Appreciation is a powerful tool, i am one living example , till 4 th standard was with a bunch of toxic teachers , i didn't study or ďo anything, i still remember my rank was around 9 to 18 in 28 members. From 5th my parents changed my school that was my one of my blessing , new school i could see lovable teachers and friends its a government school , previous one was cbsc school . My teachers always used to appreciate me encourage me ,in 5 th standard my onam exam rank was 2nd , i was really shocked ,i can still feel that emotion . Next exam i become school topper .. from that day i was always in first position till 12 th . Now i completed my MBBS degree from a Gov medical collage in 2023 .Few days back i visited my school , they are planning to call me as guest in the upcoming school anniversary. If any teachers or aspiring teachers here u are the powerful force , u can change a student's life just by ur words ur actions , ❤... Thankyou viya for addressing contents..
Old generation 50il 45 marks medichal 5 mark enganae poyi ennu paranju parathy parayum.... Ennittu avar appreciate cheyyathathu enthannu chodichal nee pinnae padikkolla ennu parayum...sneham ullil vechu kondu nadannu appreciate cheyyathae marichu pokum... Instead of that express their love towards their child even in their bad phase will give them confidence.
6.18 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Exactly 👏👏👏👏👏 Othiri appreciation kittiyadh kondan njan successful aayadh enn enik thonniyittund Still working for getting more appreciation at the age of 26😍 Now I’m a teacher Supporting and appreciating my students even for their small achievements 💯✌️
Can you do more videos on this topic plz bcz i have an exam coming and my mind doesn't align with the success i need due a lot setback ,comparison...videos regarding practical application on the life is a topic i would suggest you to do...❤
Can you do a video about psychology (career guidance).i would love to watch it. I'm a +2 commerce student . I have intrest on pyschology for long .but now iam little confused about the field😅.is psychology a stressfill field?
But I also think that children need to be taught to value themselves. Otherwise you will be dependent on other people (on their recognition). So many people become workoholics to get approval from others. But if you value yourself, you will be happy and do your work out of your own interest and motivation. What do you think? Do you agree with me? Thanks for the video❤
Exactly what I think right now . Appreciation can be bias , lack of depth and fairness. SO children need to be taught to value themselves as well as appreciate themselves what they done . It helps to get clarity about their strength and weakness otherwise it will mess up by others . So frustrating its sucks whole life of ours .
One small critique I have for this video is that the premise "Thoughts lead to Emotions, and Emotions lead to Actions" oversimplifies the complex interplay of cognitive, affective, and behavioral dimensions. Emotions are not merely products of cognition; they can also be influenced by physiological states, cultural norms, and immediate contextual factors. Further, this idea suggests a unidirectional flow from thoughts to emotions to actions, which may not be universally applicable. For instance, emotions can lead to certain thoughts, just as actions can evoke particular emotions or thoughts. On a different note, from 5:20 onwards, you have referred to the idea of Emotions and Feelings (I am sad; I feel sad) as though the two words and ideas are somehow synonymous, which they are not.
Nop enikk personally enne arum appreciate cheyunnath valiya happiness ayi eduthittilla. ippol historykk low mark vedichalum maths full mark vedichalum 2um veetil kanikkukapolumilla.i just happy in no one disturb me
Can you help me please? My family used to be very appreciative while i was growing up. Even in minor things like helping my mother in kitchen. I don't know whether it spoiled me. But whenever i did things the only thought in my mind was " innu ammene kond nallath parayikanam" and she used to say whenever i do things well. Now I'm 30. Both my parents passed away. I'm married to a family who doesn't appreciate at all. I'm finding this difficult. I'm not blaming them. They are not used to this. So sometimes i feel so low. How can i change my mindset?
