Middle Class Parents Need To Know New Badmashi Of Private Schools

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  • @SangoLifeSutras
    @SangoLifeSutras  Рік тому +17

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    • @ravithapa7401
      @ravithapa7401 Рік тому +1

      Sir I totally agree with whatever u said . But I think u r using the marketing technique of disrupt the market and sell your own product.

    • @parul1960
      @parul1960 Рік тому

      8:05 it's exactly 💯 percent correct what you said even I can relate to it

    • @arjuntyagi5860
      @arjuntyagi5860 Рік тому

      Sir make video on exposing indian education system school and college

    • @kunalsaini-dc5vy
      @kunalsaini-dc5vy Рік тому

      ghonchu buddha apne aap ko bahut samajhdar samajhta

    • @puregyanbyvijaynegi2456
      @puregyanbyvijaynegi2456 Рік тому

      100 percent agree sir

  • @harryS8383J
    @harryS8383J Рік тому +159

    My wife is a private teacher for 13 years. All you said is 100% true true and true. School focus on marketing like celebratey invited, PTM, dance, vedic math, music, sports,etc. Teacher doing all extra work but don't do Teaching.

    • @karanrdx6343
      @karanrdx6343 Рік тому +1

      😅

    • @vyshnaviumashankar688
      @vyshnaviumashankar688 Рік тому

      Actually there r schools hiring quality staff, but parents r not concerned about that, they want entertainment. They go to schools which provide activities throughout the year.

  • @rahul0988
    @rahul0988 Рік тому +325

    I'm a parent of 5+ year old daughter. Before we got her admit to school (during covid times). She used to learn many things on her own, by watching videos, by books. And she used to felt excited to learn new things like colors name, numbers blocks etc. She was way ahead of other kids of her age. But now that excitement has gone. Now she only look forward for Sunday. So that she can sleep. And I felt that this is sad reality of modern times.

    • @San_home-chef
      @San_home-chef Рік тому +28

      11:59 I agree with you, my son also gets bored sitting in the same place, no games, became depressed

    • @vishakhasingh8714
      @vishakhasingh8714 Рік тому +28

      School hours are very long . Ideally should not be more than 5. 30 hours

    • @hitesh11111
      @hitesh11111 Рік тому +18

      Let's unite and find a solution

    • @user-qk8qj7wc6v
      @user-qk8qj7wc6v Рік тому +5

      I agree same with my daughter

    • @ravithapa7401
      @ravithapa7401 Рік тому +29

      school is preparing for disciplined no questioning future employee 9 to 5 . weekend off . thats it.

  • @mithundias
    @mithundias Рік тому +91

    Communications Trainer here. I did BCA and went on training graduates for a living. Joined a school as an English Trainer and quoted my own salary with conditions. Got approved. Most teachers (women) earned 20% of what I earned and they were miserable with paperwork and not upskilling themselves. I handled Grade I - X for 3 years and it was the best time ever. I earned well, took weekoffs, and emergency leaves without repercussions. Point is, most teachers join for the security of a job and in hopes of earning a buck. We tried to conduct free weekend training program to hone their english and computer literacy but their unwillingness to upkill kept them in their useless position. Yes. Most teachers get into unproductive loose talks in staffroom, complaining constantly and ignorance. They have no ambition, care and love for better representing themselves for a better paycheck. Never become a teacher. Go market yourself as an extra-curricular trainer and demand greater pays. I am the living example.

    • @Truelyblessedgratitude
      @Truelyblessedgratitude Рік тому +4

      You are right...I have seen this with many teachers and have to say female teachers cuz they are the one in large numbers. What bothers me that with their half of the knowledge students are not getting answers for their curious questions
      Not only this sometimes they have been told wrong things as these teachers themselves are not aware about the topic... serious issue
      Though I am a female; private tutor and I derive complete satisfaction when I see a change in my students on the issues wherein these so called school teachers have given up and asked have been asked that child to repeat the year

    • @mithundias
      @mithundias Рік тому +1

      @@Truelyblessedgratitude Yes. I agree with you too. On top of that, requirements of board members, admin and hm are ludicrous. Most schools like to market how good they are. Parents fall for that trap. Teachers usually are pointless and they have no voice as they are expendables.

  • @vaishalisharma1902
    @vaishalisharma1902 Рік тому +132

    I'm a teacher in govt department.
    Now govt departments have adopted the private style of schooling. Gone are the days in govt schools when teachers used to do their personal stuff in the school. Now the department keeps them occupied anyhow.
    The trend since the last 15 years has been changed completely -
    1. In 2000's when we were schooling, we never dared to ask our teachers' personal contact number. The teacher-parent contact was restricted to school only but now parents call us even at odd hours.
    2. every week there is some useless activity that distracts students from their studies.
    3. N number of sports or cultural events that too without any occasion.
    4. We are made to stay in school for extra 40-50 mins everyday after school hours, that too without any reason or work. The principal never gives register for departure signature on time.
    4. A lot of duties in different committees which eat our time of teaching. Chah kar bhi nahi pdha sakte because principal is calling to the office frequently for some extra work.
    5. Frequent teacher trainings and seminars which are of no use because every teacher has his own way of teaching.
    In short, there is everything happening in schools now a days except teaching and studying. Be it govt or pvt department.😢

    • @karanjadhav4597
      @karanjadhav4597 Рік тому +3

      So true. "Holistic personality development" is the only thing that will make a school survive. Becoz schools can't compete with rigorous academic teaching that is being done in coaching centres and tuitions. In order to survive the school has to show unnecessary mirch masala other than teaching. I think parents should get their students admitted to NIOS and let the child study in online so that the time as well as money spect on CCA activities is saved. This way students can actually focus on what matters.

