Did anyone else catch Chris at the beginning of their convo saying to Paige "I was mad at you last week but I'm cool now". SIR you have no right to be mad.
Chris gives me the guy that was lame in high school who couldn't get girls, moved away from home, rebranded himself & now he just dogs out every girl because he thinks what he has will make them stay.
Vincent needs to get his insecurities checked. There’s no reason he should be THIS upset every time he’s embarrassed or makes a mistake. He’s not perfect and isn’t going to be a perfect husband. Dude needs to chill. Everything ain’t that deep.
Paige just wants to be married. It don’t matter the person or circumstances. She just gon keep throwing God in it hoping that he’ll bless it and all will be well. God is probably like leave me out of your foolishness! 😂
@@AJ-gd1ww 26 actually at the time of filming. She may be 27 now. But she mentioned in an unfiltered episode she has a health condition and whats to have kids sooner rather than wait
@@julesm5890 See, I kept thinking she's putting a lot on this working out. She may have been looking at this as answered prayer. So all that sex she was having with Chris, she was probably hoping to be pregnant. She has to learn to look beyond that. But sometimes u don't know that if she has limited experience with men.
@@AJ-gd1ww yea I think you're right! She definitely had no objection to all that unprotected sex! And I remember during the bachlorette episode she said she would need to see STI test results but all that went out the window. I think she secretly wanted a honeymoon baby too
@lynda russell what???? Vincent is a man child. Brianna is already walking on eggshells around him and he still gets angry over the smallest thing. He's not ready for any relationship
Vinnie has extreme highs and extreme lows. That is dangerous for Briana. No one wants to be around someone where you have to walk on egg shells. He needs counseling/therapy.
I dont get abuser vibes from him, but I guess you never know. But he does seem VERY insecure and self-conscious and very sensitive and offended by ANY criticism. He seems very immature still but also like he cares a lot and has a good heart at the same time. But I dont see how he's going to be a whole husband and leader of a household if he always has to be coddled that way
Jacob feels like he’s running out of time to find his person and he just doesn’t want to waste it with Hailey anymore. He’s got her figured out....she’s not interested in him.
Yeah, but that’s such a defeatist attitude. For me personally attraction can grow. When I see that person in their element doing what they love or they make romantic gestures towards me I start to become attracted to them. He’s not even doing that. It’s like he’s never heard of seduction or wooing someone. He’s just hoping she becomes attracted to him without having to do anything to make that happen. Or worse he thinks it’s over because she wasn’t initially attracted to him.
@@saraleakes210 I mean she’s changing a critical part of him and I understand it’s not a thing everyone is attracted to but it is him. You’re changing the person because he shows himself through his...fashion of we can call it that
It was me lol & I still stand by it 🤷🏾♀️ you can’t be that DESPERATE for love?? Honestly, at this point, I believe the producers said they’ll pay her double to stay bc aint no way she getting played like a basketball
I have come to apologise for criticising the experts and producers. The codependency of Paige and the narcissism of Chris is malignant. They need counselling, not marriage. They need to stop spiritualising the situation. All they show is the deep trauma and turmoil that Christians lacking wisdom and the fruits of the Spirit may face. This is a lesson to me and I thank God that I can witness it and not experience it firsthand.
Vincent's friend is gonna laugh in his face again. Brianna looked great...he should have focused on that. He could have also said you got me this time but we're doing Bachata next time.
Omg right, she was stunning and dancing in 4” heels are you kidding me. He could’ve been fawning all over her and acting lovey dovey, but no he acted like it never danced a day in his life. He should’ve said that was a bit intense with it be a one on one session, I know a Bachata place we can that’s more laid back and fun and followed through.
A reminder. A family member of Vincent told Brianna that Vincent has a bad temper. He keeps walking to the edge, but hasn't walked over it yet. He will soon, and Brianna is not gonna like it.
Agreed...you should always know what angry looks like on a person before you marry them. That's one thing about this process that's difficult, but could be a deal breaker for some. I don't feel like they talk about it enough from the experts.
Yep I think he'll have to cross that line eventually, then Briana will have to check him real hard before he'll try to work on it. But I believe he will and they'll make it
This season of MAFS is definitely getting draining. It’s sliding beyond Real Housewives into Love and Hip Hop territory. I’ve watch every season of MAFS and I enjoy watching other seasons because you actually can learn about your own preferences or relationships from the couples. And this season I’m just like I WOULD NEVER!!! #jesuswept
Paige’s parents both have been divorced multiple times and she said (during the casting special) that she felt like she was supposed to break the generational curse. And I feel like that’s what’s guiding her decision. I feel like she could very well be the generational curse breaker in her family but she’s focusing too much on not being divorced to break the generational curse. Instead the breaking the generational curse is just her having a happy, healthy marriage, which this is not.
I seem to recall her mentioning that generational curse, and I agree with you that her stopping it should be focussed on finding a better spouse. Or maybe, she should have trusted God's timing better than searching out this alternative method to finding a husband.
Paige is for the streets now! She was outside wet and cold 🥶 and we took her in the house gave her food, change of clothes, and shelter. But she kept on wanting to go outside! GO PAIGE GO live your life and don't come back!
I’m still more on Jake’s side than Haley’s (although he doesn’t always have the best timing). I do think Haley came in with the right intentions, but I don’t think she’s showing a genuine effort, and Jake is well aware. If he had someone who was in it as much as him, I don’t think he’d be in his head so much. But because she’s not giving him a lot to work with, he’s having to pull from his bad past relationships to fill in the gaps. I’m not mad at Haley, but I feel like she realized real quick that this show was a bad choice for her, and she’s just going through the motions to get to the end so she can get out.
I agree. I feel like Haley gaslights Jacob. She doesn’t even try and when she does do something it’s backhanded. She does not like him and she just needs to say that. She does bs to act like she tries but her heart ain’t really in it.
