How To Make Correct Choices In Life ?

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  • @mrbishtt
    @mrbishtt Рік тому +65

    Sir i am 28 working single you have no idea how you have helped me seeing my life and future beyond the lense of society and parents, i have made you my mentor and shared with friends, also would be great if you can bring fresh perspectives of Vedant and vedas in our today's modern life through your videos, millennials are seeking for a person like you in their lives who could mentor them in each and every step throughout their lives

  • @Zahrabjinu-x7f
    @Zahrabjinu-x7f 2 роки тому +56

    I wish i had a mentor like you when i was 15. I learnt most things by experience,dhakka and heartache.

  • @azadthekilroy
    @azadthekilroy 2 роки тому +30

    99.99% of people are living a conditioned life, unintentionally without realising the ever mounting external forces. A for Apple & Amazon generation. Excellent content sir 🙂

  • @mohitkumawat2928
    @mohitkumawat2928 2 роки тому +12

    Sir, maine aapka video Aaj pehli baar dekha aur subah se meh aapke hi video tarah tarah ke dekh raha hun(alot thankful to you sir)
    Ye knowledge se jo aap rubaru karwa rahe hain, inke liye mein aapka tahe dil se shukragujaar rahunga.
    Ye haasil karne meh mujhe kafi saal lag jate aur kis keemat per ki khud life meh awwal darje ki galti karke jonsaayad hi baad meh sudhara bhi naa Jaa sakein.
    Sir, aap kaafi practicality se waaqif Kara rahein hain jiske baare meh maine kahi nhi suna per aapke jariye samay se pehle ya samay rehte meh sudhar sakta hun.
    Once again Thanks a lot Sir!

  • @seemadixit2205
    @seemadixit2205 2 роки тому +7

    I do the same, not influenced by others we r growing senior ,gadi small kar rahe ,so we can drive easily, bachon ne bahut kaha unhe 6 seater choose karwa di ,but life ko simple rehne Dena chahiye, hats off to u sir

  • @Sk_______
    @Sk_______ Рік тому +3

    Broke the glass ceiling of conditioning and paid the price with relationships. 🙏

  • @amitagupta8776
    @amitagupta8776 2 роки тому +4

    K,
    Thanks Sir, aapke videos mein bahut simple aur practical baatein hoteein hain, sun ke bahut accha aur peaceful lagta hain, jase koi apne ghar ka he bada bhai ya poorana mitr aamne samne baith ke baat kar raha ho👍

  • @shaileshvisionaryastrology7952
    @shaileshvisionaryastrology7952 2 роки тому +11

    The Path to true freedom is freedom from all conditioning, one has to be aware like a squirrel on one’s daily thoughts, habits etc.. to go beyond one’s conditioning.

  • @praveenModlier
    @praveenModlier 2 роки тому +47

    I'm 58 may be close to the age of the speaker. I endorse every view of his. Good analysis. Even I don't dye my hair and I influenced many to not dye the hair as well.

    • @shilpaporwal553
      @shilpaporwal553 Рік тому +1

      He is around 49

    • @digitaltrends9
      @digitaltrends9 Рік тому

      @@shilpaporwal553 can not be. 50 years old look much much younger. He must be above 60

    • @anilkumarkapur3961
      @anilkumarkapur3961 Рік тому

      trends k

    • @prernasharma1307
      @prernasharma1307 Рік тому

      ​​@@digitaltrends9 In his other videos, he has told that he is somewhere in early 40s and just single digit age difference is there between him and one of other famous UA-camrs who is 34....he just does not dye his hair. That actually makes a lot of difference

  • @abhaykaushik95
    @abhaykaushik95 Рік тому +5

    Very true Sirji, my Parents and family members are hugely conditioned by govt officers and thus pressurized me to also go for the same. But I did my own research regarding the kind of life officers live, kind of work that they do and kind of challenges/pressures they face and took a strict decision to not pursue this path. And I can say I really appreciate my decision to not be conditioned by family and parents and made a conscious decision.
    Thanks for bringing out this topic Sirji 🙏🏻

  • @shivamkapahi
    @shivamkapahi 2 роки тому +7

    Sir, even if someone is not able to understand, basis your videos, then it is beyond repair.