    • @paragdesire
      @paragdesire Рік тому +6

      Great 👍 Vaishali ji , You have courage to speak out the Harsh reality in today's education system 👍🙏

    • @PropDealid
      @PropDealid Рік тому +1

      Padhane ke liye tuitions and coaching centres hain, to school mein kyun padhana

    • @meenushanker1051
      @meenushanker1051 Рік тому

      Thankyou ma'am for explaining plight of govt teachers , you commented exactly what I wnated to say . I turn to this channel for clarity in life and is really eye opening but i think Sir if you get time you must observe How things actually are at ground level in Govt schools these days. Its frustating, stressing and tasking for a govt teacher too no matter how seriuosly we want to teach our students we are not given enough opportunity and time to devote in actual teaching

    • @supriyasingh4798
      @supriyasingh4798 Рік тому

      True mam... That's reality, i agree and i am also govt. school teacher

  • @anandk925
    @anandk925 Рік тому +28

    I had taken up Science in 11th Std just to be able to continue in the same school i was in since 1st Std.
    Science was not at all my cup of tea.I tried hard to grasp the subjects, my teachers knew i was struggling but they couldn't care less. I flunked 11th, cleared 11th, flunked 12th and barely managed to pass in second attempt. My own classmates and teachers (barring a few good ones), labelled me as 'Failure', even addressing me as such publically. Social pariah bana diya tha.
    I changed stream in college, scored well, appeared in Govt exam, cleared it, and have a well paying job now.
    Point is, The calibre of a teacher lies not in taking a 95/ 100 marks wala student to 99/100; but in taking a 14/100 marks wala student to 50/100.
    The humiliation and ill treatment becomes a lifelong memory.

  • @madhuarora1099
    @madhuarora1099 Рік тому +6

    मैं एक टीचर, इंचार्ज और पैरेंट भी रह चुकी हूं। मैं आपकी सभी बातों से सहमत हूं।
    और भी बहुत कुछ है कहने को... जैसे आजकल माता पिता बहुत छोटे बच्चों को ही स्कूल भेज देते हैं जैसे की ढाई वर्ष के बच्चे को भी... मां जॉब करती है। सास नही है या मेड नही है। घर पर छोड़ नही सकते, झूलाघर नही है या क्यों भेजें। मैने ये भी देखा है की लोग बच्चे की उम्र बढ़ा देते हैं ताकि उसे स्कूल में एडमिशन मिल सके।
    फिर सभी स्कूल वालों ने नर्सरी खोल ली जिससे बच्चे एक बार एडमिशन ले तो बड़ी क्लास तक उसी स्कूल में रहें। यहां माता पिता भी यही चाहते हैं की बच्चा जाए और वहीं कुछ सीखे उन्हें कुछ न करना पड़े।
    कितनी बार बच्चे बॉटल से दूध पीते हैं, उन्हें potty training भी नहीं होती लेकिन स्कूल भेज दिया जाता है।
    ये सिर्फ नर्सरी नही kg 1 kg 2 तक भी ऐसा देखा है।
    फिर स्कूल में टीचर बच्चे को पॉटी सुसु से लेकर खाना खिलाना तक सब करे। बच्चों की भरमार और एक टीचर एक मेड...
    ऊपर से स्कूल में पढ़ाई से ज्यादा तमाशे... Red day, blue day, fruit day, vegetable day, shopping day, zoo visit, सभी festivals, डांस, गाने, स्पोर्ट्स, एनुअल फंक्शन, प्रोजेक्ट और कोर्स भी...
    रोज की नई वर्क शीट्स जो कि फोटो कॉपी होती है। एक एक को नाम लिखो, करवाओ और संभालो... और जो प्रोजेक्ट घर के लिए दिए जाते हैं वो बच्चे तो कर ही नहीं सकते तो स्कूल वालों से पूछने पर टीचर को ये जवाब मिलता है की कोई बात नही मां बाप करवाएंगे तो वो भी सीखेंगे😀
    बाकी मोटी फीस के बाद दूसरे तमाशे और भी हैं जैसे किताबें, ड्रेस, जूते, बैग कहां से लेना है। फिर ड्रेस भी रोज की दो ड्रेस, स्पोर्ट्स ड्रेस, स्केटिंग ड्रेस, स्केट्स, स्विमिंग कॉस्ट्यूम चश्मे के साथ, विंटर ड्रेस। इसके अलावा जब मर्जी ट्रेडिशनल, फेस्टिवल के अनुसार ड्रेस, फैंसी ड्रेस इत्यादि। वो भी जब स्कूल वालों को जो भी याद आए। छोटी क्लास में तो कलर डे के अनुसार ड्रेस...
    ये सारे खेल खत्म होते हैं तो ये रिस्ट्रिक्शन की इस दिन, आधे घंटे के इस पीरियड में सभी बच्चों का ये काम पूरा हो जाना चाहिए। अब नही पूरा हुआ तो क्यों नही हुआ। फिर तो या टीचर करेगी या घर भेजेगी। अब घर पर कौन करेगा वो तो घर वाले जाने। घर वाले बोलेंगे स्कूल का काम है वापिस भेजो...😀
    अब कोर्स के नाम पर लाइफ साइकिल of बटरफ्लाई, वाटर, ह्यूमन बीइंग और भी ना जाने क्या क्या सीखा देंगे जो सिर्फ रटा हुआ होता है।
    KG 1 और 2 में यही टीचर कंप्यूटर क्लास में भी ले जाए कंप्यूटर on करे और काम भी करवा दे फिर shut down करके वापिस भी ले आए।
    मुझे ये कभी समझ नही आए की इतने तमाशों की क्या जरूरत है? वो भी इतनी स्पीड में....
    सैलरी की बात मत पूछिए... Job मिलते ही बता देंगे अपनी फाइनल की मार्क शीट जमा करो, एक महीने की सैलरी स्कूल में जमा रहेगी। जब आप job छोड़ोगे तब वापिस मिलेगी। क्लास में टीचर के लिए कुर्सी नही रहेगी। लेकिन जब कभी शिक्षा विभाग से कोई चेकिंग के लिए आएगा तो क्लास में कुर्सी जरूर रहेगी।
    छोटे बच्चों की क्लास बड़े बच्चों के बाद लगती है और कभी बड़े बच्चों की टीचर नही आई तो भेज दो इस छोटे बच्चों की टीचर को क्योंकि उसकी क्लास के बच्चे तो थोड़ी देर बाद आयेंगे। और जब छोटे बच्चों के दूसरे सेक्शन की टीचर नही आई तो दोनो क्लास को कंबाइन कर दो बच्चों को चिपका कर बैठा दो और संभालने दो उसे जो बकरा बनने स्कूल में आई हो....
    फिर क्लास के बच्चे जाने के बाद दूसरे ऑफिस के काम भी टीचर को दे दो... ये सब बहुत आम सी बातें हैं।
    अब मेरे as a पैरेंट के दुख ऐसे भी हुए की टीचर के होमवर्क कॉपी में लिखे आंसर को राइट कर दिया। वोही आंसर exam में लिखने पर wrong कर दिया। पूछने पर जवाब मिला वो तो मैने जल्दी जल्दी ने राइट कर दिया था। वहीं एक त्रस्त टीचर ने मेरे बेटे के इतने कान खींचे की जान दर्द करने लगे और उसे उस टीचर से इतनी नफरत हुई की उसने उस सब्जेक्ट को ही पढ़ना छोड़ दिया। ऐसे बहुत सारे किस्से हैं...