Jacob makes up scenarios because Haley gives NOTHING!! she is completely disengaged. I like Jacob, he's quirky but honest....he calls her to the carpet and she just sits like 😑. Then those clothes.....chile those shirts look like stuff he already has! LOL She is not ready for a relationship..its been so long and she was a child then.
Xactly, Hailey thinks sweeping things underneath the rug is a viable method to make herself look better. It only exacerbates Jacob's tendency to connect the dots and problem solve on his own
Exactly. I don't think Hailey has been trying at all ever since they had sex. She's retreated, shutdown and said she's not attracted to him. She already don't know how to communicate so he's got no choice but to pretty much feel hopeless for this situation. Attraction can grow but that's only with 2 people that are trying to get to know each other. Buying clothes and acting like she has no faults isn't gonna bring them closer. They both have work to do.
I legit had to stop watching this season at the honeymoons. Couldn’t go no further. Too stressful. Imma just let the Bald and Beautiful gang tell me what happens this season. Thanks for taking one for the team yall! Cuz I just CAN’T with this season.
Y’all came through because Chile this EPISODE I NEEDED ANGEL, TANK, KEV, AND MELISSA, I was dang near feenin’ for me some bald and the beautiful, y’all are genuinely my favorite.
In the beginning, I was rebellious and not conforming in my marriage to what my husband thought or was taught that a virteous wifw should be. He was trying to change me into a "church lady" and I was like nope. But when he allowed me to be myself, he saw that I was a better wife as myself than the one he created in his mind. 😁
I been saying all along something ain’t right about “Champagne Vinny” It’s now finally coming out. I saw something but couldn’t put my finger on it. He is emotionally immature and has angry issues. Remember the cousin told Brianna he gets really upset. Brianna has her hands full. She gonna have to walk around on eggshells when it comes to Vinny not sure what will set him off. Not sure how she is going to navigate this ship. It’s doable but is Brianna up to the challenge? Besides Vinny is not a great communicator.
Yes and when the cousin said that I think we all equated that he gets upset with anger and rage, but he gets sad and shuts down. It’s funny because that makes me think of last season when Miles would open to Karen and explain he’s an emotional person and even though he acted like a rational person she treated him as if he was behaving like Vinny 😐
You're absolutely right. Ain't nobody got time to be walking on eggshells around another adult. Vinny needs to get his ish together or Brianna needs to run.
@@jady121584 idk know, she was always talking about she likes really masculine guys and she’s never been with an emotional man before and she wasn’t attracted to that.
Yes, Vinny has something deep to deal with. I agree with Angel. Don't stay and play with a bad attitude and then act like you don't have one. Coping skills for feeling overwhelmed would benefit him. They do need a code language or cue other than a tantrum that there is a problem.
For my MAFS fans that watched from Season 1. Jamie that host the show before the episode, she was not attracted to Doug at all. Attraction grew & Jamie was eventually got to, "I think I have a crush on my husband"!
That is exactly who I thought of when Kev brought that up. Jamie literally cried real tears because she was NOT attracted to that man but look at them now
They were my favorite couple!! Attraction does grow, but Doug was also being patient with her and didn't seem to make her feel too guilty about not being attracted to him.
I think the benefit to the dance class being on camera is that Vinny has the chance to watch it back, and see how it comes across. Hopefully that pushes him to do the self work.
I’m low key worried for Briana because Vincent clearly has anger issues amongst other issues. That switch flipped in his head like a full on crazy person. I’m concerned as to how he will react when something “bad” actually happens. His family warned us about his anger but he said they were lying smh. Clearly they were not!
LISTEN Brianna is an angel because it would not be me! Vincent would have been mad even if the instructor didn't say anything. Brianna is trapped because everything is going to trigger this man. He needs to go work on his damn self.
Reset ok let me TRANSLATE = HIM: I miss your SECKS, support & my baby mama mad at me right now. I ALSO see that you can be influenced so I need to keep you close HER: I don't wanna be a failure, I don't want to fail at marriage. You're ruining this "experience" for me I wanna participate like everyone else
Was never mad at Chris - Paige is was and will always be a BIG GIRL. She has responsibility in what is happening to her. Chris did what he did but Paige made her own choices. Yep her own choices willingly
They gave Vincent too many excuses. Bottom line, dude is incredibly insecure and that’s no one’s fault but his own. Someone like this there’s no winning. No matter what someone does, they will be triggered b/c he lacks self esteem.
For anyone in the comments who has a friend/family member/coworker or can see themselves in Paige, google how to help someone who keeps going back to someone who is bad for them so you can find links to resources that can help you learn how to advocate for them and yourself
@@kristenhackett6825 nothing about my posts says you will change anyone’s mind and the resources that you will find do not tell you how to change anyone’s mind. The key word is learn. These resources educate you on how to support the abused person in whatever way that ends up looking like.
I'm actually very surprised with you guys' verdict on Jake & Haley. Haley ran to Paige house, didn't respond to his text when she was there, bought those clothes as a distraction from the convo, but I'm happy he brought it back up. You can't run from it- if you don't like the man, be done with this! Lawd.
I agree with you, I don’t care for Haley at all, think she is passive aggressive and dishonest and likes to play the victim, Jacob to me just wants honest answers which she doesn’t give, this is why Jacob has to assume
I don’t think Jacob/Hayley’s relationship is such a failure on his end. He’s honest and straightforward with someone who has never been truly interested in him. While I do think Jacob is quick to assume things, he’s pretty observant about Hayley’s lack of interest and effort.
His approach can be wrong but what he says is truthful. He’s not blind to the fact that she doesn’t like him, she’s not vulnerable and she’s not really truly trying.