  • @luckydey1609
    @luckydey1609 2 роки тому +7

    Very nicely explained 👏. Some of my choices in my life were conditioned, which I realized very late and am not very happy about them. But certain choices which were very difficult, not many people supported yet I went ahead with those choices are the ones that I am proud of and happy about.

  • @maayamehtapinky802
    @maayamehtapinky802 2 роки тому +6

    I agree ...we are too busy in rat race. Soch samajh kar decision Lena bina trap or pressure mein aaye ...it's kind of next to impossible unless one meditates n sees life at a diff level.

  • @nishapillai891
    @nishapillai891 2 роки тому

    Ha aap bahut acchi tarah samjha raheho sir ...Dil SE respect....

  • @kmg853
    @kmg853 Рік тому

    Kaamiyaab...clarity is power. Full clarity aapne de diya...God bless you Sir

  • @satyanarayan3448
    @satyanarayan3448 2 роки тому +3

    K very well explained how our mind is conditioned by environment around us. Being aware is the key to make choices that will achieve the ultimate goal of being happy

  • @kavita68kasliwal
    @kavita68kasliwal 2 роки тому +1

    Bete Bahu ke sath nahi rahna video aapki dekhi, kisi ke share karne se, ab teesri video dekh rahi hu... practical approach

  • @drsubhashsharma1875
    @drsubhashsharma1875 2 роки тому +2

    K
    Thanks sir
    Burning issues explained in way that uttare gye life me ,please continue

  • @worldpeaceandgrowth
    @worldpeaceandgrowth Рік тому +1

    Greatest mentor on clarity giving

  • @radharaghavan2033
    @radharaghavan2033 Рік тому +4

    Such a profound ,practical,precise,purposeful video.Choose wisely and choose where you can .Deep understanding of free will vs destiny.🙏

  • @vidyapillai7177
    @vidyapillai7177 2 роки тому +7

    K. Very open minded and courageous content. Keep opening up the mind of society sir 👍

  • @dineshbeniwal6871
    @dineshbeniwal6871 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks a lot..you are god VISHNU on earth..

  • @ajaykumar-banker
    @ajaykumar-banker 2 роки тому +10

    Excellent video...beautifully highlights how conditioning affects our decision making. It suggests 1.Re-examine decisions to be aware of the real reasons which are affecting our choices and
    2.Getting more experience/ exploring newer options available to have a large number of options for arriving at the right choice.
    If we delve deep on "conditioning" we may realize that like a grown-up elephant with a feeble chain conditioned to think he cannot break it; we go in life restricting our goals due to limiting self beliefs .

  • @indu192
    @indu192 2 роки тому +2

    🙏🙏👏👏👏👌👌 aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 👏👏💐🙏

  • @viteshworitrichal866
    @viteshworitrichal866 2 роки тому +4

    K. Hats off to you Sir. I found your videos after searching for answers about life problems. Your presentation and teachings have so much clarity and hard hitting truths that will open minds of so many. Thank you for the wonderful content.

  • @ashishmadaan9488
    @ashishmadaan9488 2 роки тому +7

    Sirji Congratulations on 50K Subscribers

  • @sabyasachisahoo2290
    @sabyasachisahoo2290 2 роки тому +3

    You have had the most outstanding acumen!

  • @neetubansal7971
    @neetubansal7971 2 роки тому +1

    Superb.
    People don't understand these things in depth. I m influenced. Keep going. U dare to speak truth.

  • @aarvind3901
    @aarvind3901 2 роки тому +15

    Sir , how will 23 year old girl make choices during 1990s , I genuinely feel parents should guide children wisely because they are more experienced, but my experience was horrible. Bothe sides parents wanted to safeguard their own selfish interests .😢 result we newly wedded suffered for next decade.

    • @dra2022-b8o
      @dra2022-b8o Рік тому

      yes. that's unfortunately true. a beggar , someone in a lawless country, maybe in Africa , a beggar, etc can't make real choice. for girls problem is too serious. just like hair color for men , but 50 times more intensity use of lipstick and sleeper is conditioned. this advise is only for certain target audience, as is always the case.

