and validation seeking part of me gets triggered....More often than I can handle. I don't want this contrast. I want the same confidence and security on the inside as it seems on the outside. Your video provided nice perspective. Thanks again ♥️
I truly love all your videos you give a different way of thinking, and make feel peace within myself and life. I am honestly happy that you make these videos 🤍✨
Greetings from Austria :) You just helped me in so many situations 💯 You're like my sister I never had 😋 Thank you so much for your motivational and honest speeches!!! I wish you just the best! ✨
Yes yes yessss!!!! I aspire to be a confident person. I've been working on being confident. It's really hard but I'll get better and better throught out my experiences. Thanks for sharing breeny 💛
I believe God used you to help me with my inner confidence. I am currently on a weightloss journey, and I used to believe that I would be happier when I got skinny. But I believe God made go through the feeling of being fat to make my inner beauty grow
"im not loveable" "i dont deserve this love, acceptance, happiness and belonging" "they're too good for me, I'm not enough for them to be their close friends, I don't deserve all this fun and delight, joy, happiness, because in relaity my family back at home hates my guts and don't love me so i am not a loveable person" - behaviour changes: socially awkward, pressure/expectation to meet/please others, make sure they are entertained and happy when meeting with them, talking with them , hanging out with them one one one, i m not special or important or loveable, i dont have anything uniqe of good enough to add to the group, meaningfully, i am not enough, im a loser, lol" give up, hopelessness, all in or all out. im either gonna have the bestest of friends/lifestyle, whom i love dearly, hold close to my heart, or im gonna deal with and sit with a bunch of lsoers who actually arent my real friends, i feel empty alone, and drained and not satisdifed or happy after hanign out with them, and i dont deserve any better. when people approach me/ like me when i feel compfrotable safe and good enough to be me, i suddenly change character, becoming awkward, shy, wierded out, draw back from love, attention,c are,, respect they give me shine on me, because i lack what they want and are not good enough. LOL that was a tough one/long one to write out ahahhaha. Loev you so much Breeny,, sorry for burdening you with these heavy dark thoughts, but i dont really think them anymore, but i lvoe your channel and what you are channeING from god/universe to help the collective at this time and moment, we really appreciate it and lvoe you. ILY and may love and light and belssings and abudnance follow you in unlimited amounts XX
Watching your videos has literally helped my through this relationship I was in for two years that resulted in a recent break up. Thank you so much, you are helping so many of us. You're helping me better understand that the only validation we need is from God and not from any other physical being. Stay blessed, will never forget your channel.
I love how you incorporate your faith into your videos because it’s so important because having faith in Him is really the beginning of having faith in ourselves
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Breeny, you are truly a blessing to us. You are like the big sister I never met! Your words are so inspiring and powerful and every time I’m feeling down I watch your videos, old or new. You never fail to uplift me and make me feel better. God bless you!❤️
Hey Breeny , I really love and enjoy your videos. The way you talk about these topics I can tell that you mean it it’s not just something you got out of nowhere. I have a question: would you consider making a video about overthinking? It has been an issue for me and I think many other people too 😊💕
I just feel unloved sometimes by everyone and I use to get picked on just because of how I looked though I am older those thoughts still play in my head and I feel like sometimes God doesn’t love me even though I know he does I just feel alone . I feel like even though I know God died for our sins I feel like I have sin to much . I just feel like I can’t get anything right at times . I feel like I try to be a good woman and I still feel like the many blessings that I have prayed for haven’t been answered so I start feeling like what is wrong with me ?
Can you do a video on managing regret? A lot of my insecurities stem from shame and guilt from my past. I know I am not that person anymore, but it is hard for me to believe in myself when deep down I feel horrible about bad decisions I have made and error in judgement. Thank you for always sharing encouraging words with us. ❤
Thank you Breeny! I love the soul surgery series, particularly those videos that deal with knowing ourselves better, understanding the patterns in our lives, how our past and upbringing affects our lives today, dealing with insecurities, validation from others, complexes etc... Thank You again Would like for you to let us a know a list of books and other resources that really helped you in your self love/ discovery journey. God bless
My biggest insecurity are my social skills. I often worry about people getting bored of me and I've always felt like I have to entertain be more popular and hold a conversation, or else they will leave me. I hate being socially anxious and shy I just wish I didn't worry that much about what people think of me and could focus more on the important stuff...