AMAZING commentary on Haley and Jacob. I find so many women just bashing Haley and makin out Jacob to be a saint. I would loveeee to see those ladies go on a date with him. He's of an acquired taste.
It needs to be mentioned that Hailey's only relationship was between the ages 16-21, she knows nothing and shouldn't be trying to make Jacob look like a college kid in between classes
MAFS needs to start counseling these couples separately before matchmaking these people. A lot of individual building needs to be done. Haley needs to find out why she wants to be married after being single for so long, Paige emphasizing marriage over her well-being, Vincent's bad temper, Chris' everything. Where are the entrance interviews?
Right! She should’ve walked out instead of over there to talk to them. As soon as he said he was mad at her and he’s in the same place he was last week he should’ve walked away.
In all seriousness, Vincent is really showing some real toxic abusive traits. I've been there before and he will be emotionally draining her when his life isn't going as planned. It's a real darkness she can fall into. I'm really worried about her. She is already walking on eggshells, as long as he is teaching her something then it's all good. He doesn't want her to outshine him. Its soooo dangerous. She keeps this baby voice to make him feel better. Im not thinking about Paige. She loves the darkness.
Hmph. Makes me wonder why his previous relationship didn't work out. He's only giving his opinion why it didn't work out but could it be because of this side of Vincent?
@@carlicee exactly. I've been in her place but it wasn't really revealed until a few years in. But the truth looking back there were moments where I was forced to make him feel better for his shortcomings. Which turned into something that changed me. It quiet me. Someone who once excelled in so many ways and outspoken became quiet. Like Malcolm and Marie. It happens before you know it with people like him. The way he did her at the dance class literally made me cry for her future. I pray he sees himself and realizes that ish isn't cute at all.
I had the same experience in a salsa class. They made everybody dance with somebody other than who they came with so there would be no bickering n such. I was with the female instructor and my ex was with the little muscular male instructor LOL. I felt bad for Bri when her toddler-husband pouted about not being perfect at a dance class. I hope he recognizes (soon) the areas he needs to work on and learns how to have fun. The bike thing was sweet but, he gotta chill.
First season there was a couple, bride crying at the wedding cause she finds him unattractive, by the end of the show they had a vow renewal, finds him attractive, and they're still married to this day with kids. JAMIE AND DOUG HEHNER
I don’t think Haley finds Jacob unattractive in the face. I think she’s not attracted to him because of how he’s acting. He’s pushing her all of the way away.
She mentioned on Unfiltered he is 10 years older and acts even older than that. His personality has turned her off🚫, nothing in common except for the dogs and his one dog is kinda mean so they don't even have that.
Yes! It’s his personality. It’s basura. Bennet was weird and quirky but he was an endearing weird. He romanced Amelia and He was able to get along with everyone. Jacob is such a dry personality and doesn’t even try to woo Haley. He even said that actions don’t matter in a relationship. Like come on. Haley could try more but she’s not the only reason their up relationship isn’t working. He’s part of the reason.
I'm concerned Vinny's anger is explosive...and that is the worst kind. I hope that after seeing this he gets help for wherever these insecurities stem from. If he can do that, I think they'll be good.
Vinny’s cousin definitely tried to warn Brianna, she said you’ll have to deal with him when he gets mad, and he definitely acted like he had no clue what she was talking about.
Change out “God” with “production” whenever Paige speaks and it’ll all make sense, smh. I was really rooting for her to check him and leave his toxic self behind
How do you say yes after he told you he going to work out with his fiance/baby mom? Then said baby mom say OH NO we not happening. You 2nd choice! Whhhhhyyyy?!
It’s exhausting at this point. She’s literally being played with in her face and she’s obviously enjoying the tricks. Def can’t blame him anymore because she’s literally eating all of his 💩 right on up.
A lot of people don’t understand that abuse is a CYCLE. When someone is being abused or has been abused, they can be caught in a CYCLE aka a CIRCLE. Please educate yourselves on the cycle of abuse so you can have a true understanding of how people women and men can continue going back to their abusers. I would love y’all to have an expert on here who can actually educate your viewers on what abuse is even when it’s ‘’mild” and not physical. So much judgement in these comments from people who do not understand the true psychology behind what they are seeing and viewing with Paige or Chris.
THANK YOU!!!! Abuse is a cycle, and also I think people forget that even though Chris and Paige have only been together for 2 weeks, it feels like a lot longer because of the MAFS structure. When you go through a bunch of stuff in a short period of time with someone it feels like you've been with them for much longer.
Normally I am checked out with watching MAFS by this time but ever since you all started doing this it has made the show more interesting to watch because I’m so excited to hear you all speak on it.
This episode was ridiculous all of the men besides Ryan are exhibiting signs of mental and verbal abuse and it’s only been 12 days!!! It’s kind of unbelievable that the experts haven’t been intervening more. The pandemic isn’t reason enough for them to not have more interaction. Dr. Vivianna said they have more interaction than we see, but it must not be impactful or else it would make it to camera. These episodes are an hour and half long and they can’t fit in counseling when then the couple obviously need it???!!!
I’m telling you! Go back and watch season 1 of married at first sight. Jamie literally cried like every day because she was not physically attracted to her husband it was so crazy but they are still together and have two kids! She grew in attraction to him and it was beautiful to watch!
Doug is wayyy more patient and accommodating. Jacob is very black and white, either you are attracted to me, you want to be physical, or you don't. Doug, Miles, Greg, etc were patiently waiting for the attraction to grow and it paid off.
Amar is an unofficial member of The Bald and The Beautiful 😂😂😂😂
He is the landlord.
Owner and proprietor 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He is bald & handsome
He is here to stay
Cut him a check 🤣🤣
It's like a bad Tyler Perry movie! I'm just waiting for Shemar Moore to come on through and scoop Paige up!😂😂
😂😂
Okay!!
Screaming 😂😂
Shemar and Jesus are the only thing that can fix this situation!