  • @deepak4188
    @deepak4188 2 роки тому +6

    You are right sir, when it comes to choose subject after 10th class. Parents and family members make some changes and conditions on life. But, I was aware for one thing that I should choose my favourite subject rather than going to conditioned subjects. So, I did it, it was hard decision but now I know one thing that in college I can study whenever I want, just before the exams or anytime. And easily I can good marks without any hassle.

  • @radharaghavan2033
    @radharaghavan2033 Рік тому

    Shared this with few youngsters .They need this kind of right guidance. Inthe name of experience,parents are unnecessarily spoiling lives of the children.And thanku for supporting old housewives like me sir.Yes those kind of women are vilupt .

  • @GYAN1971
    @GYAN1971 2 роки тому +4

    Absolutely incredible advices!!

  • @mandeeptoor6333
    @mandeeptoor6333 2 роки тому +1

    Circumstances can’t always be controlled ….choice is affected by circumstances

  • @adityasyangdan3019
    @adityasyangdan3019 2 роки тому

    K . Thank you so much sir 🙏bohot aasan shabdo me samjhaya

  • @madhurisolanki214
    @madhurisolanki214 2 роки тому +4

    very realistic video touch my heart ❤️k

  • @indiancharisma2393
    @indiancharisma2393 2 роки тому +1

    wah wah

  • @vinesankuttykrishnannair8996
    @vinesankuttykrishnannair8996 2 роки тому +1

    I can understand your views . God bless you

  • @RahulChouhan-ql1og
    @RahulChouhan-ql1og 2 роки тому +1

    K great points sir. Really appreciated.

  • @GarudAtma
    @GarudAtma Рік тому +1

    When I was in 10th, I know only one thing, I give exams and pass the class with good marks and nothing else. So with no interest in a particular subject, I have a very deep confusion, about what should I do in my life and what should I learn as I am not seeing any direction even after asking lots and lots of people around me.
    The worst suggestions were from my school teacher, tuition master, and mother (she is a ret. teacher).
    This type of counseling we got from the society around 2012.
    So, I asked that is there any fields other than arts, commerce, sci -> Nope
    Ok, what about polytechnic -> mazdor anega ya AC repair karega
    Ok, arts then -> sarkari exam ke alawa kuch nahi
    commerece -> ha ye accha hai, bank ya CA ban jayega
    sci -> ye kar le life set hai
    After 12th, what will you do after 12th,
    majority of students -> don't know
    so are you preparing of jee mains -> yes, papa said that abhi padhle beta fir sari jindagi maze hi maze hai (is bechare ka mast fuddu kata)
    some other friends who are not good in studies -> yaar me to kapado ki dukan me kaam kar raha hun, baap bola ki paisa to bohot hai tu bas apne ko kahi busy kar le. And some fixed themselves in the family buisness
    Those who failed 12th -> yaar ghar wale keh rahe hai ki kis janm ka paap hamare ghar me janma
    Some did video editing, excel, accounting, etc, and settled themselves for 10-15-25k jobs
    I am still directionless, my mother replied the same that she had given me in 8th, 10th, and 12th, after my Master in Psychology -> dekh le
    I tried some video editing, but it was super boring for me. I made some money through it but can't able to tolerate the desk job. And there is a lot to learn left for me also. Did some time pass in various volunteering sansta (got lots of experience and meet people from different states) in the hope of any guidance (got none), searched the internet but still wandering.
    Now searching for work that can be done physically by hand as this type of work will not bore me at least and give quick satisfaction.
    I will see what the future turned out to be for me

  • @msvishu4285
    @msvishu4285 11 місяців тому

    Very good and eye opening chatting 👍

  • @maniamvs4051
    @maniamvs4051 Рік тому

    A very practical approach to llfe

  • @Suravisaha2099
    @Suravisaha2099 Місяць тому

    K..... Thank you so much... I really need this

  • @mayankkumar132
    @mayankkumar132 2 роки тому

    Bhut deep baat kar di.

  • @sanjubhardwaj4928
    @sanjubhardwaj4928 2 роки тому +3

    Sir I have no words for your great work. 🙏🙏🌹🌹❤️

  • @simarkaur9486
    @simarkaur9486 Рік тому

    Exactly aisa hi hota hai mere sath career mein yahi hua jo apne bola

  • @lovenlight7536
    @lovenlight7536 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you sir very accurate n to the point 🙏🙏👌👌

  • @Project_Tsukuyomi
    @Project_Tsukuyomi 2 роки тому +2

    Feel so acknowledge everytime i watch your video....keep up sir...nd cheers 🌻

  • @rahulraman5898
    @rahulraman5898 Рік тому

    Thanks sir. Amazing Video.