Hi breeny 😊im rewatching your videos again since i’m undergoing this self discovery ,self love again.I’be watched your videos last year and it did healed me .Looking to see more of videos again xx
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Breeny i have a important question to you.
Could you please open the german dub or translate with undertitled in german .I love your content but I don' t understand everything .Greetz from Germany.😘😀👍💝
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YOU ARE WORTH ENOUGH TO FOLLOW AND SUBSCRBIED, YOUR CONTENTs AWAKEN ME FROM FULL OF INSECURITIES LIFE, I REALLY HATED MYSELF FOR BEING ME, BUT WHEN I HEARD YOUR WORDS AND WATCHING ALMOST ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS WHEN I GOT TIME..IT REALLY HELPS ME A LOT AND BOOST MY STRENGHT. THANKS TO YOU MISS BREENY. GOD BLESS YOU.
Using the native name.. does native ppl benfit from this or just basic White ppl?
I am native. Thx for reading.🙄
Luv ur content Breeny otherwise.
i will never get over how pretty and elegant she is ❤️
Just as pretty and elegant as you 💛
Yes she looks hot.The messages we give ouselves have a great deal to do with how attractive we feel and the beauty we project to others. It's ok to take pride in your appearance and to be proud of the way you look. Say nice things to yourself about your body and your personality. Give up the idea that you're not good enough. Remember that loving yourself is just the first step toward loving someone else.
Wao you are all so kind. 🤗🤗🤗 to all of you, sisters
Thank you sisss xx
True
She’s literally my life coach. 😂
lol same tho
Wrote my mind 😂
Me too‼️ 😂
sameeeeeeeee hahaha
Isn't she just the best six💖😍
When I was 14 years old I had an incident that attacked my confidence. I remember going to God and saying, "I don't ever want to have my validation in the hands of man again." I think the most consistent way to be confident is to recognize that your confidence comes from God and not people and that the only validation that you need is from him. When he made you, you were valid. I also speak over my life positive affirmations and I take time to recognize what I truly value. I hope this helps someone today. Thanks B for your consistency.
Your kind words touched me so thank you very much
@@janetbrimbson4730 you're very welcome beauty! Thank you for letting me know that.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I needed this... You seem like a gorgeous human being inside out. Sending you love!
@@saravargek7406 You're welcome love. Thank you for responding and receiving it. Have a beautiful day.
Thank you so much
This must be a sign because I’ve lost so much confidence over this quarantine. Today I had enough 😭
I feel the same way like " a lost cause (financially)".
I'm looking at life like "it's never going to be the way it was just a few months ago and what can I do to make of it"
Same! Especially hanging out with the wrong people. 😒😒😒
We got you queen. The village is here to remind you that you're that chic!
the opposite has happened to me i've had time to myself to appreciate and value myself but hope it goes well for you !!!
Flex-N- Fly thank youu 🥺
Deleting social media helped so much it's so hard to stop comparing myself on Instagram
How are you finding this though?
Great decision! About 11 years ago, I was on FB and found that I was constantly comparing myself and my accomplishments or the lack thereof. Viewing other people's pages where they announced via photos their highs like engagements, weddings, child birth, home purchases etc made it very hard to find even the slightest satisfaction in my own life. I had none of those things and viewing people who accrued the things that I wanted took a toll on my faith and self-esteem. In a year's time, I became depressed. Depression is not something that I deal with so I knew that something "drastic" needed be done in order to change my view to start working towards changing the perception of self. So I disconnected my account and have not been back on ANY social media platforms in 10 years. I instantaneously felt better and though some of my desires have not yet been realized I have found peace in the direction of God's leading. Our lives when depending on God's directive may never look like what we've envisioned for ourselves at first but in due time, we see that our paths are specifically created for our own particular journey. It took me to step away from social media to finally understand that no two peoples' identities are the same so neither will our paths be.
