Ew, being reminded of those straight people that sexualize their children made me feel gross. I hate that. There's no excuse for them to do that and then get on our case about displaying pride clothing on our children. If they're proud of their toddlers "dating", why can't we put our children in harmless rainbow shirts...? Hypocritical.
My grandma got angry at my mom because she made a baby blanket that had rainbows on it. It was because my little brother is a "rainbow baby" (A baby born after a miscarriage) It wasn't even gay 😭
@@pietjewaanman3506 safety of who? not allowing people into bathrooms that they appear as the gender of puts them more in harm than anyone else. signs wont stop actually dangerous people anyway in the first place
@snakedriverwe are hearing about that, and it even further proves that point. There is NO reason, in their own logic, that a trans man shouldn’t be using the men’s bathroom. But they want to deny that anyways, because it was never about trans women being a danger to cis women, it was about discriminating against trans people. I don’t think I’ve even heard an explanation for it, like I haven’t seen anyone try to justify it in the same way they justify keeping trans women out of women’s bathrooms, and yet they’re still ‘advocating’ for it.
literally found out recently that my mamaw is a lesbian and has been since the 60s. but she apparently claimed she had to marry a man cuz she wanted kids. shes always been super trans and gay accepting and it makes since to me now
I hope she and your dad still had a good time together. Nowadays it isn't that unusual in my country for a gay couple meeting a lesbian couple just for kids. Double the mom and dad jokes for them.
This sounds so much like my one grandma. Divorced grandpa and lived with a "roommate" from then until the day she passed and their side by side burial plots and headstones aren't very just friends sounding. Never admitted it outright but grandma's friend just artfully neither confirms nor denies anything but her face gives her away
@@MissMoontreeit’s always hilarious to me when I hear these stories because it’s like “No you can’t marry a woman/man!” and then two seconds later; “Oh sure go marry them and then live with another “straight” couple that just so happens to have the person you wanted to marry before that’s totally fine and not gay!”
I laugh when I heard people saying, "I'd NEVER use a gender neutral bathroom. And I never have". Do they not use the bathroom at home? Or do the male and female family members have separate bathrooms to use? Do they not use the toilet at the friends homes? Because I'm pretty sure that when going to the toilet at a friend's house, you wouldn't ask, " Where's the men's bathroom?" Or "I hope that this is the men's"? ( Or ladies. Take your pick). Because anyone visiting my house asking that would be told to go piss outside! ( We live in a unit, and have one bathroom)!! So, in all reality, EVERY SINGLE PERSON has used a gender neutral toilet! 😆
@@daveisbrill bruh there is plenty of gender neutral bathrooms, small restaurants, which doesn't have two separate rooms often do this where you just get stalls... the first public bathrooms in history were gender neutral as well...
@@daveisbrill Oh, definitely cleaner. Just saying, everyone uses it, regardless of gender, without a thought. Also, yes, if I was an enby, I'd probably choose the ladies' room because, in my anecdotal personal experience, it's always cleaner, and usually smells better.
I have actually been in a house where the downstairs bathroom was for men and the upstairs for women! Yearly party in a multi-story house, and one year the son of the hosts decided to make and put up gendered bathroom signs. But yeah, not common.
Currently on my second day on T and it feels unreal! To all my pre-T people: It will happen to you, too! I know it's hard and frustrating, but keep hanging in there. You will start T eventually, I promise! ❤
@@SuperJJParker I'm currently on only 2 pumps of Gel (Tostran Gel) and the full dosis would be 6-8 pumps. The only thing I have noticed so far are hot flashes and a weird feeling in my throat but that could be do to some drinking I did yesterday (oops).
that's great omg congrats!!! ... personally I'd like to un-start T but to each their own. (i'm a trans girl btw it's not a detransition thing. now I've over explained the joke and it's not funny ;-;)
I do this with random adjectives people use to describe themselves, and/or feelings. Just so they can feel safe if they want to trust me to give their changed name to.
@@KrimsonKattYTit’s basically an umbrella term to describe woman or woman aligned gender identity who are attracted to woman or woman aligned identity so lesbians, bisexuals, pansexuals, etc.
When I came out to my parents as a trans guy I explained that gender identity is an " internal sense of feeling" that it cannot be explained with words and it can only be felt...they understood me...they accepted me... I am so happy...!!!
Exactly! I am not trans so I don’t have/understand the feelings but that doesn’t make them any less valid or real! I don’t need to understand the exact feeling to respect the people who feel it :-) otherwise I would have the right to be an a-hole to all the allosexuals and I can just say “well I don’t understand your feelings, are you sure you’re not making them up?” I am so glad that your parents understand that and are being supportive!
my main issue with people going crazy when to children talk to each other is the result can effect the children's development their relationships can suffer. if the first time you talk to someone of an opposite gender they make it strange you might just avoid it to prevent that from happening. it can also mean you may not know you can have platonic relationships only remantic realtionships.
can you tell i have exeriance in the subject lol :D personaly i dont really care and i have been breaking it but yea still sucks. also i am pretty sure i am aro/ace
When I was seven I thought the only way I could enjoy being around boys was to date them. All the books and shows I watched forced that idea on me. So I had a boyfriend at 7. My mom freaked out when she saw “boyfriend” and scared me off from being around boys for years. So yeah…. I definitely see what you’re saying
i remember saying i wanted to marry some random guy when i was in first grade just because he was the only boy who was actually nice to me. that was interesting. i might not even like guys.
literally my exact experience, sad abt it cuz i could’ve formed so many meaningful friendships but the societal expectation of romantic interest just stressed me out so much i avoided any interactions
On the topic of baby/toddler clothes, a few weeks ago when I was out shopping with my mother, we’re going to buy clothes for me. And in one of the stores we went to, we walked past the baby clothes section and I saw a t-shirt (or maybe it was a sweater, I don’t remember) with the words “New to the crew” and a teddy bear on it. That’s the kind of clothes parents should give their children, not the inappropriate disgusting ones that says “Ladies man”.
Very much so. I've loved the ones that show animals, landscapes, starry skies, unknown planets and flying saucers, etc. for my own kids. Avoids gender stereotypes, avoids offending anyone's sensibilities (or at least anyone who's not insane), looks good on the baby without restricting their movement, etc.
