I did the same for my kid. I used to pay 1 lakh fees for junior for an international school which was 4kms away. Sab tante the udhar. So I changed that school which is next to my residence which is an old school and more established than any new schools around, has better caring teachers and so less fees. I am doing SIP for him for his college fees to put him in better college. He is more happier than ever now. His society friends are his classmates. And he has more time at hand because he doesn't waste time in school bus and still has energy left. So now he has more time to utilize and he does in a better way. Me and my wife are more than happy as our WFH gets easily managed. Life is simple.
As someone who went to a school like this I really resonate with your video, all the rich kids get treated better then middle class students in every aspect. Most middle class kids were neglected by the school officials and they didn’t see them of any value. These schools don’t offer much quality education just a way for you to go fancy places and take fancy photos.
I have noticed a simple pattern in terms of selection of school. 1. If you are lower middle class and want your child to excel in STEM field, be clear with him from the very beginning that he has to be the bread winner for the family and has to only focus on STEM subjects like Math, Physics and Science. Don't give that much focus on all round development, if he can crack a good enough IIT/NIT/Good Gov Engg college that's enough. For that take a school near your house which will save his travelling and focus more on his time for tutions. Preferably choose State Board schools because they won't focus on other things. 2. If you have a business and want your kids to take over it later, put your kid in CBSE, he will be a bit of everything. He will be connected to the ground reality of India as well as the corporate world. And also there is a scope of all round development, but not that it compromises on his technical studies. 3. If you're upper middle class and wealthy enough, prepare up your kid for higher education in a foreign country. Focus very well on his English, another Foreign Language, okay enough on Maths and more on organizational work. Put him in a IB School/ICSE School and train him how would he find a job in a foreign country. Contact your relatives in that country, and also connect him with the particular communities in that country. Here he is not only for men, he here means any student irrespective of gender. Pardon me for omitting she here.
Lower class should put their kids in cbse school because the syllabus for competitive exams includes ncert books. CBSE schools teach directly from NCERT books while state govt books are derived from outdated NCERT books. Many state govt syllabi have unnecessary portions, state boards don't update the books regularly unlike NCERT. State boards and ICSEs are not helpful for competitive exams.
@@Sample-Alok-UA-cam Disagree absolutely. Lower middle class people should only focus on cracking good companies/getting into MBBS/cracking something big. Basic skills won't take them ahead. They don't have the edge over upper middle class and rich people. So it's better that they put good work ethics on him and make him excel in stem from the very beginning
100% agree with you, and this is one topic that I figured out on my own before seeing your video. I think schools like K.V and APS are much better options. Save your money in Primary and Secondary Education and then utilise that saved amount in College Degree. In today's world any good college does not just give you knowledge but it gives you 2 things - Thought Process and Networking and that's what a student should expect from his/her college.
Literally, मौज कर दी । I m in mid forties & holding this view 10 -15 years back. I often offended many whenever I preached this especially to my siblings , friends, relatives & near - dear. कसम से बहुत अच्छा लगा आपकी बात सुनकर क्योंकि हमारे वहा तो रुझान भी आने लगे है और लोग अब भी नही मान रहे ❤❤❤❤❤❤
One more thing which I'm noticing nowadays specially middle class is purchasing costly cars on loans, just to show others that i own a big and costly car.
beacuse Indian society is status-driven aka show off driven not wealth driven if someday Indian society will change direction towards wealth driven then growth of India will touch to next level
Jaise santo ke pravachan sunte hai waise hi aapke lecture India me sune Jane chahiye hamare naye samaj ke nirman ke liye aapki bahut need hai. Thanks Sir
Very relative topic. Bhed chaal se niklne ki ummid deti hai bhaiyon bahno ko 😊. Sirf school se kuchh nhi hota, homework m parents ko dhyaan dena hi hota hai and chahiye bhi. Tk control.
I also put my kids in a famous convent school in the city I was posted earlier but after coming to Delhi I decided to put them in a reputed Kendriya Vidyalaya of Delhi and there was an astonishing improvement both in the academic profile and all round personality. Kendriya Vidyalaya offers some unique and great opportunities which one can't afford or get even if one is ready to spend money .
only central govt emplyees can send their children in KV or throguh by connections. not all Any KV at random is same as or better than top 10 private school in Delhi
100% agree…school loot rahey hai…education mey naam pey jhumla hai…and fees has no correlation to actual worth. I think it’s more to do with parents ego…they want to show to their relatives their oneupmanship
Yes Sir,, This was very clear to as we all complaint about Indian Education System.. Either we go to metro city or any town or any small city every school have near about same curriculum..