I agree,Deactivating social media helps a lot .
So true! Did the save and I am loving it!!!
really? dont u ladies feel left out by deactivating social media..like unable to see whats trending and all? just curious perhaps will deactivate too
Faith in yourself is a real thing, I look at myself daily in the mirror naked and compliment myself, I smile at myself when I see the cellulite, stretch marks ( which I think are very cute by the way) and I tell myself I am beautiful daily, and I've never felt more confident.
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She's so right about scent! There's a different confidence that comes when you smell good.
Yes. A good fragrance is worth investing in! :)
Agree! I always perfume myself to make myself feel better
I get real bougie when I smell good lol
Some can't believe in themselves due to what others have said or how they got treated so there's a reason for why people think the way they do about themselves. Some had a bad childhood or were not seen as the smart child etc
Everyone can believe in themselves! It's harder for those who have grown up being diminished in their childhood, but once you discover that deep instrinsic self worth you become unstoppable
True that’s the case with me no matter how much I wanna be confident I still end up being insecure because of how people always used to speak about me/treat me . It’s hard forgetting that
Abby I m trying to get passed this too. Would you like to connect?
@@dollynina8992 Unfortunately some people are scard for life and some lose themselves for ever. Once your severely damaged emotionally then you can't just pick yourself up and see your own worth. There might still be hope for others who weren't seen as the little dumb thing all their lives
@@Abby-uf8ud yer I'm severely damaged and always been seen as the dumb little thing. Every person comes with their own status and mine clearly didn't side by me
"Being confident is a byproduct of you being authentic and living your true self unapologetically doing as nature intended for you." - #RaphaelOnochie...true or facts?
Breeny, this is an appreciation comment for you . A few months back my ex took my virginity and then totally discarded me off. Like a whole year of relationship which I thought was "perfect" ended up being fake. I was inconsolable that time and I didn't have family support. But you're someone who's words kept me going and I didn't give up even on dark days by having faith in almighty. So I genuinely thank you for everything and sending you lots of love ❤
I'm intelligent,im righteous
Stella Okoroafor what?
That is horrible but I am glad you're doing well and seeing the light! 💛
God is your strength lovely 😘😘
Keep your head up high queen💛 I know how it feels to be in that position. I'm proud of you and you're gonna be even stronger than before, trust me💯
QUEEN! i love your channel! Im a teen that was never taught about confidence and last few years ive been insecure to the point where i couldnt look people in the eyes. You changed my perspective of myself. Thank you
Literally the best internet big sister ever ❤️😭 my boyfriend knows every time you upload I scream “Breeny Lee” and get like a little kid in a candy shop .. sounds lame but it’s the truth I love you girl 😭❤️ God bless you and keep sharing your stuff .. waiting for some books from you
Visualize your future every day and the actions will follow.
Leading you to a confident fulfilling life
Yes that is awesome advice! Thank you for sharing.
When I get my hair done, I want to do it for me not for him to like me more💪🏼
That's right!
I was half listening but THIS hit me like a tonne of bricks! I felt this hit my heart. "Beliefs influence my feelings which influence my actions". I needed this today! Thank you SO much.
“Your beliefs influence ur feelings which implements your actions” powerful line!
LADIES PLEASE HELP ME PUSH THIS TO B🌹
Breeny, I’ve been following you now for more than a year. I just want to say that you are such an inspiration to all of us and I really admire all your hard work that you put in the existence of this beautiful channel. 🌹
Whenever I start second-guessing my choices regarding guys/relationships (or I get the urge to start hoeing around), your notifications pop up. It is like you are keeping an eye on me (and on all of us, really)!
In your previous video you said you want to be here for us, and I just want to say to you, as the oldest sister of 5 kids, I appreciate that so much that for once somebody wishes to take care of ME. Thank you for that, Breeny...