I grew up with this humour all around me(we didnt have labels like Aro/Ace in the 70s so I didnt know why I wasn't interested) and everyone just treated it as a big joke but things were more innocent back then, less predatory, over time, attitudes changed and the meanings did with them, sadly.
@@DoomMan26 i think you're a bit confused. I'm talking about people who support the community, but are a bit confused about some parts of it; like in the video, showing a trans flag to a cis lesbian coming out
18:57 its the Sapphic flag! basically just means non-men attracted to non-men, could be pan, bi, poly, omni, just someone who likes women and/or non-men
21:46 I felt the same way with romances in TV shows. Calling it forced and cliche. Then I found the girl x girl shows. Then I couldn't get enough. Unfortunately, I'm not good at finding girl x girl shows that often. So each one is a treat.
There's another one as far as I know, can't remember the name but melts a few degrees lower... could be an alloid (or however is called/spelled in english) though... I saw it in a video of VSauce if memory serves me right...
I was so confused when I first saw it, I was like why would a genderqueer person say things like that?? The lovely people on reddit helped me out and explained that terfs use it now, such a shame.
That terf’s are appropriating the suffragette colors makes me very, very sad. I own that I don’t know as much about the suffragettes as I need to, but they’ve always been heroines in my eyes. As a female (baby enby, so I still kinda cling to birth sex for ease), I recognize the rights and liberties that I have because of their movement and I really desire to reclaim that from the terrible terfs.
Also, omg, has anyone ever seen some of the political cartoons and hate speech directed at the suffragettes in their time! 😱😭 It was so terrible in so many ways!! It just broke my heart! 💔
My dad went through one of the quickest character development arcs ever 90s: private elitist boys school- homophobic < accidentally becomes best friends with gay man > 2000: best man at gay wedding (technically not legal, but like. Screw that)
Came down here to say this. Also, in principle it depends on how hot the liquid is when it goes into the fridge. In principle, anything can be a liquid.
@@hannahk1306 yeah it depends on where you live. Warmer climates usually always have liquid coconut oil at room temp where colder climates usually don’t :) I live in the Netherlands, our coconut oil has only recently been liquid in the summer (gotta love climate change)
@@trishapellis Anything can be a liquid, but not every liquid can be put into a fridge. Both Helium (boiling point -269°C) and tungsten (melting point 3400°C) can be liquid, but you’ll have trouble getting both in liquid form into the freezer and tungsten is going to destroy your freezer.
I actually had the opposite happen to me with the whole forgetting you changed your name thing. I changed my name, and almost immediately didn't realize people were talking to me if they were sayin my old name. In fact my manager forgot for a moment that I changed my name, and called me by the old name like 5 times before I realized they were talkin to me.
I changed my name but didn’t change it at school for a while. Doing the register was so awkward because I’d be really intentionally listening for my deadname (thankfully I’m at the start) and still almost miss it. *Every. Time.*
15:20 I mean, sometimes we've accidentally had milk turn solid after being put too far back into the fridge. So it's possible for stuff to freeze in the fridge.
I do not understand how or why a group of women would actively protest against another group of women! Women of all types, Black, Hispanic, and Trans need all the exact same support. And that's because we are ALL women!!!
Because unfortunately, some marginalized individuals would prefer to place themselves at the top of the system that oppresses them, rather than seeing the system itself as the problem. This is why so many TERFs uphold patriarchal values.
Because "trans women" AKA trans identified males are not women. Simple. Don't believe me, go and read the mtf subreddit and other posts by "trans women" on social media. Ever heard a woman threaten someone with rape?
@@saoirse2963 Neuroscience, psychology, and sociology demonstrate otherwise, and sex and gender are not the same thing regardless, so you're wrong every which way.
I used to eat that with a spoon :D someone told me it would give me energy but it just um acts like a laxative in my system so I had to stop using it hehehe
Sorta related to the t-shirt thing. In primary school my sister was getting bullied by a boy and it got to the point where my mum had to have a meeting with the headteacher about it. And the headteacher, AN ADULT WOMAN, called a primary school boy a LADIES MAN.
The NB ball panicking when having to choose between left and right is me. It doesn't even really matter which toilet I use as long as there are stalls, but there's still some inexplicable panic.
@@haylene7521 all dinosaurs, including avian, are reptiles, but not all reptiles are dinosaurs. Lizards, tuataras, turtles and crocodiles are reptiles, but not dinosaurs, whereas birds are reptiles and dinosaurs.
@@spiker.ortmann It's no longer valid, but people claim it's synonim with Sauropsid despite that term being made instead of redefining Reptilia (I disagree with it, though, dinosaurs aren't reptiles in my opinion).
HOW MANY OF OUR DADS ARE BI/QUEER IN GENERAL AND HAVE NO IDEA 😭😭😭😭😭😭 my dads always like "yeah im straight but i would kiss castiel" (cas is played by misha collins on supernatural (yes the 18 year old show thats still trending twice a week)) and im just like???? boy??? that is some of the most bi sht ive ever heard???????? you sound like tiny me trying to figure out if im trans??????? hergh?????
Omg the thing where straight people see two little kids of opposite genders looking at each other and saying omg they’re dating is so real. When I was literally 2 I played with some kid at daycare and told my parents about it and they were like ‘oMg Do YoU lIkE hIm ArE yOu GoNnA gEt MaRrIeD’ but now as a teen I’m too young to know if I’m aroace or not ughhh
For what its worth every time i see a terf using those colours i go out of my way to congratulate them on their open transness and how beautiful it is that they are nonbinary.
The corporate Starbucks in Seattle has a full gender neutral bathroom…each stall has a normal door vs a bathroom stall door (so no gaps) with an actual door lock (not one of the flimsy slide locks) I give them an A++ solves all the problems.
it can also be a mix of stuff in different states or even a very thick liquid or very soft solid which are rarely considered slime but it can be really close, metallic sodium is really really soft, too bad you can touch it with your hand
I don’t think that’s right? I thought no Newtonian meant like oobleck where when you squished It really hard it became solid, but when you opened your hand, it would drip out of your hand
Butter is a solid in the fridge and will melt on a hot day. If you live in a warmer country than Britain, then that's one solid that will melt when you take it out of the fridge.