Sir You are absolutely correct 100 percent I totally agree Going to Hi fi schools creates inferiority complex Going to school which is far from home wastes a lot of time. You are right one should go to near by school. I didn't gain anything by going to a hifi school. My 2 hours were wasted in going and returning.
Sir I completed my ‘’high school’’ from a very hi fi school in delhi but somewhere I felt coming from a middle Class Background I saw the difference when they went abroad and inter city for studies and we were clueless because our parents were different. To match my with my classmates parties events was difficult for my parents because of new expenditures like choosing good clothes sending to national trips and many more things. So I think what you said is really Relevant. Thanks sir
I was sent to a school that has good teacher, a big playground, computer lab(a luxury back then). Mere building mein there were families jinke bacche paas wali school mein jaate jahaan zameen pe baithke seekhte. Lekin aaj hum donon mein koi antar nahin hai. Unke bhi acche jobs hai, acche ghar hai, acchi life hai.
Sir yaha US me bada aaram hai , saare bacche apne area ke gov school me jate hai by default. There is no school fees, but we pay high property tax which indirectly pay for school.
My child is studying in KV and i am completely satisfied with the level of teaching and other extra curricular activities which they made the children to get involve into on regular basis...If your child is sincere , there is going to be all round development of his/her personality while studying in KV....and he/she would definitely make a mark in life in the time to come....Teachers in KVs are recruited through all India competitive exams, so are obviously much more capable and knowledgeable than the teachers teaching in these so called fancy private schools, which in true sense, schools are less and money minting machines are more...
I usually don't comment but was compelled to. It hit home...so resonated with me....point taken....thank you so much. The video was hilarious at the same time.....my husband could not convince me regarding school selection 😂😂.....I'm so glad I came across your video....thank you again.
Should middle class send their children to inefficient and dysfunctional govt schools where there is no scope for learning at all ? There may be defects in private schools, but bitter truth is that, they've saved the Indian education system from total collapse. Sir, ask 1. How much money does the government spend on improving govt schools ? 2. Is the expenditure on govt schools equal to the expenditure on MPs, MLAs, sarkari babus ? 3. Inspite of collecting education "cess", there is no single govt school which is equivalent to DPS,...and such schools. Where does that tax money go ? 4. How many teacher vacancies get completed on time without legal dispute just like IAS, or elections ? 5. Why there are contractual teachers in govt education institutions ? We pay through the nose for private school, tuition fees not bcoz of our choice, but bcoz of lack of sustainable option.
Sir mere husband bolte thw k baccho ko acche school me padao but main nhi chahti thi main bolti hu pass k school me hi thik hai or aaj aapne mere liye ye video bna di thank you sir u r my favourite youtuber thank u sir
Abhi mere dono bacche pass CBSE me pad rhe hai mere husband chahte k main ICSE me addmission karau meri beti 5 th class me hai or beta nursery me to mujhe lgta hai yhi best hai or main bhi unko padti hu ghr pr
Sir, I've come across numerous motivational videos and quotes advocating for investing more in finding the best school and coaching than in other expenses. However, this particular video has presented a different perspective. I've already taken that approach, and now, I'm feeling quite apprehensive 😳.
The problem with current middle class is jump in perceived wealth with high asset prices and rise in salaries/ moonlighting / double income. What we don't factor is salaried income may stagnate in early 40s and terminate at 50. Thus, it is imperative to remain humble and judicious with your expenses.
Bilkul sahi he mene phele se hi ye cheez soch rakhi thi agar Paisa hi chahiye to phir expensive education me Paisa kyo waste krana agar sahi jagah invest Karo to bacche ke jawan hone Tak ek bada corpus ho jayega phir cahe to job kare ya business apni marji se full freedom 😊😅
Agree sir.. reason that ppl sending their kid because they think this way their kids will develop a rich boy mentality.. infact its opposite and kid will feel inferior.. parents should teach their kids to accept reality and should promote for organic growth
Amit ji - you have been consistently producing high quality and thought provoking videos. Thanks for the efforts you have been putting into helping awaken ppl. Fantastic content!!
Bulls eye analysis Sir. The main issue is that middle class parents are treating school education like computer coding i.e. if you give a certain input then you will get a certain output. Middle class parents are thinking that if they put their children in a certain type of school or a particular board then the children will definitely become something spectacular or whatever the parents are imagining. Unfortunately very few parents take the trouble to understand their children. I feel that the parents' focus should be on raising a mentally and emotionally healthy child. Such children will then definitely do well in life on their own terms.