You have taught me so much and you look absolutely gorgeous (as always). You raised my standards (and you just keep reminding me of them whenever I forget).
I hope you get the chance to read this to know your dedication to this channel is appreciated and valued. We love you. Take care! ❤️
This is so sweet and genuine. Sending you love!
@Breeny Lee
The power is in who you are, and not who you are not!👌🏻
She is just the smartest mentor ever
I suffered from social anxiety pretty much my whole life(more than 25 years) and it affected terribly my beliefs about myself and my worth, it made me belive a HUGE amount of irrational lies about myself. I know it is not the truth for me but it's still hard to feel it. I'm really struggling to get in relationships because I believe that I'm a boring to be around, and with no interesting personality, and that I dont have much to offer to the other person.
You just have to change the narrative in your head. It takes time and lots of practice
ModestbyFreedaz I love your comment so much thank you
Get the Social Skills Guide book by Chris McLeod. Amazing book!!
i did this online course called worthy of the wait , which isnt directly about social anxiety but it covers confidence and relationships. IT really HELPED ME because i found it hard to make friends and after this find it so much more freeing to be friendly. Please google it and see if it helps, i promise you it will get better, but you just have to rry and work on the issues. Also "Changes that heal " by dr henry cloud. is 100% what you need to read!!! because it will help you discover what caused the social anxiety and then heal from it!! Really hope this helps Sara lots of love xxxx
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im insecure about my anger. Ive been so hurt and traumatised in life, I get so angry when i feel im not listened to and its very hard for me to manage it now. Ive recently started anger management because i cant continue this way.
but when i have to talk about my feelings and im required to "dig deep", i want to close off and run away, its just an uncomfortable feeling. and when i let the anger control me, i begin to hate myself because of my actions.
I know exactly what you mean and I struggle with the same thing. Literally have lost friends bc of it and ruined some family relationships. And then even after feeling guilty and shame over it it's like I never change which is also frustrating
You’d want to look at videos on emotional maturity they normally go over the positive ways at accepting your own emotions, accepting and dealing with others emotions on things and also expressing how you feel without coming off harshly as well
I feel like you read my mind! I have the same issue with anger and in not being understood. It's really controlling me
God's got you girl♥️♥️as long as You're making an effort to change, he's got you.
I once heard someone say that anger is a response to your boundaries being violated. If they have been violated repeatedly it leads to anger problems. I'm on the same journey and one thing I've found helpful is to accept that I've had poor boundaries in the past that left me resentful when they were violated. Instead of focusing on trying to control the anger, I'm working on developing healthier boundaries now.
I honestly love Breeny, so beautiful inside and out. Her videos help, inspire and encourage me in so many ways 💗
Literally
Sometime I am thinking that I am not pretty enough to be with my boyfriend. What is strange about it is that I only get these thoughts when we are outside f.e. at a restaurant. I am seeing all of these woman that are looking good and thinking to myself, would he want to be with them, if he knew that they would be interested too? Instead of being with me? Really strange, because when I am with my girls, I never feel that.
I feel exactly the same way sometimes. At times I feel confident and then I feel waves of doubt.
Are you sure it's not your MAN making you feel insecure?? Does he compliment you??
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ! Your BF is with you because YOU are what he wants... Also comparing really allows us to attacks ourselves which has such a negative effect on us. We need to stop it ASAP, you are 3X more attractive than you seem to yourself. One woman's beauty is not a lack of your own Xx
gowhereyoumostfeelalive I totally I get that. One moment I can feel pretty but as soon as I'm outside I start to doubt.
@@mini.pigs.r.adorable5391 Don't compare yourself with others! We are all unique!
Your videos have been helping me all throughout college and I’m currently going into my final year! I can really say that I’m growing into the woman I’ve dreamt of becoming because of your advice!! 💜💜💜
Yes, knowing your Gods child is a different confidence 💓
I feel silly, I don't feel intelligent. I cry a lot for that sometimes. I just want to be enough to myself
mica c Yes I know how you feel. I'm my worst enemy.