  • @mayankpal1147
    @mayankpal1147 Рік тому +44

    Home schooling should be allowed by government. An exam by cbse should be conducted every year open for every student be it home or school. This way students can study at home and get promoted to next level by clearing cbse exams.

    • @minic578
      @minic578 Рік тому +3

      ​@@brightkid02 NIOS or IGCSE

  • @Sparksily
    @Sparksily Рік тому +26

    Uncle ji, you are beyond words.
    मैं भी हरियाणवी हूँ and believe me my views are just like you.
    I went to PTM on SUNDAY , just to ask the principal to never organise any PTM or any other function on SUNDAYS. Because teachers too need Sunday

  • @ayush.k.aggarwal
    @ayush.k.aggarwal Рік тому +44

    Dear sir,
    I could not agree more. I am 25 now, from a small town. I grew among female teachers with conditions as described in your video.
    They used to come to school to socialize instead to teach. They did not have time to see or grow any potential/ hidden potential in the students.
    exactly in class 2, my teacher changed 4x and the main incharge was a bully and no connection with the kids. My marks falled from 94% to 85% in single class. Moving ahead one teacher without any qualification was asking us to rote the subjects without any understanding.
    I was failed by the education system at a very tender age of ~8. It took me years to realize how to study, and that too with the help of my newly wed Chachi in the home and within 4 months, my grade started to improve. I love to learn today. I try to spend at least 2 hours daily on studies. She and a couple more teachers I can recall who changed my life. This poor system of the schools is seriously going to behead the creativity of the kids.

    • @vishakhasingh8714
      @vishakhasingh8714 Рік тому +4

      In growing age 8 to 10 hours is wasted in school where the body and mind grows. Sad. School hours are long for no reason. Neither the child eats sleep properly nor play. 😞

  • @vt7894
    @vt7894 Рік тому +15

    Yes you r right...Few private schools are hiring teachers who have good looks instead of good teaching skills

  • @SudiptaSarkar-r5y
    @SudiptaSarkar-r5y Рік тому +63

    As a female mother, I completely agree with that topic. Female teachers are not serious; they come to school in their husbands' cars, and they are more focused on modeling, wearing good sarees, and applying lipstick rather than teaching.

    • @Sameer2107
      @Sameer2107 Рік тому +22

      Aren't all mothers female?

    • @friendshiprocks8673
      @friendshiprocks8673 Рік тому +5

      I thought all mothers r females 😂

    • @sk-je7ku
      @sk-je7ku Рік тому +5

      Mujhe lagta hai inko female teacher likhna tha.. galti se female mother likh diya.,😂

    • @varshasindhu5672
      @varshasindhu5672 Рік тому +9

      Wearing lipstick and good sarees does not mean that a woman cannot be a good teacher. Should she come in a night suit? These are the terrible sexist ideas of our society that need to be gotten rid of.
      If a school pays women well and gives them time to do their work they will do it properly. Otherwise they won’t. It has nothing to do with what they wear and how they travel.

    • @SudiptaSarkar-r5y
      @SudiptaSarkar-r5y Рік тому +1

      @@Sameer2107 all female are not mother. I assume you are educated enough to understand this.

  • @tindrums
    @tindrums Рік тому +29

    The no 1 reason there are many female teachers is (1) you can get english speaking qualified housewives at low cost because it is their past time.(2) male teachers are recruited only for PT (sports) or Maths. (3) Real estate costs are the major costs in schools.

    • @bobsinhav
      @bobsinhav 6 місяців тому +1

      I lived in Kuwait in the 90s and 2000s. We used to joke that most teachers in Indian schools (other than the good ones) were just glorified housewives.

  • @hiteshkaushik07
    @hiteshkaushik07 Рік тому +14

    You are speaking straight forward and pointed out the main issue with private schools. It is hard to deal with school management nowadays! Thanks for picking up the real life issues.

  • @sunitapandey70
    @sunitapandey70 Рік тому +13

    I was also teaching in a big shot private school years ago and in two years only changed my profession due to all these things which are told in this video.
    Excellent video sir. Aise hi jagaate rahiye samaaj ko. 👌🙏🙏

  • @u087183
    @u087183 Рік тому +72

    Sir you are 100% correct. This is exactly what is happening in my daughters school. Even though it’s a renowned school. Moreover the fees are being hiked crazy high without any justification. There has to be some government intervention in this as the private schools are behaving like a mafia. In my daughters school even ex air stewardess’s are being hired as a teacher.

    • @PankajKumar-zr3tv
      @PankajKumar-zr3tv Рік тому

      Government will never intervene because some corrupt govt pig ministers own schools.

    • @ankurz
      @ankurz Рік тому

      Hello in which City ur school is?

  • @jatin_jangra
    @jatin_jangra Рік тому +21

    I'm an SRCC graduate group B gov employee. I don't like regular school and colleges... Students should enroll in open schools only (except IIM IIT SRCC etc) and do some business of their own. I didn't have anyone to tell me about these things in my teenage i regret it.