Sir, 100% sahi bolaa aapne..... Meri beti kee nursery fees 1.6 lakhs per year hai!! Mujhe khud yahi lagtaa hai kee itne paise kee fd yaa sip karvaa lo...... Zyada kharchaa karne kaa koi point nahi hai..... These pvt schools are over rated
Sir, first of all, thank you from the bottom of my heart for understanding me so well. This is the problem of every middle class today, which will change by watching this video. Each and every line of you are correct. #Don't compare others child#
Sir although I agree to this view but to be honest, since I was put in a good school, my perspective is better than my parents.... May deep.down my parents knew that.... I am not saying put your childr in ultra rich school....which are above your means but a decent school which are at par would do. My mother is a state govt. School teacher, we all know how pathetic the conditions of those schools are. Though at my level, I would definitely put my kids in KV,DAV etc and put more efforts in home schooling which my parents could not have afforded well.
Hello uncle , i see your videos regularly. I found that you uploaded video only for midle class people . But what about poor people , plz i request you make a video on how to fall in midle class from poor class . Thank you sir Your subscriber sameer kumar
Dear Sir please make a video on the dilemma on which is more peaceful and satisfying/ sustainable of the following options regarding work: A. Stable job regular increments/promotions + Lots of leaves + Good professional growth + 40x2= 80 Km commute per day B. Better starting salary + okayish increments/promotion + 5 working days of 8.5 hrs + okayish professional growth +
Are sir.. kahaa the ap😄 first vdo dekhi hai apki.. ekdm point to point baat👍 mere bachche ka admission KV me krvaya hai.. husband privet school me bhejna chahte the., pr maine nhi krvaya. Mere mind me jo chal rha tha, apne wahi bola hai👍🙏
Perfect Parents should focus most on spending time with kids and educating them about our great culture and values Building character and understanding how world works is most important than scoring high grades
Sir apne Jo bola 100% correct hai..lekin ek baat aur hai Jisse middle class darta hai normal school bhejne apne bacche ko wo isliye ki waha Aanne wale bacche bad language use karna bad words use karna..ye sab se bhi darte hai ki kali unka baccha aisa na Bolne lag Jaiye..ispe ap kya sochte hai
Shi kha sir maine husband ki jaan kha li ki bache kv main kyu lgae jb hm ashe school main pda skte the. Aj apki baate sunke apni glti ka ehsaas ho rha hai
Dr Sir, I truly agree wit U here. Treatment fr Rich is way beyond measures as compared to Middle Middle Class. In real world only d Rich r favored n r given high preference in all they do whether they r capable or not. Still Middle Middke Class suffers n strive hard 2 cum up. It's really no joke n a lot of effort is put into 2 achieve success. They treat Middle Class differently n d full fly including d child suffers to attain their goals n reach d top. Wat a Bad privilege one faces in life. The rich will move only wit d Rich Class n the Middle Class gets neglected in all their life. Wat a TRUE Story!!!! I ♥️tily reciprocate d same in all I say. Best Rgds♥️🙏
Sir, please tell about one more criteria i.e. atmosphere and environment for a girl child in a middle class schools. Its very bad in many small cities in UP
Shi baat har school me A for apple hi padhayenge.... mehnge school me A for rocket 🚀 ni padhayege.... Or A bhi sab jgah ek jesa hi banta hai mehnge school me A (-) ese ni bnayege.... Mene bhi mehnge school me kara diya tha school kam Mall jyada tha...
Sir I completely agree with u sir ...sir plz my humble request ki ap un ladies un parents ke liye video bnao jo hmesha isi baat k piche rehte h ki ladki ki local marriage kro local me ladki dekh legi aur ye vo falana dimkana
Main thing that should be encouraged is that school must be near to house, and commute time must be > 20 mins in Tier 2 city and > 40-45 mins in a Tier 1 city.
From my life I have learnt that th most a person need his/her parents is when he step out of college or at the age when he about to start job/business.