Focus on who you are vs who you are not. Focusing on who you are not drives insecurities and deficiency not abundance. Focusing on who you are is empowering. Beliefs bring insecurities. Layers to everything. Everything has roots. Uproot everything. Beliefs->feelings->actions. Insecurities are linked back to lies we tell us about ourselves. Think positively about yourself and what do you like about yourself. Positive self talk.
Thank you for talking about your faith! It’s refreshing
I totally agree that taking a closer look at your beliefs is the key to improve confidence. This is easier said than done. For me, I like to carry a small notebook around with me so when I am starting to feel low or not confident, I can write down exactly what I am feeling and doing at that time. Then later, when I have time, I will look back at what I wrote and try to work out the belief that triggered those feelings to try and get to the route of the problem. Then I will make a plan for the next time when the situation occurs to take care of myself and not let myself fall victim to my negative belief. This is very similar to what you talked about in your video and is routed in CBT.
Manifest in loving yourself. Speak yourself into existence.
you really help people reshape mindsets, I can’t thank you enough 🖤
"Your beliefs influence your feelings which influence your actions." WHEW
"The king's Kid". That's stuck throughout this video for me🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love that part
Breeny, you are so right! Whatever you believe affects your feelings which results in your actions. I have observed this about how I behave for a long time, especially within the last two months.
I'm super proud of you, I love all your videos, they're really helpful to me.❤️❤️
I started a 21-Day Abundance Meditation challenge today - day 1 task is to write 50 people who positively influence/d you - so glad I put you on my list. Thank you, Breeny! 🙌🏻🙏🏻🙂
Honestly sissss, you just spoke to my soul and I didn’t even realise I needed this video 😭😭❤️
Great video Breeny! I agree that all aspects of confidence starts from within and you have to dig deep to really know what you are truly insecure about. Positive self talk is SO important but can be hard to do. It is a journey for sure.
I lost my confidence a few months ago after starting a new job but I realized that confidence was conceited-ness in reality, just like you said! But since returning regular prayer and belief in what God says I am, I’ve found real confidence and am truly re-learning to love myself again. Thoughts are truly powerful. Your video confirms this! Thank you for sharing 💜💜
Sometimes i forget that i have the almighty powerful and perfect father who has never let me down and always loved me as i am by my side and that gives me back the confidence that he can fight the battles i can't and that i am a whole person because he completes me
The big sister i never had. I LOVE YOU!
I freaking love you, you are like the big sister I never had, unlike any other confidence video it actually feels like your talking to me like a best friend, and I'm just so happy, thank you 😄😄
This was such a helpful video! Thank you so much! I hope everyone is safe and well x
Breeny I hope you read this! please make a video of not feeling you can be yourself depending on who you're around. I don't like that I hide my true identity when I am around certain people. Great video by the way😍!!
I know this video is like 8 months old but every since I found your channel which was recently, you’re like a big sister I never had. Its hard being a role model for my little sister when I’m broken or really insecure about myself but anyways thank you for this message
Some of my reoccurring thoughts/ insecurities:
1. People think your weird
2. You are an idiot
3.Your incapable of doing the schoolwork
4.People can tell your not confident
5.People think your boring
6. Your immature and childish (even though I'm not)
7. People think your a loner.
I get really insecure when I'm alone I just feel like everyone's judging me and thinks I'm weird. Breeny if you could make a video helping with some of these things that would be awesome.
Finally, an eloquent woman who carries herself with class. I wish we could be friends in real life.
Same!!! I want friends like her ASAP. Lol
I’ve been using Native for a few months now and love it! I kept getting ads on social media, so I decided to try their sample size from Target. Other natural deodorants have failed me, but Native does the job! My favorites so far are the ‘coconut and vanilla’ and the ‘rose and lavender’. I recommended it to my sisters, but only one of them have tried so far and also thinks highly of it. So yea, I’ll continue to vouch for them!