😂😂😂😂
Did anyone else catch Chris at the beginning of their convo saying to Paige "I was mad at you last week but I'm cool now". SIR you have no right to be mad.
YESSS!! I screamed at my TV"ninja what!!!??!!. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. I was done right there..
Yessss why didn’t that get more attention! He is infuriating 🤬
His manipulation game is pristine
@@dta1329 You got that right.
@@dta1329 he’s been preparing for this his entire life
Chris gives me the guy that was lame in high school who couldn't get girls, moved away from home, rebranded himself & now he just dogs out every girl because he thinks what he has will make them stay.
Pretty much
Listen, I’m mad this dude is still wearing Hollister. I can’t be the only one who’s noticed this. I feel like he is for real stuck in high school. 😩
This Right!!! LOL!!!
True. Bruh is tripping. Chris is still lame after high school. Lol
@@lpgills11 yep. Also, the Hollister tees are a dead giveaway that he don’t have the money he says he does.
Vincent needs to get his insecurities checked. There’s no reason he should be THIS upset every time he’s embarrassed or makes a mistake. He’s not perfect and isn’t going to be a perfect husband. Dude needs to chill. Everything ain’t that deep.
Agree
@@D_A_Marv Nothing to do with anything else, just saw a Dominican flag and wanted to say hey cuz! 🤗🇩🇲
Agreed. It was almost hard to watch him get SO upset.
Being a husband and dad will make you feel like a failure when life shows up, is he going to throw an tantrum every time?
Facts! Its like that machismo attitude!
Paige just wants to be married. It don’t matter the person or circumstances. She just gon keep throwing God in it hoping that he’ll bless it and all will be well. God is probably like leave me out of your foolishness! 😂
I just realized Paige is only 25yo.
@@AJ-gd1ww 26 actually at the time of filming. She may be 27 now. But she mentioned in an unfiltered episode she has a health condition and whats to have kids sooner rather than wait
@@julesm5890 See, I kept thinking she's putting a lot on this working out. She may have been looking at this as answered prayer. So all that sex she was having with Chris, she was probably hoping to be pregnant. She has to learn to look beyond that. But sometimes u don't know that if she has limited experience with men.
@@AJ-gd1ww yea I think you're right! She definitely had no objection to all that unprotected sex! And I remember during the bachlorette episode she said she would need to see STI test results but all that went out the window. I think she secretly wanted a honeymoon baby too
This season is trash. Ion like not nan couple. They really spoiled us with Amani and Woody last season. 😞
Last season was my first season so my expectations were set high. They even spoiled us with Amelia and Bennett 😩
@lynda russell Nope, and he is coming of insecure in a bad way. I don’t know if it’s him or the producers but it’s not cute.
@@theraysilient right Vincent makes me nervous
@lynda russell I feel like Vincent is out of Brianna's league emotionally, intellectually, maturity-wise, etc.
@lynda russell what???? Vincent is a man child. Brianna is already walking on eggshells around him and he still gets angry over the smallest thing. He's not ready for any relationship
Vinnie has extreme highs and extreme lows. That is dangerous for Briana. No one wants to be around someone where you have to walk on egg shells. He needs counseling/therapy.
Yaaass... sis, girl, it scares me because I see signs of an closet abuser. I had an ex like this it triggers me...
nope. Life with an insecure man is hell on earth.
@@kbplus1 I did ask myself would this insecurity will turn physical?
Agreed
I dont get abuser vibes from him, but I guess you never know. But he does seem VERY insecure and self-conscious and very sensitive and offended by ANY criticism. He seems very immature still but also like he cares a lot and has a good heart at the same time. But I dont see how he's going to be a whole husband and leader of a household if he always has to be coddled that way
Timestamps :
Intro : 00:00
Chris & Paige : 01:08
Hailey & Jacob : 15:12
Briana & Vincent : 22:50
Virginia & Eric : 35:17
Clara & Ryan : 40:45
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Cause that's his business
@@DivaAP08 😁 nicely done
Jacob feels like he’s running out of time to find his person and he just doesn’t want to waste it with Hailey anymore. He’s got her figured out....she’s not interested in him.
But hes doing a lot of self sabotage at this point.
Exactly, I'm not saying that Jacob played no parts but the truth is that he knows that she's uninterested and he wants to be done
Yeah, but that’s such a defeatist attitude. For me personally attraction can grow. When I see that person in their element doing what they love or they make romantic gestures towards me I start to become attracted to them. He’s not even doing that. It’s like he’s never heard of seduction or wooing someone. He’s just hoping she becomes attracted to him without having to do anything to make that happen. Or worse he thinks it’s over because she wasn’t initially attracted to him.
@@saraleakes210 I mean she’s changing a critical part of him and I understand it’s not a thing everyone is attracted to but it is him. You’re changing the person because he shows himself through his...fashion of we can call it that
She checked out day 3
I'm done with Paige I saw someone make this comment that I totally agreed with "Paige is no longer victim she's a volunteer"
Big Hunger Games energy, volunteering as tribute.
Ouch/eesh... 😬😳🤔
It was me lol & I still stand by it 🤷🏾♀️ you can’t be that DESPERATE for love?? Honestly, at this point, I believe the producers said they’ll pay her double to stay bc aint no way she getting played like a basketball
I have come to apologise for criticising the experts and producers. The codependency of Paige and the narcissism of Chris is malignant. They need counselling, not marriage. They need to stop spiritualising the situation. All they show is the deep trauma and turmoil that Christians lacking wisdom and the fruits of the Spirit may face. This is a lesson to me and I thank God that I can witness it and not experience it firsthand.
"they need to stop spiritualizing the situation" Yes! Paige seriously lacks discernment.
Vincent's friend is gonna laugh in his face again. Brianna looked great...he should have focused on that. He could have also said you got me this time but we're doing Bachata next time.