Another thing I have seen in Indian parents is this, A kid whose parents are less earning but wearing good clothes is making fun of another kid based on clothing, another kid parents are actually rich or I should say newly rich. They are now living in a rich society now but their old habits of being poor are still with them. Point is, both kid's parents are rich because one of the kid's parents run a clothes showroom and they give money, clothes, restaurants food to their kid as well. Whereas the anothe kid's parents started from poor families and have now become rich due to their grade B govt job, these newly rich parents refused to give their children good clothes, pocket money, and other perks like outside food. The excuse given is, you should learn how poor people live. Which is good till a limit. In the end, that newly rich parent's kid is forced to live among and see other rich kids in his society who are enjoying money, new clothes, restaurants, travelling etc, while he has to learn how poor people lives, so he can't do all this. One kid is spending 1000 rs like a flick and other one is walking 4 Kms to save 10 rs, meanwhile both kids are rich
If the old rich want the new rich to behave like them, then the problem is with themselves (the old rich) only. Why expect others to dress like them, behave like them if the new rich are not employed directly under them? Also, the point with cars is they can go anywhere. They can bunk classes and go to clubs instead. That doesn't mean you should force them to walk. Solution is somewhere in the middle. You can give cycle for commute. You can give pocket money, but you have to monitor their expenses through UPI
I can already see the future of kids who rarely have money in their hands. These kids can only do these Drawing classes, Football classes, and skills development in their dreams as their parents will not give them a penny for these. Because according to them only studies are important enough to spend money nothing else. About clothes, the sides of cuffs and collars are tethered, the color has now faded, small tiny holes in the t-shirt, and the holes for buttons have stretched. Only get 4 pairs or less in a year, etc. After 18 parents say, we have done enough, and go and make your life on your own. Maybe they will give them a scooter or PC but that's it. Expect no money other than college fees. About banking and stuff, it is a self-learning process, parents don't give a damn. Either that money will be spent on another useless big house or on the medical expenses of the parents. Kids like these then develop a habit of a minimalistic lifestyle or thrift spenders, usually don't marry, etc. I remember one of my friends, who never got 10 rs even for lunch, Now he eats at least one time a day from swiggy/zomato means 30k/month spending just on outside food, and he refuses to listen to the parents about it. He says, Nor you have eaten yourself and nor let me eat anything good, now my money my choice
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Sir, I am agree with you. My thinking is like you and I do the same with my child
I did the same for my kid. I used to pay 1 lakh fees for junior for an international school which was 4kms away. Sab tante the udhar. So I changed that school which is next to my residence which is an old school and more established than any new schools around, has better caring teachers and so less fees. I am doing SIP for him for his college fees to put him in better college. He is more happier than ever now. His society friends are his classmates. And he has more time at hand because he doesn't waste time in school bus and still has energy left. So now he has more time to utilize and he does in a better way. Me and my wife are more than happy as our WFH gets easily managed. Life is simple.
1 lakh for one mnth is very high sir .
Aapne bahut sahi decision liya
Smart move!! Your contribution will be rewarded later.
@@monika.chauhan_7 They are increasing fess by 15-20% every year.
@@monika.chauhan_7Aunty year ki hogi month kaise possible hai?
@@ShivamGupta-wf5ni bhai 4 lakh/month vale school bhi hain
Sir Iam a principal in private school...and agree with u very well.
Mam kon se school me ho ap
Why are you pushing vaccine mandates on your schools children?
@@mukeshagondh2048satpuda valley public school balaghat mp
Ye sahi tha mam 😀
Good evening ma'am, recognised me?
As someone who went to a school like this I really resonate with your video, all the rich kids get treated better then middle class students in every aspect. Most middle class kids were neglected by the school officials and they didn’t see them of any value. These schools don’t offer much quality education just a way for you to go fancy places and take fancy photos.
I have noticed a simple pattern in terms of selection of school.
1. If you are lower middle class and want your child to excel in STEM field, be clear with him from the very beginning that he has to be the bread winner for the family and has to only focus on STEM subjects like Math, Physics and Science. Don't give that much focus on all round development, if he can crack a good enough IIT/NIT/Good Gov Engg college that's enough.
For that take a school near your house which will save his travelling and focus more on his time for tutions. Preferably choose State Board schools because they won't focus on other things.
2. If you have a business and want your kids to take over it later, put your kid in CBSE, he will be a bit of everything. He will be connected to the ground reality of India as well as the corporate world. And also there is a scope of all round development, but not that it compromises on his technical studies.
3. If you're upper middle class and wealthy enough, prepare up your kid for higher education in a foreign country. Focus very well on his English, another Foreign Language, okay enough on Maths and more on organizational work. Put him in a IB School/ICSE School and train him how would he find a job in a foreign country. Contact your relatives in that country, and also connect him with the particular communities in that country.
Here he is not only for men, he here means any student irrespective of gender. Pardon me for omitting she here.
Lower class should put their kids in cbse school because the syllabus for competitive exams includes ncert books. CBSE schools teach directly from NCERT books while state govt books are derived from outdated NCERT books. Many state govt syllabi have unnecessary portions, state boards don't update the books regularly unlike NCERT. State boards and ICSEs are not helpful for competitive exams.
@@omanajz
Agreed. I believe putting them in a KV would help.
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Disagree absolutely.
Lower middle class people should only focus on cracking good companies/getting into MBBS/cracking something big. Basic skills won't take them ahead. They don't have the edge over upper middle class and rich people.
So it's better that they put good work ethics on him and make him excel in stem from the very beginning
I don't agree with this part of ur answer.