Gallium and Mercury! Mercury was (and maybe is?) used in thermometers (and I'm sure most know this but Mercury is very toxic). Gallium is perfectly safe (don't eat it tho)
7:22 I had a bit of a similar interaction with my mother except I was coming out as aromantic. She said I'd grow out of it when I'd meet the one. And I told her "It's not how attraction works, if you'd meet the one but she's a girl would you feel attracted to her. Would it make you grow out of it" and she said "Yes of course I'd be attracted to her. Everyone likes everyone I chose to be with men, you'll choose that too" She came her way around this eventually. But still didn't come out as far as I know. Also she technically wasn't wrong because I'm romance neutral and male-leaning bisexual lol. So I can choose to be with men.
There’s a bathroom at a Greek restaurant in Virginia that’s gender-neutral. It just says, “whatever… just wash your hands.” Anyway, as an out bisexual for over two years, happy pride month to all who are out, all who are not ready to come out yet, and all who are questioning their identity. Just know that you are loved.
"It's a good thing your life doesn't depends on my success" is a good answer too, unless their lives effectively depend on your success, of course, but that only applies to lifeguards, EMTs, pilots and the likes when the naysayers are under their responsibility... 😂
My grandmother rather casually eating dinner at our home. "I'd rather date girls when i was younger, in fact my friend is pretty and funny. If I was a Lesbian..." and proceeded to talk like she could be bi. I never did say anything. If she really is I rather she find out herself. But we did tell her some people are Bi but end up not acting on it. it didn't klick for her. and we just hope she's just so open minded she can put herself in that situation. good dinner convo tho edit: I hope its just her sympathizing cuz I know how i feel not realizing im a trans man for so long. It makes me sad knowing i missed so much and spent so long hating myself. its not the same thing. but i dont wish anyone to feel like they missed out like i do
Not all of us who figure ourselves out later feel like we missed out. I realized I'm bi in my late 40s, because I just preferred men. No need to feel bad about it. We're each on our own path.
@@missnaomi613 ofc. I just didn't want it to be misunderstood what I meant. We're an open family. If she truly was I think she'd talk about it! I hope so anyway
I still don't understand why single person bathrooms have to be gendered at all? It seems dumb to stand and wait to use the toilet when there's a completely empty one 5 feet away.
The Ryker thing made me laugh and reminded me of a time when I met up the first time with some internet friends. They knew me as "Glenn Griffin" but my name, my preferred name, is Kay. They were calling out to me by the name "Glenn" and I didn't even hear them till they said my name. But that's a different situation cause I've never had someone calling me by my screen name irl
21:04 OMG that is me. I am sex neutral ace and my period is rarely on time, I suspect I might have some fertility issues, a few years ago I was told that my overies were underdeveloped, I don't mind though 😝
The last one was so me!!! "Ah, I am a girl, it's not like it's not normal to want to play a male role in every rpg you join (IN KINDERGARDEN) hahaha" ...I am in fact trans masc XDD
The one about public toilets describes my situation from last night...I think, I actually mentioned to my friend that I'd rather pee in the woods 😅 I feel bad about not bringing myself to simply go into the men's bathroom, when the event was literally a pride celebration night. I think that that could have been the best first time for the men's...but I just couldn't bring myself to do it, I was too nervous. (My friend couldn't come along because she is a girl) First attempt, the place was too crowded and I was scared to go, the other time two people were hanging out in front of the men's door and even at the third try, with best conditions, I was too scared...well, after almost 6 hours, it was too urgent and I went to the girl's toilet. Some day I am going to make it...some day
7:35 i have been scrolling r/bisexualmen and lot of older men coming out as bi. like maybe they had gay experiences in college or never had the chance, but stick to women for dating. due to pressure and then after divorce or with their partners support started exploring their bisexuality/gay side again.
18:45 For those who are curious, the mom is the sapphic flag, which sapphic is an umbrella term for a woman or femme-aligned person who loves women or femme-aligned people. People who identify as this may or may not be attracted to other genders. While this label isn’t exclusive, it is used to unify women-aligned people or women who love other women.
The trans egg one reminded me of a sad story I heard online, where a trans man’s mother was a Christian fundamentalist, and she was so not accepting that she genuinely believed that her child was a demon possessing the mutilated corpse of her dead daughter.
Trans non-binary ace boy with probably endometriosis here (+disabled). SAME. I have pills that stop them but the pain came back out of nowhere since a few months, and i'm like "dude, why the F do you remember how to fonction, you're the most useless organ of my whole broken body wtf leave me alone ??"
To the people who want to talk about their toddler as if they're destined to marry their friend's toddler, I want to ask "so I didn't realize you were from a culture that practices arranged marriages." It will probably make them stutter a bit.
@@thatkid-ot1vr most people who talk like this are talking about their kids getting married as adults, and many are joking, so no I would not go that far to suggest to people that their attitude or jokes are inappropriate, as it would just piss them off, not make them rethink what they've said.
I’m SUPER glad I grew out of my homophobic phase as a kid I never really walked around saying “DaHm ThOsE gAyS” but if I saw say a person in drag I would be rude. I remember painfully that when I saw people bullying a “boy” for wairing a dress I joined in... she is a girl, I hate younger me for doing that I see her around now, she is happy and expressing herself. I’m old enough to realise my hate was miss directed because now I’m non-binary and excepted by my family ❤ Love is love
We really gotta phase love is love out. I know it's supposed to mean like lgbtq marriage and stuff. But pedos starting using it to justify themselves and it's just. Over
I'm stupid. In fact, I am so stupid, that when he said Bucket Hats I thought of ACTUAL METAL BUCKETS put on like helmets. Well, maybe I'm not stupid, i'm just italian and therefore didn't think of that because english is not my first language, but anyway...
Speaking of bathrooms, I’ve learned that my passing is contingent on how inseam my hair. I’m 5 years on T so if I had short hair nobody would bat an eye, but since I have long hair I get challenged, but ONLY if my hair is open. Bun or half bun or wearing a hat is no issue whatsoever. Funniest one was being at a power metal concert in costume, standing with my back to the door and hearing some dude ask „uh is this the men’s?“ Metal. Concert. Lmao
I've had simmilair expirences growing up (I'm MTF) since I have a fairly androgynous appearance I always thought it was funny like my brother and christ I'm literally standing at a urinal, what woman's restroom have you seen with urinals? Ofc this is the men's restroom cx
@@P_D-px6iv had another one of those experiences just at pride last Sunday. Standing in front of the men's room, door open literally looking at dudes doing their thing (letting the door close would have held up the line too much) and a guy behind me goes "Sorry this is the men's". I just turned and stared for a second because I was like "yes I can see that?" I really want to know what goes through people's minds. I feel like Pride is extra bad for some reason. Can the community do better please?