Right now I felt soooo uncomfortable with my body and all that stuff . And then I saw your notification ❤️
I hope you feel better 💎
Ni-si Official thank you ❤️❤️
I watch this every week. Thank you breeny❤️
Thank you for your videos it really helps amazing how you’re on the other side of the world blessing women everywhere god bless, much love 🙏🏽💕
Just when I was hitting hard on myself again this pops up on my screen. I really think you’re like an angel with perfect timing. Thanks so much!! #blessed
Was having a bad day dealing with anxiety, wondering if I'll ever be good enough and then you blessed us with this video. Thank you❤
You are good enough ♥️
Thanks so much, I'm grateful for this caring community 💗
Omg yes. I always feel like I’m not good enough. We are sis. It’s people who isn’t good enough for us and they need to be removed !
Same here. You are enough♥️
Breeeennyyyy!! Thanks alot!
I have always struggled with inner confidence. Someone would probably see me and think I have it together. It's just that, this vulnerable and validation seeking part of me gets triggered....More often than I can handle. I don't want this contrast. I want the same confidence and security on the inside as it seems on the outside.
Your video provided nice perspective. Thanks again ♥️
Word i feel the same
I truly love all your videos you give a different way of thinking, and make feel peace within myself and life. I am honestly happy that you make these videos 🤍✨
8:12 🙌 my beliefs affect my feeling which influences my actions ❤️omg so so good! 😩
Layerzzz and beliefs !!!
I absolutely love her! She’s literally like my older sister even though she doesn’t know I exist. She’s such an inspiration to me 💕
Breeny thankyou for this....nobody teaches us better than you!!! Xxx
You absolutely changed my life. Thank you 💖.
Righttt
I just want to say thank you. You speak so much truth that needed to hear. 💜
I was thinking about making a youtube channel, and my fear almost got the best of me. Then this video popped up. Thanks Breeny ❤️
Good luck!
@@georgiac20 Thank you so much! Please support.
Greetings from Austria :)
You just helped me in so many situations 💯
You're like my sister I never had 😋
Thank you so much for your motivational and honest speeches!!!
I wish you just the best! ✨
Yes yes yessss!!!! I aspire to be a confident person. I've been working on being confident. It's really hard but I'll get better and better throught out my experiences. Thanks for sharing breeny 💛
Thank you Breeny! ❤️ I love how you always bring it back to God!!! Thank you!!
It’s amazing how God is using you. Please continue Sis💚🧡💚
“She should’ve spent that money on therapy or my course”💀
I spit out my Sprite
I believe God used you to help me with my inner confidence. I am currently on a weightloss journey, and I used to believe that I would be happier when I got skinny. But I believe God made go through the feeling of being fat to make my inner beauty grow
"im not loveable"
"i dont deserve this love, acceptance, happiness and belonging"
"they're too good for me, I'm not enough for them to be their close friends, I don't deserve all this fun and delight, joy, happiness, because in relaity my family back at home hates my guts and don't love me so i am not a loveable person"
- behaviour changes: socially awkward, pressure/expectation to meet/please others, make sure they are entertained and happy when meeting with them, talking with them , hanging out with them one one one, i m not special or important or loveable, i dont have anything uniqe of good enough to add to the group, meaningfully, i am not enough, im a loser, lol" give up, hopelessness, all in or all out. im either gonna have the bestest of friends/lifestyle, whom i love dearly, hold close to my heart, or im gonna deal with and sit with a bunch of lsoers who actually arent my real friends, i feel empty alone, and drained and not satisdifed or happy after hanign out with them, and i dont deserve any better.
when people approach me/ like me when i feel compfrotable safe and good enough to be me, i suddenly change character, becoming awkward, shy, wierded out, draw back from love, attention,c are,, respect they give me shine on me, because i lack what they want and are not good enough. LOL that was a tough one/long one to write out ahahhaha. Loev you so much Breeny,, sorry for burdening you with these heavy dark thoughts, but i dont really think them anymore, but i lvoe your channel and what you are channeING from god/universe to help the collective at this time and moment, we really appreciate it and lvoe you. ILY and may love and light and belssings and abudnance follow you in unlimited amounts XX
sis, the whole time I thought you were in London, lol
I’m so happy I found your channel! You’re a queen! Thank you for all of your energy you put out!