@Disco Sprinkles True, but he definitely had to acknowledge her effort, his feelings about dancing, and shake off some of the anxiety.
He spiraled completely into his own mind and couldn't see past his own frustration.
I agree He was to have fun. Too serious!
@@angeladaniels3321 selfish and insecure: bad combination.
Omg right, she was stunning and dancing in 4” heels are you kidding me. He could’ve been fawning all over her and acting lovey dovey, but no he acted like it never danced a day in his life. He should’ve said that was a bit intense with it be a one on one session, I know a Bachata place we can that’s more laid back and fun and followed through.
A reminder. A family member of Vincent told Brianna that Vincent has a bad temper. He keeps walking to the edge, but hasn't walked over it yet. He will soon, and Brianna is not gonna like it.
This!
Agreed...you should always know what angry looks like on a person before you marry them. That's one thing about this process that's difficult, but could be a deal breaker for some. I don't feel like they talk about it enough from the experts.
@@patricegreen6892 Especially before you say "I love you"
Yep I think he'll have to cross that line eventually, then Briana will have to check him real hard before he'll try to work on it. But I believe he will and they'll make it
If I were her I would take him there. She needs to see what that might look like
So Liss just gonna skip over Amar in the introductions?! Amar said that's okay...I won't be silenced 🤣
When Amar reentered the room I immediately went to full screen. I didn't want to miss a thing he was doing.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Plot twist...MAFs has a spinoff show for "weirdos who need love" called "Unmatchables" coming next month.
Shut up!!!!! Chile say it ain't so! Smh.... Now this makes me even more maf! 😣
I'm mad so many POC are on that one but not on the regular MAFS.
@@Jaye927 I saw that too!
I saw that!
they have had couple of spin off that didn't so great so let see and watch see if this one get pass season 1
Has anyone ever noticed how Chris always looks like he’s about to laugh at Paige?
Weirdo!!!
About to? He has literally laughed in her face
Yesssss!!! He always has a smirk on his face. Like yes this is so easy she’ll falls for it all the time. Sis Really 🤦🏾♀️
@@jady121584 true true lol
Man I wouldn't be able to keep a straight face either 😂😂🤷🏽♀️
She is gullible, it's humourous at this point to me
I'm ready for this season to be over so they can speak on everything cause this math ain't mathin' AT ALL! 🥴
AT ALL!!
This reunion gonna be so good, Chris might not even show up
@@ebonih7138 I’d put money on that or him walking off.
@@MIracal09 Oh he will definitely walk off at some point
A little spoiler... his ex pastor friend gone be there. So I bet he walks off
This season of MAFS is definitely getting draining. It’s sliding beyond Real Housewives into Love and Hip Hop territory. I’ve watch every season of MAFS and I enjoy watching other seasons because you actually can learn about your own preferences or relationships from the couples. And this season I’m just like I WOULD NEVER!!! #jesuswept
Its only Chris and Paige thats ghetto. The other couples have legitimate stories and lessons to show
Not Jesus Wept 😂😂
I learn a lot about my own preferences too while watching each season. Good to know I’m not the only one that does this.
I agree. Last few episodes I just watch their recap! It's too much!
Exactly what I've been feeling! I can't barely take this season any more! I said this with DC and Charlotte but this takes the cake hands down.
Paige’s parents both have been divorced multiple times and she said (during the casting special) that she felt like she was supposed to break the generational curse. And I feel like that’s what’s guiding her decision. I feel like she could very well be the generational curse breaker in her family but she’s focusing too much on not being divorced to break the generational curse. Instead the breaking the generational curse is just her having a happy, healthy marriage, which this is not.
Didnt know about her parents
I seem to recall her mentioning that generational curse, and I agree with you that her stopping it should be focussed on finding a better spouse. Or maybe, she should have trusted God's timing better than searching out this alternative method to finding a husband.
Paige is for the streets now! She was outside wet and cold 🥶 and we took her in the house gave her food, change of clothes, and shelter. But she kept on wanting to go outside! GO PAIGE GO live your life and don't come back!
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OH MY GOSH 😂🤣🤣🤣
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Hey! Cameraman!! Angel & Tank are talking now... I wanna see them too 🤣🤣🤣
Okay! ummmmm get it together
I’m still more on Jake’s side than Haley’s (although he doesn’t always have the best timing). I do think Haley came in with the right intentions, but I don’t think she’s showing a genuine effort, and Jake is well aware. If he had someone who was in it as much as him, I don’t think he’d be in his head so much. But because she’s not giving him a lot to work with, he’s having to pull from his bad past relationships to fill in the gaps.
I’m not mad at Haley, but I feel like she realized real quick that this show was a bad choice for her, and she’s just going through the motions to get to the end so she can get out.
I agree. I feel like Haley gaslights Jacob. She doesn’t even try and when she does do something it’s backhanded. She does not like him and she just needs to say that. She does bs to act like she tries but her heart ain’t really in it.
Jacob makes up scenarios because Haley gives NOTHING!! she is completely disengaged. I like Jacob, he's quirky but honest....he calls her to the carpet and she just sits like 😑. Then those clothes.....chile those shirts look like stuff he already has! LOL She is not ready for a relationship..its been so long and she was a child then.
All of this!!!!!!
Xactly, Hailey thinks sweeping things underneath the rug is a viable method to make herself look better. It only exacerbates Jacob's tendency to connect the dots and problem solve on his own
@@Noquarious what else is he left to do, she isnt honest and them just runs away
Exactly. I don't think Hailey has been trying at all ever since they had sex. She's retreated, shutdown and said she's not attracted to him. She already don't know how to communicate so he's got no choice but to pretty much feel hopeless for this situation. Attraction can grow but that's only with 2 people that are trying to get to know each other. Buying clothes and acting like she has no faults isn't gonna bring them closer. They both have work to do.