Thanks for sharing a detailed analysis on this
100% agree with you, and this is one topic that I figured out on my own before seeing your video. I think schools like K.V and APS are much better options. Save your money in Primary and Secondary Education and then utilise that saved amount in College Degree. In today's world any good college does not just give you knowledge but it gives you 2 things - Thought Process and Networking and that's what a student should expect from his/her college.
those two are also absent in the colleges not in the tier 1 city
Right
I taught in APS ...do much discrimination with Civilians
@10:10 bilkul sahi bola.. ameero ke baccho ko bigadne ke baad sudharna aata hai.. middle class ke bacche bigad gaye to sudharna mushkil hai
Literally, मौज कर दी । I m in mid forties & holding this view 10 -15 years back. I often offended many whenever I preached this especially to my siblings , friends, relatives & near - dear. कसम से बहुत अच्छा लगा आपकी बात सुनकर क्योंकि हमारे वहा तो रुझान भी आने लगे है और लोग अब भी नही मान रहे ❤❤❤❤❤❤
One more thing which I'm noticing nowadays specially middle class is purchasing costly cars on loans, just to show others that i own a big and costly car.
beacuse Indian society is status-driven aka show off driven not wealth driven if someday Indian society will change direction towards wealth driven then growth of India will touch to next level
Amit Sangawan Sir.....is middle class mesiah......great guidances!!!
I totally agree with you.. hamne bhi SIP karva di... instead of sending a child to an expensive school.. 😊
Whatnis SIP
What is SIP
Jaise santo ke pravachan sunte hai waise hi aapke lecture India me sune Jane chahiye hamare naye samaj ke nirman ke liye aapki bahut need hai.
Thanks Sir
Very relative topic. Bhed chaal se niklne ki ummid deti hai bhaiyon bahno ko 😊.
Sirf school se kuchh nhi hota, homework m parents ko dhyaan dena hi hota hai and chahiye bhi. Tk control.
Relevant
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Aap ka bhi bacha padtha h
Your typical Middle Class terms/dialogues like "Pet Kat Ke" and realistic/practical approch is very connecting to my/our middle class life
Useful video . We need to understand this and rethink before choosing school for our kid. Never take any step just to showoff others.
Very very important video made by you. Thank u so much for helping out middle class in making decisions.
चाचा, सोच रास्ता दिमाग साफ़ करने के लिए धन्यवाद। ये बात सही लगी के बच्चे के नाम पर निवेश कर के उसको प्लेटफार्म तो मिलेगा भविष्य में
I also put my kids in a famous convent school in the city I was posted earlier but after coming to Delhi I decided to put them in a reputed Kendriya Vidyalaya of Delhi and there was an astonishing improvement both in the academic profile and all round personality.
Kendriya Vidyalaya offers some unique and great opportunities which one can't afford or get even if one is ready to spend money .
only central govt emplyees can send their children in KV or throguh by connections. not all
Any KV at random is same as or better than top 10 private school in Delhi
KV RK Puram is really good
@@Sample-Alok-UA-cam yup, agree
@@Shankhanil_Paul what about KV saket??
@@GarudAtmano bro even jobless person can send his children to kv , first have some knowledge about admission processand then you should talk.
100% agree…school loot rahey hai…education mey naam pey jhumla hai…and fees has no correlation to actual worth. I think it’s more to do with parents ego…they want to show to their relatives their oneupmanship
kisi ne agar bacche ke dimag ka aisi ki taisi karwani hai toh school bhej do baki kaam school bade aaram se kar dega baacho ke dimag ka
Very good information, I truly agree with this as I have gone through this with my daughter. And I realised very early and changed her school.
hello, please talk about the parents who made it big so that they can afford spoiled kids
Clarity Giver for a reason!! Thank you, Sir!
India me 5% school college hi thik thak education de rahe hai ,
बाकी सब कचरा फैक्ट्री है
@@Sample-Alok-UA-camथोड़ा खुद भी मेहनत करके देखो ,
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Yes Sir,, This was very clear to as we all complaint about Indian Education System.. Either we go to metro city or any town or any small city every school have near about same curriculum..
Kendriya vidyalaya mei humare time bahut zaida teachers students k beech discrimination karte the..only apne favourite students ko he har jagah aage
😮right. Humare Sath b esa hua
The best part is, whoever goes to their tuition are their favorites
Sir
You are absolutely correct 100 percent
I totally agree
Going to Hi fi schools creates inferiority complex
Going to school which is far from home wastes a lot of time. You are right one should go to near by school.
I didn't gain anything by going to a hifi school. My 2 hours were wasted in going and returning.