  • @shalinisrivastava4236
    @shalinisrivastava4236 Рік тому +28

    You are totally correct. Everything right, They remove teachers without notice and the school didn't have a class teacher for a month. When I asked the Principal what will you answer the parents, her reply was classic. She said, as long as the children get good marks, the parents won't complain. The didn't even get the final exam papers corrected. Saw the previous record and and increased 5 marks for all students and put it on the report. Parents were not even aware.

  • @VivekTripathiForYou
    @VivekTripathiForYou Рік тому +12

    I have observed the same in case of Pvt Hospital "so called" nurses

  • @sonusuresh6642
    @sonusuresh6642 Рік тому +17

    100% true. Teachers are underpaid and schools are Pocketing the profits. It's similar to software engineers in IT field. Both are treated like labourers and can be replaced easily.

  • @ashwinisk9344
    @ashwinisk9344 Рік тому +24

    My teacher friend was not only paid less (less than a maidservant in fact), but she and all her coworkers were expected to pay hefty contributions for the principal's birth day. They were compelled to attend a religious function, far away from their residence, organized by the school director, and make a donation on top of that. One incentive for female teachers is that they get a sense of power and some authority in the classroom.

  • @zahrabjinu
    @zahrabjinu Рік тому +56

    Home schooling should be an option in India because so many educated women are housewives.But i wonder how many indians will do it. Homework ke liye tuitions bhejtey hai baccho ko.

    • @Anu4343
      @Anu4343 Рік тому +6

      It is an option in India :-)
      Nobody stops anyone from homeschooling..

    • @vishakhasingh8714
      @vishakhasingh8714 Рік тому +2

      ​@@Anu4343 exams kaha dengey bachey

    • @BishalNath
      @BishalNath Рік тому

      ​@@vishakhasingh8714exam sab ke liye open hona chahiye...

    • @Anu4343
      @Anu4343 Рік тому +5

      @@vishakhasingh8714 nios, state boards and IGCSE board too are a good option.

    • @bittun1607
      @bittun1607 Рік тому +2

      True and everything is available on Internet

  • @rajeshwarsingh5178
    @rajeshwarsingh5178 Рік тому +84

    I am biology teacher in KENDRIYA VIDYALAYA please send your children to KVs.We have dedicated, well qualified teachers who are trained periodically. High class infra structure except ACs in class rooms. Fees are nominal.
    Please give it a thought you won't regret.

    • @varshasindhu5672
      @varshasindhu5672 Рік тому +18

      KVs are out of reach for the average citizen.

    • @amardeepsharma7099
      @amardeepsharma7099 Рік тому +18

      Apki Jaan pahchan kisi Godfather se ho to hi apka bachha KV me admit ho Sakta hai.

    • @dhirajsaikia
      @dhirajsaikia Рік тому +8

      I was in K.V school. Nowadays I dont know but earlier it was horrible. My chemistry teacher was always sleeping during her class period and all those students got compartment in chemistry who took personal home tution from her. Physics male teacher was awesome. I really have a lot of respect for him.He really gave his 100% I dont know why Maths , biology female teachers never gave there full efforts.

    • @karthikbr2541
      @karthikbr2541 Рік тому +1

      There was a known person of me, who had said even a sitting MP also cannot get a seat in KV, my neighbour who was top grade scientist in iIsc could not get seats for his kids, in spite of being central government employee

    • @uditraj8290
      @uditraj8290 Рік тому +8

      😆 😂 Mai daily dekhta hu KV walo ko Nibba Nibbi krte hue Patna me. Pure lafua jaisa rhta hai sab, koi decipline v nhi lgti...

  • @19sehgal
    @19sehgal Рік тому +17

    Sir ... aap ne bilkul sahiii batayaaA ..... Women staff is under paid 😢😢😢 Hiring professional teachers is expensive..Also inflation is high ... 50 K INR is minimum requirement for the amount of pressure being exerted on the staff ...6 days work. ..Class size is too big ( 45 to 50 ) students ... International school have 18 to 22 lessons per week at the most ... but India mein ...36 lessons ...plus marking ..plus extra-curricular activities 😢

    • @varunmittal3617
      @varunmittal3617 Рік тому +1

      bache ana bandh hoge jabhi sahi hoga. tuitions mae bhi yehi haal hai mam unless you have personal brand. but still earning high in private tuitions

  • @Truelyblessedgratitude
    @Truelyblessedgratitude Рік тому +15

    I am a private tutor in Gurgaon giving tuitions to children whose parents are from elite class .I had observed exact things what u said . While giving private one on one tuitions I put so much of efforts because schools are not bothered if the child (who is above average) has grasped any knowledge they only want to finish the targeted syllabus . Parents are paying extra money in order to get actual knowledge
    As u said parents must ask questions to the school...in such scenario schools actually kind of boycott pupils and make their parent's and students' life hell, it's not that easy. Moreover these so called posh newly established schools are nothing but 5 Star education hubs Same is the situation with hospitals.
    It all is going to collapse slowly but these students who deserve the right for good quality education and parents also will be paying a huge price as by end of the day that child has gained nothing deep level knowledge

    • @aalokaswal
      @aalokaswal Рік тому

      Most of these private schools are owned by politicians by ruling party, in last 10 years these private schools are grown bigger. In very PTM if I ask teacher why my child is lagging on this, they simply say you have to put your efforts also. And I said you taken degree in education you guys know better how to teach , we parents can monitor only.
      This is reality of these private schools. And this is the failure of govt.

  • @rohitashwabanerji4817
    @rohitashwabanerji4817 Рік тому +12

    Sir, main 20 sal se tutions de rha hun...or jitne bhi bache padaye sab achi jagah selected hya acha career Bana chuke h......aap ki bat bilkul sahi h jab logo ko yahi samjhata hun to samajh nhi Ata...jabki mujhe bhi achi fees dete h....or ek ghante pada kr 6 months me 9 10 ka course khatam Kara deta hun ...Har subject....ye schools sirf murkh Bana rahe h....