You should try to get with Jacob.
Thanks for the quick post Melissa, Kevin, Angel & Marcus✊🏾❤️
Right! ❤
EXACTLY!!!
I legit had to stop watching this season at the honeymoons. Couldn’t go no further. Too stressful. Imma just let the Bald and Beautiful gang tell me what happens this season. Thanks for taking one for the team yall! Cuz I just CAN’T with this season.
same
Y’all came through because Chile this EPISODE I NEEDED ANGEL, TANK, KEV, AND MELISSA, I was dang near feenin’ for me some bald and the beautiful, y’all are genuinely my favorite.
In the beginning, I was rebellious and not conforming in my marriage to what my husband thought or was taught that a virteous wifw should be. He was trying to change me into a "church lady" and I was like nope. But when he allowed me to be myself, he saw that I was a better wife as myself than the one he created in his mind. 😁
I been saying all along something ain’t right about “Champagne Vinny” It’s now finally coming out. I saw something but couldn’t put my finger on it. He is emotionally immature and has angry issues. Remember the cousin told Brianna he gets really upset. Brianna has her hands full. She gonna have to walk around on eggshells when it comes to Vinny not sure what will set him off. Not sure how she is going to navigate this ship. It’s doable but is Brianna up to the challenge? Besides Vinny is not a great communicator.
Yes and when the cousin said that I think we all equated that he gets upset with anger and rage, but he gets sad and shuts down. It’s funny because that makes me think of last season when Miles would open to Karen and explain he’s an emotional person and even though he acted like a rational person she treated him as if he was behaving like Vinny 😐
@@CJ-OVO bet karen had an experience with a vinny type before
You're absolutely right. Ain't nobody got time to be walking on eggshells around another adult. Vinny needs to get his ish together or Brianna needs to run.
@@jady121584 idk know, she was always talking about she likes really masculine guys and she’s never been with an emotional man before and she wasn’t attracted to that.
She shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells just because a grown man can’t control his emotions.
Amar: “Comin in hot!!!”🤣🤣🤣 or that’s what I think he’s saying lol
That's funny because they got it from him 😂
Yes, Vinny has something deep to deal with. I agree with Angel. Don't stay and play with a bad attitude and then act like you don't have one. Coping skills for feeling overwhelmed would benefit him. They do need a code language or cue other than a tantrum that there is a problem.
For my MAFS fans that watched from Season 1. Jamie that host the show before the episode, she was not attracted to Doug at all. Attraction grew & Jamie was eventually got to, "I think I have a crush on my husband"!
That is exactly who I thought of when Kev brought that up. Jamie literally cried real tears because she was NOT attracted to that man but look at them now
They were my favorite couple!! Attraction does grow, but Doug was also being patient with her and didn't seem to make her feel too guilty about not being attracted to him.
I think the benefit to the dance class being on camera is that Vinny has the chance to watch it back, and see how it comes across. Hopefully that pushes him to do the self work.
I’m low key worried for Briana because Vincent clearly has anger issues amongst other issues. That switch flipped in his head like a full on crazy person. I’m concerned as to how he will react when something “bad” actually happens. His family warned us about his anger but he said they were lying smh. Clearly they were not!
This!! And mixed with her being slightly controlling ... yikes.
I had that feeling when he mentioned something like he is trying not to get andry then I rememberred what his sisters said.
Right! And on unfiltered he said that it takes “a lot” for him to get angry but from what we are seeing, it clearly takes very little. 🤔
He’s trying to make a good impression right now, but I’m nervous for when the cameras leave.
It doesn't have to be physical though, as in he might not hit her, maybe throw something or punch a walk.
LISTEN Brianna is an angel because it would not be me! Vincent would have been mad even if the instructor didn't say anything. Brianna is trapped because everything is going to trigger this man. He needs to go work on his damn self.
Reset ok let me TRANSLATE = HIM: I miss your SECKS, support & my baby mama mad at me right now. I ALSO see that you can be influenced so I need to keep you close HER: I don't wanna be a failure, I don't want to fail at marriage. You're ruining this "experience" for me I wanna participate like everyone else
Chris and Paige are like Lucy and Charlie Brown with the football
😂🤣😂😂🤣🤣 awe man that made me laugh...
I am hollerin!!!! You are so right about that!
Ha!!!!! I can see that! Lol
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I like Vincent but poor tink tink he is so sensitive. 😂
I agree with Marcus... I’m not mad at Chris anymore... at this point
I'm still mad at him but now I'm mad at both of them.
Was never mad at Chris - Paige is was and will always be a BIG GIRL. She has responsibility in what is happening to her. Chris did what he did but Paige made her own choices. Yep her own choices willingly
They gave Vincent too many excuses. Bottom line, dude is incredibly insecure and that’s no one’s fault but his own. Someone like this there’s no winning. No matter what someone does, they will be triggered b/c he lacks self esteem.
For anyone in the comments who has a friend/family member/coworker or can see themselves in Paige, google how to help someone who keeps going back to someone who is bad for them so you can find links to resources that can help you learn how to advocate for them and yourself
@@kristenhackett6825 nothing about my posts says you will change anyone’s mind and the resources that you will find do not tell you how to change anyone’s mind. The key word is learn. These resources educate you on how to support the abused person in whatever way that ends up looking like.
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Emotional abuse!
Unfortunately, this will take time. Paige has to get to her bottom. Chris is not the 1st to put her through this.
@ kerry Ash agree!
I'm actually very surprised with you guys' verdict on Jake & Haley. Haley ran to Paige house, didn't respond to his text when she was there, bought those clothes as a distraction from the convo, but I'm happy he brought it back up. You can't run from it- if you don't like the man, be done with this! Lawd.
Right how do they not see that.