  • @bittubittu3875
    @bittubittu3875 Рік тому

    Your suggestions re real truth

  • @manjitadubhashi7214
    @manjitadubhashi7214 2 роки тому +3

    Excellent content, it’s great to know that someone is makeing an effort to put out the subtleties of life and living which should be really coming from your family and teachers.
    Great job , Kudos to you sir 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @vikasfreelancer1086
    @vikasfreelancer1086 2 роки тому

    Wow sir! You're doing exceptional. You are very practical.

  • @dr.aakritiupadhyay7952
    @dr.aakritiupadhyay7952 2 роки тому +1

    Wow.. conditioning of mind n influenced choices we make ..how earlier women were pro in conditioning their husbands...m trying to learn this art .. please make a video on how to influence close family members for smooth functioning of the home without offending any one

  • @ankitamishra8684
    @ankitamishra8684 Рік тому

    K
    Very well explained

  • @anu6859
    @anu6859 Рік тому

    Very nice Sir, we need to change the thought process of the society that is doing more harm than any good.

  • @cedricvaz6112
    @cedricvaz6112 2 роки тому +2

    Very practical and wise advice as always Sir.! 👍👌

  • @soumyajeetmitra6958
    @soumyajeetmitra6958 2 роки тому

    bohot deep topic hein sir . Detailed video on this topic is a must

  • @sudhanshuvaze7040
    @sudhanshuvaze7040 Рік тому

    K. Excellent 👍

  • @nileshchandan156
    @nileshchandan156 2 роки тому

    Sahi bataya Sir

  • @Rohan-bg8ci
    @Rohan-bg8ci 2 роки тому

    Bhot acha sir keep it up

  • @moderndayhermit7601
    @moderndayhermit7601 2 роки тому

    Jeevan me anand aane laga hai sir. Pehla to job walo series se and aur sab chizo se.

  • @JaanoTum
    @JaanoTum 2 роки тому

    Great topic covered. Kamyaab k

  • @SeriousStudent603
    @SeriousStudent603 9 місяців тому

    choices bcoz of ur desire or coz of conditioning.
    choices can me made only if u 1st hand experience it.
    9:08 👏👏 same analogy for plastic surgery & BBLs. its inception.

  • @brijeshsinha9090
    @brijeshsinha9090 2 роки тому

    This is real life thinking. Obviously K for you Sir.

  • @ssss91788
    @ssss91788 Рік тому

    Absolutely right

  • @nishantsingh7431
    @nishantsingh7431 2 роки тому +1

    K.Great Video.

  • @AmitYadav-zm5ss
    @AmitYadav-zm5ss Рік тому

    Just trying to watch out all your videos GURUJI 🙏🙏🙏 asap. Great UA-cam channel.

  • @adityaaditechfacts3534
    @adityaaditechfacts3534 2 роки тому +2

    I just choses a college IIIT nagpur cse and going to start my career
    Thank you ❤️

  • @saurabh07992
    @saurabh07992 2 роки тому

    Great sir would like such videos

  • @hemrajrajput1935
    @hemrajrajput1935 2 роки тому

    Excellent thought

  • @chandrikakaruppayil6876
    @chandrikakaruppayil6876 11 місяців тому

    Excellent

  • @neetisaxena9812
    @neetisaxena9812 2 роки тому

    K You are absolutely right

  • @taranghorizonmindspace6101
    @taranghorizonmindspace6101 2 роки тому +1

    Good work.very useful content

  • @cookingKAKA101
    @cookingKAKA101 Рік тому

    सर
    क्या वेलेंटाइन डे सेलेब्रेट करना चाहिए ?
    कैसे करना चाहिए ?
    फायदे और नुकसान?

  • @techieekta
    @techieekta Рік тому

    It's true 👍 Sir...