  • @quddusquddus136
    @quddusquddus136 Рік тому +12

    A book is published in the U.S. The title: “The Teachers.” Many skilled teachers left schools because of the mismatch between their efforts and the salary they earned.

    • @bobsinhav
      @bobsinhav 6 місяців тому

      But, teachers who leave their teaching jobs in the US, take on average a 7% pay cut.

  • @SMPtalks
    @SMPtalks Рік тому +17

    I have put my daughter in online school now, I am fully satisfied, my child is safe and learns things happily at home.
    Online schools are the best, fees is just around 1200 rupees per month. Saves travel cost and time, saves uniform cost and there is no fear in the child, child doesn't become a programmed slave.

  • @FrontPro
    @FrontPro Рік тому +33

    PTM = Parent Torture Meeting
    Started skipping these meetings.
    What can we discuss in 15 minutes? Rather will be forced to teach our kid at home

    • @mbmb7521
      @mbmb7521 Рік тому +2

      I wish I could also skip those PTM😂😂n I just loved the NEW defination of PTM--Parent Torture Meeting 😂😂😂👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

    • @drnavneetgill1978
      @drnavneetgill1978 Рік тому

      100 percent true,it is tool to demoralise kids and parents like u have done a sin because ur kid is average in academics.i seldom attend these fashion parades and send my husband instead

    • @bobsinhav
      @bobsinhav 6 місяців тому

      I used to tell my teachers about what to tell my parents at the PTMs

  • @yogendrastiwari
    @yogendrastiwari Рік тому +2

    ❤absolutely ryt, 100% agreed, no one complaining n no any portal for complaint, because of all schools of linked with politicians😢😢😢
    We should do something, it's all like a robbery on high levels,
    Hat's off ❤to you
    W

  • @neetukumari1533
    @neetukumari1533 Рік тому +7

    I am also a teacher...I was also in so much pain...so much show off..in school no output...only photoshoots ...teacher are really under paid at some places..with no humanity...

    • @MrStrangerr2002
      @MrStrangerr2002 Рік тому

      I'm working on Teacher Tech training program in STEM education involving coding, electronics and robotics empowering teachers, please shootout if interested...

  • @JKTJ-v3t
    @JKTJ-v3t Рік тому +11

    My son is studing in a good hi-fi school, but he doesn't want to go to school, instead he is highly interested in learning new things through education videos available on youtube. He is not at all interested in learning through school books, I myself feel them boring and tedious task. Schools are a complete money-churning business now..

    • @JKTJ-v3t
      @JKTJ-v3t Рік тому +1

      @@kbshrivastav8539 As per me, life and studies are not about getting into fancy university placements or others where most of the people are running for nowadays, just judge the skills of your child as a parent that a school can't do, focus on, and enhance, and help polish their skills so that they can excel and gain name, fame, and money in the specific fields that your child excels in. I will not run for fancy placements for my child, it will be all ok if he goes to a simple university, but excels in what he loves in his life. That's it. For me studies are just a means and will run in parallel to what he loves, no studies pressure will be there from our end as parents. There are so many streams apart from studies related where a child can excel...

  • @snkapoor
    @snkapoor Рік тому +3

    Couldn't agree more.. This is such an eye opener. You're a gem. However, I failed to draw a concrete solution-- although you did mention a couple-- as to what needs to be done to curb this menace

  • @rudranshparab2007
    @rudranshparab2007 Рік тому +9

    i think reason no 1 why people not send to govt school is students come into schools from slum area. and dont want to send school where bachhe gali sikhake aye.
    actually in maharashtra atleast i observed govt school teachers are all B ed and better teacher compare to private english medium school. if they get student from family where padhai ka mahol ghar pe ho to wo shayad acchha skikhaye.
    in maharashtra private marathi medium school teachers standars are good but this problem you highlight is 100% correct in ENGLISH MEDIUM SCHOOL specially with name international , world in their name .

    • @scientistswife
      @scientistswife Рік тому +1

      Absolutely government schools are best but slum children are going, then our children pick up their language. That's the problem

  • @notfound9365
    @notfound9365 Рік тому +2

    Guruji pranam. Bilkul 100% sahi baat boli hai aapne. Saare so called top schools me Teachers har mahine ya do mahine par change ho jaati hain. Bahot zyada sacrifice karti hain teachers. Kabhi bhi nikal diya jaata hai, jo sign karwate hain utna nahi milta paisa, Extra curriculum activity ka extra paisa nahi milta jabki baccho se per head 1000 rupees lete hain, Exams ya test se pehle shaam tak rok lete hain ghar nahi jaane dete, Aur kuch kuch schools jaan bujh kar teachers ko force krte hain jeans ya tight fit kapde pehne ke liye taaki wo school ko log bada school samjhe.

  • @hiteshkaushik07
    @hiteshkaushik07 Рік тому +6

    Harsh truth about the society. I was in dialma of making a decision on it. But thanks for clearing my doubts. Next year I'll enroll my both kids in government school and will pay attention on them personally.

  • @GeminiMoon2
    @GeminiMoon2 Рік тому +8

    Agree. Slowly schools turn kids into boxes of their choice, who do not have sense of inclination. Because they become choiceless moving creatures.
    The difficult part is, the school is eating up parents time as well kids personal activity time. Long hours, Activity/Event based curriculum is spoiling kids interest in studies.
    They have started attaching marks to all the activities they want kids to participate for. 2 months of annual day practice lacking study focus is kept. If the child doesn't participate it will be attendance or study loss for all those days, because they have decided 2 months it will be half day annual day practice. Boycotting their unnecessary events is made difficult. They ensure that parents feels trapped. Parents need to question them together. There isn't any other way, that we demand they change their ways.

  • @somaranjansawn2514
    @somaranjansawn2514 Рік тому +3

    You are extremely right sir..I'm a teacher and I teach 6 to 8 class but now school management don't continue with the teacher after one year so that they don't have to pay high salary. They continue same salary with new teachers every year and yes we do all management task except teaching.