6:40 smart ennu paranjathu common ayi ennal fool ennu parayathe aa word vannappol mandanmar ennu paranjathentha entha ningal mandimar ennu parayarille.first buddhi ullavanmar ennu paranjirunnenkil no doubt.your mind will created some negative words for some gender its ultra stupidness
Appreciation is a powerful tool, i am one living example , till 4 th standard was with a bunch of toxic teachers , i didn't study or ďo anything, i still remember my rank was around 9 to 18 in 28 members. From 5th my parents changed my school that was my one of my blessing , new school i could see lovable teachers and friends its a government school , previous one was cbsc school . My teachers always used to appreciate me encourage me ,in 5 th standard my onam exam rank was 2nd , i was really shocked ,i can still feel that emotion . Next exam i become school topper .. from that day i was always in first position till 12 th . Now i completed my MBBS degree from a Gov medical collage in 2023 .Few days back i visited my school , they are planning to call me as guest in the upcoming school anniversary. If any teachers or aspiring teachers here u are the powerful force , u can change a student's life just by ur words ur actions , ❤...
Thankyou viya for addressing contents..
Appreciating others and showing gratitude is a very simple thing that we all can do bt can make a great difference in others life
Pearly Maaniyude achan Maani Paul nalla motivational speaker aanu.Tvyil oru programmil kanditund
Old generation 50il 45 marks medichal 5 mark enganae poyi ennu paranju parathy parayum....
Ennittu avar appreciate cheyyathathu enthannu chodichal nee pinnae padikkolla ennu parayum...sneham ullil vechu kondu nadannu appreciate cheyyathae marichu pokum... Instead of that express their love towards their child even in their bad phase will give them confidence.
6.18 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Exactly 👏👏👏👏👏
Othiri appreciation kittiyadh kondan njan successful aayadh enn enik thonniyittund
Still working for getting more appreciation at the age of 26😍
Now I’m a teacher
Supporting and appreciating my students even for their small achievements 💯✌️
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Hey Viya,i didn't got appreciations when I was a child and now I have started appreciating myself ❤
That's great
I really really appreciate this valuable video. Thank you so much Viya. ✨
Please do more vdos like this... It is really helpful ❤
Can you do more videos on this topic plz bcz i have an exam coming and my mind doesn't align with the success i need due a lot setback ,comparison...videos regarding practical application on the life is a topic i would suggest you to do...❤
Yes I will
As you said , appreciation is a drug that will help us to do better. ❤
Viya is an inspiration to young girls ❤thankyou
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I guess not, she's quite inspiration for every young minds
I Feel that you're really inspired from the book "Master your Emotions"
Today you are looking very confident 👏👏👍👍👍
But somewhere at times, I feel she is saying toxic positivity.. do u think so viya?
Yes I felt the same
even I feel that way sometimes
Ofcourse she is
Never she is a jem❤❤❤
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It's definitely a valuable piece of information. Thanks a lot Viya ❤
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Viya oru podcast channel start cheytha adipoli ayirikkum
This 9 minutes really make sense😊😊
Nice and very informative video thank you soo much❤
Hello ,viya i love your videos 😁
Thank you so much 😀
Enk orupaad relate cheyyan patti ee avastha🥺🥺 oru aal polum njn cheytha nalla kaaryaghal paranjatilla🥺njn enthoram karanjatund ath orthitt
Viya parayunnath petenn manasilakkan patunnund♥️
Well said... Loved it😌💝
Can you do a video about psychology (career guidance).i would love to watch it. I'm a +2 commerce student . I have intrest on pyschology for long .but now iam little confused about the field😅.is psychology a stressfill field?
I am a victim of my own psychological issues... building up resulting in depression.
Maybe due to social factors or maybe my own sh*t
Loved this topic ❤️
You are the best 😍
But I also think that children need to be taught to value themselves. Otherwise you will be dependent on other people (on their recognition). So many people become workoholics to get approval from others. But if you value yourself, you will be happy and do your work out of your own interest and motivation. What do you think? Do you agree with me?
Thanks for the video❤
Exactly what I think right now . Appreciation can be bias , lack of depth and fairness. SO children need to be taught to value themselves as well as appreciate themselves what they done . It helps to get clarity about their strength and weakness otherwise it will mess up by others . So frustrating its sucks whole life of ours .