Grateful for the education from Kendriya vidyalayas ❤
Sir I completed my ‘’high school’’ from a very hi fi school in delhi but somewhere I felt coming from a middle
Class
Background I saw the difference when they went abroad and inter city for studies and we were clueless because our parents were different. To match my with my classmates parties events was difficult for my parents because of new expenditures like choosing good clothes sending to national trips and many more things.
So I think what you said is really
Relevant. Thanks sir
I am a proud navodayan
Aaj ke jamane ki sahi situation batai hai sir aapne bohat helpful hai aapki guidence thank you sir
dhanaywaad guruji.Thinking on same line but now got absolute clarity.
Bilkul sahi bat hai sir. Main bangalore me rahta hu, normal private school me bhi lkg ka fee 1 lakh se jyada hai. Manage hona muskil hai
I was sent to a school that has good teacher, a big playground, computer lab(a luxury back then). Mere building mein there were families jinke bacche paas wali school mein jaate jahaan zameen pe baithke seekhte. Lekin aaj hum donon mein koi antar nahin hai. Unke bhi acche jobs hai, acche ghar hai, acchi life hai.
Gem of a person protect this men at any cost u are great sir ji
The best explanation can be given for this thing.
Bahut Achcha bataya Guruji Dimag ka gubbara Nikal Gaya kyunki middle class ko bahut Gumrah aur Takrana Hota Hai
Pls make a video on the trend of multiple activity classes and tuitions since nursery nowadays..
Sir yaha US me bada aaram hai , saare bacche apne area ke gov school me jate hai by default. There is no school fees, but we pay high property tax which indirectly pay for school.
My child is studying in KV and i am completely satisfied with the level of teaching and other extra curricular activities which they made the children to get involve into on regular basis...If your child is sincere , there is going to be all round development of his/her personality while studying in KV....and he/she would definitely make a mark in life in the time to come....Teachers in KVs are recruited through all India competitive exams, so are obviously much more capable and knowledgeable than the teachers teaching in these so called fancy private schools, which in true sense, schools are less and money minting machines are more...
I usually don't comment but was compelled to. It hit home...so resonated with me....point taken....thank you so much. The video was hilarious at the same time.....my husband could not convince me regarding school selection 😂😂.....I'm so glad I came across your video....thank you again.
Kya lecture hai hats off
Should middle class send their children to inefficient and dysfunctional govt schools where there is no scope for learning at all ? There may be defects in private schools, but bitter truth is that, they've saved the Indian education system from total collapse. Sir, ask
1. How much money does the government spend on improving govt schools ?
2. Is the expenditure on govt schools equal to the expenditure on MPs, MLAs, sarkari babus ?
3. Inspite of collecting education "cess", there is no single govt school which is equivalent to DPS,...and such schools. Where does that tax money go ?
4. How many teacher vacancies get completed on time without legal dispute just like IAS, or elections ?
5. Why there are contractual teachers in govt education institutions ?
We pay through the nose for private school, tuition fees not bcoz of our choice, but bcoz of lack of sustainable option.
Sir mere husband bolte thw k baccho ko acche school me padao but main nhi chahti thi main bolti hu pass k school me hi thik hai or aaj aapne mere liye ye video bna di thank you sir u r my favourite youtuber thank u sir
@@Sample-Alok-UA-cam baat aforde ki nhi hai acche mtlv 10000 rs.month ki fees ho jiski
Abhi mere dono bacche pass CBSE me pad rhe hai mere husband chahte k main ICSE me addmission karau meri beti 5 th class me hai or beta nursery me to mujhe lgta hai yhi best hai or main bhi unko padti hu ghr pr
Certificates of schools
Whether from open or
Govt.or pvt are acceptable in govt service throughout the
country.
Love this channel.❤You are such an intelligent man! 🎉
Sir, I've come across numerous motivational videos and quotes advocating for investing more in finding the best school and coaching than in other expenses. However, this particular video has presented a different perspective. I've already taken that approach, and now, I'm feeling quite apprehensive 😳.
Very well said sir..don't do it just for the sake of doing it should give value to the kid...
Put kaput to kya dhan sanche..put saput to kya dhan sanche...
amazing eye opening video in today times...really loved it
Quality time😂vaah guru ji,hum apsi 100 percent sahi h
Sir aapki baat sun kar bahut achha laga aur bahut sari chijen clear Hui thnku sir
The problem with current middle class is jump in perceived wealth with high asset prices and rise in salaries/ moonlighting / double income. What we don't factor is salaried income may stagnate in early 40s and terminate at 50.
Thus, it is imperative to remain humble and judicious with your expenses.
Saraswat Vidya Mandir Schools,KV and JNV are best schools..