  • @tinasharma412
    @tinasharma412 Рік тому +1

    Bhot sahi sir padai ka dhandha bna dia h ab to aur female teachers k baare me to bhot sahi bola h actually

  • @aks1706
    @aks1706 Рік тому +8

    This situation is better in KVs because teachers stability is high though infrastructure is not matching high fee schools. I was in dilemma whether to change the school to be in mainstream what all other doing but now I have made up my mind that KV would be good for child and us as parents also.

  • @gitecravirs
    @gitecravirs Рік тому +1

    You are absolutely right sir,,you brought this topic that no one had the inner strength or willing power to bring in to public ..private schools are looting middle class family a lot

  • @doctornumismatic9222
    @doctornumismatic9222 Рік тому +7

    Very true sir. Iam also trying to convince my wife to change school she is not agreeing. It has been social status.

  • @jacksparrow2067
    @jacksparrow2067 Рік тому +4

    वर्तमान में तो सरकारी शिक्षको को बच्चो के पढ़ाने का समय ही नहीं दे रहे है अब । पूरे स्कूल में बस एक टीचर होता है कभी कभी तो और वो ही इंचार्ज होता है वो ही पढ़ता है । वो ही blo बना दिया जाता है । वो ही जान गढ़ना और परिवार सर्वेक्षण करे । वो ही रोज कई तरह की सूचनाएं बना कर brc पर दे मनुअल और व्हाट्स एप पर और इंटरनेट पर भी डाले । वो ही mdm बनवाए । वो ही मत गढ़ना करे । तो ऐसे में गुणवत्ता कैसे आ पाएगी । वो ही तमाम रजिस्टर रखे । वो ही बैंक खाते मेंटेन करे । बहुत ज्यादा प्रेशर होता है ।

  • @Together.we.grow.better
    @Together.we.grow.better Рік тому +22

    Even my mother was being paid ₹2500 for teaching upto middle classes (8th)
    but as I reached in 9th standard she left that school in 2016. The after school work, she used to bring it back home and I also used to help her out.
    Today, I have no importance in house and parents with society demands for marks/high merit. 😔

  • @warrior_1101
    @warrior_1101 Рік тому +6

    My maasi sent her son to military boarding school and his grades improved from 65 to 80 within months.
    In the 90s teachers never hopped jobs every now and then and extreme emphasis was put on discipline and honor.

  • @sitaagrawal3252
    @sitaagrawal3252 Рік тому +8

    absolutely right...i was biology teacher due to all these happened with me, without any prior information they just stop my services...Nobody bothered about teaching and future of students......it's extremely painful for serious and experience teacher

  • @meherbaker2662
    @meherbaker2662 Рік тому +2

    I completely agree with you. My mother was a teacher from 18 years of age till the day she died she died while teaching kids. But unfortunately my child has experienced such teachers that u mentioned n have got answers like hume itne hi paise milte hai toh aur kitna paghaye then I had to change the school the deposit was not returned at all. So this is definitely a business. My mother as a teacher when she expired her students old n new all came there was no space ppl were standing out n even on roads. When I came out n looked I cried n said ma this is what u earned. Right from ACP to collectors to business men all her students were there. Today children don't even remember the name.

  • @vandana2705
    @vandana2705 Рік тому +3

    Sir if we raise question to school management they will ask to take TC .Government needs to do something about this school Mafia

  • @bullrunparticipants
    @bullrunparticipants Рік тому +4

    Meri wife apna boutique chalati hai toh uski maximum client/customer ladies teachers hai Govt or private school se Govt school wali teachers ka focus padhai ki jagah sirf unke good looking shouk par rahta or dusri teachers se sunder dikhne or nayi nayi dress ka competition rahta hai

  • @ccc122
    @ccc122 Рік тому +7

    Absolutely correct and apt video, Thank you, you understand the true problems of parents.

  • @mkrs1305
    @mkrs1305 Рік тому +3

    Govt must nod for digital home schools...it can be highly appreciated

  • @JitenderSingh-ml9cf
    @JitenderSingh-ml9cf Рік тому +5

    I salute you Sir for showing the real picture which is absolutely true..... Education in our country has become ridiculously commercial.

  • @bittun1607
    @bittun1607 Рік тому +2

    Being an avg student through out my school life now i am earning more than all my toppers in school. I realised one thing that the three month training that i did after Btech was more imp than my 22 yrs of education. Indian school education is kachra. Teachers one advice dont give bullshit homework of writing and coppying and memorising to students. These school debates and public speeches are all bullshit doesnt take you anywhere in life. When you do a conversation or dialouge with a native english speaker you will run out words. Our schools are just manufacturing robots that is capable of doing tasks assigned to it. At job you need to think out of box, and perform quick execution . Thank god i never wasted time on school homeworks.

  • @sugandhapatel1606
    @sugandhapatel1606 Рік тому +3

    Being a teacher I faced similar issues in the private school(RPS Public School,Charkhi DADRI)…I was appointed for a designation in higher classes and after a month I was told to shift from higher to primary classes and started they throwing tantrums(students are not understanding your teaching style) . At the end I left my job due to my self esteem

  • @aashvisworld3192
    @aashvisworld3192 Рік тому

    Sir.... Bahut hee relevant topic hai aapka.....fully.agree with you..... Mein to apni wife se khud hee ye bol rahaa thaa..... Kee 15-18 hazaar mahine Kee fees dekar bachche ko school bhejne kaa point kyaa hai!? Isse to inko home schooling mei daalo aur uss paise ko ppf yaa achche kisi investment mei lagaa do!!
    Naa itni mehngi fees se koi personality development ho rahi hai naa koi job lag rahi hai! ROI on such an expensive investment is zero!! It's like taking membership of an expensive club according to your status..... Bus apne mann kaa satisfaction hai Kee bachchaa falaa falaa school mei padhtaa hai bas!