10:50 The weird thing (at least in the ace community) is that more often then not when you hear about people who acknowledged their sexuaity/lack thereof in their late 30's+ the response is that they should have found out by then, as if you aren't constantly bombarded until then about how you are too young to know.
Hearing someone call Team Fortress 2 “Fortnite” has got to be one of the scariest things I’ve heard all day.
the way I screamed, oh my god.
UN GAMER DETECTED (not seriously mad I don't have it in me. But they do look very different lol not everything cartoony is Fortnite 😂)
yeah felt suuuper oooold
@@RainbyFIN honestly, Jamie probably has only heard of fortnight. I hadn't heard of it until like yesterday.
Clearly we need TF3 to bring it back in the public consciousness.
Ew, being reminded of those straight people that sexualize their children made me feel gross. I hate that. There's no excuse for them to do that and then get on our case about displaying pride clothing on our children. If they're proud of their toddlers "dating", why can't we put our children in harmless rainbow shirts...? Hypocritical.
My grandma got angry at my mom because she made a baby blanket that had rainbows on it. It was because my little brother is a "rainbow baby" (A baby born after a miscarriage)
It wasn't even gay 😭
@@Milo-hp9fw The bigots are _so _*_obsessed_* with hating us that they will latch onto any reason they can find to do so.
@@Milo-hp9fw Im sorry.
It's revolting.
I'm straight & _I_ agree. It's just really bad
It's not really about the bathrooms, just like it wasn't really about the bus seats either.
yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bathrooms used to also be segregated by race
funnily enough, the first public toillets in modern times Britain and France were gender neutrtal, but men got pissy.
@@pietjewaanman3506 safety of who? not allowing people into bathrooms that they appear as the gender of puts them more in harm than anyone else. signs wont stop actually dangerous people anyway in the first place
@snakedriverwe are hearing about that, and it even further proves that point. There is NO reason, in their own logic, that a trans man shouldn’t be using the men’s bathroom. But they want to deny that anyways, because it was never about trans women being a danger to cis women, it was about discriminating against trans people. I don’t think I’ve even heard an explanation for it, like I haven’t seen anyone try to justify it in the same way they justify keeping trans women out of women’s bathrooms, and yet they’re still ‘advocating’ for it.
"Bethany! They are babies."
- Jammidodger 2024
Such a great quote
The way he said it lmaooooo
"No, Marjorie, they are two!"
literally found out recently that my mamaw is a lesbian and has been since the 60s. but she apparently claimed she had to marry a man cuz she wanted kids. shes always been super trans and gay accepting and it makes since to me now
Well done mamaw ❤ thanks for being you
I hope she and your dad still had a good time together. Nowadays it isn't that unusual in my country for a gay couple meeting a lesbian couple just for kids. Double the mom and dad jokes for them.
This sounds so much like my one grandma. Divorced grandpa and lived with a "roommate" from then until the day she passed and their side by side burial plots and headstones aren't very just friends sounding. Never admitted it outright but grandma's friend just artfully neither confirms nor denies anything but her face gives her away
Im glad she meet a good man then.
@@MissMoontreeit’s always hilarious to me when I hear these stories because it’s like “No you can’t marry a woman/man!” and then two seconds later; “Oh sure go marry them and then live with another “straight” couple that just so happens to have the person you wanted to marry before that’s totally fine and not gay!”
I laugh when I heard people saying, "I'd NEVER use a gender neutral bathroom. And I never have".
Do they not use the bathroom at home? Or do the male and female family members have separate bathrooms to use? Do they not use the toilet at the friends homes? Because I'm pretty sure that when going to the toilet at a friend's house, you wouldn't ask, " Where's the men's bathroom?" Or "I hope that this is the men's"? ( Or ladies. Take your pick).
Because anyone visiting my house asking that would be told to go piss outside! ( We live in a unit, and have one bathroom)!!
So, in all reality, EVERY SINGLE PERSON has used a gender neutral toilet! 😆
Lol
@@daveisbrill You’ve never heard of a port-a-potty, have you?
@@daveisbrill They are literally gender neutral public toilets.
@@daveisbrillthey just say shit to say shit.
@@daveisbrill bruh there is plenty of gender neutral bathrooms, small restaurants, which doesn't have two separate rooms often do this where you just get stalls... the first public bathrooms in history were gender neutral as well...
Last I checked, the bathroom in my own home is also gender neutral. Have you ever gone to a house that was like 'ladies pee upstairs, men downstairs."
@@daveisbrill Oh, definitely cleaner. Just saying, everyone uses it, regardless of gender, without a thought. Also, yes, if I was an enby, I'd probably choose the ladies' room because, in my anecdotal personal experience, it's always cleaner, and usually smells better.
I have actually been in a house where the downstairs bathroom was for men and the upstairs for women! Yearly party in a multi-story house, and one year the son of the hosts decided to make and put up gendered bathroom signs. But yeah, not common.
@@Duskkit LOL! There had to be at least one! I would have taken that as a joke.
@@daveisbrillgood lord you're easy to trigger, coward. 😂😂
Currently on my second day on T and it feels unreal!
To all my pre-T people: It will happen to you, too! I know it's hard and frustrating, but keep hanging in there. You will start T eventually, I promise! ❤
:)
Chase that happiness, king!
What changes have you noticed already?
@@SuperJJParker I'm currently on only 2 pumps of Gel (Tostran Gel) and the full dosis would be 6-8 pumps. The only thing I have noticed so far are hot flashes and a weird feeling in my throat but that could be do to some drinking I did yesterday (oops).
that's great omg congrats!!!
...
personally I'd like to un-start T but to each their own.
(i'm a trans girl btw it's not a detransition thing. now I've over explained the joke and it's not funny ;-;)
Lesbian coming out: 'Hi Dad, I'm Lesbian'. Dad's response: 'Hi Lesbian, I'm Dad'
Dude that would be hilarious.
That’s what happened when I came out as bisexual lmao
Lesbian: "Why would you name me this way?"