I agree with you, I don’t care for Haley at all, think she is passive aggressive and dishonest and likes to play the victim, Jacob to me just wants honest answers which she doesn’t give, this is why Jacob has to assume
Yes!!!! I was listening to them like 🤔 were we watching the same show??
Haley =Chris.
Haley’s shady af. She keeps ditching him and playing dumb about it. He has too much baggage tho. They ain’t gonna make it.
@@HopeAndrea_HFG I definitely agree, he has baggage but that playing dumb stuff is not cute.
The delivery on "stick your head in doo doo" lmfao Angel is hilarious
For sure what comes out of a man's mouth can affect his attractiveness.
I no longer watch the actual show, I await for this review! Absolutely love y'all!
Vincent hasn’t matured to the level that he can laugh at himself.
That’s so true. It’s definitely a level of maturity
I don’t think Jacob/Hayley’s relationship is such a failure on his end. He’s honest and straightforward with someone who has never been truly interested in him. While I do think Jacob is quick to assume things, he’s pretty observant about Hayley’s lack of interest and effort.
Great observation, I agree
His approach can be wrong but what he says is truthful. He’s not blind to the fact that she doesn’t like him, she’s not vulnerable and she’s not really truly trying.
At this point Paige should have Chris! “It’s above me now”! Lol
The way Liss popped kev cause he was sleeping and his reaction 🤣 🤣🤣
If it’s one thing Kev gon do it’s fall asleep. There’s episodes of The Love Hour where he’s in full REM 🤣🤣🤣
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AMAZING commentary on Haley and Jacob. I find so many women just bashing Haley and makin out Jacob to be a saint. I would loveeee to see those ladies go on a date with him. He's of an acquired taste.
It needs to be mentioned that Hailey's only relationship was between the ages 16-21, she knows nothing and shouldn't be trying to make Jacob look like a college kid in between classes
Yeeesss "not even did a full pay period"...resetting is BS 🤦🏽♀️
MAFS needs to start counseling these couples separately before matchmaking these people. A lot of individual building needs to be done. Haley needs to find out why she wants to be married after being single for so long, Paige emphasizing marriage over her well-being, Vincent's bad temper, Chris' everything. Where are the entrance interviews?
agreed
At this point, I’m sick of Paige. Can’t even be mad at Chris anymore. He’s playing her and she’s playing herself.
Yep my sympathy for her has left the building. I feel like he could hit her with his car and it wouldn’t surprise me at this point.
Yes I am done with this silly woman. She thinks she is proverbs 31...but she the fool that despises correction.
I have never seen ONE episode of MAFS, but I LOVE watching this podcast! 😍😂
Amar is going to make his way onto all these podcasts. It's only a matter of time before he starts telling us to smash that like button on HTT 😂
I told yall Vincent ain't it. I felt it in my bones, I tolded y'all 😂😂
“Ah here he finna cry. Stupid little Vinny doesn’t know how to walk with popcorn ugh!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My question was why did they (production) send her back over there for any reason. This season is a set up 😒
Right! She should’ve walked out instead of over there to talk to them. As soon as he said he was mad at her and he’s in the same place he was last week he should’ve walked away.
Bc they knew she wouldn’t say what they told her too. They literally fed her her line and she went to reintroduce herself
It’s all for our entertainment. Ion need to be entertained that bad! 😩
I'm here for Amar coming in and out like he owns the place...lol, adorable little boss
When you sign up for MAFS you know you will be filmed! You can't be that sensitive!
Yall need to start paying Amar for his cameos! He always delivers!😁😁
In all seriousness, Vincent is really showing some real toxic abusive traits. I've been there before and he will be emotionally draining her when his life isn't going as planned. It's a real darkness she can fall into. I'm really worried about her. She is already walking on eggshells, as long as he is teaching her something then it's all good. He doesn't want her to outshine him. Its soooo dangerous. She keeps this baby voice to make him feel better. Im not thinking about Paige. She loves the darkness.
Hmph. Makes me wonder why his previous relationship didn't work out. He's only giving his opinion why it didn't work out but could it be because of this side of Vincent?
@@carlicee exactly. I've been in her place but it wasn't really revealed until a few years in. But the truth looking back there were moments where I was forced to make him feel better for his shortcomings. Which turned into something that changed me. It quiet me. Someone who once excelled in so many ways and outspoken became quiet. Like Malcolm and Marie. It happens before you know it with people like him. The way he did her at the dance class literally made me cry for her future. I pray he sees himself and realizes that ish isn't cute at all.
I literally look forward to the baby’s cameo performance every week. 😃😂🤣
When Kev was sleep, Melissa hit him like a church mother!!! 😂😂😂😂
Vincent is such a crybaby. He literally finds the negative in everything or nitpicks whatever Brianna says or does smh
I just love when y'all 5th host, Amar, is on! 🤣❤
I had the same experience in a salsa class. They made everybody dance with somebody other than who they came with so there would be no bickering n such. I was with the female instructor and my ex was with the little muscular male instructor LOL. I felt bad for Bri when her toddler-husband pouted about not being perfect at a dance class. I hope he recognizes (soon) the areas he needs to work on and learns how to have fun. The bike thing was sweet but, he gotta chill.
At Vincent and Briana’s wedding the family wrote “Vincent is sensitive” lol
First season there was a couple, bride crying at the wedding cause she finds him unattractive, by the end of the show they had a vow renewal, finds him attractive, and they're still married to this day with kids. JAMIE AND DOUG HEHNER
But Doug is super humble and Jake just don’t want to get played.
I don’t think Haley finds Jacob unattractive in the face. I think she’s not attracted to him because of how he’s acting. He’s pushing her all of the way away.
She mentioned on Unfiltered he is 10 years older and acts even older than that. His personality has turned her off🚫, nothing in common except for the dogs and his one dog is kinda mean so they don't even have that.