  • @Abhishek-pp5in
    @Abhishek-pp5in Рік тому +16

    @8:08 😂😂😂 Wow he just so correctly starts summarising all my school lady teachers perfectly 👌👌👌 Very true! And i burst out lauguing 😂

  • @rajeshnath5069
    @rajeshnath5069 Рік тому +1

    Nobody is talking on this topic sir.....our govts are supporting private school business.....thank u sir for raising ur voice.

  • @bhanupratapsinghbhanuprata2563

    Sir you are the few of them .who say brutal truth' on UA-cam about wasteful school.

  • @Rn45634
    @Rn45634 Рік тому +9

    Sirji, your disciple and favourite Akshat Srivastava is homeschooling his son. Looks like he is ahead of you on this. 😅

  • @rupalishankerarthub
    @rupalishankerarthub Рік тому +1

    ohhh what an insightful video! I think one of the messages which really hit me - The by the way naukri messagr. There is no respect at home for a teacher's profession. also despite working for 7 hours a week, the demand is to do all the housework.

  • @sadhnasingh_be_creative257
    @sadhnasingh_be_creative257 Рік тому +3

    Ok so my experience,,
    I was a teacher why WAS
    Simple they pay me lessssss...
    I only work for 1month or mera ho gyaa thaa.. like they wants me to do so much but they pay less than a maid ... I'm regretting why I waste money on my diploma....
    I'm a vey good teacher.
    And really like tutoring them even some level of finance but everyone wants money to survive and have a good life but.... as Sir told u Mostly female teachers are not focus they only want to buy some cloths and other think.. Unhe khud khuch nhi atta its a fact
    Please focus on ur child 🙏🏼

  • @GreenDriveIndia
    @GreenDriveIndia Рік тому +14

    I used to say, nobody wants to become teacher, only who becomes teacher who could not become anything else. Teachers needs to be celebrated and paid well to change the mind set.

  • @knowyourworld2513
    @knowyourworld2513 Рік тому +1

    I was teacher too for 10 years nd I left after rude behaviour of management nd principal as during covid I was on maternity leave and had one family member very serious and still they forced me to take online classes so I left
    Teachers are not treated the way they should be. Also they get too much work. They have 60 or more kids in a class and teachers have to cater everyone's need in 30 mins. Book checking, result, register work, every month paper setting, correction, register work, fees checking, every now and then activities, competition, and lengthy curriculum. Plus training. All this.
    After school also teacher gives extra time to prepare lesson, correction of paper and other work. They made to wait in school after working hours to prepare child for annual day, sports day and all other special occasions.
    nd salary? we all know how much they are being paid.
    So don't say that ladies teachers are not serious, coz I know gents also who works on 2 to 10k.

  • @preetic
    @preetic Рік тому +3

    Thank you sir... Someone took the step to speak on such serious matter. I am a single mother and I work to earn my daily living. Really saying the amount I am getting is just not at all sufficient enough to run a family of two people and literally after working so hard it's difficult to take tution classes also. I feel helpless.

  • @suchismitadutta3050
    @suchismitadutta3050 Рік тому +1

    Sir I agree with you 110%. All the points that you raised.....curriculum outdated, system wrong, teachers' quality etc...but feel so helpless.

  • @IndianArmyloverDeshKeRakshak
    @IndianArmyloverDeshKeRakshak Рік тому +2

    Guruji . Jab apne kaha ki agar Apko apne bache ki personality banani hai to apni personality bana lo . I clapped for u. Maja aa gaya

  • @bhabanisahoo6074
    @bhabanisahoo6074 Рік тому +2

    One of the best eye-opening video. We see it everyday but we don't notice those things and not even observe it's impact on our child.
    Thank you so much Sir taking this topic.

  • @kkavya21
    @kkavya21 Рік тому +1

    I agree to your comments. I have seen many females go for teacher job because they have fixed hours, leaves etc which are the first thing they see. So they feel they can work 6hrs and work at home full time so can balance work home life however in the end they like you said are at pressure to perform both at home and school ending up in built up frustration and health issues in long run

  • @punitasharma7726
    @punitasharma7726 Рік тому +5

    You are absolutely right sir my math teacher was like 😭 that roz fight karke😮 Aati thi😢 aur saara 10:32 10:32 😮😮gussa mere😢 upar nikalti thi
    Flaunting her lipstick 💄 nail polish and stilleto 👠 such an obnoxious lady 😅😅

  • @ravikantsolanki5707
    @ravikantsolanki5707 Рік тому +14

    Very less parents realise the fact that teacher is at the centre of the educational institut. While taking admission they observe everything in a school but never meet the teachers. Parents even don't inquire about the qualifications of the teachers. We all have to accept the fact that physical infrastructure and excessive extra curricular activities are not the essence of a good school. A proper teacher can nourish your child in a better way. Don't go by the fees of the schools. What ever glitter is not always the gold!

  • @ningyoh3490
    @ningyoh3490 Рік тому +1

    Sir ,you are right , the teacher are being harrased so much they are getting chronic fatigue and being paid very very less😢 schools take 10 lack rs fee. Waste education in India.

  • @jacksparrow2067
    @jacksparrow2067 Рік тому +5

    In near future middle class को सारे काम जैसे पेंट, कारपेंटर, टाइल्स लगाना, प्लंबर, इलेक्ट्रीशियन , maid, आदि के कार्य खुद और मशीनों के सहायता से करने पड़ेंगे । क्यों की मिडिल क्लास इनकी wages और नखरे सहन नही कर पायेगा । फिर 2040 के आस पास घर के कुछ कामों के लिए रोबोट आ जायेंगे ।

  • @RMishra1986
    @RMishra1986 Рік тому +2

    I used to love teaching but now I hate it like anything.. each and every word u said about ladies teachers being exploited is true.

  • @namithas688
    @namithas688 Рік тому +1

    I stay in Mumbai and women exploitation in schools has been noticed from past 5 years or more ....your video is reality check

  • @dipankarmajumdar315
    @dipankarmajumdar315 Рік тому +10

    Sir please make a video on homeschooling. Great if you can include people who have done this in the past. Please make a video on what should be done - template sort of…. Thanks in advance!!