I do this with random adjectives people use to describe themselves, and/or feelings. Just so they can feel safe if they want to trust me to give their changed name to.
@@AlohaXChicken27 same lol
19:00 the flag is Sapphic. There is also a male version which is Achillean
Omg I love the achillean
@@KrimsonKattYTI think sapphic includes all women loving women, lesbian, bi and pan.
But what about the little pink, grey, and blue one?
@@KrimsonKattYTit’s basically an umbrella term to describe woman or woman aligned gender identity who are attracted to woman or woman aligned identity so lesbians, bisexuals, pansexuals, etc.
@@KrimsonKattYTsapphic is any sexuality (of a women) that also likes other women, examples are lesbian, bi, genderfluid, etc
Dinosaurs aren’t extinct, but unfortunately the avian dinosaurs don’t have teeth.
Except geese
@@KaesoARhombil
That’s not teeth, that’s part of their beaks and *tongues!*
@@ragnkja That is so much more worse
@@ragnkja
Wha? How did I not know this terrifying information until now
@@ragnkja yeah, basically same thing.
When I came out to my parents as a trans guy I explained that gender identity is an " internal sense of feeling" that it cannot be explained with words and it can only be felt...they understood me...they accepted me... I am so happy...!!!
Exactly! I am not trans so I don’t have/understand the feelings but that doesn’t make them any less valid or real! I don’t need to understand the exact feeling to respect the people who feel it :-) otherwise I would have the right to be an a-hole to all the allosexuals and I can just say “well I don’t understand your feelings, are you sure you’re not making them up?” I am so glad that your parents understand that and are being supportive!
I was in the middle of doing something but then I saw the notification and I went, “Screw my responsibilities! New LGBallT video!”
SAMEEE
Me too ❤!!!
Happy Pride Month!!!
We love balls
my main issue with people going crazy when to children talk to each other is the result can effect the children's development their relationships can suffer. if the first time you talk to someone of an opposite gender they make it strange you might just avoid it to prevent that from happening. it can also mean you may not know you can have platonic relationships only remantic realtionships.
can you tell i have exeriance in the subject lol :D personaly i dont really care and i have been breaking it but yea still sucks. also i am pretty sure i am aro/ace
When I was seven I thought the only way I could enjoy being around boys was to date them. All the books and shows I watched forced that idea on me. So I had a boyfriend at 7. My mom freaked out when she saw “boyfriend” and scared me off from being around boys for years. So yeah…. I definitely see what you’re saying
i remember saying i wanted to marry some random guy when i was in first grade just because he was the only boy who was actually nice to me. that was interesting. i might not even like guys.
literally my exact experience, sad abt it cuz i could’ve formed so many meaningful friendships but the societal expectation of romantic interest just stressed me out so much i avoided any interactions
Unironically yes! I stopped being friends with boys as a kid because people were weird
On the topic of baby/toddler clothes, a few weeks ago when I was out shopping with my mother, we’re going to buy clothes for me. And in one of the stores we went to, we walked past the baby clothes section and I saw a t-shirt (or maybe it was a sweater, I don’t remember) with the words “New to the crew” and a teddy bear on it. That’s the kind of clothes parents should give their children, not the inappropriate disgusting ones that says “Ladies man”.
Ive seen baby shirts that said "hung like a 3 year old".. weird
Very much so. I've loved the ones that show animals, landscapes, starry skies, unknown planets and flying saucers, etc. for my own kids. Avoids gender stereotypes, avoids offending anyone's sensibilities (or at least anyone who's not insane), looks good on the baby without restricting their movement, etc.
I grew up with this humour all around me(we didnt have labels like Aro/Ace in the 70s so I didnt know why I wasn't interested) and everyone just treated it as a big joke but things were more innocent back then, less predatory, over time, attitudes changed and the meanings did with them, sadly.
@@Jesty.r I'M SORRY, WHAT????
I got my first puberty blocker injection for the first time on Wednesday! I'm super happy and just need to tell everyone!
That's sooooo cool, i'm so happy for you ! Congrats 🥰🥰 wish you aaaaall the best sibling ❤️🏳️⚧️🌟
Mazal tov!
🥳 so happy for you
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@@theSixPathsOfTrains it's an injection to prevent puberty
6:40 i find confused allies so cute. They may not understand everything about the community, but they try their best
So when confused allies become knowledgeable allies they lose their appeal?
@@MrDrPorter no, ofc every ally is good. I just find it cute when allies get a bit confused (kinda the opposite of accidental allies)
@@Giuliana-w1f r/misguidedallies ?
@@IncineroarBestPokemon didn't knew that was a sub, thanks
@@DoomMan26 i think you're a bit confused. I'm talking about people who support the community, but are a bit confused about some parts of it; like in the video, showing a trans flag to a cis lesbian coming out
Reminds me of that one time my coworkers told me i was using the "wrong" bathroom even tho none of them were even labeled...
18:57 its the Sapphic flag! basically just means non-men attracted to non-men, could be pan, bi, poly, omni, just someone who likes women and/or non-men
14:39 like that scene in Storks "you sound like a baby that learned how to talk" "I am a baby that learned how to talk" 😂
21:46 I felt the same way with romances in TV shows. Calling it forced and cliche. Then I found the girl x girl shows. Then I couldn't get enough.
Unfortunately, I'm not good at finding girl x girl shows that often. So each one is a treat.
Same, but with man × man.
30 years down the line and I finally know why...🐣
I made like 4 of those comics and it feels so weird to see someone reading them 😅
Which ones are yours?
Your comics are really good lad/lass/non-binary mass!
"non-binary mass*
Roses are red,
I put you in a maze.
I saw this sentence,
And I'm stealing your phrase!
@@SaboTheFish the one with the trans demon, the cooking with asexual one, the “coming out of the fridge” one and the flying gun one 😅
That's so cool!
15:16 gallium has a melting point of 85.58° F (29.76° C) so that would be solid while in a fridge and liquid when not.
How hot is your flat? o.O
There's another one as far as I know, can't remember the name but melts a few degrees lower... could be an alloid (or however is called/spelled in english) though... I saw it in a video of VSauce if memory serves me right...
I mistake the suffragette terf flag for the genderqueer flag a lot on social media. But glad to see some genderqueer representation!
The same happened to me. They look way too similar😅
I was so confused when I first saw it, I was like why would a genderqueer person say things like that?? The lovely people on reddit helped me out and explained that terfs use it now, such a shame.