  • @sunitabiradar9824
    @sunitabiradar9824 2 роки тому

    ....very well said sir

  • @kiransharma7848
    @kiransharma7848 2 роки тому

    Very very interesting! Sure choices are majboori. Especially coloring hair...😀

  • @AjeetSingh-mk8pv
    @AjeetSingh-mk8pv 2 роки тому

    Great Vedio

  • @deepabisht9726
    @deepabisht9726 2 роки тому

    Good information

  • @dr.m.v.maheep9139
    @dr.m.v.maheep9139 Рік тому

    Correct ❤

  • @kirtiseth5614
    @kirtiseth5614 Рік тому

    It is discussed in sociology and literary criticism

  • @manojamkm
    @manojamkm 2 роки тому +1

    Genuine thought

  • @ionafernandes3681
    @ionafernandes3681 Рік тому

    Dr Sir,
    U hv really stated d fact of one's choice tat it shd cum frm within U based on one's thoughts n not frm outside source or influenced by Socty / Relations /Frnds/ Colleaguez n tat one shd seek ideas n opinions frm d persons doing who hv excelled in d field if tat was 2 b r choice relating to their part work.
    Sumtimes it may so happen tat they hv entered d wrong field wit no choice of their own due 2 various other factors like insufficient funds at their disposal to excel in d field of their choice. They hv 2 struggle hard in d field which was not their choice n kept still struggling in order fr them to succeed in d upscale which even took them yrs. Another factor cld b there was no one on their side to help them becoz of their status n if asked fr help others were jealous n thought tat dis person wld excel in d field n go abv them.

    • @ionafernandes3681
      @ionafernandes3681 Рік тому

      In reality there seems 2 b no actual choice as it all depends on circumstances n is forced 2 do a part job which is not of one's choice n therefore dis leads to unhappiness as no achievement is made. As d yrs pass by, one will realize d struggles they hv gone thru' only 2 say tat they hv not excelled in d field.
      Sumtimes also there is no choice in d area of ur life as rgds ur job. Also no one will ever tell d truth if one seeks their opinion.
      Finally, one can conclude tat whatever b d thought process, one hs 2 struggle to cum up in life as Life, they say is Not a Bed of Roses.
      Best Rgds

  • @abhinavzone
    @abhinavzone 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you guru ji. You solved my problem :)

  • @dharamky
    @dharamky 2 роки тому

    Thank for such a great topics.

  • @diamFaizan
    @diamFaizan 2 роки тому

    Contain Was Excellent

  • @mango14883
    @mango14883 2 роки тому +2

    Sir please make a video on enterpreneurs starting up on small scale with their hard earned savings and borrowed money from siblings.
    Emphasis on mindset towards employees and work culture.

  • @psmagdum24
    @psmagdum24 2 роки тому +1

    C++
    Sir. . I appreciate the topic you have choosen. . .and made best attempt to explain the topic but I think it moved towards oversimplification rather than making in simple way to understand. i am sure you will definately revisit on topic will bring us this once again the way you wanted to teach us!!!!!!!!!!

  • @ravindertaneja2185
    @ravindertaneja2185 2 роки тому

    k bahut achha bhai saab

  • @powderpill
    @powderpill 2 роки тому +1

    Great video,and full of insightful.

  • @monika.chauhan_7
    @monika.chauhan_7 Рік тому

    K
    Very nice sir

  • @Debraj-HTC
    @Debraj-HTC 7 місяців тому

    Good Video. Kamayab. Thank You!

  • @fundanitin6900
    @fundanitin6900 2 роки тому +1

    Fantastic K

  • @rohitjamwal9329
    @rohitjamwal9329 2 роки тому

    Nicely depicted ! K

  • @thengbon84
    @thengbon84 2 роки тому

    Thank you sir ji, awesome advice 🙏 KK

  • @ganapatihegde1024
    @ganapatihegde1024 Рік тому

    Choices are conditioned by circumstances. Make the best choice in the prevailing circumstances.

  • @niryashk9197
    @niryashk9197 2 роки тому

    K
    Great insight

  • @Sutradhaar
    @Sutradhaar 2 роки тому

    K.. so simple n so profound

  • @shyamjiupadhyay1267
    @shyamjiupadhyay1267 2 роки тому

    U r really great👍 sir ji

  • @umarfarooque7002
    @umarfarooque7002 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much sir

  • @_gahlot.ayush_
    @_gahlot.ayush_ Рік тому

    last wala context was personal experience