  • @sachinpanwar1777
    @sachinpanwar1777 5 місяців тому +2

    सब गड़बड़ घोटाला है तरक्की में सब पागल हो रखे है

  • @Anjalisharma-km2th
    @Anjalisharma-km2th Рік тому +1

    Ek ek shabd katu satya bhai,gazab hats off

  • @mr.shivkumar5790
    @mr.shivkumar5790 Рік тому +1

    Whatever you are telling about the
    lady teacher/teachers is the reality, the small salary she receives , uses to maintain herself etc is very right.
    Thanks a lot

  • @sujansays
    @sujansays Рік тому

    Very true sir !!
    I am From Bangalore and I am seeing same things. Within my friend and cousin circle all have same complaints including myself. Schools are not administering things well.
    Very high paid schools are doing their curriculum’s well other than that no schools are doing good.

  • @renukaandhare2687
    @renukaandhare2687 Рік тому +1

    What a great peep into school administration and a profound insight into women school teachers's behaviour

  • @vt7894
    @vt7894 Рік тому +1

    Board me copy check karne jao to waha par khud bola jata hai maximum ko pass karo., Khul ke marking karo ......ye to haal hai ....aajkal tabhi to sabke 90 se upar hi aaten hain

  • @arunbhanot4310
    @arunbhanot4310 Рік тому

    You are absolutely right, I worked 35 years and retired recently .yes the main emphasis on just showing activities now . Your all points which you raised are correct

  • @NamasteChatterjeefamily
    @NamasteChatterjeefamily Рік тому +1

    100% sahi, aadhe time female teachers apne period mein personal life bachcho k saath discuss karti hai.
    Private tuitions jinke pass jao unn teachers k subjects mein first else fail.
    Sab cheezo ka hauwa bana rakha hai.

  • @vinaykharbanda9126
    @vinaykharbanda9126 Рік тому +3

    My wife is a teacher and i completely agree with all his statements

  • @gauravarya2419
    @gauravarya2419 Рік тому +1

    All this is becoming true for my 4 years old daughter. Even she is in play school at the moment in jn kg but her school teacher churn ratio is far from acceptable

  • @geetikasharma3641
    @geetikasharma3641 Рік тому +2

    Education sector (school education)and health sector should be in government control. No privatization in these two sector

  • @sonalsood1277
    @sonalsood1277 4 місяці тому

    Sir
    You speak so much truth.
    The pressure on a teacher is immense.
    We are conductors, maids, housekeepers... But not teachers

  • @abhishekkumarshukla6084
    @abhishekkumarshukla6084 Рік тому +5

    Aise hi chalta rha to Middle Class ko to aap depression me daal doge. 😂😂

  • @Rohit-ho6ri
    @Rohit-ho6ri Рік тому +1

    true, discussed same with relative a week ago

  • @ageless1003
    @ageless1003 Рік тому +1

    It was kejriwal who asked Delhi schools when his government was made on 2014 to stop increasing the fees like crazy. Even in Covid no private school in Delhi was allowed to increase its fees. It been around 10 years now in Delhi and private schools have been very strictly monitored.

  • @varshasindhu5672
    @varshasindhu5672 Рік тому +2

    You are right. In the school that I taught (very reputable school) the one guy in my department got much more money than the women.

  • @Ashi_Hi_Banava_Banavi
    @Ashi_Hi_Banava_Banavi 8 місяців тому

    Salute sir.... Kya facts pe baat kar rahe ho 🔥🔥🔥 bikul yahi ho raha hai....

  • @scientistswife
    @scientistswife Рік тому +1

    Excellent topic sir
    Teachers are not valued and under paid. Maids are better paid

  • @sadguru1969
    @sadguru1969 Рік тому +1

    In today's world of information and technology I seriously feel that schools are irrelevant today schools should be used only for the students to socialize once a week , the rest of the education one can get is from you tube and Google and now chat GPT !

  • @sharondiondylancrasto2854
    @sharondiondylancrasto2854 Рік тому

    Sir I totally agree with you, Accept Arvind Kejriwal none of the politicians will change education method, private school charge huge fees, Education ministry are less bothered, it's been above 70yrs after independence, but until now Govt school are not yet upgraded to colleges.

  • @manjushaghildiyal7466
    @manjushaghildiyal7466 Рік тому

    Namaskar sir 🙏
    Hamari society me ,jab kuch na bache to teacher ban jao,ye respect hai is profession ki.
    Ladki teaching kar Rahi hogi tution pada Rahi hogi,magar teacher se shadi nahi karni hai,
    Baccho aur teachers dono par itna load hai to result Kahan se accha hoga.
    Sari baaten sir bilkul sahi hain.
    Thanku sir

  • @swetabaghel8726
    @swetabaghel8726 Рік тому +1

    Hello sir, Iam principal jn a TOP CBSE SCHOOL and i fully agree wuth u.even as a mother I didn't want my daughter to study jn my school but no options sir. Even though as a female I try a lot but the system is suppress always. It is acctully very panic situation .whenever i take interviews of ladies i always told them dont come here for passing ur time.

  • @BhaveshKumar-dz8hq
    @BhaveshKumar-dz8hq Рік тому +8

    teacher kuch ladies majboori mein bani hue apart from lifestyle maintenance

  • @sreyanshuchaterjee3962
    @sreyanshuchaterjee3962 Рік тому +11

    The elephant in the room, that often is overlooked is the reservation system. Minority run schools do not have the burden of 25% free reservation for SC/ST/OBC candidates. Those extra seat reserved in non minority schools , get pushed over on the general category students. This keeps the fees high. Govt reimburses pittance for the reserved seats , This means the schools takes it as pure loss in their balance sheet. The missionary schools are cost effective as they do not have these overheads. In addition to this you cant even rent out premises for commercial activity to recover costs. This is purely state sponsored apartheid of general category hindus.

  • @smani766
    @smani766 Рік тому +1

    Sir, you are showing mirror to the society. But its very sad there are very less people in India who can really understand your ideas .....