That terf’s are appropriating the suffragette colors makes me very, very sad. I own that I don’t know as much about the suffragettes as I need to, but they’ve always been heroines in my eyes. As a female (baby enby, so I still kinda cling to birth sex for ease), I recognize the rights and liberties that I have because of their movement and I really desire to reclaim that from the terrible terfs.
Also, omg, has anyone ever seen some of the political cartoons and hate speech directed at the suffragettes in their time! 😱😭 It was so terrible in so many ways!! It just broke my heart! 💔
I'd actually be down for an LGBuckeT Hat lol-
i have one, it's rainbow but it is a pride thing
I made myself one with the non-binary colors using tie -dye
I know right, I was thinking “I know it’s just a bit… unless??”
don't forget about LGBTop hats
My dad went through one of the quickest character development arcs ever
90s: private elitist boys school- homophobic
< accidentally becomes best friends with gay man >
2000: best man at gay wedding (technically not legal, but like. Screw that)
God that NB bathroom thing is so painfully true. When I'm wearing a dress, but have a beard, I just hold it.
coconut oil is a liquid that becomes solid in the fridge!
I've had coconut oil and it was definitely solid (well, like soft butter texture) at room temperature - in the UK at least.
@@hannahk1306Yeah it depends a lot. I love in France, in summer it's mostly liquid, in winter it's solid. (And I never put it in the fridge)
Came down here to say this. Also, in principle it depends on how hot the liquid is when it goes into the fridge. In principle, anything can be a liquid.
@@hannahk1306 yeah it depends on where you live. Warmer climates usually always have liquid coconut oil at room temp where colder climates usually don’t :) I live in the Netherlands, our coconut oil has only recently been liquid in the summer (gotta love climate change)
@@trishapellis Anything can be a liquid, but not every liquid can be put into a fridge. Both Helium (boiling point -269°C) and tungsten (melting point 3400°C) can be liquid, but you’ll have trouble getting both in liquid form into the freezer and tungsten is going to destroy your freezer.
"You'll always be what you were born, *BALD*" this killed me omg
I actually had the opposite happen to me with the whole forgetting you changed your name thing. I changed my name, and almost immediately didn't realize people were talking to me if they were sayin my old name. In fact my manager forgot for a moment that I changed my name, and called me by the old name like 5 times before I realized they were talkin to me.
I changed my name but didn’t change it at school for a while. Doing the register was so awkward because I’d be really intentionally listening for my deadname (thankfully I’m at the start) and still almost miss it. *Every. Time.*
15:20 I mean, sometimes we've accidentally had milk turn solid after being put too far back into the fridge. So it's possible for stuff to freeze in the fridge.
Geez how cold is your fridge
The very back of fridge is really cold, cause that’s where the air gets pulled up from the freezer
I do not understand how or why a group of women would actively protest against another group of women! Women of all types, Black, Hispanic, and Trans need all the exact same support. And that's because we are ALL women!!!
Because unfortunately, some marginalized individuals would prefer to place themselves at the top of the system that oppresses them, rather than seeing the system itself as the problem. This is why so many TERFs uphold patriarchal values.
Because "trans women" AKA trans identified males are not women. Simple.
Don't believe me, go and read the mtf subreddit and other posts by "trans women" on social media. Ever heard a woman threaten someone with rape?
@@FrozEnbyWolf150 Nope. "Trans women" are not women. They are males.
@@saoirse2963 Neuroscience, psychology, and sociology demonstrate otherwise, and sex and gender are not the same thing regardless, so you're wrong every which way.
@@saoirse2963 Cry 'bout it pal
15:14 Coconut oil turns solid in the fridge and melts at a fairly low temperature. And it's tasty too.
I used to eat that with a spoon :D someone told me it would give me energy but it just um acts like a laxative in my system so I had to stop using it hehehe
A tasty laxative. That might actually have use @starscreamthecruel8026
Sorta related to the t-shirt thing. In primary school my sister was getting bullied by a boy and it got to the point where my mum had to have a meeting with the headteacher about it. And the headteacher, AN ADULT WOMAN, called a primary school boy a LADIES MAN.
I once saw a terf say “gender expression doesn’t exist” and I was like 🤨🤨🤨🤔🤔🤔🤔🫥🫥🫥🫥🫥
It’s official everyone. Everyone is agender now
Jammi: "Team.. Fort-"
Me: "Team Fortress 2!"
Jammi: "Fortnite"
Me: *shocked Pikachu*
Jammi: No! Not funny!
Also jammi 2 seconds later: laughing his ass off
The NB ball panicking when having to choose between left and right is me. It doesn't even really matter which toilet I use as long as there are stalls, but there's still some inexplicable panic.
One of my kids came out as trans, and my husband immediately made the transparent joke. 😂🤦🏻♀️
HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE 🏳️🌈🌈🏳️🌈🌈🏳️🌈
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 🌈
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ 🩷💜💙
Happy pride month
Happy pride month
Happy pride month everyone
Dinosaurs are not exactly extinct, but modern ones just don't have teeth - they have beaks...
Did you forget about reptiles?
@@haylene7521 all dinosaurs, including avian, are reptiles, but not all reptiles are dinosaurs. Lizards, tuataras, turtles and crocodiles are reptiles, but not dinosaurs, whereas birds are reptiles and dinosaurs.
@@spinosaurusmammalianfanboy2561 now you have me in doubt... isn't the term reptile no longer valid? Or it was just redefined? 🤔
@@spiker.ortmann It's no longer valid, but people claim it's synonim with Sauropsid despite that term being made instead of redefining Reptilia (I disagree with it, though, dinosaurs aren't reptiles in my opinion).
"Team fort- for- is that supposed to be fortnite?"
calm down, calm down, it's FINE, he didn't know, calm down, it's *FINE, CALM DOWN-*
The last one is supposed to be Team Fortress two btw
ANOTHER LGBALLT FINALLY I'VE BEEN FED
I love the signs on the toilets at my kids school....they basicly say "Everybody Poo sometimes".
And yeah only gender neutral toilets.