Amd parents should also indulge their self with the children
"Pech kaach kaach ke" 😂😂
No rayan international school, dps, gd goenka was harmed in this video 😆
100% accurate analysis
even I had this same thinking for my future kids 😅
I agree
Very good video. Mindset to change specially of middle class is so difficult. Hope this video enlighten cattle class .
Sarkari m dalo or tution lg do or UA-cam chalo softskill focus fitness extra activity
Bilkul sahi he mene phele se hi ye cheez soch rakhi thi agar Paisa hi chahiye to phir expensive education me Paisa kyo waste krana agar sahi jagah invest Karo to bacche ke jawan hone Tak ek bada corpus ho jayega phir cahe to job kare ya business apni marji se full freedom 😊😅
Pranam Guruji 🙏
Agree sir.. reason that ppl sending their kid because they think this way their kids will develop a rich boy mentality.. infact its opposite and kid will feel inferior.. parents should teach their kids to accept reality and should promote for organic growth
Amit ji - you have been consistently producing high quality and thought provoking videos. Thanks for the efforts you have been putting into helping awaken ppl. Fantastic content!!
Guru ji, I have no words to thank you for giving million dollars advices. Your contents are really unique.🙏 please keep making these vedios.
This man should conduct events/sessions in different cities and sell tickets on book my show type apps with limited intelligent audience.
UA-cam isn't worth it?
Thank you for the discussion Guruji 🙏🙏🙏
Maza agya...bot hi sahi video👏
Bulls eye analysis Sir. The main issue is that middle class parents are treating school education like computer coding i.e. if you give a certain input then you will get a certain output. Middle class parents are thinking that if they put their children in a certain type of school or a particular board then the children will definitely become something spectacular or whatever the parents are imagining. Unfortunately very few parents take the trouble to understand their children. I feel that the parents' focus should be on raising a mentally and emotionally healthy child. Such children will then definitely do well in life on their own terms.
You are saving this bogus & foolish generation.
Sir, 100% sahi bolaa aapne..... Meri beti kee nursery fees 1.6 lakhs per year hai!! Mujhe khud yahi lagtaa hai kee itne paise kee fd yaa sip karvaa lo...... Zyada kharchaa karne kaa koi point nahi hai..... These pvt schools are over rated
Sir, first of all, thank you from the bottom of my heart for understanding me so well. This is the problem of every middle class today, which will change by watching this video. Each and every line of you are correct. #Don't compare others child#
Convent school are best low fees ,good quality teacher
Timeless Video !!! ❤ beautifully explained
Sir although I agree to this view but to be honest, since I was put in a good school, my perspective is better than my parents.... May deep.down my parents knew that.... I am not saying put your childr in ultra rich school....which are above your means but a decent school which are at par would do.
My mother is a state govt. School teacher, we all know how pathetic the conditions of those schools are.
Though at my level, I would definitely put my kids in KV,DAV etc and put more efforts in home schooling which my parents could not have afforded well.
Hello uncle , i see your videos regularly. I found that you uploaded video only for midle class people . But what about poor people , plz i request you make a video on how to fall in midle class from poor class .
Thank you sir
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Dear Sir please make a video on the dilemma on which is more peaceful and satisfying/ sustainable of the following options regarding work:
A. Stable job regular increments/promotions + Lots of leaves + Good professional growth + 40x2= 80 Km commute per day
B. Better starting salary + okayish increments/promotion + 5 working days of 8.5 hrs + okayish professional growth +
Best video..... This guy is way ahead of the curve.....
Are sir.. kahaa the ap😄 first vdo dekhi hai apki.. ekdm point to point baat👍 mere bachche ka admission KV me krvaya hai.. husband privet school me bhejna chahte the., pr maine nhi krvaya. Mere mind me jo chal rha tha, apne wahi bola hai👍🙏
I completely agree with you I've observed this very closely
Perfect
Parents should focus most on spending time with kids and educating them about our great culture and values
Building character and understanding how world works is most important than scoring high grades
Sangwan ji is video me jo aapne bataya uski ek ek baat sahi hai
Thank you Sir, really helpful
Sir please make a video on homeschooling how it is it as a concept and how to do it properly
Sir apne Jo bola 100% correct hai..lekin ek baat aur hai Jisse middle class darta hai normal school bhejne apne bacche ko wo isliye ki waha Aanne wale bacche bad language use karna bad words use karna..ye sab se bhi darte hai ki kali unka baccha aisa na Bolne lag Jaiye..ispe ap kya sochte hai
I prefer state government convent school.... because from 5 th class it has grand...so it comes under aided category....