Watching your videos has literally helped my through this relationship I was in for two years that resulted in a recent break up. Thank you so much, you are helping so many of us. You're helping me better understand that the only validation we need is from God and not from any other physical being. Stay blessed, will never forget your channel.
Thank you Debrina, I love you
How are you not famous yet?💜
Good to see you Breeny 😌☺️♥️✨ loves this
I needed to hear that and I I need to hear this every day of my life, love lots of love for you.. Pearl (Africa ) Botswana 🇧🇼
IM GOING TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF!!!! I CAN DO IT!!! THANK U BREENYY
Thank you so much for your videos!!!
I love how you incorporate your faith into your videos because it’s so important because having faith in Him is really the beginning of having faith in ourselves
I’m so happy I came across your UA-cam 😭💕
Preach and I will definitely be making my list !
I'm SO grateful that I discovered your channel lately
Righttt
Thanks for all your words of encouragement because I so needed to hear this, thanks for Native discount as well because I just order my deodorants 🙌🏾
Can you do a video on accepting what you’re not in control of? I’ve had eczema my whole life and it’s been the one thing that affects my insecurities.
also side note, I use this deodorant too and it's the best natural deodorant i've ever tried. You don't smell like crap like from natural ones i've used before lol
Breeny, you are truly a blessing to us. You are like the big sister I never met! Your words are so inspiring and powerful and every time I’m feeling down I watch your videos, old or new. You never fail to uplift me and make me feel better. God bless you!❤️
Thanks for another wonderful video big sister
Hey Breeny , I really love and enjoy your videos. The way you talk about these topics I can tell that you mean it it’s not just something you got out of nowhere. I have a question: would you consider making a video about overthinking? It has been an issue for me and I think many other people too 😊💕
Yessss overthinking video
I just feel unloved sometimes by everyone and I use to get picked on just because of how I looked though I am older those thoughts still play in my head and I feel like sometimes God doesn’t love me even though I know he does I just feel alone . I feel like even though I know God died for our sins I feel like I have sin to much . I just feel like I can’t get anything right at times . I feel like I try to be a good woman and I still feel like the many blessings that I have prayed for haven’t been answered so I start feeling like what is wrong with me ?
I feel the same way too
LOVE every single one of your video! Always giving the most powerful advice!
Can you do a video on managing regret? A lot of my insecurities stem from shame and guilt from my past. I know I am not that person anymore, but it is hard for me to believe in myself when deep down I feel horrible about bad decisions I have made and error in judgement. Thank you for always sharing encouraging words with us. ❤
“hope you’re feeling good looking good and smelling good” makes me think of val333tarot, she says that too lol
ANOTHER AMAZING VIDEO!
She looks like the word confidence so I clicked #blackisbeautiful
You’re talking about the law of attraction without actually saying it
Thank you Breeny! I love the soul surgery series, particularly those videos that deal with knowing ourselves better, understanding the patterns in our lives, how our past and upbringing affects our lives today, dealing with insecurities, validation from others, complexes etc... Thank You again
Would like for you to let us a know a list of books and other resources that really helped you in your self love/ discovery journey. God bless
Soul surgery 💎💎💎
2:56-3:56 was a WORD you hear me?! Replaying that everyday till it’s locked in my spirit.
Thank You So Much Breeny Babe ! YOU ARE EVERYTHING xoxo so inspiring
My biggest insecurity are my social skills. I often worry about people getting bored of me and I've always felt like I have to entertain be more popular and hold a conversation, or else they will leave me. I hate being socially anxious and shy I just wish I didn't worry that much about what people think of me and could focus more on the important stuff...
Hi breeny 😊im rewatching your videos again since i’m undergoing this self discovery ,self love again.I’be watched your videos last year and it did healed me .Looking to see more of videos again xx