HOW MANY OF OUR DADS ARE BI/QUEER IN GENERAL AND HAVE NO IDEA 😭😭😭😭😭😭
my dads always like "yeah im straight but i would kiss castiel" (cas is played by misha collins on supernatural (yes the 18 year old show thats still trending twice a week)) and im just like???? boy??? that is some of the most bi sht ive ever heard???????? you sound like tiny me trying to figure out if im trans??????? hergh?????
Idk. Probably a lot more than they think.
My dad is not one of them though, he's very much straight.
Nah mate, your dad sounds like _Dean_
Omg the thing where straight people see two little kids of opposite genders looking at each other and saying omg they’re dating is so real. When I was literally 2 I played with some kid at daycare and told my parents about it and they were like ‘oMg Do YoU lIkE hIm ArE yOu GoNnA gEt MaRrIeD’ but now as a teen I’m too young to know if I’m aroace or not ughhh
"I care 🏁🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️" I got this from a friend I'm not even trans... (I don't know why I'm letting people know)
For what its worth every time i see a terf using those colours i go out of my way to congratulate them on their open transness and how beautiful it is that they are nonbinary.
LGBallT is one of the cutest subReddits ever! Also,it hits right in the FEELZ
ALSO HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 🌈
The corporate Starbucks in Seattle has a full gender neutral bathroom…each stall has a normal door vs a bathroom stall door (so no gaps) with an actual door lock (not one of the flimsy slide locks) I give them an A++ solves all the problems.
Slime (as well with things like gelatin and similar) are non-Newtonian fluids (an in-between state between solid and liquid).
nonbinary state of matter
usually yeah
it can also be a mix of stuff in different states or even a very thick liquid or very soft solid which are rarely considered slime but it can be really close, metallic sodium is really really soft, too bad you can touch it with your hand
@@zea_64 REAL
I don’t think that’s right? I thought no Newtonian meant like oobleck where when you squished It really hard it became solid, but when you opened your hand, it would drip out of your hand
Butter is a solid in the fridge and will melt on a hot day. If you live in a warmer country than Britain, then that's one solid that will melt when you take it out of the fridge.
There's at least 2 metals that melt around 20 degrees Celsius so where I live would melt when you take out of the fridge 10 months a year...
Gallium and Mercury! Mercury was (and maybe is?) used in thermometers (and I'm sure most know this but Mercury is very toxic). Gallium is perfectly safe (don't eat it tho)
7:22 I had a bit of a similar interaction with my mother except I was coming out as aromantic. She said I'd grow out of it when I'd meet the one. And I told her "It's not how attraction works, if you'd meet the one but she's a girl would you feel attracted to her. Would it make you grow out of it" and she said "Yes of course I'd be attracted to her. Everyone likes everyone I chose to be with men, you'll choose that too"
She came her way around this eventually. But still didn't come out as far as I know. Also she technically wasn't wrong because I'm romance neutral and male-leaning bisexual lol. So I can choose to be with men.
There’s a bathroom at a Greek restaurant in Virginia that’s gender-neutral. It just says, “whatever… just wash your hands.”
Anyway, as an out bisexual for over two years, happy pride month to all who are out, all who are not ready to come out yet, and all who are questioning their identity. Just know that you are loved.
hehe watch your hands or wash your hands? :D
@@starscreamthecruel8026 my mistake
@@kbeara03 Freudian slip?
When naysayers say you can't do something, turn around and just say ''watch me'
"It's a good thing your life doesn't depends on my success" is a good answer too, unless their lives effectively depend on your success, of course, but that only applies to lifeguards, EMTs, pilots and the likes when the naysayers are under their responsibility... 😂
I really wish there were more LGBTQIA+ emoticons than just the rainbow flag and the trans flag.
I mean there is 👩❤️💋👩👨❤️💋👨
@@WooffzTheCoon I was referring to more LGBTQIA+ flags but fair enough, you got me there 😆
"Such a snowflake, they're playing together, they're obviously made for each other"
Plot Twist: They're both aroace
I, honestly, hoped, we'd get a close-up of the children discussing what they were, amongst themselves.
Chocolate. Chocolate can conceivably melt at room temperature and putting it in the fridge will freeze it.
My grandmother rather casually eating dinner at our home. "I'd rather date girls when i was younger, in fact my friend is pretty and funny. If I was a Lesbian..." and proceeded to talk like she could be bi. I never did say anything. If she really is I rather she find out herself. But we did tell her some people are Bi but end up not acting on it. it didn't klick for her. and we just hope she's just so open minded she can put herself in that situation. good dinner convo tho
edit: I hope its just her sympathizing cuz I know how i feel not realizing im a trans man for so long. It makes me sad knowing i missed so much and spent so long hating myself. its not the same thing. but i dont wish anyone to feel like they missed out like i do
Not all of us who figure ourselves out later feel like we missed out. I realized I'm bi in my late 40s, because I just preferred men. No need to feel bad about it. We're each on our own path.
@@missnaomi613 ofc. I just didn't want it to be misunderstood what I meant. We're an open family. If she truly was I think she'd talk about it! I hope so anyway
I still don't understand why single person bathrooms have to be gendered at all? It seems dumb to stand and wait to use the toilet when there's a completely empty one 5 feet away.
10:35 my cousin has a baby photo where dude was wearing “chicks love me “ not even a month out of the whomb
The Ryker thing made me laugh and reminded me of a time when I met up the first time with some internet friends. They knew me as "Glenn Griffin" but my name, my preferred name, is Kay.
They were calling out to me by the name "Glenn" and I didn't even hear them till they said my name.
But that's a different situation cause I've never had someone calling me by my screen name irl
Happy pride everyone 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
I love how you had to disclaim that it’s just comics with balls 😂
Don't know if it's been said elsewhere but the pink white pink with a flower in the middle is the sapphic flag.
21:04 OMG that is me. I am sex neutral ace and my period is rarely on time, I suspect I might have some fertility issues, a few years ago I was told that my overies were underdeveloped, I don't mind though 😝
Alas for dinosaur dentistry... the only remaining dinosaurs (birds) don't have teeth! 🤣🤣
The last one was so me!!! "Ah, I am a girl, it's not like it's not normal to want to play a male role in every rpg you join (IN KINDERGARDEN) hahaha"
...I am in fact trans masc XDD
The one about public toilets describes my situation from last night...I think, I actually mentioned to my friend that I'd rather pee in the woods 😅
I feel bad about not bringing myself to simply go into the men's bathroom, when the event was literally a pride celebration night.