I just started to read a book called the laws of human nature what you said was exactly there..
I’ve read the same in multiple books
Nice explanation ❤️.useful video
One small critique I have for this video is that the premise "Thoughts lead to Emotions, and Emotions lead to Actions" oversimplifies the complex interplay of cognitive, affective, and behavioral dimensions. Emotions are not merely products of cognition; they can also be influenced by physiological states, cultural norms, and immediate contextual factors.
Further, this idea suggests a unidirectional flow from thoughts to emotions to actions, which may not be universally applicable. For instance, emotions can lead to certain thoughts, just as actions can evoke particular emotions or thoughts.
On a different note, from 5:20 onwards, you have referred to the idea of Emotions and Feelings (I am sad; I feel sad) as though the two words and ideas are somehow synonymous, which they are not.
I’ll go through your points and will do my homework there, Thanks for commenting
@@ViyaMallakara Anytime. You are doing a wonderful job bringing these topics up for discussion. Thank you for that. 🤗
Plz do more videos like this😊❤
Thanks viya ❤
Please do more videos about these topics ❤
Psycology related clarityil influence chydha books recomentations ne patty vedio idamo
Thanks for this video❤🥺
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Thanks you so much for this ❤😊
You're welcome 😊
❤️❤️ do more regarding this...
What u said is right
We are what others think about us
Valuable video, thank you so much
Thank you❤
Today you are looking very confident ❤❤
Nop enikk personally enne arum appreciate cheyunnath valiya happiness ayi eduthittilla. ippol historykk low mark vedichalum maths full mark vedichalum 2um veetil kanikkukapolumilla.i just happy in no one disturb me
Can you tell the psychology of teenagers
Thanku for this content 💙
Thankyou to you❤️
That really helped 🫂
Hi viya chechi please do more videos about this types of topics because your videos helps me a lot as a student
*Lisa Feldman Barrat.*
Don't know if you know her.
if you do.
What's your take on her work?
If you don't.
Maybe check her out?
Very informative
Loved it❤❤❤
Chechi please do more videos it's useful
Well said 👏👏
Can you help me please? My family used to be very appreciative while i was growing up. Even in minor things like helping my mother in kitchen. I don't know whether it spoiled me. But whenever i did things the only thought in my mind was " innu ammene kond nallath parayikanam" and she used to say whenever i do things well. Now I'm 30. Both my parents passed away. I'm married to a family who doesn't appreciate at all. I'm finding this difficult. I'm not blaming them. They are not used to this. So sometimes i feel so low. How can i change my mindset?
Thanks.
Thankuuu so much
Plzz do more vedios❤
Repeating with high emotion anything can be achieved whether its good or bad....
The video was nice and informative. Thank you
Hi viya, I am a big fan of you.. please do videos with unni together..
Me to😌
Thank you....❤....
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thank you
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Does the children tend to repeat the mistakes that they saw in their parents?
Again you😊💓
Hai viya
What if others around us judge us badly and we are confident about our potential from within.
Confidence is something you can work on. It’s about having an open mind and acceptance that not everybody is going to like you.
Ayo appreciate chytha over confidence koodi , nashich pokum 🙂 athanu avarude theory
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Hey Viya , can you talk about manifestation ?
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Perli is a jem❤❤❤❤❤❤
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law of attraction
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Are you a psycholologist
Psychology student
Are you an INTP?
ENTJ
@@ViyaMallakara unni chettan isfp aano
@@mystery6565 Infj , he keeps oscillating from infp to infj
You're the average of the five people you spend the most time with. 3:54
6:40 smart ennu paranjathu common ayi ennal fool ennu parayathe aa word vannappol mandanmar ennu paranjathentha entha ningal mandimar ennu parayarille.first buddhi ullavanmar ennu paranjirunnenkil no doubt.your mind will created some negative words for some gender its ultra stupidness
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