Meethi sardi ,badi sardi😂😂😂
Shi kha sir maine husband ki jaan kha li ki bache kv main kyu lgae jb hm ashe school main pda skte the. Aj apki baate sunke apni glti ka ehsaas ho rha hai
Dr Sir,
I truly agree wit U here. Treatment fr Rich is way beyond measures as compared to Middle Middle Class. In real world only d Rich r favored n r given high preference in all they do whether they r capable or not. Still Middle Middke Class suffers n strive hard 2 cum up. It's really no joke n a lot of effort is put into 2 achieve success. They treat Middle Class differently n d full fly including d child suffers to attain their goals n reach d top.
Wat a Bad privilege one faces in life. The rich will move only wit d Rich Class n the Middle Class gets neglected in all their life.
Wat a TRUE Story!!!!
I ♥️tily reciprocate d same in all I say.
Best Rgds♥️🙏
Your video gives so much clarity in this present status building period... Thank you sir
Sir, please tell about one more criteria i.e. atmosphere and environment for a girl child in a middle class schools.
Its very bad in many small cities in UP
Sir, you are absolutely right..
chote chote bachchon ko mahange school mein bhej kar parents pata nahin kya chahte hain
Really waiting for this video sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir Job Ya Career Select Karte wakt hame Ky Parametres Dhekne chaiyye ispr Ek Video
Shi baat har school me A for apple hi padhayenge.... mehnge school me A for rocket 🚀 ni padhayege....
Or A bhi sab jgah ek jesa hi banta hai mehnge school me A (-) ese ni bnayege....
Mene bhi mehnge school me kara diya tha school kam Mall jyada tha...
Same thing..I had said years back...my relatives called me immature baat karta hai
Make more detailed videos on this ….How to educate our child in a more appropriate manner
Great regards from dr Heera Lal dayma MBBS dausa raj 🌹🙏🙏🌹❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sir I completely agree with u sir ...sir plz my humble request ki ap un ladies un parents ke liye video bnao jo hmesha isi baat k piche rehte h ki ladki ki local marriage kro local me ladki dekh legi aur ye vo falana dimkana
Sir, any opinion about open schools with NIOS board.
Main thing that should be encouraged is that school must be near to house, and commute time must be > 20 mins in Tier 2 city and > 40-45 mins in a Tier 1 city.
From my life I have learnt that th most a person need his/her parents is when he step out of college or at the age when he about to start job/business.
Another thing I have seen in Indian parents is this,
A kid whose parents are less earning but wearing good clothes is making fun of another kid based on clothing, another kid parents are actually rich or I should say newly rich. They are now living in a rich society now but their old habits of being poor are still with them.
Point is, both kid's parents are rich because one of the kid's parents run a clothes showroom and they give money, clothes, restaurants food to their kid as well. Whereas the anothe kid's parents started from poor families and have now become rich due to their grade B govt job, these newly rich parents refused to give their children good clothes, pocket money, and other perks like outside food. The excuse given is, you should learn how poor people live. Which is good till a limit.
In the end, that newly rich parent's kid is forced to live among and see other rich kids in his society who are enjoying money, new clothes, restaurants, travelling etc, while he has to learn how poor people lives, so he can't do all this.
One kid is spending 1000 rs like a flick and other one is walking 4 Kms to save 10 rs, meanwhile both kids are rich
If the old rich want the new rich to behave like them, then the problem is with themselves (the old rich) only. Why expect others to dress like them, behave like them if the new rich are not employed directly under them?
Also, the point with cars is they can go anywhere. They can bunk classes and go to clubs instead. That doesn't mean you should force them to walk. Solution is somewhere in the middle. You can give cycle for commute. You can give pocket money, but you have to monitor their expenses through UPI
I can already see the future of kids who rarely have money in their hands.
These kids can only do these Drawing classes, Football classes, and skills development in their dreams as their parents will not give them a penny for these. Because according to them only studies are important enough to spend money nothing else.
About clothes, the sides of cuffs and collars are tethered, the color has now faded, small tiny holes in the t-shirt, and the holes for buttons have stretched. Only get 4 pairs or less in a year, etc.
After 18 parents say, we have done enough, and go and make your life on your own.
Maybe they will give them a scooter or PC but that's it.
Expect no money other than college fees.
About banking and stuff, it is a self-learning process, parents don't give a damn.
Either that money will be spent on another useless big house or on the medical expenses of the parents.
Kids like these then develop a habit of a minimalistic lifestyle or thrift spenders, usually don't marry, etc.
I remember one of my friends, who never got 10 rs even for lunch, Now he eats at least one time a day from swiggy/zomato means 30k/month spending just on outside food, and he refuses to listen to the parents about it. He says, Nor you have eaten yourself and nor let me eat anything good, now my money my choice
@@Sample-Alok-UA-cam exactly, that's why I don't take parents side blindly.
Sometimes I call this phenomenon, 'Rich parent's poor child'.