I think that that could have been the best first time for the men's...but I just couldn't bring myself to do it, I was too nervous.
(My friend couldn't come along because she is a girl)
First attempt, the place was too crowded and I was scared to go, the other time two people were hanging out in front of the men's door and even at the third try, with best conditions, I was too scared...well, after almost 6 hours, it was too urgent and I went to the girl's toilet.
Some day I am going to make it...some day
15:15 Gallium would be a good analogy, as it's a solid metal below around 30 C, but can literally melt in your hand.
WOOOOO HAPPY PRIDE MONTH MY LGBALLT'S
If you put milk reallyyyyyy far in the back and have your fridge temp too low it will freeze.
18:58 the ball is sapphic, the question mark is the questioning flag, and the other one is the genderflux flag
19:00 that is the Sapphic flag! I don't quite have the definition down, but it's something along the lines of female-oriented attraction
The ally mum and the lesbian one was so cute!
7:35 i have been scrolling r/bisexualmen and lot of older men coming out as bi. like maybe they had gay experiences in college or never had the chance, but stick to women for dating. due to pressure and then after divorce or with their partners support started exploring their bisexuality/gay side again.
Gallium or Mercury, liquid at room temp, solid if chilled slightly.
Doesn't mercury freeze at around dry ice temperatures though?
he melting point of mercury is about -38C. Little bit more than "slightly chilled" there.
Okay but where can I get the bucket hat?
Please don't use me as a cooking pan.
19:00 The pink flag is the sapphic love flag. ima guess the question mark one is questioning, dunno about the one on the right tho
11:43
Omg I'm the creator of the comic!
It's the first time I saw one of my comic here on yt I'm so happy:D
Great video as always, dude!!😎 I love LGBALLT!! Happy Pride Month!🌈🏳🌈🏳⚧
18:45 For those who are curious, the mom is the sapphic flag, which sapphic is an umbrella term for a woman or femme-aligned person who loves women or femme-aligned people. People who identify as this may or may not be attracted to other genders. While this label isn’t exclusive, it is used to unify women-aligned people or women who love other women.
The trans egg one reminded me of a sad story I heard online, where a trans man’s mother was a Christian fundamentalist, and she was so not accepting that she genuinely believed that her child was a demon possessing the mutilated corpse of her dead daughter.
15:15 Yes Jamie, I thought that was weird too. It should be the freezer/ice box.
Just talking to period's are like: Hi, thanks for reminding me I'm not pregnant. I wasn't sure what with being a virgin and an asexual lesbian 😑
^^
Trans non-binary ace boy with probably endometriosis here (+disabled). SAME. I have pills that stop them but the pain came back out of nowhere since a few months, and i'm like "dude, why the F do you remember how to fonction, you're the most useless organ of my whole broken body wtf leave me alone ??"
As a virgin ace trans guy, I used to still think "WHAT IF I'M PREGNANT" when my periods were late...
To the people who want to talk about their toddler as if they're destined to marry their friend's toddler, I want to ask "so I didn't realize you were from a culture that practices arranged marriages." It will probably make them stutter a bit.
This but switch up arranged marriages with child marriages
@@thatkid-ot1vr most people who talk like this are talking about their kids getting married as adults, and many are joking, so no I would not go that far to suggest to people that their attitude or jokes are inappropriate, as it would just piss them off, not make them rethink what they've said.
I had my nephew’s sippy cup on the top shelf of my fridge and it froze 😅
I’m SUPER glad I grew out of my homophobic phase as a kid I never really walked around saying “DaHm ThOsE gAyS” but if I saw say a person in drag I would be rude. I remember painfully that when I saw people bullying a “boy” for wairing a dress I joined in... she is a girl, I hate younger me for doing that I see her around now, she is happy and expressing herself. I’m old enough to realise my hate was miss directed because now I’m non-binary and excepted by my family ❤
Love is love
We really gotta phase love is love out. I know it's supposed to mean like lgbtq marriage and stuff. But pedos starting using it to justify themselves and it's just. Over
jello becomes a wiggly solid in the fridge and if its hot enough melts out of the fridge
I'm stupid. In fact, I am so stupid, that when he said Bucket Hats I thought of ACTUAL METAL BUCKETS put on like helmets.
Well, maybe I'm not stupid, i'm just italian and therefore didn't think of that because english is not my first language, but anyway...
Speaking of bathrooms, I’ve learned that my passing is contingent on how inseam my hair. I’m 5 years on T so if I had short hair nobody would bat an eye, but since I have long hair I get challenged, but ONLY if my hair is open. Bun or half bun or wearing a hat is no issue whatsoever.
Funniest one was being at a power metal concert in costume, standing with my back to the door and hearing some dude ask „uh is this the men’s?“ Metal. Concert. Lmao
I've had simmilair expirences growing up (I'm MTF) since I have a fairly androgynous appearance
I always thought it was funny like my brother and christ I'm literally standing at a urinal, what woman's restroom have you seen with urinals? Ofc this is the men's restroom cx
@@P_D-px6iv had another one of those experiences just at pride last Sunday. Standing in front of the men's room, door open literally looking at dudes doing their thing (letting the door close would have held up the line too much) and a guy behind me goes "Sorry this is the men's". I just turned and stared for a second because I was like "yes I can see that?"
I really want to know what goes through people's minds. I feel like Pride is extra bad for some reason. Can the community do better please?
21:02 stress can delay one's period. Specifically, abnormal levels of stress for you as an individual
I made the transparent joke before about being invisible, nobody laughed
D:
19:02 The pink and white flag is the sapphic flag, the rainbow with a "?" symbol is the questioning flag and the other idk
Not this video going up on the same day I’m planning to come out to my parents as a lesbian! 😅
So excited to see you on tour 🥰
Good luck! Tell us how it went if you want! And love your name! ^^
It went well!! Aww thank you 🥰🥰
@@HermioneDisapprovesOfJKR Happy for you! :)
18:59 The flag you didn't know, the one with the pink and white, and the little flower in the middle: that's the sapphic flag.
"i didnt know the balls have legs!" lmao ~ 14:17
10:50 The weird thing (at least in the ace community) is that more often then not when you hear about people who acknowledged their sexuaity/lack thereof in their late 30's+ the response is that they should have found out by then, as if you aren't constantly bombarded until then about how you are too young to know.