She is not attractive to Jacob. He is too old for her and they are not a good fit. Absolutely nothing in common
Yes! It’s his personality. It’s basura. Bennet was weird and quirky but he was an endearing weird. He romanced Amelia and He was able to get along with everyone. Jacob is such a dry personality and doesn’t even try to woo Haley. He even said that actions don’t matter in a relationship. Like come on. Haley could try more but she’s not the only reason their up relationship isn’t working. He’s part of the reason.
i need me a bald boyz car show. Marcus, kev, goose, Tony with his beat up joint.
It's the bloopers for me! Thank you Melissa! 😊😊
"They're not gonna make it!" Jake definitely has jumped to the end of the story and filed for the divorce in his head so why bother.📝🖋
L O L!!
I'm concerned Vinny's anger is explosive...and that is the worst kind. I hope that after seeing this he gets help for wherever these insecurities stem from. If he can do that, I think they'll be good.
It doesn't matter if it was bachatta, 2 step, or milly rock classes. Vinny needs a therapist
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I think part of Vinnie was upset, because he's hispanic and he felt like he's supposed to know how to do that dance.
Paige isn't about wasting time...she owes me 11 hours of my life back.
Kev’s movie story is the funniest thing I’ve ever heard in life! 🤣🤣
Vinny’s cousin definitely tried to warn Brianna, she said you’ll have to deal with him when he gets mad, and he definitely acted like he had no clue what she was talking about.
Change out “God” with “production” whenever Paige speaks and it’ll all make sense, smh. I was really rooting for her to check him and leave his toxic self behind
FUN FACT: ONE of the orig member of Jab is BRUNO MARS choreographer
-now the smoothness makes sense huh?
Vinny was scared he was gonna lose his latino card bc he can't salsa 🤣🤣🤣
I was SO mad at Paige! She did come in so strong and clear with boundaries only to have her Jericho walls crumble - and not by God!
Lol 😆
How do you say yes after he told you he going to work out with his fiance/baby mom? Then said baby mom say OH NO we not happening. You 2nd choice! Whhhhhyyyy?!
It’s exhausting at this point. She’s literally being played with in her face and she’s obviously enjoying the tricks. Def can’t blame him anymore because she’s literally eating all of his 💩 right on up.
A lot of people don’t understand that abuse is a CYCLE. When someone is being abused or has been abused, they can be caught in a CYCLE aka a CIRCLE. Please educate yourselves on the cycle of abuse so you can have a true understanding of how people women and men can continue going back to their abusers. I would love y’all to have an expert on here who can actually educate your viewers on what abuse is even when it’s ‘’mild” and not physical. So much judgement in these comments from people who do not understand the true psychology behind what they are seeing and viewing with Paige or Chris.
THIS is the take.
THANK YOU!!!! Abuse is a cycle, and also I think people forget that even though Chris and Paige have only been together for 2 weeks, it feels like a lot longer because of the MAFS structure. When you go through a bunch of stuff in a short period of time with someone it feels like you've been with them for much longer.
Absolutely this.
You can still dance Angel!!! TWERKING !!! I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW, IT WAS YOU!!!😆😅🤣🤣😍🤩🥰
Hearing Tank say “Samuel Witwicky” was so funny to me lol
Normally I am checked out with watching MAFS by this time but ever since you all started doing this it has made the show more interesting to watch because I’m so excited to hear you all speak on it.
Before we get started, this episode pissed me so off and I’m not sure if I can keep watching.
Right. I didn't start watching this show to see people hurt and abused.
Same here😢
I got palpitation watching, I had to stop
This episode was ridiculous all of the men besides Ryan are exhibiting signs of mental and verbal abuse and it’s only been 12 days!!! It’s kind of unbelievable that the experts haven’t been intervening more. The pandemic isn’t reason enough for them to not have more interaction. Dr. Vivianna said they have more interaction than we see, but it must not be impactful or else it would make it to camera. These episodes are an hour and half long and they can’t fit in counseling when then the couple obviously need it???!!!
@@CJ-OVO I'm glad I'm not the only one noticing the emotionally abusive dynamics in most of the relationships
You dropped this at the right time. I've been livid waiting to hear your discussion on this episode.
It's Kev's 85 South Show sweatshirt for me! They need to have Kev in the trap!
My boy Kev really out here flexing so heavy with those 4s. I’ve been extremely proud of ya footwork lately
When I heard Paige was talking about some “reset” I knew I couldn’t watch the episode. Atp it’s exhausting.
I purposely watch the replay of the show so I can fast forward her n Chris’ scenes.. can’t do it!
OMG IVE SAID THE SAME THING SINCE THE FIRST TIME WE SEEN THE PASTOR FRIEND ...THAT DARN SHARPIE MARK DOWN TO HIS BROW....LIKE FIXXXXXX THAT SIR!!! 😂😂😂
That donut edit of Clara was savage
I listen to yall like i know the show. Only here cause i love how yall commentate. Love the crew!!
I’m telling you! Go back and watch season 1 of married at first sight. Jamie literally cried like every day because she was not physically attracted to her husband it was so crazy but they are still together and have two kids! She grew in attraction to him and it was beautiful to watch!
Agreed BUT Jamie's husband didn't have an eighties and food fixation or an obsession with his house. Jacob is too rigid and peculiar.
@@rc6449 lol very true!! I agree I think it’s over for Jacob and Haley but I just wanted to stress that physical attraction can grow!!!
But Jacob looks like he might smell though. He doesn't consume fruits or vegetables 😳 I can't imagine.
Doug is wayyy more patient and accommodating. Jacob is very black and white, either you are attracted to me, you want to be physical, or you don't.
Doug, Miles, Greg, etc were patiently waiting for the attraction to grow and it paid off.
@@mommynab 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